How to Choose a BDSM Collar?

What Is a BDSM Collar?

The BDSM collar is a symbol of the bond, trust, and commitment a couple shares; it is leather, faux leather, or a metal collar worn around the neck. The collar is a potent symbol in the BDSM relationship, as it is not something that devoted couples take lightly. In fact, the collar in a BDSM relationship has the same weight as a wedding ring.

The ceremony of gifting someone a collar is aptly named collaring, and it symbolizes a strong relationship. The Dominant partner gifts and places the collar on their submissive partner, marking the ownership status. We’ll not delve deeper into the intricacies of BDSM relationships, as this is a topic for another time. We’ll only mention that collars also have a playful nature, especially collars with additions like a metal O-ring where a suitable attachment can be added.

How to Select a BDSM Collar?

No matter the actual use of the collar, you need to select a model that will be comfortable and look good. Because one of the Dominant partner’s role is to take care of their submissive partner, the choice of collar is essential, but you will also need to select a collar that will fit the ways you wish to use it. Here, our experts share the key things to note when choosing a BDSM collar:

• Design – the collar’s design is what will attract your attention first. You can select a broad leather collar that makes a statement, or you can get a slim metal collar or something else, depending on your preferences and wishes.
• Size – before you buy the collar, you need to measure the size of the sub’s neck and always refer to the sizing guide we have in the product description. The collar needs to be the right size to fit the wearer, as you don’t want your sub to be hurt or pass out because you’ve put on a too-tight collar. That is why there are different collars for men and collars for women.
• Material – you can get a leather collar, a faux leather collar, or a metal collar, but there are also collars made from synthetic materials. In any case, you need to make sure the artistry is precise, and no sharp edges or anything is poking the delicate skin on the wearer’s neck. It is significant for the day collars, as these are the models that subs wear throughout the day in everyday activities and in scenes where it would be inappropriate or impractical for them to wear a hardcore BDSM collar.
• Accessories – many BDSM collars come with added accessories like a heart-shaped pendant, a tiny padlock locker, a bow, a bell, and an O or D-ring. Some playtime collars feature attached ball gags, nipple clamps, handcuffs, and even collar-chest harness designs and collars with a leash.

Our experts covered the basics of how to select a BDSM collar, and we hope you find it helpful. We also prepared a broad collection of guides on how to choose and use different BDSM tools and various sex toys. Feel free to browse our sex toy store, where we carry a fantastic selection of BDSM collars, chokers, BDSM & fetish clothing, BDSM tools, sex furniture, whips, canes, ticklers, and a lot more.

FAQs

What does a collar symbolize in BDSM?

In BDSM relationships, the collar has a profound meaning; it is a symbol of devotion and trust between a Dominant and a submissive partner. But the collar can also be worn in a casual bondage relationship as a way to restrict the submissive partner and restrain them in a particular scene, in a debasement scenario, or in another setting.

Why do people like being collared?

BDSM practitioners may wear a collar for several reasons: these signify ownership in a Dom/sub relationship, proving that a Dominant owns the submissive. Also, the collar has a visual appeal, as it is worn on the neck, which is one of the most fragile places on the person’s body. There is also a psychological aspect, as the collar reminds us of human fragility, connection, commitment, and being true to your desires.