Lesbian couples can enjoy a lot of variety when it comes to sex, especially when using a sex toy that is specifically designed for this purpose. We made a deep dive into the world of sex toys, and we found the ones that are optimized for this purpose. We tested vibrators, clitoral stimulators, strap-ons, and strapless strap-ons, as well as double-ended dildos, to find the best lesbian sex toys you can find in our sex toy store. We are all about variety and trying new things, and we support you and your partner in getting one or more excellent products that will really enhance your pleasure.
Quick Overview of Our Top Picks
- Best Overall Choice: Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Strapless Strap On
- Best Wand Massager: Doxy Die Cast Wand Massager
- Best Vibrating Double Dildo: Dorcel Thrusting & Vibrating Double Dildo
- Best Thrusting Vibe: Jack Rabbits Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit Vibe
- Best Clit Sucker: We-Vibe Melt Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator
- Best Rabbit Vibe: Lovense Nora Bluetooth Rabbit Vibrator
- Best Couple’s Vibe: Together Couples Vibrator
- Best Compact Vibe: Satisfyer Endless Love Couples Vibe
- Best Dildo Option: Femme Funn Wireless Turbo Baller Realistic Vibrator
- Best Harness Set: Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with Harness
- Best Panty Vibe: Lovense Ferri Magnetic Panty Vibrator
The Best Deals This Week*
- Doxy Die Cast Wand Massager — $243.99 (List Price $347.99)
- Together Couples Vibratoro — $219.99 (List Price $293.99)
- Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with Harness — $128.99 (List Price $172.99)
- Lovense Ferri Magnetic Panty Vibrator — $123.99 (List Price $156.99)
- Satisfyer Endless Love Couples Vibe — $58.99 (List Price $86.99)
*Deals are selected by our commerce team
Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Strapless Strap OnBest Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Strapless Strap On as this is an excellent example of a lesbian sex toy. The model is designed for simultaneous penetration and satisfaction for both partners as the vaginal bulb goes into the wearer. In contrast, the probe goes into the receiver and can be used for vaginal or anal penetration. We love this model because it comes with three independent motors that provide deeply satisfying stimulation. The one in the vaginal bulb teases the wearer, as does the one in the clitoral teaser, with the third one in the tip of the probe that teases the receiving partner. We also found the wireless remote relatively easy and convenient. Plus, the Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Strapless Strap On is coated in smooth, body-safe silicone that is waterproof and USB rechargeable. Who It's ForThe Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Strapless Strap On is for all lesbian couples who want to enjoy penetrative sex with deep sensations. What Customers Are Saying - OMG Oh wow, this is by far the best toy we’ve ever used. The initial idea when we selected this strapless strap-on was to use it for pegging, and we’ve been having so much fun with it. I have to confess that this is also great for solo play as well, and I find creative uses for it every time I try it. The silicone surface is smooth and luxurious and I love how the bulb fits inside me and I can grip it tightly with my Kegel muscles. My man had issues with the size of the shaft, but it turned out his concerns were unfounded – he now enjoys it immensely. We both enjoy the vibrations, but after several uses, I found that I don’t like the vaginal bulb vibrations, but only the clitoral and the shaft vibrations. One last note: it is fully waterproof and so easy to clean, which is hard to find in cheaper toys. - Holly - Great for beginners, wonderful soft material, exquisite! Great size for beginners, as we are new to the pegging scene. The material is extraordinarily soft and works wonderfully with lube. Out of the toys I've purchased previously, this one is definitely one of our favorites. - Thalia Reasons to Buy✓ Simultaneous stimulation for both ✓ Seamless silicone and three vibrating areas ✓ Wireless remote and USB recharging ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Doxy Die Cast Wand MassagerBest Wand Massager Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Doxy Die Cast Wand Massager as we believe any lesbian couple should have one in their toy chest. The Doxy is so mighty, as it comes with an impressive speed of up to 9,000 RPMs. It has a body made from cast aluminum-titanium alloy and comes with a semi-flexible neck and round head with body-safe silicone coating for comfortable use. We love that the Doxy Die Cast Wand Massager has a plug-and-play design, so you and your partner will never run out of power when massaging or teasing each other. Who It's ForThe Doxy Die Cast Wand Massager is for all couples who want a wand toy that will allow them to enjoy powerful and intensely pleasurable rumbly vibrations. What Customers Are Saying - Too Powerful ;) Can a wand massager be too powerful? Well I guess it can, but I’m not complaining. My Doxy is excellent and feels so good. I love the sturdy metal body and the silicone cover feels good. Also, the price was too good to pass up! - Regina - AMAZING!!! It is powerful and versatile. I can massage my neck, relax, and then use it to make myself cum. And this makes me cum so hard! - Nat Reasons to Buy✓ Sturdy, reliable construction ✓ High power vibrations ✓ Plug-and-play design ✓ For complete and targeted stimulation Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Dorcel Thrusting & Vibrating Double DildoBest Vibrating Double Dildo Our Rating: 4.7/5 Why We Picked ItThe Dorcel Thrusting & Vibrating Double Dildo is so sexy and exciting, and we believe any lesbian couple will find it compelling and pleasurable to try. It is packed with features that we loved testing. The most appealing ones are the 9 vibrations, 9 thrusting modes, and the USB recharging. You can scroll through the modes using the button control panel on the side of the dildo. But the entire thing is made from body-safe silicone that is compatible with water-based lubes. The body of the dildo is flexible so that you can use it for double penetration but also share pleasure with your partner. Who It's ForThe Dorcel Thrusting & Vibrating Double Dildo is for lesbian couples who want to enjoy simultaneous penetration with thrusting and vibrations. What Customers Are Saying - Very efficient After looking through a few products, I came across this toy.. After looking through the reviews, I worried that it wouldn’t have a strong enough vibration, but after testing it, it is definitely strong enough. There are multiple speeds and multiple patterns to choose from. It works, it’s cost efficient, it’s cute, and honestly, I really like it so far. - Sophie - Worth every penny.. This is beyond a sex toy, it’s an investment into your wellbeing and satisfaction. The dual side gives you something to play with, you have different patterns and vibrations, the color is cute, length and girth are amazing. What else can you ask for? - Ruby Reasons to Buy✓ Dildo and vibrator combo ✓ Body-safe, silky silicone ✓ Thrusting and vibrating options ✓ USB rechargeable and waterproof Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Jack Rabbits Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit VibeBest Thrusting Vibe Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Jack Rabbits Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit Vibe for this list, as this model provides incredibly pleasurable sensations to the user. Lesbian couples will find it exciting to use, and they can take turns stimulating each other because the shaft is not only vibrating, but it also thrusts and pulsates, targeting the G-spot. The bunny ears are an excellent addition, and these tease the clit with fluttering vibrations. We also like that the Jack Rabbits Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit Vibe is USB rechargeable and has lighted button controls that make playtime in the dark very fun. The model is coated in silicone and is waterproof for easy use and cleaning. Who It's ForThe Jack Rabbits Signature Silicone Thrusting Rabbit Vibe is for couples who want to explore penetrative pleasure targeting the clitoris and G-spot. What Customers Are Saying - All the best to say! Super. Great. Love. Fantastic. Amazing. Godly. Heavenly. Best. Thing. Ever! - Roman - A++ This is my first rabbit vibrator I ever bought and I'm speachless... So powerful vibes that makes you to squirt in every 5min.... OMG I can't get enough of this toy! RECOMMEND! - Alexandra Reasons to Buy✓ Silicone surface ✓ G-spot and clitoral stimulation ✓ USB rechargeable and waterproof ✓ Built-in controller pad Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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We-Vibe Melt Pleasure Air Clitoral StimulatorBest Clit Stimulator Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the We-Vibe Melt Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator because this model is so gorgeous, sexy, and pleasurable. The body of the stimulator is slim and ergonomic, fitting nicely in your palm so you can use it during partnered play. We enjoyed the air pressure stimulation, which is like someone gently yet persistently blowing on your clit. We love the body-safe silicone surface and the 12 intensity levels that you get to control via the plus and minus buttons on the side or via the We-Vibe app. The Melt is USB rechargeable and waterproof, so you and your partner can really enjoy it in different settings. Who It's ForThe We-Vibe Melt Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator is an excellent choice for lesbian couples who like to play with targeted clitoral stimulation. What Customers Are Saying - Greatness I love the interactive feature on this device. Sleek design easy to hold. Works quickly. My only complaint is that it is slightly loud and I worry about the kids coming and catching me in the middle of playing with it. - Megan - Great! This product is great! It gets me to climax in just 3 minutes! It is very efficient with mind blowing orgasms! - Siena Reasons to Buy✓ Air pressure stimulation ✓ Slim, ergonomic design ✓ Button and app control ✓ Waterproof and USB rechargeable Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Lovense Nora Bluetooth Rabbit VibratorBest Rabbit Vibe Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe love the Lovense Nora Bluetooth Rabbit Vibrator, as this model is packed with plenty of appealing features. The Nora has an internal vibrating arm and a clitoral arm that work in unison to provide targeted sensations. We love that it comes with button controls on the side, but it is also compatible with the Lovense app for close-range and long-distance control. It is rechargeable via the magnetic USB charger, and it comes with an impressively long battery life. The business end is coated in a lovely body-safe silicone, while the handle is made from ABS plastic, and we are only sorry that it is rated as water-resistant. Who It's ForThe Lovense Nora Bluetooth Rabbit Vibrator is for lesbian couples who are looking for a rabbit vibrator that comes with high-quality features. What Customers Are Saying - Ssoo good! This rabbit vibrator is soooo goood! I love how it moves! The material i so soft and easy to clean. I recommend it to everyone. - Ann - Happy with my investment Rabbit vibrators often disappoint me, but not this one. It has made me cum time and time again. Very happy with my investment. - Bina Reasons to Buy✓ Ergonomic yet comfortable design ✓ Button and app control ✓ Long battery life ✓ USB rechargeable silicone toy Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Satisfyer Endless Love Couples VibeBest Compact Vibe Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Satisfyer Endless Love Couples Vibe because this is listed as a nipple vibe, but we found so many more creative uses for it. The vibe features an innovative design that allows so many different uses. Starting with the nipples, you can also tease the labia, the clitoris, and use it as an insertable vibe and drive your partner mad with pleasurable vibrations. The vibe is coated in body-safe silicone, comes with three vibrating motors, has a simple button control, and is USB rechargeable. We also love that the two buttons allow you to combine 10 vibrations and 10 intensities and get 100 different vibrating settings. Who It's ForThe Satisfyer Endless Love Couples Vibe is for every lesbian couple who wants to explore targeted vibrations and tease each other.. What Customers Are Saying - Delicious. A delicious pleasure all over – for me and him! We’ve only started scratching the surface of the possibilities the Endless Love vibe offers us. - Janelle - Can I give it 10 stars? This is one of the most versatile pleasure toys I’ve ever tried, and it is blue (my favorite shade of blue)! The countless vibrations allow me to explore my body and get in the mood, and I can reach a powerful orgasm with another dildo! - Jennifer Reasons to Buy✓ Creative design ✓ Silicone surface ✓ 14+ ways to use it ✓ Waterproof and USB rechargeable Reasons to Avoid✗ May be too intense for some
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Femme Funn Wireless Turbo Baller Realistic VibratorBest Dildo Option Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Femme Funn Wireless Turbo Baller Realistic Vibrator because this model is one of the most powerful and versatile dildo toys we’ve tested. It comes with 8 vibration settings, a Super Turbo mode, and 360-degree rotation. It is realistically shaped and made from liquid-touch silicone, which feels realistic and is easy to use. The base is a strong suction cup that can hold it in place, but it is also O-ring compatible, so you can add it to your favorite harness and use it to drive your partner crazy with pleasure. Plus, it comes with a wireless remote controller, is USB rechargeable, and is waterproof. Who It's ForThe Femme Funn Wireless Turbo Baller Realistic Vibrator is for all lesbian couples who want to use a feature-packed body-safe dildo with their harness. What Customers Are Saying - Advanced users only A truly high-tech piece of equipment that isn’t for the inexperienced. - Meryl - Good for partner play A tad on the small side, but it’s good for harnesses and partner play. - Jamie Reasons to Buy✓ Seamless liquid silicone ✓ Suction cup base ✓ 8 vibrations and Super Turbo mode ✓ Waterproof and USB rechargeable Reasons to Avoid✗ It may be too big for some
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Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with HarnessBest Harness Set Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with Harness for our list, as this model is perfect for lesbian couples who enjoy strap-on play. The harness is comfortable and adjustable via Velcro straps. But the star of the show is the gently curved vibe that is perfect for G-spot stimulation. Not only is it curved, but it also comes with two vibrating motors, one at the tip that teases the receiver and the other at the base that teases the wearer, and both are controlled separately. The vibe shaft is gently wavy and made from body-safe silicone; it is waterproof and USB rechargeable, and its base doubles as a suction cup base. Who It's ForThe Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with Harness is for all lesbian couples who enjoy strap-on sex and want an adjustable harness and a dual vibration shaft. Reasons to Buy✓ Dual vibration shaft ✓ SBody-safe silicone ✓ Vibrations, wireless remote, and USB recharging ✓ Adjustable, comfortable harness Reasons to Avoid✗ It may be too big for some receivers
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Lovense Ferri Magnetic Panty VibratorBest Panty Vibe Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Lovense Ferri Magnetic Panty Vibrator as this is a feature-packed model that we think any woman should own. The panty vibe has a slim design that fits most panty designs and stays in place via the strong magnetic clip. The Ferri is waterproof and submersible and is compatible with water-based lubes. It vibrates and has a simple button control on the side. Still, the critical feature is the app control, as it connects to the Lovense app and allows you to give control over the vibrations to your partner, as well as have close-range and even long-distance control.
Who It's ForThe Lovense Ferri Magnetic Panty Vibrator is for all couples who are after a simple yet effective panty vibe that comes with high-tech features. Reasons to Buy✓ Silicone surface ✓ Ergonomic shape and size ✓ Button and app controlled ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Why Trust Our Reviews?
HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use.
Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you.
When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight.
Essential Things to Know About Lesbian Sex Toys
We love testing different sex toys, and we enjoy looking for the best features and creating lists and helpful guides for you. We have a complete guide on how to choose a vibrator, among plenty of other shopping and usage guides, which you can read in our blog. For now, we’ll only stick with the basics on the things to note when choosing a lesbian-friendly sex toy:
- Expected stimulation – you can get a sex toy that you can use to tease your partner with or a model that you both can use simultaneously to mutual satisfaction. Some of the models provide targeted clitoral stimulation, others provide combined stimulation, while some allow one partner to penetrate the other partner and enjoy heightened sensations and closeness.
- Material – we are all for buying sex toys made from body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or metal, as these materials are non-porous, smooth, and body-safe, on top of being very easy to keep clean.
- Size – we always advise you to get a sex toy that comes in a size you can comfortably manage. Take a look at our product descriptions, where we list all the critical dimensions for the different sex toys so you can choose a model that you and your partner can safely enjoy.
- Intensity – here, we are talking about things like vibrations and rhythms, as these can be overwhelming if you are not prepared for them. Also, consider the intensity of a thrusting toy, as it is easy to get carried away.
- Extra features – under extra features, we are considering things like vibrations, waterproof use, wireless remote, app control, suction cup base, harness compatibility, and the like.
Final Words
We hope our selection for the best lesbian sex toys is interesting to you, as we tried to be all-encompassing in our choices. However, if there is something else that interests you, then we invite you to check out our sex toy store, which offers you a broad selection of vibrators, dildos, anal toys, butt plugs, sexy lingerie, BDSM tools, and all the essentials you need for better sex!
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