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Best Strap-On Harnesses for Wild, Sexy Partnered Play

Best Strap-On Harnesses for Wild, Sexy Partnered Play

Editorial Team |

Have things gotten a little bit boring in the bedroom? It’s time to try something new: a little bit of role reversal can unlock a new sex level that’s equal parts exciting and empowering. Having a good strap-on harness is all it takes to start doing the things that you’d previously only fantasized about.

A strap-on harness for women is the perfect tool for pegging or for some intense girl-on-girl action. Our testers strapped on (literally!) dozens of these products to discover the best strap-on harnesses and help you make the right selection. Here we bring you our top choices and address a few pressing matters!

Quick Overview of Our Top Pics

  1. Best Overall: Strap-On-Me Rebel Harness
  2. Best for Beginners: Strap U Bardot Elastic Strap-on Harness with Thigh Cuffs
  3. Best Value: Strap U Domina Adjustable Wide Band Strap On Harness
  4. Best Plus-Size Harness: Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus Sized Strap-On Harness
  5. Most Elegant Harness: Her Royal Harness The Regal Queen
  6. Best Boxer-Brief Harness: Shots RealRock Boxer with Harness
  7. Most Stylish and Comfortable: Her Royal Harness the Regal Empress
  8. Best for Double Penetration: Her Royal Harness The Duchess
  9. Best Vibrating Harness: Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness with Wireless Vibrating Plug
  10. Best Corset Style Harness: Sportsheets Red Lace Corset Strap On Harness
  11. Best Jock-Style Harness: Strap U Avalon Jock Style
  12. Best Vegan Leather Harness: Strap-On-Me Curious Harness
  13. Best Suction-Cup Compatible Harness: King Cock Comfy Body Dock Strap-On Harness
  14. Best Padded Strap-On Harness: Strap-On-Me Desirous Harness
Deep Dive: Our Top Pics

Strap-On-Me Rebel Harness

Best Overall Choice

Our Rating: 4.9/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 5/5
Maintenance: 5/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

What we love the most about the Strap-On-Me Rebel Harness is the fact that it’s ultra-comfortable. Not only that, it looks super sexy, delivering some of that femme fatale aesthetic.

Most of us enjoy underwear-style harnesses because they’re incredibly easy to put on. The design also helps stabilize the dildo, facilitating penetration even if you’re a complete newbie.

The harness is available in numerous sizes, making it great for both petite and extra-curvy ladies. It has a sturdy O-ring in the front that will be compatible with most flared base dildos. The supportive wide waistband also helps you get better control over the thrusting action.

Who It's For

This timeless harness design makes the product great for everyone. You’ll rock it if you’re a complete pegging newbie. More experienced users will also have an amazing time, especially when the right probe gets paired with the pegging harness.

Specs

Dimensions S, M, L, XL, XXL
Material Nylon, Elastane, Mesh
Features Elastic
Stretchy Waistband
Open Back
Lingerie-Style Design
Machine-Washable

Strap U Bardot Elastic Strap-On Harness with Thigh Cuffs

Best Strap-On Harness for Beginners

Our Rating: 4.7/5
Quality: 4/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 5/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

A round of ovations for whoever came up with this design. We enjoyed the sexy feel of the thigh cuffs that attach to the underwear-style harness. The leather front plate increases the erotic appeal even further, adding some naughty BDSM vibes.

We found the harness easy to put on and very comfortable. The straps are elasticized and the harness can fit waists of up to 60 inches. The cuffs may be a bit too tight on curvaceous thighs but most of our testers had no such issues.

An O-ring in the front works well with most dildos. The harness is provided with two interchangeable rings (secured via a snap system), giving even more options for the exploration of an extensive dildo collection.

Who It's For

The harness for dildo play is easy to put on and it stabilizes the probe nicely. Most people will have a great time with this one on the very first try – we recommend the product for absolutely everyone.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 60 in
Material Leatherette, elastic, metal
Features Flexible
Fits dildos up to 2"
Thigh Straps
Wide elastic straps
Spot-cleaning

Strap U Domina Adjustable Wide Band Strap On Harness

Best Value Strap-On Harness

Our Rating: 4.8/5
Quality: 4/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 5/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

Strap U Domina has a clean, minimalist design that we dig a lot. It gives you the bare essentials constructed from soft faux leather. The material feels very comfortable, it’s easy to clean and long-lived.

A wide band makes the harness a breeze to use and stabilize – you’ll feel that movements are very natural with this one on. The harness is provided with one O-ring but the snap system allows you to replace it with any other size.

The design of the harness is so sexy. It’s a thong-style contraption that hugs your curves. The back strap will make your booty look delicious and it acts as an additional stabilization element.

Who It's For

Flexible and comfortable, the harness will fit most bodies nicely. It’s also very easy to move in, regardless of experience level.

 

Specs

Dimensions Up to 60 in
Material Leatherette, elastic, metal
Features Flexible
Metal O-ring Snaps
FOrm-Fitting Design
Wide Elastic Band
Spot-Cleaning

Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus Size Strap-On Harness

Best Plus-Size Harness

Our Rating: 4.8/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 5/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Plus-Size Ladies

Why We Picked It

A few of our curvy testers tried the Sportsheets Divine Diva with their significant others. Great comfort and an excellent fit were the two things they noticed immediately upon putting the harness on.

The design is very size-inclusive, fitting hips of up to 82 inches. The open back guarantees freedom of movement and it also gives a lover the perfect view when you turn around.

This plus-size strap on harness for women comes with three interchangeable O-rings. Having this variety means your entire dildo collection will probably work well with the harness for strap on fun.

Who It's For

Perfect for all body types, the harness is easy to put on. With its three interchangeable O-rings, it will also work very well with most standard dildos.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 82in waist, Up to 44 in thighs
Material PE, PU, PP, Nylon, Nitrile O Ring, ABS, Metal, Brass
Features 4-Way Adjustable Straps
Flexible
3 O-rings
Heavy-Duty Construction
Spot Cleaning

Her Royal Harness The Regal Queen

Best Elegant Harness

Our Rating: 4.7/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 4/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Experienced

Why We Picked It

Her Royal Harness strap-on designs are distinctive. You’ll enjoy them a lot if you’re looking for something different from the traditional black leather harness.

The Regal Queen comes in two beautiful colors – an elegant grey and a regal burgundy. Constructed from soft faux leather, it’s very comfortable and it fits like a glove. Most of our testers loved the look of it and the harness was amazing on all body types.

Provided with a set of three interchangeable O-rings, The Regal Queen can accommodate dildos that range in girth from 1.5 to two inches. Snap closure straps make it very easy to take one of the rings out and replace it with another.

Who It's For

This luxurious harness is great for everyone – it is comfortable, adjustable, and very easy to use. As it’s more expensive than other harness systems, however, it may be a better pick for people who are already into pegging/role reversal and know they’ll use it quite often.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 64 in
Material PVC Plastic, Polyester, Iron
Features Flexible
Adjustable
Elegant Design
Plush Velvety Lining
Three 1.5, 1.75 and 2 inch O-rings

Shots RealRock Boxer with Harness

Best Boxer-Brief Harness

Our Rating: 4.7/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 4/5
Ease of Use: 5/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

Some of us prefer comfort and practical appeal and we were really pleased with the Shots RealRock boxer-style harness. Let’s get the most important thing out of the way first – this is the most comfortable strap-on out of all we tested. It’s also as easy to put on as regular underwear.

The sleek, body-hugging design also makes the harness very sexy. It looks good on petite and it also looks good on curvy bodies. Highly elasticized, the harness can correspond to sizes ranging from 6 to 12.

An O-ring design makes the harness compatible with all dildos measuring up to 1.97 inches in diameter. For added convenience, the boxer-style harness is machine-washable.

Who It's For

Easy to put on, comfortable, and sexy, the Shots RealRock Boxer with Harness will appeal to everyone. It works well with most dildos and ensures the stability of thrusting for some intense bedroom action.

Specs

Dimensions S to XL
Material 82% polyester, 18% spandex
Features Flexible
Wide Waistband
Sturdy O-ring
Machine Washable
Sturdy for extended wear

Her Royal Harness the Regal Empress

Best Stylish and Comfortable Harness

Our Rating: 4.8/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 4/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Experienced

Why We Picked It

The Regal Empress is so sexy. It leaves a lot of flesh exposed while being functional enough to keep a dildo in place for easy partner penetration. It’s also constructed for comfort – the material feels soft and there’s enough padding to ensure a smooth fit.

Most of us got the harness to fit impeccably well. The adjustable straps make it a good pick for anyone whose waist measures up to 64 inches.

The kit has three interchangeable O-rings that can accommodate dildos ranging in girth from 1.5 to two inches. An easy snap closure secures the ring in place and stabilizes the dildo when things get heated.For added convenience, the strap-on harness is fully machine-washable.

Who It's For

Such a minimalist design can be a bit challenging for more inexperienced users. The Regal Empress is also a premium product that costs more than standard harnesses. It’s a good choice for those who intend to engage in a lot of pegging/role reversal/girl-on-girl action.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 64 in
Material PVC Plastic, Polyester, Iron
Features Flexible, Elegant Design
Adjustable Straps
Machine Washable
Plush Velvety Lining
Crotchless Design
Fits 1.5, 1.75 and 2 inch O-rings

Her Royal Harness The Duchess

Best Double Penetration Harness

Our Rating: 4.7/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 4/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Experienced

Why We Picked It

Things are about to get steamier than they already are. Her Royal Harness The Duchess doesn’t just look sexy. It’s designed to enable multiple arousing scenarios, including double penetration fantasies.

We loved the minimalist design and the fact that the straps still have a velvety lining for added comfort. The harness is very soft and ergonomic, hugging the body in all the right places.

The front is constructed with two O-rings positioned underneath each other. As a result, the harness can hold two probes for some enticing double penetration play. Controlling two dildos instead of one requires some skill but once we got into a rhythm, The Duchess was very easy to use.

The kit is provided with two rings measuring 1.5 and two inches. Both are suitable for top and bottom placement in the harness.

Who It's For

Double penetration play requires some prior experience with strap-ons. Her Royal Harness The Duchess is a great choice for intermediate and experienced users who want to take their erotic endeavors to the next level.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 64 in
Material Polyurethane, Nickel-Free Alloy, Polyester
Features Adjustable Design
Stylish and Comfortable
Two O-rings
Adaptable Velcro Straps
Machine Washable

Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness with Wireless Vibrating Plug

Best Vibrating Harness

Our Rating: 4.8/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 4/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

We’ve reviewed lots of Vac-U-Lock products, each one intensifying our love for the system. The Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness is a clever, versatile contraption that is also comfortable and easy to use.

Three O-rings and a Vac-U-Lock plug make the harness compatible with any Vac-U-Lock attachment. As an added bonus, the plug vibrates and can immediately transform a simple dildo into a powerful pleasure machine.

You get an intuitive wireless remote with the system, allowing for easy vibration speed and pattern adjustments. With its adjustable straps, the harness can match everyone’s body type. It will fit waists of up to 69 inches comfortably.

Who It's For

So versatile and easy to use, the Vac-U-Lock vibrating harness is a great choice for people who own dildos or other attachments within the brand’s range.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 69 in
Material ABS Plastic, Neoprene
Features Adjustable Harness
Vibrating Vac-U-Lock Plug
USB Rechargeable
Wireless Remote COntroller
7 Vibrating Patterns

Sportsheets Red Lace Corset Strap On Harness

Best Corset Style Harness

Our Rating: 4.7/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 4/5
Ease of Use: 4/5
Maintenance: 5/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

The corset-style booty lace-up on this strap-on harness is so hot! It gets you excited to put the thing on and take it for a spin and that’s precisely what we did.

The Sportsheets Red Lace Corset Strap-On Harness is very adjustable and it fits hips of up to 60 inches. The straps are actually four-way adjustable and we found it very easy to get the harness sitting exactly where it needed to be.

A front stabilization plate keeps the dildo in place during penetration. This strap-on harness comes with three interchangeable O-rings and most dildo sizes will fit comfortably inside it.

Who It's For

Super sexy and easy to use, the lace corset strap-on harness is great for everyone. One thing we’d like to mention is that the adjustability happens to be a bit limited when compared to that of other harnesses. More curvaceous ladies may want to pick one of the other models on our list.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 60 in
Material Polyester, polypropylene, polyurethane, nickel-free metal, ABS plastic
Features Adjustable Straps
1.5", 1.75" and 2" O-rings
Machine Washable
Corset-style Lace-Up Design
Red Sexy Design

Strap U Avalon Jock Style Strap-On Harness

Best Jock-Style Harness

Our Rating: 4.8/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 4/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

It’s advertised as an extended wear harness, capable of preventing chaffing and rubbing against sensitive bits. Naturally, we had to try it.

The Strap U Avalon pegging harness does indeed feel comfortable and soft. The front stabilization plate keeps the dildo from causing discomfort and in the heat of the moment, some of our testers forgot that they were using a contraption.

Sleek and minimal, it looks good and it leaves the booty fully exposed. The elasticized waist strap can fit waists of up to 46 inches. While it’s not the most size-inclusive harness, the Strap U Avalon is a high-quality choice for those who fall within the respective range.

Who It's For

Very comfortable and well-designed, Strap U Avalon is a strap-on harness that most people will enjoy. The only con we have to mention is the absence of a wider range of sizes to guarantee plus-sized inclusivity.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 46 in
Material Spandex, Nylon, Elastic, Metal
Features Wide Elastic Band
Adjustable straps
Universal O-ring
Open Back
Hand Washable

Strap-On-Me Curious Harness

Best Vegan Leather Harness

Our Rating: 4.7/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 4/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

The Strap-On-Me Curious Harness is so comfortable. Out of all the models we reviewed, it comes with the most padding for a soft and natural feel. It’s perfect for longer sessions as it doesn’t cause any chaffing and it stabilizes the probe really well.

This is a cruelty-free, fully vegan piece. At the same time, it replicates the appearance of genuine leather and it feels luxurious.

A Velcro closure system makes the harness easy to put on. There are also elasticized straps in the front plate, allowing for the easy placement of the dildo inside the O-ring.

The only thing you should be aware of is the size of the harness. While it’s advertised as a one-size-fits-all product, it’s not the best choice for more curvaceous women.

Who It's For

It’s a great strap-on harness for people seeking comfort. Strap-On-Me Curious will also appeal to individuals who avoid unethical products and would prefer a fully vegan creation.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 40 in
Material Leatherette (polyurethane), Silicone, Metal
Features Adjustable Wasitband
Elastic Dildo Holding System
Velcro Closing
Travel Lock
6 Vibrating Patterns
Remote Control

King Cock Comfy Body Dock Strap-On Harness

Best Suction-Cup Compatible Harness

Our Rating: 4.7/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 4/5
Ease of Use: 5/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Everyone

Why We Picked It

The Body Dock system is one of our favorites because it expands the use of suction cup dildos. We hadn’t used a Body Dock harness before but we found this particular product very convenient and user-friendly.

Minimal design and adjustable straps make the harness easy to put on. The suction cup dock worked well with most of the dildos that we decided to pair with it. We also liked the fact that the front plate keeps the probe at a very natural angle, allowing for easy and intensely pleasurable penetration.

As an added bonus, the entire thing is machine washable. The heavy-duty nylon the straps are made of is expected to remain in good condition for many years to come.

Who It's For

This is a stellar product for everyone. It works with such an extensive range of suction cup dildos that the harness will meet the needs of both newbies and the pegging/girl-on-girl action pros.

Specs

Dimensions Up to 54 in
Material Nylon, ABS (plastic), PU
Features Suction Cup Dock
Push and Play Design
Adjustable STraps
Soft Back Padding
Machine Washable

Strap-On-Me Desirous Harness

Best Padded Strap-On Harness

Our Rating: 4.9/5
Quality: 5/5
Design: 5/5
Ease of Use: 5/5
Maintenance: 4/5
Recommended For: Experienced

Why We Picked It

This one is so sexy and the design makes you forget that you’re wearing a strappy contraption. More than enough padding guarantees softness and eliminates the risk of chaffing, even with prolonged use.

We were curious about the front plate-free design. The O-ring sits directly against the skin, which is supposed to give you better control over the dildo. That claim was easy to comfort. The Desirous Harness feels good and the probe almost feels like an extension of your body.

The waist straps allow for a lot of adjustability, meaning that one size will fit most people. This design is fairly plus-size-friendly and sits well on all body types.

Who It's For

As it lacks a stabilization plate, this strap-on for women is best suited to the needs of users who already have some experience with harnesses.

Specs

Dimensions Adjustable
Material Leatherette (polyurethane), Silicone, Metal
Features Unique, Minimalist Design
Padded Straps
Adjustable Wasit
Adjustable Straps
Spot-Cleaning

Why Trust Our Reviews?

HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use.

Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you.

When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight.

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