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Chin dildos and chin strap sex toys are best suited for couples and individuals interested in exploring power dynamics, roleplay, and hands-free positioning in a controlled, intentional way. From my experience reviewing this category, these toys help solve a specific challenge: creating structured oral positioning or strap-based play without relying on traditional harnesses. In this guide to the best chin dildos, I focused on clarity of design, overall construction, comfort during wear, and value. These picks were selected by reviewing product positioning, customer interest patterns, and how each option fits into real-world use, whether you’re exploring this style of play for the first time or looking for a more refined option.

Penis milking machines are best for men who want a more intense and automated solo experience than manual stimulation can provide. This category solves common issues like hand fatigue, inconsistent pressure, and the desire for deeper, more immersive sensations with minimal effort. To create this list of the best penis milking machines, our test team researched, explored, and tested a wide range of automatic strokers. We focused on build quality, performance, features, ease of use, cleaning, discretion, and price. Each pick below earned its spot through hands-on testing and consistent customer feedback.

A clean bum is important for health reasons, but it is also a perfect preparation for anal sex. Sometimes you can do it with a simple bowel movement and a warm shower, but it is also good to do an anal douche from time to time to rinse and clean the rectum, so you will feel clean and confident when you engage in anal play. Here, our experts will outline all you need to know about anal douches, from how to choose an anal douche, the safety concerns, and how to effectively use the anal douche for a clean bum and clean anal playtime. What Is an Anal Douche? Anal douching is a procedure where you use a special anal douche tool to flush your rectum with water. It is a simple and safe procedure where you squirt warm water in the rectum and expel it, taking all remnants of feces with it, leaving you feeling cleaner. It is an excellent way to take care of any worry about poop coming out and running your fun. You can find a lot of specialized anal douche tools that make the entire anal douching quick and straightforward to do. Shop Anal Douches and Enemas ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose an Anal Douche? When you choose an anal douche, here are the things you need to know that will make the entire process more comfortable: The type of nozzle – the nozzle is the most critical part of the anal douche, as it goes into the rectum. You can pick a straight nozzle that shoots in a straight line, but there are also wide-spray nozzles that shoot water in multiple directions, more quickly cover a wider area, and provide a thorough cleaning. The length and width of the nozzle – you need to consider the size and the width of the nozzle, but this comes down to personal preference. The longer enema nozzle can reach deeper into the rectum, while the shorter one will only reach near the entrance. The diameter of the nozzle is also essential, and beginners should stick to a thin, short anal douche tool. Experienced users can probably handle a broader and longer nozzle that can reach more depth. Liquid capacity – here, we are talking about the anal douche’s capacity to hold liquid. For example, syringe-like models have a small capacity; the douche bulbs can hold more liquid, while the enema bags can hold a lot of volume. Again, it comes down to personal preference and how often you plan on using the anal douche. If you are looking for a reliable model for regular use, then you can get a shower enema set. Material – the anal douche nozzle can be made from silicone, plastic, or metal. Metal and plastic models are non-flexible and require careful positioning when you use them, while silicone and some plastics are flexible, and you can more easily use these. Extra features – yes, there are anal douches with additional features, and one is the shape of the nozzle, as there are models with bead-like nozzles that not only provide you with a way to clean your rectum but also provide a pleasurable experience. Some models are grooved or patterned, and these not only help flush the rectum but are also helpful as pleasure nozzles. Types of Anal Douches Anal douches come in several types, and choosing the one that appeals to you the most is down to personal preference, as all of these have the same purpose of flushing the rectum and giving you a clean area to play: Anal douche bulbs – these are the simplest of all models, as they feature a spray nozzle and a bulb that holds the liquid. To use this model, insert the spray nozzle in the anus and squeeze the bulb. Water bottle enema adapter – this is not a complete anal douche, but it is an adapter that fits over a water bottle that you can use to do an anal douche. Enema bottle – this is a complete enema kit that includes a pump-action bottle connected to a hose and a spray nozzle. Shower enema set – this is a complete set that you attach to your shower and use to flush your rectum. These don’t have a water container, but use the water flow from the house pipes to rinse the anus, but you need to be careful, adjust the temperature and the water pressure. Benefits of Anal Douching Anal douching has several health benefits on top of providing a feeling of freshness and comfort. It reduces contact with fecal matter, bacteria, and parasites and is a highly hygienic thing to put you at ease when you engage in any anal play. For many people, anal douching before sex is a way to feel cleaner and to enhance their pleasure. But as there are benefits, there are downsides to anal douching, as you need to be careful when anal douching. You must be careful not to use too warm water or use the wrong douching equipment. Don’t use any soap when douching, as this poses a health risk. Tips to Safely Do an Anal Douche First thing, try to have a bowel movement, i.e., poop, as it will take care of the majority of fecal matter in the rectum. Then, wash the anus with warm water and soap, and make sure the area is free of dirt and hair. Make sure you wash your hands and all the equipment before and after douching, and follow these tips: Use warm water that is at body temperature, as the tissues in the anus are sensitive, and you can inadvertently burn yourself. Squeeze as much of the liquid as possible from the nozzle, then release the pressure, flushing the anus. Use very little water when you first douche, and hold the liquid for about 30 seconds, allowing the solution to reach all the tissues. Try to relax as much as possible, as you can make yourself uncomfortable if you hold your breath. Don’t exaggerate with anal douching, but you can do it regularly. We suggest you limit your anal douching routine to two times per week, as any more than this, you risk damaging your rectum or your colon. Use water-based lube to insert the douche nozzle into your anus. It will make things easier, and you won’t risk tearing the sensitive skin on your anus. ===COLLECTION=== We made this short guide on how to choose an anal douche, and it only covers the basics, but we also have a detailed guide on how to do an anal douche, and we have plenty of other posts on choosing and using different sex toys in our blog. We invite you to browse our sex toy store, where you will find an exciting selection of sex toys like anal toys, dildos, vibrators, male toys, BDSM tools, sexy lingerie, lubes & essentials, and more. Learn More With Our Anal Sex Toy Guides: How to Anal Douche? How to Use Anal Toys? How to Use Anal Trainers? How to Choose Anal Toys? How to Use an Inflatable Butt Plug? How to Use a Butt Plug? How to Choose a Jeweled Butt Plug? 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The butt plug is fun and versatile and is among the most-used sex toys in the world. These come in different sizes, are made from various materials, and have varying shapes and textures. And one type of butt plug is a favorite item of lovers of role-play games and people with animal fetishes. We are, of course, talking about tail butt plugs – butt plug models that bring a high dose of excitement to your sexy playtime. Here, we discuss all the specifics on how to choose a tail butt plug, how to clean and maintain a tail butt plug, and how to safely use this exciting sex toy. What Is a Tail Butt Plug? The tail butt plugs are butt plugs that have tails attached to the base, providing a perfect anal stretch while also fulfilling a sexy fantasy. These come in various sizes and have tail attachments replicating different animals, ranging from fox tails, kitty tails, bunny tails, unicorns, or mythical creatures, allowing the wearer to transform and play out different sexy scenarios. The insertable butt plugs are made from silicone, metal, or another material, providing a safe and exciting experience. Shop Tail Butt Plugs ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose a Tail Butt Plug? When choosing a tail butt plug, you need to know several things that will help you find the best model for you. Here, our experts expand on all the facts that will help you select a suitable tail plug for your needs: Your experience level – this is the primary thing to consider when you select a sex toy is your previous experience. If you are just starting with anal toys, we recommend you get a smaller butt plug that will be easier to insert and wear so that you can get used to the sensations. You can also start with an anal training kit, and after you gain some experience, you can move on to a larger tail butt plug. Design – you can select butt plugs that have a slim, elongated shape, or you can get models that have a spade-like shape, or you can get a model with bulbs or some other exciting yet ergonomic shape. The shape of your chosen tail butt plug will determine how long you can wear it and how much of a stretch it will provide. Butt plug material – the tail butt plugs are usually made from silicone, metal, or TPE/PVC. These are body-safe materials and are comfortable to use. We always emphasize that you need to select models made from silicone or metal, as these are non-porous and very easy to clean. Tail – you can get butt plugs with various tails, ranging from small fluffy bunny tails and runner puppy tails to long fox tails, cat tails, unicorn tails, and so much more. Also, you can get a model that has the tail firmly attached to the butt plug or get a model with a detachable butt plug that you can remove when you don’t want to play with it or for easy cleaning. The tails are usually made from faux fur that is easy to maintain, but you can also find models with genuine fur that require extra diligence for cleaning and maintenance. Extra features – you can find tail butt plugs that vibrate, get textured tail butt plugs, or models with interchangeable tails. Types of Tail Butt Plugs The tail butt plugs come in different shapes and sizes, but where they really differ is in the tail attachments, so here we list the various tail butt plugs you can find in our store: Fox tail butt plug Cat tail butt plug Mink tail butt plug Bunny tail butt plug Puppy tail butt plug Pony tail butt plug Unicorn tail butt plug Rainbow tail butt plug Benefits of Using a Tail Butt Plug Using a tail butt plug gives you all the benefits you would get from a regular butt plug, with the addition of enhancing your role-playing games. We recommend you get a butt plug made from a body-safe material like silicone, glass, or stainless steel, get a tail that fits your fantasies, and enjoy the following benefits: Role-play – the tail butt plugs are perfect for satisfying your role-playing fantasies. If you enjoy puppy play or wish to transform into a sex kitten or a sly, sexy fox, then a tail butt plug is the perfect sexy toy to get and live out your sexual fetishes. Targeted anal pleasure – using a butt plug is a way to ensure you get targeted anal stimulation that will stretch the anus and excite the nerve endings there, which is a highly pleasurable activity for many. Train your anus for sex – wearing a butt plug prepares the anus for penetrative sex, and the tail butt plug combines several fantasies into one. Tips to Safely Use a Tail Butt Plug We suggest you start your tail butt plug adventures with a smaller butt plug that you can more easily and more comfortably wear. Before you begin with anal play, it is recommended to have a bowel movement (poop) before you start; you can also do an anal douche to rinse and clean your rectum to feel extra clean and comfortable. Here are some other helpful tips when you use a tail butt plug: Always use compatible lube – you must use water-based lube with your silicone butt plug, and you can use silicone-based lube if you have a metal or glass butt plug. Try to limit the lube to the insertable part and not get lube on the tail section, as it will ruin the visual effect, and you’ll have to thoroughly clean the entire toy. Start slow and easy – always start slow with anal play, preferably with enough foreplay to get your body in the mood. Don’t force the butt plug in the anus, but listen to your body’s responses, relax, and breathe deeply so that you can have a highly satisfactory time. Clean your butt plug – cleaning your tail butt plug is essential, as you need to clean it before and after use. If your tail butt plug has a removable tail, you should remove it and wash each part separately. The non-vibrating butt plugs are effortless to wash, as you can use sex toy cleaner and warm water. Cleaning the tail requires more diligence, depending on whether it is made from faux or real fur. For this, you must follow the manufacturer’s instructions to wash the tail section of your tail butt plug. ===COLLECTION=== We shared our guide on how to choose a tail butt plug that only covers the basics, but we also have a lot more information and guides on choosing and using other sex toys in our blog. Please browse our sex toy store, where you’ll find sex toy models for everyone’s taste, like dildos, vibrators, male toys, BDSM tools & toys, sexy lingerie, lubes, and more.

While the butt is considered a highly desirable feature of both men and women, anal play is still discussed only behind closed doors and pulled curtains. And why would we focus so much on the butt if we can't play with it? While most people may not be willing to say it openly, many have tried experimenting with anal play and liked doing it. Whatever your gender or sexual orientation, anal play can be a pleasurable experience that opens a whole new hole (pun intended) for you. Anal play isn't a single act; it can involve numerous toys and different sensations. However, before you get on with it, there are certain things you need to know about stretching your anus in a safe and ultimately pleasurable way. Anal stretching vs. anal gaping Before engaging in anal play, stretching your anus is recommended. Anal stretching will help you open the anal gape, which is the look of the anus after perpetual extension. But how do you get there? For your anal stretching, you can use fingers and numerous sex toys, starting with small butt plugs and anal beads to large dildos. The stretching should be done gradually and with the consent of the receiving partner. Since the anus is flexible and tends to return to its primary form, some stretching won't open the anal gape. Gaping occurs only after extended anal play when the muscles are fully relaxed and open. It’s appealing for several reasons and can make sex more manageable and comfortable for the recipient, reducing pain levels. Purposeful anal stretching to create the anal gape is frequently used in BDSM to challenge power dynamics between the dominant and submissive partner. Getting ready for anal play Anal play is fun and undoubtedly pleasurable both for the giver and the receiver; however, it does require a little preparation. Anal stretching is part of the process, although it may be considered the most crucial step in the long run. Here are a few things to remember before engaging in anal sex. Does it hurt? To enjoy anal play, you need to get in the right mindset. If you're learning to stretch your anus and are a beginner at doing anal stuff, discomfort and minimal pain is common at the beginning. However, that doesn't mean you should sit still and do nothing if the pain gets excruciating or unbearable. The pain can be minimized if you gradually stretch your anus and don't rush the process. With proper training and tons of lube, you may reduce the pain to zero, and at best, you may feel slight discomfort when a toy or a penis enters your anus. Being open about how the process feels and how much it hurts is essential, as letting your partner force themselves into you might bring on a lot of bleeding and bad injuries. How deep can you go? The depth of the anal canal and rectum differs for each person; how deep they can be penetrated depends on biological and circumstantial factors. On average, the surgical anal canal is 1.5 inches long, and the rectum is 4.5 inches long, allowing bigger toys and deeper penetration. However, to feel comfortable being penetrated to that depth, anal stretching is necessary. The anal canal and the rectum need to be accustomed to things of different sizes moving through them, and gradually going deeper into the anus is the only safe way to stretch yourself. Would you get 'loose'? This is a general question that concerns many people. The anus regularly stretches during bowel movements and returns to its primary position. The same is true for purposeful anal stretching. The goal is to get the body used to have something in the anus for prolonged periods without feeling pain. After the anal play, even if you reach the point of anal gaping, the anus will return to its usual size shortly. Although the anus itself won't get loose, your sphincter muscle might. This is the muscle at the end of your anus which keeps the feces in and dictates when you're defecating. Its loosening can happen only after a prolonged time of practicing anal sex. However, for those who are unwilling to give up this pleasure, there are Kegel exercises specifically designed to train the sphincter muscle and ensure its elasticity, preventing it from getting loose. Is it permanent If you practice safe anal play, the stretching effects are never permanent. The anus will go to its regular form shortly after you stretch it. To avoid damaging your sphincter muscle or causing any other injury, you need to get your anus relaxed. Ultimately, anal stretching will never affect the form of your anus; it simply makes your muscles more flexible and accustomed to being penetrated with different-sized objects. Anal douching No one wants to think about poop during erotic play, which is why it's essential to keep the hygiene around your anus to a maximum level. While not everyone does it, anal douching is an excellent way to ensure your anus is clean and ready to be played with. Anal douching involves squirting water into your anus and letting it void to ensure no extra waste in the rectum. Douching may not be necessary if you're using toys only; however, you might want to try it if you plan on getting penetrated. After all, the anus is full of bacteria, and not cleaning it as much as possible beforehand may result in unnecessary infections spreading onto your or your partner's genitalia. How to stretch your anus? Stretching your anus, whether for the fun and pleasure of doing it or as preparation for getting penetrated, is a delicate matter. Apart from managing hygiene, you must use the proper devices and methods to ensure maximum comfort. Below we'll give tips on safely stretching your anus for anal play. The smaller, the better Whatever the goal, anal stretching should be done slowly and gradually.' It's a journey that you should take one size at a time, and the easiest way to do so is to try an anal stretching kit. These kits usually involve butt plugs and dildos of different sizes; some even have instructions and time frame manuals on how to be used most effectively. If you prefer to do your own shopping, purchase the most miniature plug for starters. Even if you feel it's something you can easily take in, the sensation of having something enter your anus instead of exiting it requires time to get used to. Moreover, it's better to start with something that seems manageable and easy to get in than risk forcing a bigger-sized toy into your anus and injuring yourself. Take your time Every anus is different, which means each person will take different lengths of time to stretch it. Reading up and informing yourself about how long it took other people may give you a general idea, but the key is to listen to your body. Take it slow, and don't rush the process. You use a single toy for as long as you like until you feel comfortable moving on to a bigger size. If you're using an anal stretching kit, you'll know beforehand which size comes next and can evaluate whether you're ready to move on from what you're wearing. Practice makes perfect The longer and more often you engage in anal stretching, the better result you'll have. Although the process shouldn't be rushed, finding a suitable toy to play with daily is best if you're committed to making your anus flexible. If you decide to use butt plugs, there's no limit to how much time you can wear them. A few minutes a day is fine, but it's okay if you deceit wear it for prolonged periods. Additionally, moving with the toy inside you will increase your sexual drive and make you feel even more motivated to engage in anal play. You can make your partner part of the process to keep it fun. They can help you insert the toys as a form of foreplay and proceed to please you in other ways while you're wearing the plug. ===COLLECTION=== Which toys can you use to stretch? You have many sex toys for sexual play, including anal. Many sex toys can be used for anal stretching; however, we'll be discussing the two primary choices that are safest and easiest to use. Butt plugs The number one on our list is the infamous butt plug. Although this sounds simple enough, you should consider the variety of butt plugs before buying one. The main difference is in size and materials. Usual anal stretching kits include butt plugs of different sizes made from non-porous and body-safe materials. They are often metal or silicone; however, you can also give glass butt plugs a try. If you want to save time, you can also opt for inflatable butt plugs. It is essentially a small plug that, instead of taking it out and switching it for a bigger one, you inflate it to a size you feel comfortable with. Since there's much variety, butt plugs are the most efficient to use and purchase. Additionally, you'll benefit from wearing it safely throughout the day and commencing your anal training while doing work or chores. Dildos Like butt plugs, dildos can effectively help you stretch your anus with minimal effort. Since they can't be left in your body for hours, you'll need to set aside some time each day to engage in anal stretching. Dildos are more fun when used with a partner since they can penetrate you while you dictate their movements and voice your pleasure. Although not the best for beginners, they are a good option for those whose goal is to be penetrated. They come in different sizes, materials, and shapes, so make sure to start with a smaller and smoother dildo. Other things to consider Size is important; however, there are other factors to consider when purchasing your sex toys. After all, you insert them into your body, so they should be safe and comfortable for use. Weight You might want to consider their weight if you opt for wearable sex toys such as butt plugs. Heavier toys may increase the pressure and stimulate your anus better. However, for beginners, heavy toys are often uncomfortable and make you feel like the toy will slip out at any moment. For that purpose, it's better to use silicone toys which are lighter and easier to slip in, rather than toys from stainless steel. Shape Anal training sex toys come in all kinds of shapes. They can resemble a real-life penis or have irregular forms designed to reach the right spot. However, as a newbie to anal stretching, you'll need something small with a smooth surface and straight form. Still, even if you opt for another shape, ensure the toy has a flared base. Material As we mentioned, it's best to use toys from non-porous materials that aren't easily affected by extended use. You could choose glass or metal toys if you like the aesthetics. However, silicone toys are best for beginners. They're softer, more flexible, and extra durable if you take proper care of them. Related Article: Best Anal Stretchers Reviewed Best positions Finding the best position for anal stretching depends on your comfort level and whether or not a partner is involved. If you're doing the stretching on your own, the best action is to lie down on your side, clench the knees to your head and use your hand to insert the toy. As an alternative, many people use the squatting position. This stretches your anus wider and allows for easier insertion. Those who practice anal stretching with their partner have many more positioning options. You can lie down on your stomach while your partner sits on or beside you. You can also try doggy style, get on all four, or bend over something and fully expose your anus to your partner. Additionally, you can try laying on your back and getting your feet up, but this works better when you're being penetrated rather than just stretched with a toy. Whatever position you choose, it's essential to trust your partner and be vocal about how you're feeling. Cleaning Your Toys It is vital to stay safe from injuries, but the same goes for infections. Since the anus is the final part of our biological waste system, bacteria and germs pass through it. Getting yourself clean before anal stretching is just one side of the coin, as your toys should be clean too. Maintaining your toys' hygiene depends on their material and whether they contain any battery mechanisms. Toys made from porous materials, such as PVC or TPE, are harder to upkeep as they harbor bacteria easily, even after being cleaned. On the other hand, non-porous toys are a lot more low-maintenance. Stainless steel, glass, or silicone toys can be easily rinsed with warm water, soap, and a towel. You can also put them in the dishwasher, boil them for disinfection or use sex toy cleaning solutions to ensure maximum hygiene. Adding condoms even while using them is a great way to ease the cleaning process and quickly remove excess waste from the toy. After washing them, you can leave them to air dry and safely store them in a bag to ensure they stay clean until their subsequent use. Most people clean their toys only after using them. However, if you want to be extra safe, wash them beforehand. ===COLLECTION=== Final thoughts No matter how taboo, anal play is not something you want to miss out on. Our anus is one of the many erogenous zones on the body with thousands of nerve ends that are almost certain to give you pleasure if you decide to stimulate them. In terms of how much you want to stretch your anus and whether you like to experience anal gaping, there are a lot of devices and sex toys you could use. Both butt plugs and dildos come in different shapes, materials, colors, and sizes, so finding one you like won't be too hard. Those feeling adventurous can also experiment with vibrating anal toys for more powerful sensations and more pleasurable training. If you enjoy trying to fit new and bigger things into your anus or want to take your boyfriend's penis anally without feeling pain, anal stretching can be as pleasurable for you as for your partner. Get in the right mindset, start small, stay consistent, and your booty will get flexible in no time!

Anal beads are an incredible sex toy that provides so much pleasure when used correctly. These can rock your world and bring you to new orgasmic heights. These are designed to go up the butt and be inserted and removed in rapid movements to massage the anal opening and heighten the sensations. Here, our experts discuss how to choose anal beads, but we also share critical things about using anal beads to the most significant effect. What are Anal Beads? Anal beads are, as the name suggests, beads on a string that you use for anal stimulation. The main goal of the anal beads is to stimulate the anus and enhance the sensations. These are particularly effective when you take them out during an orgasm, as the rhythmic stretching and relaxing of the anus is intensely pleasurable. We carry a fantastic selection of anal beads that range from simple beads on a string to high-tech vibrating models and much more. ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose Anal Beads? When it comes to choosing anal beads, the first thing you need to look for is anal beads made from body-safe materials. But there is more to look for, and here is what you need to note when choosing anal beads: Material – we always remind you to get anal toys, including anal beads made from body-safe materials like silicone, stainless steel, or glass, as these are non-porous, body-safe, and effortless to clean and sterilize. We suggest you stay away from TPE or jelly anal beads, as these are porous. Design – anal beads come with a simple design or a string of beads or spheres with increasing sizes. You can basically choose between anal beads with a different beads count, vibrating models, and firm or flexible models. The flexibility of the string plays a crucial role in using these, and silicone anal beads are relatively flexible, while stainless steel and glass anal beads are rigid and unyielding. Size & length – the size of the individual beads and the length of the anal bead string are essential, especially for beginners in anal play, who should stick to smaller toys and anal beads with fewer and smaller size beads. Experienced users can enjoy models with more beads that are larger in diameter. Extra features – under extras, we count vibrations, spiraling beads, anal bead sets, a T-shaped or O-shaped base, and similar features. We suggest you think about the extra features and get a model that appeals to you, and you can later experiment with a different model. Benefits of Using Anal Beads Using anal beads is fantastic, and its primary purpose is heightened pleasure. The anal beads are used during sex, and the increasing size of the beads allows you to gradually insert them one by one and savor the delicious stretch. These are a form of sensory play, as these intensify orgasms and provide uniquely pleasurable sensations. The best way to use these is to insert them in the anus one by one and pull them out during orgasm, as the plop-plop sensation while pulling them out causes rhythmic contractions on the anus that amplifies the pleasure. And the last benefit of using anal beads is that it expands the sexual horizons and allows you to explore new avenues of pleasure with your partner. Using these can bring you closer to your partner, as you need to discuss boundaries and sexual fantasies. Tips on Using Anal Beads Here we only share some essential tips that we believe will help you use your anal beads with pleasure: Select a model that is suitable for your experience and comfort level. Clean your anal beads before and after use to ensure you have a clean anal toy that is free from bacteria. You can use antibacterial soap and warm water or use sex toy cleaner. Use suitable lube; if you use silicone anal beads, use water-based lube, and if you have glass or metal anal beads, you can branch out to silicone lube. Start slow and enjoy the stretching sensations as you insert each subsequent bead in your bum. Take them out slowly; you can draw these out one by one and enjoy the stretching of the anus, or you can pull and push them for extra sensations. For maximum effect, draw them out during an orgasm. ===COLLECTION=== We hope that our guide on how to choose anal beads is helpful, as we tried to cover all the bases. We invite you to check out our blog, which has educational guides on various topics. We also invite you to browse our sex toy store, where you’ll find a lot of fantastic sex toys ranging from anal beads, anal toys to vibrators, dildos, male toys, BDSM tools, and so much more.

Pocket pussies are best for men who want to enhance solo pleasure with something more realistic and engaging than using their hands alone. This category is designed to solve common frustrations like lack of sensation, difficulty maintaining arousal, or wanting a more immersive experience without committing to complex devices. To create this list of the best pocket pussy, our test team looked, handled, tested, and reviewed a wide range of models. We evaluated look, feel, durability, features, ease of cleaning, discretion, and price, focusing on what consistently works and what does not. These five picks stood out as clear leaders based on hands-on testing and real customer feedback.

Sex toys for small penises are best for men who want products that deliver meaningful stimulation and confidence without relying on size alone. This category focuses on tools that enhance sensation, support endurance, or help create pleasurable experiences through thoughtful design and functionality. To create this list of the best sex toys for small penises, I tested, compared, and reviewed a range of options that are comfortable for smaller sizes and perform consistently. I looked at design, ease of use, performance, cleaning, and real customer feedback, and these five stood out as reliable choices that many users appreciate.

You’ve probably heard about prostate stimulation by now – some consider it the male version of a woman’s G-spot, and when stimulated, it can lead to incredible pleasure. The prostate, or P-spot as some call it, is a small muscular gland that produces the seminal fluid found in ejaculation. In short, it helps propel semen from the penis, but that’s not all it does. The prostate is surrounded by nerve endings that can feel so good when touched the right way. Unfortunately, prostates are exclusive to those born with male genitalia. So, whether you’re thinking of giving one of these mind-blowing orgasms to yourself or to someone else, read on! Some people are not comfortable with inserting things into their anus, whether it be for religious reasons, gay stereotypes or mere discomfort, and there is absolutely no problem with that. Luckily, there’s still another way to get a prostate massage without putting anything inside you, and it’s called an external prostate massage! Are you intrigued? If this sounds like something you or your partner would enjoy, we’re here to break down all the nitty gritty details of everything you need to know about external prostate massages. Can you Reach Orgasm from External Prostate Massage? The short answer: yes! It may take some practice and trial-and-error, but once you’ve had one prostate orgasm, it can open up a whole new world of sexual pleasure. Finding the Right Spot An important reminder before you start is that a prostate massage is not a ‘quickie’. For your first massage especially, you should schedule a good amount of time – at least an hour – so that you are not rushing to find the right spot. Patience is key when it comes to the P-spot! The prostate itself is located about two inches inside the rectum, between the rectum and the penis. However, with an external prostate massage, you’re going to be massaging the perineum, which is the area of skin between a man’s scrotum and his anus. Arousal swells up the prostate, so the more turned on he is before you start poking around, the easier it will be to feel. The perineum is firmer near the front of the penile bulb, which is the inner ending of the shaft. It feels softer and fleshier towards the back – this is the golden spot, the one you should be aiming for. The key to a great external prostate massage is finding the perineum, since if you don’t, it essentially does nothing for the receiver. So, if you’re struggling, be patient and just try and poke around from different angles. If you have an erection, you can try placing your fingers on one side of the shaft, under the scrotum. You may feel a lump inside which you might think is the internal shaft of your penis, but think again! When you rub it, it’ll feel different from the usual penis stimulation. Even if you do not feel the gland yourself, touching it will likely cause the sensation of needing to pee. This is a sign you’re in the right spot – trust us! In case you’re worried that you may actually urinate, remember that the prostate is responsible for the flow of urine and ejaculation in the body, and so both cannot happen simultaneously. So, even if you feel the sense of needing to urinate, keep going with the massage. What Does It Feel Like Prostate orgasms feel like regular orgasms, except they’re more intense and are felt through the entire body. Some have reported having ‘super orgasms’, where they had a series of fast, continuous orgasms that cause the body to shudder. While internal prostate massages are usually a bit more intense than external ones, the latter can still feel fantastic. Not everyone ejaculates during a prostate orgasm, but it’s not uncommon for a dribble of milky fluid from the urethra. What is ‘Milking’? As you rub the perineum, it’s not uncommon for some leakage to happen, which is completely normal. This would be whitish in color, and runny – the best way to put it would be something like ‘thin ejaculation’. The more you rub the P-spot, the more your prostate ejaculates this fluid which gives the urinating sensation, but is, in reality, good for your health! These liquids, if not released by your prostate, can lead to bacteria growth or prostate illnesses, which is why many doctors say that prostate massages are good for keeping a healthy prostate. So, if you want to be prepared, have some towels or tissues handy for easier clean-up. How to Give the Best Prostate Massage Once you’ve decided on giving or receiving an external prostate massage, you can do so with or without the use of a prostate toy. For the sake of this blog post, we’re going to do so with only the use of our hands, since you don’t require a fancy toy to experience the most earth-shattering P-spot orgasm. Here is a step by step process to give the best prostate massage: Step #1: Create a soothing environment One of the most important parts of the massage, especially if it’s your first time, is to be in a comfortable, relaxing environment. If you’re nervous, your muscles will tense up and it’ll be more difficult to get aroused, and therefore in turn be more difficult to experience an effective massage. Step #2: Apply some form of lubricant Water-based lubricants are always a good idea, but since nothing is going inside you, you can also use Vaseline or a body cream and massage it onto the area, to avoid any rubbing and to help your hands to glide easier. Step #3: Assume a comfortable position Trying different positions can be fun once you get more comfortable with an external prostate massage! These can work whether you’re doing it to yourself or with a partner, and can also work for internal prostate massages. Legs up To do this by yourself: Lie on your back. Pull your knees up towards your chest as close as you can comfortably. Use one arm to hold your legs in place. Use your other hand to reach your perineum. To do this with a partner: Lie on your back. Pull your knees up towards your chest, holding them in place with both hands. Have them kneel in front of you and massage your prostate externally. On your side, one leg to chest To do this by yourself: Lie on your side. Bring your outer leg up towards your chest. Reach your hand around to your perineum. To do this with a partner: Lie on your side. Bring your outer leg towards your chest. Have them sit behind you to reach your perineum. Doggy To do this by yourself: Get down on all fours. Reach your arm between your legs or around your back to reach your perineum. To do this with a partner: Get down on all fours. Have them kneel behind you to reach your perineum. Step #4: Grip the testicles To avoid having your testicles get in the way during the massage, you can grip them to keep them in one place. Step #5: Find the spot and apply gentle pressure Apply gentle pressure onto your perineum, and use slow movements. You can experiment with patterns – some like circular motions, while others like gentle stroking, or something with a little more pressure and tension. Keep repeating this process for 2-3 sessions, or until orgasm. You don’t need to get creative here! All you need to do is continue to rub, but keep in mind to not get too rough. Since the prostate is a sensitive gland, you can cause some serious damage if you are not careful. If the receiver complains about it feeling irritating or painful, you should stop right away and allow the area to recover. Tips for the Receivers Use the bathroom before getting started, because even though you won’t pee, you will feel the sensation of needing to. Worrying about potentially peeing yourself might prevent you from relaxing and enjoying yourself, so it’s important to rid yourself of that stress as much as you can. You can prepare for an external prostate massage by getting used to the feeling of your prostate being touched. You can practice with your fingers, or if you want to touch it internally, you can use an anal sex toy, like butt plugs or anal beads. You can also find our reviews of the top 10 prostate massagers here. ===COLLECTION=== Get in the mood so that you’re turned on – which will help the giver find the prostate easier – and makes the recipient more relaxed. Light some candles, watch some porn, masturbate or get a lap dance – whatever foreplay you need to get there. Finally, make sure you’ve got lube on hand and use it. A water-based lubricant makes for easier gliding. If you want to make things easier for your partner who is giving the external prostate massage, work on finding the perineum on your own! In the shower, try picking up your penis and using your index and middle finger to apply pressure, lifting slightly until you hit your perineum. Continue to apply pressure as you get closer to your anus. Keep in mind that squatting may help you reach your spot easier! You can push your pelvic and rectum muscles in and out as you apply pressure to better position your prostate to the inner walls of your perineum. With time, you should feel light contractions of your testicles, which means you’ve found the right spot. How Can I Take it to the Next Level? If you want to take your external prostate massage to the next level, there are plenty of things you can do. Instead of only using your fingers to perform the massage, you can take your fingers, curl them up, and use your knuckles to press inward at an upward angle, like you’re trying to reach between the rectum and bladder from the outside, and continue your massage. Meanwhile, you can stroke the penis, fondle the balls, or run a lubricated finger around the outside of the butt hole. You can also experiment with different rhythms and patterns with your hands, or even bring in a vibrating toy to do the massaging for you. For broader stimulations that will stimulate your balls and booty hole at the same time as your perineum, a wand vibrator can work wonders. If it’s your first time experiencing an external prostate massage, you may also need some hand job action to push you over the edge, so don’t be afraid to try different things – every person is different, and our bodies need different types of stimulation to get there. Different strokes for different folks! ===COLLECTION=== The best part of P-spot play is that once you get to an orgasm…you can start all over again. It’s different from a penile orgasm in that way. Are There Health Benefits? Prostate stimulation has some proven health benefits. For example, it may help improve urine flow! Prostate swelling in general can sometimes put pressure on the urethra and interfere with urine flow – massaging the prostate helps to relieve some of the pressure and allow smoother urine flow, and even reduce frequent urination. Fluid blockages in the reproductive system can be painful, especially during ejaculation. A P-spot massage can sometimes help to eliminate these blockages, as well as to help with prostatitis, which is a painful inflammation of the prostate. Final Words Prostate stimulation and massages are losing their negative stigma surrounding them, and if you can become comfortable with the idea of this, you’re in for a world of surprise pleasure. An external prostate massage is the perfect substitute or introduction to anal play – so if you’re willing to explore your lesser-known erogenous zones, a variety of sensation may be your reward. Whether you’re using the external prostate massage as foreplay, an introduction to anal play or the main course, as long as you’re safe, clean and consensual, you’re golden – so give it a shot!

Let’s talk about dildos, the most famous, most popular, and oldest sex toy in the world. It comes in so many options; you’ll be amazed by the possibilities. It is an object of curiosity, an object of pleasure, and an object of sexual gratification, and it is no wonder that close to half of the US female population owns this exciting sex toy. Please check out the interesting facts and statistics on dildos and dildo use we’ve prepared for you! The Invention of the Dildo The oldest known dildo-shaped artifact is estimated to be about 28,000 years old. It is a polished stone dildo that is about 8 inches long and about 1.2 inches thick and was discovered in an archeological site in the Hohle Fels Cave in Germany. The dildo is made from siltstone, and based on the researcher’s conclusions, it was a well-used object.[1] FUN Fact: Phallic objects have been an object of worship over the years; phallic architecture is prominent in antiquity and modern times. Dildo Stats Let’s take a closer look at some dildo statistics: The global sex toy market reached a staggering value of about $34 billion in 2021[2], and it is projected to rise to $80 billion by 2030. In 2023, the estimated US sex toy market reached an estimated value of around $11 billion. The average annual US dildo market is estimated to be valued between $500 million and $1 billion. In 2022, over 163 million people in the USA own a sex toy; the majority of these are women, and over 56% own more than 5 sex toys.[3] In 2021, 21% of all sex toys sold in the USA were dildos, with vibrators having a 41% of the market share [4] According to compiled data from different sex toy retailers, the annual sex toy sales are as shown in the chart[5]: Where People Shop for Dildos? Adults shop for sex toys across various channels. While many sex toys like vibrators can be purchased even in general stores, dildos are more of a specialty item and are almost primarily sold through online and retail front sex toy stores. Here are the main channels where people shop for sex toys: Specialty Online Sex Toy Stores – 32% of people buy their sex toys from online sex toy stores General Online Retailers/Amazon – 32% of people shop for sex toys from Amazon and similar general online retailers Pharmacy – 24% of people purchase sex toys from pharmacies Brick-and-Mortar Sex Toy Stores – 31% of people buy sex toys at brick-and-mortar sex toy stores Please note that the percentages are based on estimates from different sources, and customers don’t exclusively shop from a single channel[6] Dildo Popularity While we can never have an accurate impression of the exact dildo sales, as this varies per personal preference, age, gender, and place of residence, we can use some of the user preferences to gain some insight into the popularity of dildos in the USA. The dildo is the most popular sex toy for Americans, followed by vibrator, bondage accessories, and male masturbators.[5] Most popular dildo sizes Average Size The average size dildo seems like the most common choice for US shoppers. A dildo that is about 5 to 7 inches in length and about 1.3 inches in diameter seems to be the go-to choice for many because of its versatile applications. Large Size Many US shoppers prefer the larger-sized dildos, like the models that are 8 inches in length and over. However, based on our market data research, these are favored by more experienced users. Most popular dildo models There is no way for us to know the most popular dildo model, so here we compiled a list of the most popular dildo models based on retailer and industry reports: King Cock models Original Real Feel models Original Vac-U-Lock Dildo models Most Popular Dildo Manufacturers Based on the popularity of different dildo models, we can conclude what are the most popular dildo manufacturers. Again, please note that we’ve compiled this data based on user info, sales data, and other metrics: The foremost manufacturer is Pipedream, one of the oldest, most innovative, and largest sexual wellness product manufacturers based in Ohio. The company was founded in 1973 as a family-run business, and they’ve grown to offer a vast product portfolio. Another top-rated sex toy manufacturer whose dildo models usually rank very high on the list of popular and most-sold dildos is Doc JohnsonThe global sex toy market. It is an American company that has grown into one of the largest sex toy companies in the world. It was established in 1976 and is based in North Hollywood, California. Fun Dildo Facts Let us share some fun facts related to dildos. Please note that while the dildo may not be your preferred sex toy, over 50% of US women pick the dildo as their sex toy of choice: The word “dildo” started to be used around the 1400s, originating from the Latin “dilitare,” which means “to open wide Dildos come in various “animal” shapes, most often like dolphins, cats, teddy bears, penguins, and even tentacles. The first silicone dildo was invented in 1965 by a man who suffered from paralysis and could not have sex with his partner. There are prominent 17th-century novels and poetry devoted to dildos. Europeans prefer dildos more than Americans. Girth is often more important than length when it comes to dildo preferences. 70% of men say they are not intimidated by their partner’s dildo or vibrator. It is illegal to sell sex toys in Alabama.[7] Californians tend to buy more dildos than other US states; Washington and Oregon are on this list as well.[8] Sex toy sales tend to spike during economic hardships. References [1] BBC News. (2021). Ancient phallus unearthed in cave [2] Statista. (2023). Size of the sex toy market worldwide from 2016 to 2030 [3] Statista. (2024). Number of people who own sex toys in the United States in 2017 and 2022 [4] Statista. (2024). Market value of sexual wellness devices in the United States in 2021, by product category [5] Spherical Insights. (2023). Global Sex Toys Market Insights Forecasts to 2030 [6] Statista. (2022). Number of consumers who bought sexual wellness products online and would repurchase them in the United States in 2022, by gender [7] WikipediA. (2024). Anti-Obscenity Enforcement Act [8] MarketReasearch.com. (2022). U.S. Sex Toys Market Size, Share & Trends Analysis Report

From a psychological standpoint, men are encouraged to believe that the penis is the pivotal symbol of their worth as men, and that this part of their body is the way to please a woman. There is truth to that. However, for many men, using a vibrator on a woman might feel as if they’ve let her down, needing another tool to satisfy her; that’s not the penis. However, in healthy relationships, both gay and heterosexual types, the vibrator is great for bonding, enhanced play, and extra enjoyment during sexual intercourse. Psychologically speaking, these fun add-ons can actually build relationships. What Are Quiet Vibrators? Thankfully, quiet vibrators have become mainstream and are growing in popularity too. These quiet achievers are now widely available and made for discretion and privacy. Quiet vibrators are the same as vibrators, but they are generally quieter for more user discretion. Purposefully designed to vibrate, they are used internally to allow women and men anal and/or vaginal pleasure. Research has ascertained that only a third of women have ever used a vibrator during intercourse, and only around 40% of heterosexual men have used one, with or without a partner. Although these numbers seem relatively stable, they are still on the low side. Different Types & Styles Vibrators in the discreet vibrators category may be a combination of things. In many cases, some silent vibrators might not look like stereotypical pleasure givers, but sometimes they will. A good example of the not-so-obvious types being the ones with powerful motorized motors, disguising themselves as innocent back massagers, with the added advantage of a humming quietness, despite the appearance. Some might even look like other objects, including lipstick, for example. Most quiet vibrators will be advertised as such, whether they’re for anal, vaginal or clitoral stimulation. They might be small, in the case of butterfly vibrators used for clitoral stimulation, or they might be larger, like bullet vibrators which are made for internal, vaginal stimulation. Whichever type you choose, be aware that they all come in a variety of sizes, models, colors, and designs. You just need to choose your favourite one, or you could buy more than one. Remember, besides their outer appearance, quiet vibrators are made to make minimal noise. A general rule of thumb is that plug-in vibrators are mostly what we’d call whisper-quiet. Additionally, tiny bullet vibrators are also distinctly quieter, and the perfect travel companions too. We’ll let you in on a little secret here: the most discreet vibrators are the ones you can barely see at all. For women, the butterfly sex toys or vibrating balls are the best kept secrets for quietness and discretion. Ssssh, it’s our little secret. Shop Quiet Vibrators ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose the Right Quiet Vibrator for You Shopping for anything can be somewhat difficult, especially if it’s not something you regularly buy. Ask yourself these questions to help with your decision making processes. What area am I trying to stimulate? Is it for solo or partnered pleasure, or both? Will I need to take it on holiday or fit it discreetly in my work bag? Do I prefer battery operated or rechargeable types? Does it come with a discreet case or will I need to buy one? Is it featured as a quiet vibrator in its advertisement? Like any other pleasure product, a sex toy should be well considered and thought out, at least a little. In reality, when you’re investing in a sex toy, you're making an investment in your own personal pleasure. How important is that to you? And do you need extra features to meet your requirements? If so, what are they? Include size and color in your decisions, and then when you see it you’ll know it’s the right choice. Sometimes you might even come across a design that exceeds your expectations, and that can be a whole lot of fun! Remember, before you buy, think about the features that you really want, and decide whether or not you feel best going to a store or making the purchase online. With proper care, before and after use, these toys can last a really long time, and it’s well worth the effort when you’re choosing silent vibrators that feel right for you. Think: size, type, region of pleasure, battery operated or rechargeable, color, and price range. What Are the Benefits Satisfying sex and masturbation actually triggers hormones and wonderful neurotransmitters that help us to feel relaxed, stress free and happy. The other real health benefit is that you’re taking time out for yourself, or maybe it’s to spend quality time with a partner. These are healthy ideals which are necessary for the emotional, mental and physical health of all human beings, as adults. Orgasm is healthy. Remember, orgasm is basically a series of muscle contractions. In women, orgasm can help to keep the pelvic floor muscles to stay in shape, keeping the organs in place and aiding against incontinence too. Sexual activity is exercise, so that’s great for health, and intimacy is good for our relationships, which are also beneficial for our health overall. 2/3 of women can’t orgasm from intercourse alone, so quiet vibrators are the big helper which allows for it to occur. Plus, it’s easier, because the right areas are targeted too. Sensation can be lessened as we grow older. The loss of estrogen in women is known as genitourinary syndrome. There is less circulation in the genital tissues because they get more fragile over time. In essence, this means that women need more stimulation to have an orgasm. Quiet vibrators can fill the gap here, allowing for solo or partnered pleasure, with a quietness that doesn’t interfere with privacy or distract from other simultaneous sexual play, including intercourse. Help to finish the task. Sometimes, during intercourse, partners can become tired or lose their ability to keep going with the same emphasis, just when more stimulation is needed. In these cases, a vibrator is an aid to enhance pleasure and to help achieve that much sought after orgasm during the time of sexual intercourse. A foreplay addition. Bringing a vibrator into a relationship can be very sexy. The addition of this treat for couples can be a fun and very bonding experience. It can be used to tease, warm up, or give pleasure to make it to the end game. It’s the most exciting adventure for the partner who likes to be the giver of pleasure too. A visual prop in relationships. Just showing a partner the vibrator can tell them that it’s time for intimacy. Sometimes having time for experimentation can be just what a relationship needs, to give it a little boost that it needs. Unfortunately, if you don’t use it, you lose it. The human body is made up of muscles, and when they’re not used they can become out of tone and lose their elasticity. The use of muscles in the vagina during contractions and during orgasm, allows for lubrication and toning of the walls. During the physical changes of menopause there is lessened estrogen, which unfortunately means extra dryness and the loss of elasticity, both of which can make for discomfort. If a woman is not sexually active through stimulation, there’s less blood circulation to the genital tissues. In men, blood flow is also important in sustaining tissue blood flow. Some Safety Considerations Phthalates warning. Be aware of phthalates in the soft plastic and jelly versions of quiet vibrators. Most manufacturers won’t use them nowadays, but it’s well worth buying a brand that’s reputable, especially for health’s sake. These phthalates are softeners and they're in lots of different types of plastic. Unfortunately, there is some evidence that phthalates can cause problems, and this is with regard to the male reproductive system. In laboratory testing, it was found that extremely high amounts could cause damage to the liver, lungs, kidneys, endocrine system, and testes in men. Many men use these vibrators for anal play, in homosexual and heterosexual relationships, as well as solo in terms of masturbation. In other studies, for both men and women, it seems that heavy usage for around an hour per day was not seen to be associated with any major health risks, except for pregnant and breastfeeding women who should abstain from heavy usage. But other studies came up with major issues for men. Thankfully, most reputable sex toy makers made the decision to stop using phthalates because of public concerns and "phthalate-free" is a major draw card used on many product labels. Jelly toys can hold germs. Be aware that the jelly-like versions of quiet vibrators are harder to clean, and that’s mostly because they're quite porous. So dust, dirt and bacteria can get trapped in the surface and live inside the product. You can cover these products with a condom, and use a specially-made cleaning solution before and after use. Never share your toys, bacterial infections and sexually transmitted diseases (STIs) are not fun to contract or deal with. Quiet vibrators made of other materials are easier to clean, but with this factor it also means that they tend to cost a bit more, and the condom idea is great if you like the feel of the jelly-like ones. However, if you’re in the market to spend a little more, you’ll still need to maintain your quiet vibrators with great cleaning regimes, before and after use, and by storing them in a cool and dry place that’s out of direct sunlight. Nonporous, quiet vibrators will be made of hard plastic, metal or silicone. Follow the manufacturer’s instructions for cleaning, and always store them out of sunlight and preferably covered in a dust free case. You may also use a soft cloth to wrap them in; just make sure it’s clean and dry. Cleaning & Storage Tips Clean them regularly. Check them regularly for damage. Use the right lube. Water based lubricants are best. Store them properly. In a clean case or wrapped up in a clean and dry soft cloth. Replace them occasionally. Most toys will last for a year, depending upon their quality. They can get compromised structurally over time, which means they can become more porous and be ineffective too. Keep them dry. Always wash and thoroughly dry your toys after use to prevent these germs and/or mold from growing and multiplying on and in them. Common Questions People Ask How do I use extra quiet vibrators to give myself an orgasm? Relax first, and then start off slow. In essence, you can get to know your extra quiet vibrator and your body too. Touch the vibrator to parts of your body, like the nipples and then move on to your legs and down to your genitals. Discover what feels amazing, and then keep doing it. Let your arousal build up and let yourself discover your pleasure zones. Tease first, then allow yourself to be internally stimulated as well, if that’s what you want. Some vibrators only target the clitoris, so you can achieve orgasm without penetration, for ladies. Men might like to use vibrators to stimulate their own or their partner’s bodies. Always use the right vibrators as specified by the manufacturer’s instructions. E.g. anal vibrators for anal stimulation, bullet vibrators for vaginal stimulation, etc. To be honest, there really isn't any right or wrong way to use a vibrator or to bring yourself to the perfect ‘O.’ The vibrator is a tool to help you stimulate yourself and you’ll need to work on finding out how to best achieve the end game. You’re in control, and so you may use it in the way that feels best to you. Try to get relaxed and turned on before you actually switch the vibrator on. You can use visual aids or make out with your partner. Experiment and try its different features, touching multiple regions around the genitals to see what the vibrations feel like. Try clitoral stimulation, and remember that the labia and vulva are also very sensitive. If your vibrator is the insertable type, give that a go, or let your partner help you. Many females and males find that penetration and vibration inside the vagina and/or anus is very enjoyable. If you're a guy who’s trying a vibrator, stroke it along the shaft of your penis and hold it against your glans and the head of your penis too. If this is too intense, try placing the vibrator at the base of your scrotum or pressing it against your perineum. Just make sure your vibrator is made for anal stimulation, if that’s the goal, because these types will be made to not get stuck or lost in the anal cavity. Remember, safety first, always. Now, when you know what feels good, keep doing it for a while. Remember to really relax, and let yourself build the pleasure with your new-found toy. After you climax, take a break and go again if you like, using the vibrator at a lessened intensity to build up momentum again, or if you’re particularly sensitive. Sometimes taking the time to get there is the most fun part of your journey. Can I use my vibrator anally? Most penis-shaped vibrators can be inserted into the anus, but you shouldn’t insert anything that doesn’t have a flange or a flared base at the bottom that will keep it from going all of the way inside you. As a safety precaution, it’s important to note: if a quiet vibrator does go all the way into your rectum, it can get stuck in your colon, and you may require medical attention to get it out. Buy anal vibrators that are specifically designed for that type of activity, then you’ll enjoy the stimulation without the added risk factors.

Butt plugs – the toys we know and love, whether from our own personal use, or from watching our favorite adult films. They can be worn anywhere and everywhere, from the house, to your workplace, shopping malls, grocery stores, the car…the combination of private and public possibilities are endless. Designed to be inserted into the anus and left in place, these lovely little butt plugs create a sensation of fullness that can be pleasant even outside of the bedroom. In short, they can add a dimension of fun and naughtiness to your daily routine. How Long Can You Wear a Butt Plug? According to most manufacturers and medical professionals, the standard time that you should wear a butt plug is usually not more than 2-3 hours, even when you feel completely comfortable. This is because your rectum walls are so close to your sphincter, which can cause reduced blood flow when there is pressure inserted for long amounts of time. If this happens, there is a risk of damage to the rectum and a likeliness to get ulcers. Since there are no pain receptors inside the rectum, you may not even realize that anything is wrong until after the damage is done. Of course, there are always people arguing the other side. Many sexuality educators will say that you can wear a plug for 10-12 hours without harm, as long as you’re paying attention to your body’s signals, and that you’ve worked your way up from wearing the plug for just a few minutes. We highly suggest the conservative approach, since it’s better to be safe rather than to be sorry. The worst thing to do would be to dampen your pleasurable anal play experience by pushing your body beyond its limits, so we strongly recommend limiting the time you spend plugged in to 2-3 hours. ===COLLECTION=== Myth or Fact There are plenty of facts and myths circulating about butt plugs, and plenty of opinions differ between manufacturers, medical professionals and sex enthusiasts. Therefore, we have done our best to address many of these, and clearing the air on some misinformation that may be traveling around. MYTH: You shouldn’t wear butt plugs in public Butt plugs are often encouraged to be worn in public places! While many people argue that wearing a butt plug while out and about may cause it to fall out, or that it’ll be too obvious, both aren’t necessarily true. If you choose a properly sized butt plug for you, or use a harness or tight underwear to keep it in place, you shouldn’t have any problems with it falling out. With regards to the butt plug showing, this also depends on which butt plug you choose to wear. If you wear one with a tail – sure, you’re likely to get caught! But if you wear one with a t-shaped handle that cradles your butt cheeks, you’re probably in the clear. ===COLLECTION=== FACT: It can get stuck or lost inside you While this is possible, this is highly unlikely to happen for a few reasons. The biggest reason being due to butt plugs usually coming with a flared base, specifically to help keep the butt plug anchored firmly outside of your body. This helps you avoid some accidental too-deep slippage, and a shameful trip to the hospital. MYTH: Lube is optional This could not be falser! Your anal opening does not self-lubricate, which means that it’s a must to use lubricant when inserting a butt plug. Silicone-based lubes are great to use since they last a lot longer than water-based lubes, and don’t wash off in the shower, if you plan to have some fun in there. However, if you’re using a silicone butt plug, you absolutely cannot pair it with a silicone lube, since it eventually breaks down the toy. If you’re using a silicone butt plug, opt for a water or oil-based lube instead. The proper way to apply lube is to first coat the butt plug, then apply some to the anal opening. As you’re gently pressing the plug to your anus, make sure to take a deep breath and consciously relax your muscles. After you’ve done this, apply more lube to the plug, and re-insert it with slightly more pressure than the first time. Repeat this until you can insert the plug fully – some people need to do these actions 3 to 5 times before getting it in comfortably, and that’s completely normal. ===COLLECTION=== MYTH: They’re only for women Absolutely not! Butt plugs are for everyone, whether you’re born with female or male genitalia. The only difference between men and women when it comes to anal play is the location of their ‘spots’. Men have prostates, or a P-spot, located about 2 inches into the anus, and there are butt plugs specifically designed for P-spot stimulation. Conversely, women have an A-spot, located 5 or 6 inches into the anus, which is typically not reached by an average butt plug. Either way, there are enough nerve endings in and around the anus to make a regular butt plug incredibly pleasurable for both men and women. FACT: It’s a stepping stone to anal sex While butt plugs can surely be used as foreplay or training for anal sex, that’s not its only purpose. Butt plugs also have a secondary effect of narrowing the vaginal canal, meaning that vaginal sex may feel even more enjoyable for both partners, due to increased sensitivity and tension. As discussed previously, you can also wear one as you go about your average day. Of course, it’s also a great warm up before anal sex, since it allows the sphincters to open up more than usual and stretch through to the anal canal. This, in turn, causes your anal muscles to relax, making it much easier to get something else inside, such as a penis. MYTH: It’s okay to feel a little bit of pain While it’s very possible to feel pain when inserting or wearing a butt plug, you should know that this is a warning sign that you may be overstretching. Unlike the vagina, the anus can take weeks of training before being able to graduate from a finger or two to a toy. Since the anus is made of sensitive tissue that is easy to tear, you must be very careful when choosing adult sex toys, and ensuring you lubricate extensively. If you experience pain, it’s probably a sign that you either need to size down with your butt plug, or that you need more lube. Either way, it’s a warning sign to stop whatever it is you’re doing and re-evaluate. MYTH: A butt plug will stretch you out A huge misconception about butt plugs and anal penetration in general is that it will stretch out your anus. While training, stretching and sizing up will allow you to insert larger objects into your anus over time, this isn’t because your anus is getting larger. It’s in fact because your body is getting used to getting filled there, so your muscles are more willing to relax and allow for wider and deeper penetration. So, don’t start worrying you’ll have a large gaping hole where you butt used to be – this simply isn’t true. Another concern that people have is that by wearing a butt plug for a long time, it will lead to a gaping butthole. While you may end up with a slight gape if you’ve been wearing the plug for an extended amount of time, it will hardly be noticeable. Gaping takes a lot of time, training and technique, and isn’t likely to happen accidentally. Anal gaping also shouldn’t last longer than a few hours after removing the object used to penetrate. ===COLLECTION=== MYTH: The pressure will cause you to poop For beginners, the sensation of using a butt plug may resemble the feeling of having to go number two. The reason for this is that it’s stimulating the same nerve endings that you use to go to the bathroom. Don’t worry about having any unwelcome surprises – it’s just the pressure causing you to feel that way. However, many people find that wearing a butt plug has helped them with constipation issues by triggering a need to go number two. Even those with healthy bowel movements can benefit from butt plugs, as it gets you going to the bathroom more often, so it’s not necessarily a bad thing. On the topic, you need to make sure to wash your butt plug with warm water and soap immediately after removing it. It’s very possible that your plug will have residue fecal matter, even if you can’t see it, and this can spread unwanted bacteria. To avoid the risk of any infections, avoid contact between the plug and your vagina. Can You Wear a Butt Plug While Sleeping? Many people wonder if they can wear their butt plugs while sleeping. While there are people that do this, it is highly advised against. As mentioned before, you shouldn’t wear your butt plug for longer than 3 hours at a time. Despite having no pain receptors to indicate any danger, you’re also asleep for likely 7-8 hours, meaning that you’re at your most vulnerable for quite some time, and some serious damage could happen overnight. An added danger is that you cannot keep applying lube overnight, putting you at risk of the lube drying out, which will in turn cause you a lot of pain when you wake up the next morning and try and take the butt plug out. In short, avoid butt plugs while sleeping at all costs. Can You Wear a Butt Plug While Pregnant? When you’re pregnant, you’re either ready to throw it down all the time, or it’s the last thing on your mind. Either way, 9 months is a long time, and you’re sure to find yourself craving a little naughtiness at some point. Since there may come a point in your pregnancy where traditional sex is uncomfortable, butt plugs are a great way to get aroused, no matter what changes your body is going through. As long as you have a low-risk pregnancy and no health-related problems, it should be safe for you to use a butt plug at any stage of your pregnancy. Most women who have tried it have reported a positive experience and no severe side effects of using a butt plug while pregnant. In fact, pregnant women with constipation issues have reported that wearing a butt plug helped to act as a trigger to stimulate bowel movements. If you have prior health risks including a history of hemorrhoids, severe constipation or bleeding, you should consult a medical professional before using a butt plug during the course of your pregnancy. Other times that it may be not advisable to use a butt plug when pregnant are if you are experiencing a very uncomfortable pregnancy, or are approaching full-term and haven’t used butt plugs before, since it may increase the discomfort and pressure you’re already feeling. On the contrary, if you’re a woman who was wearing butt plugs pre-pregnancy and have continued to use them with no issues, you’re most likely in the clear. If you’re not very experienced with butt plugs but are having a relatively easy pregnancy, slowly ease into it by using a very small size and gauging your comfort levels. If you feel good, you should have no issues continuing along with it. When speaking about anal play and pregnancy, we must discuss the ‘Placenta Previa’. This is a condition which represents when the placenta is low in the womb, and doesn’t entirely cover the cervix. Because of the placenta’s location, any type of deep or wide anal activity can be extremely dangerous for the pregnant woman. If the placenta is damaged, it will cause heavy bleeding and put the pregnant woman at risk. You should check with your doctor to see if you have ‘Placenta Previa’, as women who have it are advised against engaging in any anal play. If you’re pregnant and thinking of using a butt plug, remember that the need to be as hygienic as possible is only heightened when you’re pregnant. It’s incredibly important to wash your butt plugs with warm water and soap both before and after every use. Any bacteria from your butt plug can have harmful effects to the fetus if allowed to spread. If you want to be as thorough as can be, consider using a condom as a shield when wearing your butt plug. It goes without saying that if you feel any pain, you should stop. Also, if your doctor suggests that you shouldn’t engage in any type of anal play during your pregnancy, you should always follow their advice. Only your doctor is fully aware of your health and medical issues, and can provide the best advice for you. If you’re unsure, ask them outright if it’s safe for you to wear a butt plug during your pregnancy – don’t be embarrassed, they’ve seen it all! Can You Wear a Butt Plug While You Use the Bathroom? Many people wonder what the rules governing butt plugs and bathroom breaks are. While it’s fairly obvious that you cannot go number two with a butt plug inserted, the debates arise when it comes to going for a piss. Generally, it’s advised that you remove your butt plug when you’re going to pee. The reason for this mostly has to do with simplifying the peeing process for you. When you try to pee with your butt plug inserted, your body is doing two things: trying to hold the butt plug in, while trying to let the pee out. This causes your pelvic floor muscles to engage to try and grasp onto the plug, while your muscles in turn struggle to relax and release the pee. While it’s possible to do both at the same time, it’s difficult, and probably a lot more trouble than it’s worth. What’s more likely to occur is that you relax too much and the plug will fall right into the toilet, which is unpleasant as it is, but can also lead to breaking or damage if the plug is made of glass or metal instead of silicone. If you pee often or simply don’t want to have to remove your butt plug, you always have the option to hold onto it as you pee to ensure it stays secured in place. Keep in mind that you should be careful though to not push or strain as you go to release your pee, as it can cause damage to your pelvic floor muscles and lead to problems like UTIs or incontinence. Can You Wear a Butt Plug All Day? If you’ve ever lived in a busy, crowded city, chances are you’ve walked past someone cheerily prancing by you, wearing a butt plug while going about their day. The short answer is that yes, you can wear a butt plug all day, but it’s heavily advised against. If you

While it might appear that small vibrators are only for beginners, this is very far from the truth. These smaller, vibrating devices are made for discretion as much as they are for users who are new to the world of sex toys. Most often, these come in the variety of bullet vibrators. However, there are plenty of variations on this to add further stimulation and uses, and they can be used for foreplay or during intercourse between couples. Additionally, they are ideal for solo masturbation. These are also suitable for both genders, so men have no worry about feeling left out. Some of the smallest you can find are finger vibrators, which sit on the finger, and this adds and another dimension to finger masturbation be it vaginal or anal. Manufacturers have taken small vibrators to heart and have come up with unique, well made designs. These are super discreet and will never be spotted inside a handbag or pocket. This being said, there are also plenty of designs of regularly-sized vibrators and these have been shrunk into their miniature forms. What they lack in size, they certainly don’t lack in performance abilities. Types of Small Vibrators While being designed to be compact, all mini vibrators are designed for genital stimulation. Because of their size, they are most often run from batteries, rather than being rechargeable. While browsing, you can see there are basically two branches of type, one that stimulates the clitoris and one type which is used for insertion of the vagina or providing anal stimulation. Bullet vibrators can come remote controlled, but in many cases, this is a corded remote rather than wireless. One other thing to note is: that none of these small vibrators are used as a means of replicating sexual intercourse. A small vibrator such as the bullet is designed to sit inside the vagina, whereas the vibrating unit is used to stimulate the G-spot. This can be increased and decreased as desired from the control. Models which are designed for clitoral stimulation can come in many designs such as the finger vibrator. There are others such as rabbit vibrators, wand vibrators, G-spot stimulators, and even some that are shaped like a lipstick. Other models come with unique designs where they have small and circular areas that sit around the clitoris, or they can be used on nipples to send shudders through other body parts. And, other types of small vibrators include the ones which sit inside panties and nestle against the clitoris and just inside the vagina. These, in most cases, come with wireless remotes to save having the cord hanging out of your panties. One last type of small vibrator is so discreet, you can even wear them. These come in the form of a necklace and are similar to the size of a ballpoint pen. These are designed with pleasure, discretion and travel in mind. How to Choose Mini Vibrator for You It can seem strange to say size is a consideration when choosing a mini vibrator, but it does need consideration. Much of this is down to how you will be using your vibrator. Externally or internally makes a huge difference. Mini vibrators reach a maximum length of 6 inches so they can be small enough for any new user, but once you want to be discreet, then things change. With ones that can be worn around the neck, to ones shaped like a lipstick, you have added secrecy, and no one will know how you spend your evenings. After your size considerations are taken care of, you need to think of materials. At this stage, you should also know that there are a few manufacturers who still use toxic chemicals in their sex toys, so making sure they are rated as “body safe” is vital, no matter how simple or how small your vibrator is. These toxic chemicals can quickly lead to itching or rashes when used, and they are the last things you want rubbing your clitoral region or resting on your vulva, or placed inside your vagina. Plastic mini vibrators can deliver more stimulation than rubber or silicone, but even with their small size, they can be noisy. If you want to be quiet, or you want a softer touch, you’re better going for silicone creations. And this is because silicone has the added advantage of being durable and body safe. What Are the Benefits of Discreet Vibrators? Benefits are; they are much cheaper than larger vibrators. Discreet vibrators are great for anyone who is experimenting with sex toys, and they can be carried around without anyone noticing too. On the sexual side, they can deliver a mighty punch and size shouldn’t be a reason not to purchase one. With a small, external, discreet vibrator, you can tease the clitoris in the best way you know possible, and in a way that no partner can. Small finger discreet vibrators can help to relieve stress and make the mood much better, and you can still orgasm just as easy in most instances. Big is not always better. There are lots of women who find larger vibrators bulky and difficult to use, and this is why discreet vibrators are the easiest sex toys to use for women. They also come with a lower lube requirement which is a good thing. One final benefit is; these discreet vibrators come with better battery efficiency. Where you might need two batteries in a more massive vibrator, a discreet vibrator will give you twice as long to enjoy yourself, and while using the same number of batteries. Discreet vibrators are also much easier to clean and store than their larger counterparts. Shop Small Vibrators ===COLLECTION=== Some Safety Considerations Small vibrators are pretty safe when in use, but plenty are produced as being a novelty. These won’t be manufactured to higher degrees of durability as larger vibrators are. Most of the safety considerations come from battery care or if they’re rechargeable. Unless the manufacturer states explicitly that these small vibrators are for use in water, neither a battery nor a small rechargeable vibrator should be used in the bath or shower. Even when classed as water resistant, they are not sufficient for exposure to extended periods of water. Battery-type small vibrators should always have their batteries removed between uses as these can leak if left for extended periods. Also, they could be prone to turning on when you least expect them to. Another safety consideration is the type of lubricant you use. Silicone oil should never be used on small silicone vibrators as it can break the material down. If you’re unsure, always stick to using a water based lubricant. One of the most important things users of small vibrators need to be aware of is the size. These won’t have flared bases and are not large enough for anal use. These can quickly be sucked into the rectum where they become difficult to remove. So, if you want to purchase a toy for anal, buy the right type for that. Usage Advice and Tips A small vibrator can be used in lots of situations. They are a fantastic addition for solo play when using fingers for vaginal masturbation. With a small vibrator, you can use these in any location around the home, or any other place you feel like some naughty fun. If using with a partner, a small vibrator can be a fantastic way to deliver lots of clitoral stimulation while your partner is thrusting into the vagina. These small vibrators that sit on fingers can be used by your partner during foreplay, and there’s nothing to say that they’re only to be used for solo masturbation. If you have a female partner, it can be pleasing to both to use one of these small vibrators on each other, especially when they’re the finger type. They allow for up close and intimate sessions with lots of stimulation. Because these small vibrators are so small and discreet, they can be used when traveling or at work. It’s imagination that can be the limiting factor. Even the small panty vibrators can be worn while out on the town, or while doing the grocery shopping. Sounds fun, right? One final place these small vibrators can be used is on your male partner. A finger vibrator or two can help stimulate his penis as you’re caressing him with your fingers. Or, you can tease under his scrotum for an instant reaction. Cleaning & Storage Tips Any vibrating unit must be removed before cleaning, and at the same time remove any batteries before storing. The outer case of the vibrating unit should be wiped with an antibacterial wipe and then dried before placing in a secure pouch. Batteries should be kept separately and away from any part of the motor or the small vibrator. Small vibrators can be easier to clean when compared to larger vibrators, but the cleaning and care processes will be the same. Because of the way silicone is constructed, it is durable, but it does definitely need checking for any cuts or lacerations if yours is made from that material. This is true for finger vibrators too, as it only takes a sharp fingernail to cut the skin of the silicone. As much as silicone can help prevent bacterial growth, it isn't able to stop that growth altogether. Small vibrators do need cleaning before and after use. This is a given, and just because they are smaller, these steps should never be forgotten. Washing under warm water with antibacterial soap is the easiest way to clean your small vibrator, but always check the manufacturer’s requirements to be sure. This can be bar soap or antibacterial dishwashing soap. If you have a clean, small vibrator and the surface feels sticky, there’s nothing wrong with this because it’s one of the natures of silicone. From here, just cover it in renewal powder before placing it into a secure protective pouch. You should then store it in a box that can be put out of the sunlight and that’s cool and dry. Batteries should also be stored in the same conditions because they can leak if exposed for extended periods. Common Questions People Ask I was looking at buying a discreet vibrator and was wondering about replacement batteries. What size do they take? This will depend on the size of the small vibrator; some use AA batteries while there are even smaller vibrators that use the same sorts of batteries as you find in watches. When it comes to changing the batteries, if they use AA ones, you can buy rechargeable batteries which are more cost-effective. However, you won’t be able to purchase rechargeable watch batteries. Can I use a finger vibrator for prostate massage? In theory, you can, but it isn’t advisable. These only sit on the end of the finger. And so, as soon as you insert this into the rectum, you will have a hard time sliding your finger out with the finger vibrator still in place. Plus, they’re not designed for this use. Which is the best, a discreet vibrator that sits in the vagina, or a clitoral vibrator? A lot of this depends on the user. Some women are unable to orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, so it makes little sense to use a vibrator that’s only used for penetration. Small clitoral vibrators can be a bit more versatile and used in other scenarios too. Additionally, you can increase or decrease the pressure against the clitoris to increase or decrease the sensations you give yourself (or your partner). Will a small panty vibrator slip inside my vagina if it is smaller? No, even though these small panty vibrators may be much smaller than their larger counterparts (such as the ones in vibrating panties), it is only the vibrating unit that will be smaller. The flared part will still be big enough to prevent it from buzzing its way upward. Buy from a reputable seller, always.

There are many penis toys on the market. Most of these are designed to resemble a vagina, mouth or anus, although there are now many more design innovations which take these pocket pussies much further. Now, you can get automatic male massagers which are still a sleeve type, but inside they move hands-free and simulate a hand or oral sex. Other male massagers are constructed to resemble a clenched fist, where it will automatically masturbate the user. These toys are convenient and easy to use while still spicing up what was often a solitary need. They are used to not only get self-satisfaction, but they also help to increase stamina for when they are in the bedroom too. With a little lube and a penis toy of choice, you can be manually or automatically pleasured without the need to fully picture a sexual scenario. Some of the more modern masturbators are said to deliver a better oral or hand experience than the real thing. And that’s amazingly-good news. Types of Penis Toys There are many different types in the form of pocket pussies, cock rings, vibrating cock rings, penis sleeves, or penis pumps, but to make it easier to understand, here is an overview of each type. Fleshlights – Although this is a company name, the term has become generic for the most classic and one of the most popular male masturbators. This was the company which started it all when they designed a masturbating sleeve which looks like a flashlight from the outside while containing the stimulating sleeve on the inside. Aka fleshlights, the name, was born. Pocket pussies – The name gives everything away, and these masturbators are made to replicate a female vagina. Most often they come in discreet cases and can be carried around inconspicuously. Cock rings – These are the earliest and purest forms of sex toys designed for men in the form of a ring which sits at the base of the penis and performs a contracting action on an erection. For men who wear cock rings there can be a significant ego boost, and this is because they have a harder and larger erection than without one. Vibrating Cock Rings – Vibrating cock rings build on the benefits of regular cock rings. They also add benefits for partners and are a little more versatile than a regular cock ring. They offer longer lasting and harder erections, help control premature ejaculations, increase the ejaculation fluid, and help with self-control. Penis sleeves – These are attachments which fasten to the penis without belts or buckles and sit snugly around the erect member. Many come in body safe materials like rubber, latex and silicone. In most cases, a penis sleeve takes on the appearance of an elongated cock or penis ring which wraps around the shaft, leaving the head exposed for ejaculation. ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose the Best Penis Toy for You There is no reason why you should only own one toy. By having multiple, you can have different kinds of sensations each time you use them. There are many different types and they deliver different sensations. For beginners, you should aim to start with the most basic penis toys until you are used to the sensations. Once you are more experienced, you can move up to one which contains inner nodules to increase stimulation or work your way to one of the automated, hands-free masturbators. The most dictating factor will be penis size. If you have a large penis, you need to aim for the largest size possible. If you are unsure, then you can find one size fits all that will adjust itself to your length and girth. What Are the Benefits of Penis Toys? There are many benefits of using a penis toy, and these are not only from gaining sexual satisfaction. Here are some benefits you might not relate to, from using your artificial male masturbators… Prevents premature ejaculation – This can hit men at any time, but men who frequently fall foul to premature ejaculation can delay this by using a male masturbator for around two hours before sexual intercourse. You can also build up your stamina by making yourself last longer before your orgasm. Helps prevent prostate cancer - Prostate cancer risks can be reduced in men who ejaculate five times per week, or more. This risk is cut by a third, so the more use of toys like pocket pussies will help you by flushing out any harmful buildup of toxins. You become harder – As men age, they begin losing muscle tone. This also affects the regions below the belt. Regular sex or gratification with a male masturbator helps to keep the pelvic floor muscles in check. This aids in preventing erectile dysfunction and also incontinence. In fact, using penis masturbation toys up to five times per week means that your lower muscles will perform admirably too. Better quality sperm – Regular masturbation improves the quality of sperm and also its motility. Men who masturbate on a regular basis before having sex actually flush out residual sperm from the internal tubes. If you are looking to conceive, then using your male masturbator before the act can increase the chances. Stress and depression – When you ejaculate, your body releases the feel-good hormones. This oxytocin is released with endorphins which raise mood and fight against depression. Plenty of male masturbation will keep you happier and less stressed. More intense orgasms or help with erectile dysfunction – Penis rings help trap the blood flow in the penis. There is a lot more pressure, so when it’s time to finish, this can be far more explosive and more intense than usual. ===COLLECTION=== Using Toys During Foreplay Although most penis toys are designed for self-satisfaction, there is nothing wrong with using them during foreplay with a partner. Penis sleeves can be used by the partner to spice things up a little. A partner who encourages the use of a stroker on the partner can open up a whole new world of sensations to the guy. This can help the partner also, because some find it hard to satisfy their partner with just their hand or mouth. There are lots of people who find that oral is much easier to give and less tiring. Men can also be unresponsive to the touch of the hand in such a situation, so now, the uses of a masturbation sleeve can make things much better for both partners. The partner also faces less strain and fatigue, and the guy gets the full benefits of being masturbated while receiving the full glory of the stimulating sleeve inside the masturbator. Depending on the construction of the masturbator, you can even head into the shower for some wet and wild action. It is also possible to double up on the fun, and have your guy touch you as you use the masturbation sleeve on him. Cleaning & Storage Tips Like all adult toys, penis toys must be cleaned before and after every use. If you are cleaning your device, make sure the end which holds the battery doesn’t enter the water. If there is sleeve attachment, it should always be removed and washed separately. You should also store your toys in cool, dry places and keep out of extreme heat or cold. If you have a rechargeable toy and haven’t use it for long periods, the battery must be fully charged every six months. Because of the various designs, other care methods will be required. Fleshlights need the sleeve removed and flushed with hot water to get rid of any lubricant and/or bodily fluids. Once you have done this, they need to be dried with a lint-free cloth, or you can air dry the inner sleeve. A hairdryer can be used for this as long as it is on cool, and isn’t used for too long a period. A light sprinkling of fleshlight powder or cornstarch can prevent the sleeve surface from feeling sticky after drying. Male masturbators with moving parts need to have these removed before washing, and these should be cleaned under a hot tap while making sure everything is wiped from inside the bumps and lumps of the stimulating nodules. When storing, male masturbators that are enclosed should only be sealed in their specified container, once they are thoroughly dried. Also, if you own more than one, these should be stored without touching each other, and in an environment which allows air flow around your toys. If you have a battery-powered masturbator, the batteries must be removed between usage in case the batteries deteriorate or leak.

Most of us know how to masturbate the old-fashioned way. Some of us have even taken our sexuality a step further and experimented with anal play with a partner. The act of merging the two together…let’s just say, giving yourself a booty orgasm might just be the life-changing kink you’ve been looking for. Anal Masturbation 101: How to Get Started If you’re new to anal masturbation, don’t worry about it – we’re going to walk you through it from beginning to end, offering tons of great tips and techniques throughout. If you’re completely new to anal play, the perfect place to start is the shower. Start by cleaning your booty, then bending over and allowing the water from the shower to stimulate your anus. Breathe deeply and connect with your anus – this helps you to get more comfortable with the feeling of light pressure in that area. Next up would be some good old-fashioned regular masturbation. Set yourself up in a calm and Zen environment and pleasure yourself how you typically would. Giving yourself a regular orgasm before tackling the back door is a good way to get relaxed and in the mood. Once you’re feeling prepped, tap into some anal foreplay before attempting any penetration. Start by stoking, massaging and even lightly spanking your butt cheeks, and then slowly move closer to the anal opening, where most of the nerve endings are. While you’re engaging in some solo foreplay, don’t be afraid to move around and try different positions. If you’re a beginner, it might take some time to adjust and maneuver your arm comfortably to back door territory. Experiment with different positions, add some pillows under your pelvis if needed, or even stand. Find what works for you! Another important factor that often gets overlooked is practicing conscious breathing and relaxation. Any tensing may cause pain or discomfort instead of pleasure, which is why being in the right environment and headspace is crucial. Before you attempt any sort of penetration the most important tool you’ll need is lubricant. Since the anus does not self-lubricate, you’re going to have to rely on other methods to keep it as wet as possible always. A body-safe and phthalate-free water-based lube is recommended because of the easy clean-up and nourishing effect, as well as it being compatible with silicone toys and condoms, if you decide to use any. However, keep in mind that water-based lubricants can dry quickly, so be sure to keep reapplying as needed. Silicone lubricants are great for sensitive skin, but can’t be used with other silicone products, so if this is what you want to use, stick to fingers only! Oil-based lubes are very long-lasting, so they’re a great option for those who don’t want to have to worry about reapplying a ton of lube. But it’s important to note that oil-based lubes are prone to breaking condoms, so keep that in mind if you’re adding that layer of protection to minimize the spread of bacteria. The easiest way to begin penetration is to start with your own fingers. Apply plenty of lube on your opening and fingers, and rub one finger on the rim of your butthole. As you get more aroused, keep applying more pressure and depth to your penetration. Just make sure your fingernails are cut short to avoid any cuts or injury! Why Try Solo First Anal masturbation isn’t just about getting off – it’s about connecting with an erogenous zone that may have been culturally stigmatized as taboo. Some are uncomfortable with the idea of anal because it has been conditioned in them from a young age that it is dirty, immoral, or just plain wicked. If you feel you might need to work through a battle against these beliefs yet still want to experiment with anal, then trying it alone first will be better. Sex shouldn’t feel shameful, and facing it alone can help you calm your nerves and ensure that you enjoy the act, before sharing the experience with someone else. Another reason for wanting to try solo first is to know how to please yourself first! There’s nothing hotter in the bedroom than someone who knows what they like, and can communicate that to their partner. At the end of the day, no one knows your body like you do. You can test your limits and find out what you like, don’t like, and how far you’re willing to go! Male Anal Masturbation As we get into male anal masturbation, the golden spot that may come to mind for many is the P-spot, also called the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the patch of skin between the balls and the anus, or by penetrating about 2 inches into the anus. If you hit the P-spot, you’re going to feel intense, body-shuddering waves of pleasure. There’s no rule on needing to only focus on the anus – double your hot masturbation session with a simultaneous hand job! Grasp your penis and stroke it up and down along the shaft, picking up the pace as you approach climax. Female Anal Masturbation For women, a killer orgasm can come from stimulating the A-spot, also known as the anterior fornix. Located about 5 or 6 inches into the vagina, you can indirectly penetrate it through anal sex. The A-spot is an area filled with erotically charged nerve endings which can quickly make you extremely wet and aroused. The feeling of A-spot stimulation is pleasurable enough, but an A-spot orgasm is mind-blowing. They’re way more intense and last longer than regular orgasms. The wonderful part about being a female is that you can have as many orgasms as you want, and you have plenty of erogenous zones to play with. Whether you’re giving or receiving –or both! – you can use your hand, fingers or a toy to rub along the clit and hood for added pleasure. The woman’s body has plenty of erogenous zones, so as your stimulating your anus with one hand, feel free to use the other hand with or without toys to explore the rest of your body. Pause on sensitive areas like your neck, breasts, scrotum, or even back of the knees and inner arms. Broaden your horizon by adding in some DP action – penetrate your vagina while having some anal fun. Whether your partner wants to use his penis or you choose to use a toy, it’s sure to double the pleasure. See if you can hit the G-spot while you’re at it! Anal Masturbation with a Partner There isn’t a long list of activities more erotic than mutual masturbation with a partner. If you’re a beginner, you should still follow the tips mentioned above on how to get started with anal masturbation. If you’re already comfortable with anal play, just remember to start off relaxed and aroused. If you’re the receiving partner, indulge in some erotic foreplay beforehand. Take a hot bath, light some scented candles, or watch some porn – anything that will get you relaxed and ready. If you’re more experienced, you can have a butt plug inserted long before your sensual play session for an even bigger build-up of arousal. Lastly, make sure you’ve got plenty of lube on hand! If you’re the giving partner, help get your partner in the mood by giving them the best foreplay session of their lives. Touch, lick and kiss the areas in and around their anus. After foreplay, if you’ve applied enough lube, you’re good to use your hands or beloved toys and get penetrating! ===COLLECTION=== Positions Despite there being multiple ways to masturbate anally, there are also tons of different positions to try! The best way to find out which position is best for you is by trial and error. Experiment slowly with yourself or with a partner until eventually finding the one which you feel most comfortable with. Facedown To do this one by yourself, start by lying face down on your stomach, and reach your arm behind you, resting it on your back. Reach your finger or toy towards your perineum or anus, and tease and insert at your ease. To do this with a partner, lie face down with your arms at your sides, and your legs slightly spread apart. Meanwhile, your partner can sit on whichever side is most comfortable for them, while gently massaging your anus. On your side To try out this position, lie on your side and bring your outer leg up towards your chest, and reach around to explore and stimulate your anus. You can also do this position with a partner, by having them sit behind you and reaching over to your anus. Doggy Get on all fours, and reach your arm between your legs or around your back to reach your anal opening. Massage and penetrate it at your pace. If you’re doing this with a partner, all they need to do is kneel behind you to reach your anus. Cow Cow is a fun and different one to try out, but is better suited for more experienced players. To do it alone, start by stabilizing your dildo, vibrator or other toy of choice on the seat of a chair, or any stable surface. Next, straddle your chair or gently kneel, hovering your butt just above the toy. Lower down slowly, gradually inserting the toy until you reach a depth that feels the best for you. To do this with a partner, lie on your back and have them straddle you, preferably while wearing a strap-on if they aren’t penetrating you with their penis. Have them put their knees on either side of your hips, and your hands on the bed or floor, and lower their butt, using their hips to slide inside you slowly, controlling the depth. 69 This position can only be used with a partner, but the best part is that it gives both partners the opportunity for anal stimulation at the same time! One partner will lie flat on their back and the other partner will kneel over their partner while facing the opposite direction. To practice anal stimulation in this position, you just have to reach your arms over and spread your partner’s butt cheeks, and then reach their anus. Techniques One of the best parts of anal play is playing with different techniques and discovering your new favorites! Whether you use one of these or a combination, you’re in for a wild ride. If you’re practicing with a partner, tongue play can be an excellent stimulator of the nerve endings in and around the anus. You most likely won’t be able to stimulate the P-spot or A-spot directly, but it’ll still create an extremely erotic sensation. If you’re the giving partner, use the tip of your tongue to tease along the cheeks before slowly working your way between them. Swirl your tongue around the anal opening first, then push the tip into the opening, darting in and out, mirroring a thrust. Finger stimulation can work whether you’re with a partner or alone. The fun with using your fingers for anal stimulation is the variety in movements and motions. Here are some of our favorites. Come hither: This is a classic move for a reason. When you slowly insert your lubed finger into the anus and curl your finger upward, you’re almost guaranteeing your partner a whirlwind of pleasure. As you go, gradually increase the depth and speed, and add some fingers if your partner is feeling comfortable and stretched. Once you’ve found the right pace and motion, just keep going as the pressure builds. Circling: When you feel that you’ve reached either the A-spot or P-spot, rub your finger in a circular motion, picking up the pace as your partner requests it. Play around with pressure and speed to find the perfect combination. Doorbell: From either the inside or the outside, find the tender sweet spot that makes them moan with pleasure and press your finger against it, as if ringing a doorbell. Start this act by applying light pressure, then gradually increase pressure and speed. Stimulated vibration: When you or your partner are close, you can stimulate vibrations by moving your speed up. Finally, you can use a sex toy, or if you’re playing with a partner, then a penis or strap-on. No matter which you choose, you can play around with pressure – applying or removing pressure will help you find your sweet spot. You can also play around with depth. Everyone’s pleasure points are different, so take it slow and gentle. Vibrations are also great when you’re close and want to push yourself over the edge! There are plenty of vibrating massagers with different vibration and pulse settings, so try out different combinations and see what does the trick. Of course, we’ve saved the best for last. Double penetration is absolutely on the table! While you can surely do this with a partner and a toy at the same time, there are also toys that have dual function, allowing you double penetration. Whether you have an external vibe that stimulates the perineum or clitoris during penetration, or a dual penetrating dildo or vibrator to penetrate the anus and vagina –if you have one– at the same time, you’re in for the climax of a lifetime! Hygiene There are a few precautions that you should be taking with regards to cleanliness. Firstly, whether you’re the giving partner or engaging in solo masturbation, you should make sure to have your fingernails properly groomed – trim and file your nails to prevent tearing the delicate skin of the anus, and to prevent the bacteria under your nails from entering your partner’s anus. You should always make sure to wash your hands thoroughly before any activity. If you want to take it a step further, you can put on a pair of latex or nitrile gloves to prevent any fluid transmission. During play, be very careful not to move your hands or toys from the anus to the vagina, or anywhere around it – this could cause some serious infections. The clean-up afterwards is equally important. Even if you don’t see it, fecal matter and bacteria from the anus can spread after touching the inside or outside of your anus. If you used gloves, throw them away immediately, and wash your hands and genital areas thoroughly. Additionally, use a wet cloth on any parts of your body that you touched before and after your anal play to cleanse the area. Remember to also wash off the toys and disinfect them properly, as well as the lube bottle that you used. You want to avoid ruining your memorable play session by minimizing the potential spread of any bacteria. Make sure to store them in a cool, dry area afterwards to prevent mold or bacteria growth. Best Sex Toys for Anal Masturbation While you may feel ‘caught up in the moment’ while in the shower and inclined to use basic household items for your anal masturbation session, this is extremely advised against. It’s important to only use toys that are sold for the purpose of anal insertion when attempting this form of masturbation. So, if you’re looking for a way to kick your anal masturbation session up a notch after getting comfortable with your fingers, toys are a great way to do that! Before getting started, it’s advised to figure out how much your anus can currently handle by measuring the width of the number of fingers that you can currently insert comfortably, or the width of the latest toy you’ve used anally. This will help you choose the right toy and size for you. Without further ado, let’s go through some fun and sexy toys that are great for anal masturbation, whether you’re doing it solo or with a partner. Anal Beads Anal beads are a real treat, regardless of whether you have a P-spot or an A-spot. Generally, anal beads are a string of beads that are evenly spaced apart. You can insert the beads one by one –as many as you can handle– and then pull the string of them out for a mind-blowing, pleasurable experience. Usually the beads will be sphere-shaped, but there are tons of variation on the market, such as oval beads, star-shaped beads, and even heart-shaped beads. The beads will also sometimes come in differing sizes, for example increasing in size from one end to the other. This ends up working wonderfully as an anal training tool, or as a starter to masturbation, in preparation for bigger toys. While these are fun to use with a partner since they can surprise you with pacing, they feel equally good alone. But the pleasure doesn’t only come from inserting and removing the beads – once the beads are inside you, you can use your anal muscles to clench and unclench them, offering you some intense inner stimulation. ===COLLECTION=== Butt Plugs Butt plugs are great for beginners to anal play, as well as gentle players. Butt plugs are used by simply sliding them into the anus, and leaving them to ‘plug’ your butt, for as short or long as you like. The purpose is to stimulate the many nerve endings located in and around the anal opening. They’re equally perfect for using alone, or with a partner. The kicker is that these toys can usually be worn for long periods of time, and they shift slightly as you move around, stimulating different areas of your butt. You can throw one on during your work commute or as you’re watching a movie for some amazing stimulation…and no one has to know. Butt plugs come in many shapes and sizes, so do your research on the best butt plugs and find one that suits your desires and capabilities. The typical style is a tapered, cone-shaped head with a flared base, to ensure there’s no accidental too-deep slippage into the anus. There are some that come in sets of 3 or more different sizes, so that you can work your way up, or you can even buy one that expands, as your anus gets more accustomed to penetration. Silicone butt plugs are the most popular, especially among beginners, because of their soft and smooth coating, which makes them easier to insert. However, as you get more comfortable with them, you can try out plenty that come with a fun twist, such as: Jewel butt plugs, which is a stylish addition for peep show fun Glass butt plugs, which are smoother but harder than silicone, and good for temperature play Tail butt plugs, which is a regular butt plug with a tail attached to it, making it perfect for fans of BDSM or role play ===COLLECTION=== Anal Vibrators Anal vibrators are vibrating toys that are designed to be inserted into the male or female anus. Some have the option to vibrate at different speeds, some offer different patterns which can deliver various sensations to your anus. The best part is, they also come in different shapes and sizes, so you can see which toy you like the most from your regular collection or those we’ve mentioned above, and buy the vibrating edition! If you’re engaging in this activity with a partner, you can even get a two-ended vibrator, which will please you and your partner at the same time. ===COLLECTION=== Prostate Massagers Specially designed for male genitalia, prostate massagers are the ultimate male anal masturbation tool. This gadget allows you to reach that small gland, located about two inches inside your anus that can lead to some incredible orgasms when stimulated. A prostate massager is usually shaped with a handle on one end, and an angled dildoesque piece on the other, which is the side that gets inserted into the anus. When inserted, as you move it, it provides a ‘come hither’ motion that’ll make you orgasm in mere minutes. There are also many prostate massagers that come with cock rings attached to them, for double the fun. Can it get any better than this? ===COLLECTION=== Dildos We can’t discuss sex toys without talking about dildos, can we? The first thing to note is that dildos are more for advanced players, as they’re usually larger than most of the other toys, like butt plugs. While you can surely use a regular dildo for penetration, there are tons of specially designed anal dildos to choose from.These anal dildos are better designed for anal penetration, and generally come with a flared base or hand grip to prevent too-deep slippage. They can be angled for prostate stimulation in males, or lifelike penis molding to please the masses. Beginner anal dildos will generally be slimmer and have less girth, but there are plenty of bigger options as you work your way into becoming a more experienced player. Just keep in mind that an anus isn’t like a vagina – it requires plenty of time and practice before it can take on larger toys safely, with no tearing. If you’re a beginner to anal dildos, try and find one that is tapered, as it’ll help you to only insert it to a point in which you can comfortably handle. There is a large array of different anal sex toys to choose from, and the options are increasing day by day. So, if you find yourself enjoying this new twist on classic masturbating, stay informed on new toys coming out specifically for anal play. ===COLLECTION=== Final Words The best part of anal masturbation is that it isn’t simply about the destination, but the journey. Even if you don’t get an anal orgasm right away, it’s very likely you’ll have some type of orgasm along the way. Make sure you’re relaxed, aroused, and enjoy all the pleasures the butt has to offer!