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How to Choose a Strap-On: Guide for Getting a Great Strap-On

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How to Choose a Strap-On: Guide for Getting a Great Strap-On

by Kate Miller on Jan 28 2026
The strap-on is an exciting, sexy way to spice up your sex life; it allows so many play options, and you’ll be amazed at how your partner and you can expand your sexual horizons. An incredible strap-on will help with many actions, including penetrative sex, anal sex, hands-free play, and more. Thus, it is vital to choose the correct one for you and your partner. Here, we discuss all the particulars about strap-ons, focusing on the most important things to consider when shopping for a quality strap-on. If you wish to learn more about strap-ons, we have an entire series of articles related to this topic. Before we share our tips for selecting a strap-on, let’s discuss the parts of a strap-on and what your choices are. Different Strap-On Harness Designs and Styles We know that the strap-on selections can be overwhelming to most, so here we’ll discuss the different strap-on harness designs you are likely to encounter today. There are several ways to define and list them here, but we’ll start with the obvious – the harness type. Basically, there are two harness types of strap-ons, and these are the underwear-style strap-on harness and the strap-on style harness: Underwear-style harnesses are a pair of underwear, usually a thong or boy-shorts design, with an O-ring placed in the appropriate place. These are easy to put on – just like you would a standard pair of underwear. Usually, these are made from microfiber fabric that is comfortable, breathable, and machine-washable. Strap-on style harnesses have adjustable straps that fit around the waist and thighs. These can be three-point straps, thong-like straps, or four-point straps or jockstrap-style harnesses. The most likely materials the strap-on style harnesses are made from include woven nylon straps, leather, or other synthetic materials. The underwear-style harness is more comfortable for beginners and is designed to be worn by women. On the other hand, the strap-on style harness is better suited for experienced users who know what they are doing. Also, the jockstrap-style harness is the most comfortable design for men, as the 4-point straps allow room for the testicles and provide stability in use. ===COLLECTION=== Strap-On Dildo Options The next obvious choice is the strap-on dildo you’ll use with your chosen strap-on. While there are complete strap-on kits, many users prefer to select a separate strap-on harness and get one or more strap-on-compatible dildos that provide added variety. When it comes to selecting a strap-on dildo, you have two options: an O-ring fitting and a Vac-U-Lock system. The O-ring fitting is the most commonly found strap-on fitting type, and it is an excellent option for both beginners and experienced users. The Vac-U-Lock system was created and patented by Doc Johnson, one of the premier sex toy manufacturers, and many of their dildos feature this system, as well as being O-ring compatible. The next thing you need to consider, and something we pay a great deal of attention to, is the size and material of the dildo. ===COLLECTION=== Dildo Size is a Personal Preference When looking for a strap-on dildo, you should know that you lose about one inch in length when you attach the dildo to the harness, so if you have a 7-inch strap-on compatible dildo, you’ll be getting a little over 6 inches of insertable length. Since there is no universal size that fits all users, we suggest you refer to our dildo measuring guide to find out the size that will fit you the most. Next, the O-ring size changes in relation to the dildo shaft diameter: O-ring sizes that relate to shaft diameter are 1.25, 1.5, 1.75, and up to 2 inches in diameter. So, when selecting an O-ring harness, this is something to keep in mind. If you get a strap-on harness that does not allow changing the O-ring, then you’ll have to get a fitting dildo. If you get a strap-on harness that allows for the changing of the O-rings, you’ll have to stock up on replaceable O-rings to fit the strap-on-compatible dildos you have. Be Mindful of the Dildo Material We are always partial to using silicone sex toys; when it comes to strap-on-compatible dildos, silicone is always a good idea. Because of the nature of the material, silicone is adequate for large and thick harness-compatible dildos. Still, it may not be as realistic as you may expect. Lucky for you, there are other strap-on dildo materials that you can consider. We are talking about PVC and TPE dildos. Quality-made dildos are non-porous, body-safe, and easy to clean and maintain. If you are looking for a hollow strap-on, then you are more likely to get a model that is made from PVC because this is sturdier and holds its shape well. Added Features are Welcome While using a strap-on by itself is exciting, we also suggest you try using a model that has extra features. One of the most commonly found additional features is vibration, which can elevate an already sexy experience to the next level. Top-quality vibrating strap-ons come with wireless or wired remote controllers that facilitate playtime. ===COLLECTION=== Top Strap-On Shopping Advice Now that we’ve covered the most important things related to strap-ons, here is our list of advice we think will come in handy when you decide to select a strap-on toy to make things more enjoyable for you and your partner: Harness Size – we advise you to select a strap-on harness size that is very close to your size. If you plan to change roles and have your partner wear the strap-on harness, look for an adjustable model that will fit both of you. Make sure the harness fits you well because a snug fit ensures a better user experience. Dildo Size – we always suggest you start low and go slow, meaning start with a smaller dildo and increase the size as you gain experience and build confidence. Dildo Shape & Material – we suggest you select a smooth strap-on dildo if you are an absolute beginner or are looking to experiment with pegging. However, if you feel confident, you can pick a realistic strap-on that can enhance the entire experience. Lube Compatibility – never forget the lube, as this is essential for making things slide easily. We advise you to opt for quality water-based lube that is compatible with all types of sex toys. Silicone lube adversely affects silicone and TPE toys, so water-based is the best choice to use with various strap-on dildos. Cleaning & Maintenance – we advise you to select sex toys that are non-porous and waterproof, as these are effortless to clean. You can wash your silicone strap-on dildos with soap and water, while models made from TPE/TPR may require rejuvenating powder to keep them pristine. Some harnesses are machine or hand-washable, while others can only be spot-cleaned. Budget – lastly, consider your budget, as quality strap-on harnesses and strap-on dildos don’t come cheap. If you are new to such play, we suggest you get a good quality strap-on harness that can provide a good experience and buy a smaller strap-on dildo. We advise everyone to stay away from the bottom-shelf stuff, especially when it comes to sex toys, as there should be no risk to your health and pleasure. Lucky for you, we have an extensive strap-on offer, where we provide various models that fit beginners and experienced users, and we have more strap-on guides to answer every concern and help you when shopping for a quality, well-made strap-on that will serve you for years. FAQs What does it mean for a dildo to be body-safe?A body-safe designation means that the strap-on dildo is made from materials that are rated as safe to use and free from harmful ingredients. Most of these are phthalate-free and are made from medical-grade materials that are safe to use for this use. What is the best lube for strap-on dildos?We always provide lube suggestions with every product we review and sell, but to be on the safe side, you should always stick to quality, thick, water-based lubes that are compatible with all sex toys. If you wish to use silicone, oil, or hybrid lubes, then check the toy’s user manual to check for compatibility. As a rule of thumb, avoid using silicone lubes with silicone toys. What lube do you use with a pegging strap-on?Since strap-ons are perfect for pegging, you can freely engage in this activity, but with the correct lube. If you have a silicone pegging strap-on, then opt for a thick water-based lube and reapply as necessary. Don’t use silicone lube with silicone toys! 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How Do Strap-Ons Work?

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How Do Strap-Ons Work?

by Kate Miller on Jan 22 2026
Strap ons come in a range of sizes from under 5 inches and can range up to between 9 and 10 inches. Circumference sizes range from beginners at around 4 inches, up to larger sizes of between 5.5 inches and 7 inches (or above). So knowing the size of the strap-on to get is critical for safe, comfortable and pleasurable use. Thus, we preprared the following strap-on sizing guide where we disucss how to measure yourself and your partner for a most fitting strap-on toy! How to Measure for a Strap-On? To measure a vagina, you will need a vibrator (if possible), or an alternative object which is long, clean and has a smooth surface. To begin, either you or your partner lay on their back with legs spread. The vagina needs stimulating at this point, as it elongates when it is aroused. Once aroused, you can start sliding the vibrator or phallic object into the vagina. When you reach the max comfortable depth, mark this on the vibrator/phallic object. This is the strap on length (for the dildo or vibrator) which the vagina can safely handle. To measure circumference or girth, you can use your fingers and slide one at a time until you reach the limit. Then, wrap the tape measure around the fingers and you;ll get the circumference of the strap-on the vagina can comfortably take.. Sex Toy Measurements Generally speaking there are four vital measurements for any sex toy you need to know: Length: The full length of the toy from the two farthest points, which we refer to as total lenght. Insertable Length: The length of the toy that can be safely inserted. Width (or diameter): The distance between the two sides of the toy. Girth (or circumference): The circumference of the toy which is relevant to insertable toys. Sizing for Hollow Strap-Ons A hollow strap-on is mostly worn by men who have a smaller penis, so for these, measure the length f the penis when it is fully aroused (if possible). It is the measurement that ensures the penis will fit in the hollow dildo canal.This is to make sure they can fit their penis inside the hollow canal. Make sure you measure the circumference and calculate the diameter, as most product descriptions share the diameter of the hollow dildo strap-on. It is a simple math - divide the circumference by 3.14 and you'll get the diameter, and you'll know the size to look for. Shop Hollow Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== Sizing for Vibrating Strap-Ons You need to measure the length and circumference of the vibrating strap-on. If you get a simpler vibrating strap-on with a dildo and an harness, then only measure the safe size the receiver can manage. But if you are looking to buy a strapless strap-on, then you should also know the size the wearer can manage. To measure for a strapless strap-on, you need to measure the size the vagina can safely take, as the strapless strap-on is worn in the vagina and held in place by the Kegel muscles. If you have previous experience with egg vibes, these can be a good starting point. However, if you don't have a previous reference, then use deduction to find a model that will be comfortable. Even better, you can get an inflatable strapless strap-on for a perfect fit. Shop Vibrating Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== Sizing for Strap-On Compatible Dildos Strap-on or harness compatible dildos are designed to give a unique feel to the receiver. They come in varying ranges, so you can get a small, medium, and even large strap-on compatible dildos. To measure the insertable length, you can us ethe method we described above: measure the length the vagina can safely take when it is fully aroused. Do this with a dildo, a vibrator or another phallic object and you'll get the length of the dildo. While you are at it, measure the circumference and calculate the diameter, and you'll get a good idea of the size of strap-on compatible dildo to get. You can find insertable lengths of strap-on compatible dildos at around 5 to 6 inches and then larger varieties of between 7 to 8 inches. Please note that to fit the dildo in the strap-on, you need to take into account the O-ring and base, as once fitted in the harness, the insertable lenght gets shorter. In any case, our product descriptions tend to share the insertable length for most strap-on compatible dildos, so we have you covered. Shop Strap-On Compatible Dildos ===COLLECTION=== Sizing for Strap-On Harness To measure for a strap-on harness is much easier than measuring for the accompanying toy. Becasue most strap-on harnessses are adjustable, you can look at the general product description where we share the range of adjustability, so you will know your chosen model will be the right ft. Measure you waist for the main waist size; then measure around your thighs where the harness will fit. For this, we recommend you use a flexible tape measure that will allow you to wrap it around your thighs and butt, measuring the exact size you need. Also, note that most adjustable strap-on harnesses have a give of about 5-10 inches, so you can safely get a model that appeals to you visually and you can expect it will fit you nicely. If you are going after a strap-on underwear model, then you need to be more careful, as these are not adjustable. Our product descriptions list the sizes for each strap-on underwear model, which are comparable to the US dress sizes, so you can find the one that is closest to your size. We also have a plus-size strap-on harnesses and underwear category for those ladies with broader hips. Shop Strap-On Harnesses ===COLLECTION=== Shop Strap-On Underwear ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose the Best Strap-On Dildo Harness As you’ve seen above, you have so many strap-on harness options. Choosing a strap-on harness depends on your preference, intended use, and skill level. Here are some tips that can help you hone in on what model would be best for you. If you want some light fun, you can opt for an underwear-style harness that comes with visual appeal and is effortless to maintain. If you are into serious roleplay and want to take the male role, then we suggest you pick a strap-on harness model that provides better control, like a double-strap harness. Strap-On Harness Considerations The size of the harness is essential, as you need a harness that fits snugly on your body. If the harness is loose, then you risk losing control and ruining the experience. If your harness is too tight, you will be uncomfortable and even risk restricting circulation. Make sure your harness fits comfortably, as you don’t want it bumping on the vaginal mound too much, which can lead to desensitizing of the area and diminished sensitivity. The next thing to consider is the material of the harness, as you are wearing this on your bare skin. The material should be body-safe and comfortable, so we advise you opt for woven nylon, leather, silicone, rubber, or faux leather strap-on harness materials for harnesses with straps and microfiber for underwear strap-on harnesses. If you find that you can’t stand the feeling of the harness material on your body, you can put on a pair of underwear underneath the strap-on harness. Also, make sure you play gently, as too vigorous movements can make the strap-on harness loose, and you risk harming your partner. Strap-On Harness Benefits You get a lot of benefits from introducing a strap-on in your sexy games. These are designed to accommodate a strap-on dildo with which you can penetrate your partner. But if you want solo playtime, you can try the arm or thigh harnesses and attach them to various furniture. All the different strap-on harnesses have their appeal, as some are for beginners, some are very sexy, and some are very versatile. Still, the double-strap harness is the most versatile model, as it is very adjustable, stays in place, and holds the dildo securely. Using a quality double-strap harness will allow you to concentrate on pleasuring your partner instead of worrying that the dildo will slip away. Some of the aforementioned strap-on harnesses can be worn by men, which opens up a new avenue for sexy play. Some are designed for double penetration of a female partner. In contrast, others come with hollow dildo attachments that help men with ED or premature ejaculation or add length and girth to the man’s penis. Shop Plus-Size Strap On Harnesses ===COLLECTION=== Strap-On Safety Considerations Always take caution when putting your strap-on harness on, as you can overtighten the straps if you are not careful. Please note that reputable manufacturers have safety measures in place to protect users against this, which is why there are harnesses in different sizes. Make sure you get the correct size strap-on harness to start with. Another thing to consider is the O-ring buckles, as these are usually metal snaps that hold the O-ring in place. When you get your strap-on harness, make sure you check for any rough edges that can harm your partner. Also, please note that the most important thing safety-wise is the use of the strap-on dildo. Because the wearer does not feel anything, having constant communication with the receiver is essential. Don’t be stingy with the lube, and always use lube that is compatible with the dildo material. We suggest you use a quality water-based lube and apply it regularly during play. Strap-On Harness Use Suggestions People use strap-on harnesses and various strap-on dildos to prolong sexual play. A man can wear a hollow strap-on dildo and continue having intercourse even after he’s ejaculated. In another scenario, the man can put on a hollow dildo strap-on and penetrate their partner, as the decreased sensation allows them to last longer. Men with ED can find this model extremely useful, as penetration, which is usually impossible for men with ED, is a real possibility by using a strap-on harness with a hollow dildo attached to it. An exciting sexual activity where strap-on harnesses are essential is pegging – an activity where the male partner is penetrated by a female partner with a dildo or another phallic object. The action stimulates the prostate which can lead to deeper, stronger orgasms in men. Instead of using a handheld dildo, a suitable strap-on harness with a pegging dildo can be the perfect option. Even oral sex is a thing with a strap-on harness and a suitable dildo, as many couples love the visual turn-on. Using a strap-on harness with a suitable dildo is the perfect option for female-on-female sex, where one partner wears the harness and vaginally or analy penetrates the other partner. We leave further strap-on harness applications to your imagination. Cleaning & Storage Tips Cleaning your harness depends on the material it is made from. In most cases, you can throw strap-on harnesses made from woven nylon or microfiber in an underwear bag and wash them in a washing machine on a cold cycle. Please note that these should not be dried in a dryer as the heat can ruin them. Leather strap-on harnesses are more challenging to clean, as these need a hot water wash and conditioning of the leather to protect it from stiffening up or cracking. Faux leather (leatherette) can be spot-cleaned but not wholly washed with water, as it can deform from the warm water. After you clean and dry your strap-on harness, we suggest you store them in a protective bag to avoid them getting tangled with other items. Also, please note that you should store them in a dry, cool place, away from heat and direct sunlight. An underwear drawer is a suitable storage place. The Bottom Line Overall, using a strap-on harness allows your imagination to run wild so you and your partner can explore new sexual horizons. Nothing stops you from getting several models, trying and comparing them until you find the one that fits you best. Lucky for you, our store is stocked with excellent strap-on harness selection, as well as a variety of other exciting sex toys that fit anyone’s wishes. Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides Strap-Ons - Sizing Guide Strap-Ons - How to Use Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Use a Hollow Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On FAQs What happens if I want to use a larger dildo on my harness? We suggest you always use a dildo that is compatible with your strap-on harness, and this relates to the size of the O-ring diameter and the base of the dildo. Another thing to note is that you should not use dildos that are too long with your strap-on harness, as this can be too heavy for comfortable use. What is the ideal O-ring size for pegging my husband? We always suggest you start low and go slow. Since the anus is much tighter and does not self-lubricate, you should use a pegging dildo specifically designed for anal penetration. In terms of O-ring size, these are usually about 1.25-inch diameter and are made from body-safe silicone. However, this is a personal matter, and a matter you should discuss with your husband. See More Of Our Favorite Sex Toys Best Vibrating Dildos Best Suction Cup Dildos Best Thrusting Dildos Best Dual Density Dildos Best Silicone Dildos Best Squirting Dildos Best Realistic Dildos Best Cheap Dildos Best Anal Dildos Best Ribbed Dildos Best Silicone Strap-Ons Best DP Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Sets Best Strap-On Underwear Best Vac-U-Lock Strap-Ons Best Strapless Strap-Ons Best Strap-Ons for Men Best Strap-On Harnesses Best Vibrating Strap-Ons Most Realistic Strap-Ons Best Silicone Strap-Ons Best Realistic Male Masturbators Best Pocket Pussies Best Penis Milking Machines Best Vibrating Penis Sleeves Best Cock Rings Best Blowjob Toys Best Male Vibrators Best Male Masturbators Best Sex Toys for Small Penis Best Sex Toys for Men
How to Choose Strap-On Harnesses

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How to Choose Strap-On Harnesses

by Kate Miller on Jan 22 2026
Strap-on sex toys are pretty popular among a broad audience, and rightfully so, as these are fun and exciting and bring a lot of variety in your sex life. However, strap-ons are more than the fun dildo end, as they need an essential part – the strap-on harness that makes everything possible. The strap-on harness holds the dildo in place, close to the body, allowing you to safely and securely use the strap-on. The strap-on harnesses allow hands-free play and come in many shapes and sizes. So, here we’ll share all you need to know about strap-on harnesses, as well as the essential things you need to know when selecting a strap-on harness for you. Strap-On Harness Dildo Attachment Types The strap-on design has evolved over the years, and today, you get a vast selection of harness designs and materials. Before we tackle the dildo harnesses, we need to discuss the locking options they come with – the way the strap-on dildo attaches to the strap-on harness. O-ring – in this design, you attach your strap-on compatible dildo to the harness using an O-ring that is attached to the harness. The O-ring is usually made from rubber, silicone, or metal and comes in several diameters that fit various dildo sizes. We suggest you look for an O-ring strap-on harness that allows for the changing of the O-rings so you can use it with different dildos. Vac-U-Lock – the Vac-U-Lock design is a patented design by Doc Johnson, one of the USA’s premier sex toy manufacturers. It is a specialized ridged peg that is fixed at the front of the harness, and the dildo locks in via the ridges of the peg. We have to note that even if you have a Vac-U-Lock-compatible dildo but don’t have the harness plug if the dildo has a flared base, you can still use it with an O-ring harness. Suction base – per this design, the strap-on harness has a smooth “body-dock” base that is compatible with a dildo with suction cup base. You can use any suction cup dildo with this strap-on harness, as the surface is concave and very smooth, allowing for easy and sturdy attaching of your suction cup dildo. Shop Strap-On Harnesses ===COLLECTION=== Strap-On Harness Models Let us now cover all the strap-on harness models you can try. Please note that each of these has an intended use, and you should select the one that fits your needs and wants. Also, we must note that many of these feature internal pockets where you can fit a vibrating bullet, a small bottle of lube, or even a condom. Double-Strap Harness – the most famous strap-on harness design, this is one of the most comfortable and stable harnesses you can get. It looks like a jock-strap athletes wear. The double-strap harness attaches around the waist and has two straps that go under the butt, attaching to the waist strap. The straps are almost always adjustable, so you can make the perfect fit. We have to note that this is a unisex design, so men and women can wear it. G-String Harness – very similar to the double-strap harness, this model has a waist strap and a single strap that sits between the butt cheeks and attaches to the waist strap in the back. These are more comfortable for women, as the G-string strap can comfortably sit between the labia lips and the butt. Please note that thicker straps may be uncomfortable for some wearers. Corset Harness – a model that is very similar to the double-strap harness; this attaches around the waist and has two straps that go under the butt. The difference is that this harness is modeled to resemble sexy lingerie and appears more elegant and even delicate. Please note that these are usually more expensive but are just as sturdy as the regular double-strap harnesses. Underwear Harness – molded after actual underwear, this strap-on harness is one of the most comfortable harness types you can use. Most often, underwear style strap-on panties have O-rings stitched in the design, so you can only fit one size dildo, and they don’t allow adjustability. However, you can also wear these as regular underwear and be ready at any time. Lingerie Harness – designed like the underwear harness, this strap-on harness type is sexier and often comes with garters. Some models have fixed O-rings, but they come with adjustable straps that allow you to mold them to your body. Also, most models come with an open back for a sexier look. Thigh and arm harness – these harness types are not intended to be worn around the waist but around the leg or the arm and allow unique penetration scenarios. We also like these as they allow you to expand your sexy horizons, as they are perfect for attaching to furniture, facilitating, and spicing up solo time. Harness kits – we included these models here as we belive these are the best option for beginners. Strap-on sets come with an all-in-one solution where the dildo is fitted to the harness. These come with adjustable straps so you can fit them to your body and provide reasonable control and comfort for the wearer. Shop Strap-On Underwear ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose the Best Strap-On Dildo Harness As you’ve seen above, you have so many strap-on harness options. Choosing a strap-on harness depends on your preference, intended use, and skill level. Here are some tips that can help you hone in on what model would be best for you. If you want some light fun, you can opt for an underwear-style harness that comes with visual appeal and is effortless to maintain. If you are into serious roleplay and want to take the male role, then we suggest you pick a strap-on harness model that provides better control, like a double-strap harness. Strap-On Harness Considerations The size of the harness is essential, as you need a harness that fits snugly on your body. If the harness is loose, then you risk losing control and ruining the experience. If your harness is too tight, you will be uncomfortable and even risk restricting circulation. Make sure your harness fits comfortably, as you don’t want it bumping on the vaginal mound too much, which can lead to desensitizing of the area and diminished sensitivity. The next thing to consider is the material of the harness, as you are wearing this on your bare skin. The material should be body-safe and comfortable, so we advise you opt for woven nylon, leather, silicone, rubber, or faux leather strap-on harness materials for harnesses with straps and microfiber for underwear strap-on harnesses. If you find that you can’t stand the feeling of the harness material on your body, you can put on a pair of underwear underneath the strap-on harness. Also, make sure you play gently, as too vigorous movements can make the strap-on harness loose, and you risk harming your partner. Strap-On Harness Benefits You get a lot of benefits from introducing a strap-on in your sexy games. These are designed to accommodate a strap-on dildo with which you can penetrate your partner. But if you want solo playtime, you can try the arm or thigh harnesses and attach them to various furniture. All the different strap-on harnesses have their appeal, as some are for beginners, some are very sexy, and some are very versatile. Still, the double-strap harness is the most versatile model, as it is very adjustable, stays in place, and holds the dildo securely. Using a quality double-strap harness will allow you to concentrate on pleasuring your partner instead of worrying that the dildo will slip away. Some of the aforementioned strap-on harnesses can be worn by men, which opens up a new avenue for sexy play.  Some are designed for double penetration of a female partner. In contrast, others come with hollow dildo attachments that help men with ED or premature ejaculation or add length and girth to the man’s penis. Shop Plus-Size Strap On Harnesses ===COLLECTION=== Strap-On Safety Considerations Always take caution when putting your strap-on harness on, as you can overtighten the straps if you are not careful. Please note that reputable manufacturers have safety measures in place to protect users against this, which is why there are harnesses in different sizes. Make sure you get the correct size strap-on harness to start with. Another thing to consider is the O-ring buckles, as these are usually metal snaps that hold the O-ring in place. When you get your strap-on harness, make sure you check for any rough edges that can harm your partner. Also, please note that the most important thing safety-wise is the use of the strap-on dildo. Because the wearer does not feel anything, having constant communication with the receiver is essential. Don’t be stingy with the lube, and always use lube that is compatible with the dildo material. We suggest you use a quality water-based lube and apply it regularly during play. Strap-On Harness Use Suggestions People use strap-on harnesses and various strap-on dildos to prolong sexual play. A man can wear a hollow strap-on dildo and continue having intercourse even after he’s ejaculated. In another scenario, the man can put on a hollow dildo strap-on and penetrate their partner, as the decreased sensation allows them to last longer. Men with ED can find this model extremely useful, as penetration, which is usually impossible for men with ED, is a real possibility by using a strap-on harness with a hollow dildo attached to it. An exciting sexual activity where strap-on harnesses are essential is pegging – an activity where the male partner is penetrated by a female partner with a dildo or another phallic object. The action stimulates the prostate which can lead to deeper, stronger orgasms in men. Instead of using a handheld dildo, a suitable strap-on harness with a pegging dildo can be the perfect option. Even oral sex is a thing with a strap-on harness and a suitable dildo, as many couples love the visual turn-on. Using a strap-on harness with a suitable dildo is the perfect option for female-on-female sex, where one partner wears the harness and vaginally or analy penetrates the other partner. We leave further strap-on harness applications to your imagination. Cleaning & Storage Tips 1harness depends on the material it is made from. In most cases, you can throw strap-on harnesses made from woven nylon or microfiber in an underwear bag and wash them in a washing machine on a cold cycle. Please note that these should not be dried in a dryer as the heat can ruin them. Leather strap-on harnesses are more challenging to clean, as these need a hot water wash and conditioning of the leather to protect it from stiffening up or cracking. Faux leather (leatherette) can be spot-cleaned but not wholly washed with water, as it can deform from the warm water. After you clean and dry your strap-on harness, we suggest you store them in a protective bag to avoid them getting tangled with other items. Also, please note that you should store them in a dry, cool place, away from heat and direct sunlight. An underwear drawer is a suitable storage place. The Bottom Line Overall, using a strap-on harness allows your imagination to run wild so you and your partner can explore new sexual horizons. Nothing stops you from getting several models, trying and comparing them until you find the one that fits you best. Lucky for you, our store is stocked with excellent strap-on harness selection, as well as a variety of other exciting sex toys that fit anyone’s wishes. Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides Strap-Ons - Sizing Guide Strap-Ons - How to Use Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Use a Hollow Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On FAQs What happens if I want to use a larger dildo on my harness? We suggest you always use a dildo that is compatible with your strap-on harness, and this relates to the size of the O-ring diameter and the base of the dildo. Another thing to note is that you should not use dildos that are too long with your strap-on harness, as this can be too heavy for comfortable use. What is the ideal O-ring size for pegging my husband? We always suggest you start low and go slow. Since the anus is much tighter and does not self-lubricate, you should use a pegging dildo specifically designed for anal penetration. In terms of O-ring size, these are usually about 1.25-inch diameter and are made from body-safe silicone. 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Strap On Sizing Guide

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Strap On Sizing Guide

by Kate Miller on Jan 22 2026
Strap ons come in a range of sizes from under 5 inches and can range up to between 9 and 10 inches. Circumference sizes range from beginners at around 4 inches, up to larger sizes of between 5.5 inches and 7 inches (or above). So knowing the size of the strap-on to get is critical for safe, comfortable and pleasurable use. Thus, we preprared the following strap-on sizing guide where we disucss how to measure yourself and your partner for a most fitting strap-on toy! How to Measure for a Strap-On? To measure a vagina, you will need a vibrator (if possible), or an alternative object which is long, clean and has a smooth surface. To begin, either you or your partner lay on their back with legs spread. The vagina needs stimulating at this point, as it elongates when it is aroused. Once aroused, you can start sliding the vibrator or phallic object into the vagina. When you reach the max comfortable depth, mark this on the vibrator/phallic object. This is the strap on length (for the dildo or vibrator) which the vagina can safely handle. To measure circumference or girth, you can use your fingers and slide one at a time until you reach the limit. Then, wrap the tape measure around the fingers and you;ll get the circumference of the strap-on the vagina can comfortably take.. Sex Toy Measurements Generally speaking there are four vital measurements for any sex toy you need to know: Length: The full length of the toy from the two farthest points, which we refer to as total lenght. Insertable Length: The length of the toy that can be safely inserted. Width (or diameter): The distance between the two sides of the toy. Girth (or circumference): The circumference of the toy which is relevant to insertable toys. Sizing for Hollow Strap-Ons A hollow strap-on is mostly worn by men who have a smaller penis, so for these, measure the length f the penis when it is fully aroused (if possible). It is the measurement that ensures the penis will fit in the hollow dildo canal.This is to make sure they can fit their penis inside the hollow canal. Make sure you measure the circumference and calculate the diameter, as most product descriptions share the diameter of the hollow dildo strap-on. It is a simple math - divide the circumference by 3.14 and you'll get the diameter, and you'll know the size to look for. Shop Hollow Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== Sizing for Vibrating Strap-Ons You need to measure the length and circumference of the vibrating strap-on. If you get a simpler vibrating strap-on with a dildo and an harness, then only measure the safe size the receiver can manage. But if you are looking to buy a strapless strap-on, then you should also know the size the wearer can manage. To measure for a strapless strap-on, you need to measure the size the vagina can safely take, as the strapless strap-on is worn in the vagina and held in place by the Kegel muscles. If you have previous experience with egg vibes, these can be a good starting point. However, if you don't have a previous reference, then use deduction to find a model that will be comfortable. Even better, you can get an inflatable strapless strap-on for a perfect fit. Shop Vibrating Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== Sizing for Strap-On Compatible Dildos Strap-on or harness compatible dildos are designed to give a unique feel to the receiver. They come in varying ranges, so you can get a small, medium, and even large strap-on compatible dildos. To measure the insertable length, you can us ethe method we described above: measure the length the vagina can safely take when it is fully aroused. Do this with a dildo, a vibrator or another phallic object and you'll get the length of the dildo. While you are at it, measure the circumference and calculate the diameter, and you'll get a good idea of the size of strap-on compatible dildo to get. You can find insertable lengths of strap-on compatible dildos at around 5 to 6 inches and then larger varieties of between 7 to 8 inches. Please note that to fit the dildo in the strap-on, you need to take into account the O-ring and base, as once fitted in the harness, the insertable lenght gets shorter. In any case, our product descriptions tend to share the insertable length for most strap-on compatible dildos, so we have you covered. Shop Strap-On Compatible Dildos ===COLLECTION=== Sizing for Strap-On Harness To measure for a strap-on harness is much easier than measuring for the accompanying toy. Becasue most strap-on harnessses are adjustable, you can look at the general product description where we share the range of adjustability, so you will know your chosen model will be the right ft. Measure you waist for the main waist size; then measure around your thighs where the harness will fit. For this, we recommend you use a flexible tape measure that will allow you to wrap it around your thighs and butt, measuring the exact size you need. Also, note that most adjustable strap-on harnesses have a give of about 5-10 inches, so you can safely get a model that appeals to you visually and you can expect it will fit you nicely. If you are going after a strap-on underwear model, then you need to be more careful, as these are not adjustable. Our product descriptions list the sizes for each strap-on underwear model, which are comparable to the US dress sizes, so you can find the one that is closest to your size. We also have a plus-size strap-on harnesses and underwear category for those ladies with broader hips. Shop Strap-On Harnesses ===COLLECTION=== Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides: How to Use a Strap-On? How to Chose a Hollow Strap-On? How to Use Hollow Strap-On? How to Choose a Strap-On Harness? How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On? How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On? 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How to Use a Strapless Strap-On

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How to Use a Strapless Strap-On

by Kate Miller on Jan 21 2026
Regular dildos and vibrators are fun, but there's nothing like penetrating your partner. Better yet, as many couples would agree, enjoying internal stimulation while penetrating someone is the most fun, intimate, and pleasurable thing you can do in your bedroom. So, today, we're talking about the queen of strap-ons, the strapless strap-on! Most people avoid them and find them intimidating. It's only logical to think, how can I keep it inside while penetrating someone else? The strapless strap-on is not for beginners, but with some practice, this double-edged pleasure device can bring pleasurable stimulation and multiple orgasms to both parties involved. There are several types to choose from, and you can even make modifications to get used to it and keep the strap-on inside more manageable. Follow our guide as we explain why you should give strapless strap-ons a try, how to use strapless strap-ons, and all the available types you can choose from! Why Use a Strapless Strap-On First things first, let's discuss what a strapless strap-on is. If you have not seen one, you probably need clarification about its looks. A strapless dildos is a double-ended strap-on dildo without a harness. They feature a round bulb, a saddle, and a dildo for penetrating the receiver. The bulb is designed for people with vaginas to wear it. The main reason for using a strapless strap-on dildo is the increased pleasure and closer connection with your partner. Both partners can enjoy being penetrated, and the opportunities for multiple orgasms or finishing together are right there. Another reason to try strapless strap-ons is that they allow more spontaneity. They take less time and effort to put in; you can slide the bulb in, and you're ready for penetration. Moreover, the strapless strap-on can be more affordable since you don't have the additional expense of buying a harness and other strap-on equipment. Strapless strap-on dildos are designed to fit your vagina and are positioned for entering your partner at the right angle. No pain or bruising should be involved if you get a suitable model and lubricate correctly.   Overall, strap-less strap-ons are fantastic and can be integrated into the sex life of all couples. Since only the wearer needs to have a vagina, the sex toy can also be utilized for anal penetration of the receiver. Moreover, it can initiate gender play, role rehearsal, or even power plays in your bedroom. Shop All Strapless Strap-ons ===COLLECTION=== How to Use a Strapless Dildos While using a strapless dildo is straightforward, there are some things to consider beforehand. Strapless dildos are not suited for beginners, and someone without experience can find it hard to keep the saddle in. If you have experience using strap-ons or are confident in the strength of your pelvic mound, then utilizing this sex toy in your bedroom will be super easy. First, you need to set the mood and discuss with your partner if you both desire this. Penetration is an intimate act that can bring you closer together and open a new world of sex positions. Ensure you engage in passionate foreplay beforehand and you're both primed and relaxed. You can also use lube to ensure it slips in smoothly.   Be careful and generous with the lubricant if you use the shaft for anal penetration. When the vaginal bulb is in, and you feel comfortable, it's time to take your position. The most basic beginner positions are the missionary or doggy style. They offer comfort for both partners and are naturally the most accessible positions for penetration. If you feel more adventurous, you can also try other positions. Most importantly, take it slow and listen to your and your partner's body. Comfort on both sides is essential, and you can keep increasing the pace as both of you get used to the movements. One of the reasons many couples prefer strapless strap-ons is because of how realistic they feel during penetration. Parts of a Strapless Strap-On Depending on your preference, there are a lot of different shapes and sizes of strapless strap-on dildos you can choose from. In addition, we'll go through all the parts of a strapless strap-ons you can find: Vaginal bulb for Immense Pleasure The main part of a strapless strap-on is the vaginal bulb. This model is the easiest to insert and wear. The bulb can gently massage the G-spot without further expanding the feeling of being penetrated. The shaft, however, can come in different sizes according to the receiver's desires. For a more realistic feel, you can choose bulbs with clitoral bumps that will intensify your internal stimulation. Large Bulb for Adventurers If you want to feel more secure while wearing the strapless dildo, choosing one with a larger bulb might be the better option. The bulb is slightly curved and penetrates deeper into the vagina of the receiver, ensuring any extra movements won't result in it slipping out. Since they are more extensive, you can only expect the stimulation to be stronger. The added security allows you to experiment more with it and try riskier positions.   Add Vibrations to the Mix If you're feeling naughty, opting for a vibrating strapless strap-on will open a new realm of pleasure. Built-in vibrating mechanisms ensure you and your partner experience intensified massage and G-spot stimulation on top of the regular penetration.   Meet the Rabbit If you desire clitoral stimulation while penetrating your partner, opt for a strapless strap-on with built-in rabbit ears. The extra feature will ensure maximum pleasure while stimulating your G-spot and clitoris. Some rabbit strap-ons have a vibrating mechanism, guaranteeing explosive orgasms. Adjustable Neck Strap-on for Better Comfort This is the most tactical strapless strap-on, as it allows you the most comfort and a lot of room for experimenting with positions. The dildo and the bulb are joined in the middle with a flexible neck, which can be adjusted to fit your preference. It will allow you more freedom to shift mid-sex and play with different angles. Strap-On Dildos vs. Strapless Dildos Both strapless and strap-on dildos offer a lot of versatility, whether we're talking about size, use, or practicality. Although there is a slight distinction for the receiver, each option has a set of benefits and a few drawbacks for the person who chooses to wear it. Here are the similarities between the two: the dildo/probe on both strap-ons is very similar in size, girth, and material. Also, both strap-on dildos and strapless dildos can be vibrating and textured. Strap-on dildos are more practical for rough sex as the harness provides secure holding of the dildo during penetration. Also, the strap-on dildos usually come with adjustable O-rings, and you can use these with various harnesses. In a way, the strap-on dildos are a better option for beginners looking to penetrate someone, as these are more secure and come in various designs. However, you must purchase a harness to use with your strap-on dildo and try it out before you can use it with your partner. The harness can be a turn-off for someone, as they come with straps and require adjustability. Please note that some strap-on dildos can cause pain to the pelvic mound after prolonged use and vigorous play. On the other side, strapless strap-ons are designed for pleasure of both partners. You and your partners can both be penetrated at the same time; the woman controls the strapless dildo with her Kegel muscles and the other partner (whether female or male) can enjoy being penetrated. Strapless dildos also provide targeted clitoral stimulation, especially in models with vibrations and even rabbit clit stimulators. These are also easier to put on and take off, and if you don't like the sensation, you can easily take it off and continue with your sexy game. Still, the strapless dildos request the use of your pelvic muscles, which means you'll need to work to strengthen them before trying the sex toy. Overall, strapless strap-ons are not something for beginners, but lucky for all novices, many strapless strap-ons can be used with a harness until you gain enough experience and confidence to use these as intended. How to Keep the Bulb In It is the most critical question for many women looking to try a strapless strap-on face. Honestly, the answer could be tricky. The vagina is self-lubricating, so the interior can become quite slippery, it may become nearly impossible to keep the bulb in place. You also have to think about the weight of the strapless strap-on. Some materials are heavier than others; if you consider any electronic mechanisms inside, your pelvic muscles may not be up to the task. Next comes penetration. The movements and the slippery environment may easily result in your strap-on slipping out. There’s also the added resistance of the place you’re penetrating. For example, your partner’s vagina will also be wet, and depending on the angle of the position, it may be easier to penetrate. On the other hand, the anus is tighter and may require a lot of strength to thrust in and out of it.   Start exercising your pelvic floor muscles to strengthen them and be able to hold the strapless strap-on bulb inside. As a by-product of improved pelvic floor mucles, you can get deeper orgasms. An exciting way to do this is to use Kegel balls – insert the balls in the vagina and flex the pelvic floor muscles to strengthen them. Note that you shouldn’t flex your glutes while wearing a strapless strap-on, as it has the opposite effect on your pelvic muscles. Our advice is to try sex positions that provide extra comfort and allow you to better grip the vaginal bulb. One pose for this is for you to lie on your back and have your partner ride you, as it allows more control and comfort for both partners. Strapless Dildo with Strap-On Harnesses & Strap-On Underwear If you want to keep using your strapless toy but require a helping hand, you can opt for strap-on underwear. We’re talking about specially designed panties or boxers with strategically located holes for the strapless dildo to fit in.   These are a convenient choice because they allow you to enjoy the appeal of the double-ended strap-on while eliminating the possibility of it slipping out at any time. You get the same pleasure and experience minus the constant worry. The only downside here is that you need to find the right fit of underwear for the size of your toy. In addition, some people feel that wearing underwear during sex takes a bit out of the visual appeal. For those who are concerned about the sexual and aesthetic appeal in the bedroom, using a harness cam be the best option. You can use multiple strapless strap-ons with a harness that has adjustable O-rings. There's no real downside to this option except the added cost. Depending on your preferred design, some harnesses can be costly, but that's nothing compared to the pleasure you get in return. Additionally, you can use one harness with multiple toys, so their longevity is guaranteed.   Final thoughts Both traditional and strapless strap-ons are excellent choices that can enrich your sex life. The added bulb variations, the shaft's design, and extra features, such as the rabbit ears or vibrating motors, are more reasons to opt for the strapless dildo. As we stated, this sex toy might be challenging for beginners, but there's a solution to that problem. You can devote yourself to Kegel exercises, start using Kegel balls, and try out a few of our tips for keeping the bulb in during sex. While you get used to the saddle, you can opt for strap-on underwear or a traditional harness to rest assured that the sex toy will stay in place. You can also make full use of an adjustable strapless dildo and enjoy a variety of positions that are guaranteed to bring you and your partner to climax every time. There's no need to wait – browse our store for the most exciting sex toys that will spice up your bedroom! Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides Strap-Ons - Sizing Guide Strap-Ons - How to Use Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Use a Hollow Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-On Harnesses Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-On Strap-Ons- How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On Learn About our Favorite Strap-On Sex Toys Best Strap-On Dildos Best Double Sided Strap-Ons Best Hollow Strap-Ons Best Vibrating Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Harnesses Best Strapless Strap-Ons Best DP Strap-Ons Best DP Toys Best DP Rings Best Strap-Ons for Beginners Best Prostate Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Sets Best Vac-U-Lock Strap-Ons Best Vac-U-Lock Attachments Best Strap-Ons for Men Best Silicone Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Underwear Best Small Strap-On Sets
How to Use a Hollow Strap-On

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How to Use a Hollow Strap-On

by Kate Miller on Jan 21 2026
Although slightly less popular than the original strap-on dildos, hollow strap-ons are still very used sex toys in couples' play. They are primarily marketed to men with conditions such as erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation; however, they can offer significant benefits for the receiver, whether man or woman. However, the sex toy industry transformed this medical aid into an exciting toy that even people without any issues in that department can enjoy. Our article will discuss why and how you should use a hollow strap-on sex toy. One thing is sure: the hollow strap-on never goes flaccid, and you can please your partner for hours on end! What is a Hollow Strap-On? The hollow strap-on was long regarded as a medical device for people with erectile dysfunction who want to partake in intercourse. While it is no natural treatment for the condition, it allows the men to engage in penetrative sex and please their partner without an erection. However, today, the hollow strap-on is much more than that. Hollow dildos are recommended as a fun sex toy just as much as they're relied upon as a medical aid. Even if you can achieve an erection, you can use the hollow strap-on dildo to change the size of your penis and experiment with different textures. As the name suggests, the hollow strap-on is a dildo-shaped sex toy that is hollow inside and worn over the penis with a harness connecting it to the man's body. The harness ensures the dildo stays on no matter the intensity of the penetration. The sex toy is designed to fit an erect or flaccid penis, and you can wear it even after your erection goes down, as long as your partner needs it. It is especially suited for men who face premature ejaculation issues and want to last longer in bed. Overall, hollow strap-on dildos are firm, so they are less flexible and not overly realistic. However, you can find aesthetically pleasing hollow dildos made of rugged silicone, which have a good feel and are easy to upkeep. Shop All Hollow Dildo Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== How to Use a Hollow Strap-On Dildo Using a hollow strap-on doesn't differ too much from using a regular harness dildo. You first must ensure your sex toy is clean, you have lube handy, and you and your partner are primed. Here's how you can use a hollow dildo strap-on: Get Comfortable with the Harness It's best to try the harness beforehand and adjust it, ensuring you're not making it too tight or too loose. Overly tightened harness can restrict blood flow to the area, making it harder to get an erection. You'll also want your penis to get used to the feel, so make sure you wear it for a while to get used to it. Charged & Loaded Hollow Strap-On If you decide to use a vibrating hollow strap-on, make sure it is fully charged. Many models operate on batteries. However, most modern hollow strap-ons can be USB-charged and can last for hours. If you are using an ejaculating hollow strap-on, load it with your preferred fluid. Get in the Mood Getting a penis enlargement is all good, but never skip the foreplay. You can experiment with hot and cold play, add restraints to the mix or use other sex toys, such as a bullet vibrator for the clit or nipple clamps. Apply Lube Lube is your best friend anytime you introduce a new sex toy to your sexy games and never skip lube with your hollow dildo strap-on. The penetration can be challenging for the wearer and may cause the penis to chafe inside. To avoid this, add a generous amount of lube to the inner channel. Also, use a good amount of lube on the outside of the hollow strap-on. Since the options are Cyberskin and silicon materials for the most part, it's best to choose a water-based lubricant as this lube is compatible with all sex toy materials. Openly Communicate with your Partner Having sex with a harness demands time to adjust yourself, so it is vital to keep open communication before, through, and after the penetration. Because your penis has diminished sensations, make sure you check with your partner and ask if something is not working for them. Cleaning a Hollow Dildo Strap-On We recommend silicone hollow dildo strap-ons for their flexibility, durability, and lifelike feel. Also, these are the easiest to clean. Before washing your hollow dildo, if possible, remove it from the harness. In terms of hygiene, if it is rated as waterproof, you can usually submerge the hollow strap-on fully into water, and you can use an antibacterial sex toy cleaner to cleanse it. Additionally, you can use a soft bristle brush to reach the deepest parts of the hollow strap-on. The harness (presumably made of nylon) can be placed into an underwear bag and put into the washing machine. Remember that this type of harness is susceptible to heat, so you should never put it in a drier. Once washed, leave the hollow strap-on to air dry long enough. Once the harness and the hollow dildo strap-on are dry, you can store the hollow dildo in a lint-free bag; preferably one made from silk or satin. Types of Hollow Strap-Ons Unlike other sex toys, there are not too many types of hollow strap-ons. However, the extra features and size, texture, and purpose modifications allow for much diversity. In addition, we've singled out the general classifications of hollow strap-ons. Realistic Hollow Strap-Ons - When we say realistic, we mean a hollow strap-on offering different sizes or girth (or both), realistically shaped and able to accommodate different-sized penises. The sizes vary greatly, but they usually stretch up to 12 inches or more for those desiring extreme adventures. They also have bulging veins but don't feature testicles such as ordinary dildos. Vibrating Hollow Strap-on Dildo - The vibrating hollow strap-on is the most popular pick in the bunch. This sex toy comes with a built-in bullet vibrator, usually at the tip of the dildo, and both partners can enjoy the vibrations. The best thing about the vibrating dildo is that both men and women can use it. Lesbian couples can enjoy this sex toy by inserting a regular vibrator in the hollow part for more intensive vibrations. Double Penetration Hollow Strap-on - This hollow strap-on is designed to turn your DP phantasies into reality. They are intended for the penetration of a female partner and can be worn by both men and women. Apart from the regular hollow dildo, they feature an extra penis appendage below the hollow dildo attachment. Why Use a Hollow Strap-On Dildo? Although a simple sex toy, the hollow dildo strap-on is capable of delivering multiple benefits for both men and women, such as: Impotence - This is a general problem that more and more men face. Whether because of age or hormones, impotence can take a significant toll on your mental stability. The purpose of hollow strap-ons is to restore the sexual connection in the relationship when one partner can't get an erection. The sex toy allows them to penetrate their partners without worrying about getting it up and prolonging their sex sessions. Premature ejaculation - Regarding stamina, women need longer to climax, and they generally can last longer during sex. Men, on the other hand, have much shorter intervals for cumming. In such cases, the hollow strap-on can be used in two crucial ways. First, the partner can start alone, climax, and then put the hollow strap-on on to help his woman finish. Another option is to use the hollow strap-on until both partners feel like they're about to climax. When you are close to an orgasm, you can take 'the helmet' off and enjoy an orgasm together. Penis enlargement - Hollow strap-ons can also be used as novelty sex toys for enlarging your penis. Instead of leaving your partner wanting more, you can purchase multiple hollow strap-ons of different sizes and enjoy a fun experiment. G-spot stimulation - Some hollow strap-ons feature tilted tops designed to hit the G-spot during penetration. They can hit the spot more quickly than a regular penis and provide a simple massage, depending on the intensity of the penetrations. Anal sex - There are separate models of regular and vibrating hollow strap-ons made thinner. It allows the wearer to experience more intensive sensations while the receiver doesn't need to adjust to a bigger size. The nerve endings in the anus are easily stimulated, and a hollow strap is just the thing to spice anal play. Prostate massage - Apart from the reduced thickness, you can also find hollow strap-ons with P-spot focus. These sex toys allow you to hit the prostate while penetrating your partner anally and provide a pleasurable prostate massage. You can also initiate a prostate orgasm and allow your partner to experience a new level of pleasure. Lighter fit - Contrary to dildos, hollow strap-ons are much lighter. It puts less pressure on the wearer and allows them to move and penetrate more freely. Final thoughts Men with medical reasons are bound to use a hollow strap-on if they want to have an active sex life. However, that doesn't restrict all guys with fully functioning penises from exploring the available options. If that's the case, measure your penis fully erect to ensure the hollow strap-on you wear fits properly. The hollow strap-on guarantees you last a long time and will allow you to please your partner without stopping for a break. We have a detailed guide on how to choose a hollow dildo stap-on in our blog, along with a lot more posts on how to use and how to choose We have you covered, as we offer a nice variety of hollow dildo strap-ons, as our store is also supplied with an excellent choice of exciting sex toys! Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides: Strap-On Sizing Guide How to Use a Strap-On How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On How to Choose a Hollow Strap-On How to Choose Strap-On Harnesses How to Choose a Strap-On How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On Learn About our Favorite Strap-On Sex Toys Best Strap-On Dildos Best Double Sided Strap-Ons Best Hollow Strap-Ons Best Vibrating Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Harnesses Best Strapless Strap-Ons Best DP Strap-Ons Best DP Toys Best DP Rings Best Strap-Ons for Beginners Best Prostate Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Sets Best Vac-U-Lock Strap-Ons Best Vac-U-Lock Attachments Best Strap-Ons for Men Best Silicone Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Underwear Best Small Strap-On Sets
How To Use a Strap-On with Your Partner

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How To Use a Strap-On with Your Partner

by Kate Miller on Jan 21 2026
Sex is one of the most enjoyable activities you can do, and adding toys only makes it more engaging, exciting, and fulfilling. It is why many adventurous couples enjoy experimentation, take things a step further, and use a strap-on with their partner. In this guide, we discuss all the essentials about strap-ons and share everything you should know about how to use a strap-on. How To Use Strap-Ons Using a strap-on requires getting used to it, and it is one of those activities you need to discuss with your partner. Get a strap-on model that you and your partner are comfortable with and learn all you can about your toy; here are the key things to know on how to use a strap-on: Get a strap-on that fits – before anything else, you need to ensure that your chosen strap-on model will fit your body and you can comfortably wear it. Learn how to put the strap-on harness on and take it off, and try the same with the strapless strap-on if this is your choice. Wear the strap-on for a while – put the strap-on and wear it around the house for a while (while you are alone with your partner) to get used to its weight and to get used to the movements. Use lube – always use lube with a strap-on toy to make things slide easily and comfortably. Make sure you are using a lube that is compatible with the material your strap-on is made, so we advise you to stick to water-based lubes for safe and comfortable playtime. Start slow – because the strap-on attaches to your body, you can't precisely feel how it enters your partner, so you need to be slow and careful when you first penetrate your partner. Stop often and make sure your partner is comfortable and there is enough lube. You can always stop and rest for a while to make sure you are both comfortable. Use a condom – condoms over sex toys can simplify cleaning and provide a barrier against contaminating the sex toys with potentially harmful bacteria. Also, condoms are compatible with more lube options for even less friction and more comfortable playtime. Shop All Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== Why Use a Strap-On While the answer to this question may seem obvious to some, others may not be that familiar with the possibilities a strap-on can bring into the bedroom. However, you should use a strap-on because it is fun! One example that comes to mind is for lesbian couples, where the strap-on allows you to have penetrative sex with your partner. Many strap-on devices come with a vibrating feature that stimulates the clitoris; others come with extra features like an insertable vibrating egg, like the strapless strap-on version. Another example is for heterosexual couples, where the man can add a strap-on to their body to provide a double penetration experience to their partner. The strap-on gives you a chance to take a break and recover during sex while not leaving your partner hanging. There are also specially-designed strap-on sex toys that can be put over a penis, allowing men with erectile dysfunction to have a satisfying sexual experience. Women can use a strap-on to peg their men for a pleasurable reversal of roles or during BDSM playtime. Strap-On Basics The strap-on functionalities seem straightforward, but there are some key things to know. There is much versatility between different types of strap-ons; the best one depends on your specific needs. Before we continue our guide on using a strap-on, here are a few strap-on basics you should know when choosing the optimal option for you: Strap-Ons Vs. Harness-Compatible Dildos The first thing you must consider is the flexibility of the design of your strap-on. For example, many couples prefer full-on strap-ons because of their practicality. This pertains to a complete strap-on kit that includes a harness and a dildo.But there is also the option to purchase a strap-on harness only and then select a suitable harness-compatible dildo. This approach allows you to mix and match - use different dildos with the same harness. O-Ring The O-ring is the essential part of any strap-on harness: it is the ring that connects the dildo and the harness. Here we need to note that the diameter of the O-ring determines the type of dildo that can be placed in your harness. We recommend you opt for harnesses that allow changing of the O-rings, as it will allow you to change the dildos and try models in different sizes, shapes, and materials. Additionally, there are strap-on kits that include a harness with interchangeable O-rings and a palette of dildos with different circumferences and lengths you can use gradually. Harness Types The harness style plays a vital role in the comfortable use of this sex toy. Basically, there are two main styles: underwear and strap-on harnesses.   The strap-on boxers resembles regular underwear and is the most practical option for beginners. This style provides good support around the hips and thighs and allows better control of your movements. People looking for the visual aspect can opt for a thong harness. These come in many intriguing designs, including lace and G-strings; however, the visual appeal compromises flexibility. These may feel less secure during vigorous movement. Strap-on harnesses go around your waist and provide a similar security as thongs harnesses. They resemble the jockstraps male athletes wear, and some come with a fixed dildo and others have interchangeable o-rings which makes them a practical and visually pleasing option that even beginners can quickly get accustomed to. Best Positions To Use Strap-Ons Depending on the type of strap-on you choose, there are different positions you could try to hit the sweet spot and achieve maximum pleasure. Here are some suggestions:   Missionary: The missionary pose is a great option that will allow you more intimacy with your partner while experiencing new things. It's best to place a pillow below your partner's back to ensure their body is in an optimum position to receive your dildo. Doggy style: A universally accepted position for beginners to strap-on sex is doggy style. This allows your partner to expose their genitals fully and provides you with more flexibility during penetration. Spooning: If you want to achieve fast and intense orgasms, choosing a spooning position is the best option. You can lay on either side and stay pressed to your partner's body, allowing you to go through the penetration motions slowly and deeply. Cowgirl/Cowboy: For the adventurers, the cowgirl or cowboy positions can be pretty exciting. These give extra agility to the person being penetrated and allow them to control the depth of the strap-on, leaving you - the wearer - with less power over the motions but a better view. Important Things To Consider Knowing what your partner wants is the first step to finding the perfect strap-on dildo. Additionally, your level of mobility with a strap-on also plays a significant role in the overall enjoyment. It's best to choose a smaller size, especially if you're opting for a pegging strap-on, and move on to larger dildos once your partner feels more comfortable. We suggest you choose comfort and practicality over visual appeal. Handling a strap-on while penetrating someone is challenging enough without worrying that your harness will move or fall off. Material plays a vital role, and you should choose non-porous materials that will be durable for longer and ensure they are body safe for you and your partner. Additionally, extra attention should be paid to the cleaning process, especially if both partners share the toy and use it reversibly. Beginners should stick to regular strap-ons rather than strapless strap-ons. Choosing a strap-on with a firmly attached dildo will allow you better motion from the start and less worry about dildo compatibility. Going slow and checking in with your partner before and during strap-on sex will ensure a pleasurable experience for both of you and open the doors to even more experimentation in your sex life. Final Thoughts One sex toy - thousands of sensations! The opportunities for pleasure are more than expected with a strap-on toy. Between different types of harnesses, dildos, and even more versatility with added features such as vibrating or squirting mechanisms, you can modify your strap-on experience to your liking. The versatility of materials, shapes, and sizes enhances your pleasure. You can find many strap-on options, and we suggest you take the plunge, expand your sexual horizons and enjoy a mutually-satisfying sexual experience. Please browse our store for more exciting products! Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides: Strap-On Sizing Guide How to Choose a Strap-On? How to Chose a Hollow Strap-On? How to Use a Hollow Strap-On? How to Choose a Strap-On Harness? How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On? 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How Do Strapless Strap-Ons Work?

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How Do Strapless Strap-Ons Work?

by Kate Miller on Jan 21 2026
Whether you’d like to make girl-on-girl action hotter or you’re curious about pegging, a good strap-on is a must-try. But since not all strap-ons are made the same, we feel we must cover all the bases, and here we’ll discuss how a strapless strap-on works. A strapless strap-on gives you the perfect chance to take your playtime to the next level. Wearing a strapless strap-on will be incredibly liberating because there’s no harness to limit your movements. Strapless strap-on use is also linked to a lot more pleasure for the wearer. They can even be used for some innovative self-exploration with a kinky twist. What Is a Strapless Strap-On? Unlike a regular strap-on, however, the strapless strap-on model doesn’t have a harness, but has a retention bulb and an insterable probe. Instead, the strap-on has a retention bulb that goes inside the wearer’s vagina. A penetration probe is attached to the retention bulb, allowing the wearer to be the active party during penetrative sex. A strapless strap-on is a sex toy that allows the wearer to perform penetrative sex on their partner, just like a regular strap-on would. The wearer is meant to hold the strapless strap-on in place with the strength of their pelvic floor muscles. Those muscles are the ones you need to squeeze when you want to stop peeing. Like other muscles, they can be exercised and strengthened – an activity that leads to significant reproductive health improvements. Additionally, the retention bulb can target the wearer’s G-spot, meaning both partners will get immense enjoyment from it. How a Strapless Strap-On Works Strapless strap-on use entails a basic understanding of anatomical specifics. The retention bulb is slightly rounder and bigger than a regular penetrative probe. It fits comfortably inside the vagina while also securing the strap-on in place and making it intuitive to use. When the bulb is in place, the pelvic floor muscles need to be “tightened” around it. Some newbies find out they need time to master the strapless strap-on, and that’s ok. In the beginning, it can be secured with a harness to make things a bit easier. As an active wearer grows more confident and increase their ability to “squeeze” on the retention bulb, the harness can be removed. For a strapless strap-on to work, it’s imperative to find the correct bulb shape and size. It’s also crucial for the angle between the bulb and the penetration probe to be adjustable – which is why many quality products have a flexible connection between the two parts. These two specifics will maximize the ease of use and comfort. How to Use a Strapless Strap-On Using a strapless strap-on involves a few simple steps. The first and most important thing to understand is that you need to be patient and open to new experiences. A strapless strap-on doesn’t feel like anything you’ve used in the past. First, insert the retention bulb in the vagina, and place the clitoral pad against your vulva, making sure everything sits correctly and there is no pinching or tugging. Always have compatible lube handy, as lube is necessary to smooth things over and simplify the insertion of the retention bulb. Lube is also vital to make the penetration a lot more pleasurable, and we propose you stick to quality water-based lube. We suggest you take some time to get to know your toy before using a strapless strap-on with another person. Wear it in front of the mirror and move with it to understand how it feels. You’ll need to get used to the texture and the placement of the penetration probe. Try some thrusting to determine if you’re capable of keeping the strap-on in place when you’re engaging in vigorous activities. After you’ve completed those solo tests and you feel comfortable, you can start your partnered play with confidence. Also, you can combine the strapless strap-on with a teasing sex toy like a bullet or finger vibe for some extra stimulus. Top Tips for Using a Strapless Strap-On To help you master the strapless strap-on right off the bat, we’ve compiled a list of simple tips that will have a massive impact on your experience: Communicate with your partner: Always discuss the things you intend to do in the bedroom with your partner. Set clear boundaries and get feedback throughout the experience. Strap-on use requires a lot of good communication; don’t underestimate this aspect of sex! Please choose the suitable strapless strap-on: The size and the design of a strapless strap-on will determine its usability. Make sure the retention bulb and the penetration probe are sized to meet your experience level. Choosing the suitable material is also vital – medical-grade silicone will always be a safe bet. Practice solo and get used to the strap-on: Most people need some time to master a strapless strap-on. Take it slow and try the item on your own first. Make sure the retention bulb goes inside smoothly. It should feel both comfortable and arousing if you’ve done everything correctly. Find the right lube: Both ends of a strapless strap-on should be lubed up for a good experience. Make sure your lube of preference is compatible with the strap-on material. Water-based lubes are okay with silicone toys, as well as strap-ons made of body-safe thermoplastics. Explore some additional stimulation features: Strapless strap-ons will often have cool additional features that are massively orgasmic. Vibrating strapless strap-ons are very popular because of their stimulating power. You’ll also find strapless strap-ons that have clitoral stimulation pads for the wearer or inflatable retention bulbs for a better fit and a more intense experience. Prioritize strap-on hygiene: We can’t stress enough the importance of cleaning your sex toys before and after use. Wash your strapless strap-on thoroughly, disinfect it, and sterilize it if possible. It is a toy meant to be used by two people at the same time, so attention to cleanliness is essential. Make sure your strap-on is stored correctly after use: Proper sex toy storage is as necessary as good cleaning. Always air-dry your toys completely before putting them away. To maximize the lifespan of your strapless strap-on, consider putting it in a specialized sex toy storage pouch or a sex toy box. Shop All Strapless Strap-ons ===COLLECTION=== That’s it! Have fun, experiment, and explore various positions. Strapless strap-ons give you so much freedom. Even if you need some time to master the gadget, you can still have a lot of fun while learning. Having your partner on top will simplify things and give both of you a good idea about what the strapless strap-on can do. Please check out our sex toy store and our strapless strap-on range, as we feature some of the most reputable adult brands, and we carry a broad range of models that accommodate the needs and sexual preferences of a wide audience. Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides Strap-Ons - Sizing Guide Strap-Ons - How to Use Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Use a Hollow Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-On Harnesses Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On FAQs How to wear a strapless strap-on? Get warmed up and aroused before trying to insert the strapless strap-on. The vagina relaxes and elongates when you’re sexually excited, which facilitates penetration. Apply enough lube to the retention bulb and slide it inside. You should feel a sense of fullness but no discomfort when it’s inserted correctly. If you feel that you can’t hold the strapless strap-on well enough, use a supportive harness during the first few sessions. What is the best material for a strapless strap-on? High-quality strapless strap-ons are made of medical-grade silicone. You may find alternatives out there, but various materials like jelly and rubber aren’t body-safe. Silicone and body-safe thermoplastics like TPE and TPR are much better picks. What is the best lube for a strapless strap-on? The right lube depends on the material that a sex toy is made of. Water-based lube is compatible with most sex toys, and if you pick a high-quality product, you’ll get longevity, good glide, no stickiness, and effortless cleaning. 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How to Choose Strap-On Underwear?

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How to Choose Strap-On Underwear?

by Kate Miller on Jan 21 2026
Comfort and sex appeal come together with strap-on underwear. Unlike a regular harness, the strap-on underwear provides a definite comfy fit while supporting your chosen toy and facilitating strap-on playtime. You can easily find the model that matches your preferences – thongs, briefs, boxers, boyshorts, etc. The strap-on underwear is designed to hold a probe, allowing you to explore so many new facets of sexual pleasure. If you’d like to try pegging or sexy girl-on-girl action, strap-on underwear will deliver what you need and then some. To help you choose the suitable model, we have compiled the following guide on selecting strap-on underwear, along with practical tips and suggestions. What Is Strap-On Underwear? As the name suggests, this is inspired by regular strap-on harnesses, but instead of straps, you get a pair of undies that can hold a probe in a stable front pocket. Wearing strap-on underwear gives you comfort and makes you feel sexy. To use strap-on panties and boxers, you have to tuck a dildo in the front placket and put the undies on. The front placket features an O-ring that stabilizes the dildo, allowing you to penetrate your partner. Strap-on underwear can be used in most sex positions. The wearer can be the active side (topping their partner), or they can be straddled, allowing the person who’s being penetrated to take charge. How to Select Strap-On Underwear Now that you know how strap-on underwear works, let’s examine the product characteristics that determine quality and satisfaction with the purchase. When choosing strap-on underwear, you need to be looking at the following: Model and size: The model you prefer when buying regular underwear will probably be a good choice for strap-on underwear. Also, look at the manufacturer’s sizing chart. The fact that you wear a specific size in regular underwear doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll get a great fit with a strapless piece. Please double-check what the manufacturer suggests regarding sizing to ensure a perfect fit. O-ring size: A metal O-ring in the front pocket of your strap-on underwear isn’t the best choice. Even if there’s some padding, you’ll still feel it pressing against your body. Instead, we suggest you opt for strap-on underwear with a flexible O-ring. Usually, such rings are made of silicone, and they support the dildo well enough without making you experience any discomfort. Dildo compatibility: Unless you’re buying strap-on underwear and penetrative probe combos, you should make sure that the product is compatible with the dildos that you own. For this purpose, pay attention to the O-ring size. The diameter should be bigger than your dildo’s shaft. Also, the base of the dildo needs to be wider than the O-ring so that it sits well inside the pocket and doesn’t move around a lot. Additional features: Some fun additional features you may want to get from your strap-on underwear include a bullet vibrator pocket or a vibe/stimulation pad built inside the undies. Such stimulating features will allow you to experience intense clitoral stimulation while penetrating your partner – a win-win for both partners. Strap-On Underwear Models Like regular underwear, strap-on underwear is manufactured in various distinctive, sexy, and appealing designs. Some of the most common choices include: Briefs: a timeless classic, briefs feel tremendous and highlight your curves beautifully. Strap-on briefs guarantee stability, especially if the design is reinforced with an O-ring pocket in the front. Strap-on briefs are manufactured in various sizes, from petite to plus-sized, giving all ladies the perfect fit. Boxers: anyone who prefers a bit of androgyny can opt for a pair of sexy strap-on boxers. Inspired by male underwear, strap-on boxers look incredibly hot on the female body. The design is empowering – the degree of masculinity that it brings to the table can get both people involved in a sexy experiment inspired by some role reversal. Crotchless panties: Crotchless strap-on underwear is probably the most erotic choice. The design is excellent because it allows someone to top their partner and stimulate themselves. Crotchless strap-on underwear is also fantastic for couples who enjoy switching between topping and bottoming in the same session. Top Tips for Purchasing Strap-On Underwear We have a few more tips you can count on when shopping for strap-on underwear. To be fully satisfied with your purchase, go through the following steps before buying: Choose a great fit: Unlike strap-on harnesses, strap-on underwear isn’t adjustable, so you need to ensure the fit is perfect. Many undies are made from somewhat elastic materials that can stretch a bit to accommodate your curves. Trying to squeeze in underwear that’s too tight or having a piece hanging loose on your body, however, will impact both your comfort and your sex performance. You know your body well – pick the model that will fit you best. Also, get the correct size, even if the manufacturers’ chart suggests you need to go bigger than what you’d usually purchase. Choose a comfy material: Not all strap-on underwear pieces are created equal. Some are simply crafted from better fabrics that caress the skin and make you feel like a queen. Breathable fabrics like cotton and microfiber are always a great choice. Alternatively, you can opt for durable picks like soft polyester. Satin and lace strap-on undies look extra feminine and sultry. Choose a model with a flexible O-ring: We’ve already touched upon this essential, but it’s important enough to warrant repetition. A flexible O-ring is a prerequisite for a comfortable experience. Don’t worry about the softness of silicone – it can still hold a dildo in place. The material will get the job done without digging into your pubic mound. Opt for a model with some additional features: Even if you don’t intend to use the extra features every single time, they can be fun to experience every once in a while. A small pocket that houses a vibrating bullet allows for some sexy experimentation, especially if you don’t own vibrating dildos. The same applies to a stimulation pad that’s built into the design of the strap-on undies. It’s up to you to decide whether you’ll stimulate yourself during that particular session or not. Strap-on underwear is excellent for beginners and satisfies the needs of experienced role reversal and pegging. With so many models and designs to choose from, you’ll quickly discover the product that meets your needs and also corresponds to your aesthetic preferences. Check out our sex toy store and our varied strap-on underwear range – we promise you that you’ll feel aroused and ready for some intense, sexy action by the end of your research. Shop All Strap-On Underwear ===COLLECTION=== FAQ Will strap-on underwear help me peg my man?       That’s one of the primary purposes of strap-on underwear. Strap-on undies are meant to act as a replacement for classic harnesses. They are very stable and intuitive to use, allowing for effortless pegging. Just choose the suitable probe to partake in this kind of sexy activity! What dildo fits with strap-on underwear? The answer depends on the strap-on underwear specifics. To find out if a particular model is going to work with the dildo that you own, check the diameter of the O-ring built into the undies. The O-ring diameter needs to be slightly bigger than the girth of your dildo. How can I wash my strap-on underwear? Always check the strap-on underwear’s label before washing. Most strap-on underwear models are machine-washable and dryer-compatible. All you need to do is check the water temperature recommendations to prevent the fabric from shrinking. If you’d like to extend the lifespan of your strap-on underwear, wash it by hand. Can I fit a bullet vibe in strap-on underwear? You can fit a bullet vibrator inside strap-on underwear models that have a pocket for the purpose. It may still be possible to squeeze a bullet inside the pocket of regular strap-on undies, but the effect of the vibrations isn’t going to be optimal this way. Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides Strap-On Sizing Guide How to Use a Strap-On? How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On? How to Use a Hollow Strap-On? How to Choose a Strap-On Harnesses? How to Choose a Strap-On? How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On? 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The Best Strap-On Sex Positions to Try

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The Best Strap-On Sex Positions to Try

by Kate Miller on Jan 21 2026
Strap-on sex is fun and full of possibilities. But it requires you to talk it over with your partner and be mindful of much more than simply putting on the strap-on harness and going at it. There is a learning curve, but no worries, there are no complex moves involved in strap-on play. You should keep a few things in mind when doing strap-on play, namely the angle of penetration and the amount of lube you use. Today, we share our guide through the best positions for strap-on sex, and we’ll also share invaluable advice on how to make strap-on sex more pleasurable for the giver. Please note that this is not an exhaustive list but includes several suggestions to get you started, and once you build up confidence, you can enjoy more positions and angles of penetration. Get Started with Strap-On Sex Before we share some of the best positions to have strap-on sex, we should quickly rundown through the basics of getting started with strap-on sex. First off, discuss things with your partner and obtain their consent. Then, choose an appropriate strap-on harness and dildo. We have some excellent strap-on guides in our blog, which we urge you to check out, as we cover all the key things that you need for good strap-on play, including a strap-on sizing guide, how strap-ons work, and so much more. When you and your partner decide on the type of strap-on play you wish to engage in, you need to pick out your strap-on harness and dildo. Make sure you get a well-fitting harness that you can securely put on and adjust to your body. Then, choose the dildo and place it in the harness, and make sure the dildo corresponds to your experience level and intended use. For sexy and exciting options, check out our selection of dildos for strap-ons. Put on the harness and practice walking and moving with it. You don’t want to put it on for the first time before sex and risk hurting yourself or your partner. Once you have everything nicely settled and your body accustomed to the strap-on, grab the lube, and you are all set. When it comes to lube, it is non-negotiable, as the anus is not self-lubricating. We recommend you stick to quality water-based lube, as this is compatible with all sex toy materials and skin types. If it starts to dry, a few drops of water will reactivate it, or you can always apply more of it. We don’t recommend you use silicone, or oil lubes, as these can mess up the strap-on dildo surfaces. If you have doubts about hygiene, the receiving partner can do an anal douche to cleanse their body, and you can also use condoms for added safety and easier cleanup. Best Positions for Strap-On Sex When you have everything ready, you can get down to business with your partner. While it will take you some time to get in the groove of moving and thrusting with the strap-on, practice will take care of this. We have to remind you to go slow, as you will not get the same feeling with the strap-on, as you don’t feel it, but it depends on interpreting your partner’s responses. Start with beginner-friendly strap-on sex positions and move on to more advanced poses when you and your partner gain some experience. Missionary – the missionary pose is a classic for a reason, and this pose is excellent for first-time strap-on users. The man lies on his back and puts a pillow under the hips to elevate them and have a better angle of penetration. The woman comes between his legs, positioning the strap-on dildo and slowly entering her partner. The woman controls the pace, but the man has his hands free for further exploration of the woman’s body. Rear Entry – this pose is perfect for beginners in pegging. The man is lying face-down on the bed in a relaxed pose, and the woman straddles his thighs and slowly enters him from behind. It may not be the best pose for first-time strap-on users, but once you gain some experience, you can freely try this pose. The position allows the woman to control the movement and the depth of penetration and leaves the hands free to explore her man’s back. To boost intimacy, the woman can lie on top of her man or caress them sensually. To reenact a D/s pose, the woman can pin and hold her man down while penetrating them. Cow Girl/Rodeo Rider – when the woman is on top, riding the man, the pose is known as the Cow Girl pose. However, because more often, the woman wears the harness and penetrates her man, this pose is called the Rodeo Rider. The woman lies on her back, and the man straddles her thighs, slowly coming down on the strap-on dildo. The man will control the depth and speed of penetration, and the woman won’t have to move too much. It is excellent for beginners because both partners can become more comfortable with using the strap-on, and the hands can be engaged in stimulating the penis, the breasts, or the vagina. Spooning Sex – the spooning sex pose is excellent for lazy sex, and it can also be perfect for strap-on sex. Both partners lie on their sides, and the woman slowly eases the strap-on while whispering in her man’s ear. The woman can drape her leg over his hips, or the man can lift his top leg for better access and control of the movements. It is excellent for people with intermediate experience, and it also allows the woman to reach around and stimulate his penis with the nipples or hold her partner in place and whisper encouraging or sexy words. Doggy Style – America’s favorite sex pose is excellent for strap-on sex as well. This is a powerful pose that has so much potential as it is perfect for vaginal sex, anal sex, and pegging. The man gets on all fours, and the woman gets behind him, angling and slowly pushing the strap-on in. The man is free to play with their penis or simply enjoy the P-spot stimulation. If the woman is shorter than the man, she can put a pillow under her knees to gain some height, or the man can bend his knees to lower his body. Bent Over – this pose requires one partner to be bent over a suitable piece of furniture, and the other partner penetrates them from behind. For strap-on sex, you should find a furniture item that is the right height for the woman to comfortably penetrate her man. We recommend you test a table, an armchair, or the side of the couch, or get a special sex bench that is optimized in shape and height. The man should lean over, draping their body over the chosen furniture, and the woman approaches and penetrates him from behind. Similar to doggy style, this position allows the woman to pin down her man and caress his back. Sandwich – this position is interesting, as it is a variation of the missionary pose, but requires some experience. The man lies on his back and brings his knees up towards their chest. It leaves his back door open and ready, and the woman approaches from the front, slicing between his legs and starting to penetrate him. She needs to grab his thighs and use them for leverage while thrusting. P-Spot Target – similar to the sandwich pose we explained above, the P-Spot Target pose requires the man to lie on his back and bring his legs up, lifting his butt. We recommend you use a sex pillow to elevate the body and keep it in a comfortable position. The woman gets on her knees, with her legs slightly open for better stability and leverage, and penetrates her man. The woman can play with the man’s penis and bring him to incredible orgasmic heights. Sitting Sex – is more common for lap dances and a man penetrating a woman; the sitting pose is also suitable for strap-on sex. The woman should sit down on a comfortable chair, and the man needs to straddle her thighs and slowly come down on the strap-on dildo. The man’s legs are often longer, which makes this a comfortable pose for him, as he can control the depth and angle of penetration. The man’s legs can be on the outside of the woman’s thighs for better control of the depth, or he can have the legs on the inside of the woman’s spread legs for more pressure and pleasure. How to Improve Strap-On Sex for the Wearer Now, let’s talk about some creative and fun ways you can improve strap-on play for the person wearing the strap-on, which is often the woman. While this sex game can be stimulating psychologically, there is little actual physical stimulation for the woman. Thus, additional toys are necessary. The main way to make strap-on sex more pleasurable for the woman is to use a strapless strap-on toy that is designed and optimized for the simultaneous stimulation of both partners. We loved testing these, and we refer you to our guide on how strapless strap-ons work and how to use a strapless strap-on. An egg vibrator is another excellent option to add to when engaging in strap-on sex. The egg vibe is insertable and sits in the vagina, while you can slip on the harness on top and enjoy the vibrations as you pleasure your partner. We recommend you get a quality vibrating egg with a wireless remote controlled and even hand over the remote to your partner and allow them to control your pleasure while you fill them up with your strap-on. The next option to consider is the vibrating panty. These are slim-shaped vibrators that slip and clip on panties, positioning against the clit and providing extra sensations while you penetrate your partner. Please note that these only work with underwear-style harnesses that have enough room for the panty vibe to clip to. Quality models come with wireless remotes so that you can change the settings and vibration levels mid-play. Using a butt plug when you engage in strap-on play is another viable option, as the butt plug will keep your nerves in a state of heightened arousal and make you needy for sex. We recommend you get a quality anal vibe with a wireless remote or get a glass butt plug that is firm and weighty and will provide a feeling of fullness. The wand vibe is a woman’s friend, and it can be pretty helpful when engaging in strap-on sex. You can use the wand to provide vibrations at the base of the strap-on dildo so that both partners can feel the vibrations, or you can focus the wand’s vibrating head on the underside of the man’s penis while filling them up with the strap-on. The Bottom Line We hope that you found our guide on the best strap-on sex positions helpful and that we’ve helped you with some issues or fears. Please note that strap-on sex is not for everybody, but if you want to try it, there should be no fear or shame. Talk things over with your partner, choose an appropriate strap-on harness and dildo, and enjoy. There is nothing wrong with widening your sexual horizons and exploring your kinks, and we support you fully in your road to sexual exploration. We invite you to check out our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of strap-ons, vibrators, dildos, male sex toys, anal toys, sexy lingerie, BDSM gear, and all else for a more fulfilling sex life. Shop All Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides: How to Use a Strap-On? How to Chose a Hollow Strap-On? How to Use Hollow Strap-On? How to Choose a Strap-On Harness? How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On? How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On? 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How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On: Everything You Need to Know

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How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On: Everything You Need to Know

by Kate Miller on Jan 12 2026
If you are keen on expanding your sexual horizons and need something to spice things up in the bedroom, then we suggest you give strapless strap-ons a try. There are a lot of strap-ons on the market, but the strapless strap-on may be the best choice for you and your partner, as it lets you spice things up and enjoy various sexual acts without the harness and straps between your bodies. If you like to peg your man and also enjoy yourself at the same time, then this is for you. Also, lesbian couples can enjoy it, as it allows simultaneous stimulation for the wearer and the receiver. Since strap-ons are getting popular among various users, we have prepared the following guide to help you learn how you can select a strapless strap-on that will provide you and your partner deep pleasure. What is a Strapless Strap-On? For those of you who don’t know, here is a short definition and explanation of what is a strapless strap-on. Unlike a regular strap-on that requires a harness, the strapless strap-on is a sex toy that requires no straps or harnesses to be used. One end of the toy gets inserted in the vagina – the part shaped like an eff, while the insertable probe, shaped like a dildo, goes into the other partner. We have prepared a more detailed guide on this topic. Strapless Strap-On Types Strapless strap-ons come in many shapes and sizes, and you can choose models made from different materials. However, we’ve used one key feature to divide these into two categories: non-vibrating strapless strap-ons and vibrating strapless strap-ons. Vibrating strapless strap-ons provide you with ultimate pleasure for both partners. There are vibrating mechanisms on both ends; one stimulates one partner, while the other side stimulates the other partner. The vibrations can be controlled remotely in many models, which can increase the pleasure. Also, some models can be inflated, and they can fit more appropriately for needier users. Non-vibrating strapless strap-ons may seem simpler, but they can also deliver the utmost pleasure. While these may look like their vibrating counterparts, these depend on manual stimulation, as they don’t have any additional vibrating mechanisms. You may have heard of this kind of toy, but you may not know how to use it properly and have been reluctant to buy one. Don’t worry, as there are beginner models and models for experienced users. When you use a strapless strap-on, make sure that it is placed correctly, and it should stay in place when things become wild. So, you should consider the size and the added features. While some of these are welcomed, the wearer must control the movement of the strapless strap-on with the Kegel muscles, which can be challenging for some people. Shop All Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== Strapless Strap-On Shopping Options We made you a list of the most important things you should know when purchasing a strapless strap-on. There are many subtle variants, you should look for a model that fits both partners. If you both shop together, talk about what is enjoyable for you both and find the perfect fit. If you want to surprise your partner, look for the most convenient one for both of you. There are simple and cheaper versions and luxurious and expensive ones. We suggest you opt for a vibrating strapless strap-on, preferably a wirelessly controlled model, for a wild, exciting experience.   Insertable Length – On Both Ends Size is one of the essential features of strapless strap-ons. But when you look at the size of the strapless strap-on, you must look at both ends – the vaginal bulb and the insertable probe. The insertable bulb is inserted in the vagina and stimulates the wearer from the inside. It is usually shaped like an egg, and it nestles inside, which means the woman needs to have strong Kegel muscles to hold it in place. The neck of the toy sits on the outer part of the vagina and hugs the clitoral area, which is relatively similar in the various strapless strap-on models. The other end is most often shaped like a dildo and can have a smooth or realistic shape. It goes into the other partner. Because of the nature of the toy and the material it is made from, it does not act as an actual penis, so size is significant. We suggest you opt for a smaller insertable size, especially if you are just starting with strapless strap-ons, because of the shape and make of the toy. The Shape is Crucial Almost all strapless strap-ons have similar shapes because of the intended use of this sex toy. However, you can select between options like a smooth or textured shaft, a smooth or textured clitoral part, and slight variations of the vaginal bulb. It is essential to know as everyone has specific needs. For inexperienced users or for pegging, consider smaller versions with smooth surfaces. If you feel confident, try the textured features. Body-Safe Materials are a Must We are always in favor of high-quality materials like silicone, ABS, TPE, PVC, or other body-safe materials. When it comes to strapless strap-ons, silicone should be the top choice. It has the right balance between firmness and flexibility, and it is bendable enough to bring pleasure to both partners.   Vibrations are an Added Benefit As we noted above, there are manual and vibrating strapless strap-ons. If you opt for the vibrating models, please note that the vibrations can increase the range of sensations and can provide deeper pleasure. After testing many models, we found the ones that have independently controlled features to be the best suited for deeper stimulation. Having a wireless remote controller is excellent, as it allows you to control the vibrations conveniently and enjoy all the moments. Strapless Strap-On Shopping Advice We outlined the crucial aspects related to strapless strap-ons. So, please make sure you read our advice and learn how to choose the best product for you. It is also why we have condensed all of this info into a simple strapless strap-on shopping guide: Shape & Size – selecting a strapless strap-on that fits both partners is essential, so always consider the shape and size of the toy. We always advise you to start low and go slow, building up your confidence as you expand your sexual horizons. Strapless Strap-On Material – always opt for a phthalate-free body-safe material like silicone strapless strap-on. Other nonporous and body-safe materials that you can choose from are TPE and PVC. Your Experience – considering your experience level is vital, but you should also think about the intended use. Do you intend to use it for vaginal sex, pegging, or solo play? The answer will point you in the right direction: for vaginal (girl-on-girl) use, you can get a strapless strap-on with a longer insertable shaft. On the other hand, for pegging, you will need a strapless strap-on with a smoother, narrower insertable shaft. Lube Compatibility – one of the many essential things when using sex toys is lube. We prefer and always suggest a thick water-based lube, as this is compatible with all sex toy materials. While some may like the feel and long-lasting effect of silicone lube, this is not compatible with silicone or TPE toys. Cleaning and maintenance – are essential for the safety and longevity of your product. We advise you to choose waterproof and nonporous strapless strap-ons, as these are the easiest to clean. You can wash your silicone toy with water and soap or any sex toy cleaner, and if you have a strapless toy made from TPE/TPR, it may require rejuvenating powder to keep it in condition. Cleaning and maintenance are easy for high-quality, well-built strapless strap-ons, but to be sure, always read the maintenance manual on your specific toy.   Budget – always pick the best for your budget. You can see various models and various prices. Some are simpler, not vibrating, while others are luxurious and elegant, and they may cost you a bit more. Everybody needs some experimenting when it comes to sex. We are all for it and support sexual exploration and pushing your boundaries. That is why we have prepared this guide on how to choose a strapless strap-on, but also why we have an excellently stocked store that carries a broad range of exciting sex toys and much more. Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides: Strap-On Sizing Guide Strap-Ons - How to Use Strap-Ons - How to Chose Hollow Strap-Ons Strap-Ons - How to Use Hollow Strap-Ons Strap-Ons - How to Choose Strap-On Harnesses Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-Ons Strap-Ons- How to Choose Vibrating Strap-Ons FAQ How do I hold a strapless strap-on? The strapless strap-on is created to be placed in the vagina and to stay in place while it is used on the other partner. It doesn’t need much holding, but it needs the support of the Kegel muscles. This may seem like an issue, but when you try, you’ll feel it is not complicated or uncomfortable. There are many options on the market, with different shapes and sizes, so look for something that will fit you. If you are exploring solo play, you can use one part at one place at a time. Who can use a strapless strap-on? The strapless strap-on is intended to be used by two partners: it can be used by a female and a male or by two females. One side, or the bulb, is placed in the vaginal channel, and the other side, or dildo, is used to penetrate the other person. Some of the strapless strap-ons can be placed in harnesses if someone prefers it.   What is the best lube for strapless strap-on dildos? We provide a list of suggested lubes for every product. The lube compatibility depends on the material the strapless strap-on is made from. We always recommend quality, water-based lubes that are compatible with all sex toy materials. Other lube options are silicone, oil, and hybrid lubes, but these are not compatible with all materials. Always check the manufacturer’s recommendations on lube compatibility, and make sure you are not using silicone lube with silicone material. Can we use a strapless strap-on for pegging? Yes, indeed. We recommend using a strapless strap-on is intended for pegging couples. Many couples want to explore this sexual act further, and using a strapless strap-on, you can enjoy role play and experience pleasure. Learn About our Favorite Strap-On Sex Toys Best Strap-On Dildos Best Double Sided Strap-Ons Best Hollow Strap-Ons Best Vibrating Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Harnesses Best Strapless Strap-Ons Best DP Strap-Ons Best DP Toys Best DP Rings Best Strap-Ons for Beginners Best Prostate Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Sets Best Vac-U-Lock Strap-Ons Best Vac-U-Lock Attachments Best Strap-Ons for Men Best Silicone Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Underwear Best Small Strap-On Sets
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How to Choose a Hollow Strap On Dildo

by Kate Miller on Jan 12 2026
Let us discuss the hollow dildo strap-ons – these extraordinary contraptions that primarily allow people with erectile issues to have a regular sex life. But the hollow dildo strap-ons also serve other functions and help spice up a stale bedroom. The hollow strap ons have risen in popularity, and no matter your personal opinions, the hollow strap-on dildos can be used in various bedroom scenarios. Please read on as we discuss the essential things to note when choosing a hollow dildo strap-on. What is a Hollow Dildo Strap On? A hollow dildo strap-on is a firm dildo that is hollow on the inside and is attached to a harness that keeps it in place during use. It was initially designed to help men with erectile dysfunction, as the interior channel can accommodate a flaccid or semi-erect penis and allow the man to have regular sex. However, its use has evolved and now hollow strap-ons have various exciting uses. Hollow Strap-On Varieties Before we go into the particulars of choosing a hollow strapon dildo for you, we need to outline the basic versions this toy comes in. There are basically two general varieties, but don’t be let down, as these come in a significant number of options: Realistic Hollow Dildo Strap-Ons: these feature a phallic-shaped hollow dildo attached to a strap-on harness. Depending on the type and model, these come in various shades and sizes, from small-ish to models well over 12 inches in length. Please note that there are vibrating hollow dildo strap-ons that feature the same design but usually have a small bullet vibrator included in the design. Double Penetration Hollow Dildo Strap-Ons: these are very interesting, as they feature a hollow dildo on the upper section where the penis goes and a second penis appendage that sits under the hollow dildo. These are intended for double penetration. Shop Hollow Dildo Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== How to Select a Hollow Dildo Strap-On Unlike the vibrator or dildo sex toy category, the hollow dildo strap-on category is relatively limited in model options. However, that does not limit the selection, as there are hollow dildos in many colors and sizes to satisfy a broad range of users. Thus, here are the key things you must know when selecting a hollow strap-on: Hollow Dildo Size: the hollow dildo has two essential measurements, the internal size that accommodates the penis and the outer size that goes into the receiving partner. Your choice will depend on the intended use, like vaginal sex or anal penetration. Hollow Dildo Material: due to the nature of the hollow dildo strap-on, metal, and glass are not suitable choices. Instead, most hollow dildos today are made from silicone, and TPE/TPR blends like Cyberskin. These are compatible with water-based lubes and offer a realistic feel. Harness Type: The strap-on harness is an integral part of the hollow dildo strap, and the most common choices are woven nylon, fabrics, and leather. The best harness for hollow dildos should have a wide waistband and double straps that go between the legs and outside the testicles. Please note that strap-on harnesses made from woven nylon are the easiest to clean and maintain. Other Features: some hollow dildo strap-ons have extra features like vibrations. A wired or wireless remote controller usually controls the vibrating strap-on dildos and can be rechargeable via USB or have replaceable batteries. Another added feature is squirting, which is an excellent feature to capture the realistic experience. Hollow Dildo Strap-On Benefits All sex toys contribute to the excitement, and the hollow dildo strap-ons are no exception. Here we’ll share the top benefits you get by introducing a hollow dildo strapon in your sexy games: Erectile dysfunction and impotence – There are many men with impotence problems, which can be debilitating for the male ego. However, the hollow dildo strap-ons bring the solution, and men with such problems can have regular intercourse with their partners. Sometimes, if the problem is mental, the regular use of a hollow strap-on can help bring their confidence back, and they can start getting normal erections. Premature ejaculation – There are two ways a hollow strap-on can be helpful here. Either a couple has sex to the point where the male partner ejaculates, and then he wears the hollow strap-on to please his partner until they climax. Or he wears the hollow strap-on first until his partner is ready for him, and then they can both climax together. Penis enlargement – Some men wear a hollow strap-on as a way to enlarge their penis for their partner’s benefit. It is a fun way to mix things up and relieve a fantasy of bringing another man into the bedroom without the consequences. G-spot stimulation – There are hollow strap-ons with a slight curve that angles up for better G-spot stimulation. These can provide a deeper stimulation to the female partner. Anal sex and prostate massage – Some hollow strap-ons are made with anal sex in mind, so the hollow dildo is thinner for easier penetration. These are ideal for prostate massage if the partner is male. Not only can men receive stimulation from all the nerve endings that are in the rectum, but they can also receive the benefits that come with having their prostate massaged. Hollow Strap-On Purchase Tips Here is a list of the top tips we must share with you that we honed to help you when you go and buy a hollow strap-on: Check the product images to get an idea of the hollow dildo and harness design Always check the harness size and adjustability options; we suggest you opt for harnesses with wide waist straps We suggest models with double straps that cradle the testicles for more comfortable wearing for men Check the inner and outer sizes of the hollow dildo that will fit you and your partner Consider the extra features like vibrations and ejaculation for a more profound, more realistic experience. Where To Use Your Hollow Strap-On Hollow strap-ons can be used in all scenarios as regular strap-on dildos, but these provide a very different experience to both the wearer and the receiver. Rather than feeling any sensations, the wearer will actually be going through the motions. It is an excellent way for partners to prolong their lovemaking and is one of the reasons why they are so popular with men who suffer from premature ejaculation. One area that is not very often mentioned is the use of a hollow strap-on for temperature play between women. It is possible to fill a hollow strap-on with water and freeze it before strapping the strap-on into a harness. After this, performing penetration with a cold, hard dildo can send icy shivers up any receiver’s back, be it vaginal or anal intercourse. Men can also heat the hollow strap-on in warm water to introduce warmer sensations, but he does need to be careful sliding his penis into something too hot. There are other fun uses for a hollow dildo strap-on, but we’ll leave you and your partner to explore them all. Related Article How to Use a Strap-On With A Partner Cleaning & Storage Tips We suggest you opt for hollow strap-on dildos made from body-safe materials like silicone or Cyberskin/Ultraskyn blends. These are the most recommended materials because of their durability, and also the lifelike feel they provide. For the harness, your best options should be woven nylon as it will be the most comfortable to wear and the easiest to clean. After use, if possible, remove the strap-on from the harness and check it for any possible damage. If all is well, then you should clean the hollow dildo per the manufacturer’s recommendations. Most often, you can wash your hollow strap-on dildo with mild soap and warm water or any sex toy cleaner. Remember to clean the hollow dildo from the outside and inside, especially if the man has ejaculated inside. Wash and rinse everything well, ensuring no residue remains. The same goes for the harness; you should clean it per the manufacturer’s instructions. Most of the quality nylon strap-on harnesses are machine-washable. However, if you have one made from leather, this may be more challenging to clean, as leather can only be spot-cleaned. Please note that you should store your hollow strap-on dildo and harness in a separate sex toy bag that will keep it protected from the elements. The Bottom Line Everybody needs some experimenting when it comes to sex. We are all for it and support sexual exploration and pushing your boundaries. That is why we have prepared this guide on how to choose a hollow dildo strap-on, but also why we have an excellently supplied store with a wide range of exciting sex toys and much more. 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How to Choose Vibrating Strap-Ons

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How to Choose Vibrating Strap-Ons

by Kate Miller on Jan 12 2026
Strap-ons are a fun and exciting way to make things more engaging in the bedroom, but did you know that you can take things a step further with vibrating strap-ons? Yep! While most models look very similar or the same as their non-vibrating counterparts, the vibrating strap-ons bring that little extra oomph to both partners. Here, we share a detailed guide covering all you need to know about vibrating strap-on dildos, but we’ll also outline how to choose vibrating strap-ons that will satisfy anyone’s cravings. Rest assured we’ll cover all the bases, including vibrating strap-on dildos, vibrating strapless strap-ons, and much more. Types of Vibrating Strap-Ons When it comes to strap-ons, you can find a large number of options that satisfy a broad range of sexual tastes. However, these are regularly categorized into groups based on a design feature or their intended use. Here we list the most commonly found vibrating strap-on varieties: Double-ended vibrating strap-ons: these are either double-ended vibrating dildos or vibrating strapless strap-ons designed to penetrate both partners simultaneously. In the case of the vibrating strapless strap-ons, these come with a vaginal bulb attached to a penetration probe. Double-penetration vibrating strap-ons: these are designed for double penetration (of a woman) and usually have vibrating mechanisms in the vaginal and anal probes. Some designs feature a probe with a C-ring and a vibrating bullet. Hollow dildo vibrating strap-ons: the hollow dildo strap-on is intended for men with ED issues, but there are models with vibrating bullets in the hollow shaft that add extra sensations to the sexy play. Vibrating butterfly strap-ons: unlike the other vibrating strap-ons we’ve outlined above, the vibrating butterfly strap-ons are designed to be placed over the clit and vulva and deliver targeted vibrations. These are also designed for solo use by women. All of these models either come with vibrating bullets with button controls or they have internal vibrating mechanisms with wired/wireless controllers for added convenience. Some may be powered by batteries, while other models are USB rechargeable. Plus, various models are waterproof and are designed for use underwater. Shop Vibrating Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose a Best Vibrating Strap-On Dildo Let’s discuss the essential things you should know when you select a great vibrating strap-on dildo. The first thing to note is that you should always stick to reputable brands and only purchase products from trusted sellers. Now, the main features to know when selecting your new vibrating strap-on: Size Size is the first thing to consider during your selection, as it directly affects comfort during use and pleasure. Always consult with your partner, as when it comes to vibrating strap-on toys, size does matter. If you are going to use your vibrating strap-on for vaginal penetration only, you can go a little bigger as the vagina stretches when aroused. However, for anal penetration, stick to vibrating strap-ons that are slim and narrow to facilitate use. Please note that you should not use the same model for vaginal and anal play. The most common sizes for vibrating strap-on dildos fall in the range between 6 and 8 inches in length, with a diameter of about 1.3 to 1.5 inches. Always consider your other sex toys, as these are an excellent pointer to what you are comfortable using. You can also use your partner’s penis size for reference. Material Material is the second thing to consider when selecting a vibrating strap-on toy. The best option is to get a silicone vibrating strap-on. Other good options are cyberskin dildos, PVC and TPE dildos, etc. The material your vibrating strap-on is made from will determine the type of lube you can use, but to be safe, we recommend you sticking to quality water-based lubes as these are compatible with all sex toy materials. Texture Vibrating strap-ons can come in a smooth or realistic texture, and this greatly depends on the material and the intended use. Silicone dildos are plush, feel velvety to the touch, and can be shaped in many ways. These are also the commonly used option for anal vibrating dildos. Cyberskin and TPE dildos feel more like the skin of an actual penis, and these are usually shaped like a realistic penis. Vibrations & Controls The next important feature when considering a vibrating strap-on is the vibration type, the battery, and the controller. There are some models with removable vibrating bullets that are powered by replaceable batteries; these usually come with a button control and very few vibe options. On the other hand, the USB rechargeable vibrating toys provide more vibrating options like different speeds and vibrating patterns. Some of these come with wired remotes, while others come with wireless remote controllers. Advanced models are even app-compatible, where you get to use your smartphone to control the vibrations and the pleasure. Harness Compatibility Because we are discussing vibrating strap-ons, the harness is an integral part of the use of these toys. Only in the case of a vibrating strapless dildos you don’t need a harness, as these are designed to be held in place by the woman’s pelvic floor muscles. In all other models, you will need a suitable harness, which can be supplied (in the case of strap-on kits), or you can buy a separate harness that is compatible with your chosen vibrating strap-on. We always suggest you get a separate harness with several O-ring sizes that you can use with various strap-on dildos, including O-ring compatible vibrating strap-on dildos. Maintenance When you select your new vibrating strap-on, the last but equally important thing you should consider is the cleaning and maintenance. If your vibrating strap-on is waterproof, then you can just wash it with soap and water or any toy cleaner. However, if your vibrating strap-on is splashproof or not waterproof, then you need to be careful when cleaning it. Hence, you avoid getting water in the battery compartment or vibrating mechanism. Another thing we must note here is that you should use rejuvenating powder or cornstarch with your TPE/Cyberskin vibrating toys. Vibrating Strap-On Benefits Let's now discuss the benefits of using a vibrating strap-on: there are plenty of unique benefits for both partners. The apparent benefit of vibrating strap-ons is the easier achieving of orgasms. For some people, women especially, orgasming through penetration can be challenging, so the vibrations can be a welcome stimulation. Vibrating strap-ons are also an excellent option for older women going through menopause. During menopause, most women experience vaginal tightness and dryness, and sex can be difficult. In such cases, a vibrating toy can alleviate some of the symptoms and help with increasing natural vaginal lubrication and improving elasticity, making the entire experience more pleasurable. For men, the vibrating strap-ons are beneficial in several areas. Guys who have erectile dysfunction can benefit from using a vibrating hollow dildo strap-on that can help them get aroused better and even reach a full erection. The other area where these toys benefit is prostate massage, as the vibrations can stimulate the prostate, casuing full-body orgasms. Also, prostate massage is beneficial for male health. Vibrating Strap-Ons Safety Considerations We have to cover the safety aspect of vibrating strap-ons, but please note that these are very similar to the safety aspects of regular dildos. One thing is the material the dildo is made from: if this is made from porous or materials with phthalates, there is a potential health risk. Next, you should ALWAYS use a lube that is compatible with your vibrating strap-on. We recommend using quality water-based lube and using it generously as you may lose some of it from shaking, or it can be wiped off a surface. Never use numbing lubes, especially for anal use, as these pose a risk of inadvertently hurting the receiver. Don’t use a vibrating strap-on that is too big for you or your partner, and be open and communicate with your partner. The wearer does not have any idea how the receiver feels, so communicate and ask if there is any pain or discomfort. Please note that the wearer can experience numbness in the genital area if they have the vibrating strap-on for too long, as the vibrations may numb the nerve endings and cause diminished sensations. We recommend you use the vibrating strap-on with caution and never force things to happen between you and your partner. Where Can You Use a Vibrating Strap-On You can use a vibrating strap-on in a wide range of scenarios and situations. However, due to their nature and unless explicitly stated that they are waterproof, they shouldn’t be used in water. Women can use a vibrating strap-on for solo use – they can use the vibrating dildo to masturbate and enjoy the vibrations in a way they feel most comfortable. If your vibrating strap-on comes with a fixed harness, you can attach it to a chair or even a pillow and let your imagination run wild. Take inspiration from wall mount dildos but with the extra vibrations. Another quite popular use is for pegging – the female partner wears the vibrating strap-on and penetrates the male partner. The vibrations from the strap-on can stimulate the entire rectal area of the male, delivering a deeper stimulation to the prostate and the anus. Vibrating strap-ons can be used for roleplay, domination/submission, or role reversal sexy scenarios. Also, a next-level use for vibrating strap-ons is double penetration, which you can do using a penis and a vibrating strap-on attached to a compatible harness. We leave you to think of other uses for this exciting, sexy toy. Cleaning & Storing a Vibrating Strap-On When you are done using your vibrating strap-on, you need to clean it. If you use a model with a vibrating bullet, remove the bullet from the dildo and then clean it. If your chosen model is rated as splashproof, then you can only wash the “working end” or the insertable portion of the vibrating strap-on, being careful not to get water in the battery compartment or vibrating mechanism. If your model is waterproof, you can freely wash everything with soap and water. Silicone materials are the easiest to clean, as their surface is non-porous and effortless to wash. You can use an antibacterial soap and warm water or use a sex toy cleaner. If your model is textured, use a soft bristle brush to wash the textured parts, like the rim of the dildo head. Be careful no to immerse them in hot water, as the heat may damage the battery or the vibrating mechanism. That is why we always recommend you check the manufacturer’s instructions regarding cleaning your vibrating strap-on. If it comes with a harness that detaches from the dildo, in most cases, you can wash the harness with warm water, but if it is leather, then spot-cleaning is the way to go. Leave your vibrating strap-on dildo to air-dry, or pat dry with a lint-free towel and store it a dedicated sex toy storage bag, like a silk or satin bag, away from direct sunlight, heat, and moisture. Never store sex toys bunched up together, as contact with other materials can damage or deteriorate the surface. Wrapping Up We belive that we covered all the bases in our guide on how to choose a vibrating strap-on. We also tried to be all-encompassing, and we shared extra info on use, benefits, risks, and cleaning tips that we hope will help you get started. There's no need to wait – browse our store for the most exciting sex toys that will spice up your bedroom. Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides Strap-Ons - Sizing Guide Strap-Ons - How to Use Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Use a Hollow Strap-On Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-On Harnesses Strap-Ons - How to Choose a Strap-On FAQs Is it safe to use a vibrating strap-on for pegging? Yes, it is perfectly safe to use a vibrating strap-on for pegging. However, you must select a model that is safe for anal use, preferably one with a silicone probe, and remember to use plenty of lube to avoid hurting your partner. We advise you select quality, thick, water-based lube as this is compatible with all strap-on materials. Can I become addicted to my partner using a vibrating strap-on to perform penetration? It isn’t likely that you can become addicted. However, you shouldn’t expose your vagina or anus to vibrations very frequently, as this may cause a loss in sensitivity. Instead, we suggest you change things up from time to time by using other toys or using these without engaging the vibrations. I want to use a vibrating ring around my testicles while wearing a hollow vibrating strap-on. Is this safe? Some indications show that wearing a too-tight C-ring around the testicles or using too many vibrations in this area may lead to decreased fertility. However, if you play it smart and use such toys moderately, you should not have any problems. Still, we recommend using vibrating toys with caution. See More Of Our Favorite Sex Toys Best Vibrating Dildos Best Suction Cup Dildos Best Thrusting Dildos Best Dual Density Dildos Best Silicone Dildos Best Squirting Dildos Best Realistic Dildos Best Cheap Dildos Best Anal Dildos Best Ribbed Dildos Best DP Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Sets Best Strap-On Underwear Best Vac-U-Lock Strap-Ons Best Strapless Strap-Ons Best Strap-Ons for Men Best Strap-On Harnesses Best Vibrating Strap-Ons Most Realistic Strap-Ons Best Silicone Strap-Ons Best Realistic Male Masturbators Best Pocket Pussies Best Penis Milking Machines Best Vibrating Penis Sleeves Best Cock Rings Best Blowjob Toys Best Male Vibrators Best Male Masturbators Best Sex Toys for Small Penis Best Sex Toys for Men
How to Choose a Pegging Strap-On?

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How to Choose a Pegging Strap-On?

by Kate Miller on Jan 12 2026
In this guide, we’ll discuss pegging, more precisely, how to choose a pegging strap-on that will help you drive your man wild. While pegging is a deeply satisfying sexual experience that involves targeted prostate stimulation, many men are turned off by the idea because of the fear they are doing something wrong or forbidden. Well, we have outlined this at length in another post, but we have to emphasize that pegging does not make you gay, and the best way to do this is to get a specialized pegging strap-on! What is a Pegging Strap-On? A pegging strap-on looks like a regular strap-on, as it uses the same harness with a pegging dildo. It has a specific shape and a narrower shaft designed for targeted prostate stimulation. There are pegging strap-ons that come with a firmly attached probe, and there are models that come with detachable probes. In any case, you can get a special pegging dildo and use it with a suitable strap-on harness. Pegging Strap-On Varieties We have to clearly outline that there are no separate strap-on harnesses you can use for pegging, as these are basically universal, but you have your choice of dildo attachments. That is why we recommend you use a separate strap-on harness or even strap-on underwear, and get a pegging dildo or another small strap-on dildo and utilize it to peg your man. O-Ring Strap-On Harnesses – the O-ring strap-on harness is the most common strap-on type, and this features an elastic O-ring where you need to fit the pegging dildo and attach the harness around your body. Strapless Strap-Ons – these are exciting couple’s toys that can also be considered as a type of double dildo.One side iof the strapless strap-on is an insertable egg that goes into a woman’s vagina. In contrast, the other side is a phallic-shaped probe that you can use to peg your man. Shop Pegging Dildos ===COLLECTION=== How to Select a Pegging Strap-On There are some key things to know when selecting a pegging strap-on, but please note that this is a relatively limited category of sex toys. Still, you must keep track of the following facts when you make a pegging strap-on choice: Strap-On Harness type: The strap-on harness is an essential part of the entire pegging experience, and you get common choices like woven nylon, fabrics, and leather. The best pegging strap-on harness should have a wide waistband and double straps between the legs and provide the most stability. Strap-On Harness fit – how the strap-on harness fits your body is critical to the intended use, as you must get a harness that will suit your body and be able to stay firmly in place and not move so you can perform the deed without fear of losing control over the pegging probe. We recommend you give harness briefs a chance, as these are intended for this act; Pegging Dildo size: the size of the pegging dildo you get is crucial for the pleasure your partner will experience. We suggest you bring a streamlined model that is designed for this purpose and one made from a body-safe material like silicone; Extra Features: some pegging strap-ons have additional features like vibrations. A wired or wireless remote controller usually controls the vibration, and you get to provide a deeply satisfying experience for your man. Pegging Strap-On Benefits All sex toys can bring excitement and sexual gratification to your sexy games, but you have to be open with your partner. If your man is open to pegging, you can show him immense pleasure by performing it on him, and we bet he’ll ask you for it again. This is why one of the critical benefits of pegging is male satisfaction and bringing partners closer together. It is such an intimate sexual act that will deepen the relationship between the partners. But to be most satisfied, both partners must be open about their needs, wants, expectations, and limitations. Some couples are open about this type of sex play, while others are uncomfortable, shy, or afraid to ask it from their partners. However, pegging is a great way to stimulate the prostate and provide full-body orgasms. Not only can men receive stimulation from all the nerve endings that are in the rectum, but they can also receive the benefits that come with having their prostate massaged. Pegging Strap-On Purchase Tips Before we leave you to shop, we have to share some tips that we believe will help you make an excellent pegging strap-on selection: Check the product info and images to get an idea of the pegging dildo’s size and the strap-on harness design; Always check the harness size and adjustability options; we suggest you opt for harnesses with wide waist straps that sit on the hips and won’t move during vigorous play; Check the pegging dildo material, as you should be looking for a body-safe, non-porous material that is comfortable, safe to use, and easy to maintain. Get plenty of lube that is compatible with the material of your pegging dildo. We recommed you get a thick water-based lube that is compatible with all sex toy materials and use a fair amount on the pegging probe as the anus is not self-lubricating and you need to make the entire experience pelasurable for your man. Cleaning & Storage Tips We noted above that it is best to get a pegging dildo made from body-safe materials, preferably silicone. It is recommended because it is durable and has a lifelike feeling. When you select a separate strap-on harness, you can get a model from nylon, leather, or microfiber. Make sure you wash your pegging dildo before and after use, and we recommend you use mild soap and warm water or any sex toy cleaner to remove all residue and have a clean, sterile toy. Don’t forget the harness; you need to clean it per the manufacturer’s instructions. Please note that you must store your pegging dildo in a safe place, like a specialized sex toy storage bag, and you can keep your strap-on harness in an underwear drawer. There you have it, guys: the main things you need to know when you go about buying a pegging strap-on. Also, make sure you check out our other strap-on sex toy guides below and browse our sex toy store, where we have a great selection of exciting sex toys! Learn More With Our Other Strap-On Guides: Strap-On Sizing Guide How to Use a Strap-On How to Choose a Strapless Strap-On How to Use a Hollow Strap-On How to Choose a Strap-On Harness How to Choose a Strap-On How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On FAQs What lube should we use for pegging? The choice of lube depends on the material of the pegging dildo. Still, for the best experience, we recommend using a thick, water-based lube compatible with all materials, including silicone pegging dildos. How do I wear a pegging strap-on? Wearing the pegging strap-on depends on the harness variety you’ve chosen. Most strappy kinds are meant to be secured around your waist and hips or thighs. Underwear-style strap-ons will be put on just like your regular undies. We have a complete guide on how to use a strap-on which you can refer to and learn how to better satisfy your man. What should we be mindful of when using a pegging strap-on? Lubrication is the number one thing to pay attention to so that the experience is pleasant for your partner. You’ll also need to be careful about the speed and depth of penetration, especially if you’re both new to this kind of experience. Communcate with your partner and ask them often how they feel, as you don't have any feeling of the pegging probe and possible resistance by thier body. I’m very curious about anal male play; why should I give pegging a try? Since the anus is full with nerve endings, proper stimulation can be very pleasurable. But the male anus also contains the P-spot or the prostate. Because pegging provides deep stimulation, it is an excellent way to stimulate the P-spot and cause men to experience powerful prostate orgasms and intense pleasure. Will pegging make me gay? No, pegging will not make you gay, as being gay involves much more than a sexual aspect. Gay men are attracted to males, and they enjoy a different gratification. On the other side, pegging is a sexual activity performed on a man by a woman using her hands, a sex toy, or a specialized pegging strap-on. Learn About our Favorite Strap-On Sex Toys Best Strap-On Dildos Best Hollow Strap-Ons Best Vibrating Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Harnesses Most Realistic Strap-Ons Best Strapless Strap-Ons Best DP Strap-Ons Best DP Toys Best DP Rings Best Strap-Ons for Beginners Best Prostate Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Sets Best Vac-U-Lock Strap-Ons Best Vac-U-Lock Attachments Best Strap-Ons for Men Best Silicone Strap-Ons Best Strap-On Underwear Best Small Strap-On Sets
How to Choose a Double Penetration Strap-On?

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How to Choose a Double Penetration Strap-On?

by Kate Miller on Jan 12 2026
DP, or double penetration, is a real fantasy of many women. While some hide it well, others are very open about it and want to experience it. Still, except for inviting a third person in the bedroom, there is another, safer way to experience double penetration, and that is to get a double penetration strap-on. This contraption is designed to allow you and your partner to safely enjoy DP; here, we’ll discuss the key elements that you need to know when selecting a double penetration strap-on. What is a Double Penetration Strap-On? Double penetration strap-ons are sets that feature three major parts - a dildo or vibrator for penetration, a double penetration harness that straps the toy securely onto the wearer, and a separate hole for the penis. The specific design allows you to play with your partner and experience the coveted double penetration, but you won’t have to get a third person in your bed. All these features should be considered when buying your DP strap-on and ensure it can withstand whatever position or fantasy you want to bring to life. Double Penetration Strap-On Types The double penetration strap-ons come in several designs that allow you versatility in use. These provide a sense of fullness and continuous stimulation, ensuring you and your partner enjoy exploring different DP fantasies. Double Penetration Strap-On Harness – these are designed with a regular strap-on harness as the base and have an anal probe and an opening for the man’s penis or a dildo that you can use for double penetration. C-Ring Double Penetration Strap-Ons – the design of this double penetration cock ring that has a probe attached to it. The C-ring is obviously for the penis, and the probe is adjusted at the underside of the penis and is used for anal penetration. Shop Double Penetration Strap-Ons ===COLLECTION=== Double Penetration Strap-On Benefits You and your partner can experience so much excitement when you engage in double-penetration sexy games, and the best way to do this is to get a double-penetration strap-on. One of the primary benefits of using a DP strap-on is that you don’t have to invite another person into your bed – you and your partner can enjoy all the pleasures without risking your relationship. Another benefit of using a DP strap-on is that you don’t risk any disease or uncomfortable situations. You can take things as slowly or quickly as possible and stop if something is wrong without any awkwardness. Double Penetration Strap-On Purchase Tips Here are some essential tips that we believe will help you to more easily select a double penetration strap-on that you will find easy and pleasurable to use: Check the size of the penis ring, and it should be outlined on the product info page; this way, you will know whether the model will fit around the penis; Check the harness size and adjustability options; we suggest you opt for harnesses with a comfortable design that will hold everything in place even during vigorous play; Check the insertable probe size and material, and only select body-safe materials like silicone or TPE. Also, ensure the probe is a size you can comfortably manage, as things will become tight during DP play. Check lube compatibility and get compatible lube, as this is essential for comfortable play. We recommend using a quality water-based lube that will help things slide easily and work great with your chosen DP strap-on. Shop DP Harnesses ===COLLECTION=== DP Strap-On Cleaning & Storage Tips Because DP involves things going into your vagina and anus, you need to pay extra attention to hygiene. The main thing is to get a DP strap-on made from body-safe materials like silicone. Silicone is waterproof and easy to clean and maintain, allowing you to wash it with soapy water or a sex toy cleaner. Also, make sure you store your DP strap-on toy in a safe place, away from heat and direct sunlight. We advise you to get a specialized sex toy storage bag that will ensure you have a safe place to store your DP strap-on and will keep it away from prying eyes. We hope our guide to choosing a double penetration strap-on is helpful for you, as we tried to cover all the critical aspects related to this topic. However, for more information, please check out our other guides below and refer to our sex toy store, where we carry an impressive selection of exciting sex toys! FAQs What lube should we use for double penetration? The choice of lube depends on the material of your double-penetration strap-on toy. We always recommend you use a quality, thick, water-based lube, as it is compatible with all sex toy materials and all skin types. Does double penetration hurt? If you do it correctly, double penetration is not painful at all. First, talk about it with your partner, and make sure you engage in a lot of foreplay. Also, we advise you to engage in anal play before you go for DP. After you gain some experience in anal play with your partner, you can start exploring double penetration. Next, use plenty of lube and relax; go slow and enjoy yourself. 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