Any chair can be a sex chair, but not any chair can support the various sex positions you may want to try. That is why here, our sex experts will teach you how to use a sex chair; we’ll discuss some of the sexy positions that are possible, and you should try either solo or with your partner. We’ll also touch upon sharing some essential info on how to select a model that will be perfect for you, so let’s jump right in!
What Is a Sex Chair?
A sex chair is any chair you can use for sex; we are talking about the specialized dildo chairs that allow you to mount a dildo and ride away to an orgasm. You can have a store-bought or a custom sex chair that will enable you to enjoy different positions, easier thrusting, and better support. We have an excellent selection of specialized dildo chairs, lounges, and sex benches in our store you can look at and choose a model to your liking. But here, we’ll discuss the many ways you can utilize a sex chair and improve your sex life.
Why Use a Sex Chair?
Using a chair for sex is nothing new, and even ancient murals and vase decorations feature people using chairs for sex. It is because the humble chair is versatile, supportive, and an indispensable object that we use daily. But when it comes to sex and chairs, there are so many things you can do and benefits you can reap. Here we list the top benefits of adding a sex chair to your playtime:
Less Effort
Many sex poses are fun and feel amazing but cause too much strain on the knees, the hips, and the hands. But using a sex chair can help with this; for example, the cowgirl pose where the woman is on top and rides her partner can be done with less effort than doing this pose on a bed.
Longer Sex
Yes, it is possible to have longer sexual encounters when your bodies are adequately supported, which is why we recommend sex chairs. It goes for both partners, as the sex chair has a unisex design that allows you both to enjoy more in terms of sex. Imagine how long you may both last when your bodies are aligned at the right angles, and you won’t have to worry about the best way to hold your partner, but you can focus on the pleasure instead.
More Support
When we talk about support and sex chars, we are thinking about the people who need some extra support, like people recovering from injuries, people with disabilities, or pregnant women. Having sex on a sex chair helps reduce the pressure on the hips and knees and allows many people to have sex that would otherwise be impossible to do in a bed.
Various Positions
Now, to the best part of why use a sex chair – more positions! There are many sexual positions where the chair plays a key role, and we’ll list these below. We advise you to embrace your adventurous spirit, grab a sex chair, and enjoy highly pleasurable and thrilling sensations.
Types of Sex Chairs
We’ll not bother you with lengthy outlines of the sex chair models you can get, but we’ll refer you to our guide on how to select a sex chair, where you’ll find a lot more vital information. Here, we’ll only list the types of sex chairs you can use:
- Sex Stools – these are straightforward chairs that allow you to attach and use a dildo, but you can also use them for partnered sex. The main thing about these is that they are low, sturdy, and have no handles or armrests, so you have better maneuverability around the stool.
- Dildo Mounts – these are large sex pillows that you can use during sex for better support and positioning, but they also come with pockets where you can fit a dildo or a vibe and enjoy some hands-free solo play.
- Queening Chairs – these are stools designed for oral sex and BDSM scenes and are very suited for some positions, as these are usually low to the ground and have a squat design that can be very supportive during some sex positions.
- Sex Lounges – the sex lounges are also known as chaise lounges or sex benches and are very comfortable for stretching for a nap or stretching for some sexy playtime. These have stylish designs and are made to last, with durable materials and a classic design that allows for some creative positions and deep stimulation.
- Bespoke Sex Chairs – these are models specially designed for sex and are made with different sex positions in mind. These come in so many options and are usually custom-fit to the customers’ requirements, but the downside is that these come at very high price points.
Best Sex Chair Positions to Try!
Now that you know the whys and whats, let’s talk about hows: several of the best positions to try on a sex chair. Please note that you’ve probably already tried one or more of these positions but didn’t know their names, as we shared the name after the Kama Sutra. Also, you can try some of these positions on regular furniture; you only need to be extra diligent about choosing a sturdy chair to use for sex:
The Cowgirl
The Cowgirl sex position is best done in a sex chair, and it works with almost any sex chair. The Cowgirl is also referred to as the Woman on top or the Rider, and during this position, the clitoris gets maximum stimulation, and the position is most likely to make the woman orgasm. Still, many women avoid it because of the strain on the knees and hips, which is why we recommend you use a sex stool with elastic bands to do it.
To do this position with a sex stool, the man needs to lie down on a bed or the floor and position the sex stool over the hips. The woman will straddle the stool and lower herself on the erect penis and sit comfortably on the elastic bands, and she can place her hands on the man’s chest or even on the stool frame. The straps take some of the weight, allowing the woman to bounce comfortably and enjoy the position for longer.
The Cowgirl position allows the woman to experience clitoral and G-spot stimulation and control the up and down movements of the penis. We recommend you get a sex stool that will work best for both partners, as more petite or plus-size women may have trouble with cheaper models.
The Elephant
Couples often overlook the Elephant position because it is challenging to do without the proper support, which is where the sex stool comes in. The Elephant position is also known as the Carousel, and it is best done with sex stool.
For this position, the woman needs to sit on the sex stool, and the man should kneel in front of her, sit back on the heels, and slide the knees under her butt. Then, she needs to wrap her legs around the man’s waist and can either lean back on the chair or wrap her arms around the man’s shoulders. The man penetrates and thrusts into the woman and can wrap his arms around the woman for closeness and more support. If the woman is flexible enough, she can even lift her legs on the man’s shoulder for deeper penetration and hard thrusting.
The Elephant position allows deeper penetration pressure on the clitoris, the G-spot, and the A-spot, which can really drive a woman mad with pleasure. It is even possible to make a woman squirt if the stimulation is hard and long enough.
The Concubine
The Concubine sex position, also known as the Wheelbarrow position, is best done with the aid of a sex stool. The woman kneels in front of the sex stool and positions her body over the stool’s straps for more comfort and support. The man kneels behind her, spreads her legs, and penetrates her from behind. She then wraps her legs around the man’s waist, allowing deeper penetration. The position is a variation of the famous Doggy style position, as it is less strenuous on the knees and joints. It also allows intense G-spot stimulation and more control as the woman does not need to support her body weight on her hands.
Japan
The Japan sex position is suited for sex chairs and even inflatable sex chairs, as it allows more G-spot stimulation. For this pose, the man should sit in the chair in a relaxed posture with his legs spread wide and his feet on the floor. The woman should stand between the knees, facing away from the man, and should reach behind to place her hands on the man’s knees. She will need to lower herself on the erect penis and then lift one leg, draping it over the chair’s arm and rotating her upper body to wrap her arm around the man’s shoulders.
The position seems demanding, but it is surprisingly pleasurable, with intense G-spot stimulation because of the woman’s body position and the added closeness because of the eye-to-eye contact. It also allows shallow thrusting and grinding, which many couples love.
The Zodiac
The Zodiac sex position is suitable for wide armchairs, large settees, and inflatable sex chairs. For this position, the man needs to sit down on the sex chair with their knees bent, and the woman can stand on the chair with her legs on each side of the hips. She then lowers herself on the man’s shaft, and the man wraps his hand around her back for support. The man gets to control the movements and depth of penetration, while the woman can grind down on the man for extra clitoral stimulation.
Rocking Chair
The Rocking Chair sex position allows very deep penetration and is best done on a sex bench, but an inflatable dildo chair can do the trick, and if you are careful, a dining chair can help. For this position, the man needs to recline on the sex bench with his legs on either side, and the woman should straddle the man and lower herself on the erect penis. Then, she will need to relax on the man and lean back on the bench, bringing her legs up and resting her calves on the man’s shoulders, allowing him to thrust and grind into her. The Rocking Chair can be relaxing, but it also enables crazy G-spot and P-spot stimulation, which can lead to powerful orgasms.
Milk and Water Embrace
We know that the name does not inspire sexy thoughts, but this sex position is genuinely stimulating, and it uses a sex stool or a dining chair with no arms, or if you have it, a custom sex chair is the best option. For this pose, the man needs to sit on the chair, his feet on the floor, and his legs spread wide. The woman will stand between the man’s legs with her back towards him. She will need to lower herself on the penis and put her hands on the man’s knees for more effortless movement and control.
The position allows easy access to the breasts and clitoris as well as more control of the depth of penetration. It also helps create a stronger emotional bond between the partners, as the woman is in a somewhat vulnerable position, and the man has greater access to her body.
The Bottom Line
We love exploring all aspects of sex and sex toys, and we find it especially pleasing when we can share our knowledge with our readers. We hope that our guide on how to use a sex chair and the best sex positions to try with one has been helpful. We try to cover as many different aspects of using and choosing various sex toys, so please check out our blog, where you will find a lot more guides, and browse our sex toy store, as we carry a wide selection of sex furniture, dildos, vibrators, male sex toys, anal toys, strap-on toys, BDSM tools, sexy lingerie and so much more.