Things You Should Pay Attention to When Shopping for a Male Dildo
Just about any dildo can be used for pegging, anal sex and P-spot massages. The size and firmness depend on your experience level. Still, if you’re specifically looking for a male dildo, here’s what you’ll have to pay attention to.
Material: As usual, the most important thing about a sex toy is the material that it’s made of. Dildos are no exception. Anal sex dildos should be made from non-porous materials that are easy to clean. Medical-grade silicone is an obvious choice. Not only is it perfectly safe and hypoallergenic, silicone is also very long-lived. Other great materials for male dildos include PVC and cyberskin, glass, TPR and even metal.
Size: We can’t stress enough on the importance of this one. You should always check the length and the girth of the dildos you’re looking at. If you don’t have a lot of experience with anal sex, choose a toy that’s narrow and streamlined in design. The girth is the one dimension that matters the most when it comes to comfort and pleasure. And when it comes to P-spot stimulation, you don’t need a ton of thickness to get the job done.
Shape: Male dildos usually have a slightly curved design (just check the products below to get a better idea about the best shapes). This design allows the dildo to reach and “hit” the prostate with every thrust. Such a shape allows for proper P-spot stimulation and powerful orgasms. You can also choose realistic dildos that are phallic in shape – these will usually deliver a different sensation and lots of pleasurable stretch.
Firmness: Here’s the deal – you don’t want a super soft dildo if you’re going to be using it for anal play. Firm but slightly flexible is optimal for P-spot stimulation. Silicone is the material that gives you such stiffness. It’s perfect for both beginners and more experienced players. If you want a different sensation, try a glass or metal male dildo. The firmness, combined with the weight of the toy, will get you coming in no time.
Additional features: Male dildos can have a couple of additional features that increase versatility. But let’s talk about safety first. When it comes to anal sex, always choose toys that have a flared base to avoid accidents. A toy that has a suction cup base is also a great choice. The suction cup allows for hands-free use, which obviously gives you many fun things to try out. If you’re going to be using a dildo for men with a partner, look for a harness-compatible toy (most of them are). Some dildos for men could also vibrate and pulsate, adding some intensity to the overall experience.
Training kits: If you’re serious about anal sex but you haven’t done a lot of it, a training kit will be great. This set consists of several dildos that progressively grow bigger. Newbies start with the smallest one and work their way up. A kit gives you several dildos, which is perfect if you plan on using them often.
Lube compatibility: Here’s another very important consideration. The material that a dildo’s made of will determine what lubes are compatible with it. A silicone dildo, for example, cannot be used with a silicone-based lube (water-based lubes will be optimal in that case). Glass is a great choice because it’s compatible with all lube varieties. So is metal. If you’re not sure, do check the manufacturer’s specs to make sure your favorite lube isn’t going to ruin the dildo.
Ease of cleaning: Perfect hygiene is a must for all kinds of sex toys but even more so when anal sex toys are concerned. A good dildo for men should be easy to clean. Waterproof dildos are ideal in that regard because they can be submerged and soaked in soapy water. If you choose a swirly or textured dildo, you’ll have to make sure that all ridges and protrusions are properly cleaned after use.