The spreader bar is one of the most exciting tools you can use to make sex more engaging and pleasurable. It is designed in such a way to allow you to position your partner in certain positions and have them bound, open, and ready for you. You can use a spreader bar for many exciting positions and breaking from the routine. So, today, we bring you a list of the best BDSM spreader bars that you can find in our store; we tested so many of these, and here we present the models that caught our attention.
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- Best Overall: Swiveling Spreader Bar with Cuffs
- Best Adjustable Spreader Bar: Adjustable Spreader Bar with Cuffs
- Best Hand & Ankle Spreader Bar: Fetish Fantasy Series Spread ‘Em bar & Cuff Set
- Best Fixed Spreader Bar: Deluxe Rigid Spreader Bar
- Best Steel Spreader Bar: Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar
- Best Spreader Bar with Cuff Set: Saffron Spreader Bar & Cuff Set
Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Swiveling Spreader Bar with CuffsBest Overall Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Adjustable Spreader Bar with Cuffs as the top choice for a BDSM spreader bar because we love all the features of this model. The spreader bar is made from lightweight aluminum with a brushed finish. The aluminum bar is hollow and has extensions, allowing the bar to extend from 25 to 33 inches in length. The Adjustable Spreader Bar with Cuffs comes with four adjustable leather cuffs, allowing you to bind the ankles and wrists in different positions. The cuffs are lined with soft fleece and are firmly attached to the spreader bar. The cuffs at the end are also connected to pivot points, allowing the cuffs to rotate in almost every direction. There are no classic closures in place, as these close with metal loops through which you need to attach padlocks and keep your sub in the position you want it Who It's ForThe Adjustable Spreader Bar with Cuffs is for everyone, as both beginners and experienced users will find it comfortable, versatile, and pleasurable to play with. Reasons to Buy✓ Lightweight aluminum metal ✓ Fleece-lined leather cuffs ✓ Pivoting ends ✓ Adjustable length Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Adjustable Spreader Bar with CuffsBest Adjustable Spreader Bar Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe found the Adjustable Spreader Bar with Cuffs to be fun and exciting to use, which is why our team of experts insisted we include it in our list of the best BDSM spreader bars. The bar is made from three sections that allow it to expand from 18 to 25 inches in length. The sections are easy to assemble and stay in place with two security pins, but if you need to, you can easily disassemble them for storage, travel, and discretion. We also love that the Adjustable Spreader Bar with Cuffs comes with two leather cuffs at the ends that are attached to the bar with metal plates and pivot points. These are not lined, but they are adjustable and can be used to bind ankles or wrists. The cuffs don’t have the usual closure buckles, but have metal loops through which you can add locks and keep your partner bound and at your mercy.. Who It's ForThe Adjustable Spreader Bar with Cuffs is for everyone, as this model is adjustable in length and comes with heavy-duty leather cuffs. Reasons to Buy✓ Metal spreader bar ✓ Pivot cuffs ✓ Adjustable in length ✓ Easy assembly and breakdown Reasons to Avoid✗ Locks not included
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Fetish Fantasy Series Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff SetBest Hand & Ankle Spreader Bar Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWhen you see the Fetish Fantasy Series Spread ‘Em bar & Cuff Set, you will understand why we put it on our list of the best BDSM spreader bars. The set is exciting, as it comes with two metal spreader bars and a range of other accessories that will make your playtime more engaging and thrilling. The shorter spreader bar is 12 inches, while the longer one is 24 inches, and you can use the shorter one to bind their wrists and the longer one for the ankles. The set also comes with four adjustable neoprene cuffs that are adjustable and close with Velcro closures. Each cuff has a swivel clip that you can use to attach it to the O-rings that are on the spreader bars. Plus, the set comes with a neoprene strap with swivel clips at both ends that you can use to attach the two bars and keep your partner bound in the position you want them. Who It's ForThe Fetish Fantasy Series Spread ‘Em bar & Cuff Set is for everyone, but we still believe that experienced users will find this model more suitable for their needs. What Customers Are Saying - She stays in place A great set of cuffs & restraints to keep her in place and open for me! - David - Fucking fantastic We’ve been playing with stuff like this for years and this was an obvious purchase for us. - Jake Reasons to Buy✓ Two metal spreader bars ✓ Four adjustable cuffs ✓ Swivel-mounted cuffs ✓ Carry and storage case Reasons to Avoid✗ Little lining on the cuffs
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Deluxe Rigid Spreader BarBest Fixed Spreader Bar Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Deluxe Rigid Spreader Bar for our list because this spreader bar looks impressive. Not only does it look amazing, but it is also very sturdy and durable, as the bar itself is made from a 2.25” flat metal bar that is 16 inches long. The flat bar is encased in faux leather, softening the look and giving it a sexier, edgier appearance. Plus, four faux leather cuffs are stitched onto the bar itself, allowing you a lot of possibilities. The cuffs are lined for more cushioning and have metal roll buckles for closing. Plus, each roll buckle features a small metal loop where you can add padlocks if you want, to further restrain your partner and keep them in their place. We love that the cuffs adjust from 6 to 10 inches in length, making them suitable to bind wrists and ankles, but also making the Deluxe Rigid Spreader Bar unisex and appealing to many. Who It's ForThe Deluxe Rigid Spreader Bar is for everyone, as it is comfortable for beginners to use, while being strong and versatile to satisfy the needs of experienced users. Reasons to Buy✓ Heavy-duty steel bar ✓ Vegan leather-lined bar ✓ Four faux leather cuffs ✓ Roll buckles and locking points Reasons to Avoid✗ Not adjustable in length
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Adjustable Steel Spreader BarBest Steel Spreader Bar Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe added the Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar because we love a good steel BDSM implement. The bar is made from durable steel tubes that have a shiny silver finish. Two of the steel tubes have the same diameter and connect to a third tube that slides inside these, allowing you to extend the spreader bar to a length from 23 to 35 inches. The inside tube has holes that will enable you to fine-tune the length, and these lock with metal locking pins. The ends of the Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar have O-rings that are welded in place to which you can attach hand or ankle cuffs or another BDSM implement. We love that the Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar is durable and does not bend easily, regardless of how hard one tugs on it. However, we didn’t like that it does not come with hand or ankle cuffs. Who It's ForThe Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar is for more experienced BDSM enthusiasts who want to use a spreader bar that expands in length and keep their partner bound in curious ways. Reasons to Buy✓ Adjustable in length ✓ Durable steel construction ✓ Combines three steel tubes ✓ Two attachment points Reasons to Avoid✗ No cuffs included in the set
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Saffron Spreader Bar & Cuff SetBest Spreader Bar and Cuff Set Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe round up our selection for the best BDSM spreader bars with the Saffron Spreader Bar & Cuff Set. The set is fantastic in many ways, as it includes a solid metal bar that is 24.7 inches long and comes with four O-rings that are welded to the bar at equal distances. The O-rings have movable oval rings attached to them to which you can clip on the provided cuffs and use the bar to position your partner in the position you’d like to have your way with them. We love the Saffron Spreader Bar & Cuff Set because the cuffs that come in the set are made from comfortable faux leather and have thick PU padding inside, ensuring your sub’s skin will not get damaged even when they pull and tug on them. Plus, these have heavy-duty metal hardware, and you can adjust the cuffs in length on the wrists and ankles, and then attach them with the metal swivel clips to the multiple attachment points on the spreader bar. Who It's ForThe Saffron Spreader Bar & Cuff Set is fantastic, and we recommend it to both beginners and experienced users who want a well-made spreader bar that includes foam-lined, detachable cuffs. Reasons to Buy✓ Metal spreader bar ✓ Four faux leather cuffs ✓ Swivel clips on cuffs ✓ Metal D-rings Reasons to Avoid✗ Fixed bar, no length adjustment
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Key Things about Spreader Bars
We have prepared a complete guide on how to choose a BDSM spreader bar, which you can check out in our blog. There, you will also find a lot more educational content on choosing and using various sex toys, so for now, we’ll stick to the basics about spreader bars:
- Design – choose between spreader bars with fixed or adjustable features, or models that have firmly attached or detachable add-ons like hand and ankle cuffs.
- Accessories – we are talking about things like D-rings, loops, snap closures, Velcro straps, or even padlock loops that allow you different ways to restrict your partner.
- Intended use – here, we are talking about the option to restrain only the legs, or legs and arms of your partner. But there are also BDSM spreader bar models that allow you more creative use, like application in suspension play or using an extra bar for attaching a penetrative toy or the like.
The Bottom Line
Above, we’ve shared our selections for the best BDSM spreader bars. However, if you want to explore more options, we invite you to browse our HotCherry sex toy store. Here, you will find a highly versatile selection of BDSM and fetish clothing, BDSM toys & tools, sex furniture models, a massive selection of sex toys like dildos, vibrators, male sex toys, anal toys, and all essentials for better sex.
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