BDSM Chokers

A little cat-shaped charm, a lot of quiet naughtiness. This slim choker lets you wear your kitty play right out in the open, subtle enough for everyday wear and ready to go the moment the scene calls for it.

Slip it on and the snap button enclosure makes finding your fit simple, no fumbling with clasps or guessing at sizing. Once it's snug, the faux leather band sits light against your skin, smooth and comfortable even if you keep it on for a while. The cat-shaped ring hardware rests at the front, both a cute finishing touch and a functional point for clipping on a leash when playtime turns into a proper walk around the room. The slim profile keeps the whole look understated, so this kitty collar can move from private play to a night out without drawing more attention than you want it to.

Made by XR Brands in faux leather and metal, with a snap button closure that adjusts to your preferred snugness, this choker pairs easily with the rest of your leash and leather gear for whenever the mood strikes.

Some accessories say more than words ever could, and this choker gets straight to the point. The Dark Heart Chrome Heart Choker from XR Brands is a faux leather collar with a metal heart charm at the center, made for adding a touch of BDSM style to play or everyday wear.

Slip it on and the strap sits slim against the throat, closing with a snap for a fit you can adjust to feel right. The heart charm catches the eye at the center front, giving the whole piece a romantic edge that softens its fetish leanings. Whether it comes out for a scene or just for a night out, this heart choker reads as unmistakably BDSM without ever feeling heavy or fussy. It works equally well as a starting piece for building out a collection of restrictive gear, or as a gift for a partner who likes a little symbolism with their submission.

In black faux leather with a nickel-free metal heart, this chrome heart collar is spot clean only and adjusts to fit a range of neck sizes.

Some collars shout. This one holds its ground quietly, a heart-shaped lock resting against a smooth faux leather strap that says exactly what you want it to say without saying too much. It is a choker built for the everyday moments of a power exchange, not just the bedroom.

Slip it on and the first thing you notice is how little you notice it. The strap sits with a bit of give rather than a tight squeeze, so it moves with you through a night out or a night in. The faux leather is smooth against the skin, flexible enough to feel natural rather than restrictive, while the metal heart lock and matching keys turn the whole thing into a small ritual. Handing over a key, or having one handed to you, becomes its own quiet exchange of trust. A couple of strap sizes come in the box, so fit is a non-issue whether the choker is going on a slimmer neck or one that needs a touch more room.

Worn under a collar in the discreet sense, it reads as jewelry to anyone not looking closely, which makes it as suited to a night at the bar as it is to a scene at home. As a piece of BDSM collar gear from XR Brands, its appeal is in that double life, subtle enough for public wear, symbolic enough for private use. In faux leather with metal hardware, in black with silver detailing, it comes with heart-shaped keys and multiple strap sizes so the fit and the meaning both land right. Once you find your size, it is simple to put on and just as simple to hand the key to someone you trust.

A collar with a little bite to it. The Amor Collar with Nipple Clamps, from Sportsheets' Sex & Mischief line, pairs a heart-detail choker with attached nipple clamps, so the romance and the edge come as one piece rather than two separate props to fumble with mid-scene.

It starts around the neck, where the collar sits as a sweet, decorative touch, more delicate than menacing at first glance. Follow the connecting chain down and the mood shifts as the clamps come into play. Tension adjustments mean you or your partner can dial the pressure up or down, moving from a light pinch to something firmer depending on what the scene calls for.

Made with metal and rubber, this nipple clamp set comes in black or silver, ready to bring a touch of romance and restraint to the same scene. When you are done, loosen the clamps gradually before easing off the collar, so the finish feels as considered as the buildup.