Strap-On Basics
The strap-on functionalities seem straightforward, but there are some key things to know. There is much versatility between different types of strap-ons; the best one depends on your specific needs. Before we continue our guide on using a strap-on, here are a few strap-on basics you should know when choosing the optimal option for you:
Strap-Ons Vs. Harness-Compatible Dildos
The first thing you must consider is the flexibility of the design of your strap-on. For example, many couples prefer full-on strap-ons because of their practicality. This pertains to a complete strap-on kit that includes a harness and a dildo.But there is also the option to purchase a strap-on harness only and then select a suitable harness-compatible dildo. This approach allows you to mix and match - use different dildos with the same harness.
O-Ring
The O-ring is the essential part of any strap-on harness: it is the ring that connects the dildo and the harness. Here we need to note that the diameter of the O-ring determines the type of dildo that can be placed in your harness.
We recommend you opt for harnesses that allow changing of the O-rings, as it will allow you to change the dildos and try models in different sizes, shapes, and materials, for example like Her Royal Harness The Regal Queen where you can change the o-rings and fit different harness-compatible dildos. Additionally, there are strap-on kits that include a harness with interchangeable O-rings and a palette of dildos with different circumferences and lengths you can use gradually.
Harness Types
The harness style plays a vital role in the comfortable use of this sex toy. Basically, there are three main styles: underwear, thong, and jockstrap harnesses.
The underwear harness resembles regular underwear and is the most practical option for beginners. This style provides good support around the hips and thighs and allows better control of your movements, like the SpareParts Sasha Harness.
People looking for the visual aspect can opt for a thong harness. These come in many intriguing designs, including lace and G-strings; however, the visual appeal compromises flexibility. These may feel less secure during vigorous movement.
Jockstrap harnesses go around your waist and provide a similar security as thongs harnesses. They resemble sportswear and some come with a fixed dildo and others have interchangeable o-rings which makes them a practical and visually pleasing option that even beginners can quickly get accustomed to.