The most symbolic piece of any BDSM play is the collar; this fetish accessory the submissive partner wears around their neck is full of meaning and allows for versatility. Usually indicating the status the submissive partner enjoys, the collar can be used for gentle and extreme plays and is worn not only in the bedroom but also as a fashion accessory. Today, we took a closer look at BDSM collars; more precisely, we tested the models from our store, and here we bring you a list of the best BDSM collars you can get. Also, we promise that by the end of this post, you’ll know much more about choosing and using a BDSM collar.
Quick Overview of Our Top Picks
- Best Overall: Strict Leather Premium Locking Collar
- Best Value: Lust Bondage Collar with Leash
- Best Collar with Leash: Spartacus Collar & Leash Brown Leather
- Best Locking Collar: Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar
- Best Collar/Cuffs Model: Strict Leather Collar to Wrist Restraints
- Best Leather Collar: Strict Leather Premium Fur Lined Locking Collar
- Best Collars w Nipple Clamps: Spartacus Faux Leather Collar & Leash with Nipple Clamps
- Best Discreet Collar Model: Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Collar
The Best Deals This Week*
- Strict Leather Collar to Wrist Restraints — $118.99 (List Price $158.99)
- Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar — $85.99 (List Price $129.99)
- Stainless Steel Combination Lock Slave Collar — $114.99 (List Price $156.99)
- Strict Leather Premium Locking Collar — $80.99 (List Price $118.99)
- Spartacus Collar & Leash Brown Leather — $68.99 (List Price $106.99)
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Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Strict Leather Premium Locking CollarBest Overall Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe placed the Strict Leather Premium Locking Collar as the top choice for a BDSM collar because this model is close to perfect. The collar is made from three layers of leather – a soft interior layer, a firmer outer layer, and a thinner decorative strap stitched on the outside. The thinner outer leather strip has three D-rings stitched into it, reinforced with silver metal studs that look gorgeous against the neck. You can, of course, use the D-rings to attach different accessories to the collar, like leash nipple clamps, or attach the collar (and the wearer) to a bondage bench. The closure is with a simple metal buckle that also features a locking loop, but you can use it with or without a padlock. We recommend it because it is a very high-quality model that is adjustable from 13” to 19”, and we believe it will serve you for years. Who It's ForThe Strict Leather Premium Locking Collar is for everyone looking for a high-quality, durable collar made from supple, genuine leather. Reasons to Buy✓ Genuine leather ✓ Sturdy D-rings ✓ Locking buckle ✓ Heavy duty design Reasons to Avoid✗ Padlock not included
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Lust Bondage Collar with LeashBest Value Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Lust Bondage Collar with Leash because this model comes with great value. The collar is made from faux leather on the outside, while the interior is lined with plush neoprene that feels comfortable on the skin. The closure is a wide Velcro strap that allows you to adjust the fit to close to 24 inches. The front of the collar has a D-ring that is attached to it with six metal studs. You can use the D-ring to attach the leash that comes in the pack. The leash is made from a 39” chain that has a wrist loop on one side made from the same material as the collar: vinyl on the outside and neoprene on the inside. The other end is a universal clasp with a swivel design that eases the use and comfort. Who It's ForThe Lust Bondage Collar with Leash is a good option for users who prefer to get a collar that comes with an affordable price and for beginners who are starting with BDSM plays. Reasons to Buy✓ Soft, plushy vinyl ✓ Velcro closure ✓ Detachable leash ✓ Adjustable fit Reasons to Avoid✗ The surface may crack after a while
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Spartacus Collar & Leash Brown LeatherBest Collar with Leash Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Spartacus Collar & Leash Brown Leather for our list, as we found that this collar feels so good to wear and looks even better. It is made from full-grain leather that feels luxurious on the skin; we like how the deep brown and black combine with the gold hardware. The outer strap on the collar has three D-rings stitched into it, secured with gold studs, allowing versatility in use and a luxurious look. The closure is a gold metal buckle that allows you to easily adjust the fit to the wearer’s neck. It also comes with a 3’ leash that is made from a gold chain, a leather wrist strap, and a universal swivel clip that lets you quickly detach the leash and attach any other attachment you want, like cuffs, harness, or another bondage implement and spice up the entire experience. Who It's ForThe Spartacus Collar & Leash Brown Leather is for experienced users who are looking for a quality collar made from leather that comes with a sturdy design and reliable metal hardware.. Reasons to Buy✓ Premium grain leather construction ✓ Gold metal chain leash ✓ D-rings for versatility ✓ Luxurious look and feel Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Possession Stainless Steel Locking CollarBest Locking Collar Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe had to include the Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar because this model is very well made and comes with a sturdy locking mechanism. Unlike other models that rely on padlocks, this model has a sturdy locking mechanism with a hex key, allowing secure locking on the wearer’s neck. The hex key is provided in the box and is the perfect gift to show your love and affection to your sub. The Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar is entirely made from stainless steel, which is durable and easy to clean. You can bathe with it, and it won’t tarnish or affect the skin. We love that the Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar is perfect for attaching to a sub’s neck, and they can wear it with ease for months at a time. It is easy to pair with clothes and outfits and is comfortable to sleep with. If you want discretion, you can also combine it with other jewelry for an edgy look. Who It's ForThe Possession Stainless Steel Locking Collar is for experienced users who want a reliable, high-quality lockable collar that is perfect for long-term wear. Reasons to Buy✓ Stainless steel construction ✓ Subtle, elegant collar ✓ Reliable locking mechanism ✓ Great for long-term wear Reasons to Avoid✗ Not for inexperienced people
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Strict Leather Collar to Wrist RestraintsBest Collar/Cuffs Model Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strict Leather Collar to Wrist Restraints because this model comes with all the desirable features. First, it is made from genuine leather that we absolutely adore, as the collar and wrist cuffs are comfortable and look very good. The collar has a simple design with a basic closure buckle at the back. But the front of the collar has an extra piece of leather attached to it, and it has three silver metal studs that look elegant. The other end has an O-ring where a sturdy chain is attached, and the chain also connects to the wrist cuffs. The entire design of the Strict Leather Collar to Wrist Restraints allows you to restrict the movements of your partner, not letting them move their hands however they want. But it also looks visually stunning, as you can enjoy your sub’s restrained movements as you provide them with pleasure. Who It's ForThe Strict Leather Collar to Wrist Restraints is for experienced BDSM practitioners who want to add a collar with a restrictive design, as this one features firmly attached wrist cuffs. Reasons to Buy✓ Leather and metal construction ✓ Thick, durable leather collar and cuffs ✓ Fixed handcuffs ✓ Restrictive design Reasons to Avoid✗ Handcuffs are not detachable
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Strict Leather Premium Fur Lined Locking CollarBest Leather Collar Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strict Leather Premium Fur Lined Locking Collar because this model looks impressive and comes with plenty of appealing features. First off, the collar is made from thick leather in a matte black finish and features three D-rings attached with metal studs that contribute to the sexy look. The closure is a lockable buckle that comes with a loop where you can add a small padlock, and the strap comes with nine sizing holes, allowing you to adjust it to a perfect, comfortable fit. A thing we love about the Strict Leather Premium Fur Lined Locking Collar is that the interior is lined with faux fur that is very comfortable for the wearer. We found that the broad design of the Strict Leather Premium Fur Lined Locking Collar looks impressive against one of the most sensitive parts of the human body. Who It's ForThe Strict Leather Premium Fur Lined Locking Collar is for experienced users who want to use a sturdy, sexy collar that is comfortable and durable. Reasons to Buy✓ Wide leather strap ✓ Fur-lined interior ✓ Sturdy metal D-rings ✓ Nine sizing slots and a lockable buckle Reasons to Avoid✗ Padlock not included
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Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Collar - GoldBest Discrreet Collar Design Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Collar because this model is elegant and very discreet. It is designed to look like expensive jewelry – the main collar has a choker-like design that goes around the neck of the wearer. The Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Collar also features two long metal chains that drape over the torso and close at the back, highlighting the wearer’s curves and accentuating the body. We love that it is an easy-to-wear design that you can wear on many occasions, especially paired with a sexy outfit and wearing it in public. Seemingly innocent, the Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Collar transforms into a tantalizing accessory that is perfect for soft bondage games. Please note that while the Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Collar is a BDSM collar, its delicate design does not allow you to use it for hardcore bondage scenes. Who It's ForThe Bijoux Indiscrets Desir Metallique Collar is for BDSM-loving couples who want to use a collar as a statement piece and wear it in public. Reasons to Buy✓ EFull metal construction ✓ Adjustable and elegant draping design ✓ Discreet, imaginative design ✓ Metallic choker Reasons to Avoid✗ Not for bedroom plays
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Key Things to Know About BDSM Collars
The BDSM collar is a powerful symbol in a BDSM relationship, and choosing one is not something you should take lightly. We have a complete guide on how to choose a BDSM collar, and we cover all the essentials you should know to get the perfect collar for you. So, you should read through our blog for more info, and here we’ll only list the key things to know when choosing your next BDSM collar:
- Design – the design of the collar is what brings the visual appeal, as you can get discreet models, statement models, posture collars, and similar models.
- Material – when it comes to collar material, you can choose between leather collars, metal, faux leather, and a model made from a combination of materials.
- Size – measure the size of the neck where the collar will go, and choose a collar that comes in a similar size. For a better fit, you can get a collar that comes with an adjusting buckle, and you can also take a look at the collars for men and collars for women, as these have slight variations in design and size.
- Features – a well-made collar can come with a fixed or detachable leash, an O-ring, or a D-ring, with an attached ball gag, nipple clamps, cuffs, and even padlocks and similar accessories.
The Bottom Line
We sincerely hope you find our suggestions for the best BDSM collars appealing, and we hope we’ve intrigued you enough to take to exploring your desires. Please browse our sex toy store, where we carry a fantastic selection of BDSM collars, chokers, BDSM & fetish clothing, BDSM tools, sex furniture, whips, canes, ticklers, as well as all the other exciting sex toys to spice up your sex life.
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