The clitoris is one of the most sensitive areas on a woman’s body, and when you correctly stimulate it, it will bring powerful clitoral orgasms. The best tool for the job is the clitoral stimulator, and here, we will share our guide on how to use a clitoral stimulator alone or with a partner that will unlock a new avenue to sexual satisfaction. Read on as we discuss the main points on how to make the most of your clitoral stimulator, and we share some tips on achieving maximum satisfaction from this toy.
What Is a Clitoral Stimulator?
The clitoral stimulator is a sex toy designed to provide precise clitoral stimulation. Most models have vibrations as their main feature, but some models come with a suction feature and models that offer grinding sensations. We love all of these and recommend you give most of them a try. You can use them alone, in combination with other sex toys, or even when you play with your partner. No more ado; here is how to use one!
How to Use a Clitoral Stimulator
The clitoris is a part of the female anatomy, and this is the only organ that is devoted solely to pleasure. It is about 3.2 to 4.7 inches (8 to 12 cm) long, and the visible part of the clitoral hood is only 5% of the entire organ; the rest of it is under the skin and around the vulva. It has about 10,000 nerve endings, and it can swell up to twice its size when the woman is aroused, with the external part becoming more prominently erect.
Teasing the clitoris is the key to female pleasure, and the most effective way to tease it is to use a clitoral stimulator for external stimulation. Using a clitoral stimulator is pretty intuitive, as every woman knows her body best, and the most effective way is to target the external section or the clitoral hood. So, here are the key steps on how to use a clitoral stimulator:
- Get the perfect model – the first thing is to select the perfect clitoral stimulator that will provide the sensation you are after, so make sure you check out our guide on how to choose a clitoral stimulator. You can select a model that vibrates, pulses, sucks, or provides another sexy way to stimulate your body.
- Clean and charge the toy – always use a clean toy, and make sure it has enough charge so it won’t let you down mid-use. Try out the controls and learn what each button does, as you need to prepare for pleasure. You can clean the most quality vibes with soap and water or your chosen sex toy cleaner.
- Get comfy – get in a comfortable position that is relaxing so you can have a most enjoyable experience. Do whatever puts you in the mood for sexy exploration. Read a sexy book, play some erotic music, light candles; whatever works. Take your time and let yourself enjoy and embrace each moment when playing solo or with your partner.
- Use lube – using a water-based lubricant will make the experience more enjoyable and comfortable. A dab of lube will enhance the sensations from the clitoral stimulator, but it will significantly reduce the friction and prevent chafing.
- Explore, get creative & enjoy – turn on your clitoral stimulator at the lowest setting and start exploring your body. You can try applying it to your erogenous zones, like the nipples or inner thighs, and then use it to the clitoral hood. Explore your body and check out the possibilities, as it will let you find your sweet spot. Once you locate your sweet spot, you’ll start to feel the enhanced sensations. Try different angles and pressure to see what works for you, and don’t be afraid to experiment. You can try playing with your clitoral stimulator slightly differently every time to enjoy an intense orgasm every time.
Tips to Explore Different Sensations
Now, we share a list of tips that we believe can help you reap all the benefits of your clitoral stimulator. These are expert-supported tips that we found to be most effective:
- Play with speeds and intensity – most clitoral stimulators come with different speeds, patterns, and intensities, which is why we recommend you take full advantage of these. Don’t be hesitant to mix up the sensations and combinations. Always start your clitoral stimulator at the lowest setting, and gradually increase the speed and intensity as your arousal climbs, as then you can experience the full extent of options and enjoy a highly pleasurable playtime.
- Explore angles and patterns – while you can explore the features of your clitoral stimulator and see how much you like each one, you should also try playing with different angles and positions. Try holding the stimulator in a certain way to get your clit stimulated, and play with more pinpoint or broader area stimulation.
- Combine it with other toys – the clitoral stimulator focuses its attention on the clitoral hood, which is why we recommend you spice things up and introduce new toys to your playtime. One option is to use a dildo or use a butt plug, or even add a vibrator for internal stimulation. Try different things to discover what you enjoy best and what brings you to the most powerful orgasms.
Types of Clitoral Stimulators
Our sex toy store is fully stocked, and we carry a massive selection of clitoral stimulators. We also have a full guide on how to choose a clitoral stimulator. Here, we compiled a list of the differnet clitoral stimulator types you can find:
- Bullet Vibrators – these are one of the best-known vibrator types, as these are small, compact, handy, versatile, and perfect for clitoral stimulation.
- Clitoral Suckers – the clitoral suckers are designed to imitate and emulate cunnilingus; most come with oral-sex-like sensations, either with pulsations or sucking features that provide gentle, focused sensations.
- Finger Vibes – the finger vibes, as the name says, are for teasing the clitoris and all other erogenous zones, as they attach to the fingers and let you explore your and your partner’s body.
- Panty Vibes – this model attaches to the panties, presses against your clit, and provides different vibrating patterns and intensities.
- Grinding Toys – these are designed for externally stimulating the clitoris and the vulva and are perfect for beginners, virgins, and women who enjoy grinding.
- Wand Vibrators – these are potent vibrators that are perfect for intense clitoral massage, as the sizeable vibrating head of most wand vibes can buzz to up to 9.000 RPMs.
- Tongue Vibrators – designed to emulate cunnilingus, the tongue vibes have a moving tongue that moves over your clitoris, imitating oral sex.
Final Words
We hope we covered all the basics on how to use a clitoral stimulator, and we also want to refer you to our blog, where you’ll find a lot more helpful guides on how to choose and how to use different sex toys. We also want to invite you to check out our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of vibrators, dildos, male toys, anal toys, BDSM toys & gear, lingerie, and so much more.
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