How to Use a Wand Vibrator to Achieve Magical Orgasms

What Is a Wand Vibrator?

The wand vibrator is perhaps the best-known vibrating sex toy on the market; it is a massage device that has a rounded vibrating ball attached to a flexible neck and a long handle. Its primary use is as a massager, where you apply the vibrating ball on the places you need relief. Still, it is more popular and more effective to apply the vibrating ball on the clitoris and use it to achieve more potent, more intense orgasms.

How to Use a Wand Vibrator?

Using a wand vibe comes pretty intuitively, as you can use it in several ways with incredible results. The following steps describe the basics you need to know when you want to play with a wand massager:

• Learn the controls – before you apply the wand vibe to any part of your body, make sure you learn the controls and check out what every button does. Press all the buttons and scroll through the intensities to see what you can expect from it. Some models come with a boost button, which takes the vibrations into overdrive, and you don’t want to accidentally press that button and ruin your playtime and even cause harm to your body.
• Prefer lube – lube is a multi-purpose thing, as it not only makes things slippery, but it also helps when you play with external stimulation. A dab of water-based lube can be really helpful when using a wand vibe, as it will help spread the vibrations and prevent chafing of the skin. If you want, you can roll a condom over the head of the wand vibe for safe play and to facilitate cleaning.
• Start low and go slow – we are constantly highlighting this point, as it is a significant thing to know. Our advice is to start your wand vibe at the lowest setting and not immediately place it on the clitoris. Instead, tease yourself (or your partner) for a bit, testing the vibrations on the thighs or nipples before you focus the attention on your clit. After you become comfortable with the vibrations, you can intensify them but never press on to an overwhelming intensity.

Why Use a Wand Vibe: Wand Massager Benefits

The wand vibrator is very powerful, with some models reaching up to 9,000 RPMs, which is indeed high-intensity stimulation. Because the wand vibe was first intended to be used as a body massager, and it hasn’t lost this function, you can use it for a full body massage before you engage in sexual stimulation.

The shape of most wand massagers is similar, with a handle and button controls and a sizeable vibrating head that delivers all that delicious stimulation. So, you can rotate and position the vibrating wand head against your body in several ways, depending on the stimulation you wish to experience.

Overall, the wand massager benefits are plentiful, starting with full-body massages and relaxation to soft or intense sexual stimulation. The wand massager is also a versatile and oft-used sex toy in BDSM plays, as the intense stimulation it provides is perfect for edging, forced orgasms, or orgasm denial.

Ways to Use a Wand Vibrator

Because the wand vibrator doubles as a body massager and a clitoral stimulator, you can use it in several ways, either alone or with a partner. Here are a few ways you will certainly enrich your sex life with a vibrating wand:

• Body massages and foreplay – we can’t think of a better way to relax and unwind after a long day than with a sensual, relaxing body massage. And one that will culminate with a happy ending; there is nothing that matches this. Start from your neck, down your nipples, stomach, and buttocks, and continue with stimulating all your erogenous zones with soft vibrations. Alternatively, you can let your partner do the work or take turns teasing each other.
• Amplify your pleasure during masturbation - women have used the wand vibrator as a practical hand for solo pleasure time for over 6 decades. The stimulation is powerful and pinpointed, and the orgasms are as intense as possible. Many women enjoy using the wand vibrator for edging, extending their sexual pleasure for hours on end before reaching a mind-blowing orgasm. You can even use it over the clothes, as the wand’s vibrations are deeply penetrating the muscles and nerves. Here, we must note that the wand vibrators need getting used to, so always take your time and learn the best way that your body responds to pleasure.
• Use it during sex – one way you can use the wand vibrator is during sex. Stimulate your and your partner’s erogenous zones during oral sex, and use the wand to add extra sensations during penetrative sex. Press the wand to the clitoris or the perineum, and both partners will feel the intense vibrations the wand provides.
• Add it to BDSM playtime – BDSM practitioners primarily use the wand vibe as it is a perfect tool for both rewards and punishments. It is helpful for orgasm control, for edging, for punishment, and forced orgasms. Many combine the wand vibe with various sex toys, such as dildos and anal plugs, and it’s even better used with restraints. Of course, you should discuss this with your partner, and consent should be obtained from both parties.

Types of Wand Vibrators

Given their versatile application for sexual pleasure and relaxation, the wand vibrators come in many variations. Most of them feature similar designs, sizes, colors, and intensities, which are all categories in which wand vibrators can differ. We cover all you need to know about choosing wand vibe so please check our our blog for more guides. Here we share the main wand vibrator models you can find in our store:

• Classic magic wand – the classic magic wand refers to the original model made by Hitachi in 1968. Even though it was marketed as a back massager, it soon found its new application – a sure way for some stress relief (read: orgasms). The classic wand has kept its original look, but today’s models come with significant improvements, like multiple vibration patterns and a more considerable rotation span of the ball-shaped head. We believe that this wand vibe will never go out of style, as it is a powerhouse that guarantees incredible pleasure.
• Rabbit wand vibrator – this model is based on the original wand, but it has some extra features, and the key one is the bunny ears protrusion on top of the rotating head. It functions as a clit stimulator, and you can use it in various ways that ensure intense pleasure for both partners, should you use it in a couple’s play.
• Insertable wand vibrator – this model is incredible and powerful, as it combines the vibrations of a wand vibe and the sensations you get from an insertable or G-spot vibrator. So, instead of a clear-cut vibrating ball head, the insertable wand vibe has a bulky rounded tip that you can insert in the vagina and enjoy internal stimulation.
• Double-ended wand vibrator – you can also get a wand vibe that is usable from both ends, and these models either feature two heads on both ends or have a rotating head on one side and feature an insertable shaft on the other side.

Are Wand Vibrators Safe?

Wand vibrators are safe sex toys as they are intended for external stimulation. But staying safe is always a priority; we must emphasize that you should only use sex toys made from body-safe materials. Because of the design of the wand vibrator, most of these are made from ABS or PVC bodies and have silicone or vinyl vibrating heads.

There are quality wand vibes that are fully encased in silicone, which makes them fully waterproof and submersible. These models are easier to maintain and may be more comfortable to use. Please note that these are only compatible with water-based lubes, but be careful with non-waterproof wands, as you need to be extra diligent when using these.

Final Thoughts

We hope that our guide on how to use a wand vibrator is helpful, but we also offer a lot more guides on choosing and using various sex toys, which you can check out on our blog. We invite you to browse our sex toy store, where we carry a wide offer of vibrators, dildos, male sex toys, anal toys, sexy lingerie, BDSM gear, and so much more.