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Best Sex Slings for Better Positioning During Sex

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3 Best Sex Slings for Better Positioning During Sex

by Kate Miller on Jan 28 2026
Finding the best sex sling can feel intimidating if you have never used one before and are not sure what to expect. This category is best for couples who want help with positioning and support, especially if certain positions feel tiring or hard to maintain. These products solve the problem of comfort, stability, and holding positions longer without strain. I selected these picks by focusing on how easy they are to set up, how adjustable they are, how sturdy they feel in real use, and how approachable they are for beginners who want something practical rather than complicated.
The 5 Best Bondage Kits to Start With

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The 5 Best Bondage Kits to Start With

by Kate Miller on Jan 28 2026
Finding the best bondage kit can feel intimidating if you are new and not sure what is actually useful versus what just looks complicated. This category is best for couples or individuals who are curious about trying something structured and playful, but still want to keep things simple and manageable. Bondage kits solve the problem of not knowing where to start by putting several matching items into one set. I selected these picks by focusing on how easy they are to understand, how complete each kit feels, how practical they are for beginners, and how each one fits a different need, whether that is overall quality, value, budget, travel use, or material preference.
Best Spreader Bars for Couples Trying Light BDSM

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3 Best Spreader Bars for Couples Trying Light BDSM

by Kate Miller on Jan 27 2026
If you are curious about light bondage and want a simple way to explore new positions and restraint play, a spreader bar is one of the easiest places to start. This guide to the best BDSM spreader bars is for beginners who want something straightforward, well made, and easy to use without complicated setups or advanced techniques. I selected these picks by looking at how easy they are to use, how comfortable they are, how versatile they feel in real use, and how good their overall build quality is. I focused on models that feel approachable, reliable, and practical for first time users as well as those who want something simple but effective.
5 Best Beginner BDSM Masks and Hoods (Comfortable & Easy to Use)

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5 Best Beginner BDSM Masks and Hoods (Comfortable & Easy to Use)

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
Trying masks and hoods is a simple way to explore power play, roleplay, and light sensory deprivation without needing complicated gear or experience. A good mask or hood can help you focus on the moment, add a sense of mystery, or gently change the dynamic between partners in a very approachable way. I put this guide together after going through customer feedback, product descriptions, and hands on impressions of the most popular beginner friendly options in our store. I focused on comfort, ease of use, and designs that feel fun rather than intimidating. If you are curious but not sure where to start, these picks are meant to make your first experience feel simple, safe, and enjoyable.
Best Spanking Paddles for Gentle to Intense Play

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4 Best Spanking Paddles for Gentle to Intense Play

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you are curious about spanking but do not know where to start, you are not alone. I found that spanking can add a completely new layer of excitement to play, but using just your hand does not always give you the same control or variety of sensations. That is where spanking paddles come in. They make it easier to explore anything from gentle teasing to more intense impact in a controlled and fun way. This guide is for beginners and curious couples who want to experiment without going overboard. I picked these paddles based on how they feel in use, how easy they are to handle, how well they are made, and how versatile they are. All of these are models I would feel comfortable recommending to someone who is just starting out.
Best BDSM Collars That Look Sexy and Feel Comfortable

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4 Best BDSM Collars That Look Sexy and Feel Comfortable

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
Getting into light BDSM or playful power exchange can feel exciting and a little intimidating at the same time. I remember how confusing it was to pick my first collar, because there are so many styles and materials out there. This guide to the Best BDSM Collars is for beginners and curious couples who want something that feels safe, comfortable, and easy to use without overthinking it. All of the picks below come from models we tested in our store and focused on comfort, build quality, and ease of use. I chose them based on how they actually felt to wear, how practical they were in real play, and whether they made sense as a first step into collars rather than something overly complicated or extreme.
Best BDSM Whips for Gentle to Intense Impact Play

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3 Best BDSM Whips for Gentle to Intense Impact Play

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you are curious about impact play but do not want to jump straight into anything complicated, a BDSM whip can be an interesting place to start. This guide to the best BDSM whips is made for beginners who want to explore new sensations in a controlled, intentional way, without feeling overwhelmed by choice or by overly advanced gear. I tested and reviewed the whips in this list by focusing on materials, build quality, ease of use, and how manageable they feel in real hands. The goal here is not to find the most extreme tools, but to highlight options that are well made, reliable, and suitable for different comfort levels and budgets.
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3 Best BDSM Pinwheels for Teasing and Sensory Play

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you want to add light teasing and new sensations to your play, BDSM pinwheels are a simple and easy tool to start with. This guide to the best BDSM pinwheels is especially for beginners who are curious about sensation play but want something straightforward and not intimidating. Pinwheels are designed to create light, prickly sensations on the skin and can be used for slow teasing and exploration. I selected these picks by testing different models from the store and focusing on build quality, ease of handling, and how suitable they feel for someone new. I also looked at overall design, materials, and price to make sure each option feels practical, approachable, and easy to start with.
Best BDSM Harnesses for Women: Top Picks for Every Style

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4 Best BDSM Harnesses for Women: Top Picks for Every Style

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you are curious about adding a harness to your wardrobe, this guide to the best BDSM harnesses for women is made with beginners in mind. A good harness helps highlight certain parts of the body and creates a bold, confident look without needing complicated gear or experience. I picked these options after trying different styles and focusing on comfort, ease of wearing, and overall design. I also looked at materials, adjustability, and how practical each piece feels for everyday use or special occasions. The goal was to keep the list simple and approachable while still covering different styles and budgets.
Best BDSM Ticklers for Teasing and Sensation Play

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5 Best BDSM Ticklers for Teasing and Sensation Play

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you are curious about teasing and sensation play but do not want to jump into anything intense, BDSM ticklers are a great place to start. This guide to the best BDSM ticklers is made for beginners and gentle players who want to explore light teasing, anticipation, and skin stimulation in a simple and non intimidating way. I tested and reviewed the ticklers in this list by focusing on build quality, ease of use, comfort, and how versatile they feel in real use. The goal was to find options that are easy to handle, fun to use, and suitable for people who are just starting out or who prefer lighter sensations.
Best BDSM Chain Restraints for Beginners

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3 Best BDSM Chain Restraints for Beginners

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
Bondage chains are a great way to explore restraint play if you want something that feels different from ropes or straps. I found that chains add a strong visual element and feel more solid and secure when used with padded cuffs and collars. This guide is for beginners and curious couples who want to explore bondage in a simple, controlled way without jumping into anything too complicated. I tested and reviewed the most popular chain sets in our store and focused on comfort, build quality, ease of use, and overall practicality. These picks were selected based on how easy they are to use, how comfortable they feel on the body, and how versatile they are for different positions and setups.
Best BDSM Crops

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4 Best BDSM Crops for Teasing and Light Impact Play

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you are curious about impact play and want something that is easy to use and not overly complicated, BDSM crops are a great place to start. They are lightweight, simple to handle, and give you a lot of control over how light or firm the sensation is. This makes them suitable both for people who are just starting out and for those who already have some experience. I tested several crops from our store to find the best BDSM crops for beginners and mixed experience couples. I focused on build quality, ease of use, design, and how versatile each one feels in real use. This list includes the models that stood out the most during testing and that felt reliable, practical, and fun to use.
6 Best Sex Benches to Explore New Positions Comfortably

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6 Best Sex Benches to Explore New Positions Comfortably

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you have ever been curious about trying new positions or adding more structure and support to your bedroom play, a sex bench can make a big difference. The best sex benches are especially helpful for couples who want more comfort, better angles, and more stability without needing to be overly flexible or athletic. This guide is for beginners and curious couples who want something more supportive and practical than just pillows. I tested and reviewed the models in this list based on comfort, design, build quality, features, and overall usability. Each pick here stood out for being well made, functional, and suitable for real world use.
How to Self-Bondage: The Ultimate Guide

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How to Self-Bondage: The Ultimate Guide

by Kate Miller on Jan 09 2026
Self-Bondage is the practice of applying self-restraints in a sensual and sexual scenario. It can be an enjoyable sexual play that enables you to indulge in your wildest desires of self-restraint without needing a partner. But because self-bondage is done without the presence of a partner, the person who chooses to engage in it needs to exercise increased caution when entering and exiting a scene. Many practitioners find it appealing because of the extra challenges and risks it brings. As a result, they frequently come up with complicated self-bondage schemes and release mechanisms, both in real life and in erotic fiction. It's a practice that calls for well-mastered techniques because the more restrained someone is, the more they will need a reliable release mechanism. Why do people like solo bondage? To escape from reality Self-bondage can provide bondage practitioners with a profoundly pleasurable and trance-like experience throughout the session because it is so different from and separated from everyday life. You can define new degrees of pleasure using this power over your body and mind to create a temporary escape from reality. Some people appreciate the sense of ultimate self-command from being a sub. For some, the thrill of being able to satisfy themselves without resorting to another person is a source of pride, confidence, and a strong sense of connection with one's self. For its erotic effects Self-bondage is a tool that may be used to experience everything from pleasure to pain. Ropes, for example, can be used to caress the body, especially the more delicate places, when tied or untied. You can use rope frayed ends for tickling and stroking or create a makeshift whip made of one or more rope strands. Bonding in the breast or genital region can increase sensitivity to pleasant and unpleasant stimuli by constricting the skin. Additionally, it tends to show the object of your attention in a very prominent and practical way. Direct stimulation of the clitoris, perineum, and anus can result from placing various bondage gear. Stimulation can happen with just pressure or with movement. Multiple toys can be gently twisted, pulled, or tapped to let you deliver your input. You'll soon discover which specific gear you enjoy using the most. To indulge in role-playing and fetishism The fetishistic attraction of the selected constraint method is the source of much pleasure for many practitioners, for instance, chastity belts, body bags, or strait jackets. It is also a crucial part of role-playing. After all, many games would be lacking in their primary appeal if not for some restriction. Of course, using suitable constraints can help to fuel the imagination. To boost enjoyment Evidence suggests that engaging in BDSM practices, such as self-bondage, induces a state of consciousness known as subspace. Submissives are said to be in a floating, high state throughout and after the play. Additionally, applying restraints could make someone feel sensory-deprived, contributing to their excitement and their remaining senses' perception, which could heighten their level of enjoyment. Sensual self-bondage vs. strict self-bondage Self-bondage poses a particular dilemma. On the one hand, you desire to be restrained to a satisfactory extent, which means you will be unable to escape. On the other hand, you will eventually need to escape, so you need to plan how you will do it. Considering the level of helplessness, you want to indulge in and the level of easiness to getting out of your restraints, self-bondage typically falls into one of two groups: Sensual self-bondage This self-bondage requires the capacity to break free of restrictions anytime and without delay. Sensual self-bondage includes a psychological high rather than actual physical restraint. Those who like sensual self-bondage may use ties they are confident in their ability to remove, or they may have the keys or tools necessary to remove the restraints close at hand. Sensual self-bondage allows one to feel restrained without facing additional challenges. Strict self-bondage The second and typically more dangerous type of self-bondage is strict self-bondage. This type lacks an available means to escape and has a self-activating release mechanism after a certain amount of time has passed. This form of self-bondage induces a greater sensation of helplessness in the practitioners. It's mainly used to fulfill fetishes such as humiliation, punishment, or slave play, depending on the practitioner's personal preferences. Because it is much more elaborate and intricate to escape, this form of self-bondage is for those who appreciate the risky nature of self-bondage and are up for a challenge. Is it safe? Self-bondage is as safe as you make it, and making it safe demands a lot of planning, research, and preparation. As with any activity, you should begin slowly, take small steps, experiment, and ensure you are comfortable before continuing. Make sure your release works, your breathing is not obstructed, and you always have someone to call in case of an emergency. Emergency backup An alternate approach is sometimes recommended because it finds a middle ground and strikes a balance between strictness and safety. The technique uses a backup release mechanism that is quickly accessible but has associated costs or penalties. Some practitioners use these release mechanisms when significant harm, injury, or severe damage is imminent since their activation will result in an unfavorable consequence. Paint tin: A spare key is concealed within a paint or ink bucket so that retrieving it will cause the contents to spill, resulting in significant damage to the floor, carpet, or other items. However, in an emergency, such as a fire, practitioners use this release mechanism for a speedy release. Unpleasant drink: The key is stored in a container with an unpleasant drink and should only be released after the container's contents have been consumed. The container's design should prevent the contents from spilling. It is intended to make the beverage so repulsive, like urine, that it will only be used as a last resort. Rescue: The first option is to have a friend or a family member visit at a specific time after the bondage session is planned to end to ensure your safety. The person may or may not be aware of the bondage session. Another option is to place a phone in a location accessible throughout the bondage so that a friend or the emergency services can be reached quickly if the intended release mechanisms have failed. How to self bondage Based on your preferences, there are a lot of different positions you may choose from for your self-bondage session: Rope harness A rope harness can be perfected in various ways, and its beauty lies in the fact that it can be worn concealed for a hybrid of self-bondage and exhibitionism. How to do it: Start by using a piece of long, fine nylon rope. It can be tied over your stomach, breasts, and beneath them. Loop it around your neck, passing it over your groin and down your stomach before hanging it back over your shoulders. How to escape: Untie or cut the rope. Our top picks for bondage ropes ===COLLECTION=== Crotch rope This method is perfect for those who feel constrained in the crotch area. Both a long piece of rope and a set of handcuffs are required. How to do it: Place the rope across your hips and through your legs. If you want to feel the rope between your legs better, you can double it up. Make sure the handcuffs are tightly fastened around your bottom, and wrap the rope over the chain in the back. You'll feel the ropes' sensation increase as you move your hands more. You can remain in the handcuffs for however long you like after locking yourself inside. How to escape: Unlock the handcuffs and untie the rope. Chair tie A chair tie is so easy to do that you probably already know how. You can stay in a variety of positions, and it only depends on what you prefer. As a personal preference, I like to use ankle cuffs to secure my legs to the chair's back legs and wrist cuffs or, if I'm feeling very bold, a trusty ice lock to tie my hands behind the chair. Given that you are sitting up straight and are tied to a fixed object that moves around a lot, you should: Ensure the chair is sturdy enough to hold your weight and won't tip over if you tug on it. If you wish to avoid falling face-first onto the carpet, don't rock or shift the chair from its original position. If you're a beginner, instead of behind your back, tie your hands to each leg independently. Strap a vibrating toy to your genitalia or the chair. Ideas on how to make the session better: If you release yourself within 15 minutes, you can try out nipple clamps. To further limit movement, tie Bondage Tape across your chest and thighs. But make sure you have safety scissors nearby. Spread-eagle The simplest version of the spread-eagle position is performed horizontally on the bed. In this position, your hands and legs are spread out and usually tied in the shape of an X. Still, if you have the necessary gear, you may perform it while sitting or standing up. Unlike the Hogtie or Chair tie, which gives you some movement to free yourself, you will find that there is absolutely no chance you will get out of the spread-eagle if the release mechanism doesn't work, so you need to think of backup options. Fortunately, if you do it correctly, there's not much risk involved, and you may take advantage of this compromising position. How to do it: Put your ankles in a spread position and fasten them to the end of the bed frame. Using rope, utilize a single-column knot that won't tighten and impede blood flow. Start forming the X shape by tying one hand to the opposite end of the bed frame with the wrist cuffs or rope in a single-column braid (look it up). Bind the other wrist. Since this is your escape plan, the best option is to use a wrist cuff that you can unlock and latch or a timed lock like an ice lock. When tying it, ensure that you can use some wiggle room. How to escape: Let go of the trigger hooks on the wrist cuffs, then let go of the other hand and 2 feet. If you're using rope, keep a pair of safety scissors close by and linked to the bed so you can quickly release yourself in an emergency. If you employ a timed release technique, wait until the timer's end before releasing your legs in the same manner. Hogtie The main things to think about before entering the Hogtie are whether there is a chance that the restraints could cut off your blood supply and whether you have multiple backup plans for escaping. Hogties are still one of the most restricting ties you can use because they render you entirely defenseless and make it difficult to escape with your hands behind your back. Because of this, you should try it only after you have gained some self-bondage experience. **PRO-TIP: Avoid using handcuffs. How to do it: Tie your legs to the ankle cuffs and attach the carabiner Tie your hands into the cuffs behind your back. Make sure you can escape by opening the trigger hooks. Using the carabiner escaping device, attach the ankle cuffs to the wrist cuffs behind your back. Put your hands in the cuffs and tie them together behind your back. Make sure you can escape by opening the trigger hooks. Use the carabiner to attach the ankle cuffs to the wrist cuffs behind your back. How to escape: Release the trigger Hooks or the carabiner. Ideas on how to make the session better: To further limit movement, tie your legs together with Bondage Tape. Wear fetish attire, such as a catsuit but without the hood. Use an ice lock or magnet lock instead of the carabiner. Punish yourself if you leave the Hogtie early. Top 10 self-bondage gear Full body Rope - If you're interested in self-bondage, a rope can be a great place to start because it's adaptable and easily cut with scissors if you get stuck. A rope can bind certain body areas or act as a body harness. Many practitioners appreciate the erotic sensation that a rope can create as it brushes against its erogenous regions. Chains - For some people, the weight, sound, and feel of chains on the body is a huge turn-on. Chains are hardcore and fun but much harder to get out of. Have some bolt cutters handy if you do decide to use chains. Tape - Whether a duct or electrical tape, it restrains and pulls on your flesh, giving you that distinct sensation of pain and ecstasy, but getting out can be pretty challenging! Plastic Wrap - Even though plastic wrap is soft and flexible, it isn't easy to get out of, and because it doesn't breathe, it causes you to sweat. Avoid putting it close to your face and neck! Latex Bondage - Mummification bags, hoods, stockings, a catsuit to firmly enfold the body in its embrace, a corset to cinch in the waist, or latex gloves to smooth over the hands and make it more difficult to affect your release can all be employed to enhance the self-bondage experience. ===COLLECTION=== For Certain Body Parts Handcuffs - If you are starting, you should always begin by putting your hands in front of your body. You can set your hands behind your back after practicing removing the handcuffs from behind. Beginners should use handcuffs made of a softer material. Spreader Bar - While still keeping your hands free in case of an emergency, this is a fantastic way to learn more about satisfying yourself. With a spreader bar fastened to your shins or thighs, you'll have easy access to your genitalia. Anal hook - The ideal technique to improve your self-bondage experience if you enjoy anal play. Use lubricant, take it slow to get on the hook, and use caution to secure it to another surface. Make sure you test out the various scenarios beforehand because it can be challenging to remove the hook when you are hanging. Nipple clamps - Possibly not for everyone, but nipple clamps are excellent for those who enjoy a little discomfort and enjoyment. Give them a try because many discover that they intensify their bondage and bring more pleasure than agony. Refrain from using them for more than 15 minutes since they can restrict blood circulation. Blindfolds - A fantastic way to enhance your self-bonding by making you feel even more powerless. ===COLLECTION=== Safety precautions when practicing solo bondage Prepare your space and toys beforehand Your session will go more smoothly and safely if you select a room with decent lighting and a full-length mirror. Preparing your restraints to save energy when you need to untangle and release them would be best. If you're using rope, for example, take precise measures of each body part to determine how much rope to use. You can even color-code the measurements to help you distinguish each piece. **PRO-TIP: Have multiple backup releases in case one fails. Have your tools handy Having everything you need out in the open, right in front of you, is the safest and smartest way to begin your session. Safety scissors, or another backup plan for escaping your selected restraints, should always be available. **PRO-TIP: Make sure there's nothing in the room that could be dangerous to you. Test your methods Before going all in, you should practice how your restraints will feel. It would be best to avoid anything interrupting your breathing and stopping the blood flow. To avoid unpleasant surprises, check that the material you intend to use can't suddenly tighten up on you. Be aware of existing health conditions Your self-bondage session can be significantly affected by even the most minor ailments. You should postpone your session if you're experiencing discomforts, such as an upset stomach, a cold, or other nasal congestion that prevents you from breathing normally. Also, ensure your blood pressure is normal before trying self-bonding techniques. **PRO-TIP: Avoid consuming alcohol or drugs before your sessions because it will impair your judgment. Don't overestimate your abilities Having great reflexes can help in case of an accident, but you'll need to be physically fit enough to take care of yourself during your sessions. The first step is to ease into bondage by exploring its aspects. Self-bondage can be pretty demanding, so you shouldn't dive right into the deep end. Start small by wearing fetish clothing or using plugs and build up to stricter restraints. **PRO-TIP: Don't allow your limbs to go numb or stop blood circulation Hydrate The unpleasant sensation of feeling thirsty during your self-bondage session may ruin your mood and cause you not to enjoy your time. On the other hand, you also want to consume only enough water since it will make you want to use the toilet while having fun. Related Article: Best Bondage Kits Final thoughts Self-bondage is the voluntary restraint of yourself for sexual enjoyment. When done right, it can be satisfying, but if you don't know what you're doing, it can also be quite dangerous! Avoiding unwanted scenarios and safely carrying out your self-bondage session requires a lot of preparation, planning, and research. Since some bondage techniques are riskier than others, you need to consider your experience before choosing a method that is appropriate for you.
How to Measure for a Male Chastity Cage?

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How to Measure for a Male Chastity Cage?

by Kate Miller on Jan 09 2026
The male chastity cages are sex implements that people use to control the penis, restricting the ability for an erection and sexual pleasure. These are favored among BDSM practitioners, but it is also common for people in vanilla relationships to play with chastity cages. So, our experts prepared the following guide on how to measure for a male chastity cage that will fit you comfortably but still do its job of restricting an erection. What Is a Cock Cage? Male cock cages, also known as male chastity cages, are sex toys designed to enclose the penis to restrict an erection and any type of sexual activity. Cock cages are usually made from sturdy, inflexible materials like metal or plastic. Most models have an open or partially open design to allow for hygiene, urination, and ventilation. Cock cages are designed as cage-like structures surrounding the penis with or without involving the testicles. Shop Male Chastity Cages ===COLLECTION=== Why Wear a Cock Cage? Cock cages are popular in the BDSM community, but many couples try these for fun, especially people looking to explore the more profound implications of power exchange and D/s plays. Cock cages are predominantly used by Dommes on their male subs because they control the man’s orgasms but also put him in a state of sexual frustration and inability to get an erection. The cock cages are appealing to men because these allow them to relinquish control and give power over their sexual pleasure to their partner. Men who’ve worn a chastity cage say that it helps them distract from sexual thoughts and feelings and puts them in a state of anticipation of when they’ll be free from the cage to freely experience sexual pleasure. But cock cages are not only for BDSM practitioners, as they can enrich anyone’s sex life. The male chastity cages put the man in the spotlight and help create more intense orgasms because of the delayed build-up of arousal. How to Measure for a Cock Cage? When measuring for a cock cage, the best time is to measure when the penis is flaccid, like after an orgasm and a warm shower, when the penis is in the accurate, un-aroused size. The role of the cock cage is to prevent the man from getting an erection, and it should not be too tight to restrict blood flow. The cock cage is made from two main parts, and you need to measure both separately to get a correct fit: The ring that surrounds the testicles and penis The cage that is worn over the penis and attaches to the top ring Measuring for the Cock Ring Size The cock ring or the back ring is the first measurement you need to take when measuring for a cock cage, as this is the section that fastens the cock cage around your penis and scrotum. For this measurement, please note to be precise, as a too-loose ring will slip from the penis base, while a too-tight ring will restrict blood flow and won’t let you urinate properly. To measure this size, use a thick, long, non-elastic string and a sharpie with a fine tip, as well as a ruler or a tape measure. Place one end of the string on the top of the base of your penis and then wrap it around the testicles and back to the top. Make a loose knot and try to move the string around the penis and testicles to see if it is tight or loose. You can check the fit by placing your pinkie finger under the string, and it should barely fit without the string biting into your skin. Leave the string tied around the penis for about 20 minutes, and see how it fits, if the blood flow is normal, and if there is any discoloration to the penis. During this time, try to do your usual things and move around the house. Try to urinate while the string is still tied around your penis. Do this measurement at least twice more in a few days, preferably in the morning and evening, and if there are no problems, mark the place on the string, measure the length, and you have the size of the cock cage ring. Take the average of the measured circumferences and calculate the diameter by dividing the measured length by 3.14. We advise you to get a slightly bigger cock cage ring size if you are a beginner, just to be on the safe side, and after you gain enough experience, you can get a smaller ring. Measuring for the Cock Ring Length Measuring the length is more straightforward, as you only need to take a ruler and place it on the underside of the flaccid penis. Don’t press the ruler into the scrotum or stretch the penis, as this will give you the wrong measurements, but only measure from tip to base. This measurement is also best taken after an orgasm and a warm shower, as the penis is in its natural un-aroused state. Please note that men with uncircumcised penises may find it uncomfortable to pee with a cock cage on because the foreskin may cause pee to splash within the device. If you get a too-short cock cage, you risk the penis sticking out of the end hole and getting a feeling of your penis getting pushed back into the body. Make sure you measure your penis length several times to precisely determine the average length, and we advise you to deduct about ¼ inches from the measurement to ensure a better snugger fit. Measuring for the Penis Diameter The next dimension you need to measure is the diameter of the penis. Since you already have the measurement of the cock ring, it is not difficult to measure the diameter of the penis, as this determines the internal diameter of the cage. Take a piece of string and wrap it about halfway around the flaccid penis, around the thickest part, and mark the length of the string and measure it. Use this dimension when selecting a cock cage, and try to get a model that is as close in size to the measured dimensions as it will ensure a perfect fit. Measuring for the Ball Trap Size The ball-lock cock cages have a gap of varying sizes that is between the cage and back ring, which is called the ball trap gap, and you also need to determine this size, so you will know to look for a wider or a smaller gap. There is no measuring involved here, but you need to look at the way your testicles “hang” from your body. If the testicles hang low and have a lot of skin covering them, then it is better to look for a smaller gap that will hold the balls firmly in place. If your balls sit tight and high on your body, you can get a cock cage with a wider gap. We advise you to stay away from a too-narrow gap, as it may hurt in the long run. As a rule of thumb, you should get a cock cage with a 3/8-inch ball trap gap, as this is a sort of universal size. After measuring your penis for a chastity cage, you can move on, choosing a cock cage that you’ll be pleased with and one that will keep your cock snugly in place. Here are some tips that can help you select a cock cage: You want the ring to fit as closely as possible to the measurements you took For a snug fit, the cage should be between ¼ and ½ inches shorter than the measurement you took The cage diameter should be the same as or slightly less than the measurement you took You can get a smaller, more restrictive cock cage as long as you consider your health and safety. While the cock cage should restrict you from getting an erection, it should not be painful or cause discomfort. Please note that everyone is unique, and you should get a cock cage that is as close to your measurements as possible. Learn More With Our Anal Sex Toy Guides: How to Use a Cock Cage? How to Use a Stroker? How to Use A Prostate Massager? How to Properly Stretch Your Anus? How to Anal Douche? 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