Gay men have plenty of options when it comes to sex toys, especially when looking to add some variety to partnered sex. Of course, a skilled partner can deliver so much pleasure, but a great selection of sex toys can do so much more. We tested a bunch of these from our sex toy store and completed a list of the best gay sex toys you can try. Please note that these are a far cry from the pink vibe that may come to mind, and our picks are designed to elevate, stimulate, heighten pleasure, and prolong sexual enjoyment.
Quick Overview of Our Top Picks
- Best Overall: Lelo Loki Wave Vibrating Prostate Massager
- Best Butt Plug Set: Master Series Triple Cones Anal Plug Set
- Best Prostate Massager: Lelo Hugo Rechargeable Prostate Vibrator
- Best Anal Masturbator: Gender X Message In A Bottle Stroker
- Best Vibrating Plug: OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Hero Wearable Butt Plug
- Best Cock Ring: Lovense Diamo Cock Ring
- Best Prostate Play Kit: Zero Tolerance Intro To Prostate Kit
- Best Masturbation Sleeve: Man Squeeze Pierce Paris Ass Stroker
- Best Male Dildo: Pride Dildo Silicone Suction Cup Dildo
- Best Blow Job Masturbator: VeDo Hummer Hands-Free BJ Masturbator
- Best Male Lube: Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal Lube
- Best Anal Douche: Perfect Fit Ergoflo Director Anal Douche
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- VeDO Hummer 2.0 Hands Free BJ Machine — $387.99 (List Price $554.99)
- Pulse Solo Lux Masturbator with Remote — $148.99 (List Price $224.99)
- LELO HUGO Rechargeable Prostate Vibrator — $244.99 (List Price $326.99)
- Nexus Revo Intense Rotating Prostate Massager — $160.99 (List Price $247.99)
- LELO F1S V2 Automatic Male Masturbator — $228.99 (List Price $352.99)
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Deep Dive: Our Top Picks LELO LOKI Wave Vibrating Prostate MassagerBest Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Lelo Loki Wave Vibrating Prostate Massager as our top pick for a sex toy that fits gay guys because this model is impressive in every way. We tested it and loved the premier features it provides. First off, its shape is incredible, with one insertable part and an external stimulation part that is optimized for deep stimulation and easy use. The prostate massager targets the P-spot with its contoured shape, while the external arm provides perineal massage for more stimulation. We like that it is almost noiseless, even though it has dual motors, 10 modes of stimulation, and a 5-button control panel on the handle. Another thing worth pointing out is that the Lelo Loki Wave Vibrating Prostate Massager is coated in body-safe silicone and is fully waterproof and submersible. Plus, it is USB rechargeable and has a very long battery life. Who It's ForThe Lelo Loki Wave Vibrating Prostate Massager is for all the guys who enjoy targeted P-spot and perineal massage and want a premium prostate toy.. What Customers Are Saying - Great gift My husband has been treating me nice so I had to get him something nice for his birthday. He always wanted to try a prostate massager so this was the obvious gift I should go for. He hasn’t stopped talking about how good it feels ever since, so I guess you get a 5 star rating and a loyal customer with him hahah - Khloee - Love it This toy slides in pretty easily. It holds itself in pretty well. The wave is subtle and really nice. The best thing about it is the handle. I love being able to put it in and pull it out whenever I want. I always get the best orgasms! - Josh Reasons to Buy✓ Premier features ✓ Dual motors for deep stimulation ✓ USB rechargeable ✓ Waterproof and submersible Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Master Series Triple Cones Anal Plug SetBest Butt Plug Set Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Master Series Triple Cones Anal Plug Set because these are perfect for many users. The set comes with three conical plugs in increasing sizes. The plugs have tapered tips for easy insertion, wide bodies, narrow necks, and wide bases. The bottoms of the bases are shaped as suction cups that allow easy, hands-free use. We love that these come in three sizes, but the smallest one is not a beginner-friendly size, but it is for people who have experience with anal play. Also, these are made from smooth, non-porous, shiny TPE that is easy to clean, waterproof, and compatible with water-based lubes. Who It's ForThe Master Series Triple Cones Anal Plug Set is for all the guys who want a graduated anal plug set that comes with a considerable size and is easy to use. What Customers Are Saying - Great for beginners Great product for beginners. I love these plugs. The smallest plug is exceptionally small which is amazing for people who are eager but nervous to try anal for the first time - Sean - Take your time and have fun Easy to clean! Comfortable for beginners. I would start with the smaller ones. Take your time with them and have fun. I personally love this product. - Linda Reasons to Buy✓ Conical shape ✓ Body-safe material ✓ Waterproof and easy to clean ✓ Graduated sizes Reasons to Avoid✗ Non-vibrating
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LELO HUGO Rechargeable Prostate VibratorBest Prostate Massager Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe have to add the Lelo Hugo Rechargeable Prostate Vibrator to our list, as any man, gay or straight, can significantly benefit from this male toy. We tested all the features the Lelo Hugo Rechargeable Prostate Vibrator brings, and we love them all. Let’s start with the shape of the prostate massager. The insertable section is contoured and optimized for easy insertion, while the external part sits comfortably on the perineum and provides deeper stimulation. We also have to mention that the Hugo is coated in body-safe silicone that is smooth, non-porous, body-safe, and easy to clean and maintain. It comes with dual motors – one in the internal section and one in the perineal stimulator, and both are controlled via the wireless remote controller. It is USB rechargeable and comes with an elegant storage box and storage pouch. Who It's ForThe Lelo Hugo Rechargeable Prostate Vibrator is for every man who wants to try prostate massage and wants to use a superior quality toy. What Customers Are Saying - Does the job I bought this toy a few months ago and I had never experienced any sort of P spot stimulation in the past. I was pleasantly surprised after using it multiple times now. The first time I used it I had a pretty intense orgasm within about 5 minutes. Since then I have played with the settings to make it last a little longer. I totally recommend it - Dan - Worth it I bought this for my boyfriend for Valentines. We were pretty excited to try it out. It is totally worth the money!!! Gives the best orgasms ever! - Thommy L. Reasons to Buy✓ Optimized shape and size ✓ Premium features ✓ Wireless remote controller ✓ USB rechargeable and waterproof Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Hero Wearable Butt PlugBest Vibrating Butt Plug Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Hero Wearable Butt Plug for our list as this toy fits a lot of different users. We love all the features it comes with, as these are optimized for deep anal stimulation. The wearable butt plug is contoured, and the insertable part is comfortable, while the external part is contoured to fit between the butt cheeks and stimulate the prostate. We like that it has built-in vibrations that you can control via the wireless remote controller. On top of the vibrations, the OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Hero Wearable Butt Plug can also be synced to music, as it has a tease mode and a built-in microphone, so you can get all the sexy stimulation while you are out clubbing. It is USB rechargeable and coated in body-safe silicone, but it is only rated splashproof, so don’t submerge it in water. You can rinse it under the tap, but be careful not to get too much water in the microphone/charging port. Who It's ForThe OhMiBod Club Vibe 3. OH Hero Wearable Butt Plug is an excellent choice for all men who want to experience targeted anal stimulation with plenty of vibration modes.. Reasons to Buy✓ Compact size and shape ✓ Perfect for long-term wear ✓ Wireless remote and syncing to music ✓ USB rechargeable and easy to clean Reasons to Avoid✗ Somewhat expensive
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Lovense Diamo Cock RingBest Cock Ring Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe love the Lovense Diamo Cock Ring, and we had to include it in this list. The Lovense Diamo Cock Ring is a high-quality model that comes with plenty of appealing features for such a small, compact sex toy. The ring is made from flexible silicone that you can fit at the base of the penis and even fit the balls through it. It sits flush at the base of the penis, and you can place the vibrating section facing downward, so you will feel the vibrations on the perineum. If you position it facing upward, then both partners will feel the vibrations. We like that it is controlled via the Lovense app, and you can customize the vibrations and other options. It is USB rechargeable and comes with an impressive 4-hour battery life. The Lovense Diamo Cock Ring is waterproof, coated in body-safe silicone, and effortless to clean. Who It's ForThe Lovense Diamo Cock Ring is for all the men looking to enhance their and their partner’s sexual experience by adding a vibrating cock ring into the mix. What Customers Are Saying - Great addition to any Sex toy collection A fantastic piece to add to your collection. This stretches just enough to not be uncomfortable when erect. - Allan - Well worth the money This is a great price, which is why I tried it compared the others on the market that from what I've read don't stretch as easily as this. - Gabriel Reasons to Buy✓ Bluetooth controlled vibrations ✓ Very long battery life ✓ USB rechargeable and whisper-quiet ✓ Waterproof and discreet Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Man Squeeze Pierce Paris Ass StrokerBest Masturbation Sleeve Our Rating: 4.7/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Man Squeeze Pierce Paris Ass Stroker to include in our list as this model is perfect for all the guys who want to play with a manual stroker and elevate their masturbation game. The stroker is a part of the Main Squeeze line of products, and these all come with a discreet hard outer case with dual caps that allow you to store it with ease. But the screw cap on the far end is also for controlling the suction, as you can tighten it for greater suction or unscrew it for looser sensations. Also, all the Main Squeeze toys, including the Man Squeeze Pierce Paris Ass Stroker, come with a squeeze plate on the side that allows you to control the pressure when you slip your penis inside. The opening is molded from Pierce Paris’s ass, and the inner channel is highly textured for extra sensations. The sleeve is made from Ultraskyn, which is lifelike and easy to clean, as it is open-ended, and you can rinse all lube and residue with soap and warm water. Who It's ForThe Man Squeeze Pierce Paris Ass Stroker is a perfect choice for all the guys who want a discreet manual stroker and want to relieve a porn star fantasy. Reasons to Buy✓ Lifelike stroker molded from Pierce Paris’s ass ✓ Double-cap hard outer shell ✓ Squeeze plate for adjustable pressure ✓ Easy to clean and maintain Reasons to Avoid✗ Non vibrating
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Pride Dildo Silicone Suction Cup DildoBest Male Dildo Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Pride Dildo Silicone Suction Cup Dildo to include in our list, as this model is perfect for all men who want to try using an anal dildo with good features. The dildo is incredible, as it is made from body-safe silicone that is compatible with water-based lubes. It is made from layers of silicone with a rainbow-colored design. We love that it is semi-flexible, quite long, and comes with considerable thickness, so we should say that beginners should be careful when using it. The Pride Dildo Silicone Suction Cup Dildo comes with a suction cup base for easy hands-free use, but the base is also compatible with all O-ring harnesses. Cleaning it is a snap as the silicone is waterproof, and you can wash it with soap and water. If necessary, you can sterilize it in boiling water for a few minutes. Who It's ForThe Pride Dildo Silicone Suction Cup Dildo is for all the guys who want to try using an anal dildo made from body-safe materials and fun colors. What Customers Are Saying - I love it! I love this dildo! I’m using it with my partner and he is very happy! Awesome color, soft skin, and the textures are awesome. Good for beginners. - Martin - Sublime suction I love it! It’s so pretty, flexible and life like with extra fun. The suction works perfectly! I’m very happy with this purchase! - Maurice Reasons to Buy✓ Large size and girth ✓ Body-safe silicone in pride colors ✓ Suction cup base ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ It may be too long for beginners
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VeDO Hummer Hands-Free BJ MasturbatorBest Blow Job Mastubator Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the VeDo Hummer Hands-Free BJ Masturbator because this is a high-tech model that provides intense sensations. The machine has a plug-and-play design, so you will never run out of power, while the detachable sleeve is USB-recharged for convenient use. We loved testing this model, as the sensations it brings are unmatched because it can pulsate with up to 109 suction impulses per minute. It has a wireless remote controller where you can scroll through the 5 intensity levels and 5 speeds, getting 25 ways to play with the machine. The suction head is detachable and comes with a glow-in-the-dark inner sleeve that you can use in different ways. The sleeve can be rinsed with warm water or sex toy cleaner, and the machine can be spot-cleaned with a damp cloth. Who It's ForThe VeDo Hummer Hands-Free BJ Masturbator is for all the guys who want to experience the incredibly strong sensations this high-tech automatic blow job masturbator provides. What Customers Are Saying - Worth the money Very good toy...well built. Works better than even described. So far only had it for a few weeks but very satisfied. - Emmet - Husband loves this! My husband travels for work so I surprised him with the HUMMER... and boy oh boy does he love it! He said it really feels amazing and it's pretty powerful! - Anonymous Reasons to Buy✓ Automatic suction with up to 109 impulses per minute ✓ 25 different operating modes ✓ Glow-in-the-dark inner sleeve ✓ Plug-and-play use with a remote controller Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal LubeBest Male Lube Our Rating: 5/5 Why We Picked ItWe included the Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal Lube to our list, as even though this is not an actual sex toy, it is a lube that is optimized for anal play. We found this lube to be excellent for all kinds of anal play, and since it is a water-based formula, it is perfect to combine it with silicone toys. The lube is mainly intended for men who want maximum moisture and enjoy anal penetration and like a premium lube. We like that the Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal Lube is enhanced with hyaluronan, which has a dual effect of providing lasting lubricity and improving performance. It is compatible with latex condoms, and it is non-staining, hypoallergenic, and lightweight. It does not leave a sticky residue on the skin, but it provides enough moisture and glide. It may become dry over time, but a dab of water will reactivate it. When you are done, it washes easily from the skin with warm water and soap. Who It's ForThe Pjur Back Door Anal Water Based Personal Lube is for all users who are after a quality-made, slippery anal lube that is compatible with silicone sex toys. What Customers Are Saying - Love it Absolutely in love with this product. You don't have to take the name of the product literally. It is good for any pleasurable activity requiring lubrication. It lasts longer than some other water-based lubes without the need to reapply. - Harper - Slippery Good stuff. Definitely relaxes you and it is definitely slippery. Great for not leaving a sticky or greasy residue, but just in case don't use too much of it. - Becky Reasons to Buy✓ Optimized for anal play ✓ Water-based formula ✓ Medical-grade ingredients ✓ Compatible with latex condoms Reasons to Avoid✗ Dries relatively quickly
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Perfect Fit Ergoflo Director Anal DoucheBest Anal Douche Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe wrap up our selection of the best gay-friendly sex toys with the Perfect Fit Ergoflo Director Anal Douche. This is a well-made anal douche that comes with all the good features. It is made from a semi-flexible silicone-coated nozzle that is slightly curved and follows the natural internal shape, allowing you to reach deeper and get a more thorough rinse. The bulb is quite large, able to hold 9 fl oz of liquid, and it is effortless to use. The nozzle has a one-way valve that ensures there is no messy backflow, and it makes the douche much more effective. We recommend this for more experienced users, as the nozzle is 8 inches long, and it may intimidate complete beginners. The Perfect Fit Ergoflo Director Anal Douche is also easy to travel with, so you can have it handy any time you need it. Who It's ForThe Perfect Fit Ergoflo Director Anal Douche is an excellent fit for any man who wants to go the extra mile and get a perfectly clean backdoor. What Customers Are Saying - Solid material Solid material, soft and comfortable tip. Highly recommended. - Daniel - Good enough This is perfect for a ‘refresh’ but I will always have a full enema before doing anal, it’s not just manners, it makes a loooooot of sense lol!! - Anonymous Reasons to Buy✓ Contoured nozzle ✓ Large capacity bulb ✓ One-way valve ✓ Travel-friendly design Reasons to Avoid✗ It may be intimidating for beginners
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Why Trust Our Reviews?
HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use.
Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you.
When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight.
Key Things to Know About Gay Sex Toys
When you choose any sex toy, you need to be aware of several important facts. We discuss many of these at length in our blog, as we share plenty of helpful guides for choosing and using different sex toys. Thus, here we only share the key things to note when you select the best gay sex toys:
- Design – the design of the sex toy you choose will determine how you can use it and the pleasure you and your partner will experience. For example, a prostate massager focuses on the prostate, cock rings provide targeted penile stimulation. So, when you choose a sex toy for you, consider the expected stimulation and intended use.
- Material – we recommend you look for sex toys made from body-safe materials like silicone, glass, and metal. Still, there are quality models that are made from PVC, Cyberskin, and other materials.
- Size – choose a size that fits your or your partner’s body, and please remember that bigger may not always be better. Choose sizes that are safer to manage, as these do not act as actual humans. Consider your experience level, and if you have doubts, then go for the smaller size.
- Features – consider what extra features your chosen sex toy has and select the ones that appeal to you. Under extra features, we consider things like waterproof use, wireless remote controller, ease of cleaning, and similar features.
The Bottom Line
Above, we shared our selection of the best gay sex toys you can get from our store. However, as this list is short, we wish to invite you to check out our complete sex toy selection, as we carry an impressive selection of male sex toys, anal sex toys, BDSM tools, sexy male lingerie, lubes and essentials, and all else you may need for better sex.
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