A blowjob, also known as fellatio, is an oral sex act involving stimulating the penis with the mouth. It is an action that includes the lips, tongue, saliva, hands, and a lot of moving and suction. The stimulation gives an incredible and euphoric sensation to men, and it is very different from regular sex involving vaginal or anal penetration. Here, we’ll discuss the aspects that make a blowjob feel very good for men and much more.
Why Men Enjoy Blowjobs?
Every man experiences a blowjob differently, as everyone has subjective expectations. Still, there are some general responses that oral sex brings to men, like the following:
- Arousal: a blowjob has an intensely arousing effect on men, and it is a vital part of foreplay and overall sexual pleasure;
- Physical pleasure: the physical pleasure from a blowjob is intense and stimulating, and rarely matched by another sexual act;
- Stronger orgasms: many men have reported they have achieved stronger orgasms during oral sex, which is highly pleasurable;
- Stress relief: the sensations from oral sex can be very relaxing for many men, having a sedative, stress-relieving effect;
- Improved intimacy: there is a great dose of trust involved with oral sex, and for many people, there has to be emotional intimacy and deep connection before they can fully commit to the act of giving or receiving oral sex.
Please keep in mind that all people have different preferences, and open communication and explicit consent are the two most essential aspects of safe and pleasurable sexual play.
A Blowjob Feels Different than Sex
If done correctly, a blowjob provides more intense tingling sensations on specific spots on the penis that penetrative sex doesn’t, as the blowjob also includes the lips, tongue, and hands. If the person who does the blowjob knows their partner’s sensitive spots, they can tease them more; for example, using the tongue around the head, lips for suction, and the hands to massage the balls increases the erotic feelings.
A blowjob needs the right amount of suction to give the man a mind-blowing experience. The suction men feel on their penis while having penetrative sex is not that intense; the most intense is when a woman has an orgasm, and men can feel the muscle contractions around the penis. However, when performing a blowjob, the suction can be pleasurably increased.
Most men say they are moaning louder, and the partner knows what feels better without saying it. The pose’s masculinity gives others more pleasure; the psychological moment when the partner takes the penis into the mouth is a most personal and pleasing sight. For some men, even the thought of a blowjob causes them to have a partial or full erection.
Some men say it makes them feel confident and desired and is the perfect combination of pressure, warmth, and wetness. Others say the variety, mixture, and change in action are pleasurable if the partner is willing to do it. Some men don’t like blowjobs, or they say that they haven’t experienced a good one.
The worst thing when performing a blowjob is using teeth, as the skin on the penis is very sensitive and can easily be broken. Seeing someone choking on a penis is not a good sight for some men, and they lose interest in the blowjobs. Some have reported that if there is no suction, it feels like a too-loose vagina without any tingling or sucking sensation.
The bottom line is that men enjoy the feelings they get from a good blowjob; they love those intense sensations that are mind-blowing only if done correctly. If you want to make your partner wild with desire, talk to them, ask what they enjoy, and do it for them.
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