Hit the P-spot Every Time with the Best Dildos for Men
So you want to buy a male dildo? You are not alone. Men can use and enjoy dildos just as much as women do, but the secret is in choosing the right one. The benefits of sex toys on men’s sexual health and pleasure are similar to those on female’s. Plenty of studies show that regular masturbation reduces the risk of prostate cancer, so why not add a sexy dildo into your playtime?
The best dildos for men will be ones that target the prostate, better known sexually as the ‘P-spot’. If you’re looking to reach that toe-curling, mind-blowing P-spot orgasm, you’ve come to the right place! Strap this dildo onto a harness for some pegging fun or go freehold for ultimate anal pleasure.
Browse our wide selection of dildos well-suited for men that will fill you up and target all your hot spots. To help you learn a bit more about dildos for men, we’ve addressed some commonly asked questions:
Straight & Gay Dildos FAQ
What should I look for in a dildo, as someone with a prostate?
Generally, the best thing to look for in a dildo if you have a prostate is a curved shaft for prostate stimulation. Some may also seek out a tapered tip for easy insertion, but this isn’t necessary. A circumcised tip of a male dildo can feel deliciously good, as the texture of the mushroom head feels delightful when inserted into the anus.
I’m straight – can I still buy a male dildo?
Of course! Many straight men get nervous or anxious when it comes to anal play, however what you like in bed does not determine your sexuality. You can enjoy a dildo and still be straight! Male dildos provides anal stimulation and can be used during masturbation, foreplay or anal sex. If the idea of a penis shaped dildo still makes you uncomfortable, there are plenty of non-phallic shaped toys to choose from!
Why does a dildo feel good in the anus?
The anus is filled with sensitive nerve-endings that greatly enhance sexual pleasure. Plenty of males that use dildos report much stronger orgasms, and even more forceful ejaculations. The pressure back there intensifies the sensation of masturbation. The best news is, even if you’re not fully comfortable with full insertion just yet, you can simply press the head of your dildo to the anus and stimulate the many nerve endings there
What’s the Best Way to Prepare for Anal Play with a Dildo?
Making sure your bowels are empty is the first step. It’s a good idea to go to the bathroom a few hours before engaging in anal play. If you feel more comfortable, do opt for douching before inserting anything.
Use your finger to get a better feel of what the penetration feels like. It’s also important to get properly aroused before putting anything bigger up there. Sex toys like butterfly vibrators (for the ladies) and vibrating sex toys for men are great preliminary choices.
How Do I Prep My Dildo for a Bit of Fun?
It’s imperative to use water-based lube since the rectum doesn’t produce a lubricant of its own.
Smearing a generous amount on your anal dildo makes penetration a ton more comfortable and pleasurable right from the start.
A general recommendation is to use an anal dildo with a condom, even if you don’t share your sex toys. The condom will make care, maintenance and cleaning a whole lot easier.
How Do I Clean My Anal Dildo?
For optimal safety and hygiene, use your anal dildos solely for anal play. We recommend getting a separate vaginal dildo.
Read the care instructions for the dildo you own to determine what kind of care would be compatible with the material that it’s made of.
When you’re done with it, always ease the toy slowly out of your body (if it hasn’t come out on its own during your orgasm). Relax for a bit but do wash the dildo as soon as possible. When you’re done, wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water. Wearing latex gloves while sanitizing an anal dildo could be another practical idea for optimal hygiene.
Will my male dildo make me have an orgasm?
This has a two-part answer. Men who use an anal dildo for prostate massage can experience full-body orgasms. These are entirely different from penis-induced orgasms. That being said, when they are experienced close together, it can be overwhelming and leave the man drained of energy. In a good way, of course.
What are the harnesses for?
These strap on harnesses are designed to accept strap on dildos or pegging dildos. They can be vaginal or anal in design. Once worn, a woman can take the role of the man and partake in delivering penetrative sex. She won’t really feel any sensations herself, but for another girl partner, or her man who wants to receive, it can be the ultimate in role reversal or pleasure-giving. Men can also use them in anal play for gay or straight sexual intercourse.
Some harness models worn by men can perform double penetration on their partner, leaving their hands free to stimulate other parts of their partner’s (or their own) body. Sounds fun, right?