How to Squirt with a Dildo?

What is Squirting?

Squirting or female ejaculation is a process of shooting out an ejaculate fluid from specific glands in the vagina. If these areas are adequately aroused and stimulated, the woman can ejaculate, which is very hot and sexy to experience and observe.

The vagina is a place to explore and find many pleasurable places to be stimulated. There are many spots to stimulate: not just the clitoris but also the G-spot and A-spot. Still, there is another place called Skene’s gland. This Skene’s glands are twin glands located above or behind the G-spot, along the urethra, inside the vagina on the front vaginal wall, and near the bladder.

It is a place to explore: when the woman is deeply aroused, you can touch and feel it. After you locate it, you need to stimulate it long enough, but the woman needs to be genuinely relaxed to be able to squirt.

The squirting is triggered when the spasms of the orgasm take over the body. We need to be precise – squirting is not the orgasm itself, but the stimulation and the sensations of the orgasm spark up the squirting.

Many women will never experience this sensation; others who are almost going to squirt may feel like they are almost going to pee and may stop it. But don’t be shy; female ejaculate is not pee, so continue what you are doing, relax, and try to enjoy it all the way.

The female ejaculate during squiring is not urine; the ejaculate is very different in composition, look, and smell. The secretion has specific proteins and is somewhat similar to saliva, but it also is hard to clean if left to dry. It means you should clean yourself and your toys while wet; if you leave the dildo to dry with female ejaculate, it will be hard to clean.

How to Squirt with a Dildo?

We have prepared a guide to help you learn how to squirt alone or with your partner. For starters, find Skene’s glands, which are located inside the vagina, above and behind the G-spot on the front wall of the vagina. First thing first, relax and try to clear your mind, as sex starts in the brain for many women.

If you try to find it, please note that this gland has a bit of a different structure. When aroused, the G-spot and Skene’s glands have a ridged structure similar to the upper wall of the mouth and the upper palate. If the partner stimulates you, the verbal communication should be on a high level, and you must tell them what and how it feels for you.

Rub the Right Way

Make sure you pay good attention to the clitoris to promote blood flow to the area, and it will arouse you and put you in the mood. You can use a rabbit vibe and dual vibrating arms to stimulate yourself from the outside and the inside.

When you find this structure and stimulate it enough, the gland can create and secrete a thick secretion that can splash like a jet or seep out slowly. We need to explain that it is different for every woman, and some don’t even feel it until they get up and see the mess they’ve left on the bed.

You can control how the secretion comes out; if you don’t pressure it, it will seep out slowly, but if you use the Kegel muscles and contract them, the ejaculate can jet out. It is up to you; if you exercise, it will come out the way you like it, even splashing all over your partner, as the porn stars do.

You can stimulate this area in different ways, with your fingers, a dildo, a vibrator, or with the partner’s penis. The best way to stimulate it is with a dildo or a vibrator, as the fingers may not reach the wanted place, or it may be uncomfortable. If you use fingers, the fingernails should be cut short so as not to scratch the gentle vaginal surface.

It is difficult for a penis to stimulate a specific spot, but a dildo can. You need to thrust the dildo repeatedly in the same place and apply a fair amount of pressure to achieve the most potent stimulation and deep pleasure.

Relax, Get in the Mood, and Let Go to the Sensations

When you use a dildo, make sure to use water-based lube when you start playing, as the vagina needs some time to lubricate itself. Later, stimulate the wanted place and use a firmer dildo. Please note that jelly and TPE dildos are too soft for this application, and it can be challenging to achieve the necessary stimulation.

We suggest you opt to use a firm silicone dildo, a glass dildo, or a metal dildo, as these are rigid enough to hit the spot. Some dildos are specially constructed with a bulbous tip or a rounded extension that can stimulate the G-spot and Skene’s glands.

If you are a beginner in this type of sexual play, don’t get disappointed if it doesn’t go right the first few times. We recommend you relax, be patient, and practice; we are confident you’ll get it right. When it happens, you should enjoy the unique sensations this brings.

We hope our guide on how to squirt with a dildo is helpful and you’ll decide to experience this unique sexual experience. Also, please check out our other guides below and browse our sex toy store, where we provide a broad array of dildos and other sex toys to satisfy anyone’s tastes.