Things You Should Pay Attention to When Shopping for a Strap-On Harness
A strap-on harness seems like such a simple accessory – a few straps, an O-ring to hold the dildo in place… So, choosing one should be fairly simple, right?
Yes, choosing a comfortable strap-on harness is easy if you know what you’re looking for. To make things simple, we’ve listed some of the most important things to pay attention to when shopping.
Harness Style: The style of harness refers to exactly where the straps will go. Some people find one style more comfortable, some fancy another type of placement. Most harnesses are divided in three main categories – G-string, jock strap and brief or boxer harness. The first one has a waist band and an additional strap going down between the butt cheeks. The second variety has a waistband, as well, but the additional straps go around and under the buttocks. Finally, many people fancy underwear-style harnesses because these are deemed most comfortable. If you’re into kinks and visuals, straps may be a bigger turn-on than boxers or briefs.
Size: Strap-on harnesses need to be secured comfortably around the waist of the wearer. This is why the right size is very, very important. A harness that’s too small will be very uncomfortable to wear. Large strap-on harnesses are going to be loose and they’ll diminish control over sexual play. Usually, you will need to measure your waist to determine what strap-on harness is right for you.
Material: Comfort will also be determined by the material that the straps are made of. Sex toy makers can use a wide range of materials and fabrics – nylon, neoprene, leather, faux leather, spandex, polyester, etc. The ring that holds the dildo will usually be crafted from some kind of metal. When choosing a material, keep your comfort considerations in mind. Also, you should have a good idea about care and maintenance.
Attachment: Do you tie the straps or is there Velcro on each end? The attachment style will give you both comfort and a snug fit. If the strap-on harness is properly secured around your waist, you’ll forget about the most common practical considerations and you’ll get to focus on having fun with your partner.
Will it be worn by more than one person: If a husband and wife duo (or a girlfriend and boyfriend) plan to both use the strap-on harness, the accessory should be versatile enough to fit both. Many items aren’t created to sit comfortably around both a male and a female waist. If you’re looking for versatility, you’ll definitely need to spend a bit more time identifying the right product.
Multiple O-rings: While this one isn’t a necessity, it can be a cool practical feature. Some strap-on harnesses brag a set of differently sized O-rings. Such a kit makes it possible to use various dildo sizes with the accessory. Anyone who’s into fun sexual experiments will enjoy the flexibility that such a strap-on harness brings to the table.
Support: The role of the harnesses and the O-ring is to support the weight of the dildo and enable a good range of motion (as well as various penetration angles). Looking at the construction itself can give you some clue about the level of support you’ll enjoy from that specific product. Customer reviews can also be very enlightening when it comes to how stable the dildo feels with that particular harness type.
Just a strap-on harness or a set: If you already have a good collection of dildos, you should probably get just a strap-on harness. This product gives you just the straps that you use to fasten the dildo to your body. Some companies also make strap-on harness and dildo sets. If you don’t want to work out compatibility, a set is a perfect choice for you.
Compatibility with your toys: Most dildos out there are created for full compatibility with standard O-ring harnesses. Still, you should definitely double check before investing in an accessory that could potentially be unusable with your favorite toy. Also, make sure that the dildo will sit comfortably against your body when you slide it into the harness. Dildos that have a flat and broad base are usually the ones that will work well with your brand new harness.
Additional features: Some strap-on harnesses could give you a couple of additional conveniences worth exploring. Strap-on harnesses that have a pocket for a vibrating bullet are a lot of fun. This way, the vibrations will be experienced both by the wearer and the receiver. Also, the market could feature strap-on harnesses that can accommodate more than one dildo. If you’re interested in experimenting with double penetration, such a harness would make things a lot easier.
