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5 Best Warming Lubes to Heat Things Up

by Kate Miller on Jan 08 2026
Warming lubes are perfect for anyone who wants to add a little extra sensation and excitement to intimate moments, whether solo or with a partner. I’ve always liked how they turn something familiar into a more playful, stimulating experience without changing anything else about your routine. This guide to the best warming lubes is for anyone who wants more sensation, more fun, and more comfort at the same time. I chose these picks based on features, brand reputation, and how each formula is designed to feel and perform. I focused on texture, warming effect, ease of use, and overall value to narrow it down to options that stand out.
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5 Best Massage Oils for Relaxing & Intimate Body Massage

by Kate Miller on Jan 06 2026
A sensual massage can completely change the mood between partners, and using the best massage oils makes that experience smoother, warmer, and far more intimate. This category is ideal for couples looking to enhance foreplay, slow things down, or simply enjoy skin-to-skin connection with better glide and comfort than bare hands alone. I tested and compared a wide range of massage oils and lotions based on how they felt on the skin, how long they stayed slick, how they absorbed, and how enjoyable they were during real massage sessions. These picks stood out for their formulations, ease of use, scent quality, and overall experience during sensual massage.
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4 Best Lubes for Pocket Pussies, Fleshlights & Masturbators

by Kate Miller on Jan 05 2026
If you use a male masturbator, pocket pussy, or Fleshlight, lube is not optional. Dry rubbing can be painful, and it also makes the experience feel rough and distracting instead of smooth and comfortable. A quality water-based lube fixes that fast by adding glide and making cleanup easier. This guide to the best lubes for pocket pussies focuses on water-based formulas that feel thick, easy to apply, and simple to wash off both skin and toys. I picked these based on hands-on testing, customer feedback, and how well each lube handled the real basics: comfort, slip, ease of cleaning, and overall value.
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10 Best Handjob Lubes: Make Everything Glide Easily

by Kate Miller on Dec 27 2025
Handjob lubes are best for anyone who wants smoother, more comfortable stimulation during solo play or partnered handjobs. The Best Handjob Lubes reduce friction, help hands glide effortlessly, and make touch feel more natural and enjoyable, especially during longer sessions where dryness can become an issue. To create this list, I tested a wide range of water-based, silicone-based, and specialty lubes during real use. I focused on how each formula felt in the hand, how long it lasted without reapplication, how easy it was to clean, and how consistently it performed. Only the products that delivered reliable glide and comfort made the final cut.
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5 Best Cum Lubes: Realistic Cum Lubes that Look and Feel Like Actual Cum

by Kate Miller on Dec 20 2025
Cum lube is for anyone who wants their lube to look as realistic as it feels. I like it for solo and partnered play where the visual adds to the fantasy, but I still want legit glide and a comfortable finish on skin and toys. To choose the best cum lube, I focused on how realistic it looks, how it spreads, how long it stays slick, whether it feels sticky, how easy it is to clean up, and how well it works with condoms and different toy materials.
7 Best Flavored & Edible Lubes

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7 Best Flavored & Edible Lubes

by Kate Miller on Nov 19 2025
Sex is fun, exciting, and pleasurable, especially when it involves incredible oral play. However, a way to enhance the oral and intensify the pleasure is to use flavored and edible lube. Yes, we are talking about using flavored lubricants that are specifically designed to replicate the flavor of your favorite dessert and enhance your overall enjoyment of oral play. You have many options when it comes to using flavored and edible lubes, and here we share our selection of the best flavored lubes you can find in our store. We’ll also share the essential facts you need to know about flavored and edible lubes that will put your mind at ease and will let you enjoy edible lubes as they are meant to be enjoyed. Quick Overview of Our Top Picks Best Overall: Sliquid Swirl Natural Intimate Lubricant Best Water-Based Flavored Lube: Kama Sutra Divine Nectars Kissable Lubricant Best Fruit-Flavored Lube: ID Frutopia Flavored Natural Lubricant Best Edible Massage Oil: Earthly Body Edible Massage Oil Gift Set Best Flavored Warming Lube: Melt Warming Lubricant Best Flavored Lube Gel: GoodHead Flavored Oral Delight Gel Best Vegan Flavored Lube: Natural Flavors Glide The Best Deals This Week* Earthly Body Edible Massage Oil Gift Set — $19.99 (List Price $24.99) Kama Sutra Divine Nectars Kissable Lubricant — $17.99 (List Price $23.99) GoodHead Flavored Oral Delight Gel — $17.99 (List Price $21.99) Melt Warming Lubricant — $13.99 (List Price $19.99) Sliquid Swirl Natural Intimate Lubricant — $14.99 (List Price $18.99) *Deals are selected by our commerce team Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Sliquid Swirl Natural Intimate Lubricant Best Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Flavor: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We put the Sliquid Swirl Natural Intimate Lubricant as the top choice for flavored lube, as this lube is incredible. It is a water-based formulation that is lightweight and comfortable on the skin, and it is suitable for people with sensitive skin. We loved testing the different flavors, as there are 8 flavors to choose from: cherry vanilla, blue raspberry, strawberry pomegranate, green apple, pink lemonade, pina colada, blackberry fig, and tangerine peach. We enjoyed the flavors, mainly because the formulation is lightly flavored with aspartame for a subtle sweet flavor and enhanced sexual pleasure. What Customers Are Saying - Favorite I have tried many many maaany lubes so far to see if anyone meets my expectations, but neither checked all the boxes as Sliquid did. My favorite part about this lube is that it is vegan, water-based, and completely cruelty free, which is the number one thing I am looking for in a lube. It also smells nice, the flavor isn't too strong, and I like how slippery and long-lasting it is. 10/10, all time fave! - Millie - Amazing This is the best lube I've ever used. It does what it is supposed to do, and does it well with grand fashion. It seems very high quality. Would buy again if we ever run out. - Drag Reasons to Buy ✓  Eight fruit flavors to choose from ✓  Lightweight, water-based formula ✓  Glycerin and paraben-free formulation ✓  Easy to clean Reasons to Avoid ✗  Sweetened with aspartame Sold out See It Now Kama Sutra Divine Nectars Kissable Lubricant Best Water-Based Flavored Lube Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Flavor: 4/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Kama Sutra Divine Nectars Kissable Lubricant as this is a very good example of a flavored water-based lube. The Divine Nectars lube has a gel-like consistency, and we found it to be quite thick and easy to apply where you need it. It provides proper lubricity as it is pretty slippery and suitable for oral play and when you play with non-insertable toys. The formulation is water-based and latex-friendly, and you can choose between strawberry dreams and vanilla crème flavors. We love the formulation because it is sugar-free, paraben-free, and gluten-free, and it is effortless to clean from the skin. What Customers Are Saying - Love it My boyfriend and I use it almost every time we have sex and it works perfectly. The taste and smell are there and they are divine, way better than other brands we've tried over the years. We totally love and recommend this product. - Polly - Great This lube is very good. I love the fact that it is non-sticky, it gives smooth lubrication that I personally can't live without. The materials it is made out of don't irritate my skin, and to be honest I won't ever use any other lube. The taste and smell are a bonus - Lina Reasons to Buy ✓  Water-based, thick formula ✓  Sugar, paraben, and gluten-free ✓  Mouthwatering flavors ✓  Colorless and non-sticky Reasons to Avoid ✗  The flavors evaporate quickly Sold out See It Now ID Frutopia Flavored Natural Lubricant Best Fruit-Flavored Lube Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Flavor: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the ID Frutopia Flavored Natural Lubricant to our list because this is one of the best naturally flavored edible lubes. The formulation is water-based and lightweight, and we really enjoyed the light fruit flavors. We believe you will also enjoy the flavors, as you get to choose between cherry, watermelon, mango passion, strawberry, banana, and raspberry. We also recommend it because it is sugar-free, naturally sweetened, and vegan. Because this is a water-based lube, you can use it with latex condoms and also use it with silicone toys. Still, we can’t recommend you use it for penetrative sex but to enhance oral play. What Customers Are Saying - Nice lube The best! Tasty, smells good, and doesn’t leave you feeling super sticky. - Everlee - Good short term This product is the expected job of a lubricant and feels very good. Unfortunately, I find the taste far too pronounced, leading to disgust quite quickly. I recommend it for those looking for an explosion of flavors, but not for prolonged oral use. - Alana Reasons to Buy ✓  Water-based formula ✓  Natural fruit flavors ✓  Sugar-free, vegan formulation ✓  Slippery and comfortable Reasons to Avoid ✗  It may be irritating for sensitive skin Sold out See It Now Earthly Body Edible Massage Oil Gift Set Best Edible Massage Oil Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 5/5Flavor: 4/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Earthly Body Edible Massage Oil Gift Set because this set contains impressive edible massage oils that we found pleasurable and sexy to try. The set includes three 2 oz bottles with different flavors, and you can select between two options: watermelon, strawberry, and vanilla, and banana, mango, and pineapple sets. The oils are a blend of hemp oil, soybean, coconut, apricot, jojoba, and avocado oils, and they have added Vitamin E, which nourishes the skin and enhances the sensual massage. Because of the all-natural oils, you can use the Earthly Body Edible Massage Oil Gift Set for massage, oral play, and even skin moisturizing oils. What Customers Are Saying - Perfect! I love the way these oils feel, and my wife loves the smells! We've used two so far, and are saving the other one for a special occasion. The oils feel silky smooth, and do not leave a sticky residue. They haven't stained my bedding, and the scent showers away. Will definitely buy again! - Juliette - Highly recommend I have sensitive skin and fibromyalgia and this oil is amazing! It feels so nice it's not over oily and it smells so good. It's very relaxing and leaves my skin feeling so soft! I highly recommend!! - Lilianna Reasons to Buy ✓  Three flavors per set ✓  A blend of natural oils ✓  Natural flavors ✓  Perfect for massage and oral play Reasons to Avoid ✗  Not recommended for penetrative sex Sold out See It Now Melt Warming Lubricant Best Flavored Warming Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Flavor: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Melt Warming Lubricant because this is a premium water-based edible lube formula that contains plant extracts that provide a warming sensation. We love the formulation, as it is lightweight and comfortable on the skin. The warming sensations are achieved by the natural Cinnamomum Zeylanicum bark extract and natural plant glycerin, and once you apply it to the skin, it instantly provides a warming sensation. The natural formula blends with the natural lubrication of the vagina, enhancing the intensity of the sensations. We also love it because it is compatible with latex condoms and silicone toys, and it is easy to wash from the skin and sheets. What Customers Are Saying - Back pain remedy Hubby gives me massages with this warming gel for my intense back pains. Works wonderfully. Bought three to make sure we don't run out in case they discontinue it. - Ada - Works great It works great but it does stain the sheets. Gets us warmed up and ready to go! - Arturo Reasons to Buy ✓  Premium, paraben-free formula ✓  Cinnamon bark extract for warming sensations ✓  Condoms and sex toys compatible ✓  Water-based formulation Reasons to Avoid ✗  It may be too intense for some Sold out See It Now GoodHead Flavored Oral Delight Gel Best Flavored Lube Gel Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Flavor: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the GoodHead Flavored Oral Delight Gel to our list, as we found this to be a very well-balanced lubricating gel. It is very thick and comfortable to use, and we found it perfect to use for enhanced oral play. We love flavors that are balanced and slightly sweet, and you can choose between green apple, watermelon, cotton candy, French vanilla, sweet strawberry, and mint. The ingredients are balanced, as it is a water-based formula that is paraben and sugar-free, vegan, non-sticky, and made in America. What Customers Are Saying - Awesome Awesome! I love it! It offers so much more than it costs and that is the best thing about this product. The bottle is a lot larger than expected. The taste and texture offer a great sexy time, it is yummy and such a turn on. Definitely recommend it. - Ava - Wow Wow! This product not only tastes exactly minty fresh, but it also gives that minty fresh feeling to my boyfriend as well, if you know what I mean ;) It is quite refreshing for him. It makes everything so much better and easier. 10/10 the best! - Mia Reasons to Buy ✓  Gel-like consistency ✓  Excellent for oral sex ✓  Non-sticky water-based formula ✓  Made in America Reasons to Avoid ✗  It may be too sweet for some Sold out See It Now Natural Flavors Glide Best Flavored Vegan Lube Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Flavor: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We round up our list of the best flavored lubes with the Natural Flavors Glide. The formula is water-based, lightweight, and entirely made from plant-based ingredients. The flavors are plant-derived, and you can select between the following flavors: chocolate mint, banana cream pie, salted caramel, naughty nectarines, wild cherries, cheeky apples, and fresh strawberries. The flavors are mild yet seductive, are excellent for enhancing oral play, and are safe to ingest, as the lube is sweetened with organic stevia, which makes it sweet and delicious. What Customers Are Saying - Very good Overall, a very good product. Not too thick, but nice and slippery. Only negatives were the fact that the lube gets kind of sticky after it dries. - Mat - Yum Wasn't sickly sweet and tasted so much like banana cream pie (my favorite dessert!). Have used it twice this week...such a nice way to "dive into things". - Maxwell Reasons to Buy ✓  All vegan ingredients ✓  Natural-like water-based lube ✓  Seven flavors to choose from ✓  Slick and moist feeling Reasons to Avoid ✗  Sticky as it dries Sold out See It Now Why Trust Our Reviews? HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use. Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you. When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight. All You Need to Know About Flavored & Edible Lubes You need to be careful when selecting any lube, especially when looking for a delicious flavored and edible lube. Please check out our guide on how to use sex lubes, and please browse our blog for more educational content on choosing and using different sex toys. So, here we list the main things to know about choosing flavored lubes: Base and ingredients – we recommend you always check the ingredients list of the lube you are considering buying; also, check the base to see whether it is a water-based, oil-based, or silicone-based lube. We recommend you stick to water-based flavored lubes as these contain ingredients that are safe for ingestion. We recommend you stay away from silicone edible lubes, as there is not very much reliable information on whether these are safe for ingestion. Long-lasting formula – look for lubes that state they have a long-lasting formula that will not dry out. If the lube starts to become thick, you can reactivate it with a dab of water or even some saliva. Also, we advise you to look for lubes that will not become sticky or leave uncomfortable residue as they dry. pH Balance – look for a lube that has pH levels that are balanced and are as close to the natural pH of the vagina. You can check the label of the product or the product description, where we try to list as many important details as possible. Extra properties – there are also flavored lubricants that have additional properties, such as cooling, warming, or tingling sensations, that you can use to enhance the overall experience.     The Bottom Line We added our selections for the best flavored and edible lubes that you can find in our sex toy store. An important note before we let you shop with ease is to carefully consider the ingredients of the flavored lube so as to not experience some adverse reactions. 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Can You Masturbate With Coconut Oil?

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Can You Masturbate With Coconut Oil?

by Kate Miller on Nov 18 2025
Many times, people will try anything related to sex, and that includes using various things that are not intended as sex toys and sex aids. And one of these things is coconut oil, which is (surprise, surprise!) a popular choice for masturbating. So, we decided to go in-depth, do the research, and outline whether or not coconut oil is an excellent choice to use for masturbation. Thus, here are our findings! What Is Coconut Oil? Coconut oil is a natural oil derived from coconuts and is used for its many health benefits for the body. The quality and usefulness of any oil depend on the production method, and the same goes for coconut oil. Cold-pressed virgin oil is the purest natural oil, while processed oils are not recommended, as they are refined, processed, and can contain some additives. Thus, it would be best to opt for cold-pressed coconut oil as it is an unrefined, fresh, and all-natural option for cooking and body and hair care. We are not talking about the usual uses of coconut oil, but we will discuss the use of coconut oil for masturbation. Coconut Oil on Sensitive Body Parts Many people love coconut oil and use it for various purposes: it can be applied on the skin as it has a pleasant, nourishing effect. However, putting coconut oil on your hair and face is a lot different than putting coconut oil on your private parts. That said, there is no reason why you should not use it for masturbation, as coconut oil is one of the best natural oils for this application. Still, there are some concerns when using it with a sex toy, and as a general rule, avoid using coconut oil with sex toys, except if you use glass or metal sex toys. But we have also compiled a list of the pros and cons of using coconut oil as lube when masturbating. Coconut Oil as Masturbating Lube: Pros There are many benefits of using coconut oil, as we said above. Still, when it comes to applying and rubbing against the smooth genitalia, it can be suitable for some people but not appropriate for others. Coconut oil is hard when cool, but when applied to the skin, it gently melts and gives an oily and slippery feel. Here are the main pros of using coconut as personal lube: Coconut oil is affordable and readily available It is suitable for most people Has a rich, pleasant smell of coconuts It does not dry out quickly, and you can apply it once per session It is water-resistant and not easily washable It is safe for males and females. Coconut Oil as Masturbating Lube: Cons Coconut oil can cause an allergy, but very few people are allergic to it. However, in the worst cases, you can get an angry rash, but they are easily treatable. If you don’t like the smell, you can’t avoid it or cover it up with another one. Coconut oil is hard to clean and can stain clothes and sheets. Coconut oil smells, and the smell is unavoidable; It reacts with some materials like silicone blends, latex, TPE, and other materials; Coconut oil does not combine with condoms, as it can damage and break them down; It can cause allergic reactions in rare cases; It is challenging to wash from skin and stains clothes and sheets. Is It Safe To Use Coconut Oil With a Partner? If you and your partner are not allergic to coconut oil and enjoy the smell of coconuts, you can use coconut oil as a personal lube when engaging in sexual play. Coconut oil is safe for penetrative sex and anal sex and is edible, so it is convenient for oral sex. You should be aware that you should avoid using coconut oil as a personal lube if you use condoms with your partner, as the oil can break down the condom. The oil will deteriorate the latex from the condom, and it could easily break. When using condoms and sex toys, it is better to use regular water-based lube. Shop Lubes for Sex Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More We hope we helped you with this question, and you can feel safer using coconut oil as a masturbation lube. If you have concerns about using coconut oil, you can browse our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of personal lubes and other exciting, sexy goodies for you. Learn More With Our Guides: How to Use Lube How to Use a Small Vibrator How to Use a Wand Vibrator How to Use a Tongue Vibrator How to Use a G-spot Vibrator How to Use a Finger Vibrator How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator How to Use a Bullet Vibrator How to Use a Vibrating Egg
What to Put In a Squirting Dildo

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What to Put In a Squirting Dildo?

by Kate Miller on Nov 04 2025
Want a way to emulate realistic sex as close to the real thing as possible while using a dildo? In that case, get a squirting dildo – also known as an ejaculating dildo; this sex toy is a dream come true for many. Its features are so very desirable, as they are designed to ejaculate just like the real thing. But what do they ejaculate? Well, in this post, we discuss all the best liquids you can put inside a squirting dildo; we focus on body-safe, realistic-looking liquids that are easy to clean. But we’ll also outline what liquids you should avoid, and we’ll share some tips on how to get a tremendous ejaculating dildo that you’ll be happy to use. Cum Lube What better liquid to use in an ejaculating dildo than cum lube? Yes, it is a real thing, and you will find that cum lube is specially designed to look, feel, and taste like natural semen. Cum lubes are also intended to be body-safe to use in the body or on the skin, and these provide a big finish in an authentic way. If you find some cum lubes thick, you can water them down with some water and use it like that. Plus, cum lubes are very easy to clean, as these are water-based concoctions that are affordable and readily available options. Shop Cum Lubes Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Water-Based Lube The next best thing to use in a squirting dildo is water-based lube. It is an excellent option as it is water-based, so it is non-irritating, and it pairs with all sex toy materials. You may have trouble with the consistency of some water-based lubes, so we recommend you thin these out with some water, mix well, and fill the reservoir of your squirting dildo. It can be an excellent option to use when you need some extra lubrication to make things glide more easily, and it is easy to clean from any surface or body part it lands on. Shop Water-Based Lubes Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Edible & Flavored Lube Edible and flavored lubes can be an excellent option to use in a squirting dildo, as most of these blends are water-based and have body-safe ingredients. Perfect for enhancing any type of oral play, you can use different flavored lubes for differently themed playtimes. We only have to note that you should read the list of ingredients for flavored lubes, as you won’t want to risk it with any possible allergens and ruin your playtime. Shop Edible and Flavored Lubes Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More DIY Mixes While we don’t recommend these, you can try using some DIY mixes as a substitute for cum lubes and still emulate the look and feel of semen and use these in your ejaculating dildo. We have to note that you should only use body-safe ingredients and never ejaculate these into your body, but use these to “cum” on the outside, on your skin. A simple mixture of water, cornstarch, and some water-based lube can be made to look like semen, but you should only use this for the convincing ejaculation on your breasts or somewhere on your skin, but never inside your body, as it poses a health risk. What NOT to Put In a Squirting Dildo When we are talking about potential risks, we need to outline what liquids are NOT safe to use with an ejaculating dildo: Dairy products – avoid milk, yogurt, or other type of dairy products in your ejaculating dildo, as these may stink up your toy or cause you to get an infection; Syrups & sauces – chocolate syrup, gravy, or any other type of sauce is not intended to go into your body and is not a good option to use with an ejaculating dildo; Oil-based lubes – oil-based lubes, massage, and other types of oils are not a viable substitute for cum lubes, and you should not put these into your squirting dildo; Lotions – any type of body lotion or cream, no matter how good it may smell and look, should not be used inside your body, and you should never put it in your ejaculating dildo; Alcohol – any type of alcohol is not good to use in an ejaculating dildo, as it may be a potential health risk and also cause the dildo material to deteriorate. How to Use a Squirting Dildo We have a complete guide on how to use a squirting dildo, and we also have other helpful content in our blog, which we urge you to check out. But here is a short reminder on how to do this: Warm up the liquid, either by placing the container in a warm water bath or a microwave for about half a minute. Fill up the squirting dildo’s liquid compartment, whether it is a syringe, a squeeze bulb, or an automated mechanism. Play with the dildo however you want, and when it is time, aim the dildo where you want the ejaculate to end up. Engage the squirting mechanism and enjoy the happy finish. Shop Squrting Dildos Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More The Bottom Line Playing with a squirting dildo can be very fun, especially when you know what liquids to use with it and how to make the most of it. Make sure you clean your squirting dildo thoroughly, and if you need some tips, we have a complete guide on cleaning a squirting dildo. Also, make sure you check out our sex toy store, where you’ll find an incredible selection of dildos, vibrators, anal toys, male toys, strap-on toys, BDSM tools, sexy lingerie, lubes, and so much more. 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Silicone Vs. Water-Based Lube: Which Is Better?

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Silicone Vs. Water-Based Lube: Which Is Better?

by Kate Miller on Aug 15 2025
Lubes are essential in any sex play, especially when using various sex toys that need the extra glide. But knowing the type of lube to use is crucial for safe, comfortable play, but also for your sexual health. So, here, our experts discuss which lube is better: water-based or silicone lubes. We bring you an overview of silicone and water-based lubes, outlining the pros and cons and which lube fits what situation. Silicone Lube Silicone lube is a personal lubricant made from a blend of silicone oils, more precisely, polydimethylsiloxane, known as dimethicone polymer. Silicone lube is thicker and more slippery than other lube types, and it has a transparent or whitish appearance, as well as a thick consistency. It is waterproof and does not dry out, which makes it suitable to use when having sex in water, like a shower, bathtub, or pool. Silicone lube also does not dry out, and you don’t need to reapply it as often as you would water-based lube. There are downsides to using silicone lube. Silicone is not compatible with silicone toys, as it can damage their surface. Silicone lubes are compatible with glass or metal sex toys and are safe for skin-on-skin contact. Also, silicone stains sheets and clothes and is not easy to wash away, so we recommend you use specialized sheets for sex. The silicone lube can also be difficult to wash from the skin and may leave an unpleasant residue. It is also tricky to clean from other surfaces like the floor. Shop Silicone Lubes Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Who Can Use Silicone Lube? We recommend silicone personal lubricant for people who want long-lasting lube with excellent lubricity that performs well during intense sexual activities. It is perfect for anal sex plays and when using metal dildos or glass butt plugs. We don’t recommend it for vaginal play, and it is not compatible with silicone toys. Water-Based Lube Water-based lube is, as the name says – lube that is based on water. It, however, has other ingredients in it, like thickeners, aloe vera extract, and even fragrances. Still, it is a very thin, runny, transparent liquid that is very similar in look and feel to the natural lubrication produced by the vagina. It works very well for people with sensitive skin and people who are prone to yeast infections, vaginosis, and UTIs, but we recommend you look for a fragrance-free option. The water-based lube is non-staining and is effortless to wash from skin, sheets, and other surfaces. Water-based lube is compatible with all sex toy materials and works excellently with silicone dildos and condoms. However, it gets absorbed in the skin, so you may need to reapply it several times during play. You also can’t use it when playing in the water, as it gets dissolved and becomes ineffective. Shop Water-based Lubes Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Who Can Use Water-Based Lube? We recommend water-based lube for people who want a thin, runny lube that looks like the body’s natural lubricant. It is very suitable for vaginal intercourse, and it pairs well with silicone dildos and vibrators and works great with condoms. Water-based or Silicone-based Lube: How to choose? When choosing between silicone and water-based lube, you must consider your preferences, needs, and sexual activities. If you want a long-lasting lube with increased lubricity and intense sensation, silicone lube may be a good choice. If you want a thin and runny lube similar to the natural wetness of the vagina, the water-based lube may be the best fit. However, if you want to use sex toys in your games, then you must consider lube and sex toy compatibility. The same goes for condoms, as silicone and oil lubricants will damage the condoms and potentially ruin your experience. If you have silicone toys, then the safe route is to use water-based lube, which does not interact with the silicone coating. On the other hand, silicone lube can damage silicone toys, so never combine these two. We hope we have answered the dilemma of which lube to use in what situation. If you are after long-lasting lubrication for skin-to-skin contact, then use silicone lube, and if you want to use toys or condoms, then we recommend you only use water-based lubes. Please check out our blog, where we have a long list of helpful guides, and browse our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of personal lubricants, as well as a variety of vibrators, dildos, male toys, anal toys, BDSM gear and so much more. FAQs What is lube used for? Personal lube is primarily used to reduce friction and increase comfort during sexual activities. You can use lube during masturbation, during penetrative vaginal or anal sex, and when using various sex toys. Can we use coconut oil as lube for sex? Coconut oil is a safe, natural option that you can use as lube, as it can help with vaginal dryness and reduce friction. Still, not all coconut oil is as safe as lube; we recommend you stay away from processed and bleached coconut oils. Instead, get unrefined oil, keep it in a small glass jar, and only use it for sex play. What household items can we use instead of lube? While we recommend you only use special lubes for sex, when you are in a bind, you can use olive oil, coconut oil, or aloe vera gel as lube. Still, you should not combine these with sex toys or condoms, as these are not compatible with many materials and can increase the risk of vaginal infection. Can we use baby oil as lube? Baby oil is made from mineral oils, and it can be safely used as a skin moisturizer; we do not recommend it as sex lube. The mineral oils in baby oil will break down condoms and significantly increase the risk of vaginal infection. Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How To Use Lube? 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Best Silicone-Based Lubes

by Kate Miller on Apr 10 2025
Lube is key for pleasurable sex, and it is a necessity when you play with sex toys. The main features of a quality personal lube are slipperiness and body-safe formulation; silicone lubes are at the top of the list, providing immense glide and long-lasting slipperiness that is perfect for many situations. But which silicone lube to get? We assessed the options, and we found the best silicone lubes you can find in our store. Also, below, you’ll learn all the other key things about how to make the most of silicone lubes. Quick Overview of Our Top Picks Best Overall: Fuck Water Silicone-Based Lubricant Best Value: Gun Oil Premium Silicone Lube Best Premium Lube: Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant Best Anal Play Silicone Lube: Pjur Back Door Anal Silicone Personal Lubricant Best Sensitive Skin Silicone Lube: Spunk Pure Silicone Lube Best Stimulating Silicone Lube: Sliquid Spark Silicone Stimulating Lubricant Best Silicone Lube for Women: Pjur Woman Concentrated Silicone Personal Lubricant Best Cooling Silicone Lube: Wicked Ultra Chill Cooling Sensation Silicone Based Lubricant The Best Deals This Week* Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant — $35.99 (List Price $44.99) Pjur Woman Concentrated Silicone Personal Lubricant — $31.99 (List Price $39.99) Ride Bodyworx Silicone Based Lubricant — $19.99 (List Price $26.99) Wicked Ultra Heat Warming Sensation Silicone Based Lubricant — $19.99 (List Price $29.99) Sliquid Silver Silicone Based Lube — $33.99 (List Price $45.99) *Deals are selected by our commerce team Deep Dive: Our Top Picks FuckWater Silicone-Based Lubricant Best Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulaton: 5/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Fuck Water Silicone-Based Lubricant as the top choice for silicone-based lubes, but the competition was very steep. It provides impressive lubricity that remains slick for much longer, as it won’t dry out. The formula contains Cyclopentasiloxane, dimethiconol, dimethicone, Vitamin E, and Aloe Vera extract. It means that you can easily use this lube when you want to play in the shower or the bathtub, as it remains slippery in water. We checked, and the Fuck Water Silicone-Based Lubricant is latex-friendly, and you can even use it with some silicone toys, but please do a spot-test on the bottom of the silicone toy just to be on the safe side. We must note that while the Fuck Water Silicone-Based Lubricant is highly lubricating and is perfect to combine with metal and glass sex toys, it can be challenging to clean from different surfaces. What Customers Are Saying - Amazing This truly is the most amazing lube I've ever used. I wasn' t a big fan of silicone based lubes, but this product really changed my mind for the better. You can just play and not ration with it. It is also very body-safe. I totally recommend it. - Valeria - Great Very velvety, lasts forever, I can go on for hours with just a few drops of this lube. I like that it also adds to my natural lubrication. It is an amazing product for a reasonable price. Get it for yourself and your partner. - Deborah Reasons to Buy ✓ Excellent lubricity ✓ Long-lasting formula ✓ Latex-friendly ✓ Fortified with Aloe Vera and Vitamin E Reasons to Avoid ✗ Challenging to clean Sold out See It Now Gun Oil Premium Silicone Lube Best Value Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulaton: 5/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Gun Oil Premium Silicone Lube as our best-value choice for silicone personal lube. The formulation of this lube is excellent, as it is hypoallergenic and provides long-term lubricity. Our experts found it to be pleasant on the skin, as it lubes up pretty well and is fortified with Vitamin E and Aloe Vera, which help skin health and minimize skin irritations. We like that the formula is ultra-concentrated, which helps with lasting lubricity and will not dry out. Even though it is called Gun Oil, the formulation does not contain any oil, which we have to emphasize is safe for a broad range of applications. The name is a nod to its founder, a Marine veteran who based it on military-issued CLP. Still, we feel we should remind you that you should avoid using it with silicone lubes, but it is perfectly safe to use with metal and glass sex toys. What Customers Are Saying - Love it I love this lube. I used to avoid silicone because it can't be used with some toys. But I use condoms on my toys now. Honestly, this is great for use both with a partner or a toy. - Kate - Does the job The only reason I am giving it four stars is that it tends to leak out of the bottle, so I have to be more careful during dispensing of the lube. - Joe Reasons to Buy ✓ Premium silicone formula ✓ Long-term lubricity ✓ Hypoallergenic formula ✓ Enhanced with Aloe Vera and Vit E Reasons to Avoid ✗ Difficult to clean from fabrics Sold out See It Now Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant - 3.4 oz Best Premium Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulaton: 5/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant because this is a premium silicone lube that is packed in a beautiful, discreet glass bottle with a pump action. The lube is formulated using only premium ingredients, and we tested it and were amazed by its properties. The specs state that the Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant is free from DEA, gluten, glycerin, paraben, PEG, propylene glycol, sorbitol, and sulfates. We tested it for lubricity and found it to be long-lasting and easy to use in different settings, as it is also waterproof. We like that one can use it for sensual massage and then use it with metal or glass sex toys. Please note that, like all other silicone lubes, it takes more effort to clean it from the skin and other surfaces. What Customers Are Saying - Love it I love how slippery and luxurious this lube is. The bottle looks elegant and the lube stays on for hours. A bit tough to wash off but I don’t mind that. - Melanie - Luxurious and effective A perfectly slippery lube for anal play! - Ginger Reasons to Buy ✓ Very concentrated formulation ✓ Latex, rubber, and PVC-friendly ✓ Beautiful glass bottle ✓ Waterproof and body-safe Reasons to Avoid ✗ It may be challenging to clean Sold out See It Now Pjur Back Door Anal Silicone Personal Lubricant Best Anal Play Silicone Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulaton: 5/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Pjur Back Door Anal Silicone Personal Lubricant because this product is excellent for daily use for men who prefer more intense anal penetration. We tested its properties, and we can confirm that it is a performance-enhancing lube. The formulation is hypoallergenic and is safe to use with condoms. We found it to be also very well lubricating, which is perfect for the intended anal play use, as it is made from medical-grade ingredients. The formula is also enhanced with jojoba, which has a relaxing effect, making this lube ideal for people who prefer intense sensations. It comes in two size bottles, one of 3.4 oz and the larger 8.5 oz bottle. Reasons to Buy ✓ Silicone-based formulation ✓ Enhanced with jojoba ✓ Intended for anal penetration ✓ Latex-safe and hypoallergenic Reasons to Avoid ✗ It requires more effort to clean Sold out See It Now Spunk Pure Silicone Lube Best Sensitive Skin Silicone Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulaton: 5/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Spunk Pure Silicone Lube for this list as it is made from pure silicone. The special blend is made from 100% silicone, containing only dimethicone, dimethiconol, cylopentasiloxane, cyclohexasiloxane, and nothing else. It makes this lube comfortable for the skin and compatible with sensitive skin. It does not contain any glycerin, parabens, propylene glycol, or other harmful ingredients, and it is virtually non-drying. As its label states, it will never spoil, but it has an infinite shelf life. We found it appealing because it provides excellent lubricity without becoming sticky or tacky. It is waterproof, and you can use it to play in the shower or bathtub. While the manufacturer states it is safe to use silicone toys, we recommend you do a spot test at the bottom of your silicone toy. It is also easier to wash it from the skin and sheets, but you will still have to put some effort into cleaning it as it may stain sheets. What Customers Are Saying - Love it We love it 0- stays slippery for hours without needing to reapply, so we don’t have to stop our fun to lube up again. - Chris - Excellent I love it! We use it with our glass toys and it stays on for a long time, letting the toys slide in and out nicely. Washing it is easy and quick from both the skin and the toy! - Natasha Reasons to Buy ✓ Pure silicone formulation ✓ Non-drying, non-sticky and non-tacky ✓ Infinite shelf life ✓ Skin softening effect Reasons to Avoid ✗ Needs thorough cleaning Sold out See It Now Sliquid Spark Silicone Stimulating Lubricant - 4.2 oz Best Stimulating Silicone Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulaton: 5/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Sliquid Spark Silicone Stimulating Lubricant for our list, as this lube is a blend of pure silicone ingredients and menthol. The silicone base gives it perfect, long-term lubricity and waterproof use, and the menthol provides a stimulating sensation. Initially, the lube will give a cooling effect when you apply it to the skin, and once you engage in friction, it will heat up and enhance the sensations. We also love it because it is free from DEA, glycol, glycerin, parabens, sulfates, sorbitol, and propylene glycol. The Sliquid Spark Silicone Stimulating Lubricant states that it is compatible with latex, rubber, and PVC, but you should not combine it with silicone toys. We need to note that this lube is 100% waterproof, which makes it long-lasting but also challenging to clean. It may stain some fabrics, so you need to be more diligent when you clean it. What Customers Are Saying - great a great lube that stays on for hours with only a few drops. I love how we can enjoy anal play and our toys stay slippery and comfortable - jenny - Worth It This is an expensive product, but the price is worth it. The 4 oz bottle will last you a long time as you only need a couple of drops of lube to get the job done. However, it will stain the sheets. - Lena Reasons to Buy ✓ Concentrated silicone formula ✓ Infused with menthol for stimulation ✓ Fully waterproof ✓ Long-term lubricity Reasons to Avoid ✗ Can stain some sheets Sold out See It Now Pjur Woman Concentrated Silicone Personal Lubricant Best Silicone Lube for Women Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulaton: 5/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Pjur Woman Concentrated Silicone Personal Lubricant because this blend is intended for women. The lube is made from medical-grade ingredients that make it a hypoallergenic blend that is perfect for women who need extra lubrication and want reliable, soft silicone. The blend is also created in a way that supports and enhances the natural moisture of the vagina, making vaginal penetration much more pleasurable. We tested it and found it to be an excellent option for sensitive skin, so many women will find it perfect to use. We also found that Pjur Woman Concentrated Silicone Personal Lubricant is compatible with latex polyurethane and polyisoprene condoms. You should not use it with silicone toys; use it only with metal and glass toys. Also, while it is long-lasting, it can be challenging to clean, and it may stain sheets and some fabrics. What Customers Are Saying - Recommended Just wow. Married for 20 years, and this is by far the silkiest, longest-lasting lubricant I have ever used. I LOVE that it doesn't have the added icy or heated qualities as some of the mainstream lubes because, honestly, sometimes they desensitize. - Maria - Works This stuff lasts and lasts. And a little bit goes a long way. It doesn't dry up and get sticky like water-based lubricants. However, it is somewhat difficult to wash off. But I suppose that's what you get with a quality lube that lasts a looooong time without the constant need of reapplication. - Lydia Reasons to Buy ✓ Intended for women ✓ Medical-grade silicone ✓ For sensitive skin ✓ Latex-compatible Reasons to Avoid ✗ It can be staining for some fabrics Sold out See It Now Wicked Ultra Chill Cooling Sensation Silicone Based Lubricant - 2 oz Fragrance Free Best Cooling Silicone Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulaton: 5/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Wicked Ultra Chill Cooling Sensation Silicone Based Lubricant as the last entry on our list of the best silicone lubes. Our experts tested this lube and said that they find it very pleasurable and easy to use. The formulation is made from medical-grade ingredients and has menthol that achieves a cooling sensation. Here, we must note that the lube is high-performing, and it never dries or becomes sticky. It is waterproof so you can play with it in the shower or bathtub. The menthol causes a tingling, cooling sensation on the skin that enhances blood flow and more intense feelings. We also like the Wicked Ultra Chill Cooling Sensation Silicone Based Lubricant because it is a vegan formulation, free from parabens and glycerin, and lasts a very long time. However, because the formula is waterproof, it can be tricky to clean, so like all other silicone lubes, you need to be very diligent when washing it from the skin and sheets. Reasons to Buy ✓ High-performance silicone ✓ High glide and long-lasting effect ✓ Cooling sensations ✓ Waterproof and non-sticky Reasons to Avoid ✗ It can be tricky to wash from skin and sheets Sold out See It Now Why Trust Our Reviews? HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use. Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you. When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight. All You Need to Know About Silicone Lubes Care is necessary when selecting any lube, and you should be extra careful when choosing a silicone-based lube. Please check out our guide on how to use sex lubes, and browse our blog for more educational content. Here are the main things to know when shopping for a silicone lube: Ingredients List – We advise you to always check the ingredients list for any lube you buy. You want to only buy a lube made with quality ingredients. Avoid personal lubricants that contain parabens, glycerin, and other petroleum derivates. Long-lasting formula – the silicone lubes are long-lasting by nature, as these are thick and don’t dry out as fast as water-based lubes. pH Balance – we advise you to check the pH balance of the silicone lube, especially if you are going to use it for vaginal use. It is not as important if you only use it for anal play or external play, but if you plan to use it for vaginal insertion, then knowing the pH level is a must. We'll just note that most well-made silicone lubes are pH neutral or close to it. The Bottom Line We shared our choices for the best silicone lubes you can get from our store. Please note that these are long-lasting and provide excellent lubricity, but you should not use these with silicone toys. Instead, use silicone lubes with metal, glass, or PVC toys, and use water-based lubes with your silicone toys. Also, check out the other posts in our blog and browse our sex toy store, where you will find a fantastic selection of sex toys, including vibrators, dildos, male sex toys, anal toys, sexy lingerie, BDSM gear, and everything else you need for better sex. Shop All Silicone-Based Lubes Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Learn More With Sex Toy Guides: How to Clean Sex Toys? How to Boil a Sex Toy? 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Best Sex Lubes

by Kate Miller on Apr 05 2025
Proper lubrication is essential for pleasurable sex. There are instances where the natural lubrication is not enough, so you are required to look for help. Well, help comes in the shape of sex lube – a blend that is formulated and intended for personal lubrication during your favorite sex activities. You should always have quality lube handy, as you never know when you’ll need to reach for it and elevate a sexy experience to a truly amazing sexy experience. So, today, we share our selection of the best sex lubes you can find in our store. We cover lubes for all types of play and share some essential tips on how to choose the best lube for you, so let’s get to it. Quick Overview of Our Top Picks Best Overall: Sliquid H2O Intimate Water Based Lube Best Water-Based Sex Lube: Divine 9 Water Based Personal Lubricant Best Cum Lube: Spunk Hybrid Cum Lube Best Silicone Sex Lube: Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant Best Hybrid Sex Lube: Wicked Hybrid Water & Silicone Lubricant Best Couple’s Sex Lube: K-Y Yours & Mine Couples Lubricants Best Fertility-Boosting Sex Lube: Good Clean Love Biogenesis Fertility Lubricant Best Luxury Sex Lube: LELO Personal Moisturizer Best Silicone Anal Sex Lube: Ease Relaxing Anal Silicone Lubricant Best Water-Based Anal Sex Lube: Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal Lube The Best Deals This Week* Spunk Hybrid Cum Lube — $40.99 (List Price $53.99) K-Y Yours and Mine Couples Lubricants — $40.99 (List Price $73.99) Pjur Woman Concentrated Silicone Personal Lubricant — $31.99 (List Price $39.99) Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant — $35.99 (List Price $44.99) LELO Personal Moisturizer — $20.99 (List Price $27.99) *Deals are selected by our commerce team Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Sliquid H2o Intimate Water Based Lube Best Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Sliquid H2O Intimate Water Based Lube as the best overall choice for sex lube. The formula is made with purified water that is thickened with plant cellulose extracts. The lube is free from glycerin and parabens and has no sugar derivates. We also love this lube because it is Sliquid’s original water-based formula that is used in all other Sliquid Naturals lube. The Sliquid H2O Intimate Water Based Lube is compatible with all sex toy materials and is excellent for all skin types as the formula is hypoallergenic. We like how thick and easy to use it is. The lube is unscented, flavorless, non-colored, and non-staining – you won’t know it is there, but it will provide all the glide you need for more comfortable sex. The Sliquid H2O Intimate Water Based Lube is also 100% vegan, water-soluble, and pH neutral. For any couple looking for a reliable, natural, and comfortable lube for sex, then the Sliquid H2O Intimate Water Based Lube is our recommended choice. It also comes in two bottle sizes for convenience. What Customers Are Saying - Amaziing I just ordered my second bottle. I am very happy with this product, and I find it to be way better than some higher-priced products. A very little amount is needed, a little spit can make it go a long way. Clean-up is a breeze with soap and water. It works great with all my toys. I recommend you buy this one. - Gabrielle - Go-to My go to lube for masturbation! It slides easily and washes away with ease and a small bit goes a long way in making my hand fly over my dick! - Rob Reasons to Buy ✓ Hypoallergenic, non-staining, vegan formula ✓ Plant cellulose and purified water ✓ Paraben and glycerin free ✓ Water soluble, non-staining, and easy to clean Reasons to Avoid ✗ Tends to dry quickly Sold out See It Now Divine 9 Water Based Personal Lubricant Best Water-Based Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Divine 9 Water Based Personal Lubricant as our entry for the best water-based sex lube. The formulation of this lube is excellent; we appreciate that its main ingredient is purified water and carrageenan seaweed extract that is being tested as a potential shield against HPV infection. We love the feeling of the lube, as it is thick and spreads quickly on the skin, enhancing the pleasure without a heavy or sticky feel on the skin. The formulation of the Divine 9 Water Based Personal Lubricant is simple, as it is free from fragrances, paraben, and glycerin. We like that it is compatible with latex and polyisoprene condoms, and it is non-staining. Another thing we love about the Divine 9 Water Based Personal Lubricant is that it washes easily from the skin and sheets and has moisturizing properties. Also, when it dries, it does not become tacky or sticky, and it is easy to reactivate with a drop of water. What Customers Are Saying - Amazing This product is my favorite. It is definitely better than all other products I've used in the past. It does what it is supposed to do. I especially love the fact that it is well compatible with all my toys. I highly recommend it. - Sabrina - Winner Finally a winner! I love that the lube stays slippery and not all gooey. It leaves your skin feeling clean. I was thrilled to find a product that protects me from HPV! I will definitely be buying this again. - Came Reasons to Buy ✓ Water-based formulation ✓ Seaweed extract for an intimate feel ✓ Paraben, glycerin, and fragrance-free ✓ Possible HPV-protective barrier Reasons to Avoid ✗ It can dry out quickly Sold out See It Now Spunk Hybrid Cum Lube - 16 oz Best Cum Lube Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Spunk Hybrid Cum Lube for this list, as this is an excellent option for cum lube you can use for sex. The formulation is hybrid, meaning it is a blend of water-based and silicone ingredients, allowing you to use the best of the two worlds. The lube is thick, white, and creamy and looks like actual cum. Thus, you can use it as a personal lube for sex, when you play with various sex toys, or even use it in ejaculating dildos as the liquid of choice. We love that the Spunk Hybrid Cum Lube is hypoallergenic and long-lasting because the hybrid formula will not dry out as water-based lube does, and it will not become difficult to wash like silicone lube. We found it to be great to use as an all-around personal lube, but we need to remind you to be careful when using it with silicone toys, as it may react with some. What Customers Are Saying - We love it My boyfriend and I absolutely love this lubricant. It really spiced up our sex life. There is no need for re-appliance since once it warms up to body temperature it goes a long way, allowing us to have maximum fun in every way we like. We can't recommend this enough. - Molly - Fantastic The best lube I've ever used. It has a fantastic feeling to it. Feels even better when applied directly to the skin. It's long lasting and very veery recommendable. I already ordered another one. - Helena Reasons to Buy ✓ Hybrid, body-safe formula ✓ Silky smooth and long-lasting ✓ Non-sticky and non-drying ✓ Condom and sex toy friendly Reasons to Avoid ✗ It may react with some silicone toys Sold out See It Now Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant Best Silicone Sex Lube Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant to our list, as we really enjoyed testing this silicone-based sex lube. One of the things we must emphasize is that the Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant is formulated with premium ingredients. It is free from DEA, gluten, glycerin, paraben, PEG, propylene glycol, sorbitol, and sulfates. It makes it a hypoallergenic blend that is long-lasting and perfect to use for sex or when you play with glass or metal toys. We also tested it as a massage lube and found it to be perfect, but please do a touch test before you use it with silicone toys. The Sliquid Silver Studio Collection Silicone Lubricant is packed in an elegant glass bottle that you can discretely keep with your cosmetics. It looks like a premium perfume bottle with a pump action. It only comes with a single downside, and it is somewhat challenging to clean from the skin and sheets. What Customers Are Saying - Love it I love how slippery and luxurious this lube is. The bottle looks elegant and the lube stays on for hours. A bit tough to wash off but I don’t mind that. - Melanie - Luxurious and effective A perfectly slippery lube for anal play! - Ginger Reasons to Buy ✓ Very concentrated formulation ✓ Latex, rubber, and PVC-friendly ✓ Beautiful, elegant glass bottle ✓ Waterproof and body-safe Reasons to Avoid ✗ It may be challenging to clean Sold out See It Now Wicked Hybrid Water & Silicone Lubricant Best Hybrid Sex Lube Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We had to include the Wicked Hybrid Water & Silicone Lubricant to our list of the best sex lubes, as we found this formula to be close to perfect. It is a hybrid blend between water-based and silicone-based lubes, providing you with a sex lube that is hypoallergenic, comfortable to use, and is not sticky and non-drying. We also like that it is made with seaweed and olive leaf extracts that help with the glide and moisturize the skin, allowing you to use this lube for massages or in any type of intimate play. The hybrid formula is also long-lasting and will not dry like regular water-based lube, and it is latex-friendly, so you can use it with latex condoms. Please note that it is also vegan and can be used for oral play as it has no aftertaste, but please avoid using it with silicone toys. If you do use it, please do a touch test at the bottom of the toy so you won’t ruin your silicone toy. Or use the Wicked Hybrid Water & Silicone Lubricant for sex. What Customers Are Saying - Exceellent Excellent product. My husband and I love it. we usually don't prefer lube because it either becomes sticky or is a pain to clean up. But this stuff did neither. In fact, this is our new best friend, we're doing things we could never do before😉 - Donna - My go to This lube has been my go to for almost a year now. Whether I'm having a quality sexy time alone, or I'm hooking up with someone, this lube has never disappointed me. It's slippery good stuff, it cleans very easily too. Taste is not that great, so you may want to clean prior to doing any oral. - Deborah Reasons to Buy ✓ Hybrid, body-safe formula ✓ Long-lasting lubrication ✓ Non-sticky and not flavored ✓ Fortified with olive leaf and seaweed extract Reasons to Avoid ✗ It may not be compatible with silicone toys Sold out See It Now K-Y Yours & Mine Couples Lubricants Best Couple's Sex Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the K-Y Yours & Mine Couples Lubricants for this list as we found this lube to be intriguing and exciting. Our experts tested the lubes, and their findings were astonishing. The couple’s lubes come in His and Hers variants that you can use for solo play, but the real magic happens when you combine these. To combine them, His lube goes on the penis, providing a warming sensation, while Hers goes on the vagina, providing a tingling sensation; the magic that happens during penetrative sex is terrific. We love that it is a water-based formula that is comfortable on the skin and enhances the body’s natural lubrication. We found it easy to clean and non-staining. Plus, the formulations of the K-Y Yours & Mine Couples Lubricants are flavored with honey so that you can enjoy them for oral play as well. What Customers Are Saying - Amazing. My husband and I couldn't wait until it finally arrived. We used it on the first night and boy, oh boy, it was amazing. It doesn't dry you up fast as some other. The sensation is amazing as well as the smell. These two really made us sex addicts. - Janice - Fun This is stuff is amazing and pretty fun to use. My husband and I really loved the idea behind us bot having different lubes that will give us separate sensations that will later ignite into powerful sex. And these lubes do just that. We can't recommend them enough. - Willow Reasons to Buy ✓ His and hers formulations ✓ Perfectly compatible when used for penetrative sex ✓ Water-based formulations ✓ Easy to clean and non-staining Reasons to Avoid ✗ Very small bottles Sold out See It Now Good Clean Love Biogenesis Fertility Lubricant Best Fertility-Boosting Sex Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Good Clean Love Biogenesis Fertility Lubricant because we found this lube type to be impressive and intriguing. The lube is designed to mimic the vaginal lubrication and is aimed at helping and supporting fertility. Scientists created the formula, and it is patent-pending, which proves that the creators have put a lot of thought and effort into it. We tested the Good Clean Love Biogenesis Fertility Lubricant for lubricity during sex and found it to be perfect, as it is long-lasting and comfortable. The formulation is paraben and isotonic-free, making it hypoallergenic. It contains calcium and magnesium ions that support sperm viability and mobility, boosting your chances of becoming pregnant. We can’t confirm this claim, but some users have found it to be effective and have achieved conception while using it. The lube is non-staining and is easy to clean. What Customers Are Saying - Conceived with this This works. I'm 31. Been TTC since Feb 2020. Got my first positive this morning. I used the fertility lube in September gland got pregnant the first cycle. Been trying 8 months and the fertility lube seems to have helped. If you've been trying without success use a fertility lube. It made a difference for us. Best of luck to you all. - Madyson - Really good lube The lubricant was easy to use, not sticky at all and great for its purpose. I can't comment on the fertility component as it is too soon but I would definitely purchase again in the future. - Callie Reasons to Buy ✓ Medical formulation to boost fertility ✓ Promotes optimal vaginal pH level ✓ Supports sperm mobility ✓ Excellent lubrication Reasons to Avoid ✗ Very small bottle Sold out See It Now LELO Personal Moisturizer Best Luxury Sex Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We included the LELO Personal Moisturizer here as this is a truly luxurious and premium lube. We found it to be fantastic; and it provides long-lasting lubricity and is compatible with all sex toy materials, but it is also great to use as a regular sex lube. The LELO Personal Moisturizer is made from body-safe ingredients, but it is glycerin and paraben-free, unscented and pH-balanced. We like that it is enhanced with aloe vera extract that helps with long-lasting lubrication, moisture, and skin nourishment. Plus, the LELO Personal Moisturizer is non-greasy, non-sticky and non-staining. We believe anyone will find this lube great to use because of its luxurious feel on the skin. We love that it washes away easily with some soap and warm water. It is excellent that you can get it in a small, 2.5 fl. Oz cap-bottle tube and a large 5 Fl. Oz glass bottle that you can keep out with your cosmetics, as it looks like a bottle of expensive perfume. What Customers Are Saying - Luxurious feel The LELO lube is so great, feels soft and creamy to touch and does not dry out as water-based lubes tend to do, so it lasts longer. - Katya - Go-to lube! My only go-to lube as of lately! - Anita Reasons to Buy ✓ Premium body-safe ingredients ✓ pH balanced and hypoallergenic ✓ Long-lasting lubrication ✓ Compatible with all sex toy materials Reasons to Avoid ✗ Smaller bottle sizes compared to similar products Sold out See It Now Ease Relaxing Anal Silicone Lubricant Best Silicone Anal Sex Lube Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Ease Relaxing Anal Silicone Lubricant because we found it to be a fantastic option when engaging in anal play. But we must first note that this lube is silicone-based, and you should not combine it with silicone toys, as it may damage the surface of the toy. We like how well it is formulated and balanced, and it is made from premium silicone and a lot of other natural ingredients. These are Bisabolol (chamomile extract), sunflower seed oil, aloe vera extract, goji fruit extract, and natural Vitamin E; each of these have skin healing and muscle relaxing properties that make the Ease Relaxing Anal Silicone Lubricant perfect for anal sex use. The ingredients also help with skin irritations and have anti-inflammatory and anti-microbial properties. The Ease Relaxing Anal Silicone Lubricant provides long-lasting lubrication and is very slippery. Still, it may be challenging to clean, and it may stain sheets and leave a somewhat unpleasant residue on the skin. What Customers Are Saying - Amazing My partner is very picky about his lubes. We've spent quite a fortune trying to find the right one. I was overjoyed when we finally found the one lube he likes, and it was this one. It stays wet and not sticky. A little bit goes a long way. Lasted upwards of an hour without having to reapply. If I could give it more than 5 stars, I totally would! - Harley - Great Wow! This is amazing! Tried this on a recommendation and we are extremely pleased. Our experience with lubes so far has been pretty sticky, if you know what I mean. An hour in and we were still as slippery as a waterslide. This is the only lube we'll ever use again. - Reign Reasons to Buy ✓ Premium silicone formula ✓ Contains nourishing plant extracts ✓ Long-lasting glide ✓ Easy-to-use bottle Reasons to Avoid ✗ Avoid using it with silicone toys Sold out See It Now Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal Lube Best Water-Based Anal Sex Lube Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Formulation: 4/5Lubricity: 5/5Ease of Cleaning: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We wrap up our list of the best sex lubes with the Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal Lube. We found this lube to be excellent for anal play and anal sex, and since it is a water-based formula, you can also combine it with silicone toys. The lube is mainly intended for men who want maximum moisture and enjoy anal penetration and like a premium lube. We like that the Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal Lube is enhanced with hyaluronan, which has a dual effect of providing lasting lubricity and improving performance. It is compatible with latex condoms, and it is non-staining. The hypoallergenic formula is lightweight and does not leave a sticky residue on the skin, but it provides enough moisture and glides where you need it the most. We should note that it may become dry over time, but a dab of water will reactivate it. When you are done, it washes easily from the skin with warm water and soap. What Customers Are Saying - Love it Absolutely in love with this product. You don't have to take the name of the product literally. It is good for any pleasurable activity requiring lubrication. It lasts longer than some other water-based lubes without the need to reapply. - Harper - Slippery Good stuff. Definitely relaxes you and it is definitely slippery. Great for not leaving a sticky or greasy residue, but just in case don't use too much of it. - Becky Reasons to Buy ✓ Water-based, hypoallergenic formula ✓ Medical-grade ingredients ✓ Max lubricity for anal play ✓ Compatible with latex condoms Reasons to Avoid ✗ It may dry out quickly Sold out See It Now Why Trust Our Reviews? HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use. Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you. When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight. All You Need to Know About Sex Lubes You need to be careful when selecting any lube, as you should be diligent about what’s going on and in your body. It is why we refer you to our guide on how to use sex lubes, which you can find in our blog. Here, we’ll only outline the main things to know about sex lubes: Base and ingredients – we advise you to check the ingredients of the lube you are considering. Knowing what’s in the lube is key to how you can use it. Some of the ingredients we advise you to stay away from are propylene glycol, PEG, and other preservatives. Stick to lubes that contain mainly natural ingredients. Long-lasting formula – we recommend you prefer to buy sex lubes with a long-lasting formula that is slow to dry out. This is mainly an issue with water-based lubes, and if the lube starts to become thick, you can reactivate it with a dab of water or even some saliva. Silicone lubes don’t have this problem, as these are virtually non-drying. pH Balance – look for sex lubes that have neutral pH levels, especially when you are looking for sex lubes. Avoid using oil-based lubes for vaginal intercourse, as the oil-based lube is not very suited for the vaginal microflora and can even cause a yeast outbreak. Additional properties – you will come upon flavored lubes, edible lubes, cooling lubes, or warming lubes, and all of these are fun to try. However, we don’t advise these for penetrative play but more for sex toys and oral play. The Bottom Line We added the suggestions we consider to be the best lubes for sex. But we also invite you to check out the other posts on our blog, where we discuss lube in general and have more educational content. Feel free to browse our sex toy store, where you will find all sorts of fantastic sex toys, including vibrators, dildos, male sex toys, anal toys, sexy lingerie, BDSM gear, and so much more for better sex. 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How to Use Lube: All You Need to Know About Sex Lubes

by Kate Miller on Jan 15 2025
It is better when it is wetter, which is a true saying for many things, sex being the primary one. The vagina produces natural lubrication, which is fine for penetrative play, but for all the rest of the situations, your best option is to use lube. Lube’s goal is to make things slippery, make sexual play more enjoyable, and enhance the overall experience. So, here we discuss all the particulars around lube, including how to use lube and how to combine suitable lube with different sex toys. What Is Lube? A lubricant is usually a liquid or gel that is designed to reduce friction during sex and to provide a slick, comfortable feeling. Using lubrication helps intensify the pleasure and helps reduce the chance of pain, skin rashes, and irritations. Whether you engage in solo or partnered play, you should always have lube handy. Shop All Lubes Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More How to Use Lube? Using sex lube is intuitive, as you only need to spread a good amount of it on your body – vagina or penis, and the sex toy you want to use, and you are all set to play. When it comes to the quantity of lube to use, it depends on the application and your individual preferences. For toys intended only for external play, you can use as little as a few drops on your body and the sex toy, let’s say, a bullet vibe. The activity you engage with also plays a significant role in the amount of lube you use. Because the vagina is self-lubricating, you may initially need a tiny amount of lube to get things started, as it will become wetter as you get aroused. However, if you have vaginal dryness problems, a good amount of water-based lube will be more enjoyable. When you engage in anal sex, using lube is a different story, as the anus is not self-lubricating, you need more lube. Also, the anus is smaller and tighter, and it needs more time to relax, so you need a fair amount of lube to enjoy anal play. Because some lubes dry out faster than others, you need to consider this and adjust accordingly. Still, it all comes down to feelings and sensations, and if you start to feel uncomfortable and feel friction or tugging of the skin during play, it is time to add more lube. However, you must know the suitable lube to combine with your preferred condoms and sex toys, which is what we’ll cover next. Lube Types Personal lubes can have a water or silicone base, and you can also use some oils as lubes. There are also hybrid lubes that are blends between water and silicone-based lubes, and these combine the properties of the two basic types. However, sex lubes also have other ingredients in the mix that may cause different reactions in different users, which is why you need to be aware of the risky substances and know what to avoid. Here we break down the lube types you can find in our sex toy store and all the critical particulars about each type: Water-Based Lube Water-based lube uses water as its base and contains thickening agents that give it a gel-like consistency, making it more manageable and easy to apply. Quality water-based lube features a soft texture and is easy to use, as it is thick and stays where you want it. Water-based lubes are easy to clean from the body and the clothes, as they dissolve in water so that they won’t stain your sheets, nor will they leave a sticky feeling on the skin. These are also pH neutral so that they won’t disturb the vagina’s natural balance. Most water-based lubes are also unscented, which is also a good thing for people who are prone to yeast infections and skin irritations. Water-based lubes are the best choice for solo play or sex, as these are safe to use with latex condoms and diaphragms, and they combine well with all sex toy materials, especially silicone. A main thing to note is that you won’t notice that you have a water-based lube on, but it will still provide the lubricity you need for comfortable playtime. The downside of water-based lubes is that they are water-based, which means they tend to dry out quicker than other lube types. It also means that you will probably need to reapply them more often during longer sessions. As the water-based lube dries, its texture changes, becoming stickier. You can quickly fix this with a few drops of water from a glass nearby or with some saliva. Another thing to note is that you can’t use water-based lubes when you play in the shower, the bathtub, or the pool, as they will get washed away in moments. Silicone-Based Lubes The silicone-based lubes are based on silicone – a synthetic polymer consisting of silicone-oxygen units. These are thicker than water-based lubes, and they may feel heavier, but these provide excellent lubricity and allow smoother penetration by significantly reducing friction. Quality silicone-based lubes are made with high-end ingredients that are body-safe and are designed not to irritate the skin. Most of these are hypoallergenic and are designed not to react with the skin or with most sex toy materials. Also, it is relatively easy to wash the silicone lubes from the skin and sheets, and they won’t leave stains. However, it is possible for silicone-based lubes to leave a residue on some clothes and sheets, so we suggest you place a towel underneath you when you play. A key thing to note about silicone-based lubes is that they are waterproof, so you can use them when you play in the shower, bathtub, or pool. Also, these don’t dry out as quickly as water-based lubes, but they retain their lubricity for much longer, and you don’t need to reapply them during play. Silicone-based lubes are compatible with most condom types, but unfortunately, these are incompatible with silicone toys. Because silicone-based lubes and silicone toys are both made from silicone blends, the two can interact, which is why you should never use silicone-based lube with your silicone toys. We must note that most silicone-based lubes are not pH neutral; using these for penetrative sex may increase the probability of getting a yeast infection, a UTI, or an STI. When you initially apply the silicone lubes, you may find these too sticky and heavy; some people have reported that they feel like they have a coating on their skin and need to thoroughly wash them after play. We need to remind you that silicone-based lubes are not recommended for oral sex, as these are not tested for ingestion. Hybrid Lubes The hybrid lubes are a blend of water-based and silicone-based lubes; the idea is to utilize the properties of both types of lubes. This way, you are getting the longevity of silicone-based lubes with the body-safety of water-based lubes. These last longer, are easier to wash off skin and sheets, and you don’t need to reapply them as often. However, these are not lab-certified, which is why we urge you to be careful and handle these with care. Also, while you can use some of these with silicone toys, please be careful and check the labels on the bottles, and don’t combine these with condoms, just to be on the safe side. Oil-Based Lubes As the name says, oil-based lubes are based on oils; basically, these are various body-safe oils you can use as personal lubricants. Most of these are body-safe and provide good lubricity that helps you enhance sexual playtime. Some of the oils you can use as sex lubes are coconut oil, olive oil, or any other edible oil. Please note that you can’t use oil-based lubes with most sex toys, as these can deteriorate their surface, especially with TPE, TPR, Cyberskin, or jelly toys. We must note that oil lubes are not recommended for vaginal play, as these are not pH balanced, which may harm the natural vaginal balance and cause yeast infections, UTIs, and STIs. Also, you can’t wash the oil-based lubes from the skin easily, as these leave an oily residue on the skin, and they definitely stain sheets, clothes, and furniture. Lube & Sex Toys We touched upon using lube with different sex toys, so please check out our blog, where we cover all essential aspects of choosing and using different sex toys, and here we explain how different sex toy materials pair with the different lube types: Water-based lube pairs with all sex toy materials; you can use it with silicone, PVC, TPE, TPR, wooden, metal, glass, and even marble sex toys. Silicone-based lube pairs only with metal, glass, PVC, wooden, and marble sex toys and should never be used with silicone, TPE, or TPR sex toys. Oil-based lubes are not a good choice for sex toys, except for glass and metal sex toys, as they can degrade the polymer materials. Lube Ingredients to Avoid Because not all lubes are created equal, and these are not in a regulated or certified field, manufacturers don’t have to follow strict standards. That is why there are so many different choices regarding texture, scent, flavors, and other features of sex lubes. The lack of standardization also increases the possibility of some lubes containing harmful chemicals, which is why we only carry products from reputable manufacturers. We urge you to check the safety of the products you use. Here we list the main irritating ingredients that can be found in some sex lubes: Glycerin – this compound is added to water-based lubes to make them ticker and help them retain moisture. However, some studies indicate that glycerin can damage the surface of the skin, making it prone to infections and rashes. These also found that glycerin can disturb the natural balance in the vagina. Propylene glycol – very similar to glycerin, propylene glycol, or PG, as it is often listed on the ingredients list, can have adverse effects on the vaginal tissue. It is a slight allergen compound that can cause skin irritation and rashes, so please try to avoid it as much as possible. Petroleum – commonly found in oil-based lubes, this is the base of petroleum jelly or Vaseline. While this is a highly lubricating compound, it can weaken condoms and have adverse effects on silicone and TPE/TPR sex toys. Lubes with petroleum can also increase the susceptibility to bacterial vaginosis. Nonoxynol-9 – this ingredient is advertised as a spermicide and is often added to lubes. But this can also have adverse effects on sperm mobility and is linked to decreased fertility. Also, nonoxynol-9 can cause vaginal irritations and can increase the risk of yeast infection. Chlorhexidine gluconate – this ingredient is found in some sex lubes, but it is linked to damage to healthy cells, which can increase the risk of bacterial infections and yeast infections. A healthy vagina has a pH level of 3.5 to 4.5, so the sex lubes you use should have a pH in this range. Check this on the tube, and if it is not listed, you can get litmus strips from any pharmacy and test it for yourself. Final Thoughts Personal lubes are an integral part of sexual play, and they do much more good than bad. It does not matter the type of sex play you engage in, and lube will always make sex better. Please follow our guidelines on combining the suitable lube with the adequate sex toy material, and make sure you choose a lube that works best for your skin. Before we let you go, we must note that no lube can protect you from an STD or unwanted pregnancy, so you must use appropriate contraceptives. If you use condoms, make sure you use lube that won’t deteriorate the condom. Check out our sex toy store, where we carry an excellent selection of sex lubes, massage oils, and other essentials you need for better sex. Learn More With Sex Toy Guides: How to Clean Sex Toys? How to Boil a Sex Toy? How to Clean a Silicone Sex Toy? How to Clean Anal Toys? How to Anal Douche? How to Hide Sex Toys? How to Dispose of Sex Toys? 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