How We Select the Best Sex Toys for Men
HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. That team approach helps us look at products from multiple angles and choose toys that actually deserve a spot in a best of guide. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify issues and defects that show up after long-term use.
Our method stays meticulous. Our experts handpick the best products to feature based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and post-purchase customer satisfaction. Then the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, paying close attention to material, shape, size, and features. We also call out how each toy feels in real use, so the recommendations stay practical, not theoretical.
How to Choose Sex Toys for Men
The stimulation you are after
Decide what you actually want to feel. This guide includes solo masturbation toys, prostate stimulation, and a wearable option designed for partnered play.
Material
We emphasize body safe materials like silicone and stainless steel, but you will also find realistic feel materials like TPE in male toys.
Ease of use
I always look for toys that do not need complex setup. Simple controls and easy handling matter more than people think.
Extra features
Consider what adds real value for you, like app control, vibration settings, waterproof use, and USB recharging.
Final Words
The right toy depends on the experience you want. Some options focus on hands free intensity with advanced controls, while others keep it simple and rely on texture, pressure, and technique. If you want something that feels powerful without being complicated, pay attention to how the toy handles suction, how easy it is to clean, and whether you can adjust intensity without breaking the mood.
I also found that variety matters more than most people expect. One style can feel perfect one day and completely wrong the next, depending on how much stimulation you want and whether you play solo or with a partner. That is why it helps to think in terms of categories, like stroking, prostate, or wearable vibration, instead of searching for one “perfect” toy that does everything.
If you choose based on the sensation you want, the material you prefer, and the level of effort you want to put in, you will end up with something you actually use, not something that sits in a drawer.