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How to Use a Large Dildo?

How to Use a Large Dildo?

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The mighty dildo is anyone's favorite sex toy, and it is by far the most-sold sex toy ever. Because of its popularity, we can freely claim that most adults have tried using a dildo in their lives. Still, some may feel that they can take a larger model, and it is often that people tend to order a more massive dildo than they've used in the past.

So, here we'll discuss the particulars of using a large dildo and provide in-depth advice and tips on safely playing with a large dildo. If you're ready to take on a challenge and want to explore sex plays with bigger-sized dildos, this guide is for you!

Why Use A Large Dildo?

Thick and large dildos are sex toys designed to look and feel like a regular penis but come with a considerable girth and length. These also come in a variety of materials like silicone, PVC, TPE, metal, or glass, and you can get pretty creative when using an enormous dildo.

Large dildos look like regular-sized dildos, with realistic veins, pronounced glans, and even a pair of balls at the end. Some models are smooth, models with texture, and models that have added features that can enhance the entire experience.

We recommend you stick to silicone or other body-safe materials when it comes to using a large dildo, as these provide the best user experience. Also, you can get a dildo with a suction cup base that lets you stick your massive dong to a flat surface and ride it any way you like.

The Appeal of a Large Dildo

Taking in a sizeable dildo inside can be quite a challenge; however, it is not impossible. Now, you might wonder why anyone would want to experiment with such a giant sex toy. The first and most apparent reason is to try something new and different. If you've only been accustomed to regular-sized penises, opting for a large dildo can help you explore your anatomy and find out just how full you can get.

The exquisite feel of fullness is a different reason by default, as many women like to feel their vaginas filled up and their walls throbbing on a thick surface. It is also suggested that large dildos can help you orgasm better and faster since they offer more friction, resulting in extra stimulation and feelings of pleasure.

Many women choose large dongs because of the visually intimidating appeal, as experimenting with different sizes is simultaneously pleasurable and challenging and invokes different types of pleasure.

How Big Are Large Dildos?

Regarding dildo size, there are small, average, and large models; the large models are also divided into several groups based on the length. As the general concession goes, anything larger than 7 inches in length can be considered a large dildo, but here are some more options:

7, 8, 9 Inches

These are just over the average size and usually come in various designs with extra features. The most common additional features are a set of balls and a suction cup base, allowing creative use. We recommend 7-inch, 8-inch, and 9-inch dildo sizes for people with some experience using dildos, as these have a slightly bigger size than the average and should be manageable by most users.

10 & 11 Inches

The 10 and 11-inch dildos are relatively big and provide much fullness and stretch. Not for everyone, 10-inch and 11-inch dildos usually look like a natural penis, have realistic textures, have balls, and come with a suction cup base that sticks to most flat surfaces. These rarely come with vibrating mechanisms intended to provide a stretching feeling.

12+ Inches

These are massive dildos, also known as 'monster cocks', and are pretty much a legend. It takes ages of training and stretching before you can even get a 12-inch dildo in, as these are large in length and thickness, with an average diameter of about 3 inches or more.

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How to Prepare For a Large Dildo

Using a large dildo can be a challenge, especially for users who have little experience with sex toys or have only used small dildos before. The key to comfortably and pleasurably using a large dildo lies in patience and practice. So, we prepared a few tips and tricks that you can use to ease your way into using large dildos.

Start with a Clean Toy

Always start your play with a clean toy. When you use a large dildo, you may need to be more attentive in washing it; use soap and warm water to wash and clean your large dildo, and make sure it is nicely dry before you use it.

Relax and Engage in Foreplay

Foreplay is the most critical factor that can make or break your sex play, whether you're alone or with a partner. Engaging in foreplay will allow you to relax your body and loosen your muscles, including the vaginal muscles. Do what puts you in a sexy mood, and explore your body however you like it.

Becoming aroused is vital to successfully using a large dildo, as when you are turned on, the vagina elongates and produces lubrication, allowing you to take a giant toy. For starters, you can try using your fingers or a smaller-sized toy to ease into it; then, you can use your large dildo and start inserting as much as you feel comfortable with.

Practice A LOT!

As they say, practice makes perfect; the same is true even about sex toys such as large dildos. Getting your vagina accustomed to a more giant sex toy requires time, especially if you've chosen an incredibly large and thick dildo. Also, staying patient through the pieces is the most important thing. We advise you to start small, slow, and work your way up!

Tips for Safely Using a Large Dildo

Once you're sufficiently prepared and feel like you're in the mood for penetration, you can move on to inserting your large dildo. To ensure your safety and comfortable use, follow the advice below:

Lube Up

Lube is essential every time you use a sex toy, and even more so when that particular toy is meant to stretch you out. When it comes to lubricant, you can never have too much, and make sure you apply it both on the large dildo and your vagina. The lube must be compatible with the material your large dildo is made from, and to be safe, we advise you to use a quality water-based lubricant. Applying the lubricant is not a one-time thing - the bottle should constantly be near you, and you can add as many or as many times as needed.

Listen to Your Body

To prevent tearing or injuries, always listen to your body. Explore what feels comfortable, and whenever you get the sense you can get the large dildo a bit further inside, do it slowly and in incremental amounts. If you feel discomfort or pain at any point, take out the dildo and give yourself a little break. You can reapply lube and start over or leave the practice for another day. Additionally, avoid using your large dildo wherever you feel sore.

Mind Your Anatomy

Being mindful of how you position your large dildo during sex can make all the difference regarding your orgasms. For example, if you're using a slightly curved large dildo but you feel as if your vagina walls are hindering its progression inside, don't try to jam it in. You should first explore the anatomy of your vagina and get a feel of how much space your uterus offers. You can do so by using your fingers or by exploring yourself with smaller sex toys such as bullet vibrators or vibrating eggs.

Combine with Other Sex Toys

Even if you're not able to penetrate yourself thoroughly with a giant dildo, it doesn't mean that you cannot use other toys to satisfy yourself during practice mode. Bullet vibrators, clit suckers, or anal sex toys are all great options that you can use simultaneously with your large dildo and easily reach an orgasm. If you want more advanced toys, you can combine your large dildo with a clit stimulator, such as a finger vibrator, to enjoy both internal and external pleasure.

Bonus Tip: Don't Ride It

While large dildos often come with suction cups, they are far from practical for riding. Unless you're a pro at tackling large dildos and you're able to fully take one inside you, trying to ride this sex toy can be very dangerous.

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Final Thoughts

Large dildos are very similar in design to regular dildos; their only specialty is their larger size. To ensure you use them safely and enjoy their benefits, it's necessary to be patient and take things one inch at a time.

As long as you have some lube by your side and you're mindful of the materials and quality of the sex toy, you can quickly get into practice mode and achieve full insertion in no time. Remember, play with yourself, explore your body, and enjoy as many sizes as you want - intense orgasms will come naturally to you!

Please review our other guides below and browse our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of large dildos and other exciting sex toys.

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