Have things gotten a little bit boring in the bedroom? It’s time to try something new: a little bit of role reversal can unlock a new sex level that’s equal parts exciting and empowering. Having a good strap-on harness is all it takes to start doing the things that you’d previously only fantasized about.
A strap-on harness for women is the perfect tool for pegging or for some intense girl-on-girl action. Our testers strapped on (literally!) dozens of these products to discover the best strap-on harnesses and help you make the right selection. Here we bring you our top choices and address a few pressing matters!
Quick Overview of Our Top Pics
- Best Overall: Strap-On-Me Rebel Harness
- Best for Beginners: Strap U Bardot Elastic Strap-on Harness with Thigh Cuffs
- Best Value: Strap U Domina Adjustable Wide Band Strap On Harness
- Best Plus-Size Harness: Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus Sized Strap-On Harness
- Most Elegant Harness: Her Royal Harness The Regal Queen
- Best Boxer-Brief Harness: Shots RealRock Boxer with Harness
- Most Stylish and Comfortable: Her Royal Harness the Regal Empress
- Best for Double Penetration: Her Royal Harness The Duchess
- Best Vibrating Harness: Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness with Wireless Vibrating Plug
- Best Corset Style Harness: Sportsheets Red Lace Corset Strap On Harness
- Best Jock-Style Harness: Strap U Avalon Jock Style
- Best Vegan Leather Harness: Strap-On-Me Curious Harness
- Best Suction-Cup Compatible Harness: King Cock Comfy Body Dock Strap-On Harness
- Best Padded Strap-On Harness: Strap-On-Me Desirous Harness
Deep Dive: Our Top Pics
Strap-On-Me Rebel Harness
Best Overall Choice
Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWhat we love the most about the Strap-On-Me Rebel Harness is the fact that it’s ultra-comfortable. Not only that, it looks super sexy, delivering some of that femme fatale aesthetic. Most of us enjoy underwear-style harnesses because they’re incredibly easy to put on. The design also helps stabilize the dildo, facilitating penetration even if you’re a complete newbie. The harness is available in numerous sizes, making it great for both petite and extra-curvy ladies. It has a sturdy O-ring in the front that will be compatible with most flared base dildos. The supportive wide waistband also helps you get better control over the thrusting action. Who It's ForThis timeless harness design makes the product great for everyone. You’ll rock it if you’re a complete pegging newbie. More experienced users will also have an amazing time, especially when the right probe gets paired with the pegging harness.
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Strap U Bardot Elastic Strap-On Harness with Thigh Cuffs
Best Strap-On Harness for Beginners
Our Rating: 4.7/5 Why We Picked ItA round of ovations for whoever came up with this design. We enjoyed the sexy feel of the thigh cuffs that attach to the underwear-style harness. The leather front plate increases the erotic appeal even further, adding some naughty BDSM vibes. We found the harness easy to put on and very comfortable. The straps are elasticized and the harness can fit waists of up to 60 inches. The cuffs may be a bit too tight on curvaceous thighs but most of our testers had no such issues. An O-ring in the front works well with most dildos. The harness is provided with two interchangeable rings (secured via a snap system), giving even more options for the exploration of an extensive dildo collection. Who It's ForThe harness for dildo play is easy to put on and it stabilizes the probe nicely. Most people will have a great time with this one on the very first try – we recommend the product for absolutely everyone.
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Strap U Domina Adjustable Wide Band Strap On Harness
Best Value Strap-On Harness
Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItStrap U Domina has a clean, minimalist design that we dig a lot. It gives you the bare essentials constructed from soft faux leather. The material feels very comfortable, it’s easy to clean and long-lived. A wide band makes the harness a breeze to use and stabilize – you’ll feel that movements are very natural with this one on. The harness is provided with one O-ring but the snap system allows you to replace it with any other size. The design of the harness is so sexy. It’s a thong-style contraption that hugs your curves. The back strap will make your booty look delicious and it acts as an additional stabilization element. Who It's ForFlexible and comfortable, the harness will fit most bodies nicely. It’s also very easy to move in, regardless of experience level.
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Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus Size Strap-On Harness
Best Plus-Size Harness
Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItA few of our curvy testers tried the Sportsheets Divine Diva with their significant others. Great comfort and an excellent fit were the two things they noticed immediately upon putting the harness on. The design is very size-inclusive, fitting hips of up to 82 inches. The open back guarantees freedom of movement and it also gives a lover the perfect view when you turn around. This plus-size strap on harness for women comes with three interchangeable O-rings. Having this variety means your entire dildo collection will probably work well with the harness for strap on fun. Who It's ForPerfect for all body types, the harness is easy to put on. With its three interchangeable O-rings, it will also work very well with most standard dildos.
Her Royal Harness The Regal QueenBest Elegant Harness
Shots RealRock Boxer with HarnessBest Boxer-Brief Harness
Her Royal Harness the Regal EmpressBest Stylish and Comfortable Harness
Her Royal Harness The DuchessBest Double Penetration Harness
Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness with Wireless Vibrating PlugBest Vibrating Harness
Sportsheets Red Lace Corset Strap On HarnessBest Corset Style Harness
Strap U Avalon Jock Style Strap-On HarnessBest Jock-Style Harness
Strap-On-Me Curious HarnessBest Vegan Leather Harness
King Cock Comfy Body Dock Strap-On HarnessBest Suction-Cup Compatible Harness
Strap-On-Me Desirous HarnessBest Padded Strap-On Harness
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Why Trust Our Reviews?
HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use.
Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you.
When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight.
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