You have probably tried using your regular furniture during sex, and while the bed is the primary place for sex, you may want to try something different and more exciting. We are, of course, talking about adding a dildo chair to your bedroom and using it to explore new ways to play with your dildo. Here, we outline how you can use a dildo chair and discuss the various possibilities and positions you have at your disposal.
What Is a Dildo Chair?
A dildo chair is a specialized chair or bench-like gadget that allows you to mount a dildo and do some heavy riding. The industry has provided us with plenty of dildo chair models; some come with the dildo firmly mounted, and others have a detachable dildo, allowing you to use your favorite dildo. These are made to provide you comfort and ease with positioning, easier thrusting, and body support, and we cover the bases on how to choose a dildo chair in a separate guide.
How to Use a Dildo Chair
Using a sex chair is exciting, and it allows versatile positions, especially the option for weightless sex. It will enable you to try some positions you would have trouble with, and it frees your hands so you can enjoy sex even more and combine your play with other toys. Here are the key things related to using a sex chair:
Set Up Your Sex Chair
First, set up your sex chair. Most models today come already assembled, but in the case of getting your chair in sections, you need to put everything together, ensuring all the screws and mounts are sturdily attached. Test the weight limit and the possible positions, and see how well your select dildo sticks to the chair.
Place the sex chair on different surfaces, like the bed, on the floor, on a carpet, or a cushioned surface like a blanket on the floor. This is to protect your knees and allow you to explore different penetration angles.
Set the Mood
One of the things we always advise is to set up a sexy mood when you plan to play out a sexy scenario or enjoy a masturbation session. Dim the lights and put on erotic, sexy music or play some porn. Start slow and explore your and your partner’s body, and add some teasing toys like a finger vibe or something equally tempting.
Ride your Dildo Chair
When you are sufficiently aroused, you can move on to penetrative play, and for this, you can straddle your sex chair, position the dildo, and lower your body onto the dildo. Don’t forget to add some lube for more leisurely glide, and take charge of your pleasure.
Best Positions to Try with Your Dildo Chair
Here are the best positions to try with your sex chair. You can always combine your dildo chair play with other toys, like adding a butt plug, playing with a finger vibe, some nipple clamps, or something equally exciting. Please note that these may vary depending on the particular design of your dildo chair, but the general positions are:
Bounce Up & Down
The best position to try with a dildo chair is to bounce on it up and down at your own pace. Straddle the dildo mount as you would do a partner during the cowgirl pose, and slowly lower yourself on the dildo attached to the sex chair. You control the angle and the speed, and you can sit right down on the elastic straps and bounce on for the most significant effect.
Reverse Cowgirl
The reverse cowgirl pose requires you to lower the top of your body and allow your partner to get a deeper angle of penetration. You can imitate this pose with a dildo chair and use your hand to tease your sensitive areas. Straddle the dildo chair and lean forward, allowing the dildo to get a better penetration angle and move as you feel comfortable.
Oral Play
The design of most dildo chairs makes them perfect to be used as queening/kinging chairs. You sit on the chair, aligning your privates with the gap in the chair, and your partner lies beneath the chair, getting full access to you. Use a pillow to support the head of the partner who lies down, and enjoy the sensations of cunnilingus or analingus.
Slow, Grinding Play
The dildo chair allows you to grind yourself on your dildo, enjoying the sensations on the exterior of the vagina or perineum. For this, add a smaller dildo to the dildo chair or a special grinding toy, add some water-based lube, and grind away.
Dildo Chair Care & Maintenance
The dildo chair is very straightforward to clean and maintain, as most of these models are made from metal, elastic, or leather/vegan leather. Still, keeping it clean is essential, and here is how to do this.
Remove the dildo from the dildo chair, if possible, and clean it with soap and water or a sex toy cleaner. If the dildo is non-removable, then wipe it with an antibacterial wipe and spray it with a sex toy cleaner to remove lube and other residue.
Wipe the dildo chair with household disinfectant to remove all residues and clean the surfaces. Leave the chair to air-dry, and then store it in a suitable place. Never store your dildo stuck to your dildo chair; store the dildo in an appropriate sex toy storage bag to avoid damaging or deforming the dildo.
The dildo chair is an exciting implement you can use to play with your favorite dildo or play with your partner. You get more options, and, let’s face it, it is pleasurable to play, and you and your partner can get more. We hope we have covered the basics of how to use a dildo chair, but if you need more advice, check out our other guides on how to choose and how to use various sex toys. Check out our sex toy store, where we offer an incredible selection of dildo chairs, dildos, vibrators, sex furniture, and so much more!
FAQs
Are dildo chairs expensive?
The dildo chairs come in a broad range of prices, and these vary according to the materials used and the added features. For example, an inflatable dildo chair with a simple vibrating dildo will cost you less than $100, but a more advanced model, like one with a thrusting dildo machine, will cost you more than $1000.
Can I use a dildo chair for anal penetration?
You can use a dildo chair for anal penetration, but you will need to use a proper dildo. We recommend you take a look at our selection of anal dildos and choose one that fits your needs and has a suction cup base that is compatible with your dildo chair. Don’t forget to add plenty of lube for anal play, and we recommend you stick to quality water-based lubes as these are compatible with all materials and skin types. However, if you have a dildo chair with a fixed dildo, you can use it for anal penetration, but make sure you use it with a condom for easy cleanup.
Can a man use the dildo chair?
A man can use a dildo chair for anal pleasure. However, you need to be careful and use a suitable dildo intended for anal use, like an anal dildo that has a streamlined, slim shaft and proper flexibility and comes with broad suction cup bases that you can stick to the dildo chair.
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