How to Choose a Dildo: Comprehensive Buyers Guide

How to Choose a Dildo?

There are numerous dildo models, designs, and options, and you may find you are overwhelmed with the choices. So, before we delve into more dildo particulars, we give you the main things to consider when choosing a dildo:

• Shape: The shape of the dildo is the main thing to consider, and the primary choices are a phallic, realistic dildo, a non-realistic dildo, or a fantasy dildo. It would be best if you chose the model that appeals most to you, like a straight dildo, a curved dildo, or another model.
• Size: The dildo size is critical for comfortable use, so always look at the measurements when choosing a dildo. The dildo sizes vary greatly, from small and slim dildos best suited for beginners in dildo play to large dildos that are well over 10 inches in length and are fit for experienced users. Also, the size you get will determine how you can use your dildo, whether for vaginal or anal play.
• Material: When it comes to the dildo materials, the primary consideration is for the material to be body-safe. Next, you need to consider the flexibility of the material, as more rigid dildos are better suited for G-spot or P-spot stimulation. At the same time, more flexible models are easier to ride. The material also plays a role in how you can use the dildo, but more on the dildo materials below.
• Features: The last factors to consider when choosing a dildo are the features. We are, of course, talking about things like a suction cup base, a pair of balls, harness compatibility, double-ended design, or vibrations.

Common Dildo Models

Let’s get into the dildo models you can find today. The range is versatile and quite appealing, as you get a dildo for every imaginable use. Please note that we carry an excellent selection of dildos in our store, where you’ll find exciting models to fit your needs:

• Anal dildos – designed specifically for anal penetration, the anal dildos feature a streamlined design and have a flared base. Anyone can use an anal dildo and explore the deeper sensations of anal play. Please check out our anal dildo buyers’ guide.
• Double dildos – designed to be used to stimulate double penetration, the double dildos usually have one side that is thicker for vaginal penetration and one side that is slimmer for anal penetration. Please check out our double dildo buyers’ guide.
• Glass dildos – the glass dildos are unique in their look, and the rigidity of the material brings unique sensations. These are also perfect for temperature play and are one of the easiest to clean. Please check out our glass dildo buyers’ guide.
• Ejaculating dildos – the ejaculating dildos bring an element of realism to your playtime, as these are realistic in shape and can ejaculate a cum-like lube and simulate the male orgasm. Please check out our squirting dildo buyers’ guide.
• Large dildos – the large dildos are long and thick, and these start from 9 inches in length and onwards. These are not for everyone, as they provide a significant stretch, and you need to slowly adjust to their size. Please check out our large dildo buyers’ guide.
• Inflatable dildos – the inflatable dildos allow you to inflate them to a larger size and enjoy the delicious stretching sensation, no matter if you use them vaginally or anally. Please check out our inflatable dildo buyers’ guide.
• Realistic dildos – the realistic dildo is the closest to an actual erect penis, with a veiny shaft, a pronounced glans, and a pair of testicles. You can find realistic dildos made from different materials, so please check out our realistic dildo buyers’ guide.
• Silicone dildos – silicone is among the best synthetic materials for dildo manufacturing, and silicone dildos come with many benefits. These are firm, durable, body-safe, and easy to clean. Please check out our silicone dildo buyers’ guide.
• Small dildos – small dildos are designed with beginners in mind, but they are also for people who like the portability and discretion of small toys. Please check out our small dildo buyers’ guide.
• G-Spot dildos – the G-spot dildos feature a curved shaft that fits the natural curves in the vagina, allowing a precise stimulation of the G-spot, which is said to bring heightened pleasure. Please check out our G-spot dildo buyers’ guide.
• Strapless dildos – strapless dildos are a type of double-ended dildos that are used for simultaneous penetration of both partners. The vaginal bulb goes into the vagina, while the probe goes into the other partner, whether it is a male or a female partner. Please check out our strapless dildo buyers’ guide.
• Suction cup dildos – the main feature of these dildos is the suction cup base, which allows you to stick them to most flat surfaces and use them hands-free. Please check out our suction cup dildo buyers’ guide.
• Pegging Dildos – the dildos intended for pegging are slimmer than other models, and these come with a flared base that is usually harness-compatible. Please check out our pegging dildo buyers’ guide.
• Vibrating dildos – these look like realistic dildos, but they come with a vibrating mechanism that allows you to enjoy the added benefit of vibrations. Different models have different controller options, and for more info, please check out our vibrating dildo buyers’ guide.
• Thrusting Dildos – the thrusting dildo comes with the option to thrust, imitating penetrative sex and allowing you more options to play. Please check out our thrusting dildo buyers’ guide.

Dildo Materials & Options

As we noted, dildos today come in a great variety of models and materials. We outlined the models above, now let us discuss the most common dildo materials and the main benefits from each one:

• Glass – Glass is among the safest dildo materials you can find, especially borosilicate glass, which is fracture-resistant and perfect for temperature play as it retains heat or cold. As a material, it is smooth and firm, can be molded into various shapes, and is compatible with all lube types. Glass is effortless to clean, and you can wash your glass dildo with soap and water or wash it in the dishwasher. The only downside is that there are almost no vibrating glass dildos.
• Metal – stainless steel and aluminum are the most commonly used metals in dildo production, with the former leading the way. Stainless steel dildos are smooth, heavy, and firm, are great for G-spot or P-spot stimulation, and are compatible with all lube types. The metal dildos are suited for temperature play and are straightforward to clean and sterilize.
• Silicone – silicone is a body-safe material that is non-porous and is suitable for dildo manufacturing. The silicone dildos are smooth, firm yet flexible, and comfortable to use, and they come with vibrating mechanisms, as silicone easily transfers vibrations. Dildos made from silicone are only compatible with water-based lubes and are straightforward to clean and sterilize. Please note that you must store your silicone dildo safely, away from other materials.
• TPE – stands for thermoplastic elastomer and is a common synthetic material in dildo production. The TPE dildo is one of the most realistic dildos to the touch, but it is a porous material that is only compatible with water-based lubes. While TPE dildos provide the most lifelike experience, these can be a hassle to clean, which is why we recommend you use them with a condom.
• PVC/Jelly – PVC/jelly synthetic materials are inexpensive and are often used for sex toy manufacturing. They can have an artificial smell, and while they can feel very smooth, flexible, and lifelike to touch, they are porous and challenging to clean. We recommend you use these toys with a condom.

Cleaning a Dildo

We touched a little on how to clean each dildo material. However, this is something you must keep in mind, as cleaning your dildo is essential for your safety. Please note that not all materials are suitable for sterilization, which is why you must be diligent when washing your sex toys. We advise you to be thorough and wash your dildo with soap and warm water or rinse with a suitable sex toy cleaner.

Glass, metal, and silicone toys can be rinsed with boiling water for thorough sterilization. PVC and TPE toys are porous and can’t be thoroughly sterilized, hence the advice to use them with a condom. Please note that you mustn’t use the same dildo in the anus and the vagina. If you use a non-porous toy, you can clean it between uses, but if you use a porous toy, always use it with a condom and don’t use it between orifices.

Next, store your dildo in a safe place, away from heat, moisture, and direct sunlight. Select a proper sex toy storage bag or pouch, and your dildos will last for a long time.

We hope that our comprehensive buyers’ guide on how to choose a dildo is helpful and that you’ll enjoy shopping and using your next dildo. Also, check out our other guides on using and choosing various sex toys and our activities pages that can provide a lot of inspiration. Browse our sex toy store, where we have an excellent selection of dildos, vibes, male sex toys, sex furniture, anal toys, BDSM toys, and much more.

FAQs

What is the best dildo?

We can’t single out one best dildo, as this is a personal preference. Some may prefer the rigidity of glass toys, while others like the flexibility of silicone. For that reason, we suggest you consider your desires and the ways you wish to use your dildo and choose accordingly. We have created detailed guides on how to use and select various dildos, and we believe that you can find the best dildo for you if you follow our advice.

How do I clean my dildo?

Cleaning a dildo depends on the material your dildo is made from, as you can wash a metal, glass, or silicone with soap and water or sterilize it with boiling water. Your TPE or PVC dildos require more diligence, and you need to wash these with soap and water and use a sex toy cleaner to sterilize them.

What lube to use with my dildo?

The best choice for lube is the water-based lube, as it is compatible with all dildo materials and with all skin types. However, you can also use a silicone-based or oil-based lube with a glass or metal dildo and only use water-based lube with a silicone, TPE, or PVC dildo.