The anus is a sensual place that is full of nerve endings and can be a source of much pleasure, and the best way to engage these is to wear a butt plug. There are so many ways you can use a butt plug, but most people limit their use to private settings. Well, let’s talk about the excitement of wearing a butt plug in public and what it can do for your pleasure, while leaving the people around you blissfully unaware. Plus, the key things to know when planning to engage in public butt plug fun.
What is a Butt Plug?
A butt plug is most often a conical, teardrop, or spade-like sex toy that you insert in the butt for sexual pleasure. People may use it for anal pleasure or for preparing the body for anal sex, or simply because they enjoy it. It is because the anus is full of nerve endings that, when appropriately stimulated, it will provide a deeply satisfying experience. You can find butt plugs in all shapes and sizes, some smooth and some textured, and made from silicone, metal, glass, and other materials. No matter the butt plug you opt to use, there are some things to know when you decide to wear your butt plug in public.
Wearing a Butt Plug in Public
We can list so many reasons why you should wear a butt plug in public, but for many, there needs to be no reason except that it is fun and makes you feel sexy. Well, that and it feels good, making for a really long and adequate foreplay. The thrill of wearing a sex toy in public is a powerful aphrodisiac, which is why we made a list of the best discreet sex toys for women to use in public. We’ll also make a list of the best anal toys to use in public, so here we’ll outline a few reasons why you should really consider wearing a butt plug when going out in public.
The first reason we can list here is roleplay. Imagine being the sexy, obedient slave to your partner and obeying their every order, which coincidentally includes wearing a butt plug when you go out. Maybe you are sitting in a fancy restaurant and squirming under your partner’s gaze with the butt plug filling your behind. BDSM games may often involve butt plug play in public, especially a vibrating butt plug with a wireless remote controller.
Another reason is prolonged foreplay, which means you will be aroused and kept on the edge of an orgasm for much longer than usual. Imagine walking and feeling the butt plug stimulating your anus and thrilling your senses.
The last reason why you may choose to wear a butt plug in public is that it feels naughty and exciting. Maybe you are at the gym and are doing squats or running on the treadmill, or you are out running errands or shopping for groceries; these are all instances where more adventurous people choose to wear a butt plug without anyone around them knowing.
Choose the Correct Butt Plug to Use in Public
Now, to the technical stuff – you need to choose the correct butt plug for public play. Not every model can be worn in public, especially larger models with oversized bases that take effort to put in or are designed for combined use. Instead, you should look for a butt plug that has a compact design and a snug fit. If you have a loose-fitting plug, you risk losing it while on the move. Conversely, a too-tight fit may become painful and uncomfortable when worn for longer.
Well, you can wear any butt plug you want, but for the most comfortable use, you should pick a butt plug that has a streamlined shape and is of a size that you can comfortably take. The butt plug should fit securely in your butt without being obtrusive or noticeable. For that reason, we recommend you get a butt plug model with a flat base that will fit in between your butt cheeks and will not hinder you in sitting, standing, or moving. Make sure the plug you choose is not overly long and has a well-rounded tip that will not poke your innards and cause more harm than good. We have a complete butt plug selection guide where we cover all this and more.
As a rule of thumb, stay away from inflatable butt plugs and large butt plugs and tail butt plugs, as these are unfit for public play. Well, unless it is your thing to wear a fox, bunny, or cat tail, or you are wearing a sexy costume that requires a tail.
Even if you choose a super-comfy butt plug, we advise you to be careful when sitting on it too much, as it may become uncomfortable after a while. A good practice is to pop in your preferred butt plug at home and wear it for a few hours while doing things around the house. Try sitting on soft and hard surfaces and see how your body is faring, so you can at least know what to expect when you have your behind filled with your favorite butt plug.
We recommend choosing a semi-flexible butt plug with a flat base made from silicone, as it is among the most comfortable models available. The size of the butt plug you opt for depends on your experience level, but we recommend you stick to smaller models for wearing in public.
Lube, Lube, Lube
Lube is your best friend when it comes to anal play, so make sure to stock up on lube that is compatible with the material of your butt plug. If you use a silicone butt plug, then remember to only use a water-based lube. For metal and glass butt plugs, you can use silicone-based lube, and we advise you to stay away from oil-based lubes as these aren’t compatible with silicone toys and will most definitely stain your clothes.
Please don’t be stingy with the lube, and make sure you apply enough of it when you insert it. Be careful not to use too much, as it may cause the plug to slip out of your butt. Using the right amount of lube is critical, as it will make it more comfortable for you to wear the plug for longer and be comfortable during use.
Additional Things for Public Butt Plug Use
We covered the choice of butt plug and lube, but what else do you need for safe public butt plug play? It is supportive underwear that will help the plug stay in place. You can pick some boyshorts or panties that have a snug fit and will prevent anyone from noticing that you are hiding a secret. Guys who opt to wear a butt plug or a prostate massager in public should choose supportive boxers that will keep everything where it should be.
You may have to be out in public for longer than you’ve planned, and may have to take out the plug when not at home. For this reason, we recommend you take a small bottle of lube with you and have a plastic bag handy, along with a small packet of sex toy cleaner. Lube can make it easier to pop out the plug when you start to feel like it is becoming too much. The sex toy cleaner or soap and plastic bag are self-explanatory, as you will need to wash and store the plug when you are done with it.
Remember to Stay Safe
We get it, it is sexy and enticing to wear a butt plug in public and experience the joy of anal pleasure without anyone around you being the wiser. However, when you start experiencing discomfort, find the nearest bathroom and take out the plug. Take a few minutes to let your body relax, and if you feel like you can take more, reapply some lube and place it back inside. If you think it’s getting too much, simply remove the plug, wash it, and slip it back in the bag.
We must also remind you that if you feel you need to pee, then you must take the plug out, as it will mess up the sensations in your bladder. After you take care of business, you can slip the butt plug right back in.
To Wrap Up
That’s it for now; we hope we covered the basics of wearing a butt plug in public and you’ll find yourself inspired enough to give this sexy play a try. For more information, please check out our blog for more educational content and browse our sex toy store, where we carry a massive selection of butt plugs for every occasion and experience level, and all else you may need for better sex.