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How to Choose Sex Toys for Couples?

How to Choose Sex Toys for Couples

Editorial Team |

Sex is a natural and beautiful thing, but it sometimes can become stale and in need of spicing up. Enter sex toys for couples – sex toys that are designed to be used with a partner, and these are exciting and wonderful little helpers that can really make a difference in your bedroom. Granted, you can use some of these solo, but plenty of these are most effective when used between couples. So, our experts expand on the different sex toys for couples, and we also cover some tips on how to use these for the most significant effect.

What are Sex Toys for Couples?

Sex toys for couples are sex toys that can be used between two partners during foreplay or sex. Many of the sex toys for couples you can also use for solo play, but the bulk of these are best used to share the fun. While you can get your partner to use a dildo or a vibrator on you during sex, when we say sex toys for couples, we are talking more about the sex toys you can use for simultaneous stimulation.

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How to Choose Couples Sex Toys?

When choosing a sex toy for couples use, you need to keep in mind to get a model made from body-safe materials that will indeed spice up your sex life and enhance your overall bedroom experience. Here are the most important questions you and your partner need to answer so you can make a reasonable choice for a couple’s sex toy you’ll both enjoy:

  • What is the intended use? Are you looking for something small you can use to tease yourselves during foreplay, like a finger vibe or a bullet vibrator, or are you looking for something you can use during penetrative play, like a couple’s vibrator? Maybe you wish to give anal play a try, so choosing an anal training kit or a butt plug may be the way to go.
  • What size toy do you think will work for you both? It is an important consideration, mainly because not every toy is suitable for every person, so you need to discuss and make a mutual decision on the type and the size of the sex toy you want to try.
  • Are you after role-playing sexy games? If you are into role-play games in the bedroom, then the options are far more significant, especially with the option to select tail butt plugs, face masks, and other sexy costumes that both partners will enjoy.

Next, consider the materials and construction of the chosen sex toy before you make your purchase. We always advise you to get sex toys made from body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel, as these are non-porous materials that are effortless to keep clean. Ease of use is another critical factor, as you want a sex toy to use with your partner that will fit instantly and enhance the sexual experience, and not something you need hours to learn how to operate.

Always discuss things with your partner, think about the possible options, and make a selection based on your mutual expectations. We advise you not to be shy but to be open and discuss things over and take the plunge with a sex toy for couples, and we guarantee you’ll soon be looking for more additions to your collection.

Different Sex Toys for Couples

There is an immense choice when it comes to sex toys; people can find so many selections for couple’s sex toys. Here we’ll list the most popular sex toys for couples that are sure to spice up your sex life:

  • Finger Vibrators – the finger vibes are among the most versatile sex toys for couples, as you can use these in so many ways. Use these during foreplay, during oral sex, or even when having penetrative sex, and tease your partner and yourself to a screaming climax.
  • Strapless strap-ons – the strapless strap-ons are perhaps the top choice for couple’s play. The woman wears the vaginal bulb in the vagina and uses the dildo section to penetrate her partner, whether it is a male or female partner.
  • Couple’s Vibrators – the couple’s vibrators are specifically for couple’s play and are designed to be worn during penetrative sex. Most of these are app-controlled and allow you and your partner to enjoy so many sensations.
  • Hollow strap-ons – the hollow strap-on has many uses, and one of these is to add length and girth to a man’s penis, which is perfect for couples that have sexual issues.
  • Squirting Dildos – these are excellent dildo models for couple’s play, as you can ride one and have it “cum” on demand. Add one of these models in your sexy time and enjoy an ultra-realistic experience while your partner watches or partakes in the action.
  • Cock Rings – these are straightforward yet effective sex toys for couples because the cock ring sits at the base of the penis and helps the man maintain a harder erection for longer. It helps men who have premature ejaculation problems and similar issues. You can really enjoy using a cock ring during sex, and you can spice up things further with a vibrating c-ring as it vibrates in all the right places.
  • Sex Party Games - these are not sex toys per se, but are among the sexy essentials you should consider adding to your sexy time. 20 sexy questions or Sexy Truth or Dare never sounded better!

Benefits of Using Sex Toys for Couples

Apart from the obvious benefit of more orgasms, using sex toys for couples brings so many other benefits, like:

  • Increased intimacy & deeper intimacy – just discussing sex toys can bring the partners closer together and can boost intimacy immensely. Having this kind of talk is also helpful as an icebreaker to other things, which can often lead to strengthening the relationship and deepening the trust between the partners.
  • Spice up the bedroom activities – couples that have been together for years may experience a lull in their sex life, and adding sex toys is a great way to make things new and exciting again. Also, sex toy use is a sure way to open new avenues to pleasure, experimentation, and sexy enjoyment, which can help partners reconnect physically and emotionally.
  • Fantasy fulfillment – many people try to hide their true sexual fantasies for fear they’ll be misunderstood. Discussing and introducing sex toys to the bedroom is a perfect way to overcome these fears and open up to your partner more. It is often that the partner will have the same or similar tastes, which is sure to lead to increased pleasure and living out your fantasies.

We hope that our short guide on how to choose couple's sex toys is helpful, but we also have specific guides on choosing and using different sex toys, so please check out our blog. We invite you to browse our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of sex toys for solo and couple’s play, including vibrators, dildos, BDSM gear, and so much more.  

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