As exciting as the use of strap-ons may be, you’re probably also thinking how do they work. Does the strap-on feel intuitive to use? What’s the secret of picking a strap-on that will fit like a glove and become almost an extension of your body?
We’re here to answer these questions. Let’s look at how a strap-on works and what are the secrets of using a strap-on for the steamiest sex ever.
What Is a Strap-On?
A strap-on is a sex toy that you strap on your body to have penetrative sex with a partner. Most strap-ons consist of two pieces – a harness and a dildo or a probe for penetration. Alternatives do exist in the form of strapless strap-ons but more about those later.
Strap-ons can be sold as a kit or you can buy the two pieces separately. It’s also possible for a set that you own to be compatible with other dildos that you have in your collection. Standard strap-on harnesses have an O-ring that supports the dildo and keeps it in place. Most flared base dildos will fit inside an O-ring (as long as the diameters of the two are compatible).
How to Use a Strap-On
Strap-on use is different from pleasuring a partner with another penetrative toy in that you’ll both be enjoying a hands-free experience. First, you’ll need to secure the harness around your waist and your hips, if your harness has hip straps. Most strap-on harnesses have adjustable straps that you can tighten or loosen to get the best fit. There are also underwear style strap-on boxers.
Now you’re ready for the most enjoyable part of using the strap-on. To give you better tips and usage suggestions, we first need to discuss the various types of strap-ons and the differences between them.
Strap-On Kits
As already mentioned, a strap-on kit consists of a harness and a probe. These give you a perfect fit and they’re a great choice for beginners who don’t yet own a sex toy collection. Using a strap-on set involves securing the probe in the harness and tightening the straps around your waist and hips.
Strap-on kits are designed for certain kinds of sex. You’ll find kits that have a narrow, slightly curved probe that’s perfect for prostate massages. Kits can also be created for G-spot stimulation, sexual enhancement or to help couples overcome a certain kind of sexual dysfunction.
Vibrating Strap-Ons
Using a strap-on that vibrates immediately increases the intensity of the experience. Vibrating strap-ons feature a harness and a probe that vibrates. There will also be a button or remote controller, allowing the user to turn the vibrations on and adjust their strength. The most common controller types include wired and wireless remotes, but some models come with dedicated mobile apps.
A vibrating strap-on dildo is powered by a battery, in most cases a rechargeable one. That’s one more thing you have to keep in mind when using the strap-on – you’ll have to make sure the battery is charged in advance so that you don’t lose the pleasant function in the middle of having sex.
Realistic Strap-Ons
A realistic strap-on comes with a dildo or a probe having an anatomically correct design. The probe is created to look and feel like an actual erect penis. Realistic strap-ons are used like all other strap-on kits. In some cases, the realistic dildo can also vibrate for added pleasure.
Hollow Strap-Ons
The probe that the kit features is hollow, making it possible for the wearer to put their penis inside the sheath. Both men and women can wear a hollow strap-on dildo. Most guys use hollow strap-ons to increase the size of their penis and give their partner a new experience. A hollow strap-on is also perfect for overcoming sexual problems like premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.
Strapless Strap-Ons
The absence of straps makes a strapless strap-on dildo super liberating. This contraption consists of a probe that has two ends – a retention bulb that goes inside the wearer’s vagina and a penetration probe.
A strapless strap-on is meant to be held and controlled via the pelvic floor muscles. The design also makes the strapless strap-on pleasurable for both the wearer and the recipient. Strapless strap-ons can have a clitoral stimulation pad for the wearer to enjoy and they could also vibrate.
This kind of strap-on is a bit more challenging to use than harnessed varieties. Doing kegel exercises is one of the keys to having perfect control over the probe. Some people who aren’t that experienced pair a strapless strap-on with a harness until they get more comfortable with the design.
Strap-On Underwear
Strap-on underwear can come in the form of boxers, briefs, or even a sexy thong. The strap-on underwear has a front pocket and an O-ring opening meant to hold a probe in place. This is the strap-on that we find easiest to use. All you have to do is put the underwear on, secure the dildo in place, and get going.