How to Peg Your Partner: Complete Beginner Guide to Pegging

What is Pegging?

Pegging is a term used to refer to a sexual act where a straight woman uses a strap-on and anally penetrates her straight male partner. The term is a relatively new one, first used in 2001, but has now evolved to include a broader definition and includes all forms of anal sex done with a strap-on.

Why Pegging Feels Good?

Pegging feels good for the receiver because the anus is full of nerve endings, and when stimulated, these feel sensational. In men, the anus also has the prostate or P-spot, the walnut-sized gland that is incredibly sensitive. When stimulated, it can be profoundly pleasurable and provide next-level enhanced orgasms that men will feel in their whole bodies.

Another benefit of pegging is the new dimension to your relationship, as this experience will undoubtedly bring you closer. The reversal of roles can have a profound impact on both partners and can help the relationship.

Pegging has a positive impact on the pelvic floor muscles; the penetrated partner will have to learn and experience how to fully relax and control the muscles. It has a positive effect on the bowels, can help resolve hemorrhoid problems, and can even help when lifting heavy objects.

How to Prepare for Pegging?

Before you can do anything, you need to prepare yourself and your partner for pegging. Introduce the idea to your partner and talk things over, discussing everything beforehand. We need to outline that this is not a gay thing, but it is an activity between a male and a female partner. When you both agree, it is wise to prepare yourself before embarking on pegging.

Talk with your Partner and Be Honest

If you are thinking about trying pegging, be clear and open with your partner. Make sure you explain your ideas and wants, and discuss everything with your partner. It does not have to be awkward, but you need to be completely honest with your wants and desires.

Use an Anal Trainer

Using an anal trainer to prepare for pegging is essential, as it will help your body relax and get used to the intrusion of something entering your anus. There are slim anal trainers that are perfect for beginners in anal play that you can use to train your body for something bigger. While it is not mandatroy, you can do an anal douche before partaking in any kind of anal play, just to make sure everything is clean and you can be more comfortable.

Get a Pegging Dildo & Strap-On

Before you move to pegging, you need to purchase the right equipment. We are, of course, talking about a pegging dildo. You can wear a strap-on dildo with a harness or a strapless strap-on and penetrate your male partner. When selecting a pegging strap-on, you need to get a strap-on harness that will fit the wearer and a pegging dildo that will appeal to the receiver. The pegging dildos are slim and designed to hit the P-spot perfectly. When you get the strap-on harness, make sure you wear it for a while to get used to the weight and movements.

Get Compatible Lube

Always use lube when pegging, and make sure you stock up on lube that is compatible with the pegging dildo you’ve chosen. Most quality pegging dildos are made from silicone, which, unfortunately, is not compatible with silicone lube. Instead, you must use a silicone toy with a water-based lube, so be careful when making a purchase. You can also use a condom over the pegging dildo, and you can use a silicone-based lube with it, as the silicone lube is slick and long-lasting, and it does not dry out, unlike water-based lube that will dry out, and you’ll need to reapply it.

How to Peg Someone?

After you discuss and agree on everything with your partner and you stock up on the pegging essentials like a pegging dildo, strap-on harness, and compatible lube, here is a guide on how to peg your partner:

• Lengthy foreplay – take your time with foreplay, and get in the mood to play. Put on some sexy music that puts you both in the groove and explore your bodies, touching and kissing erogenous zones and arousing each other.
• Massage and anal fingering – you can move to sensual massages and take your time around their anus, massaging and exploring the perineum and anal area, allowing your partner to get used to the sensations. You can slip a finger in and have them feel the penetration. Once you both are ready, you can put on the strap-on harness with the chosen pegging dildo.
• Lube up well – make sure the lube is handy, and apply it to the anus and the pegging dildo. Don’t be stingy, and always add a liberal amount, as you want everything to slide in easily and comfortably for your partner. Reapply if you feel it dries out, especially if you are playing for longer.
• Slowly penetrate your partner – get in position and slowly penetrate your partner. Please note that the wearer can’t feel the penetration, so slow and easy does the trick. Communicate with your partner and ask them how they feel often, and if something is not feeling right, take a break and a few deep breaths and continue.
• Explore positions and combine sensations – after you initially penetrate your man and he gets in the groove, you can both move to explore different positions and angles of penetration, making sure you are hitting the P-spot for maximum effect. Ask your partner to masturbate while you peg them, or maybe add a pocket pussy or another male masturbator in the mix for more sensations.
• Clean up and aftercare – after reaching orgasmic heights, slip out the pegging dildo from the anus, being extra careful, as the tissues there are swollen and excited. Clean the anus with a warm cloth and enjoy some physical and emotional aftercare with your partner. After you know, they are okay, you can wash and sterilize the pegging dildo with an antibacterial sex toy cleaner, ensuring it will be ready for the next adventure.

We hope our guide to pegging is helpful for any of you out there wanting to experience this profoundly satisfactory experience. We advise you to be open to new sexual experiences, and pegging is definitely such an experience, as the orgasms are extra intense and powerful, and the entire experience is almost life-changing.

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