How to Use a Small Dildo?

If you find yourself pondering the intricate art of using a small dildo, you might just stumble upon a handful of thought-provoking inquiries. Maybe you're thinking of adding a little pleasure boost to your solo playtime, use a small dildo as a multi-purpose tool and even to peg your partner. If you are considering buying one, here the steps you need to know on how to use a small dildo:

Clean your Small Dildo

Follow the manufacturer's instructions and tips on cleaning your particular small dildo. While some sex toys can handle the heat of cleaning them with boiling water, others prefer a gentler touch with soap and water or a specialized sex toy cleaner.

Be Generous with the Lube

To decrease friction between your skin and the dildo, lube is your best friend.In most cases, water-based lubes are the best option. They are compatible with all sex toy materials and suitable for vaginal and anal play. They are easy to clean up and won't stain your sheets.

Silicone-based lubes are the better choice for anal play since the anus doesn't self-lubricate. These lubricants last longer, providing a silky-smooth experience during intense sessions. However, silicone lubes are NOT compatible with silicone toys, so you can only use these with glass or metal toys.

Start with Light Teasing and Foreplay

As with all sexual activities, foreplay can enhance your experience and make it more fun. Warming up can include reading erotic stories or watching some porn, maybe throwing in some aromatic candles and music to get you in the right mindset. Test the feel of your small dildo by rubbing it against your body and your erogenous zones before inserting it. Start with your (or your partner's) inner thigh and move upwards to caress the clitoris or anus lightly with the tip.

It's Penetration Time

Once you've reached the peak of arousal, you can slowly start penetrating yourself, allowing time to see how it feels. You can switch up your thrusting speed and rhythm when you feel more confident. Feel the difference between moving slowly and moving quickly and erratically. Learn what you enjoy and share it with your partner so that you may both benefit during your next sexual encounter.

Step it Up

To increase the intensity of your stimulation, try using your small dildo together with a bullet, rabbit, or wand vibrator, clitoral suckers, or anal sex toys. Combining clitoral stimulation with penetration can be quite pleasurable and may result in a powerful climactic experience.

Clean-up and Store

Once you've had your delightful sexcapades, it's time to give your small pleasure companion a thorough cleaning with sex toy cleaner or soap and water. Use a soft cloth to pat it dry once you've cleaned it. Avoid rubbing vigorously, as it may damage the surface. Allow the dildo to air dry completely before storing it away. Tend to store your small dildo in a dedicated storage bag that is lint-free, like a silk storage bag that will keep it safe from direct sunlight and dirt.

Who Can Use a Small Dildos?

While anyone can use a dildo, no matter if it is a big or a small one. However, small dildos are more apt for the following users:

First Timers

For those venturing into the world of sex toys for the first time, small dildos are an ideal starting point. The non-intimidating nature of small dildos makes them popular among beginners, providing a gentle and enjoyable introduction to the world of sex toys. Their realistic designs and comfortable-to-use shafts make it easy for you to develop a fondness for them.

Petite Women

No need for an anatomy lesson here! It's no surprise that petite women prefer slender toys. The sex toys market features some of the smallest dildos ever made, including those with micro 1-inch girths. To cater to your unique needs, slimline shafts and lengths of 5 inches or less make for a more enjoyable experience if you are a petite woman.

Senior Enthusiasts

Tender love and care are paramount to senior users, which is why most of the sex toy manufacturers' offers include softer and slimmer dildos that offer maximum comfort. The realistic penis-shaped small dildos have emerged as popular choices, and the slender vibrating dildos provide an extra boost of sexual pleasure, making them highly sought after by seniors seeking delightful experiences.

Back Door Explorers

Many men are purchasing small sex toys for solo anal exploration. Additionally, couples are embracing narrow and slimline dildo styles for pegging adventures. The long and slender types stand out as the most comfortable options for insertion, ensuring a pleasurable and enjoyable experience.

Small Dildo Thrusting Techniques

Before trying these thrusting techniques, just remember that everyone's preferences are unique, and there's no need to conform to what you see in porn, which us we suggest severa things to try, and keep practicing until you find out what you like best:

Deep Thrusts

Thrusting deeply is a popular technique that offers precise G-spot contact. Since keeping up with this tempo can be exhausting, you can get a small dildo with a suction cup base, allowing you to "ride" it. For the best results, try alternating between hand-controlled thrusting and riding your small dildo for a delightful combination of sensations.

Short and Shallow Strokes

This technique is all about shallow, quick strokes, and it delivers exquisite pleasure, particularly as you begin to climax. While it can be challenging to maintain a consistent rhythm throughout the session, you can try it when you are on the brink of an orgasm or feeling most aroused to reach the climax.

Twisting Motion

The twisting technique involves rotating the dildo from left to right and requires minimal thrusting. It's a relatively simple method worth exploring if you're seeking different sensations and looking to enhance your dildo experience.

Sex Positions to Try With a Small Dildo

When it comes to using small dildos, we firmly believe that finding the perfect position is essential and can open up opportunities to experience diverse sensations.

• Keep it simple on your back: Try it with your legs flat (for a comfortable and relaxed experience), bent (to easily adjust the angle and depth), and held up (to target specific spots and intensify stimulation) to get a sense of what suits you best.
• On Your Side, with Your Legs Closed: This position will provide pressure and friction, intensifying your pleasure, and keeping your legs closed will create a tighter and more focused sensation.
• Sitting Down: This position is best for exploring vertical penetration. Adjusting your body angle can customize your experience and enjoy your dildo.
• Riding: You'll need a small suction cup dildo for this position. The best thing about this sex position is that you'll have complete control to adjust the depth, speed, and angle to suit your preferences while freeing your hands to stimulate your other erogenous zones.

Why Use Small Dildos?

Whether you're a novice or experienced in using dildos, opting for a smaller size can prove highly advantageous. The unfamiliarity of the experience and the sensation of using a dildo can leave beginners feeling uncertain. Large dildos require more effort to stimulate yourself leading to potential discomfort. In contrast, small dildos provide a more comfortable insertion, reducing the need for excessive lubrication and minimizing the effort, but maximizing the pleasure.

Moreover, small dildos offer discreteness, as their compact size allows you to indulge in your desires discreetly, anywhere you please. Whether you share a living space with pals or seek to embark on a daring adventure in a bustling locale, the discreet charm of small dildos is bound to keep prying eyes blissfully unaware.

When it comes to targeted stimulation for females seeking G-spot stimulation, these dildos prove invaluable. The G-spot is located a about 2 to 3 inches inside the vagina, so a smaller dildo allows you to easily locate and precisely stimulate this highly sensitive spot.

Similarly, men looking to engage in prostate massage can benefit from the convenience offered by small dildos without the risk of excessive insertion. Additionally, the smaller size alleviates tension on the sphincter during anal play, ensuring a more comfortable experience.

Final Thoughts

We hope that our guide on using a small dildo is helpful, as we covered the basics. Still, we have prepared plenty of guides on how to choose and how to use various sex toys, which you can check out in our blog. We invite you to browse our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of vibrators, dildos, male sex toys, anal toys, BDSM gear, and essentials for better sex.