How to Choose a BDSM Flogger?

What is a BDSM Flogger?

The BDSM flogger is an impact toy that is essential in BDSM plays. It is made from a handle where multiple tails are attached, and it is used for flogging (whipping) a submissive partner. The goal is to provide a sensual and erotic sensation, which many people find arousing and relaxing. But, if you are after some pain, a flogger can also be used for this, but you’ll have to know the type of flogger to get, which we’ll outline below.

How to Select a BDSM Flogger?

The type of flogger you select is directly related to how you can use it and the effect you wish to achieve. For example, if you get a soft tail flogger, you can deliver a more sensual flogging, while a stiff tail flogger will deliver a thudding, slightly painful sensation. So, here are the key aspects to consider when choosing eina flogger:

• Tail material – when it comes to selecting a flogger, the tails are the most important thing, as these come in contact with your partner and deliver the desired effect. First, consider the material of the tails, as these can be leather, faux leather, suede, silicone, or even a combination of materials. Each of these has a different effect, as suede tails are very soft and flexible, oiled leather tails tend to be stiffer and deliver a more intense sensation, and deerskin flogger tails are thin, light, and soft and are more suited to provide a thudding sensation, making them perfect for cool-down sessions. The floggers with braided and knotted tails are also an interesting choice, as the braided tails make a thudding effect, but the added weight of the knots delivers a sting.
• Tail length – the next thing is the length of the tails, as floggers with shorter tails are easier to control and maneuver, and floggers with longer tails can be challenging to use, especially if you are a beginner. The longer the flogger tails, the more prone these are to tangling and the more painful they can be. Our experts propose floggers with tails as long as your forearm for beginners, and more experienced users can use long-tailed floggers, usually as long as the length of the arm.
• Tail width – Another important feature is the width of the tails, as it will influence the sensations the flogger delivers. Floggers with wider tails make more of a thudding effect, while floggers with narrow strips deliver a stronger sting.
• Number of Tails – the more tails a flogger has, the more force it provides over a greater area, which creates a thudding effect. The floggers with fewer tails bring sharper, localized sensations. It is important to consider this, especially if you are new to using a flogger.
• Handle – you can get a model with a traditional handle that is easier to control, as we all know how to use things with handles. However, there are also floggers with finger handles; these have two finger loops that you stick your fingers through and use the flogger like that. These are equally exciting to use as handled floggers, but they take some time to master. There are also floggers with handles shaped like dildos made from glass or wood and models with vibrating silicone dildos as handles. Another flogger handle model is one with a t-handle, but this is recommended for experienced users as it takes a lot of practice to learn to use such a model.

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FAQs

Is flogging painful?

Flogging can be sensual and painful, depending on the sensation you wish to achieve and the type of flogging you select. If you want to deliver a more sensual feeling to your partner, you need to choose a model made from deerskin or suede tails that are more flexible and produce more of a thudding sensation.

Can a beginner use a flogger?

Yes, a beginner can use a flogger, as this is a perfect tool for impact play and learning the sensual experiences of BDSM. However, you must know that you need the correct type of flogger, and you need to practice on another object, like a pillow. Place the pillow on a stool and practice with your flogger, aiming the hits in the same spot without shifting the pillow. Start with slow and light hits, and as you learn the moves, you can apply harder hits to the pillow. Only after you get enough practice ad build confidence should you move to safely flogging your partner.

What flogger is suitable for beginners?

The best beginner-friendly flogger is a model that creates a thudding sensation, as it is more easily controlled and poses less of a threat to your partner. Our experts suggest you look for a model that is the length of your forearm and has more, wider tails, preferably made from suede or deerskin. After you gain enough practice, you can get a longer flogger with fewer tails made from heavier leather.

How to clean a flogger?

The best way to clean a flogger is with a dry brush or a very lightly dampened towel. If your flogger is made from genuine leather, then a dry brush is best to remove dust and residue. Then, you need to wipe it down with a saddle soap or a leather conditioner and hang it to dry. If your flogger is made from faux leather or faux fur, then a lightly dampened towel is best for removing any dust or residue.

Where to store my flogger?

The best way to store a flogger is to hang it in a safe place, away from direct heat and sunlight. Make sure the tails/strands hang down and are not bent or tangled, as they may deform over time if not stored correctly.