We made it easy for you to find the best realistic strap-ons that you can use and have a very pleasurable playtime. The realistic strap-ons are favored for their seductive, lifelike look and feel and for the immersive experience they provide. We tested the choices from our store, and here we bring you a list of the best realistic strap-ons that you can buy now and experience strap-on play with anatomically correct toys. Plus, we’ll cover the key things to note about strap-ons, so you’ll want to stick to the end.
Quick Overview of Our Top Picks
- Best Overall: King Cock Strap-On Harness with 8 Inch Dildo
- Best Value: Sportsheets Strap On Hollow Dildo
- Best for Beginners: King Cock Beginner’s Silicone Body Dock Kit
- Best Vibrating Strap-On Set: Strap U 10X Groove Harness Set
- Best Body-Dock Model: King Cock Ultimate Vibrating Silicone Body Dock Kit
- Best Ejaculating Strap-On: 7.5 Inch Hollow Squirting Strap On Dildo with Balls
- Best Vac-U-Lock Model: Vac-U-Lock Realistic Strap On Dildo Harness
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- King Cock Ultimate Vibrating Body Dock Kit — $159.99 (List Price $292.99)
- Strap U 10X Groove Harness Set — $152.99 (List Price $203.99)
- Vac-U-Lock Ultraskyn Cock with Ultra Harness — $112.99 (List Price $150.99)
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Deep Dive: Our Top Picks King Cock Strap-On Harness with 8 Inch DildoBest Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe added the King Cock Strap-On Harness with 8 Inch Dildo as our top choice for a realistic strap-on, as this model is close to perfect. The strap-on dildo that comes in the set is very lifelike, with textured veins and a pronounced head, and it comes in three realistic skin color shades that add to the realism. You will find the included strap-on harness to be well-made and suitable for different users. We found it effortless to put on and adjust. It is a thong-like model made from vegan leather that adjusts around the waist with D-ring buckles. The dildo stays in place with O-rings, and you can remove it and use it as is; you can ride it hands-free using the suction cup base. It also allows you to use another dildo with the harness - talk about a versatile choice. The dildo is made from ULTRASKYN, a body-safe blend of PVC and TPE, so you should only use water-based lubes with it. Who It's ForThe King Cock Strap-On Harness with 8 Inch Dildo is a top choice for a realistic strap-on, as this model looks and feels lifelike and comes with a well-made, reliable harness. What Customers Are Saying - The best third wheel ever It’s become a third wheel and I don’t mean that in a bad way at all! - Genesis - Great for every gender I know this is probably marketed more to women, but I want to say it’s great for guys too. I have used other dildos before but they were all smaller than this. I’m working my way up and this is a very nice change. - Andrew Reasons to Buy✓ Realistic strap-on dildo ✓ Adjustable, comfortable harness ✓ O-ring harness compatible with different dildos ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ The dildo is not from silicone
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Sportsheets Strap On Hollow DildoBest Value Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe added the Sportsheets Strap On Hollow Dildo as this is a model with great value. It is a hollow dildo that is made from PVC and is firm and comfortable. You can use it for pegging, for girl-on-girl action, or by men who have ED issues. The model comes with a cozy, 4-way adjustable harness with an open-rear design that allows more access and visual appeal. You will find it easy to use as the lifelike dildo attaches to the harness with O-rings, which enables you to swap the strap-on dildos. The hollow strap-on is also suitable to use with a vibrating bullet inside, transforming this into a vibrating model that you can use for pegging. Who It's ForThe Sportsheets Strap On Hollow Dildo is a good choice for many, as this dildo is hollow, and you and your partner can use it in different ways. What Customers Are Saying - Can’t recommend highly enough. Amazing for girl on girl action. Very comfortable straps and harness, gentle on the skin. We take turns wearing it and it fits us really well even though we are different sizes and our body shapes are really different too. Love this! We have become loyal customers of this company and own and enjoy plenty of their products. Can’t recommend highly enough. - Cece - Helps with ED I found this helps if you have ED and can’t sustain an erection. It does take some getting used to though. - Corey Reasons to Buy✓ Reasonable price-to-quality ratio ✓ Hollow strap-on dildo ✓ Comfortable adjustable harness ✓ Versatile use Reasons to Avoid✗ The dildo is a little firm
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King Cock Beginner's Silicone Body Dock KitBest for Beginners Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe added the King Cock Beginner’s Silicone Body Dock Kit to our list, as any beginners in strap-on play will find this model to be close to perfect. The harness is adjustable and easy to put on, and instead of the standard O-ring attachment, this model features the Kink Cock’s patented Push & Play harness system. To use it, you only need to push the suction cup of the dildo to the body dock, and you’re all set. The back is form-fitted, helps to evenly distribute the pressure, and allows for more natural use. We agree that it may feel weird at first, but you’ll soon get in the groove of using it as the movements become intuitive. The King Cock Beginner’s Silicone Body Dock Kit comes with a silicone dildo with dual-density construction – a firm inner core and a soft, comfortable layer on top that comes with a highly lifelike design. Plus, the entire thing is waterproof and effortless to use, adjust, and clean. Who It's ForThe King Cock Beginner’s Silicone Body Dock Kit is an excellent choice for beginners and gentle players who want a simple-to-use strap-on. What Customers Are Saying - Love it We love everything about this kit – the body dock harness is comfortable and the 6-inch silicone cock is much better than we expected. - Lin - Great pairing The body dock kit and the 6-inch dildo are the perfect pairing and just what we’ve been missing from our sex games. - Anonymous Reasons to Buy✓ Push-and-play body dock ✓ Angled suction cup ✓ Silicone dildo ✓ Comfortable harness Reasons to Avoid✗ The dildo may be small for some
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Strap U 10X Groove Harness SetBest Vibrating Strap-On Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strap U 10X Groove Harness Set for this list because the model is very well-made and comes with several appealing features. Let’s start with the strap-on dildo – it is made from body-safe silicone and has a lifelike finish, complete with a pair of balls and a suction cup base. But you will also love that the dildo is vibrating and has vibrations and rotation features that you get to control via the wireless remote. It is USB rechargeable for ease of use and convenience, as it is also waterproof. The included harness is comfortable and adjustable. It has a wide waistband that attaches to elastic straps, allowing you to adjust it to your waist size. The dildo attaches to the harness with O-rings, so you can use the dildo hands-free or use the harness with another toy. Who It's ForThe Strap U 10X Groove Harness Set is for all the strap-on users who are after a reliable, versatile, realistic strap-on model that is made from body-safe materials and comes with a comfortable harness What Customers Are Saying - Money well spent I bought this as a gift and before it arrived, I was concerned that it was going to be too small for my wife. She found that it was perfect and got her off in 3 minutes the first time she used it. We are thoroughly pleased with the product. It is also quick in recharging. I bought one first, and then I bought another. - Ivan - Oh la la My wife loves this thing! I mean we both love It. We like to swap our roles and it improves our sex life. - Jude Reasons to Buy✓ Vibrating dong with wireless remote ✓ Realistic shape and size ✓ Adjustable, comfortable harness ✓ Body-safe silicone dildo Reasons to Avoid✗ Somewhat expensive
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King Cock Ultimate Vibrating Silicone Body Dock KitBest Body Dock Strap-On Model Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the King Cock Ultimate Vibrating Silicone Body Dock Kit for our list as this model is very exciting to use and comes with plenty of appealing features. For starters, the harness is adjustable and comfortable to wear for prolonged times. It features the Push & Play harness system that is angled to better fit the body and allow more natural movements. Next, we need to commend the dildo that comes in the set. It is a dual-density model made from body-safe silicone molded to be very realistic in look and feel. The dildo vibrates with 3 speeds and 7 patterns that you get to control via a wireless remote. Then we need to also tell you that the King Cock Ultimate Vibrating Silicone Body Dock Kit comes with the Crown Jewels – the weighted swinging silicone balls that you slip over the dildo. These also vibrate and contribute to the realistic experience. Who It's ForThe King Cock Ultimate Vibrating Silicone Body Dock Kit is for intermediate and experienced strap-on users who want something extra with their strap-on. What Customers Are Saying - Impressive kit We love the body dock kit – considering we wanted to buy each product separately. The kit is reasonably priced, and the dildo and vibrating balls add to the fun! - Sonya - Great price The price for the ultimate kit is unbeatable. Plus, the silicone dildo is so nice to use, and my man loves it. - Viv Reasons to Buy✓ Realistic vibrating silicone dildo ✓ Crown Jewels vibrating silicone balls ✓ Wireless remote and USB recharging ✓ Adjustable harness with body dock Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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7.5 Inch Hollow Squirting Strap On Dildo with BallsBest Ejaculating Strap-On Our Rating: 4.7/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the 7.5 Inch Hollow Squirting Strap On Dildo with Balls for our list because this model looks and feels lifelike and also comes with a fantastic ejaculating feature. The dildo is made from PVC and is firm and shaped like an actual, natural penis. The ejaculating feature is built-in, as you only need to squeeze the shaft and dip the tip in the liquid, allowing the dildo to suck up the liquid. When you want to engage in ejaculating, you only need to squeeze the shaft and enjoy. The dildo is attached to the harness that is elastic and fits waists from 28” to 52”. The design of the harness is open-rear, which provides visual stimulation and easy access to the wearer’s butt. The entire 7.5 Inch Hollow Squirting Strap On Dildo with Balls is waterproof, easy to use, and easy to clean, and because the dildo is made from PVC, you can use it with a water-based or even a silicone-based or hybrid lube. Who It's ForThe 7.5 Inch Hollow Squirting Strap On Dildo with Balls is a good choice for intermediate and experienced users who want to add a realistic ejaculating feature to their realistic strap-on. What Customers Are Saying - We love it! It squirts and fits over my “tool” snugly and firmly, and I can fuck my boyfriend with a larger dick. - Mase - Nice enough Not my first Pipedream product, so I knew what I was getting. The squirt function is fun; it just takes time to get used to it. - Al Reasons to Buy✓ Very realistic shape and size ✓ Ejaculating feature ✓ Elastic harness ✓ Waterproof and easy to clean Reasons to Avoid✗ The dildo is not silicone
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Why Trust Our Reviews?
HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use.
Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you.
When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight.
Key Things about Realistic Strap-Ons
Please check out our complete guides on how to choose a strap-on and how to use a strap-on, where we cover a lot of essential aspects that will help you become more adept at using and giving pleasure with a strap-on. While you are on our blog, you can check out our detailed guides on choosing and using different sex toys. So, here are the basics to note when shopping for a realistic strap-on:
- Realistic dildo size & material – we recommend you look for a realistic strap-on dildo that you can safely manage. Never go and choose a size that is too big for you; instead, look for a model with a manageable size that will bring pleasure. Also, look for models made from body-safe materials like silicone, but you can also find well-made models from PVC and TPE. Please note that you should only use water-based lubes with your realistic strap-ons.
- Harness Size – next, look for a realistic strap-on that comes with an adjustable harness that you can fine-tune to your body size. Always ensure that the harness will fit you well because a snug fit ensures a better user experience.
- Extra features – under extra features, we list things like an ejaculating dildo, vibrating dildo, strap-on model with a body dock, waterproof use, and similar features.
Final Words
The list above shares the models we consider to be the best realistic strap-ons from our shop. We try to be inclusive in our selection, but if you want to explore more options, we refer you to our sex toy store. There you will find a fantastic selection of strap-on toys, dildos, vibrators, anal toys, male toys, BDSM tools, sexy lingerie, and so much more.
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