There are no limits to what you can do, as you are free to experiment and try all the things that will give you sexual pleasure. When it comes to playing with sex toys, no rule states you should only use one toy at a time. You can use multiple toys, combine them in various ways, and open up a whole new level of sensations and sexual satisfaction. We prepared the following guide on how to combine sex toys like a pro and explore deeper levels of sexual pleasure.
Know Yourself
Before you delve into the pleasurable world of sexual exploration, the first thing you need to do is take some time and think about what you enjoy. Taking the time to understand what your body likes and how it responds to the differing sensations is key for enhanced pleasure. Think of the kind of pressure you enjoy. Do you enjoy vibrations or pressure, or do you want to try varying rhythms; these are the main things that you should be aware of when it comes to exploring your body. Being aware of what type of pleasure you enjoy is the precursor to knowing the kind of sex toys you can use.
Start Slow
When we say start slow, we really mean slow. You should never overwhelm your body with sensations all at once, as it will most likely overload your senses and ruin your experience. Instead, start slowly, first with one toy and then introduce another one. We recommend this for every sex game you engage in; the wise thing is to start slow, get used to the sensations, and slowly ease into playing.
Begin with Simple Combinations
Our main advice is to begin with simple combinations like the classic internal and external sensations. We recommend a classic combination of using a dildo, G-spot vibe, or an anal vibe or butt plug and then adding in an external stimulation toy like a clitoral vibrator, a finger vibe, or a bullet vibe. Such a toy combination creates a layered experience, as it stimulates different erogenous zones at the same time.
Use different speeds or vibrating patterns for the internal and external stimulation toys so the sensations won’t clash but will complement each other. One suggestion is to use deep, rumbly internal stimulations with fast, buzzing external stimulations that complement each other.
Mix & Match
A tip from the professionals is to think beyond the genitals – don’t focus all your attention on stimulating the genitalia. What you should do instead is to focus some of the attention on your other erogenous zones, like the neck, inner thighs, and especially the nipples, while having a toy stimulating your primary erogenous zones. The toy that you use in the genitalia should be set on the lower settings so you can enjoy the pleasure for longer. It is an excellent way to build up anticipation, intensify the sensations, and experience a really strong toe-curling orgasm.
Think of combining a clitoral suction toy on the clit while having a butt plug stretching your behind. Or add a wand massager to the mix, either during penetrative sex or while you use a G-spot vibe or anal beads. Adding nipple suckers to the mix will keep the breasts engaged while you can use a penetrative toy for the genitals.
Combine Wearable & Hands-Free Sex Toy Models
There are plenty of sex toys that are designed to be used as hands-free toys. Some of these are wearable or harness-compatible, while others attach to furniture and can be ridden as such. Using one or more of these is an excellent way to leave your hands free for additional exploration.
One example is to use a wearable panty vibe that provides clitoral stimulation and use an anal plug. Or maybe use a vibrating egg while wearing nipple clamps, or put on a strap-on butterfly vibe that will tease your clit, and then add a dildo for more fun.
While these suggestions are more aimed at women, men can also combine multiple sex toys. Some of these combinations are a pocket pussy and a prostate massager, an interactive masturbator with a cock ring, or a hollow strap-on dildo with an anal toy. Many guys also find it especially fun when someone is performing oral sex and uses a sex toy to amplify the sensations. It can be a small bullet vibe applied to the testicles, a dildo for men, or even a prostate massager, as this provides multiple sensation points that can drive them wild with pleasure.
Engage Your Partner
Sex toys are not only for solo play, but these can be perfect to use with a partner. You can use so many different sex toys with your partner, and you will both achieve highly satisfying pleasure. The man could wear a prostate massager while engaging in penetrative sex, or they can wear a cock ring that will enhance their performance. Another suggestion is for you to use one toy on your partner, and they use another toy on you – simultaneous stimulation for both partners.
You can also consider investing in a remote-controlled sex toy, where you can give the remote to your partner, and they get to control the vibrations you experience and get to watch you take your pleasure. An even better investment is the app-controlled vibrators. Most of these allow close-range and long-distance control, and many allow customization of the features, which means more playing options.
If you enjoy kinky play, then you can also try using hand or ankle cuffs or other restraints and combine these when playing with a vibe. Your partner can restrain you with rope or bondage restraints, or they can put a blindfold on and then apply one or more sex toys to your erogenous zones. Using a clitoral clamp on the clit while using a dildo or an insertable vibe for penetrative sex can be a lot overwhelming, and we don’t recommend this for beginners. Still, experienced users can try such sex toy combinations with spectacular results.
Tips to Comfortably Combine Sex Toys
Now that we’ve shared some key suggestions on how to combine multiple sex toys, we must also share several tips on the things that will help you be more comfortable and safe. These are simple tips that we found to be highly effective in putting your mind and body at ease when you play with multiple sex toys.
- Use plenty of lube – using sex toys usually means friction and multiple sex toys mean more friction. So, lube is key for safe, comfortable play. Please don’t be stingy with the lube, but don’t go overboard with it, as too little will not do its work, and too much will dampen the sensations. We recommend you use a quality water-based lube that is compatible with all sex toy materials, is body-safe, and can be used for internal and external sex toy use. If the water-based lube starts to dry out, you can either reactivate it with a drop of water or a dab of saliva, or you can reapply more if necessary.
- Open communication is key – if you engage your partner when playing with multiple sex toys, then make sure you have open communication with them. Always make sure your partner knows how you feel and that you both are comfortable with the things you do. Don’t be afraid to speak up if something does not work or if things start to feel uncomfortable or painful. Also, if something does not feel good, it is okay to stop it and adjust things to your liking.
- Clean toys are essential – we are always emphasizing the importance of using clean sex toys, and we have specific guides on how to clean different sex toys, which we urge you to check out. When playing with other sex toys, it is essential to keep them clean, especially when you are using these on various body parts, for example, for vaginal and anal penetration. If you intend to use a sex toy for anal penetration and later use it for vaginal penetration, then we advise you to use a condom over the toy to prevent infection. Also, after you are done, clean all your toys per the manufacturer’s instructions, disinfect them, and store them in adequate sex toy storage bags.
The Bottom Line
We hope that we have covered the basics of how to use two or more sex toys at once and achieve highly pleasurable sensations. We recommend you take a step further and read through our blog posts, as we have specific guides on how to choose and how to use different sex toys for maximum pleasure. Also, we invite you to check out our sexy activities page for more inspiration and browse our sex toy store, where you will find an incredible offer of various sex toys that you can combine and enjoy pure satisfaction.