Give your anus a massage
Before jumping to your prostate gland, give your anus a proper, relaxing massage. You should practice this whether you're experienced with other anal sex toys or trying anal play for the first time.
Use a finger to create circular emotions around the anus. Once comfortable, you can add one or two fingers inside and explore the penetrating stimulation.
Time for you Aneros prostate massager
Once you're in the right mood and all lubed up, it's time to insert the sex toy. First, you place the tip of the main body on your anus while ensuring the P-tab is facing the front of the body.
Calmly inhale and push the Aneros prostate massager into your anus as you exhale. Note that you don't have to insert the sex toy in one deep breath, and you shouldn't be rough when pressing it inside. Instead, listen to your body and go at your own pace.
Once the prostate massager is fully inserted, take some time to locate your prostate gland with the tip and position it correctly. Moreover, make sure the front tab is pressed on your perineum.
Whether manual or remotely controlled, the sex toy can sometimes rotate or move during sex play. If you feel discomfort after some time or the power of the stimulation decreases, make sure to position it again in the right place.
Best positions for using Aneros
Positioning plays a significant role in the whole experience. The right portion can help your body relax better, ease the insertion, and even allow you to contain the Aneros prostate massager for prolonged periods.
Men who've used Aneros models swear by a few positions. The first and simplest is lying on your back and pushing your knees toward your face. This is an excellent choice if you're using the prostate massager alone, and you can lay on either side to leave your dominant hand flexible.
Laying on your side allows you to easily insert the massager with one hand while experiencing minimal strain on the anus. From here, you have the utmost control over the sex toy and can easily stimulate your prostate gland for an extended period.
Lying on your back allows both of your limbs to be free, so you can stimulate the prostate gland with the Aneros massager while also masturbating. Remember to place pillows beneath your head and lower back, as this curves the body right, allowing your partner to easily slip the massager into your anus.
If you want to enjoy the Aneros prostate massager with a partner, then lying on your stomach is the most relaxing option. You can keep the legs together or apart or even put them in the air, depending on your comfort level.
Kneel on all four and fully expose your anus for doggy style. This will give extensive agility to your partner, and you can enjoy them penetrating from the back while also stimulating you in the front.
Tips for using aneros solo
Given its efficiency in providing powerful orgasms, it's hard to resist using Aneros prostate massagers alone once you've tried them. Apart from choosing the correct position, here are a few more tips to keep in mind for entertaining and pleasurable prostate stimulation.
Take your time
Those unfamiliar with anal sex may be tempted to rush the process and be eager to skip to the good part. However, this is highly undesirable and ill-advised.
You want your rectum to be fully flexible and capable of taking in the Aneros prostate massager without damaging its lining and causing bleeding or infections. Your body should be relaxed, aroused, and ready for anal insertion. Taking your time also means ensuring your toy is clean and without defects.
At last, taking it slow means giving your body time to adjust and adapt to the whole process. Forcefully inserting the toy and being too rough from the start with the movements will only cause you pain and undermine the entire experience.
Relax and do your kegels
From the pubic bone to the center of the perineum and reaching your tailbone lie the pubococcygeus or PC muscles. These muscles control the movements of the prostate massager and allow you to experience pleasure without manually directing the sex toy.
Their strength also determines how much prostate gland stimulation you can experience and how fixated the toy will stay inside. For solo play, these muscles will decide how many hand movements you'll need to direct toward the toy in your anus and whether you can use them to stimulate other parts of your body.
It is best to practice the popular Kegel exercises to strengthen the muscles. Squeeze and release the PC muscles for a few minutes daily to strengthen them and ensure longer-lasting sessions with your Aneros prostate massager.