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Why We Love Sex Toys: Psychology of Sex Toy Use

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Why We Love Sex Toys: Psychology of Sex Toy Use

by Kate Miller on Jan 28 2026
Sex is a natural urge and quite essential for procreation. It is also a gratifying and satisfying activity that we highly recommend. Apart from having sex with a partner, the other option is to use sex toys. Believe us when we tell you the adult toy industry has come a long way since the invention of the first mechanized vibrator over 150 years ago. Another thing we must point out is that sex toys have become mainstream and readily accepted by society. Still, many find issues with sex toys, so here we’ll discuss the psychological aspect of using various sex toys. Please read on as we explain how sex toys influence one’s self-esteem, help with sexual satisfaction, and can improve relationship dynamics. What Are Sex Toys? Sex toys are objects or devices that are used for sexual play and sexual satisfaction. We love that many of these are designed to resemble human genitals like the penis and vagina. These can be manual like the dildos and pocket pussies and battery-operated models that can vibrate, thrust, suck, pulsate, heat up, or perform another movement. Their primary goal is to bring sexual stimulation and enhance sexual pleasure. Let’s now take a look at the psychological aspect of using sex toys and how these impact individuals and couples. Psychological Benefits of Sex Toys Let’s discuss the main topic of our article and outline the leading psychological effects sex toys have. The main thing we’ll start with is the fact that sex toys can enhance anyone’s sexual experience. There are sex toys for people of all experiences, so we suggest you look for the toy best suited to your experience level. The following psychological benefit sex toys bring is they help improve body positivity. Using a sex toy to explore your own body promotes a healthier outlook on your body image. It also allows you to overcome some of the negative misconceptions you may have about your body. It dramatically increases self-esteem, which positively affects the overall outlook on life. Using sex toys allows you to learn about your body and explore your sexual preferences. Exploring some sexual fantasies can be tricky, especially if you are afraid to share them with your partner or you want to try something new. But taking advantage of the correct sex toy can potentially lead to more fulfilling sexual experiences and discovering more of your desires. Sex and orgasms are therapeutic, so using sex toys to achieve more orgasms is excellent for your health. Also, one of the key effects of regular orgasms is the reduction of stress and anxiety, and, of course, better sleep and more profound relaxation. If you ask us, these are all great effects from regular sex toy use, which we highly recommend you try. Potential Issues with Sex Toy Use While we are all for self-exploration and sexual liberation, there are some potential issues related to sex toy use. Namely, the main one is becoming emotionally or psychologically dependent on sex toys, either for sexual satisfaction or for self-worth. It can become a real problem for people who are too reliant on sex toys and are not open to exploring things with an actual partner. Another potential issue of the over-use of sex toys is that these may establish unrealistic expectations of what a partner should provide. Also, similar to over-dependence on pornography, some sex toys may lead to unrealistic expectations about body image and partnered sex. Here, we need to mention some new technologies that are now found in many sex toys. We are talking about using VR technology in combination with sex toys, where people get a quasi-immersive sexual experience. While it may be a good and thrilling experience for some, we must pose the question of twisting reality and creating an unhealthy outlook on reality. Achieving an orgasm is both a physiological and a psychological experience and for some, doing this with a sex toy can bring a feeling of shame or guilt. It may be more common in people who come from cultures where sex toy use is not widespread or discussed openly. Overuse of some sex toys can have an adverse effect on the sensory sensitivity of the body, and some individuals may even become desensitized to regular stimulation and can only achieve orgasms via using sex toys. Sometimes, this can contribute to negative body images or concerns, like the question, “What is wrong with me?” However, moderate use of sex toys should not make any impact on this, which is why we always advise you to start low and go slow. Sex Toys Are Beneficial for Relationships Using sex toys in a relationship can have a positive effect on the partners. For one, it can enhance communication and significantly boost the intimacy between the partners. Just introducing the sex toy in the relationship and trying it once can be highly effective, as it forces the partners to talk about their expectations and share their hidden desires. It can help both partners fight any insecurity about their place in the relationship. But please note that for this, you both should approach the sex toy use with open minds and open communication. You both should accept that the sex toy is not a replacement for the partner but is meant to improve the relationship and provide mutual satisfaction. When done correctly, using sex toys in a relationship will strengthen the relationship. For this, we suggest you look for sex toys for couples or check out finger vibrators that are handy when you wish to add something extra to partnered sexy time. The remote-controlled vibrators and app-controlled sex toys also help bridge a distance gap, which positively affects any long-distance relationship and brings partners closer. By being able to share a sexual experience even when apart, a couple will experience a boost in intimacy, which brings comfort to the partners and further strengthens the relationship. Let’s also note that when you introduce sex toys into your relationship, you can challenge or even break the traditional gender norms. Think in terms of trying pegging or strap-on sex, and if you feel intrigued, then take a look at the specialized sex toys, and you’ll get some ideas. Who Should Use Sex Toys? There is no limit to who can use sex toys as long as we are talking about consenting adults. However, we must note that younger people are more likely to use sex toys; namely, they are more open to trying different things. However, there are many benefits from sex toys that older individuals can reap, especially people with limited mobility or other health issues. There may be some cultural boundaries related to sex toy use. Often, more conservative societies tend to have an adverse attitude towards sex toys. Personal upbringing also plays a role here, and this can sometimes have a strong psychological impact on how some people receive and use sex toys. Men & Women & Sex Toys When it comes to sex toys, women have more variety to choose from than men. It is mainly due to anatomy, as women can enjoy vaginal penetration, clitoral stimulation, and anal stimulation, as opposed to men, who are limited to penile and anal stimuli. Women can enjoy significant benefits from sex toys; namely, many sex toys are more inclined to provide sexual pleasure and female empowerment. Historically, women’s sexual pleasure was put in the background as opposed to male sexual pleasure. But sex toys changed this, and women were free to explore their sexuality and find new ways towards sexual pleasure and orgasmic release. Men are not left behind, as the adult toy industry has made so many improvements regarding male pleasure that men have so many options to try. It has a very positive effect on how men perform sexually, especially with the use of performance-enhancing toys like cock rings or stamina-training toys like male masturbators. But there are also sex toys that address loneliness, like sex dolls; many of these can be excellent sexual companions for people with social anxiety or other psychological issues. The Bottom Line As we outlined above, there are many psychological effects and benefits from regular sex toy use, and it is evident why people love using sex toys. However, we only scratched the surface here, as there are many more profound implications related to the psychology of sex toy use. Still, we must emphasize that when used correctly, sex toys can bring a better balance in the relationship dynamics and can promote healthy, fulfilling sexual experiences. For that, we wish to invite you to browse our sex toy store, where you’ll find an incredible selection of sex toys for any taste, preference, and experience. Additionally, check out our blog; here, we share a wealth of knowledge and guides on choosing and using various sex toys that you can use as starting points in your continuous sexual exploration and improvement. Learn More With Our Sex Toy Guides: How to Store Sex Toys? How to Choose Anal Toys? How to Choose a Large Butt Plug? How to Choose Anal Beads? How to Choose an Inflatable Butt Plug? How to Choose a Vibrating Strap-On? How to Prepare for Pegging? How to Use a Thrusting Dildo? How to Use Anal Toys? How to Measure for Anal Toys? How to Use Anal Trainers? How to Use a Butt Plug? How to Use an Inflatable Butt Plug? How to Use A Prostate Massager?
Best Bed Sheets for Sex

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3 Best Bed Sheets for Sex

by Kate Miller on Jan 28 2026
Finding the best bed sheets for sex can make a big difference if you want to relax and enjoy yourself without worrying about mess, stains, or constant laundry. This category is especially helpful for couples and anyone who wants to protect their mattress and keep cleanup simple. These picks are best for people who want something practical, easy to use, and stress-free. I selected them based on how well they solve the problem of protection, how convenient they are in everyday use, and how they balance comfort with functionality.
Best Stainless Steel Sex Toys

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5 Best Stainless Steel Sex Toys

by Kate Miller on Jan 28 2026
Finding the best stainless steel sex toys can feel intimidating at first, especially if you have only used softer materials before. This category is best for people who want something simple, durable, and easy to keep clean, without dealing with complicated features or electronics. These picks solve the problem of finding reliable, long-lasting toys that feel solid and straightforward to use. I selected them by focusing on how practical they are in real use, how easy they are to understand, and how well each one fits a specific purpose, whether that is value, budget, or a more specialized design.
Best Gay-Friendly Sex Toys

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5 Best Gay-Friendly Sex Toys

by Kate Miller on Jan 28 2026
Finding the best gay-friendly sex toys can feel confusing if you are just getting started and not sure what kind of products make sense for you. This guide is for beginners and for anyone who wants simple, approachable options without having to deal with complicated features or guesswork. These picks solve the problem of choosing reliable, easy-to-understand toys that fit different needs and budgets. I selected them by focusing on how straightforward they are to use, how practical they feel in everyday life, and how well each one serves a specific purpose, whether that is overall quality, value, or a more specialized use.
Best Glow in the Dark Sex Toys for Easy, Fun Play

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6 Best Glow in the Dark Sex Toys for Easy, Fun Play

by Kate Miller on Jan 27 2026
Glow in the dark sex toys are perfect for anyone who wants to add a fun, playful visual element to their intimate time without making things complicated. I found these especially appealing for beginners because they work just like normal toys, but with a simple extra twist that makes them more exciting in low light or at night. In this guide, I tested and reviewed the best glow in the dark sex toys based on how easy they are to use, how comfortable they feel, and how well they perform in real use. These picks were selected based on hands on testing, material quality, ease of cleaning, and overall experience, with a strong focus on toys that do not feel intimidating for someone just starting out.
5 Best Beginner BDSM Masks and Hoods (Comfortable & Easy to Use)

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5 Best Beginner BDSM Masks and Hoods (Comfortable & Easy to Use)

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
Trying masks and hoods is a simple way to explore power play, roleplay, and light sensory deprivation without needing complicated gear or experience. A good mask or hood can help you focus on the moment, add a sense of mystery, or gently change the dynamic between partners in a very approachable way. I put this guide together after going through customer feedback, product descriptions, and hands on impressions of the most popular beginner friendly options in our store. I focused on comfort, ease of use, and designs that feel fun rather than intimidating. If you are curious but not sure where to start, these picks are meant to make your first experience feel simple, safe, and enjoyable.
Best Sex Toys for Couples to Explore Together

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8 Best Sex Toys for Couples to Explore Together

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you are curious about adding toys to your couple’s play but feel a bit overwhelmed by all the choices, this guide is for you. The best sex toys for couples are not about replacing anything. They are about making it easier to explore, communicate, and enjoy new sensations together in a relaxed way. I picked these toys based on how easy they are to use, how versatile they are for two people, and how well they perform in real use. I focused on comfort, quality, and beginner friendliness, and only included products that felt reliable, well made, and genuinely fun to use together.
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6 Best Kegel Trainers for Easy Pelvic Floor Training

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
Ben Wa balls and kegel exercisers are a simple way to work on pelvic floor muscles while also adding a new kind of sensation to everyday life. This guide to the best Ben Wa balls & kegel exercisers is especially for beginners who want something easy to use, comfortable, and not intimidating. These products are designed to help with gentle training while also making the experience more engaging. I selected these picks based on hands-on testing, overall quality, ease of use, and how suitable they feel for someone just starting out. I also looked at product design, materials, features, and real customer feedback to focus on options that feel reliable, practical, and beginner friendly.
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4 Best BDSM Crops for Teasing and Light Impact Play

by Kate Miller on Jan 26 2026
If you are curious about impact play and want something that is easy to use and not overly complicated, BDSM crops are a great place to start. They are lightweight, simple to handle, and give you a lot of control over how light or firm the sensation is. This makes them suitable both for people who are just starting out and for those who already have some experience. I tested several crops from our store to find the best BDSM crops for beginners and mixed experience couples. I focused on build quality, ease of use, design, and how versatile each one feels in real use. This list includes the models that stood out the most during testing and that felt reliable, practical, and fun to use.
App-Controlled Sex Toys: A Key to Spice Up Long-Distance Relationships

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App-Controlled Sex Toys: A Key to Spice Up Long-Distance Relationships

by Kate Miller on Jan 22 2026
Any couple finds long-distance relationships challenging in many ways, but sexual intimacy tops this list. But technological advancements today provide a solution, and their name is app-controlled sex toys. These provide a solution for couples who have to be physically separated but still want to engage in fulfilling shared sexual experiences. On top of bridging the gap for engaging in mutual sexy time when apart, braver couples can also use app-controlled sex toys to discretely play in public. Let’s discuss how app-controlled toys work and how you can use these to enhance your long-distance relationship and even play in public without anyone being the wiser. What Are App-Controlled Sex Toys? App-controlled sex toys are all sex toys that you can operate and control remotely via a suitable smartphone app. You can find different models that can vibrate, thrust, pulsate, suck, and stroke, all controllable via an appropriate app. The appeal is the option to adjust and customize the functions via the app, allowing you to give control to your partner and put them in charge of your pleasure. Sounds appealing? Yes, we think so, too, and we love the fantastic interactive options these provide. Shop All App-Controlled Sex Toys ===COLLECTION=== Why Use Teledildonics? Often, people try long-distance relationships, but they ultimately fail because of the lack of intimacy and scheduled meets via phone or video. It creates a gap because the efforts usually clash with everyday tasks, and couples tend to drift apart and look for close contact elsewhere, as Whatsapp, Skype, and Facetime don’t cut it anymore. Cue teledildonics. Teledildonic devices provide a way to bridge the gap between long-distance couples, and these give a new, exciting, fun way to keep a relationship alive. Several prominent adult toy companies like Lovense, Lelo, Satisfyer, OhMiBod, We-Vibe, and Kiiroo, with an excellent range of toys optimized for various uses, are at the forefront of teledildonic devices. Most of these toys are optimized for synchronized intimacy and shared playtime, as some sync to a mobile app that allows remote control via a smartphone. Other toys also have a built-in feature that, on top of using these alone, allows synchronizing the two toys, allowing them to respond to the other toy’s actions. One example is the option for synchronization between a masturbation sleeve and a G-spot vibe, allowing the two partners to simultaneously enjoy sensations without fuss. Teledildonics in Porn In the interest of covering all the bases, we have to mention that teledildonic devices have found their place in porn. While not all new porn productions are focused on toys, nor are they interactive, there is a category of interactive porn content. There are adult stars with whom you can interact directly and, using teledildonics, be in control of the stimulation and their pleasure. An example is the option to partake in the show, provided you have a compatible interactive device: you can control the speed and depth of the stimulation of the teledildonic device used by the entertainer while simultaneously enjoying your pleasure. Shop Interactive Masturbators ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose a Teledildonic Toy? If you are a beginner in shopping for sex toys, you are in luck, as here we’ll outline all the important features to know when you are choosing a teledildonic toy. Our experts shared the basics, and we’ve compiled these into a list that you can use as a checklist when browsing sex toy options: Design – when we discuss the design of the teledildonic toys, we need to outline that there are five different categories of such toys, and you can select one or more that fit your fancy, like: Masturbator sleeves – known as strokers, the masturbation sleeves are for guys, as they wrap around the penis and stimulate a blow job or masturbation. The teledildonic masturbation sleeves are app-controlled, feature different vibrations and suction modes, and some even have a c-ring that can contract for extra stimulation. Rabbit vibrators – the rabbit vibrator has an internal and external stimulating arm, and the ladies can use it for dual stimulation. The teledildonic rabbit vibes go a step further and allow you to use your rabbit vibe but have your partner control the action remotely or sync it with another device and use it simultaneously. Wearable vibrators – from the many wearable vibrators, the remote-control and teledildonic vibrators are insertable into the vagina or can be attached to the underwear. The advanced models allow smartphone app control, letting your long-distance partner initiate the vibrations. Butt plugs – besides the manual and remote-controlled butt plugs, there are teledildonic butt plugs that you can wear and have your partner control the vibrations in the rectum and the perineum. Material – the next thing you need to look at is the materials of the teledildonic device. The toys for women are usually made from silicone, while the male toys can be made from silicone or TPE. Connectivity – when it comes to connectivity, the teledildonic toys today all feature Bluetooth connectivity and app synchronization, letting you control them over the Internet. Please make sure the interactive teledildonic device you get is compatible with your smartphone, and read the instructions to see how to connect it to the app and use the sync feature. Also, engage the do-not-disturb option on your smartphone to avoid distractions when you use your teledildonic sex toy. Safety – when we talk about safety, we must say that all sex toys are safe if you use them correctly. That said, you need to be careful when inserting toys that are too big for you, and always use compatible lube. Also, make sure you wash and maintain your sex toys as indicated by the manufacturer, as if done inappropriately, you can severely damage the toy and even cause physical harm. App-Controlled Sex Toy Features Most of the app-controlled sex toys come with features that are common across all models, whether these are vibrating panties, G-spot vibes, and even interactive male strokers. Apart from the primary function as an adult toy for sexual pleasure, the app-controlled toys come with these features: Bluetooth antenna – all of the app-controlled sex toys use Bluetooth technology to connect to the mobile device. Using this technology allows the toy to connect to the mobile device via the app, which in turn allows short-range and long-distance control. It makes it ideal for people in long-distance relationships who want to keep the romance and sexual energy alive. Mobile app – control over these toys is done via the mobile app, as you need to download and install the suitable app on your device (smartphone or tablet). Most of these apps enable you to control and adjust the speed, intensity, and patterns, while some even come with customization options and sync the features to music, which allows you and your partner to have a more immersive experience. Toy Pairing – Many of the advanced features of mobile apps allow interactive connectivity with other toys. By pairing your interactive toy with another suitable model, the toys react in response to each other, and both partners get to experience a more immersive experience, even if they are not in the same room. Playing in Public with App-Controlled Sex Toys Now let’s look at the other main benefit of the app-controlled sex toys – you can use these to discretely play in public. Here are some of the ways you can use these adult toys for playful and adventurous experiences: Discreet design – most of the app-controlled sex toys are designed with discretion in mind. Think about wearable vibrating eggs, panty vibes, and app-controlled anal toys – these have discreet designs that allow you to wear them in public without anyone noticing. Controlled playtime – because the app-controlled sex toys are controlled via the mobile app, it is effortless for one partner to secretly control the action. It means that you can engage in some sexy time when you are at a restaurant, at a concert, when you travel, and even when you are at work if you are so naughty. Imagine the thrilling experience of being on the receiving end of sexual stimulation in a public place without anyone knowing what’s going on. Control – using an app-controlled sex toy is also intricately linked to control and power dynamics. One partner holds the power over the sexual pleasure of the other partner, and they dictate when, how, and how much sensations the receiving partner will get. It is especially apt for couples where one partner wants to have heightened control over the sensations and wants their partner to learn to control their responses to stimulation. Anticipation and suspense – one of the key benefits of using an app-controlled sex toy in public is the building of anticipation, as you won’t know when your partner will engage the vibrations or adjust the intensity. It creates a deep sense of suspense, which many couples find exciting. Increased trust between the partners – using these toys in public also requires a great deal of trust between the partners, which is similar to using app-controlled sex toys in long-distance relationships. You and your partner both have to be comfortable and open with each other to really let go and enjoy yourselves. There are always boundaries that you should never cross, and you must be responsible when using an app-controlled sex toy in a public space. Key App-Controlled Sex Toy Considerations As we outlined above, using app-controlled sex toys has possibilities that are exciting and intriguing for many. But there are some practical considerations to keep in mind: Consent – even if you are in a committed, long-term relationship with your partner, you need to openly communicate your desires, comfort levels, and the boundaries you are both willing to reach. Always give/get consent, especially when you plan to engage in sexual plays in a public place, as you need to be comfortable and aware of the involved risks. Security – always take precautions when using an app-controlled sex toy for long-distance control, as there is always the concern of hacking. So, we recommend you only stick to reputable apps that have high-level security measures to protect user data. Consider using models from LELO, KIIROO, Lovense, and We-Vibe, as we found these to be highly reliable manufacturers. Legal ramifications – while there is nothing wrong with using your app-controlled sex toys in long-distance relationships, using these in public is not strictly legal. There are strict public indecency laws in many places, so keep this in mind and use these in moderation. The Bottom Line Many app-controlled sex toys provide innovative and exciting ways to boost intimacy and explore new dimensions of pleasure between partners, especially for people in long-distance relationships. These enable real-time interaction, long-distance control, and even pairing with compatible devices, which can help couples get creative. Use these responsibly, and if you decide to engage in sexual explorations in a public area, please be aware of the possible legal issues. Also, as technology advances, we can expect more and more interactive and high-tech sex toys that will provide almost limitless options for enhanced sexual experiences. Before we let you go, we wish to invite you to browse our sex toy store where we have an excellent offer of app-controlled and interactive sex toys, as well as vibrators, dildos, sex toys for men, anal sex toys, BDSM toys, sexy lingerie, and all the essentials you need for better sex. 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Can Sex Toys Cause Yeast Infection?

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Can Sex Toys Cause Yeast Infection?

by Kate Miller on Jan 22 2026
Sex toys come in many materials, and every one of these materials has its specifications and composition. Some may cause irritations and even allergies, but the materials don’t cause infections. Instead, yeast infection, which is the most common vaginal infection, is not directly caused by sex toy use, although it can be closely related to it. Here, we’ll discuss the causes of yeast infections, and we’ll discuss the relationship between STIs and sex toys. What Causes a Yeast Infection? Most infections are caused by germs in the body; in this case, we will discuss yeast infections. A yeast infection is a fungal infection that primarily attacks women; it is the overgrowth of the yeast Candida Albicans, which lives naturally on the body, called candidiasis. It causes severe itching, burning, and irritation of the vulva and the vaginal opening. It causes thick, white vaginal discharge, which can smell different from usual. Candida is not an STD! Still, around ¾ of the female population can or will suffer from this infection at some point in their lives. Sometimes, young pre-puberty girls get Candida, and often, before they get their period, the Candida production increases; pregnant women are likely to develop a yeast infection. The yeast infection occurs because of a change in the natural PH levels of the vagina. There isn’t much information about why and how it appears. Some researchers connect it to unsafe sex, but it is also common in persons who have compromised immune systems, and their bodies can spontaneously develop the infection. The Candida fungi or their spores can live on many surfaces for a prolonged period. Thus, you can quickly note the possibility of transferring the fungi to sensitive and gentle areas and causing the infection. Sex Toy Materials & Yeast Infections The material of the sex toy plays a role in the possible transference of Candida. It relates to the surface of the material – if the surface is smooth and non-porous, there is no way for the germs to remain and cause further infection. However, if you use a sex toy made from porous materials, the tiny pores can capture germs and cause later infections. That is why we always recommend you use sex toys that are made from body-safe, non-porous materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel, as these are easier to clean. Some can be washed in the dishwasher and thoroughly disinfected. Try to stay from the cheapest materials, like jelly and low-grade TPE, as these are porous materials. It won’t matter how much you clean them, as the surface pores can be a breeding ground for harmful bacteria and yeasts. Shop Sex Toy Cleaners ===COLLECTION=== Clean Sex Toys Before and After Use If a person has a yeast infection and uses a sex toy, the infection can be transmitted to the toy’s surface and stay there for a long time if the toy is not cleaned correctly. That is why we always recommend you wash your sex toys thoroughly and make sure to do occasional deep sanitizations to ensure you remove all residue from their surfaces and avoid spreading any possible germs. While you can use soap and warm water for most materials, many sex toy cleaning products provide an extra level of disinfection of your sex toys. The safe storage of sex toys is another important thing you should note. Sticking your toy in a bedside drawer makes it easy to have it within easy reach. However, this is not very advisable, as you can unknowingly transfer germs to the storage area where you keep your sex toys. We always recommend you use suitable sex toy storage bags that you can occasionally wash and disinfect. Please note that you should not store different sex toy materials together: always read the product description to learn how to clean and store your particular sex toy. Because a yeast infection can get transferred from one person to another, we always recommend you not share your sex toys with other people. Can a Vibrator Cause a Yeast Infection? Vibrators are the sex toys that women mostly use, and yeast infection is the most common infection of the vagina. While the vibrator itself is not likely to cause a yeast infection, it can be the cause of infection if the vibrator is not cleaned correctly. Vibrators that are not correctly stored or cleaned can be the reason for infection, and they can catch and transmit bacteria and fungi spores on their surface, so be careful with your toys and body. Clean your sex toys following the manufacturer’s instructions and ensure you store them in a clean place. Can a Dildo Cause a Yeast Infection? The dildo, like other sex toys, can’t cause a yeast infection by itself, as fungi cause yeast infection. However, unsafe storage and improper cleaning can cause the transfer of the Candida fungus and cause a yeast infection. So, again, please be mindful of cleaning your dildo after and before use and storing it in a clean environment. Shop Sex Toy Storage ===COLLECTION=== We have covered the essential relationship between sex toys and yeast infections, so please keep in mind to always use clean sex toys and wash and disinfect them after use. We have other helpful guides below, but we also carry various sex toys, sex toy cleaners, and various safe sex toy storage options. Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How to Use Lube How to Clean a Pocket Pussy How to Use a Small Vibrator How to Use a Wand Vibrator How to Use a Tongue Vibrator How to Use a G-spot Vibrator How to Use a Finger Vibrator How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator How to Use a Bullet Vibrator How to Use a Vibrating Egg
How Old Do You Have to Be to Buy a Sex Toy?

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How Old Do You Have to Be to Buy a Sex Toy?

by Kate Miller on Jan 22 2026
Buying a sex toy is very straightforward if you are an adult. But, there are rules when you are a young person, and you want to purchase a sex toy – you have to be over 18 years old to be able to buy a sex toy. While there are ways you can circumnavigate the age restrictions, these are in place for user safety and abiding by the law. Why Follow Age Restrictions when Buying a Sex Toy? Generally, underage people (people under 18 years of age) aren’t allowed to enter a brick-and-mortar sex shop and purchase a dildo, a vibrator, or another sex toy. However there are ways you can buy a sex toy online, but the sellers who don’t respect the age stipulation usually lack moral rules and standards. We don’t recommend you visit unlicensed sex stores, as these may also lack proper licenses and carry products that are not safe. We also urge you to be careful; don’t try to buy a product for the sake of buying, but be aware that you have a real risk of getting harmed by low-grade products. There are many different views on this topic, but the most important one is the safety of people using sex toys like a dildo or a vibrator. It is usual for young people to explore their bodies and sexuality; however, they are sometimes impatient to turn 18 and be able to legally shop at adult stores. With age, you become more aware and learn about your body, sexual preferences, and possibilities. Once you have some experience, you can easily find a dildo or a vibrator that would suit your body and your needs. How to Purchase a Sex Toy Legally? It is prevalent for young people to explore their sexuality. Young girls usually use their hands to masturbate, but they often reach for everyday items around their rooms, even using electric toothbrushes and other unsuitable items. Using such objects can be potentially harmful, for the risk of infection, even more severe health problems, or long-term damage to their bodies. Sometimes, young people get help from their parents, and if the parents are open and communicate clearly with their children, they can guide them in the right direction. It is not rare for moms to be willing to buy a beginner-friendly sex toy for their daughters for the right reason, like preventing them from using inadequate objects for sexual pleasure or using poor-quality sex toys. Also, some parents are buying sex toys for their sons as a way to introduce them to safe sex and skip their use of inappropriate objects (think American Pie). We’ll conclude this post by noting that there is no universally accepted age when young people should start their sexual exploration, but the usually taken age of late teens has worked for ages. Still, some people mature earlier than others, so the general rule is for people to be over 18 to be able to buy a dildo, a vibrator, or another sex toy! Please note that our sex toy store is a legal, licensed and law-abiding store where we follow all the legal stipulations and only carry sex toys from reputable brands. Learn More With Our Other Dildo Guides: How Does a Dildo Feel? How to Use a Dildo? How to Use a Thrusting Dildo? How to Use a Glass Dildo? How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo? How to Use a Vibrating Dildo? How to Choose a Small Dildo?
Teledildonics: What is It & the Future of Sex Toys

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Teledildonics: What is It & the Future of Sex Toys

by Kate Miller on Jan 22 2026
Let’s talk about teledildonics, a term that is becoming commonplace in the adult toy industry. It refers to controlling sex toys over the Internet. The term, first appearing in the early 1970s, is used to refer to remote sexual activity using technology, and it has now become regularly used to describe remote sex or remote manual masturbation, which we believe is a more apt description. Here, our experts will talk more about buying and using teledildonic toys. What is Teledildonics? Teledildonics is a term with broad meaning, and in its simplest definition, it refers to high-tech sex toys that are operated remotely. These use the Internet to transfer tactile sensations between the participants; in other words, teledildonics are sex toys that are operated via an app and Bluetooth connectivity. There are various app-controlled vibrators oriented towards female users and interactive toys for the guys. The term derives from a sci-fi book, where it referred to virtual sexual activity, but it has evolved to mean so much more. It was initially used concerning using robotic sex toys or computer-controlled sex toys. We have to mention that teledildonics is used interchangeably with cyberdildonics, and both terms are better suited to describe app-controlled sex toys. Today, we have seen a surge of advanced sex toys that use high-tech features and allow a more immersive sexual experience. It brings exciting advances in the sex toy industry; what began as sending and receiving vibrations through a gaming console has now evolved into a way of connecting people in real time in an intimate way. Shop Teledildonic Sex Toys ===COLLECTION=== Why Use Teledildonics? Often, people try long-distance relationships, but they ultimately fail because of the lack of intimacy and scheduled meets via phone or video. It creates a gap because the efforts usually clash with everyday tasks, and couples tend to drift apart and look for close contact elsewhere, as Whatsapp, Skype, and Facetime don’t cut it anymore. Cue teledildonics. Teledildonic devices provide a way to bridge the gap between long-distance couples, and these give a new, exciting, fun way to keep a relationship alive. Several prominent adult toy companies like Lovense, Lelo, Satisfyer, OhMiBod, We-Vibe, and Kiiroo, with an excellent range of toys optimized for various uses, are at the forefront of teledildonic devices. Most of these toys are optimized for synchronized intimacy and shared playtime, as some sync to a mobile app that allows remote control via a smartphone. Other toys also have a built-in feature that, on top of using these alone, allows synchronizing the two toys, allowing them to respond to the other toy’s actions. One example is the option for synchronization between a masturbation sleeve and a G-spot vibe, allowing the two partners to simultaneously enjoy sensations without fuss. [Image of diagram illustrating how app-controlled sex toys connect via smartphone] Teledildonics in Porn In the interest of covering all the bases, we have to mention that teledildonic devices have found their place in porn. While not not all new porn productions are focused on toys, nor are they interactive, there is a category of interactive porn content. There are adult stars with whom you can interact directly and, using teledildonics, be in control of the stimulation and their pleasure. An example is the option to partake in the show, provided you have a compatible interactive device: you can control the speed and depth of the stimulation of the teledildonic device used by the entertainer while simultaneously enjoying your pleasure. Shop Interactive Masturbators ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose a Teledildonic Toy? If you are a beginner in shopping for sex toys, you are in luck, as here we’ll outline all the important features to know when you are choosing a teledildonic toy. Our experts shared the basics, and we’ve compiled these into a list that you can use as a checklist when browsing sex toy options: Design – when we discuss the design of the teledildonic toys, we need to outline that there are five different categories of such toys, and you can select one or more that fit your fancy, like: Masturbator sleeves – known as strokers, the masturbation sleeves are for guys, as they wrap around the penis and stimulate a blow job or masturbation. The teledildonic masturbation sleeves are app-controlled, feature different vibrations and suction modes, and some even have a c-ring that can contract for extra stimulation. Rabbit vibrators – the rabbit vibrator has an internal and external stimulating arm, and the ladies can use it for dual stimulation. The teledildonic rabbit vibes go a step further and allow you to use your rabbit vibe but have your partner control the action remotely or sync it with another device and use it simultaneously. Wearable vibrators – from the many wearable vibrators, the remote-control and teledildonic vibrators are insertable into the vagina or can be attached to the underwear. The advanced models allow smartphone app control, letting your long-distance partner initiate the vibrations. Butt plugs – besides the manual and remote-controlled butt plugs, there are teledildonic butt plugs that you can wear and have your partner control the vibrations in the rectum and the perineum. Material – the next thing you need to look at is the materials of the teledildonic device. The toys for women are usually made from silicone, while the male toys can be made from silicone or TPE. Connectivity – when it comes to connectivity, the teledildonic toys today all feature Bluetooth connectivity and app synchronization, letting you control them over the Internet. Please make sure the interactive teledildonic device you get is compatible with your smartphone, and read the instructions to see how to connect it to the app and use the sync feature. Also, engage the do-not-disturb option on your smartphone to avoid distractions when you use your teledildonic sex toy. Safety – when we talk about safety, we must say that all sex toys are safe if you use them correctly. That said, you need to be careful when inserting toys that are too big for you, and always use compatible lube. Also, make sure you wash and maintain your sex toys as indicated by the manufacturer, as if done inappropriately
Is Silicone Safe for Sex Toys?

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Is Silicone Safe for Sex Toys?

by Kate Miller on Jan 22 2026
Sex toy safety is critical for your health and well-being, as well as for satisfactory use. And one of the safest, most versatile materials for sex toys is silicone. Here, our experts discuss silicone, from how silicone is made to the type of silicone that is best for sex toys and how to maintain silicone sex toys to ensure their longevity. Properties of Body-Safe Silicone Silicone is often used for sex toys, from silicone dildos, silicone butt plugs, silicone-coated vibrators, and much more. Pure silicone, in general, is a body-safe material, and here we’ll list the main properties of silicone: Silicone is non-porous – the surface of silicone toys is smooth, and there are no tiny pores that may trap dirt or impurities that could be potentially dangerous. As it is a non-porous material, silicone objects are effortless to clean and sterilize. Silicone is hypoallergenic and non-toxic – once silicone is cured, it is entirely biochemically inert, and it will almost never cause an allergic reaction. It means it does not let out any gasses or other chemicals that could be dangerous to you or the environment. Silicone is phthalate-free – phthalates are chemicals that are often added to hard plastics to make them more pliable and elastic. However, silicone is entirely phthalate-free, as this material is naturally elastic and does not need any additives to make it softer. Silicone is effortless to clean – most silicone toys can be easily washed with soap and water. You can also wash non-vibrating silicone toys in boiling water or place them in a dishwasher. Silicone withstands extreme temperatures – silicone toys can withstand extreme temperature differences. It will not deform in freezing temperatures and will not be damaged in boiling water. This feature of silicone is used in various medical applications, as there are many medical instruments made from silicone. Shop Silicone Dildos ===COLLECTION=== Platinum-Cured Silicone & Medical-Grade Silicone You’ve probably read that a particular dildo or vibrator is made from platinum-cured silicone or medical-grade silicone, as these are the best silicone varieties used for sex toys. Platinum-cured refers to the process of curing raw silicone rubber; it uses platinum as a catalyst that ensures a 100% skin-safe, hypoallergenic hydrophobic, latex and phthalate-free silicone that is up to FDA and EU standards for medical applications. Medical-grade silicone is also a very chemically stable compound, and it does not create any by-products during manufacturing. It may differ slightly from platinum-cured silicone, but it is a highly stable, body-safe compound with plenty of applications. It also means that the material is non-reactive with other substances. It is also durable in various conditions, and it can withstand prolonged contact with skin. A very interesitng use of this property is for making silicone butt plugs that you can wear for a long time, as these are comfortable, semi-flexible, and body-safe. Shop Silicone Butt Plugs ===COLLECTION=== Silicone Sex Toys & Lube Compatibility We have mentioned this numerous times, but we can’t stress it enough: only use silicone toys with water-based lube. There is a rule in chemistry: “like dissolves like,” meaning silicone-based lubes may dissolve the silicone coating of your sex toys, which is why it is not advisable to combine these two. The same goes for oil-based lubes, as some may contain petroleum-based oils that can potentially damage the surface of your silicone toys. Shop Water-Based Lubes ===COLLECTION=== Body-Safe Silicone Is the Preferred Sex Toy Material Because of the characteristics of silicone we described above, we can easily conclude that silicone is one of the best synthetic materials for sex toy production. It also helps that silicone can be molded in various shapes. It can be used as a coating on multiple vibrating sex toys like vibrating butt plugs, insertable eggs, prostate massagers, and a myriad of other sex toys that come in direct contact with the body. Silicone also has an excellent tactile feeling – it feels genuine and comfortable to the touch. It allows silicone dildos to look and feel very realistic, flexible, and comfortable to use. Overall, we recommend you get adult toys made from medical-grade or platinum-cured silicone, which are the most body-safe materials you can buy today. Our blog is full of posts about sex toy safety, buying guides, and other helpful posts about how to use different sex toys. We carry an excellent selection of silicone sex toys in our sex toy store, ranging from silicone dildos and vibrators to silicone ball gags, silicone male chastity cages and so much more. FAQs What to look for in silicone toys? The silicone sex toys you get should be made from 100% silicone. We advise you to check the product description or manufacturing leaflet and confirm that your sex toy is made from pure silicone, like 100% medical-grade silicone or platinum-cured silicone, as this is the only wholly body-safe option. Avoid silicone blends, as these are not 100% body-safe, and if you do get such a toy, you can use it with a condom, just to be on the safe side. Is there unsafe silicone? Most silicone blends are body-safe and can be used for skin contact. However, there is tin-cured silicone that is not safe for sex toys or medical applications, and there are some silicone-PVC-TPE blends that are also not suited for sex toy applications. The good thing is that you can recognize these easily, as pure medical-grade silicone does not smell, and low-grade silicone blends have a synthetic smell to them. How do I check if my toy is made from silicone? If you have doubts about whether your sex toy is made from medical-grade silicone or not, you can do a few simple tests. The non-invasive test that you can do immediately is to pinch or twist your silicone toy. If the pinched place changes color, then it is very likely that your toy is not made from pure silicone, as pure silicone does not change color under stress, like when it is pinched or twisted. Another test you can do is to burn the silicone. Take your silicone dildo and a lighter or a match, and try to burn a small section on the base of the dildo or the base of your silicone butt plug. Pure silicone does not burn, but it only leaves a white ash-like residue that can be easily wiped away without any visible damage to the surface. Silicone-plastic blends will burn or melt, and this is a clear indication that your toy is not made from pure silicone. Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How to Choose a Silicone Dildo? How to Choose a Dildo? How to Choose a G-Spot Dildo? How to Choose Silicone Butt Plugs? How to Use a Prostate Massager? How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator? How to Use a Vibrating Egg? Can You Boil Sex Toys?
How to Charge a Sex Toy?

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How to Charge a Sex Toy?

by Kate Miller on Jan 21 2026
The dildo is one of the most popular sex toys used since antiquity. However, in recent times, the dildo has undergone changes and variations, and today, we have so many modern dildo options. The most popular one is the vibrating dildo, an electrically-powered model that provides vibrations on top of being a phallic insertable toy. So, here we’ll expand on the use and charging of rechargeable vibrating dildos and other rechargeable sex toys. Types of Vibrating Sex Toys There are many new sex toy models with fantastic options that provide deep stimulation: vibrating, sucking, thrusting, rotating, and other functions. The common thing about all of these is that they run on internal batteries that provide the power for the motors and other internal mechanisms. These can be rechargeable or use disposable batteries. The models with disposable batteries are straightforward to use, as you only need to remove the old and add fresh batteries in, and you are all set. However, these slowly go out of style, and in their place come the rechargeable vibrators that need charging; you must know how to charge your toy properly to ensure long-lasting battery life. Shop Rechargeable Vibrators ===COLLECTION=== Rechargeable Sex Toy Models The rechargeable sex toys, including vibrating dildos, clitoral stimulators, G-spot vibes, rechargeable vibrators, interactive male masturbators, automatic strokers, etc., come with an internal Lithium battery that supports cyclic recharging via a provided charging cable. The charging cable is a USB cable that has a dedicated end that plugs into the sex toy and a standard USB plug on the other side. The side that goes into the sex toy can be a plug-in jack or a magnetic connection. The other side is a standard USB charging cable with a 5-Volt output, meaning you can use a standard phone charger, a power bank, or a USB outlet from your computer to charge your vibrating toy. Most often, the sex toy comes with a signal light that changes color when the device is fully charged. Please note that some models come with battery indicators, prompting you when it is time to charge your toy. The charging time for most sex toys is between one and four hours, depending on the battery capacity and charging controller. Charging a Sex Toy The plug-in jack models have a small hole placed at the shaft or the side of the toy, and most often, the hole is sealed with the same material; the seal keeps the charging port away from water or other liquids that may harm the battery. Many times, it is hard to spot the charging port. To charge your rechargeable sex toy, you need to find the cap, remove it, plug in the charger, and plug the other side of the cable into the adapter of the charger. The magnetic charging cable attaches to two metal spots on the side of the toy. To charge this device, connect the charger’s magnetic end to the toy, and plug the cable into a computer, mobile device, or wall adapter. Some dildos and sex toys are oddly shaped, and these need to be positioned in a stable position to ensure the cable is securely attached to the toy and they get fully charged. Please read the manufacturer’s instructions for charging your vibrating dildo or other sex toy to ensure proper charging. Modern sex toys, like vibrating dildos, use Lithium batteries, which are sensitive to high temperatures, so you should be careful to charge these away from direct sunlight. Please note that you must empty the battery before recharging it, as Lithium batteries don’t support partial charging, which can damage their energy-storing capacity, adversely affecting longevity. You can use the rechargeable toys several times before their batteries are empty, so please wait until the battery is empty before you charge your toy. Avoid placing your sex toy for a quick charge, as this damages the battery. Please note that some of the latest high-tech rechargeable sex toys have a standby time of up to 90 days, which means the battery’s charge will slowly lose charge, and you’ll have to recharge it before use. In such cases, check the battery by running the toy on its highest settings before use to see if the battery will hold a charge – you don’t want to start using the toy and have it lose power in the middle of your playtime. Another important issue with rechargeable toys is washing. If your rechargeable vibrating dildo or other sex toy is rated as waterproof, you can freely wash the entire thing under warm water. However, if the toy is rated as splashproof, you must carefully wash the business end of the toy to avoid getting water in the charging port. If the toy is not waterproof or splashproof, then you can resort to cleaning it with antibacterial wipes, and avoid wetting the toy. Learn More With Our Other Vibrators Guides: How to Use a Vibrating Dildo How to Use a Small Vibrator How to Use a Wand Vibrator How to Use a Tongue Vibrator How to Use a G-spot Vibrator How to Use a Finger Vibrator How to Use a Butterfly Vibrator How to Use a Bullet Vibrator How to Use a Vibrating Egg

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