How to Use Anal Toys Safely

What Are Anal Toys?

Anal toys are sex toys that are explicitly indented for anal play. These have unique features that make them suitable for anal play, and these are a tapered shape, a flared base, and a smooth surface. They can come in different types, including butt plugs, dildos, vibrators, beads, and more. Silicone is a popular material choice for anal toys because it is soft, body-safe, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. Rubber and plastic are other commonly used materials, but they may contain harmful chemicals. Metal and glass anal toys are sturdy and easy to clean but can be heavy and need to be handled with care.

How to Use Anal Toys?

Now to the good part – we explain how to use anal toys. Please note that we’ll keep things more general, as we have detailed guides on how to use a specific sex toy, which you can find in our blog:

• Choose body-safe materials – we recommend you only use anal toys made from body-safe materials like silicone, stainless steel, and glass and avoid low-quality materials like jelly or rubber.
• Clean the toy and yourself – before you use any sex toy, make sure it is clean, so wash it with warm water and soap. Don’t forget your body, and thoroughly clean the anus. You can do an anal douche to rinse the rectum, but for some people, a simple shower with warm water and soap is enough.
• Use lube – the anus is not self-lubricating, so you need a lot of lube to make things glide easily. We recommend you use a quality water-based lube with your silicone toys, and you can use silicone lube with your metal and glass anal toys.
• Start with a small size toy – always start with a small anal toy like an anal training kit that is designed and optimized for beginners who are starting with anal play. It will help your body adjust to having something up the anus, and you can gradually work to get a larger size toy.
• Take your time – never shove the anal toy inside, but take your time and slowly insert it, giving your body enough time to get used to the sensations, relax, and enjoy the sensations. Listen to your body, and don’t push yourself beyond your comfort level. If there is pain, stop immediately.
• Communicate with your partner – if you engage in anal play with a partner, make sure you are open and communicate with them. Tell them how things feel and use safe words and signals that will indicate something is uncomfortable.

Anal Toy Safety Tips

Here are the key tips you need to know when using anal toys. Please heed these, as we want you to be safe and enjoy the experience and not cause any pain or discomfort:

• Choose toys with flared bases – always make sure the anal toy you choose has a sufficiently flared base that will prevent over-insertion of the toy and will provide a handle for easy handling and easy retrieval.
• Don’t share anal toys – we can’t stress this enough, as it is such an important point. Never share your sex toys with another person. If you decide to share them with a partner, make sure you do a deep clean and use a condom over the toy to prevent contamination with harmful bacteria. It is also essential to not use anal toys for vaginal play, and if you do this, use a condom over the toy.

Types of Anal Toys

Let’s now talk about the types of anal toys you can find in our sex toy shop, as each of these provides a unique experience and can suit different people:

Anal Beads

The anal beads are tiny, graduated balls strung together that are intended to be inserted into the anus and be removed slowly to provide heightened sensations. There are different ways you can use anal beads, as these provide fantastic and highly pleasurable sensations.

• Pros: Anal beads provide a unique and pleasurable sensation as you insert or remove each bead, leading to heightened arousal and orgasm. You can use these by yourself or with a partner and experience unmatched pleasure.
• Cons: Anal beads can be challenging to use solo, especially if you choose larger size anal beads. Some people find these too intense or uncomfortable.

Pro Tip: Choose anal beads with gradually sized balls that make insertion and removal easier. Experiment with different speeds of insertion to find what feels best for you, and make sure you use plenty of lube and go slow to reduce discomfort.

Butt Plugs

The butt plugs are conical-shaped objects that are designed to be inserted and stay in the anus, providing a sense of fullness, pressure, and stretching of the anus. These come in varying sizes and have flared bases to prevent over-insertion, and you can learn more about how to use a butt plug in our guide.

• Pros: Anal plugs provide a satisfying feeling just by inserting them into the anus, and these don’t require any movement to stimulate you. You can wear these for prolonged periods, and experience increased sensitivity and pleasure while you engage in other sexual exploits.
• Cons: Some people may find anal plugs uncomfortable or too intense, especially if they are new to anal play. Additionally, they can be challenging to insert or remove and may require some practice or patience.

Pro Tip: Beginners in anal play should try small butt plugs that are very comfortable; look for toys with tapered tips and flared bases, and if you need extra sensations, look for a butt plug that vibrates.

Anal Dildos

These are dildos that are specifically designed to be inserted into the anus. While you can use a regular dildo as an anal dildo, please note that the anal dildos are thinner and smoother and have wide bases for safe use.

• Pros: Anal dildos provide a more intense sense of fullness and can penetrate deeper into the anus, which some users prefer. You can use them solo or with a partner and enjoy intense sensations and pleasure.
• Cons: You may find anal dildos challenging to insert, especially if you get a curved or a longer model. Some people also find these too intense to use.

Pro Tip: Choose an anal dildo made from a body-safe material with a shape and size that works for you. A smooth, curved dildo may be great for targeted prostate stimulation.

Prostate Massagers

These are anal sex toys that are designed to hit the prostate. Prostate massagers come in different shapes and sizes, and you can choose from various models that provide varying sensations. We have a complete guide on how to use a prostate massager, so make sure you check it out.

• Pros: Prostate massagers are a safe way to stimulate the prostate, and they provide intense pleasure and come with significant health benefits. These are also very effective in helping with erectile dysfunction and intensifying orgasm intensity.
• Cons: Prostate massagers are not for everyone and are not for people with prostate issues and hemorrhoids. Some people may not enjoy these and find them uncomfortable.

Pro Tip: Start with a small, beginner-friendly prostate massager and work to larger or more advanced models. Experiment with different angles, pressure, and vibration settings to find what feels best. Relax and take your time, as prostate stimulation can require patience and practice to achieve maximum pleasure.

Rimming Toys

Rimming toys are anal toys that provide stimulation on the outer rim of the anus. While you can do this with a tongue or fingers, using a specific toy is more comfortable and safer. These use rotating beads to provide the rimming sensations.

• Pros: Rimming toys are a safer alternative to manual or oral rimming, as it decreases the risk of infection and injury.
• Cons: Rimming is not for everyone, as some find it uncomfortable. If done incorrectly, it can be a health risk.

Pro Tip: Start with a small, beginner-friendly rimming toy and work up to larger or more advanced models if desired.

Anal Vibrators

We consider all the vibrating anal toys as anal vibrators, and here we include vibrating butt plugs, vibrating prostate massagers, vibrating anal beads, and similar toys. We have a complete guide on how to choose vibrating anal plugs, and we love these because they provide a more intense pleasure.

• Pros: Vibrating anal toys come in different shapes and sizes, so choose a model that best suits your needs and preferences. The vibration intensifies the sensations experienced during anal play, and these lead to more intense orgasms.
• Cons: Some vibrating anal toys are somewhat loud, which can be a turn-off or can be uncomfortable to use when you don’t live alone. Some of these can be challenging to clean.

Pro Tip: Vibrating toys are more intense than non-vibrating toys, so use plenty of water-based lubricants to reduce friction and increase comfort.

Anal Hooks

The anal hooks are very effective tools that BDSM practitioners commonly use, and these are useful for stimulation and targeted sensations. These are also an effective punishment tool that is a common practice in BDSM pays.

• Pros: The anal hooks are great for controlling the movement of the sub and add another level of power play and dominance. You can use these in various ways and scenarios, and these are a versatile addition to any BDSM toy collection.
• Cons: The improper use or insertion of an anal hook can result in injury, particularly to the rectal lining or internal organs, so always handle these with care.

Pro Tip: Experienced BDSM and anal players need to be open with their partners about using anal hooks. Clearly share and communicate the boundaries and use plenty of lube to reduce friction and increase comfort.

Final Words

Preparing correctly for anal play can reduce the risk of injury, infection, or discomfort and lead to a more enjoyable and satisfying experience. Don’t rush the process, listen to your body, and always prioritize safety and communication. Check out our blog and browse our sex toy store, where we have a complete offer of anal toys, including butt plugs, prostate toys, and anal training kits, as well as a massive selection of vibrators, dildos, male toys, BDSM tools, etc.