Guys have different anatomies than ladies, and that means different ways of achieving sexual pleasure. One of the key differences is that the guys have a prostate gland that is a part of their reproductive system. It is a walnut-sized gland that sits on the front wall of the rectum, and it is accessible through perineal and through anal stimulation. When stimulated, the prostate provides profoundly pleasurable sensations for men, and it is why every man should try prostate or P-spot stimulation. Today, we discuss how to choose prostate massagers, specific male toys designed to target and stimulate the prostate, and we’ll also touch upon how to safely and effectively use a prostate toy.
What Is a Prostate Massager?
A prostate massager is a sex toy designed to specifically target and stimulate the prostate, the P-spot, or the male G-spot. The direct stimulation of the prostate results in very powerful orgasms for men, and with proper stimulation, a man can achieve an orgasm without touching their penis. The prostate toys come in different designs, shapes, and sizes, but they all have a common goal of targeting and exciting the P-spot.
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How to Choose a Prostate Toy?
When you are thinking about buying a prostate toy, you need to be aware of some things, first and foremost, your experience level and how you want to use this toy. Here, we cover the key things that you must consider when choosing a prostate toy:
- Design – the design of the prostate massagers is important, as you can find different models that you can get, each with its own merits. Generally, prostate massagers have a similar design, with a tip, a wider body, a slimmer neck, and a base that sits on the outside of the anus. For example, you can get a slim model if you are a beginner, but you can also get a prostate massager with a bulkier design that stretches the anus and stimulates the prostate.
- Material – we advise you to get a prostate massager made from silicone or another body-safe material like metal or glass, as these are non-porous materials. You can also find well-made prostate toys from TPE and PVC, as these provide a very realistic feeling.
- Vibrations – there are manual prostate massagers that provide constant pressure on the prostate and massage it as you move. Still, you can also get a high-tech vibrating model that not only stretches the anus and presses on the prostate but also vibrates, adding another level of pleasure. On top of vibrations, there are prostate massagers that can thump against the prostate, massagers that have a come-hither motion, or models with rotating beads on the neck of the massager that add more stimuli.
- Lube Compatibility – lube is always necessary when you use a prostate massager, and you must know what type of lube your prostate toy is compatible with. Silicone prostate massagers are compatible with water-based lubes, while metal and glass anal toys are compatible with silicone lubes and massage oils.
Prostate Massager Models
There are various designs of prostate massagers you can find, but all of these have a common goal to provide intensely pleasurable stimulation and enhanced sexual pleasure to men. Here are some of the P-spot massager models you can find in our store:
- Manual prostate massagers are the simplest P-spot toys you can find, as they feature an ergonomic design that allows the wearer to enjoy the stretching sensations and simple movements.
- Vibrating prostate massagers – these feature vibrating mechanisms in the body of the P-spot massager, and on top of stretching sensations, these provide a deep internal massage that is focused on the prostate.
- Vibrating prostate massagers with vibrating base – these are high-tech models that feature dual vibrations, one in the body of the toy and the other in the base, which you need to position on the perineum and get your prostate stimulated from two sides.
- Metal prostate massagers – these are high-quality male anal toys that are usually made from stainless steel, are heavier, and are very fun to use. These are great for temperature play and are compatible with all lube types.
- Glass prostate massagers – made from glass, these P-spot toys are elegant, heavy, and enjoyable to use. You can use a glass P-spot toy for temperature play and use it with all lube types.
- Dildos for men – these are not prostate massagers per se but are dildos that are intended to be used for male anal play. Their shape is such that it provides targeted stimulation on the prostate.
- Butt plugs for men – these toys differ from the prostate massagers, but you can still use a butt plug to get a lovely stretch of the anus and experience exciting sensations, and also enjoy the stimulation of the prostate.
Benefits of Using a Prostate Massager
The prostate is an integral part of the male reproductive system, but it is often overlooked when it comes to pleasure. Well, using a prostate massager helps with this, as it is a sex toy specifically designed for this purpose, so adding one to your sex toy arsenal can be quite beneficial:
- Enhanced stimulation – the prostate’s function is multiple, so when you stimulate it, it results in enhanced sexual stimulation and more profound pleasure. When you massage the P-spot, it helps release the built-up fluids and stimulates the deep nerves.
- Lower risk of prostate cancer – massaging the prostate lowers the risk of prostate cancer, as it helps reduce swelling and helps normalize its function. Manual massage helps with this, but targeted vibrations are even better for deep prostate massage and stimulation. There are also medical studies that confirm the health benefits of prostate massage.
- Help with sexual dysfunction – men who have problems with sexual dysfunction will find prostate massage stimulating, and the best way for this is to use a well-made prostate massager, as the shape and size of the P-spot massager are optimized for this use. It is also less intrusive than using a finger, and you can get a deeper stimulation when you use a quality P-spot toy.
- Whole-body orgasms – these are not a myth but a real possibility. Still, to achieve the stimulation and sensations for a whole-body orgasm, we recommend you get a prostate massager, preferably one that is vibrating, as it will hit all the right spots. You can control the vibrating patterns and intensities how you like them, and even orgasm without even touching the penis.
Tips for Using a Prostate Massager
When you use a prostate massager, you need to be aware of several things. The first thing is to relax, focus on safety, and remember to enjoy yourself:
- Get over any psychological barrier – the first thing to do when you try to engage in anal play is to relax and get over any psychological barriers and reservations you may have about something going up your bum. When you relax your mind, your body will follow, and you can have a more pleasurable experience.
- Clean the P-spot massager before and after use – wash your prostate massager before you use it, and always clean it after you use it. You can wash a waterproof P-spot toy with soap and water or sex toy cleaner, and you can sterilize non-vibrating silicone, glass, or metal prostate toys in boiling water or rinse in the dishwasher.
- Use compatible lube – lube is necessary when you engage in anal play, so always use a lube that is compatible with the material of your prostate massager. If you use a silicone prostate massager, you must use a water-based lube, and if you use a metal or glass prostate toy, you can use a silicone-based or an oil lube.
Our guide on how to choose a prostate massager covers the basics, and we hope you find it helpful. We have more educational guides on how to choose and how to use different sex toys in our blog. We invite you to browse our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of male sex toys, vibrators, dildos, strap-ons, BDSM gear, lingerie, and so much more.
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