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Impact play is an effective way to punish or arouse your partner, and it can be strict or sensual. But, of course, you need the perfect whip for the job, which is why we tested a bunch of whips and chose the best ones for you. We checked the design, materials, length, and shape of the whips, along with the handle, number of tails, and other features, and we bring you our recommendations for some of the best BDSM whips suited for people with different experience levels. Quick Overview of Our Top Picks Best Overall: Strict Leather 5 Foot Bullwhip Best Metal Whip: Stainless Steel Whipping Rod Best Bull Whip: Scandal Bull Whip Best Leather Whip: Strict Leather Tigress Whip Best Multi-Strand Whip: Spartacus Strap Whip Best Cat-O-Nine Tails Whip: Icicles No. 37 Hand Blown Glass Whip Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Strict Leather 5 Foot Bullwhip Best Overall Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Intensity: 5/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It We added the Strict Leather 5 Foot Bullwhip as the top choice for a BDSM whip because this model is perfect in every way. We love how it looks sexy and serious at the same time, as the grain leather is soft to the touch. The whip is made from a solid core over which plaited leather is added, and it is attached to a comfortable handle. .The handle is easy to grip and hold in place, and has pommels at both ends. The end of the whip continues into a wrist strap. The business end of the whip has a 16-inch braided cracker that is removable, so you can remove it and use the whip without it or add your own tip.   Please note that the Strict Leather 5 Foot Bullwhip is a particularly intense BDSM utensil that should be handled with care and only by experienced users. Who It's For The Strict Leather 5 Foot Bullwhip is for experienced BDSM players who want to get a high-quality, long whip made from genuine leather that will last them a long time. Reasons to Buy ✓  Five-foot-long whip ✓  Braided leather design ✓  Removable cracker tip ✓  Braided wrist loop Reasons to Avoid ✗  Expensive Specs Dimensions Total Length: 78"Whip Length: 62"Cracker Length: 16" Material Leather Sold out See It Now Stainless Steel Whipping Rod Best Metal Whip Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Intensity: 5/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It We chose the Stainless Steel Whipping Rod because this model is an excellent choice for experienced BDSM enthusiasts. The entire whip is made from stainless steel with a thin metal rod as the business end and a sturdy, ridged handle on the other side. The handle features a leather wrist strap that you can use to hang the whip up. We love the Stainless Steel Whipping Rod because the rod is thin and flexible, providing a good sting when you use it. However, the Stainless Steel Whipping Rod provides an intense sting. Here, we must note that stainless steel is very durable, and with proper care and maintenance, it will last you a lifetime. Who It's For The Stainless Steel Whipping Rod is for experienced users who want to take their BDSM games to more extreme heights with a steel whip. Reasons to Buy ✓  Full metal construction ✓  Flexible and durable ✓  Springy stainless steel ✓  Leather wrist strap Reasons to Avoid ✗  Expensive Specs Dimensions Total Length: 25"Rod Length: 21"Handle: 4.25" x 0.7" Material Stainless Steel Sold out See It Now Scandal Bull Whip Best Bull Whip Our Rating: 4.7/5Quality: 4/5Design: 4/5Intensity: 5/5Recommended For: Experienced Users, Intermediate Users Why We Picked It We added the Scandal Bull Whip to our list, as this is a very beautiful and well-made bull whip. The handle features a sturdy design and is wrapped in a designer fabric combination of red and black. The end has a stitched loop to hang the whip or use it as a wrist strap. The bull whip itself is made from a hand-braided strap in black that ends with a smaller braid and three tassels in red that provide the sexy cracking sound. The Scandal Bull Whip is made from PVC material and not from genuine leather, which explains the price. On the other hand, the Scandal Bull Whip is easy to maintain, as you can clean it with ease. Who It's For The Scandal Bull Whip is a good choice for BDSM enthusiasts who want to use a bull whip in their games, but like a more affordable version. Reasons to Buy ✓  Hand-braided whip ✓  Designer fabric handle ✓  Teasing tassels at the end ✓  Wrist strap Reasons to Avoid ✗  Not made from leather Specs Dimensions Total Length: 41" Material PVC Sold out See It Now Strict Leather Tigress Whip Best Leather Whip Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Intensity: 5/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It We had to include the Strict Leather Tigress Whip in this list, as the whip is impressive and perfect for many. The whip is made from genuine leather that looks sexy and arousing. The whip has four braided lashes that end with knots and smaller leashes at the ends. The handle is made from braided leather in a herringbone pattern that looks amazing. Plus, the two ends of the handle end with rounded balls that add weight to the Strict Leather Tigress Whip. The end also features a braided loop that you can use to hold it on your wrists or hang it up when you are done with it. We love that the Strict Leather Tigress Whip is easy to clean and maintain, as you can use leather conditioner to keep it in pristine shape. Who It's For The Strict Leather Tigress Whip is an excellent choice for experienced users who want to play with a heavy-duty leather braided whip. Reasons to Buy ✓  Genuine leather ✓  Four braided strands ✓  Comfortable braided handle ✓  Three feet long Reasons to Avoid ✗  Expensive Specs Dimensions Total Length: 36" Material Leather Sold out See It Now Spartacus Strap Whip Best Multi-Strand Whip Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Intensity: 4/5Recommended For: Beginners, Intermediate Users Why We Picked It We added the Spartacus Strap Whip to this list, as this is a gentle whip made from genuine leather. We love the long strands that are flexible and provide a delicious sting to the skin, but if necessary, they can be used to deliver a stinging punishment. While it looks more like a flogger, the Spartacus Strap Whip is an interesting addition to any BDSM lover’s toolbox. It is on the smaller side, which makes it versatile and more comfortable to use in smaller spaces. The Spartacus Strap Whip features a studded leather handle and a metal D-ring on the end, allowing you to hang it up. Who It's For The Spartacus Strap Whip is suitable for beginners and intermediate users who want to use a gentler whip with multiple strands that does not provide a harsh sting. Reasons to Buy ✓  Multiple strands ✓  Genuine leather ✓  Studded handle ✓  D-ring for hanging it up Reasons to Avoid ✗  No cracking sound Specs Dimensions Total Length: 36" Material Leather Sold out See It Now Icicles No. 38 Hand Blown Glass Whip Best Cat-O-Nine Tails Whip Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Intensity: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Icicles No. 37 Hand Blown Glass Whip to add to our list as this model looks sexy and intriguing to use. The whip is made from bull leather tresses that are soft to the touch, but will deliver a firm whack. We like the overall length of the whip, as the total length is 78”, which can suit both beginners and experienced users. The main thing we must outline about the Icicles No. 37 Hand Blown Glass Whip is its glass handle. It is made from hand-blown glass, featuring a nicely rounded tip and a swirly texture that provides a good grip. Apart from serving as a glass handle, it can be used as a glass dildo for vaginal or anal use. The glass is smooth, hypoallergenic, and body-safe and is compatible with all lube types. Please remember not to drop the Icicles No. 37 Hand Blown Glass Whip, as the glass may chip, but otherwise, it should last you a lifetime. Who It's For We think that the Icicles No. 37 Hand Blown Glass Whip can be an excellent choice for all the users who want to use a Cat-O-Nine tails whip on their partner. Reasons to Buy ✓  Leather strands whip ✓  Dual-use whip and dildo ✓  Glass dildo handle ✓  Glass is compatible with all lubes Reasons to Avoid ✗  The glass may chip if dropped Specs Dimensions Whip Length: 20"Dildo Handle Length: 6.5"Dildo Handle Diameter: 1.5" Material Leather, Glass Sold out See It Now Why Trust Our Reviews? HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use. Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you. When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight. Key Things about BDSM Whips You need to know several key things about whips, which is why we’ve covered these at length in our guide on how to choose a BDSM whip. For now, we’ll keep things brief and only list the basics: Material – choose between leather, vegan leather, nylon, or rubber. Each material has its features and brings different effects, so consider this when you are making your choice. Design – the basics of a whip are the handle, tail, and cracker tip, but there are a great many variations between these, and these require different skill levels to wield. Length – the length of the whip is essential to note, as you need to have ample room to use it. Plus, a longer whip takes time to master, so always consider your experience level. The Bottom Line Our list of the best BDSM whips is short, but on point, as we share the models that caught our attention. If you need more knowledge on choosing and using different sex toys, we invite you to check out our blog, which is full of educational guides. Plus, take a look at our sex toy store, where you will find a fantastic selection of BDSM whips, canes, ticklers, BDSM tools, sex furniture, as well as a great variety of sex toys like dildos, vibrators, male sex toys, anal toys, and all essentials for better sex. 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The ball gag is the most effective toy to keep your sub’s mouth occupied while you have your way with them. However, many may not be comfortable wearing just any ball gag, which is why we recommend trying the breathable ball gag. The model has holes through which the sub can breathe easily; this helps the wearer to overcome the psychological fear of suffocation while wearing a ball gag. We’ve tested and rated the best breathable ball gags available in our store, and we’re sharing our findings with you here. Quick Overview of Our Top Picks Best Overall: Saffron Interchangeable Gag Best for Beginners: Shots Ouch Ball Gag with Leather Straps Best Value: Subdue Me Breathable Ball Gag Best Ball Gag Training Set: Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System Best Ball Gag/Nipple Clamps: Hinder Breathable Silicone Ball Gag with Nipple Clamps Best Silicone Breathable Ball Gag: Saffron Breathable Ball Gag The Best Deals This Week* Master Series Adjustable Silicone Hush Ball Gag — $36.99 (List Price $49.99) Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System — $19.99 (List Price $32.99) Blossom Silicone Breathable Rose Gag — $22.99 (List Price $33.99) Silicone Ball Gag with Nipple Clamps — $26.99 (List Price $40.99) Black Silicone Ball Gag — $34.99 (List Price $45.99) *Deals are selected by our commerce team Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Saffron Interchangeable Gag Best Overall Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Restrictive Level: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Saffron Interchangeable Gag as our top choice for a breathable ball gag you can find in our store. We love the design of this model, which comes with two bite pieces – the breathable ball gag and a silicone O-ring. These attach to the vegan leather strap with simple metal snaps. The head strap is adjustable and has a metal closure buckle at the back. We love how easy it is to interchange the bite pieces and how sexy the black finish looks with the sexy scarlet accents. Who It's For The Saffron Interchangeable Gag is an excellent choice for everyone looking for a breathable ball gag that allows for versatile uses. Reasons to Buy ✓  Breathable ball gag and O-ring ✓  Interchangeable bite pieces ✓  Vegan leather strap ✓  Adjustable buckle Reasons to Avoid ✗  The ball is not silicone Specs Material PU Leather, ABS, Iron Features Smooth Surface Breathable Design Adjustable Strap Sold out See It Now Shots Ouch Ball Gag with Leather Straps Best for Beginners Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Restrictive Level: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Beginners Why We Picked It We added the Shots Ouch Ball Gag with Leather Straps to this list because it’s a sexy, elegant, and versatile model. We love the size of the breathable ball gag as it is compact enough to suit beginners, but it can also fit more experienced users. The ball is made from ABS, and it has a simple strap through the ball that attaches to D-rings that then snap to the leather strap. The leather strap is adjustable and closes at the back with a simple metal buckle. Plus, the Shots Ouch Ball Gag with Leather Straps is unisex, and it is very easy to clean and maintain. Who It's For The Shots Ouch Ball Gag with Leather Straps is a good choice for beginners who are looking for a breathable ball gag with a nice design and comfortable size. Reasons to Buy ✓  Eensual design ✓  Breathable ABS ball ✓  Leather straps ✓  Unisex use Reasons to Avoid ✗  Gag is not silicone Specs Dimensions 25.59" x 1.77" x 1.77" Material Leather, ABS Features Smooth Surface Flexible Breathable Design Adjustable Strap Subdue Me Breathable Ball Gag Best Value Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Restrictive Level: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Subdue Me Breathable Ball Gag because it’s an excellent value for the price. The ball features holes for easy breathing and attaches to a narrow red strap, which then snaps to a black faux leather strap that closes at the back of the head. We have to mention the sexy red stitching on the head strap. The strap is adjustable in length, and the Subdue Me Breathable Ball Gag has a unisex design that fits people with different tastes. Who It's For The Subdue Me Breathable Ball Gag is a good fit for everyone looking for a breathable ball gag with a sexy design and an affordable price. Reasons to Buy ✓  Comfortable PVC ball ✓  Adjustable faux leather strap ✓  Metal closing buckle ✓  Comfortable ball diameter Reasons to Avoid ✗  The ball is not silicone Specs Dimensions Strap: 17" to 23.5" Ball: 1.75" Material Faux Leather, PVC Features Smooth Surface Breathable Design Adjustable Strap Sold out See It Now Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System Best Ball Gag Training Set Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Restrictive Level: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Beginners Why We Picked It The Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System is an excellent model, and we had to include it in this list. The set comes with three breathable balls that you can use even if you are a complete beginner, but these will satisfy you even if you are an experienced user. The balls are made from smooth TPE that is comfortable to bite. These attach to metal O-rings with small metal snaps, and then to faux leather straps that buckle at the back of the head. We love the set, as the price is very reasonable and the kit is perfect for many users. Who It's For The Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System is for everyone, as beginners will find it comfortable to use, and experienced users will find the largest ball gag quite effective. Reasons to Buy ✓  A set of three breathable gags ✓  Adjustable faux leather strap ✓  Great for beginners ✓  Unisex design Reasons to Avoid ✗  Balls are not silicone Specs Dimensions Small Ball: 1.5" Medium Ball: 1.8" Large Ball: 2" Material Vinyl, ABS, Metal Features Smooth Surface Breathable Design Adjustable Strap Hinder Breathable Silicone Ball Gag with Nipple Clamps Best Ball Gag/Nipple Clamps Set Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Restrictive Level: 4/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It We added the Hinder Breathable Silicone Ball Gag with Nipple Clamps to this list because the combination of the ball gag/nipple clamps is fantastic. The ball gag is breathable and made from comfortable, body-safe silicone. It is attached to two metal O-rings on both sides, on which metal chains and adjustable nipple clamps hang. The O-rings are also attached to a silicone strap that has a metal roll buckle that locks on the back. The nipple clamps have vinyl-coated tips and adjustable screws that you can use to adjust the pressure on the nipples. Who It's For The Hinder Breathable Silicone Ball Gag with Nipple Clamps is designed for experienced users seeking to explore the sensations of a ball gag combined with nipple clamps. Reasons to Buy ✓  Silicone breathable ball gag ✓  Adjustable metal nipple clamps ✓  Vinyl-coated clamp tips ✓  Adjustable strap with rolling buckle Reasons to Avoid ✗  May not be fit for beginners Specs Dimensions Strap: 16" to 24" Ball: 1.6" Material Silicone, Netal, Vinyl Features Smooth Surface Breathable Design Adjustable Clamps Adjustable Strap Sold out See It Now Saffron Breathable Ball Gag Best Silicone Breathable Ball Gag Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Restrictive Level: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Saffron Breathable Ball Gag to place on this list as the design and craftsmanship of this ball gag are excellent. The gag has a breathable design, with holes through the ball that facilitate breathing while still providing the option to explore the sensations of helplessness. The ball is made from silicone, while the strap is made from faux leather and has a metal buckle that sits comfortably on the head. We like that the ball is just right, not too big and not too small, while still allowing the sub to gasp and whimper. Who It's For The Saffron Breathable Ball Gag is an excellent choice for users who want a breathable ball gag made from body-safe silicone. Reasons to Buy ✓  Silicone material ✓  Breathable ball design ✓  Comfortable to wear ✓  Locking buckle Reasons to Avoid ✗  The strap is not leather Specs Material PU Leather, Silicone Features Smooth Surface Breathable Design Adjustable Strap Why Trust Our Reviews? HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use. Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you. When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight. Key Things to Know About Breathable Ball Gags Just like the regular ball gags, the breathable ball gags are fun to use and are a critical part of most BDSM scenes. We have a complete guide on how to choose a ball gag, where we cover all the essential aspects to know when looking to buy one for yourself, so here we only cover the basics you need to know about breathable ball gags: Ball Size – The ball size is essential because this part goes into the mouth, between the teeth. Most ball gags have ball diameters of 1.2 to 3 inches, so you can find a model that fits your needs and experience level. Ball Material – We always recommend sticking to body-safe materials, as you can find breathable ball gags made from silicone, rubber, and ABS or PVC plastic. Head Strap – The strap, made from leather, faux leather, silicone, or elastic, holds the device around the head. We recommend you take a look at the closing mechanism, as you can find metal buckles, Velcro, snap closures, or full elastic straps. Extra Features – you can find breathable ball gags that have nipple clamps attached to them, models with full head harnesses, and more. The Bottom Line The list we shared here outlines our top picks for the best breathable ball gags available in our store. We have a lot more helpful guides on choosing and using different sex toys, including ball gags, so please check out our blog for advice on how to use a ball gag. Feel free to browse our sex toy store, where you’ll find a lot more options for breathable and regular ball gags, BDSM tools, dildos, vibrators, anal toys, male toys,  sexy lingerie, and all else you may need for better sex. 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While no rule says you need to have special sheets on your bed to have sex, sheets indeed play a role in enhancing the sexual experience. Imagine you are entering the bedroom, and you see a simple mattress and flannel sheets that may offer warmth, but these in no way invite you to get creative and get down to business. Here, we take a closer look at how you can select extra sexy sheets that can improve your sexy experience, but we’ll also cover another type of sex sheets that are intended for messy sex and various BDSM scenarios. Yes, there is such a thing, so read on, and we bet you’ll learn a lot of exciting things. Why Use Special Sheets for Sex? You may think that there is nothing wrong with your bed and sheets, as you and your partner can get it on anywhere, anytime. But imagine you getting in the mood and you need to lie down on scratchy sheets that have seen thousands of washes. So, any adult who is having regular sex needs to consider investing in proper sheets where they can really get it on and not worry about the mess. We are not discussing thousand-thread count Egyptian cotton sheets that breathe and invite a sensual atmosphere, although this is important; we are talking about sex sheets that allow you to be messy and not worry about spilling lube or even squirting all over them. There are special sex sheets made from materials that don’t allow the leaking of fluids down to the bed where you sleep. These are waterproof and designed to cover your bed and believe us when we say that such sex sheets can let you really let go and enjoy messy sex play. Shop Sheets for Sex Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More How to Choose Sex Sheets: Main Things to Note Now that we have outlined what type of sheets we are talking about let’s chat about the features you need to know to select a waterproof sex sheet. We need to note that our experts advise you to use sex sheets when you engage in more extended sexual play, like a long masturbation session, anal play, or even a sensual massage where lots of sexy massage oil is involved. We tested multiple models and found the things that you need to know when you select specialized and protective sex sheets. Choose sex sheets to fit your preferred sexy play: we recommend you sit down with your partner and discuss what sex plays you’d like to explore more, and then get all the necessary items to make that happen. Fitted sheets for wet play: we suggest you get a waterproof sheet that fits your bed and your body. If you want to engage in some couple’s play, then make sure the sheet will suit you and your partner, and no one will hang over the sheet. A sheet with inflatable sides for messy play: this option is perfect for couples who want to engage in dirty, sexy play like oil play, sploshing, food play, and even lotion play. The sides of this type of sex sheet inflate and provide a pool-like area where you can play and don’t allow spilling of the liquids all over the place. Choose sheets that are easy to wash: we recommend you get sex sheets made from PVC or vinyl that are easy to clean and maintain. It is vital for many reasons, safety and hygiene being the primary ones. However, the vinyl/PVC sheets are waterproof and can often be cleaned by a simple rinse in the shower. Additionally, these look sexy when spread on the bed and provide an exciting feel on the skin when you lie down on them. Get absorbent sheets if you are a squirter or for sex in a hurry: There are also sex sheets that are made from absorbent materials like microfiber and lined with a moisture barrier, and these are perfect for the times when you just want to throw something over the bed and get to business. You can also use these as throws over the sofa, couch, or the floor. Can Special Sheets Improve Sex Play? Before we let you go, we’ll talk a bit about how special sheets like waterproof PVC or vinyl sheets can help you and your partner engage in different sexy games. For starters, adding waterproof sheets will allow you to explore new avenues of pleasure. You can really let go and engage in wet play; for example, use oils, lotion, or even hot wax play that would potentially ruin your sheets. You won’t have to worry about bodily fluids or lube leaking all over and thinking about how someone will have to sleep in the wet spot. We also suggest that squirters should have these handy, as the material is easily washable, and you can relax and not worry about the mess. We can name some more examples, but overall, you get the idea – waterproof and specialized sheets allow you to freely enjoy your preferred sex play as you can relax not think about messing up your bed. We have other sex toy guides that share expert advice on choosing and using various sex toys. We also have a sex toy store where arry an excellent selection of specialized sex toys, BDSM equipment, dildos, sex sheets, and all the other essentials you will need to explore your sexy fantasies. Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How to Use a Thrusting Dildo How to Use a Dildo How to Use a Thick Dildo How to Use a Glass Dildo How to Use a Vibrating Dildo How to Choose a Small Dildo How to Use a Strap-On

Orgasm denial can be a powerful tool to build up anticipation and ascertain dominance, and the best way to exert this power over your man is via a chastity cage. To spare you from mindlessly wandering and checking all the different models, we’ve done in-depth research, reviewed, and personally tested the features of many models. Thus, we are able to bring you a list of the best cock cage selections we have for you. While chastity cages are pretty simple contraptions, significant differences do exist between brands. We’ve done our homework to identify the most comfortable cock rages. Check out the reviews below to learn what makes these small cock cages tremendous and to also benefit from some usage tips from the pros. Quick Overview of Our Top Picks Best Overall: Rikers 24-7 Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage Best Value Chastity Cage: Captus Stainless Steel Chastity Device Best Beginner-Friendly Chastity Cage: Blue Line Silicone Chastity Cage Best Small Confinement Cage: Exile Deluxe Locking Stainless Steel Confinement Cage Easy to Put On Chastity Cage: World Cage Bali Male Chastity Kit – Small Most Elegant Stainless Steel Chastity Cage: The Pen Deluxe Stainless Steel Chastity Cage Best Budget Pick: Clear Captor Chastity Cage Extreme Confinement Cage: Short and Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage Best Cock Cage with Removable Cap: Entrapment Deluxe Locking Chastity Cage Most Comfortable Design Chastity Cage: The Vice Male Chastity Device The Best Dildo Deals This Week* Entrapment Deluxe Locking Chastity Cage — $184.99 (List Price $236.99) Rikers 24-7 Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage — $137.99 (List Price $174.99) The Pen Deluxe Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage — $128.99 (List Price $190.99) Midas 18K Gold-Plated Locking Chastity Cage — $215.99 (List Price $283.99) Lockdown Customizable Chastity Cage — $104.99 (List Price $168.99) *Deals are selected by our commerce team Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Rikers 24-7 Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage Best Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Beginners, Experienced Users Why We Picked It We really love the Rikers 24-7 Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage because it’s a great option for everyone. Our testers told us that the cage is compact and fits nicely, even after prolonged wear. The penis cage is made of super hygienic stainless steel that we love, it feels cold to the touch initially, but it soon gets to body temperature for comfortable wear. Also, cleaning it is a snap, as stainless steel can be washed in the dishwasher. It is also very smooth, so it immediately eliminates issues like potential chaffing or pinching. At the same time, the cock cage is very secure. Our testers found the brass keyhole mechanism very nice, and the best thing is that the master controls the release as they hold the key. Because the design is seamless and the metal is sleek, we suggest this petite cage as a great choice for prolonged orgasm denial and power play. Who It's For We loved the Rikers 24-7 Stainless Steel Locking Chastity Cage – all of our testers said they had a great time trying it out. All found it easy to put on and wear for prolonged times and stated that the stainless steel feels secure, comfortable, and hygienic. Thus, we can indeed claim that this model is perfect for everyone – beginners and experienced users alike. Reasons to Buy ✓ Seamless design, quality stainless steel construction ✓ Lock and key mechanism ✓ Very easy to use ✓ Comfortable for prolonged wear Reasons to Avoid ✗ Somewhat expensive Specs Length 3.25" Diameter 2" Material Stainless Steel, Brass (lock) Texture Smooth Available Colors Silver Sold out See It Now Captus Stainless Steel Chastity Device Best Value Chastity Cage Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It The Captus stainless steel chastity cage is on our list because our testers stated this is by far the best value cock cage one can buy. It has a seamless design and a secure locking mechanism, which we think is excellent. Its overall length is four inches, and its inner diameter is 1.4 inches: we believe it’s the perfect little erection/orgasm denial device. We really enjoy the design – it makes the cage lightweight and great for prolonged play. The closing mechanism is a pin and padlock system, something we found very simple to use, as it sits at the base of the penis and does not interfere with prolonged wear. The base also has a rubber sleeve that ensures it sits snugly and comfortably, even after several hours. Another point in favor of the Captus stainless steel cock cage is that it is straightforward to clean – washing the cock cage with soap and warm water will do the trick, but for extra cleaning, you can throw it in the dishwasher. Who It's For After testing and trying the Captus Stainless Steel Cock Cage, we found it to be an excellent model with great value – it is strong, sturdy, and rigid – all the necessary features of a cock restraint device. Because it is made from metal and has a padlock and key design, we think it is best suited for experienced users. Reasons to Buy ✓ Seamless construction ✓ Very easy to use ✓ Comfortable design ✓ Suitable for prolonged wear Reasons to Avoid ✗ No adjustability Specs Length 4" Diameter 1.4" Material Stainless Steel, Rubber Texture Smooth Available Colors Silver Sold out See It Now Blue Line Silicone Chastity Cage Best Beginner-Friendly Chastity Cage Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Ease of Use: 5/5Recommended For: Beginners Why We Picked It The Blue Line Silicone Chastity Cage is an excellent beginner-friendly cock cage, as our reviewers have attested. It features a very beginner-friendly design with very few complications. The cage is made from silicone, which is relatively soft and lightweight, which our testers especially liked. The cage fits perfectly over an unerect penis and allows excellent restriction without too much added weight or uncomfortableness. The kit comes with several rings and spacers that allow anyone to fine-tune the fit to the size of their penis. When assembled, the Blue Line Silicone Chastity Cage is flexible and well-ventilated while still providing a tight, restrictive fit. We loved the feeling of the silicone on the skin, as it is velvety-smooth and comfortable. The silicone is hypoallergenic, phthalate-free, and fully waterproof. These features make it easy to keep clean, but we must note that the cage is only compatible with water-based lubes. Who It's For We put the Blue Line Silicone Chastity Cage on our list because we found it an excellent fit for beginners. The cage is flexible, easy to assemble, and very hygienic, all great traits for a beginner-friendly chastity cage. Reasons to Buy ✓ Very comfortable, flexible silicone ✓ Adjustable design ✓ EEasy to assemble ✓ Guarantees a snug, tight fit Reasons to Avoid ✗ Not the best choice for advanced users Specs Length - Diameter - Material Silicone Texture Smooth Available Colors Black, White Sold out See It Now Exile Deluxe Locking Stainless Steel Confinement Cage Best Small Confinement Cage Our Rating: 4.7/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It We loved the Exile Deluxe Locking Stainless Steel Confinement Cage; it is the perfect option for those looking for a small confinement cage. This one has a minimalist and rigid design and brings just the right amount of discomfort without bringing harm to the wearer. After testing the installation of the cage, we found it easy to use because the interchangeable base rings allow the perfect adjustment. The locking mechanism is simple, with a lock and key sitting on the top of the cage and not interfering with the prolonged wear of the cage. The cage material is something we love, as many of our testers stated they love the feel of the stainless steel on their most sensitive areas. Besides, the Exile Deluxe Locking Stainless Steel Confinement Cage is fully ventilated and allows for effortless urination when you wear it for a long time. Stainless steel is compatible with all lube types and is one of the most accessible materials to clean and sterilize. Wash it with soap and water, throw it in the dishwasher, and even boil it in water for a few minutes. Make sure it is dry before storing it. Who It's For We love the Exile Deluxe Locking Stainless Steel Confinement Cage, as it is perfect for people who are on the smaller side or are looking for a smaller cage to confine their partner. The stainless steel material feels weird at first, as it is cold, but it works with all lube types and is comfortable to wear. It is small, which is why we recommend this to people with experience. Reasons to Buy ✓ Solid stainless steel construction ✓ Ventilated and comfortable ✓ Easy to put on ✓ Very easy to clean Reasons to Avoid ✗ Adjustability options are limited Specs Length 1.75" Diameter 1.25" Material Stainless Steel Texture Smooth Available Colors Grey Sold out See It Now World Cage Bali Male Chastity Kit - Small Best Easy to Put On Chastity Cage Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Beginners, Experienced Users Why We Picked It When someone is looking for a cock cage that is easy and very quick to put on, we suggest the World Cage Bali Male Chastity Kit. The model is very lightweight and effortless to put on. Our testers testified that it is very comfortable for prolonged use, as the silicone and ABS construction of the cage is unobstructed while still doing its job of restricting erections and chastity training. The World Cage Bali is hypoallergenic, waterproof, and is compatible only with water-based lube. It has a breathable, ventilated design, so you can safely wear it, urinate through it and still have the added peace of mind. Our testers noted they liked the three base rings that allow the user to adjust the cage to their penis size, which allows a comfortable fit. Also, we like the easy cleaning of the cock cage – the silicone and ABS surfaces can be washed with a mild soap and warm water or with a gentle toy cleaner. Who It's For The World Cage Bali Male Chastity Kit is excellent; we liked everything about it. We found it easy to put on and take off with the help of some water-based lube. The cage is lightweight, and anyone can use it: beginners and experienced users will find it restrictive enough. Reasons to Buy ✓ Beginner-friendly, simple design ✓ Comfortable and lightweight ✓ Suitable for prolonged use ✓ Very easy to clean Reasons to Avoid ✗ A bit expensive Specs Length 2.75" Diameter 2.2" Material ABS, Silicone Texture Smooth Available Colors Clear Sold out See It Now The Pen Deluxe Stainless Steel Chastity Cage Best Most Elegant Stainless Steel Chastity Cage Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It Where elegance is necessary, the Pen Deluxe Cock Cage is the model to try, as all of the people on our review team unanimously voted this model as the perfect choice. We liked the stainless steel design, which is fixed, so it is perfect for the restrictive play you are after. The locking mechanism is secure – it locks with a secure lock that sits on top of the cage and does not interfere during prolonged use. To fit it perfectly around the base of your penis, the package comes with three different O-ring sizes. Still, one thing we must emphasize about the Pen Deluxe Cock Cage is that it is very breathable – it provides an opening for urination while still restricting erections. Also, we love the stainless steel construction, as it is durable, hygienic, and hypoallergenic. Plus, the cleaning is almost effortless, as you can wash the stainless steel with soap and water, boil it to sterilize it, or even wash it in the dishwasher. With proper care, this cock cage should last you for ages. Who It's For We love stainless steel sex toys, and the Pen Deluxe Cock Cage is an impressive model that has all the best traits for an elegant, highly restrictive, yet breathable chastity device. After testing, we’ll say that the model mostly fits experienced users who know what to expect from such a device. Reasons to Buy ✓ Well-made, high-quality materials ✓ Secure locking mechanism ✓ Suitable for prolonged use ✓ Breathable and lightweight Reasons to Avoid ✗ The lock needs getting used to Specs Length 2.25" Diameter 1.3" Material Stainless Steel Texture Smooth Available Colors Grey Sold out See It Now Clear Captor Chastity Cage Best Budget Pick Our Rating: 4.6/5Quality: 4/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Beginners Why We Picked It The Clear Captor was one of the male chastity devices we tested, and we loved it. Made from clear ABS plastic, this model is rigid, lightweight, and adequately restrictive. We love the design, as it is breathable, allows urination, and is hygienic, allowing you to wear it longer without health concerns. Another thing we must note is that we found this model to be among the best options when it comes to price-to-quality ratio. Plus, the clear plastic is see-through, so even though the penis is restricted in its cradle, you can still see it through the cage, which is a massive turn-on for many. Also, the package comes with graduated ball rings, allowing each user to fully adjust the fit to their size for a snug fit. We must note that we found the cleaning effortless, as the ABS plastic is hypoallergenic, and you can wash it with mild soap and warm water. Who It's For We added the Clear Captor Cock Cage to this list as all of our reviewers found it interesting, exciting, and easy to use. It is lightweight, see-through, and comfortable, which is why we think beginners and experienced users will find it appealing. Reasons to Buy ✓ Excellent price-to-quality ratio ✓ Adjustable design for added comfort ✓ Lightweight and suitable for prolonged use ✓ Secure and easy to put in place Reasons to Avoid ✗ The plastic can lose some of its clarity in time Specs Length 3.9" Diameter 2.2" Material ABS Texture Smooth Available Colors Clear Sold out See It Now Short and Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage Best Extreme Confinement Cage Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 4/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It We were all surprised by the Short and Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage – it is so tiny and looks harmless, but once put in place, it shows its true colors. The cage is made from stainless steel and has a pin with a padlock on top, keeping everything in place. The stainless steel construction is interesting as it feels cold to the touch at first, but as we confirm ourselves, it very quickly comes to body temperature. Also, the stainless steel is compatible with all lube types and is very simple to keep clean. Wash the stainless steel with soap and water, boil it to sterilize it, or throw it in the dishwasher to ensure it is clean. Still, despite its restrictive design, this cock cage has a breathable design that allows urination and hygienic use. The model comes with two different base rings that let anyone fit the chastity device over the base of the penis, allowing regular blood flow but restricting erections. Who It's For The name of the Short and Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage may seem intimidating, but this little guy is very exciting to use. Perfectly restraining, it is rigid, breathable, and elegant, but because of the very extreme confinement, we suggest experienced users use it. Reasons to Buy ✓ Seamless, high-quality construction ✓ Secure and snug fit ✓ Secure locking mechanism ✓ It can be cleaned easily Reasons to Avoid ✗ Metal requires some getting used to Specs Length 2.5" Diameter 2" Material Stainless Steel Texture Smooth Available Colors Grey Sold out See It Now Entrapment Deluxe Locking Chastity Cage Best Cock Cage with Removable Cap Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Experienced Users Why We Picked It We have it on good authority that the Entrapment Deluxe Locking Chastity Cage is exciting and looks and feels great when put in place. The cock cage is made from nickel-free stainless steel that is hypoallergenic and very hygienic. The surface initially feels cold, but it quickly warms up to body temperature for a snug, comfy fit. Also, the stainless steel is compatible with all lube types, but from our experience, it is best to stick to quality water-based lubes. We found the design exciting, as the cage comes with four parts – two ball ring sizes for a comfortable fit around the base and two different caps that can be interchanged and even removed from the cage. Please note that the closed-tip cap is for shorter play, as it does not allow urination, but the one with the hole is for prolonged wear. We found it fascinating that you can wear the cage without a tip for when you wish to tease your man but not allow him to get too excited. The cage’s design requires two locks that are unlocked with the same key for safety reasons. We also love the easy cleaning of the stainless steel surface, as it allows washing with soap and water, boiling it, and sterilization with alcohol. Overall, each of the people who reviewed this chastity cage for us found it fantastic and very fun to use. Who It's For We suggest that only experienced users stick to the Entrapment Deluxe Locking Chastity Cage. It is well-designed, elegant, and very restrictive, but because it comes with a detachable tip and two locks, it is not the most beginner-friendly model. Reasons to Buy ✓ Very well-made, high-quality materials ✓ Guarantees a snug fit ✓ Easy to put on ✓ Great value, long-lived item Reasons to Avoid ✗ Metal cages need getting used to Specs Length 3.6" Diameter 1.9" Material Stainless Steel Texture Smooth Available Colors Silver Sold out See It Now The Vice Male Chastity Device Best Most Comfortable Design Chastity Cage Our Rating: 4.7/5Quality: 4/5Design: 5/5Ease of Use: 4/5Recommended For: Beginners, Experienced Users Why We Picked It Our review team was impressed by the Vice Male Chastity Device. It looks like an ordinary chastity cage at first, but it is much more than that – we found it to be almost impenetrable and inescapable. The Vice is made from polycarbonate plastic that was sonically welded to ensure no splitting along the seams. The plastic is semi-transparent, allowing you to see the cock in its cage, which some of our testers found sexy and exciting. The pack comes with four different-sized rings for a snug fit around the base/balls and comes with an anti-pullout interior. Besides the advanced features and high-tech construction, the Vice Cock Cage is perfectly restrictive, which we can confirm firsthand. It is adequately ventilated and has a urination hole to allow safe, prolonged wear. We must emphasize that the cleaning is simple; you can wash the plastic with mild soap and water or with a suitable toy cleaner. Who It's For We found the Vice Male Chastity Device an excellent cock cage. Full of advanced tech features, it is easy to wear, it is safe, hygienic, and see-through. That is why we recommend it to everyone looking for a comfy confinement cock cage. Reasons to Buy ✓ Lightweight, user-friendly design ✓ Very comfortable ✓ Highly customizable design ✓ Will not break, durable Reasons to Avoid ✗ The plastic can get a bit dull with use Specs Length 2.75" Diameter 1.4" Material Polycarbonate Texture Smooth Available Colors Clear, Pink, Purple Sold out See It Now Why Trust Our Reviews? HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use. Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you. When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight. How We Choose the Best Small Cock Cages? Male chastity has been a thing for ages, and cock cages are not a new invention. However, not all are created equal, so we tested a long list of products that appealed to our review team, During our testing sessions, we identified what are the essential aspects that make a quality cock cage: Design: Design is vital for any product, especially for cock cages that have to restrict the possibility for the man to get an erection. Construction: We also review the constrrruction of the chastity cage, like is it solid, breathable, and the like. Also, we reviewed the donning and doffing of the cock cage. Material: We always urge people to get sex toys from body-safe materials, and we are glad to say that most quality cock cages we tested and added to our list are made from stainless steel and silicone, two of the most body-safe materials you can find. Locking mechanism: We tested the locking mechanism, like it is a sliding garrel, a padlock, or something else. How to Put on a Small Chastity Cage You’ll need to follow these simple steps to correctly put on a penis cage: Always apply lube to your penis and the cage before trying to put it on. It is crucial for guys interested in extra-small and extra-tight cages. Slide the ring over the shaft of your penis. Secure it behind the balls and have it resting against your body. This process should never be painful. Place the cage over the flaccid penis. There shouldn’t be any pinching while you’re getting your penis inside the device. Line up the pins. This step depends on the design of the chastity cage, but most have some rings on the tube itself and the base ring. Proper alignment means that you’ve gotten everything on correctly. Lock the cage or have your dom/partner do so. We have an important suggestion for you based on our testing experience. You may want to trim your pubes, especially if you’re putting a chastity cage on for the very first time. Getting hairs caught in the cage can be quite unpleasant and even painful (not in the way that you intend to experience pain). Having a neat man-bush is vital if you’re using a small and tight chastity cage. Don’t shave everything off, especially not right before using a penis cage. If you do, you may experience some itching and burning you wouldn’t want to have interfering with your experience. Tiny Cock Cage Safety Concerns Safe and consensual during power play is the number one prerequisite for a good time. Before putting a small penis cage on, discuss the specifics with your dominant partner. Determine how long the cage should be on. Come up with rules, safe words, and exceptions that will give you comfort and the chance to relax and fully immerse yourself in the experience. When using a penis confinement cage, make sure that it’s spotless and dry before putting it on. Always be careful not to pinch the skin, as you’ll feel uncomfortable throughout the session. The duration of using a chastity cage must depend on your experience. Start with sessions that last a few minutes to get comfortable. Eventually, you can increase the duration, even prolonging it to a day or more. When going for such long sessions, you should always be using a small penis cage that fits you like a glove. Anything too tight or restrictive may cause some tissue damage. The final concern relates to the very prolonged use of penis cages. Some submissive guys report using such contraptions for days, even weeks at a time. In such cases, the cage could eventually start interfering with the erectile response. Having it on for too long will make spontaneous night-time erections painful. In time, some subs may stop getting such erections, which can cause other problems. How to Clean a Chastity Cage Always check out manufacturer recommendations to learn what cleaning products are compatible with your penis cage. The cleaning procedure depends on the material that the cage is made of. Surgical stainless steel can be boiled and sterilized. The same applies to some kinds of silicone. For regular, everyday cleaning, use soapy water or an antibacterial solution or a sex toy cleaner. Final Thoughts After conducting various tests on a long list of cock cages, we came up with the best ones our test team found exciting to use. Besides considering the look, the functions, and the materials, we also provided extra info that can help you determine what model would fit you best. We loved the testing experience, and we believe that an excellent male chastity device can increase intimacy and add more to your relationship. Please check out our store, where we carry a varied array of cock cages and other chastity devices to find the perfect product for you. FAQs What are chastity cages used for? Chastity cages are used for erection restriction and orgasm denial. These are intended as liberating and arousing activities, often practiced by couples and BDSM enthusiasts. Can a cock cage hurt me? If placed correctly, with proper lube, with care, and without pinching of the skin, a cock cage shouldn’t hurt. It is possible to feel the pressure of the restraint if you get a slight erection, but this mustn’t hurt. If it hurts or becomes very uncomfortable, take the cock cage immediately. 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The riding sex machine is designed to provide stimulation when you ride it – hence the name riding sex machine. The general design of the various riding sex machines is very similar, but the attachments different models come with make all the difference. But when it comes to using a saddle sex machine, things are relatively straightforward: you straddle the saddle and ride away. Read on as we discuss the particulars of using a riding sex machine! What Is a Riding Sex Machine? The riding sex machine is designed as a saddle that you attach various mats to and use for sexual pleasure. The riding sex machine can vibrate rotate, and some models can thrust; and it is most often controlled by a wired or, in some cases, wireless controller. We love that riding sex machines usually allow you to change the attachments and explore different ways to pleasure yourself. Shop Riding Sex Machines Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More How to Use a Riding Sex Machines: Step-By-Step Guide Riding a saddle sex machine is fun and relatively straightforward, but there are some key aspects to note. The critical thing to note when using this fantastic sex tool is to position it on a suitable surface and start slow. That said, here are the key aspects that can help you utilize a riding sex machine and reach those coveted powerful orgasms: Set Up and Position The initial step is to position and set up the saddle sex machine. We suggest you place it on a soft surface (read: your bed, thick carpet, or a duvet) so it will be more comfortable for your knees. It will also help absorb the vibrations and reduce the noise. Although the saddle sex machine is relatively quiet, if you place it on a hard surface, it may amplify the vibrations, and the buzzing may ruin your mood. Get in the Mood and Enjoy Foreplay The saddle sex machine is an excellent addition for foreplay, as you can use the lowest vibrating setting and get a sensual massage on your vagina. We recommend you do other things that excite you and ramp up your sexy mood. But before you do this, try out the controller and learn what he commands so you don’t accidentally click the wrong button and ruin your fun. Always Use Lube We always suggest you have lube handy when you use a sex machine. Even though you may get very wet when aroused, lube helps with friction and makes the whole experience more pleasurable. Our recommendation is a quality water-based lube that works with all sex toy materials, especially with the silicone attachments most saddle fuck machines come with. Test Out Attachments The saddle sex machines may look similar in design, but these come with various saddle sex machine attachments designed to hit special places. Some are designed for external stimulation, like grinding and clitoral play, while others have insertable probes designed for G-spot targeting or providing a sense of fullness. There are saddle sex machine attachments with vaginal and anal probes for the more adventurous users. Best Sex Positions to Try with a Saddle Sex Machine The most straightforward sex position to try with your saddle sex machine is the cowgirl, as the initial riding sex machine was designed for this exact purpose. For this pose, you need to straddle the riding sex machine, like you would an actual saddle, and position your knees in a comfortable pose. Then, you use your legs to bounce up and down as you like, and enjoy the vibrations on your vagina and anus, depending on the type of attachment you use. You can also squat over the saddle sex machine, as this pose opens up your anatomy more, allowing the vibrating attachments to reach more of your body. Please note that this pose requires you to use your leg muscles, so you’ll also be working out your glutes and gams on top of reaching a powerful orgasm. Additionally, you can also try the saddle sex machine for double penetration. For this, you can get a special sex machine attachment with dual probes, or you can use a butt plug and ride the saddle. You can also use the saddle sex machine with a partner, and they can penetrate you anally while you ride the saddle attachment. If you can stand it, ramp up the vibrations higher so you both will feel them and get your mind blown! Riding Fuck Machine Care & Maintenance Taking care of a saddle sex machine is simple, as these come with detachable riding attachments and waterproof saddles. Unplug it from the outlet and start cleaning. That said, you need to remove the attachment and wash it separately, using soap and water or a sex toy cleaner. Rinse it well, leave it to air-dry, and then store it in a suitable sex toy storage bag or case. As for the saddle, take a lint-free cloth and a household disinfectant and wipe it down. Wipe the remote, remove all lube and other residue, and leave it to dry. Once it is fully dry, store your saddle sex machine in a proper place, like your closet, or use a protective cover and place it under the bed. We hope we have covered the basics of how to use a riding sex machine. Still, we have a broad selection of sex toy guides where we provide help on choosing and using sex toys. Check out our sex toy store, where we offer an incredible selection of sex machines, BDSM gear, and so much more! Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How to Use a Dildo How to Choose a Thrusting Dildo How to Use a Thick Dildo How to Use a Glass Dildo How to Use a Vibrating Dildo How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo How to Choose a Small Dildo How to Choose Double-Ended Dildos How to Choose Squirting Dildos FAQs Why is a riding sex machine expensive? Most riding or saddle sex machines are large and powerful and are built to last. That means they use high-quality parts, and some are even hand-finished for a special touch. Higher-quality brands also provide attachments made from quality silicone, which affects the price. Can I use a saddle sex machine for anal penetration? You can use a saddle sex machine for grinding, for vaginal and for anal play. You can also use it for double penetration either alone with suitable toys, or with a partner. We recommend you take it slow, learn the machine and your body, and do what feels right. Can a man use a saddle sex machine? Yes, a man can use a saddle sex machine. One way is to use it for anal penetration with a suitable attachment. The other way is to use a butt plug or a prostate massager and ride the saddle sex machine with a bumpy grinding attachment that will provide perineal stimulation. How do I change the settings on my saddle sex machine? 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The bed is for sleeping and for sex, but what if we told you that you can transform your bed into a bondage implement? Yes, it is possible with the bed restraints, a particular bondage system that you can use to bind your partner to the bed and enjoy a thrilling bondage experience. Our experts have tested many of these, and they’ve come up with the key features a sound bed restraint system should have. So, read on as we discuss how to choose bondage bed restraints and how to get the max out of them. What are Bondage Bed Restraints? The bondage bed restraints are restraints you place under or around your bed or mattress and turn your bed into an instant bondage bed. These come in varying designs and sizes, and many are adjustable to allow restraining people with different heights. If you’ve fantasized about tying up your partner or being tied to the bed for sex, then these are just for you. Shop All Bondage Bed Restraints Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More How to Select Bondage Bed Restraints? You must know what type of bed restraint to get for the uses you are dreaming of and for the most comfortable pleasure. That includes knowing the basic dimensions of your bed and mattress, as well as the length and adjustability of the bed restraints you plan on getting. To take the guessing out of the equation, here we share the key aspects you need to know when selecting bondage bed restraints: Design – There are two basic designs for bed restraints: the X-type and the double-strap bed restraints. The X-type is just what the name suggests: an X-shaped base where the four straps end up in hand and ankle cuffs. This type is more challenging to set up as you need to lift the mattress and position the restraint in the middle of the bed. On the other hand, it is very adjustable, and it easily fits people of different heights. The double-strap system is easier to install, as you can slide the straps under the upper and lower parts of the mattress. The upper strap has attachment points for the wrist cuffs, and the lower strap has attachment points for the ankle cuffs. It is, however, not suitable for a shorter person because the attachment points are not as adjustable. Strap Adjustability – the bed restraints should be adjustable and fit your bed. While most models allow slight adjustability, if you have an extra-big bed or a very thick mattress, then you’ll need models with extra-long straps. Material – you also need to know the material of the bed restraints. The most often used material is woven nylon, in combination with plastic or metal tensioning rings that allow adjusting the length of the straps. There are, however, models made from leather that look and feel kinkier. Additionally, some models may even have metal chains that add weight and a badass look. Cuffs Size & Design – the cuffs that come with the bed restraint should work with your partner’s size, and this is especially important if your partner is petite and has small wrists. Also, the cuff fastenings play a crucial role, as the Velcro cuffs are attached in seconds, but they can become unstuck with vigorous pulling. The buckle design is more durable, even though it takes some time to fasten. Also, check if the restraints allow removing the cuffs, which is advisable. Accessories – the bondage bed restraints may come with different accessories that will allow you to have even more fun and pleasure using them. We are talking about different cuff designs, as some models have Velcro cuffs, while others have leather or padded hand and wrist cuffs. Other accessories may include karabiners, face masks, ticklers, and ball gags, and some sets have sex toys like a vibrating wand, wax candles, or other toys. This is our short guide on how to choose bondage bed restraints, and we hope our experts covered the basics. In addition, we have an incredible array of how-to choose and how-to-use guides on different BDSM tools and sex toys. Feel free to check out our excellent sex toy store, where we carry a fantastic selection of BDSM equipment, bondage bed restraints, spreader bars, sex furniture, whips, canes, ticklers, and much more. FAQs Is it safe to use bondage bed restraints? The bondage bed restraints are safe to use, and anyone can try these out. However, please note that you need to carefully install the bed restraints and never leave your partner alone when they are restrained to the bed. If you need to step out of the room, release your partner, and you can bind them again when you return. What sex toys or sex plays should we try with bondage bed restraints? Our experts recommend that everyone should embrace their sexuality and expand their sexual horizons, and this goes for BDSM playtime. You can combine the bondage bed restraints with sex toys likea vibrator, a vibrating wand, a vibrating egg, a finger vibe, a butt plug, a tickler or a flogger, a crop, or anything you and your partner enjoy Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How To Choose Sex Sheets? How To Choose a Sex Pillow? How To Choose a BDSM Pinwheel? How To Choose Wax Play Candles? How To Choose a Dildo Chair? How To Choose a Dildio Mount? How To Choose a Sex Machine? How To Choose a Sex Bench? How To Choose a Portable Sex Machine? How To Choose a Riding Sex Machine?

Wax play is a form of temperature play that is both sensual, erotic, and slightly painful. Commonly practiced by BDSM-loving couples, wax play involves dripping molten wax on a person’s skin, thus inducing a somewhat burning sensation. The essentials for wax play are wax candles, and since not all candles are created equal, here we discuss the particulars of wax play and outline how to select wax play candles. What Is a Wax Play Candle? The wax play candle is a specialized candle designed for comfortable wax play. Different types of candles melt at various temperatures, producing a significantly broad range of temperatures, ranging from warm and soothing to very hot and even dangerously overheated. Further down, we’ll discuss how to safely play with wax, but here, let’s look at the types of wax candles and see which ones are safe for wax play: Soy Wax – melts at a starting temperature of 114 degrees and is safe and recommended for wax play. Paraffin Wax – melts at a starting temperature of 116 degrees and is safe for wax play. Beeswax – melts at a starting temperature of about 143 degrees and is Not safe for wax play. Microcrystalline Wax – melts at a starting temperature of about 150 degrees and is Not safe for wax play. Stearin Wax – melts at temperatures of about 176 degrees and is Not safe for wax play. Shop Wax Play Candles Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More How to Select a Wax Play Candle? It is relatively straightforward to choose a wax play candle. If you notice above, we talked about the melting temperature of wax, which is a crucial aspect to know when selecting a wax play candle. To be safe and avoid hurting your partner and yourself, always select soy was of paraffin candles. Pick candles that are not scented, as fragrance additives can increase the melting point of the candle and cause skin irritations. Additionally, you can select wax candles that have added mineral oil, as this lowers the melting temperature of the wax, making them better suited for wax play. Candles with partial oil content are also called massage candles. These contain oils like jojoba oil or moisturizing ingredients like shea butter, as the nourishing oils get absorbed into the skin. These are also recommended for novices in wax play, as the oils don’t allow the wax to harden too much, making it easier to remove from the skin. The hard wax candles don’t have added oils, and these harden to a hard texture, which can be challenging to remove from areas where there is hair. Tips for Safe Wax Play Now that you know how to select quality wax play candles, please check out our guide on tips for safe wax play. We compiled the list below based on our expert’s advice, and we advise you to be careful and don’t try to repurpose birthday candles or household scented candles. Put safety first and follow our tips: Start with a sensual atmosphere – we always advise you to start any sexy play by preparing a sexy atmosphere. Dim the lights, light scented candles, and play sexy music. It does not hurt to have a bucket of water handy if things get out of hand. Be present – always be wholly sober and present when engaging in wax play. Stay away from alcohol or drugs, as this can play tricks with your sensory levels, and you can hurt yourself and your partner. Prepare the skin – always put lotion or body oil on the skin before trying wax play, and you can incorporate a sexual massage with massage oil or lotion. It will make the skin suppler, and the wax won’t irritate it as much, so you can easily remove it. You should also shave the skin (or epilate it) before wax play, as the wax won’t have anything to stick to. Always use specialized wax play candles – as we noted, always use candles intended for wax play, like soy or paraffin candles, as these don’t burn as hot and won’t burn the skin. Test wax hotness in safe areas – before you go and drip hot wax on sensitive parts, first test a few drops on your wrist and your partner’s wrist to gauge if this is something you both can comfortably withstand. Drip from a safe distance – we suggest you drip the molten wax from a distance of about 15 inches to 20 inches, as it will allow the wax enough time to cool down a little, and it will not splatter to areas you don’t want it to. Play with the wax – after you get in the groove, you can play by pouring wax in specific patterns on your partner or even use your fingers to get more creative. After the wax hardens on your partner’s body, you can play with it, too, like tapping the hardened waxy texture or using ice cubes to further solidify the wax and cool the skin for extra sensations. Aftercare is vital – aftercare is critical for a safe wax play, and it includes things like cuddling and communicating throughout the entire experience. After you are finished, talk to your partner and discuss the things you liked, what you did not like, and what you’d like to repeat. It also includes rubbing the skin with a soothing lotion that will help soothe overheated skin. Wax play usually takes practice to master, so don’t give up, but experiment and enjoy yourselves. We hope our guide on how to choose wax play candles is helpful, but we also have a long list of other sex toy guides. We invite you to check out our sex toy store, and we promise you will be impressed with the selection of BDSM toys, sex furniture, dildos, vibrators, and so much more. FAQs Does playing with hot wax hurt? Wax play treads the line between pleasure and pain, and it depends on a person’s pain tolerance. Also, the lower the height from which you drip the wax, the hotter it will be, thus making it more painful. If you drip it from higher, it will cool down before hitting the skin. However, many BDSM enthusiasts love the intense sensations that some would describe as pain, but it is the whole point of the power play dynamic, and hot wax is an excellent part of it. Another factor is the candle type you use, as the massage candles are more comfortable, but the soy and paraffin candles create a thicker texture that many love. Can a beginner use a wax play candle? Yes, a beginner can use a wax play candle, but we suggest you buy soy wax candles with high oil content, as these melt at a lower temperature and are easier to clean. For beginners, it is best to start with massage candles. How do you clean the wax after wax play? We recommend you use sex sheets when engaging in wax play, and always prepare the skin with lotion or massage oils. It will help with wax removal, but you can also use a plastic card or a blunt butter knife to scrape the wax from the skin. Use a cotton pad dipped in massage oil to loosen the wax from sensitive places, and wash with warm water. Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How To Choose a Sex Machine How To Choose Sex Furniture How To Choose a Portable Sex Machine How To Choose a Thrusting Dildo Machine How To Choose a Riding Sex Machine How To Choose a Dildo Chair How To Choose a Dildo How To Choose a Suction Cup Dildo

We love discussing sex toys and sharing advice on how to choose and use various sex toys, and today, we’ll talk about riding sex machines. Made famous by the Sybian at the end of the 1980s, the riding sex machine has evolved and is now one of the most enjoyable sex machines for women. So, read on as we talk about riding sex machines and how to choose a riding sex machine that you’ll be happy to ride! What Is a Riding Sex Machine? A riding sex machine is a saddle-like sex machine that you straddle and utilize the attached mats that can vibrate, rotate, or thrust. The saddle-like machine is comfortable and highly popular among women who love to masturbate and reach the big O while in the famous Cowgirl position. Most riding sex machines have a plug-and-play design that means you will never lose power, and they come with wired or wireless remote controllers that let you control the features. Shop Riding Sex Machines Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Riding Sex Machines Types Because of its shape, the riding sex machines come in a very similar design – a saddle. The key differences between these are the features and the materials they’re made from. Some are made from high-quality materials like leather and come with one or more pure silicone attachments. Others are made from plastic and come with a single attachment, and you may need to get extra attachments for them. There are differences in the controller types, as some come with wired remote controllers, but the highest quality riding sex machines come with app compatibility and wireless control. How to Choose a Riding Sex Machine? Since the sex machines come with a hefty price tag, you need to be diligent when selecting a quality riding sex machine. Consider some key characteristics of the riding sex machines and note that there are very few differences regarding the shape and size of the riding sex machine, so you can’t really use this metric when choosing your saddle fuck machine. Thus, we compiled the following factors you must consider when shopping for a saddle fuck machine: Features – consider what you expect from your riding sex machine in terms of vibrations, rotations, and thrusting, and choose accordingly. Our product descriptions clearly outline all the available features every product provides, and you can make an informed decision. Power & Intensity – consider how powerful the machine is, and check if the machine has low and high power options. While it may seem attractive to enjoy high-powered vibrations, grinding down while the saddle buzzes on a low setting can be quite arousing and satisfying. Weight Capacity – check and see what the weight capacity of the saddle fuck machine you are considering is. Knowing beforehand if it is designed to withstand your body weight is critical for satisfactory use. Attachments – check what types of attachments the saddle sex machine comes with, as it will determine how you can use it. Don’t forget to check for compatible attachments, which you can purchase later. Care & Maintenance – having a saddle sex machine that is easy to clean is vital, and we suggest you select riding sex machines that are easy to clean and maintain. Get a model that comes with silicone attachments and has a saddle made from waterproof materials that you can wipe down with antibacterial wipes and disinfectant. Saddle Sex Machine Care & Maintenance The riding sex machine’s design makes this sex tool simple to clean. The working end of most riding sex machines is the attachment that you place on the top and ride it. It is easily removable, and because most quality saddle sex machines come with a silicone attachment, you can easily wash this with soap and water or your preferred sex toy cleaner. As for the saddle itself, it only needs a good wipe-down with a damp cloth. We recommend you use a lint-free cloth and a mild household disinfectant (like glass cleaner) to wipe the entire saddle, remove lube and possible residue, and then leave it to dry well. Quality saddle sex machines come with a suitable cover. However, if yours does not come with a cover, then we suggest you fashion a cover and find an appropriate storage place for it. We advise you not to store the silicone attachments on the saddle as they may get deformed. Instead, get a dedicated sex toy storage bag or case and keep these safe, away from heat and direct sunlight. Well, there you have it, our expert guide on how to choose a riding sex machine. We covered the basics, and we also prepared another guide on how to use a riding sex machine, as well as a variety of other helpful guides on choosing and using various sex toys. Our sex toy store carries a fantastic selection of riding sex machines, sex furniture, dildos, vibrators, and much more. Learn More With Our Sex Toy Guides: How to Use a Dildo How to Use a Thrusting Dildo How to Choose a Thrusting Dildo How to Choose a Realistic Dildo How to Use a Thick Dildo How to Use a Glass Dildo How to Use a Vibrating Dildo How to Choose a Small Dildo

When discussing sex toys, people usually think about vibrators and small items they can use for extended pleasure. However, those ready for bigger purchases and want to spice up their sex lives with a significant purchase shouldn't overlook the power of sex machines! Also referred to as fucking machines, these are a bigger and can be used in multiple ways. While their primary function usually is to stimulate thrusting, these can come with various attachments that expand their possibilities. Sex machines can provide an elevated experience in the bedroom and ensure fantastic orgasms from the first try. Some models are even adapted for long-distance use, allowing you to establish intimacy with your partner even when miles apart Our guide goes over all the different types of sex machines you could find, but we also cover how to use sex machines and much more! What Is a Sex Machine? A sex machine is a mechanical device that stimulates sexual intercourse, usually featuring a dildo or a silicone vagina attachment. Depending on the size, sex machines can have different trusting powers. Most sex machines feature a mechanized part that stimulates thrusting; however, the more modern types also include a saddle you can ride. The first sex machine can be consudered the vibrator nvented by Joseph Mortimer Granville; however, it looked nothing like the vibrators we know today. The first vibraotr sex machine was big and powered by electricity, handled by physicians who used it to treat 'hysteria' in women. Things have changed significantly since then, and now there are different sex machines with multiple features like thrust, rotate, throb, suck, and even pulsate. You can ride them as a saddle, use them to simulate thrusting motions, and more. There's a great variety of sex machines available; you only need to decide which features and attachments you prefer to spice up your sex sessions. Top Sex Machine Suggestions BEST VALUE View Product BEST OVERALL View Product BEST DISCREET SEX MACHINE View Product Why Try Sex Machines? Now, let’s dive deep into the reasons why sex machines can be beneficial for both men and women. As the ultimate form of sex toys, sex machines give a sense of control over your sexuality, can be used to recreate multiple sex positions, and even allow you to explore different fantasies. Here are a few things that may convince you to try them: Hands-free Sex Elevate your masturbation sessions and opt for powerful hands-free orgasms! You can turn on the machine, control it through the remote and enjoy the fucking, while using your hands to stimulate other body parts. Squirting Orgasms We all know men's stamina is definitive, but a power-operated sex machine will never have that problem. Some sex machines can deliver up to 100 thrusts in a minute, resulting in powerful G-spot stimulation and inducing a coveted squirting orgasm. Solo Time Do you enjoy being trusted hard but don't have anyone to share sexy time with? Sex machines are designed precisely for that purpose - you get all the pleasure, and there's no need for reciprocity! Help with ED If you struggle with erectile dysfunction but want to satisfy your partner to the max, all you need is a trusting sex machine to keep them going through the night. You can still be included in the sex and focus on your other erogenous zones while letting the sex machine do all the hard work. Double Penetration Those who desire the sweet pleasure of vaginal and anal fullness but don't want a third person in their bedroom can easily meet their needs with a sex machine. The machine allows more control over the thrusting process, and you can switch attachments every time for diverse types of pleasure. Robot Fetish If the idea of having sex with a machine or robot is turning you on, this is the perfect sex toy to make those fantasies come true! You can even opt for bigger, more intimidating sex machines to indulge your kink and explore different positions. Help for People with Disability There are very few sex toys that allow access for disabled people, and sex machines are part of that group. Whether you feel pain when positioning your hands in certain ways or have some other disability, this sex toy ensures you get satisfying sex and experience pleasure from masturbation. Types of Sex Machines You can find multiple types of sex machines on the market, made from materials such as metal, PVC, hard plastic, or silicone, with extra attachments, vibrating and rotating features, etc. We divided the sex machines into several categories to give you a better understanding of their purpose: Thrusting Sex Machines As the name suggests, the main purpose of these thrusting sex machines is to stimulate sex. They usually feature a dildo or vibrator at the end of the stick, which can also be attached and switched with another model. The mechanism of the sex toy can also allow different thrusting lengths and speeds which are usually adjustable through a remote controller. 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Depending on the model, you can find suction sex machines with extra features such as heat control, tongue-like sensations, vibrations, etc. Product Suggestion: LoveBotz The Milker Deluxe Stroking Machine OVERVIEW Designed to automatically stroke& suck Includes two cylinders Multi-speed controls Discreet toolbox design Plug-and-play option Lock and key, and carrying handle for ultimate discretion View Product Ride-on Sex Machines The ride-on sex machines are designed to be ridden, providing intense pleasure through rotating features and adjustable vibrations. The ride-on sex machines provide a full saddle you can easily sit on, usually made from leather or similar high-quality materials. This is also the closest sex toy that reenacts the sensation of riding a real man, as it allows you to control the thrusting while comfortably sitting on top. The attached dildo or vibrator is usually made from silicone, giving it an extra realistic feel. 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BDSM sex machines often feature restraints and bondage elements or contain extra attachments like floggers, nipple clamps, spanking paddles, etc. Product Suggestion: Doggy Style Sex Machine OVERVIEW Adjustable height and angle Hand and ankle cuffs Standard dildo attachment Compatible with Vac-U-Lock attachment system View Product Handheld Dildo Drills Those who don't want to give up their masturbation buddy when traveling or prefer bigger control during sex can opt for handheld sex machines. Typically smaller in size, these sex toys can be easily transported, and best of all, they can feature just as many vibrating patterns and thrusting power as the larger models. Another perk is their quiet setting, allowing you to use the sex machine even in hotel rooms with thin walls and not disturbing the neighbors. 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You can also take things further and start touching yourself before thinking about penetration; whether playing with your breasts, exploring your body with ice cubes for little temperature play, or stimulating the clit, a little foreplay goes a long way. If you're playing around with a partner, it is even better since you can enjoy light kissing and touching before letting the sex machine fulfill its purpose. Step 2: Position the sex machine Once you feel ready for thrusting, you need to set the sex machine in the right position. You may need to switch it on and off a couple of times to ensure you are comfortable with the position; nonetheless, these sex machines are easily adjustable, so you can explore multiple sex poses one after the other. Another thing to note is the power of the sex machine; make sure it is fully charged and ready for action before you start using it, like the Pistol Pounder Thrusting Vibrator that is battery-powered and needs a full charge to work Step 3: Don't Skip The Lube While you might be wet from all the foreplay, this is no reason not to use a lubricant when engaging with your sex machine. The lube will make the thrusting more slippery and comfortable, especially if you aren't used to using sex toys or if you've chosen a dildo attachment that is bigger than your average penis. Apply the lube both on yourself and the sex toy to ensure there won't be any unnecessary injuries, incidents, or discomfort involved. We recommend you use a quality water-based lube that works with all materials. Step 4: Start With The Slowest Thrusting Setting While most sex machines are extremely powerful, that doesn't mean you should go straight for the fastest or deepest setting. Allow your body some time to get adjusted to the material and the position by starting from the slowest possible setting and building up the rhythm. The same goes for the penetration depth and intensity of the vibrations; less is more at the beginning. You can start with a thrusting dildo, like the Evolved Love Thrust Vibe, as it has more beginner-friendly features. Step 5: Enjoy The Process & Continue Exploring When everything is set into place, and you've gotten used to the sensation of the sex machine, you can take things further and explore different sex positions or add other sex toys to the mix. Restraints and nipple clamps are not reserved only for the BDSM community, but if you prefer to include toys that offer internal pleasure, you can play around with anal plugs or beads. Related Article Best Fucking Machines Ways to Use Sex Machines Although they have a somewhat static form, modern sex machines can easily be transformed and positioned to satisfy you in multiple sex poses, whether you're practicing them alone or with a partner. You can easily include them in your masturbation sessions or use them to explore BDSM fantasies and kinky couple sex. Below, you'll find a few ideas on how to organically incorporate sex machines into your erotic plays. Take Masturbation to the Next Level While vibrators and dildos are amazing, there's something to be said about the autonomous, hands-free thrusting sex machines that can make your every orgasm an explosion of pleasure. The sex machine doesn't tire out, and you can enjoy multiple thrusting speeds and depths and vibrational patterns that you cannot recreate by using your own hands. Many women find sex machines great for continuous G-spot stimulation and even achieving squirting orgasms. You can try Athenas Ultimate Sex Machine, and fulfill your DP fantasies while playing solo! Couple's Play Most people think that sex machines are meant to be used solo; however, that couldn't be further from the truth. Couples can easily incorporate this sex toy into their bedroom and use it to explore different sex positions, power plays, or mask the fact of sexual shortcomings. For example, sex machines are often used by couples when one partner suffers from erectile dysfunction to ensure the other person is fully satisfied sexually. Often, couples who want to explore double penetration choose this sex toy instead of inviting another person into the bedroom. For example, you can use the sex machine to penetrate yourself vaginally while your partner thrusts your anus for the ultimate feeling of fullness. Another interesting position is giving your partner a blow job while riding or simply standing above the thrusting sex-machine. In any case, as long as you mind personal safety and use a lot of lube, you both can enjoy the sex toy and use it to explore your sexuality. BDSM Fun Kinky sex is the new trend among modern couples, and engaging in BDSM fantasies nowadays is more common than ever. Some sex machines are particularly designed for BDSM fun; however, you can have the same amount of fun even with a regular thrusting sex machine. For example, you can allow your partner to control your orgasm and explore your body with restraints or other sex toys while you assume the submissive role. You can also stimulate a blow job on the machine for your partner's pleasure or restrain them and make them watch how you ride a dildo and deny them the same pleasure. Long-Distance Sex Last but not least, using sex machines as a couple can help you shorten the distance between and enjoy pleasurable sex without being physically present. Many modern sex machines are app-controlled, allowing your partner to customize your experience in the bedroom from miles away. Many couples have reported that using these sex toys while not together has helped them maintain their intimacy and have fun even while separated. You can even try the Fetish Fantasy International Couple's Sex Machine for improved partenred play! Related Article Best Dildo Mounts Safety Tips for Using Sex Machines Don't Position the Sex Machine Too Close to Your Genitalia There's nothing worse than turning on a high-powered sex machine and having it thrust hard into your genitals, causing injuries or unnecessary raches. To make sure your vagina or penis is safe, always ensure the thrusting is set to the lowest speed and intensity and the tip of the dildo or the stroker is barely touching your genitalia, and then slowly ease into the movement to prevent injury Turn off Electrical Devices When Using the Sex Machine Most sex machines still need to be plugged in during usage to ensure maximum power and intensity while entering you. However, because they use so much power, they can easily overload the circuit, especially if other appliances are running at the same time. You should be mindful and ensure the electric circuit you use for the sex machine can handle its power consumption. Use Only Compatible Attachments & Don't Share Them With Others While there are ways to fashion sex machine attachments at home, the safest way is to purchase the attachments from a certified manufacturer, like the Vac-U-Lock Fucking Machine Adapter compatible with all Vac-U-Lock attach. This will ensure they are compatible with your sex machines, thus reducing the risk of malfunctions or injuries while using them. Another important thing is to not share the attachments, such as the stroker or the vibrator since this can easily lead to infections. Related Article How to Ride a Saddle Sex Machine Maintenance & Care As with any sex toy, it is recommended that you clean your sex machine before and after every use to be extra cautious. The insertable part needs the most attention, as it has direct contact with your body If it's made out of porous materials, such as Cyberskin, rubber, or plastic, it will be harder to clean, and over time, this part will deteriorate more easily. To make your sex toy last longer, it's best to use a condom in this situation. If the insertable part is made from non-porous materials, such as silicone or metal, then you need to remove it from the machine and clean it with soap and water, or a toy cleaning solution. Be careful if the dildo contains any vibrating mechanism, and consult the manufacturer's guide to ensure it is waterproof before washing it with water. The rest of the sex machine can be spot-cleaned as necessary; take a damp cloth towel and disinfect every surface that may contain bodily fluids to ensure everything is spic & span. Depending on the materials, the sex machine may need more time to dry. Only when every part of the sex toy is completely air-dried can you safely store it in a dark and dry place. Related Article How to Store Sex Toys Final Thoughts While many people still find the sex machine somewhat intimidating, there's no doubt that this sex toy can be incredibly beneficial for solo play and couples' sex lives. The variety of features, materials, and power sources that this sex toy includes allows you to explore different types of pleasure and even opt for the ultimate hands-free masturbation sessions. Sex machines can feature vibrating and non-vibrating parts, multiple thrusting settings, and can be positioned in multiple ways, allowing you to enjoy penetration on your back, and stomach, in doggy style or even control the depth of penetration while cowgirling the machine. Overall, the benefits of incorporating sex machines into your sex lives are plenty; you just need to decide how big the trusting part needs to be and enjoy the ride!

Wax play is sensual, erotic, and borders on the edge of pain and pleasure. But you have to be careful to use the correct wax candles, as using just about any regular candle can be dangerous. It is why there are specialized wax play candles made from wax blends that melt at lower temperatures and are perfect for sensual wax play. We tested a bunch of wax play candles, and we bring you our selections for the best wax play candles you can find in our store. Quick Overview of Our Top Picks Best Overall: Flame Drippers Wax Play Candle Set Best Paraffin Candle: Kink Inferno Drip Candles Best Dildo-Shaped Candle: Master Series Pride Pecker Rainbow Dick Drip Candle Best Japanese Candles: Japanese Drip Candles Best Unscented Candles: Master Series Fetish Drip Candle Set Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Flame Drippers Wax Play Candle Set Best Overall Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Long-Lasting: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Flame Drippers Wax Play Candle Set as the main choice for a wax candle you can use for wax play. When we tested the Flame Drippers Wax Play Candle Set, we loved everything about it, starting from the packaging, as these come in elegant glass containers. The candles are made from a paraffin wax that has been blended with moisturizing ingredients that protect the skin. We also love that the candles are lightly scented, enhancing the overall sensual experience. We have to remind you that even though the Flame Drippers Wax Play Candle Set burns at lower temperatures, you should pour the melted wax from a safe distance, preferably about 3 feet away from the skin. Who It's For The Flame Drippers Wax Play Candle Set is for all BDSM enthusiasts who like to engage in wax play and want candles with a light scent and low melting point. Reasons to Buy ✓  Set of three candles in glass containers ✓  Paraffin wax ✓  Low melting point ✓  Lightly scented Reasons to Avoid ✗  Relatively expensive Specs Dimensions 2.5" x 2" Material Paraffin Wax, Glass Container Melting Temepratire About 122*F Sold out See It Now Kink Inferno Drip Candles Best Parrafin Candle Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Long-Lasting: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Kink Inferno Drip Candles to include in our list because these are so fun and sexy to use. Shaped like butt plugs with tapered tips, wide bodies, narrow necks, and wide bases, these look like something you’d use to provide anal stimulation. However, these are in no way intended for internal use, as the Kink Inferno Drip Candles are made from paraffin wax blended with moisturizing ingredients that help prevent any burning or skin irritations. The candles melt at a lower temperature, further protecting the skin while you can enjoy the drip of hot wax on the skin, and we found the wax to be very easy to clean from the skin. Who It's For The Kink Inferno Drip Candles are an excellent choice for beginners and gentle players who want to experience wax play and want to use candles with a low melting point. Reasons to Buy ✓  Butt-plug shapes ✓  Set of three candles ✓  Low melting point ✓  Paraffin wax with moisturizing effect Reasons to Avoid ✗  Not for insertable use Specs Dimensions 4.3" x 1.75" Material Paraffin Wax Melting Temepratire About 134-140*F Sold out See It Now Master Series Pride Pecker Rainbow Dick Drip Candle Best Dildo-Shaped Candle Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 4/5Design: 5/5Long-Lasting: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It The Master Series Pride Pecker Rainbow Dick Drip Candle found its place on our list because we loved this candle. First off, the candle is 7.3 inches long and is textured as an actual penis with realistic details and a pair of balls at the base. However, this candle is made in a rainbow color, adding a bit of whimsy to its look. We also like the Master Series Pride Pecker Rainbow Dick Drip Candle because it is made from a paraffin wax blended with moisturizing agents that protect the skin from unintentional burning. The wax blend also melts at a lower temperature, and it is unscented, which means it will not cause any unexpected skin irritations. We must note that even though the Pride Pecker candle is shaped as a dildo, it is not intended for intercourse. Who It's For The Master Series Pride Pecker Rainbow Dick Drip Candle is an interesting candle that is shaped as a penis, and we recommend it to adventurous couples who want to add some quirky fun to their playtime. Reasons to Buy ✓  Paraffin wax penis ✓  Low melting point ✓  Moisturizing effect ✓  Unscented and non-irritating Reasons to Avoid ✗  Slightly higher melting point Specs Dimensions 7.3" x 3.4" Material Paraffin Wax Melting Temepratire About 136-140*F Sold out See It Now Japanese Drip Candles Best Japanese Candles Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Long-Lasting: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Experienced Users Why We Picked It We chose the Japanese Drip Candles because they are made from a uniquely formulated wax blend that melts at a lower temperature, providing a pleasurable drip. The Japanese Drip Candles come in a set of three differently colored candles in a box, featuring red, purple, and black candles. These are 6.1 inches long and can burn for up to 30 minutes, and provide a warm drip over tantalized skin. We loved testing them as we found the Japanese Drip Candles wax to be comfortable on the skin and to be easy to peel off, as these don’t stick to the skin or harden into a stiff texture. Who It's For The Japanese Drip Candles are for adventurous couples and experienced users who know how to utilize drip candles to their full extent. Reasons to Buy ✓  Three colors in the pack ✓  Low melting point ✓  Non-toxic wax ✓  Easy cleanup Reasons to Avoid ✗  Not for beginners Specs Dimensions 6.1" x 0.7" Material Wax Melting Temepratire About 122*F Sold out See It Now Master Series Fetish Drip Candle Set of 3 Best Unscented Candles Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Long-Lasting: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We included the Master Series Fetish Drip Candle Set of 3 on our list, as it is really good for a wide array of users. The candles are made from a paraffin wax formulation that melts at a lower temperature and is perfect for dripping over your partner’s overheated skin. The candles are straight and 7 inches long and can burn up to 30 minutes, giving you ample time to enjoy the sexy sensations of dripping hot wax over heated skin. These are made from a paraffin wax formula that melts at temperatures between 135 and 140 degrees F, which means you and your partner will not be in danger of burning your skin when using the Master Series Fetish Drip Candle Set. Who It's For The Master Series Fetish Drip Candle Set of 3 is a perfect choice for all users who want to engage in wax play and want to use candles that melt at a low temperature. Reasons to Buy ✓  Set of 3 candles ✓  Red or black colored versions ✓  Low melting temperature ✓  30-minute burn time Reasons to Avoid ✗  May cause skin irritations Specs Dimensions 7" x 0.6" Material Paraffin Wax Melting Temepratire About 136-140*F Sold out See It Now Why Trust Our Reviews? HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use. Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you. When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight. Key Things about Wax Play Candles We have a complete guide on how to choose wax play candles, covering all the critical things about wax play candles. We also have a blog section where we cover a wide array of topics on choosing and using various sex toys. For now, we’ll only list the fundamental aspects to keep in mind when selecting candles for wax play: Composition – for the most comfortable experience, we recommend you choose soy or paraffin candles, preferably those that are not scented or have other additives. These melt at lower temperatures and provide a more enjoyable experience. Shape – there is the straight candle shape we are all used to, but you can also find wax play candles in other shapes, like a dildo, a cat, a butt plug, or candles in containers. Intended Use – You can generally find wax play candles and massage candles. The difference between the two is that wax candles tend to harden, while massage candles contain moisturizing oils like jojoba or shea butter that nourish the skin, don’t harden too much, and are easier to remove. The Bottom Line While wax play is not for everyone, it is a very pleasurable and sensual activity that will leave you aroused and satisfied. Here, we shared our top choices for the best wax play candles we have in our sex toy store; if you wish to explore more options, then check out our products. We carry a massive selection of BDSM toys, sex furniture, sexy lingerie, and sex toys like dildos, vibrators, anal toys, sex toys for men, and all essentials you need for an enjoyable, sexy experience. 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What was initially designed as a medical device for checking nerve sensitivity has found its way into the realm of BDSM play, and rightfully so. Yes, we are talking about the Wartenberg pinwheel, or BDSM pinwheel, which provides a tantalizing sensation as you run it over the skin. Here, we will outline the key things to note when you choose a BDSM pinwheel and a couple of tips on how to use this pleasure toy. What is a BDSM Pinwheel? The BDSM pinwheel is a wheel attached to a handle with pins or spikes radiating from the center. The wheel rotates, and the spikes press the skin, producing a highly concentrated stimulation that people often use in sensory sexual play. There are two basic designs of BDSM pinwheels: models with a single wheel and models with multiple wheels. When you use a single-wheel model, you get sensations concentrated on a smaller area, thus highlighting the pain/pleasure. The multi-wheel model can feature up to ten wheels, and it spreads the stimulation over a greater area. Both have their applications, but more on that below. Shop BDSM Pinwheels Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More How to Select a Wartenberg Pinwheel? Selecting a Wartenberg pinwheel needs to be a straightforward process, and here we’ll help you by outlining the essential criteria you need to follow. Safety comes first, so always shop from a trusted store and don’t compromise quality over price. So, here are the main features to look for in a BDSM pinwheel: Material: the pinwheels come from metal or plastic. The best choice is, of course, medical-grade stainless steel, as it is sturdy and easy to clean. It is also perfect for people with a medical fetish. You can also get a plastic pinwheel that is great for beginners, but it is not as sturdy or durable as the models made from metal. Rows of wheels: the classic pinwheel has a single spiked wheel, but there are also models with up to 10 spiked wheels. Please note that the fewer spiked wheels, the more pain you can cause, so use it carefully. Also, the models with multiple wheels can provide deep tissue stimulation, as you can exert more pressure on the skin without piercing it. Sharpness of spikes: the spikes on the pinwheels are relatively sharp, but there are models with sharper and models with blunt pins. Experts can use the sharpest pinwheels, but novices need not experiment, and a pinwheel with blunter spikes is a good option for experimentation. Design: a model with a handle or a model with a finger loop. The handle model is easy to use and runs all over the body, and it provides better control of the motions. The finger loop model usually comes with several wheels and attaches to one or two fingers. It limits the range of motion, but it is perfect for couple’s play. How to Use a BDSM Pinwheel? Now that we’ve covered the basic features of the BDSM pinwheel, we feel we should touch on how to use it. Please note that there is no right or wrong way to use a pinwheel, but you do need to be careful when using it for the first time, as it is easy to draw blood. So, heed our advice and use a beginner-friendly model with blunt spikes and enjoy all the pleasure and sensory stimulation. Here are a few tips on how to use a Wartenberg pinwheel: Nerve stimulation – run the wheel lightly across the arms, neck, back, or inner thighs to provide gentle sensations and stimulate the nerve endings. While these are erogenous zones for many, these are the “safer” areas that provide exciting stimulation. For a more targeted stimulation, run the wheel across the nipples, the penis, the testicles, or around the clitoris, as these places are packed with nerve endings and, when stimulated, can drive a person wild with arousal. Enhance impact play – impact play brings the blood up to the surface of the skin, making the skin sensitive to touch. You can further enhance the sensations by running a BDSM pinwheel over excited skin; it will additionally stimulate the nerve endings and drive your sub wild with sensations. Temperature play – a metal pinwheel is perfect for temperature play, especially for cold play. Place it in a glass of ice water for a few minutes, and then run the pinwheel over your partner’s excited skin, providing a temperature shock and contrasting sensations. Add a blindfold – you can add a blindfold to your sex games, leaving your partner to guess where you’ll touch them next with the pinwheel. Consider using restraints and tickle torture in combination with a pinwheel to enhance the fun. We looked to cover the basics on how to choose a BDSM pinwheel, but you can check out our other how-to choose and how-to-use guides below and read more on our guides page. We also invite you to check out our sex toy store, and we promise you will be impressed with the selection of BDSM toys, sex furniture, dildos, vibrators, and so much more. FAQs Can a beginner use a pinwheel? Yes, a beginner can use a pinwheel, and we recommend you try a beginner-friendly plastic pinwheel to get in the groove of using this sexy tool. Or, you can try a metal wheel with blunt spikes, and once you and your partner feel comfortable, you can continue using a pinwheel with sharper spikes. What to do if I draw blood with a pinwheel? If you happen to draw some blood while using a pinwheel, there is nothing to worry about. Sterilize the area with an antiseptic, and wash and sterilize your pinwheel. To avoid such issues, always communicate with your partner and listen to their responses. Who should use a BDSM pinwheel? Any person or couple looking to experience sensory play should try using a pinwheel. 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Power exchange is one of BDSM's crucial principles, and many toys on the market enable the fantasies of controlling someone or submitting to a master. So, when we're talking about staple toys for kinky couples, the ball gag is undoubtedly on top of the list. If you want to punish your partner or keep the sex noise down, ball gags are an excellent way to spice up your playtime. Pleare read our guide on how to use a ball gag and we guarantee you’ll learn new things and satisfy your curiosity. What Is a Ball Gag and Why Use One? As the word suggests, a gag is an object placed inside the wearer's mouth, hindering their ability to move their tongue freely. There are many forms of mouth gags, such as bite gags or funnel gags, but the most popular type on the market is the ball gag. Ball Gags Are a Form of Power Exchange - given Dom/Sub role-playing principles, you can enjoy ball gags in many ways. For example, they allow the dominant partner to exert control over the sub, humiliate them, punish them, or use the ball gag during training. Additionally, there are many benefits to using ball gags in the bedroom, even if you're not in a kinky relationship but want to explore different sex plays. Ball Gags Are Visually Pleasing - many people find ball gags visually appealing. The touch of leather and the notion that your mouth always stays open will drive them crazy. You don't need to chain yourself up in a sex dungeon to communicate your desire to be dominated by your partner; a simple ball gag can do the trick. Ball Gags Limit Speaking - for many partners, using restraints in the bedroom, including ball gags, signifies their security and trust in the relationship. Letting your partner limit your speaking ability puts you in a vulnerable position, which can further deepen the intimacy you enjoy. Moreover, many people state that using ball gags makes their climax more intensive. Because your breathing will be more restricted while wearing the ball, you'll be forced to breathe only through your nose and experience your orgasms differently. Ball Gags Are a Form of Restraint - if you want to see your partner drool all over, ball gags perfectly fit that purpose. Depending on the size of the ball and additional attachments, the wearer's tongue is also restricted from moving, making them drool excessively. You can remove the ball gag, and their mouth will be ready for sloppy oral sex. Last but not least, if you place the ball gag on your partner, you can enjoy their muffled sounds and moans. How to Use a Ball Gag? Using a ball gag is simple; after you and your partner agree on the terms of using and establish a safe signal, you need to place the ball into the mouth and place and close the straps at the back of the head. You can do this yourself or have your partner help you. It is often more intimate and more erotic for the dominant partner to place and fix the ball gag on the submissive partner. Who Can Use a Ball Gag? While many seem to think that ball gags are exclusively used in BDSM communities, that cannot be further from the truth. Many people enjoy the appeal of wearing ball gags, even if they don't use any other restraints. Additionally, the ball gag can add a little spice to your sex life without the need to further explore your kinkiness. For example, ball gags are perfect for many role play games. If you want to assume the part of the Dom, you can use the ball gag with a pair of handcuffs or rope to tie your partner to the bed and pleasure or torture them as you see fit. Many couples use blindfolds simultaneously, restraining their partner's ability to speak, see and move. Then, they present their partner with different sensations. Temperature play with ice or wax candles is excellent foreplay, as is using a feather or a tickler. In Dom/Sub relationships, ball gags are often used as punishment, even outside of the bedroom. You can also combine them with other punishment acts; for example, when the Dom collars their sub or gives them a forced orgasm and wants to keep the noise to a minimum. Different Types of Ball Gags As we said, ball gags are just one type of mouth gag; however, they offer much diversity. Sex toy manufacturers have come up with exciting ideas regarding this sex toy, yet a few ball gags have been rendered the most popular among the rest. We outline the best ball gag variants and showcase what makes them useful in the bedroom. Regular Ball Gags This is the most common ball gag you can come across: it features a simple ball and straps design. The ball can come in many different colors, sizes, and materials and is usually recommended for partners that have some experience with kinky sex. Since it isn't breathable, limiting the time you use is also essential. Shop Ball Gags Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Breathable Ball Gags Breathable ball gags have small holes, allowing the wearer to breathe less restrictively while producing similar muffled sounds as regular ball gags. They can be worn for a long time or used only in foreplay, and they are great if you're worried about causing physical harm to yourself or your partner while wearing them. If you're a beginner, this is the best option for you. Shop Breathable Ball Gags Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Dildo Ball Gags If you want to explore things outside your comfort zone and dive deeper into your kinkiness as a couple, we suggest dildo ball gags. They feature a dildo attached to the ball, which can be one-sided or double-sided. For double-sided dildo ball gags, the back dildo that goes into the wearer's mouth is significantly smaller, and its purpose is to make the wearer gag. The great thing about this toy is that you can restrain your partner's mouth, make them gag and get anal or vaginal penetration from them. It leaves much room for humiliation, punishment, and other kinky sex act. Minding the time and how your partner feels while wearing them is crucial for overall enjoyment. Shop Dildo Gags Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More Choosing The Right Ball Gag for You As we mentioned, there are multiple shapes and sizes of ball gags, but they also differ in other features. To choose the right ball gag for you or your partner, consider the experience level and the ball gag features. Here is a short list of the key things to note when selecting a ball gag, but please check out our complete guide on how to select BDSM mouth gags: Ball Size – ball sizes in ball gags vary from small to extra large, ranging from 1.2 inches to up to 3 inches in diameter. Beginners should get the smallest ones, while experienced users can go for larger models. Ball Material – the balls are usually made from plastic, rubber, or silicone, and we always recommend you get body-safe silicone if it is an option. Strap Material – the straps can be made from leather, faux leather, silicone, or elastic, and each one has its merits. Also, note the closing mechanism, as the models with buckles take the lead, but you can also find models with elastic straps, Velcro, or snap closures. Extra Features – it is also common to find ball gags with nipple clamps attached to them, as well as models with other features like a rose-shaped ball gag, heart-shaped ball gag, etc. Safety Tips for Using Ball Gags It is a given that both partners should willfully agree to use a ball gag during any sexual activity, the notion of consent isn't enough for safe sex. Here we list important safety tips you must know when using bal gags: Limit The Wearing Time Before deciding to wear the ball gag, it's best to discuss the length of time you or your partner are comfortable wearing it. It's best to try it on beforehand and see how it feels inside your mouth. As a good starting point, you can agree upon 10 to 15 minutes and see how much and how well you can handle it. Wearing it any longer than that can start to feel too uncomfortable or make your jaw hurt. Set A Safe Word or Signal Before engaging in any restrictive or kinky sex play, partners are urged to use a safe word. But, since ball gags limit speaking ability, you must use another way to signal to your partner when you've had enough. Depending on your sex position, you can tap your partner on your shoulder, your foot, or your toes or use other body parts to signal. You can nod or shake your head as a stop signal if your movements are entirely restricted, or even use a squeaky toy. Some partners decide to use blinking patterns; however, that can go unnoticed in a heated situation. An exciting way to signal your partner to stop is to hum the tune to a recognizable song like 'Happy Birthday.' Be By Your Partner's Side As mentioned above, some safety signals are harder to detect than others. Because of that, if your partner is wearing a ball gag, you'll need to watch them closely and check how they're feeling. Moreover, it is important to never leave them unattended. Sometimes, the wearer can start heaving or choking, so it is smart to have emergency scissors or something else to cut the ball gag off their head. If your partner had an upset stomach before placing the sex toy or trying the double-sided dildo ball gag, this would increase their chances of vomiting, so being prepared for any eventuality is key. Choose The Right Position When using a ball gag, saliva typically builds in the mouth and can cause the wearer to choke; that's why the position in which the wearer is placed is crucial. For example, an upright torso and sitting positions are recommended when using a ball gag that isn't breathable. Most ball gag enthusiasts have reported feeling most comfortable wearing the sex toy while being faced downward. However, you shouldn't lie on your stomach and face down on the bed since that will further restrict breathing. Add Other Toys To The Mix When You're Ready Ball gags are a great starting point, but they also mix well with other sex toys. If you're beginning your BDSM journey, you can try nipple clamps or blindfolds once you feel comfortable with the ball gag. Once you master the ability to keep your mouth open for a prolonged time, you can try dildo ball gags and even perform sexual acts with it. Additionally, you can move on to more advanced mouth gags, such as bite gags or ring gags When Not to Use Ball Gags? While ball gags can be fun, they're also dangerous if not used properly. For example, if your partner has a cold or sinus infection that hinders their ability to breathe properly, a ball gag will only exacerbate the condition. Using ball gags in such cases is highly unsafe and may result in the partner passing out or choking. Additionally, people prone to asthma or allergies should be careful when using ball gags. They should be mindful of the ball's material, but they're generally not advised to use ball gags for prolonged periods. People diagnosed with or prone to panic attacks or some other condition that hinders their ability to breathe are also advised against using ball gags. The sex toy may serve as a catalyst that will kick their condition into overdrive and turn what was supposed to be a pleasant experience into a life-threatening situation. Cleaning & Storing Ball Gags Since the ball gag is placed in your mouth, it's essential to keep it hygienic to avoid the risk of diseases or infections. It's best to clean your bal gag before and after every use to ensure total safety. Because ball gags are usually made from silicone or plastic, washing them with warm water and antibacterial soap is safe. Dish soaps also work well for washing ball gags; however, you would still want to disinfect the ball occasionally. Breathable balls are much more comfortable, but they're a significant challenge to keep hygienic. The small holes that allow you to breathe are place for bacteria to build up and make the sex toy unusable. To prevent any risks to your health, use pipe cleaners similar to those used for cleaning reusable straws. They're thin enough to get inside the smallest areas and thoroughly clean every inch of the ball gag. You can treat the ball gag as any other sex toy when it comes to storing it. Silk bags are the recommended option, but you can use any lint-free material. The toy should be left to air dry after cleaning, and be sure there is no residual moisture before storing. The storage box should be dry and kept away from direct heat or sunlight. Final Thoughts Ball gags are the simplest form of restrictive play that allow partners to explore a side of BDSM relationships or engage in moderate roleplay. They hinder the wearer's ability to speak and come with many extra features, but at their core, they're just a fun way to explore your sexual appetites. Keep in mind that using a ball gag comes with safety concerns. However, if both partners consent and prepare beforehand, using this sex toy can significantly deepen your trust and intimacy and increase sexual pleasure. Pick your preferred type of ball gag, add a blindfold or spanking paddle to the mix, and see where it takes you! Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How To Choose Sex Sheets? How To Choose a Sex Pillow? 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You’ve heard the terms kink and fetish thrown around and used interchangeably, but these are not the same thing. Instead, kink and fetish have different meanings. Both are related to sexuality and human identity; these have more profound implications and necessitate detailed explanations. So, we prepared this guide where we explain the differences between kink and fetish and how you can explore these to your satisfaction. What Is a Kink? A kink is any unconventional or non-traditional sexual interest or practice. In other words, all the things that are outside of the “normally” accepted sexual norms are considered kinky. It can be a sexual fantasy, a sexual preference, or a specific behavior that a person enjoys, but it is not required for the person to feel sexual arousal or fulfillment. Some examples of kinks are roleplaying, BDSM games, orgasm denial, or sensory play. To explore and engage in kinks, individuals need to consent and agree on the actions beforehand, and there should be clear communication between all the involved parties. What Is a Fetish? A fetish is a specific sexual fixation on an object, body part, material, or particular situation for the person to achieve sexual arousal and experience sexual satisfaction. A fetish is more deeply interconnected in the person’s psyche and plays a vital role in their sexual fantasies and sexual experiences. Some examples of fetishes are feet fetish, latex fetish, D/s dynamic, or bondage. A fetish is something a person can’t get aroused without, and they either need to fantasize about it or engage in it to experience arousal and sexual satisfaction. Differences Between Kinks and Fetishes Kinks and fetishes overlap in some areas, but these are distinct aspects of sexual interests and behaviors. Knowing the differences between kinks and fetishes can help you learn more about your sexuality and help you become better at communicating and interacting with your partner. The general difference between kinks and fetishes can be defined as something someone likes to do vs. something someone has to do to experience sexual pleasure. Kinks are more diverse and usually don’t focus intensely on a specific object or scenario but are actions that people use to enhance their sexual pleasure. Kinks are not necessary for a person to experience arousal and sexual satisfaction; people can usually enjoy a range of sexual activities and scenarios. The kinks are generally more playful and don’t dominate each sexual encounter, which is why people can enjoy them on occasion or regularly but are not solely dependent on their kinks for pleasure and sexual satisfaction. On the other hand, the fetish is related to a deeper connection to a subject. People usually have a singular fetish, and the subject is deeply ingrained with sexual arousal and sexual satisfaction. It is often central to a person experiencing sexual gratification and does not allow any flexibility. Instead, a fetish is firmly rooted in a person’s sexual identity, which is where their singular focus comes from, and the need for specific actions or objects for achieving sexual pleasure. Examples of Common Kinks & Fetishes The term kinky means something outside of the commonly perceived societal norms, and you can find plenty of kinks that people engage in on occasion. Here is a list of the most commonly found kinks: BDSM – one of the most common kinks is BDSM, which stands for Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. It is an umbrella term that covers a long list of activities like spanking, handcuffs, sensory play, etc. Exhibitionism – this is a common kink where a person is aroused by others observing their sexual acts. Exhibitionists often enjoy performing their sexual acts in front of an audience, but it is not always mandatory for them to do this to experience pleasure. Voyeurism – opposed yet closely related to exhibitionism, voyeurism is when a person enjoys watching other people participate in sexual activity. Voyeurs find this intensely arousing, but they don’t need it constantly to experience sexual pleasure. Role Play – this activity involves the partners portraying different characters during sex. These can be people you are familiar with or fictional characters, basically whatever fits your fancy. Virtual sex – often done in this digital age, virtual sex is anything sexual you do over the internet. It includes dirty texts, sexy pics, sexting, and digital sex parties, as well as using app-controlled sex toys with long-distance control. Fetishes are more defined than kinks and often require a specific object or an act to experience arousal and sexual pleasure. Here we list some of the most often found fetishes: Bondage – one aspect of BDSM, bondage includes one partner restraining the other partner with specific BDSM restraints. Bondage can be a kink for many, but people who have a bondage fetish usually can’t get aroused without restraining their partner (or being restrained themselves). Foot fetish – this fetish is when a person needs close interaction with feet to feel arousal and sexual pleasure. People with a foot fetish are aroused by anything related to feet. They can interact with these in different ways, like looking at feet or images of feet, kissing feet, or any other interaction with feet. Nylon/vinyl fetish – this fetish involves the person wearing nylon or vinyl clothes or having their partner wear nylon during foreplay or sex. These are often BDSM lingerie items that are designed to accent specific body parts. Uniform fetish – this is a common fetish where a uniform sexually arouses a person. It can be a regular or sexualized costume, such as a schoolgirl uniform, French maid uniform, nurse uniform, military uniform, police uniform, or other uniforms. It is also a common kink. Leather – many people have a leather fetish, and this includes them or their partner wearing leather clothes or using leather implements. Final Thoughts Before we let you go to explore our sex toy store and check out all the amazing kink and fetish toys we carry for you, we need to note that there is nothing wrong with having sexual kinks and fetishes, as long as these are not harmful to you or others. While society may stigmatize some kinks and fetishes, when practiced safely, these can be arousing and fulfilling experiences. Always talk to your partner about your desires, and remember that it is natural to explore all your kinks and fetishes in a safe, consensual way. 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Sexy spanking can really add a new layer to your playtime, and this action can arouse your senses like nothing else. But you can use spanking as a sexy punishment or a way to keep your partner in place. However, if you decide to use spanking, you will need a special tool for this action, as using your hand can be convenient, but not as effective as using a paddle. So, we tested a bunch of paddles, and here we share our selection for the best spanking paddles you can find in our shop. Read on as we share our recommendations and key tips on finding the best sexy spanking paddle for you. Quick Overview of Our Top Picks Best Overall: Strict Leather Fur Lined Paddle Best for Beginners: Rogue Mini Oval Paddle Best Spanking Set: Lovers Kits Whip, Paddle & Tickle Best Leather Paddle: Strict Leather Black Fraternity Paddle Best Imprint Paddle: Slut Steel Enforced Spanking Paddle Best Wooden Paddle: Strict Wooden Paddle Best Padded Paddle: Leather Padded Paddle Best Slapping Paddle: 19 Inch Slapper Paddle Best Textured Paddle: Tread Carefully Spanking Paddle Best Loop Paddle: Saffron Loop Paddle The Best Deals This Week* Strict Leather Fur Lined Paddle — $137.99 (List Price $190.99) Strict Leather Studded Paddle — $120.99 (List Price $155.99) Leather Padded Paddle — $106.99 (List Price $142.99) Strict Leather Black Fraternity Paddle — $95.99 (List Price $122.99) STRICT Wooden Paddle — $42.99 (List Price $57.99) *Deals are selected by our commerce team Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Strict Leather Fur Lined Paddle Best Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 5/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Strict Leather Fur Lined Paddle as our premier choice for a spanking paddle because this model felt perfect in our hands. The weight of the paddle is just right, neither too light nor too heavy, but perfect for providing a nice smack on your partner’s behind. We love that the Strict Leather Fur Lined Paddle is made from genuine, thick latigo leather that has just the right amount of flexibility. One side is made of leather and provides a nice, spanking sound and a stinging sensation, while the other side is made from soft, sensual fur, best suited for an alluring touch. The handle is long and easy to grip, and the end features a metal ring hole with a wrist strap attached. We have to say that with proper use and care, the Strict Leather Fur Lined Paddle should last you a lifetime and be a trusty companion through countless spanking sessions. Who It's For We believe that the Strict Leather Fur Lined Paddle is suitable for everyone, as it is a two-sided model, allowing you to either discipline your partner with the leather side or provide them with a sensual touch using the fur-lined side.. Reasons to Buy ✓  Genuine leather paddle ✓  Fur-lined side ✓  Easy-grip handle with wrist loop ✓  Easy to maintain Reasons to Avoid ✗  Expensive Specs Dimensions 15.5" x 5.75" Material Leather, Faux Fur Sold out See It Now Rouge Mini Oval Paddle Best for Beginners Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 4/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Beginners Why We Picked It We added the Rogue Mini Oval Paddle to our list, as this little spanking paddle is so cute and easy to use that we think beginners and gentle players will genuinely enjoy it. The paddle is oval and thick, made from leather. The paddle attaches to a flexible glass fiber rod, which continues into a contoured handle that is easy to grip. The handle is wrapped in leather, making it easy to hold and use, even with sweaty hands. The end of the handle features a wrist loop that allows you to attach the Rogue Mini Oval Paddle to your hand, belt, or hang it up for storage. The spanking paddle’s surface has the word ‘Rogue’ imprinted in the leather, but this is not pronounced enough to leave an imprint on the skin. However, when we tested it, we found that you can so easily use this to spank your partner’s sensitive areas like the inner thighs, the nipples and the pussy. Who It's For The Rogue Mini Oval Paddle is ideal for beginners in spanking who are seeking a compact, easily controlled spanking paddle to use on their partner. . Reasons to Buy ✓  Leather surface ✓  Small oval shape ✓  Contoured handle ✓  Wrist/hanging loop Reasons to Avoid ✗  May be small for experienced users Specs Dimensions 10.2" Material Leather Lovers Kits Whip, Paddle & Tickle Best Spanking Set Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 4/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 5/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We chose the Lovers Kits Whip, Paddle & Tickle because this kit is an all-encompassing set with everything beginners in spanking will need. The set comes with a spanking paddle, a tickler/crop combo, and a small flogger. The spanking paddle is made from a glass fiber spine that is encased in vegan leather, featuring a sexy red and black patterned finish. The paddle is firm and has XOXO cutouts on one side, leaving a sexy XOXO in red on the skin. The flogger is made from black faux leather and features a simple braided handle and multiple strands designed to gently arouse the skin. The riding crop and feather tickler combo is fun to use, as it features a dual-end design. One side is a faux feather ball you can use to tease and tickle your partner, and the other side is a small riding crop or a small spanking paddle to spank and arouse their sensitive regions. We love that vegan leather is easy to maintain. Who It's For The Lovers Kits Whip, Paddle & Tickle is an excellent choice for beginners and anyone else who wants to try impact toys and prefers an all-in-one spanking set. Reasons to Buy ✓  Flogger, paddle, and tickler in the set ✓  XOXO imprint paddle ✓  Vegan leather and faux fur ✓  Glass fiber reinforced paddle Reasons to Avoid ✗  May be lacking for experienced users Specs Material PU, Glass Fiber, Feather, ABS Strict Leather Black Fraternity Paddle Best Leather Paddle Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 5/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Experienced Users Why We Picked It We chose the Strict Leather Black Fraternity Paddle as this is a sexy spanking paddle made entirely from genuine leather. The paddle is long and wide, with a nice shape and comfortable handle. We found that the handle fits better for users with larger hands, and the wrist cord at the end is a nice little addition to the paddle. We love the feel of the leather, as the paddle is somewhat flexible but maintains its rigidity when in use. It means you can pace your smacks and deliver differing sensations. If you paddle swiftly and forcefully, the paddle will feel stiff, and if you paddle more slowly and gently, the paddle will feel soft. We appreciate the nice stitching on the side of the paddle, which makes it durable and easy to clean and maintain. If necessary, you can clean it with a damp towel and use leather conditioner to keep the leather surface supple. Who It's For We believe the Strict Leather Black Fraternity Paddle is designed for experienced users seeking a high-quality spanking paddle entirely made of leather. Reasons to Buy ✓  Genuine leather construction ✓  Long paddle ✓  Comfortable handle with wrist cord ✓  Smooth surface Reasons to Avoid ✗  Expensive Specs Dimensions 11" x 3" Material Leather Sold out See It Now Slut Steel Enforced Spanking Paddle Best Imprint Paddle Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 5/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Experienced Users Why We Picked It We chose the Slut Steel Enforced Spanking Paddle because this model is sexy and fun to use. We tested it thoroughly and were amazed by the SLUT imprint it leaves on the skin. The paddle features a steel spine that runs the entire length of the paddle, providing just enough flexibility when in use. The steel is encased in vegan leather in black, with a sexy SLUT cutout that exposes the red leather underneath. The handle is not the most comfortable, but it is still easy enough to handle the paddle. The end features a wrist cord, allowing you to wear it on your wrist or to proudly display this imprint spanking paddle on your wall of toys. We appreciate that the vegan leather is easy to maintain, as it only requires spot cleaning with a damp towel. Who It's For The Slut Steel Enforced Spanking Paddle is for experienced users who know how to wield a steel-spine spanking paddle and leave a sexy imprint for maximum effect. Reasons to Buy ✓  SLUT imprint ✓  Steel spine ✓  PU leather ✓  Wrist strap Reasons to Avoid ✗  Too harsh for beginners Specs Dimensions 12.5" x 2.5" Material Vegan Leather, Steel Sold out See It Now STRICT Wooden Paddle Best Wooden Paddle Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 5/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Experienced Users Why We Picked It We chose the Strict Wooden Paddle because this is the wooden spanking paddle that caught our attention the most. We love the solid beech wood that looks lovely and warm, but is anything but. The paddle is smooth and features holes for improved airflow, creating a sexy “whooshing” sound. However, the holes on the paddle make it more aerodynamic, allowing you to better pace your swings and hit the ball. The handle is simple and easy to grip, and you can wield the Strict Wooden Paddle with speed and power, delivering hard strokes that will redden your sub’s skin and make it glow with heat and pleasure. The beech wood features a natural finish that is durable and easy to clean. Please note that this paddle is not waterproof; however, it can be spot-cleaned with a damp towel. Who It's For The Strict Wooden Paddle is designed for more experienced practitioners who prefer a wooden spanking paddle, as it provides a resounding, satisfying smack. Reasons to Buy ✓  Durable beech wood ✓  Holes for airflow ✓  Comfortable handle ✓  Natural finish Reasons to Avoid ✗  Not for beginners Specs Dimensions 17.75" x 3.5" Material Beech Woodr Leather Padded Paddle Best Padded Paddle Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 5/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Experienced Users Why We Picked It We chose the Leather Padded Paddle because we found all its features amazing. The paddle has a seriously sexy design and offers numerous use options. We love that it’s quite substantial and can comfortably accommodate users with larger hands. The handle is round and made from metal, adding a cool weight and making it easy to control. A small wrist loop is located at the end of the handle for easy use and storage. However, the real appeal of the Leather Padded Paddle lies in its double-sided spanking surface, which is made from leather and is quite long and wide. One side is smooth and provides quite a sting, while the other is thick and padded. It is made from genuine leather that looks sexy and is comfortable on the skin. The Leather Padded Paddle is a quality-made paddle that should last you a long time. Who It's For The Leather Padded Paddle is a good option for experienced BDSM practitioners who want a sexy paddle with multiple use options. Reasons to Buy ✓  Double-sided paddle ✓  Thick, padded side ✓  Substantial and sturdy design ✓  Large handle with wrist loop Reasons to Avoid ✗  Expensive Specs Dimensions 17.25" x 4.5" Material Leather, Metal Sold out See It Now 19 Inch Slapper Paddle Best Slapping Paddle Our Rating: 4.8/5Quality: 5/5Design: 4/5Intensity: 5/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone, Experienced Users Why We Picked It We chose the 19-inch Slapper Paddle because we found this model to be perfect for slapping your partner. If you enjoy the sensation of slapping and stinging and want to create a biting impact, then you will find this to be an excellent option. The core of the 19 Inch Slapper Paddle is a metal spine that extends the full length of the paddle and is flexible. It is encased in smooth PU leather that looks sexy and serious. There is no extra padding around the metal, so your sub will feel the sting and slapping. We tested it on various locations on the body, and we love that while it provides a good slapping sound and a stinging sensation, it delivers a more intense sensation on sensitive parts like the thighs. Therefore, we think that people who enjoy pain will like this model a lot. The PU leather is easy to clean and maintain, and the paddle is durable, ensuring it lasts a long time. Who It's For The 19-inch Slapper Paddle is designed for more experienced couples who want to experiment with pain and stinging sensations, seeking a paddle that is flexible, durable, and easy to use. Reasons to Buy ✓  Long paddle for stinging sensations ✓  Solid metal core ✓  PU leather outer layer ✓  Durable design Reasons to Avoid ✗  It may be too vicious for some Specs Dimensions 19" x 2" Material Faux Leather, Metal Sold out See It Now Tread Carefully Spanking Paddle Best Textured Paddle Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 4/5Manitenance: 5/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Tread Carefully Spanking Paddle because this Italian-made spanking paddle caught our attention and our imagination. We love the simple yet exciting design, as it is a double-sided model that allows for a great deal of flexibility in use. The paddle is made from rubber and features a tire-like tread on one side, while the other side is smooth, providing versatile options. It is neither overly flexible nor overly firm, and we found that it allows for a more stinging sensation on the skin. We must mention that the handle is nicely shaped and optimized for easy gripping, as the threads on the paddle extend up to the handle. The top of the handle features a metal ring that allows you to attach a strap or hang your paddle once you’re done using it on your sub. We’ll conclude our review of the Tread Carefully Spanking Paddle by noting that this paddle is waterproof and easy to maintain. Who It's For We believe that the Tread Carefully Spanking Paddle can be an excellent choice for many, especially for users who want to leave sexy impressions on their subs’ skin. Reasons to Buy ✓  Stylish, provocative design ✓  Double-sided spanking paddle ✓  Flexible and waterproof ✓  Leaves unique marks Reasons to Avoid ✗  It may be too stingy for some Specs Dimensions 15" Material Rubber Saffron Loop Paddle Best Loop Paddle Our Rating: 4.9/5Quality: 5/5Design: 5/5Intensity: 5/5Manitenance: 4/5Recommended For: Everyone Why We Picked It We added the Saffron Loop Paddle to our list because we found this spanking paddle to be unique and provide a striking impression on your sub’s skin. The paddle features a simple design reminiscent of a looped belt or the tip of a riding crop. It means it will provide a satisfying smacking sound when slapped on the skin and bring up the blood to the surface, reddening the skin and making it glow with pleasure. The Saffron Loop Paddle features a simple handle that is easy to hold and a wrist loop that allows you to keep the paddle handy by placing it around your wrist, or use it to hang up the paddle when not in use. We love the Saffron Loop Paddle because it is also convenient for different uses; you can use it for light spanking and achieve a thudding sensation, and with heavier spanking, you will achieve a more stinging sensation. Made from PU leather, it is easy to clean and maintain. Who It's For The Saffron Loop Paddle is designed for users who want an exciting spanking paddle with a unique design and versatile use options. Reasons to Buy ✓  PU leather material ✓  Folded loop design ✓  Wrist strap ✓  Sexy red and black colors Reasons to Avoid ✗  Not genuine leather Specs Dimensions 17" Material PU Leather Why Trust Our Reviews? HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use. Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you. When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight. Key Things about Spanking Paddles We have a complete guide on how to choose a BDSM spanking paddle, where we cover all the essential details at length, but our blog is also full of other educational guides on choosing and using various sex toys. So, here we’ll only list the main things to know when shopping for a spanking paddle: Material – the material the spanking paddle is made from will determine the effect it will deliver, and you can choose between a paddle made from wood, plastic, leather, rubber, fur, and metal. Design – there are exciting spanking paddle designs like models with cutouts or patterns that leave imprints on the skin, studded paddles, or paddles with holes that make a sexy “whooshing” sound when you wield them. Size – the size of the paddle decides the sting it will deliver, so a large paddle makes a less pronounced sting, while a smaller paddle can provide a more pronounced sting. Still, you must note that the swinging force is also essential for the pain the paddle will cause on the skin. Thickness & padding – the paddle’s thickness relates to the stinging force it requires for wielding. A thin, unpadded spanking paddle will be much easier to swing and will provide a stinging sensation. A thick, or a padded, spanking paddle will require more force to use, and it will offer a thudding sensation. The Bottom Line There you have it, guys, our recommendations for the best spanking paddles that can make an impact in your sex life. While our list here is short, we have a lot more models for you in our sex toy store. Feel free to browse it, and you’ll be impressed by the fantastic selection of BDSM toys and tools like canes, ticklers, whips, BDSM tools, sex furniture, sexy lingerie, and all other essentials you may need for a more fulfilling sex life. 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The BDSM collar has multiple applications, from holding the person in place to a symbol of a devoted BDSM relationship. The collar is a powerful tool, and it has a different meaning in different bondage scenarios. Here, our experts will expand more on buying and wearing a BDSM collar. We’ll also share our guide on how to choose a BDSM collar and touch upon the symbolism of wearing a collar. What Is a BDSM Collar? The BDSM collar is a symbol of the bond, trust, and commitment a couple shares; it is leather, faux leather, or a metal collar worn around the neck. The collar is a potent symbol in the BDSM relationship, as it is not something that devoted couples take lightly. In fact, the collar in a BDSM relationship has the same weight as a wedding ring. The ceremony of gifting someone a collar is aptly named collaring, and it symbolizes a strong relationship. The Dominant partner gifts and places the collar on their submissive partner, marking the ownership status. We’ll not delve deeper into the intricacies of BDSM relationships, as this is a topic for another time. We’ll only mention that collars also have a playful nature, especially collars with additions like a metal O-ring where a suitable attachment can be added. Shop BDSM Collars Sold out Sold out Sold out Sold out See More How to Select a BDSM Collar? No matter the actual use of the collar, you need to select a model that will be comfortable and look good. Because one of the Dominant partner’s role is to take care of their submissive partner, the choice of collar is essential, but you will also need to select a collar that will fit the ways you wish to use it. Here, our experts share the key things to note when choosing a BDSM collar: Design – the collar’s design is what will attract your attention first. You can select a broad leather collar that makes a statement, or you can get a slim metal collar or something else, depending on your preferences and wishes. Size – before you buy the collar, you need to measure the size of the sub’s neck and always refer to the sizing guide we have in the product description. The collar needs to be the right size to fit the wearer, as you don’t want your sub to be hurt or pass out because you’ve put on a too-tight collar. That is why there are different collars for men and collars for women. Material – you can get a leather collar, a faux leather collar, or a metal collar, but there are also collars made from synthetic materials. In any case, you need to make sure the artistry is precise, and no sharp edges or anything is poking the delicate skin on the wearer’s neck. It is significant for the day collars, as these are the models that subs wear throughout the day in everyday activities and in scenes where it would be inappropriate or impractical for them to wear a hardcore BDSM collar. Accessories – many BDSM collars come with added accessories like a heart-shaped pendant, a tiny padlock locker, a bow, a bell, and an O or D-ring. Some playtime collars feature attached ball gags, nipple clamps, handcuffs, and even collar-chest harness designs and collars with a leash. Our experts covered the basics of how to select a BDSM collar, and we hope you find it helpful. We also prepared a broad collection of guides on how to choose and use different BDSM tools and various sex toys. Feel free to browse our sex toy store, where we carry a fantastic selection of BDSM collars, chokers, BDSM & fetish clothing, BDSM tools, sex furniture, whips, canes, ticklers, and a lot more. FAQs What does a collar symbolize in BDSM? In BDSM relationships, the collar has a profound meaning; it is a symbol of devotion and trust between a Dominant and a submissive partner. But the collar can also be worn in a casual bondage relationship as a way to restrict the submissive partner and restrain them in a particular scene, in a debasement scenario, or in another setting. Why do people like being collared? BDSM practitioners may wear a collar for several reasons: these signify ownership in a Dom/sub relationship, proving that a Dominant owns the submissive. Also, the collar has a visual appeal, as it is worn on the neck, which is one of the most fragile places on the person’s body. There is also a psychological aspect, as the collar reminds us of human fragility, connection, commitment, and being true to your desires. Learn More With Our Other Sex Toy Guides: How To Choose BDSM Chains? How To Choose a BDSM Cane? How To Choose a BDSM Crop? How To Choose a BDSM Whip? How To Choose a BDSM Flogger? How To Choose a BDSM Paddle? How To Choose a BDSM Pinwheel? How To Choose Wax Play Candles? How To Choose Sex Sheets? How To Choose a Sex Pillow? How To Choose a Sex Machine? How To Choose a Sex Bench?