How to Stimulate a Blowjob (Plus Top BJ Masturbator Options)

Most—if not all—agree that blowjobs are the height of sexual pleasure. No other sexual act compares to blowjobs' suction, wetness, and contrasting sensations. Unfortunately, you might not have a partner right now, or maybe you are dating someone who can't or won't give you a blowjob. As any creative and horny guy will tell you, you need to find a way to simulate the experience. Fortunately, there are a variety of techniques and BJ simulators available to help you replicate that feeling.

What Men Like About Blowjobs

Men love oral sex, and there are a few reasons for this:

• The sensations: A man's penis head is extremely sensitive. A good blowjob requires the joint effort of the lips, tongue, saliva, and hands. With the proper technique, some men say the experience can be even greater than classic sex.
• No pressure: During a blowjob, men can relax and enjoy themselves without worrying about performance. Fatigue, stress, and fear fade into the background.
• The visuals: In contrast to the limited view in traditional sex, men have a front-row seat during a blowjob. Watching a partner engaged in the act is highly arousing.
• Intimacy: Many men view this as a genuine example of selflessness, love, and trust from their partner.

How to Stimulate a Blowjob Using Your Hands

The first advice is to visualize your partner giving you a terrific blowjob. Although it seems easy, you need patience to build the mental image. Once you get the feeling of sucking, try these specific hand techniques:

1. Balling the Jack

This technique focuses on your balls rather than just the shaft.

1. Grip the head of your cock with one hand.
2. Use the other hand to stroke the bottom of the shaft and the balls.
3. With each downward pull of the balls, the head will be stimulated.
4. With a bit of lubrication, you can get a nice rhythm that simultaneously satisfies your cock and your balls.

2. Having Thumb Fun

When trying this technique, you will use your thumb to simulate a tongue.

1. Apply some lubricant and make a loose fist as usual, but place your thumb on the outside of your cock rather than the inside.
2. As you stroke your cock, move the thumb around.
3. Ensure your thumb is well-lubricated and stimulating right beneath your helmet (the frenulum) to give the impression of a tongue licking the sensitive spot.

3. Suck It To Me (The OK Sign)

This technique is the closest you can come to a blowjob sensation using just your hands.

1. Form the "OK" hand sign with your thumb and index finger, visualizing a pair of lips.
2. Keep this hand motionless.
3. Using your other hand, push your cock through the 'lips' as you would while receiving a blowjob.

4. Banana Spurt

This technique uses the natural texture of a banana peel to mimic the inside of a mouth.

1. Start by cutting a ripe banana so it is about an inch shorter than your cock.
2. Remove the fruit, but keep the peel intact (or wrap the peel around your penis).
3. The inside of the banana peel acts as a natural lubricant and has a soft, fleshy texture that feels surprisingly realistic.

5. The Sewing Machine

This method focuses entirely on the glans (head).

1. Grip your cock with your thumb and middle finger.
2. Place your well-lubricated index finger directly over the urethral opening (the hole).
3. Rapidly flex your finger in a steady up-and-down motion, like a needle on a sewing machine, tapping the head.

How to Stimulate a Blowjob Using a Masturbator

The technology behind blowjob toys is constantly improving. They are created from realistic materials (like TPE or Silicone) to give the same feeling as the inside of a real mouth. A well-lubricated blowjob toy provides suction and texture that a hand simply cannot replicate.

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Manual Blowjob Simulators

• Original Fleshlights: The classic flashlight-shaped toy available in various textures (mouth, vag, anal).
• Tenga Eggs: Stretchable, disposable cups that fit snugly over the tip of your cock.
• Soft Simulators: Made entirely of soft, flexible material without a hard case, allowing you to apply pressure with your hand to tighter the squeeze.
• Penis Pumps: While mainly for enlargement, pumps with mouth openings can provide intense suction simulation.

Automatic Blowjob Simulators

If you want a hands-free experience, automatic toys are the way to go:

• 'Licking' simulators: Explicitly created to mimic the sensation of a tongue moving up and down.
• Suction/Vacuum toys: These use motors or air pumps to create a rhythmic sucking sensation that feels very realistic.
• Vibrating toys: These add a new dimension of stimulation that a human mouth can't provide.
• Warming features: Some high-end models heat up to body temperature (98.6°F) for the ultimate realism.

How to Make Solo Sessions Last Longer

Masturbation is an act of self-care. Here is how to extend the pleasure:

• Set the mood: Pour a drink, dim the lights, and relax. Treat it like a sexual event, not a chore.
• Take it easy: Don't rush to the finish line. Focus on the sensation of the stroke rather than the orgasm.
• Use lubricant: Avoid lotion (it absorbs too fast). Use a high-quality water-based lubricant for the best sensation and to protect your skin.
• Switch hands: If you usually use your right hand, try your left. The decreased coordination creates new sensations and can delay orgasm.
• Edging: Get close to the point of no return, then stop stimulation. Let the feeling subside, then start again. This builds massive intensity for the final release.

Final Thoughts

It is easy to simulate a blowjob on your own since there is a wide selection of male masturbation toys available on the market. Whether you use a specific hand technique like the "Suck it to me" method or invest in a high-tech automatic sucking toy, you can achieve that specific type of pleasure. Before you spend money, think about what you are looking for—suction, tongue texture, or warmth—and choose the tool that fits your desires.

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