Strap-on play is sexy, exciting, and immensely pleasurable, and it provides so much opportunity for pleasure. But what about curious couples who are just starting with strap-on play? Well, we have you covered, as here we bring you a list of the best small strap-ons that are perfect for first-time and gentle players. We tested a lot of selections and included models that are perfect for pegging, sexual enhancement, role reversal, and many other sexy games.
Quick Overview of Our Top Picks
- Best Overall Choice: King Cock Strap-on Harness with 6 Inch Dildo
- Best Value: Strap U Pegged Pegging Dildo with Harness
- Best for Beginners: Tantus Beginner Strap On Vibrator
- Best Vibrating Strap-on: Gender X Seashell Rechargeable Strapless Dildo
- Best Silicone Strap-on: Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On Kit
- Best Multi-Feature Strap-on: Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strapless Strap On
- Best Hollow Strap-on: 6 Inch Hollow Realistic Vibrating Strap-On with Balls
- Best Inflatable Strap-on: Strap U Evoke Vibrating Inflatable Strapless Strap-On
- Best Pegging Strap-on: Mistress Femdom Pegging Kit
- Best Ejaculating Strap-on: Natural Realskin 6 Inch Squirting Penis
The Best Deals This Week*
- Strap U Evoke Vibrating Inflatable Strapless Strap-On — $114.99 (List Price $164.99)
- Gender X Seashell Rechargeable Strapless Dildo — $146.99 (List Price $195.99)
- Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strapless Strap On - Small — $148.99 (List Price $198.99)
- Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On Kit — $58.99 (List Price $86.99)
- King Cock Strap-on Harness with 6 Inch Dildo — $66.99 (List Price $92.99)
*Deals are selected by our commerce team
Deep Dive: Our Top Picks King Cock Strap-on Harness with 6 Inch DildoBest Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the King Cock Strap-on Harness with 6 Inch Dildo as our top choice because this model is incredible. The kit comes with a pleasing harness and a 6-inch dildo. The harness is thong-like and has adjustable straps to fit different users, and it holds the dildo securely in place, even during vigorous movement. The dildo features a curved, realistic design that you can use for P and G-spot stimulation. It has a broad suction cup base for hands-free use, is made from PVC, and is compatible with water and silicone lubes, which we found quite appealing. Another thing worth mentioning is that the kit also comes with three O-rings, so you can swap out the dildos and have even more fun that way. Who It's ForThe King Cock Strap-on Harness with 6 Inch Dildo is for everyone looking for a strap-on harness that is fun and versatile to use and wants an all-in-one set.
What Customers Are Saying - Great adult toy shop Hot Cherry has a fantastic sex toy collection, and their prices are honest and affordable – I recommend them to anyone! On another note, the strap-on I bought is doing its job perfectly and allows me to mess with my guy and make both of us cum insanely hard. - Connie - Nice one My girl and I love to play with strap-ons, and this is one of those that is just the right amount of firm and long to hit the perfect spot inside. Excellent seller and service. - Tanya Reasons to Buy✓ Realistic 6-inch dildo ✓ Adjustable harness ✓ Three O-rings included ✓ Compatible with water and silicone lubes Reasons to Avoid✗ The dildo is made from PVC
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Strap U Pegged Pegging Dildo with HarnessBest Value Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItThe Strap U Pegged Pegging Dildo with Harness is one of the best value models we tested, and we had to include it on our list. The dildo is soft and smooth, which we found to be perfect for pegging, and is made from body-safe silicone that you can only use with water-based lubes. The dildo also has a broad suction cup base to use it as is, without the harness. The harness is lightweight and comfortable, and we love that it is fully adjustable to fit up to 44-inch waists and 28-inch things. You will find the harness to be extra fun to use, as you can fit any other O-ring compatible dildo in it. Who It's ForThe Strap U Pegged Pegging Dildo with Harness is for everyone looking for a good pegging strap-on kit that comes at excellent value. What Customers Are Saying - Amazing toy for couples play Great purchase, my husband and I love taking turns on each other with this. The dildo is a bit small for me but for him, it’s just perfect. - Simone - No friction The straps cup my butt just the right way, I don’t have to worry about friction at the wrong time. - Jessica Reasons to Buy✓ Smooth pegging dildo ✓ Adjustable nylon harness ✓ Body-safe silicone material ✓ O-ring harness Reasons to Avoid✗ It may be small for some users
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Tantus Beginner Strap On VibratorBest for Beginners Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe loved testing the Tantus Beginner Strap On Vibrator and found it very pleasing, which is why it is our choice for a beginner’s small strap-on. The harness is made from vinyl straps that attach to a sexy crushed velvet front plate that looks terrific against the black straps that hold the O-ring in place. The harness straps are adjustable to up to 60 inches, so even people with wider hips can comfortably wear it. The set comes with two probes that vary in length and diameter and are made from body-safe silicone. We loved the hidden pocket that houses the small yet powerful one-touch bullet vibe. Who It's ForThe Tantus Beginner Strap On Vibrator is an excellent choice for many, but we believe that beginners in strap-on play will find this model appealing.
Reasons to Buy✓ Adjustable nylon harness ✓ Two probes in different sizes ✓ Body-safe silicone probes ✓ Front plate pocket for vibrating bullet Reasons to Avoid✗ Vibe is not rechargeable
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Gender X Seashell Rechargeable Strapless DildoBest Vibrating Strap-On Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe are particularly impressed by the Gender X Seashell Rechargeable Strapless Dildo, and we think this model is a perfect example of a vibrating strap-on. It features a strapless strap-on design that has ergonomic curves and an exquisite look. Inspired by seashells, the vibe is curvy and designed to fit beginners and gentle players alike. We like the insertable/wearable design where one side goes into the wearer, and the other goes into the receiver. On top of the shape and silky-smooth silicone surface that is waterproof, the vibe comes with two vibrating motors that have 7 patterns and 5 intensities and provide an incredibly stimulating experience for both partners. Who It's ForThe Gender X Seashell Rechargeable Strapless Dildo is for everyone looking for a strapless strap-on vibrating toy that comes with appealing features. Reasons to Buy✓ Body-safe silicone ✓ Two vibrating motors ✓ Elegant, curvy design ✓ Wireless remote and USB rechargeable Reasons to Avoid✗ It takes adjusting to use it comfortably
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Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On KitBest Silicone Strap-On Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe added the Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On Kit to our list as the kit is impressive and very fun to use. Our test team found this model very appealing because it comes with an adjustable nylon harness that you can adjust from 28 to 44 inches in waist size. We also like the open back design that provides easy access to the back and front, as well as framing the butt nicely. On top of the quality harness, the Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On Kit also comes with two silicone probes that are smooth and perfectly curved for G-spot or P-spot stimulation. These also come with suction cup bases for hands-free use, and the real treat is the vibrating bullet that comes with a special internal pocket that presses on the wearer’s clitoris. Who It's ForWe believe that the Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On Kit is a good choice for different users, but it is especially fitting for couples looking for a silicone pegging kit. What Customers Are Saying - Awesome Strap On! I love that the ring sizes are interchangeable. The fit is great! It's given my wife and I something new to try in the bedroom and we both love it! - Rachel P. - Not for waist sizes on the larger end My gf and I were really happy with this. I’m a bit bigger around the waist so it didn’t sit optimally on me but it was perfect for her. - Caitlyn Reasons to Buy✓ Two silicone probes ✓ Adjustable harness ✓ Vibrating bullet ✓ Waterproof probes Reasons to Avoid✗ Bullet not rechargeable
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Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strapless Strap On - SmallBest Multi-Feature Strap-On Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strapless Strap On because this is a genuinely multi-feature sex toy. It is not a classic strap-on but a strapless strap-on that is coated in a body-safe silicone that feels lovely and is compatible with water-based lubes. The vaginal bulb is round and comfortable and is connected to a flexible neck and a dildo-shaped probe. The clitoral stimulator has a flicking tongue that teases the clit, which our testers said feels fantastic. The Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strapless Strap On comes with three internal motors that are powerful enough to drive you and your partner to multiple orgasms. Plus, you get a wireless remote controller, USB charger, and waterproof use. Who It's ForThe Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strapless Strap On is for every couple looking for a strapless strap-on that comes with an excellent collection of features. What Customers Are Saying - Great A great vibe that we both enjoy so much. My lady loves receiving the vibrating dildo, and I love using it on her! ♥ - Wendy - Versatile A versatile toy that I enjoy using with my man. We got the smallest one, but it looks like we’ll be upgrading it soon, as the bulbous head is small for me and tends to slip out (three kids and all)! - Marabella Reasons to Buy✓ Ergonomic, comfortable design ✓ Three internal motors ✓ Wireless remote controller ✓ Waterproof, body-safe silicone Reasons to Avoid✗ Somewhat expensive
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Strap U Evoke Vibrating Inflatable Strapless Strap-OnBest Inflatable Strap-On Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strap U Evoke Vibrating Inflatable Strapless Strap-On as we found it sexy and fun to use. It is a strapless strap-on that has a vaginal bulb that you can inflate to a perfect fit, and it continues to a flexible neck and penetrating shaft. The surface is coated with body-safe silicone that is waterproof and compatible with water-based lubes. We loved playing with the Strap U Evoke Vibrating Inflatable Strapless Strap-On, mainly because it has three speeds and 7 patterns. You also get a wireless remote controller and the option to recharge it via USB. Who It's ForThe Strap U Evoke Vibrating Inflatable Strapless Strap-On is an excellent choice for all the people looking for a strapless strap-on with extra features. What Customers Are Saying - Nice purchase Great buy, everything I hoped for and then some. - Ela - Recommended The inflatable feature is really something else. I didn’t think I was capable of such sensations. It’s absolutely blown my mind. - Tori Reasons to Buy✓ Inflatable vaginal bulb ✓ Smooth penetrating shaft ✓ Vibrations and waterproof use ✓ Wireless remote and USB recharging Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Mistress Femdom Pegging KitBest Pegging Strap-On Our Rating: 4.7/5 Why We Picked ItThe Mistress Femdom Pegging Kit is something else – the kit is perfect for pegging as it comes with an adjustable harness, a pegging dildo, and a full hood with only a mouth opening. The harness is comfortable with straps of woven nylon and adjusting buckles. The front plate has an O-ring that holds the silicone pegging probe that is provided in the kit, but if you like, you can change it with another pegging dildo, as there is another O-ring in the kit. The provided pegging dildo is made from body-safe silicone that is waterproof and compatible with water-based lubes. The hood has a padded blindfold area and a mouth opening, so your partner will be in the dark while you do all the sexy things to them. Who It's ForThe Mistress Femdom Pegging Kit is for all couples who want a quality pegging dildo kit with a silicone probe and an adjustable harness. Reasons to Buy✓ Adjustable nylon harness ✓ Silicone pegging probe ✓ Padded blindfold hood ✓ Internal pocket for a bullet Reasons to Avoid✗ The dildo may be small for some
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Natural Realskin 6 Inch Squirting PenisBest Ejaculating Strap-On Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe added the Natural Realskin 6 Inch Squirting Penis to this list as this model comes with an adjustable harness and a realistic dildo that is also ejaculating, which we found fun and sexy to use. The dildo is made from phthalate-free TPR that is compatible with water-based lubes and feels very realistic. We love the ejaculating feature, as you can fill it up with your favorite liquid, and when you are ready, squeeze the balls to engage the ejaculation. The dildo also comes with a suction cup base for hands-free use. The kit also comes with two O-rings so you can fit your favorite dildo; the harness is adjustable, and you can adjust it up to 60-inch waists. Also, the Natural Realskin 6 Inch Squirting Penis is waterproof, so you can even play with it in the shower. Who It's ForThe Natural Realskin 6 Inch Squirting Penis is for all the people who are looking for a sexy strap-on that comes with an adjustable harness and ejaculating option. What Customers Are Saying - Amazing dildo I love the Realskin dildo – it does feel like a real penis. The suction cup base is OK, and the feature to squeeze the balls to squirt is entertaining as fuck! - Suzy - Excellent dildo The dildo is very well made, and has a perfect size – the 5-inch insertable length is the perfect fit for me - Giselle Reasons to Buy✓ Adjustable harness ✓ Realistic penis ✓ Realistic squirting action ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ TPR is porous
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Why Trust Our Reviews?
HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use.
Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you.
When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight.
Essential Things to Know About Strap-Ons
We love testing all types of sex toys, and the small strap-ons were really fun. After testing and finding the best small strap-ons, we need to remind you to check out our blog on how to choose a strap-on and the other strap-on-related posts, as you’ll find a wealth of information there. For now, here are only the small strap-on basics:
- Design – the design is critical to how you can use the toy, and you can select between a pegging strap-on, hollow strap-on, DP strap-on, and other models.
- Size – we are discussing small strap-ons for beginners and gentle players, so size is important, and it needs to be the first thing you check. Look for a smaller size toy that will be easier to get used to.
- Material – Look for strap-ons made from body-safe materials like silicone. When it comes to harnesses, we suggest woven nylon or microfiber underwear-style harnesses.
- Harness Style – the strap-on would be impossible to use without an appropriate strap-on, and here, you can choose between a regular strap-on harness, underwear harness, strap-on harness, and even strapless strap-on models that work harness-free.
- Extra features – under extra features, we list things like vibrations, hollow strap-ons, ejaculation, and similar features.
Final Words
We loved testing the various strap-ons, and we brought you our selections for the best small strap-ons we have in our store. When we on the topic of our sex toy store, we want to invite you to check it out, as you’ll find an incredible selection of different strap-ons, dildos, vibrators, anal toys, butt plugs, sexy lingerie, male sex toys, BDSM tools, and much more.