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by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
The mighty dildo is anyone's favorite sex toy, and it is by far the most-sold sex toy ever. Because of its popularity, we can freely claim that most adults have tried using a dildo in their lives. Still, some may feel that they can take a larger model, and it is often that people tend to order a more massive dildo than they've used in the past.
So, here we'll discuss the particulars of using a large dildo and provide in-depth advice and tips on safely playing with a large dildo. If you're ready to take on a challenge and want to explore sex plays with bigger-sized dildos, this guide is for you!
Why Use A Large Dildo?
Thick and large dildos are sex toys designed to look and feel like a regular penis but come with a considerable girth and length. These also come in a variety of materials like silicone, PVC, TPE, metal, or glass, and you can get pretty creative when using an enormous dildo.
Large dildos look like regular-sized dildos, with realistic veins, pronounced glans, and even a pair of balls at the end. Some models are smooth, models with texture, and models that have added features that can enhance the entire experience.
We recommend you stick to silicone or other body-safe materials when it comes to using a large dildo, as these provide the best user experience. Also, you can get a dildo with a suction cup base that lets you stick your massive dong to a flat surface and ride it any way you like.
The Appeal of a Large Dildo
Taking in a sizeable dildo inside can be quite a challenge; however, it is not impossible. Now, you might wonder why anyone would want to experiment with such a giant sex toy. The first and most apparent reason is to try something new and different. If you've only been accustomed to regular-sized penises, opting for a large dildo can help you explore your anatomy and find out just how full you can get.
The exquisite feel of fullness is a different reason by default, as many women like to feel their vaginas filled up and their walls throbbing on a thick surface. It is also suggested that large dildos can help you orgasm better and faster since they offer more friction, resulting in extra stimulation and feelings of pleasure.
Many women choose large dongs because of the visually intimidating appeal, as experimenting with different sizes is simultaneously pleasurable and challenging and invokes different types of pleasure.
How Big Are Large Dildos?
Regarding dildo size, there are small, average, and large models; the large models are also divided into several groups based on the length. As the general concession goes, anything larger than 7 inches in length can be considered a large dildo, but here are some more options:
7, 8, 9 Inches
These are just over the average size and usually come in various designs with extra features. The most common additional features are a set of balls and a suction cup base, allowing creative use. We recommend 7-inch, 8-inch, and 9-inch dildo sizes for people with some experience using dildos, as these have a slightly bigger size than the average and should be manageable by most users.
10 & 11 Inches
The 10 and 11-inch dildos are relatively big and provide much fullness and stretch. Not for everyone, 10-inch and 11-inch dildos usually look like a natural penis, have realistic textures, have balls, and come with a suction cup base that sticks to most flat surfaces. These rarely come with vibrating mechanisms intended to provide a stretching feeling.
12+ Inches
These are massive dildos, also known as 'monster cocks', and are pretty much a legend. It takes ages of training and stretching before you can even get a 12-inch dildo in, as these are large in length and thickness, with an average diameter of about 3 inches or more.
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How to Prepare For a Large Dildo
Using a large dildo can be a challenge, especially for users who have little experience with sex toys or have only used small dildos before. The key to comfortably and pleasurably using a large dildo lies in patience and practice. So, we prepared a few tips and tricks that you can use to ease your way into using large dildos.
Start with a Clean Toy
Always start your play with a clean toy. When you use a large dildo, you may need to be more attentive in washing it; use soap and warm water to wash and clean your large dildo, and make sure it is nicely dry before you use it.
Relax and Engage in Foreplay
Foreplay is the most critical factor that can make or break your sex play, whether you're alone or with a partner. Engaging in foreplay will allow you to relax your body and loosen your muscles, including the vaginal muscles. Do what puts you in a sexy mood, and explore your body however you like it.
Becoming aroused is vital to successfully using a large dildo, as when you are turned on, the vagina elongates and produces lubrication, allowing you to take a giant toy. For starters, you can try using your fingers or a smaller-sized toy to ease into it; then, you can use your large dildo and start inserting as much as you feel comfortable with.
Practice A LOT!
As they say, practice makes perfect; the same is true even about sex toys such as large dildos. Getting your vagina accustomed to a more giant sex toy requires time, especially if you've chosen an incredibly large and thick dildo. Also, staying patient through the pieces is the most important thing. We advise you to start small, slow, and work your way up!
Tips for Safely Using a Large Dildo
Once you're sufficiently prepared and feel like you're in the mood for penetration, you can move on to inserting your large dildo. To ensure your safety and comfortable use, follow the advice below:
Lube Up
Lube is essential every time you use a sex toy, and even more so when that particular toy is meant to stretch you out. When it comes to lubricant, you can never have too much, and make sure you apply it both on the large dildo and your vagina. The lube must be compatible with the material your large dildo is made from, and to be safe, we advise you to use a quality water-based lubricant. Applying the lubricant is not a one-time thing - the bottle should constantly be near you, and you can add as many or as many times as needed.
Listen to Your Body
To prevent tearing or injuries, always listen to your body. Explore what feels comfortable, and whenever you get the sense you can get the large dildo a bit further inside, do it slowly and in incremental amounts. If you feel discomfort or pain at any point, take out the dildo and give yourself a little break. You can reapply lube and start over or leave the practice for another day. Additionally, avoid using your large dildo wherever you feel sore.
Mind Your Anatomy
Being mindful of how you position your large dildo during sex can make all the difference regarding your orgasms. For example, if you're using a slightly curved large dildo but you feel as if your vagina walls are hindering its progression inside, don't try to jam it in. You should first explore the anatomy of your vagina and get a feel of how much space your uterus offers. You can do so by using your fingers or by exploring yourself with smaller sex toys such as bullet vibrators or vibrating eggs.
Combine with Other Sex Toys
Even if you're not able to penetrate yourself thoroughly with a giant dildo, it doesn't mean that you cannot use other toys to satisfy yourself during practice mode. Bullet vibrators, clit suckers, or anal sex toys are all great options that you can use simultaneously with your large dildo and easily reach an orgasm. If you want more advanced toys, you can combine your large dildo with a clit stimulator, such as a finger vibrator, to enjoy both internal and external pleasure.
Bonus Tip: Don't Ride It
While large dildos often come with suction cups, they are far from practical for riding. Unless you're a pro at tackling large dildos and you're able to fully take one inside you, trying to ride this sex toy can be very dangerous.
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Final Thoughts
Large dildos are very similar in design to regular dildos; their only specialty is their larger size. To ensure you use them safely and enjoy their benefits, it's necessary to be patient and take things one inch at a time.
As long as you have some lube by your side and you're mindful of the materials and quality of the sex toy, you can quickly get into practice mode and achieve full insertion in no time. Remember, play with yourself, explore your body, and enjoy as many sizes as you want - intense orgasms will come naturally to you!
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by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
We bet you’ve seen porn movies where female ejaculation, more popularly known as squirting, has been involved. The process is sexy, and contrary to popular belief, it is not an actual orgasm. For some women, it comes naturally, but others must work to achieve it. Let us discuss this process in detail and outline whether it is possible to squirt with a dildo.
What is Squirting?
Squirting or female ejaculation is a process of shooting out an ejaculate fluid from specific glands in the vagina. If these areas are adequately aroused and stimulated, the woman can ejaculate, which is very hot and sexy to experience and observe.
The vagina is a place to explore and find many pleasurable places to be stimulated. There are many spots to stimulate: not just the clitoris but also the G-spot and A-spot. Still, there is another place called Skene’s gland. This Skene’s glands are twin glands located above or behind the G-spot, along the urethra, inside the vagina on the front vaginal wall, and near the bladder.
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It is a place to explore: when the woman is deeply aroused, you can touch and feel it. After you locate it, you need to stimulate it long enough, but the woman needs to be genuinely relaxed to be able to squirt.
The squirting is triggered when the spasms of the orgasm take over the body. We need to be precise – squirting is not the orgasm itself, but the stimulation and the sensations of the orgasm spark up the squirting.
Many women will never experience this sensation; others who are almost going to squirt may feel like they are almost going to pee and may stop it. But don’t be shy; female ejaculate is not pee, so continue what you are doing, relax, and try to enjoy it all the way.
The female ejaculate during squiring is not urine; the ejaculate is very different in composition, look, and smell. The secretion has specific proteins and is somewhat similar to saliva, but it also is hard to clean if left to dry. It means you should clean yourself and your toys while wet; if you leave the dildo to dry with female ejaculate, it will be hard to clean.
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How to Squirt with a Dildo?
We have prepared a guide to help you learn how to squirt alone or with your partner. For starters, find Skene’s glands, which are located inside the vagina, above and behind the G-spot on the front wall of the vagina. First thing first, relax and try to clear your mind, as sex starts in the brain for many women.
If you try to find it, please note that this gland has a bit of a different structure. When aroused, the G-spot and Skene’s glands have a ridged structure similar to the upper wall of the mouth and the upper palate. If the partner stimulates you, the verbal communication should be on a high level, and you must tell them what and how it feels for you.
Rub the Right Way
Make sure you pay good attention to the clitoris to promote blood flow to the area, and it will arouse you and put you in the mood. You can use a rabbit vibe and dual vibrating arms to stimulate yourself from the outside and the inside.
When you find this structure and stimulate it enough, the gland can create and secrete a thick secretion that can splash like a jet or seep out slowly. We need to explain that it is different for every woman, and some don’t even feel it until they get up and see the mess they’ve left on the bed.
You can control how the secretion comes out; if you don’t pressure it, it will seep out slowly, but if you use the Kegel muscles and contract them, the ejaculate can jet out. It is up to you; if you exercise, it will come out the way you like it, even splashing all over your partner, as the porn stars do.
You can stimulate this area in different ways, with your fingers, a dildo, a vibrator, or with the partner’s penis. The best way to stimulate it is with a dildo or a vibrator, as the fingers may not reach the wanted place, or it may be uncomfortable. If you use fingers, the fingernails should be cut short so as not to scratch the gentle vaginal surface.
It is difficult for a penis to stimulate a specific spot, but a dildo can. You need to thrust the dildo repeatedly in the same place and apply a fair amount of pressure to achieve the most potent stimulation and deep pleasure.
Relax, Get in the Mood, and Let Go to the Sensations
When you use a dildo, make sure to use water-based lube when you start playing, as the vagina needs some time to lubricate itself. Later, stimulate the wanted place and use a firmer dildo. Please note that jelly and TPE dildos are too soft for this application, and it can be challenging to achieve the necessary stimulation.
We suggest you opt to use a firm silicone dildo, a glass dildo, or a metal dildo, as these are rigid enough to hit the spot. Some dildos are specially constructed with a bulbous tip or a rounded extension that can stimulate the G-spot and Skene’s glands.
If you are a beginner in this type of sexual play, don’t get disappointed if it doesn’t go right the first few times. We recommend you relax, be patient, and practice; we are confident you’ll get it right. When it happens, you should enjoy the unique sensations this brings.
We hope our guide on how to squirt with a dildo is helpful and you’ll decide to experience this unique sexual experience. Also, please check out our other guides below and browse our sex toy store, where we provide a broad array of dildos and other sex toys to satisfy anyone’s tastes.
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by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
Squirting dildos are fun and exciting and are the sex toys that bring the most realistic experience. Also known as ejaculating dildos, these provide so many uses for solo and partnered play. Here, we’ll expand on how to use squirting dildos and discuss some of the most popular ways you can use this exciting toy. Still, we’ll also outline many of the benefits you can reap when you add an ejaculating dildo to your sex toy repertoire.
Why Use a Squirting Dildo?
In one word – you should use a squirting dildo because it is fun. We love these bad boys, and we’ve had so many noteworthy sex experiences using such dildos. So, here are the key facts that show why you need to use a squirting dildo.
Increased Realism
The primary thing from a squirting dildo is the increased realism of the experience. You can use a dildo solo or with a partner, and you can enjoy the ejaculating sensation even without a partner. To do this, you need to add a liquid of your choice to the dildo and engage the squirting mechanism to make the dildo cum. We don’t need to explain that you will enjoy incredible and realistic sensations.
Great for Cum Lovers
If you are a cum lover, then this dildo is for you – even after your partner is spent, you will still get to enjoy the sensation of having hot cum splash over your favorite parts. Of course, you can use various liquids of your choice (more on that below) and have your ejaculating dildo cum as many times as you like.
Great for Adding Lube
An excellent way to utilize the ejaculating dildo’s main feature is to add lube when you need it. If you engage in a long play session, lube is your best friend. But instead of slapping some cold lube on your sensitive parts, you can fill up your squirting dildo and then have it “cum” some lube whenever you need it. For this, we suggest you only use diluted water-based lube, which is easiest to use and compatible with all materials and skin types.
Fun to Try and Experiment
Having fun is the primary goal of all sexy plays, and using a squirting dildo is such an exciting way to explore your sexy boundaries, test your limits, and experiment. We suggest you add a squirting dildo to solo play as a way to increase the realism and add a squirting dildo to partnered play as a way to increase excitement and experiment with your partner.
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How to Use a Squirting Dildo?
Now, to the good stuff – how to use a squirting dildo! A squirting dildo consists of a dildo shaft, a liquid reservoir, and an ejaculating mechanism. There are three basic squirting mechanisms, and each has its own fill-up and ejaculation techniques:
Pump-filled ejaculating dildos – these have a squeeze pump that sits at the end of a tube that runs through the center of the dildo. Squeeze the pump to let the air out, dip the head of the dildo into the lubricant, and release the pump, allowing it to suck up the liquid. When ready, you press the pump to squirt the liquid.
Syringe ejaculating dildos – these have a syringe that you fill like any other syringe, and when ready, you need to depress the syringe to create the pressure required for spurting the semen-like lubricant.
Testicle-powered ejaculating dildos – these have the ejaculating mechanism built into the testicles. Squeeze the testicles to force the air out, dip the tip of the dildo into the lubricant, and release the pressure on the testicles to fill it up. When you are ready, squeeze the testicles to engage the ejaculation.
Now, after you’ve filled your squirting dildo, you can go about and use it as you like – use it with your hand, ride it, use it in a strap-on harness with your partner, or any way you are comfortable. When you are ready, aim the dildo where you want, and engage the squirting mechanism, letting the cum lube shoot out of the dildo.
What Lube to Use with a Squirting Dildo?
Now that you know how to use a squirting dildo, we need to discuss what liquids you can use with it. There are some specialized cum-like lubes that are designed to look and smell like actual semen, which are perfect to use with your squirting dildo. It would be best to dilute these a little, as most are pretty thick and not easy to squirt. After you dilute them with some water, you can fill up your squirting dildo and enjoy the ride.
Also, you can use a regular water-based lube, again, somewhat diluted, to facilitate ejaculation. We don’t recommend you use any other type of liquid like silicone-based lubes or oil lubes, as these are not compatible with the dildo materials.
Pros of Using a Squirting Dildo
There are some exciting benefits that you get from using a squirting dildo. These bring an entirely new level to dildo play; whether you are alone or with your partner, you can still get a realistic experience. The squirting dildos are waterproof, which means you can play in the shower or bathtub, and cleaning these toys is effortless.
An exciting benefit of using a squirting dildo is enhancing the mood with unexpected spurts of lube. You can try filling the toy with warmed lube to enable more effortless glide. A great benefit is to engage the squirting mechanism when you need some extra lube, getting more comfortable use.
An excellent option is that if your partner ejaculates before you, you can finish the job and have your partner help you and use an ejaculating lube. Also, you don’t have to have your ejaculating dildo cum into the vagina. Still, you can have the feeling of a cumming dildo ejaculating on your skin for a satisfying finish!
Squirting Dildo Safety Concerns
If used correctly, squirting dildos are very safe to use. The main concern with ejaculating dildos is the liquid you use for ejaculation. We recommend you only use a specialized liquid designed for this purpose. Don’t try to use unsuitable liquids, as they may clog the squirting mechanism and ruin your enjoyment.
Another thing we think is important is that you do an allergy test on your chosen ejaculating liquid before you go and squirt it in and around your sensitive parts. Don’t share your cumming dildo with anyone, and use it for only one activity, either for vaginal or for anal play, and never mix these up.
So, to be on the safe side, always clean and store your squirting dildos properly. Don’t use anything unsuitable as a squirting liquid, and don’t share your ejaculating dildo with a partner.
The Bottom Line
The bottom line is that squirting dildos are fun and exciting to use. These are most often made very realistically and resemble actual penises, which adds to the enjoyment of using such dildos. Also, you get the option to use various liquids with your squirting dildos, not only cum lube, so you can experiment and try things you’ve never even thought of yet.
Also, the squirting dildos come in exciting varieties, and you and your partner can enjoy and try most of these. We have other guides for you below, but we also invite you to browse our sex toy store, where we carry an exclusive and very extensive offer of squirting dildos and other exciting sex toys!
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by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
Glass dildos are sexy, elegant, and beautiful, and these provide fantastic, sexy entertainment. Many adventurous users have probably already tried using different types of sex toys, including glass dildos. Still, we’ll discuss the topic of how to use a glass dildo, and we’ll aim our helpful guide on helping novices to glass dildos.
What Is a Glass Dildo?
Glass dildos are dildos that are made from glass; they are usually borosilicate glass, the same high-quality glass that cooking kitchenware is made from. It is a body-safe, non-porous material that is durable, shatterproof, and able to withstand high temperatures. The dildos made from glass are unyielding and are not flexible at all, which is something a lot of users crave.
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How to Use Your Glass Dildo
As with other sex toys, start with a clean toy, by adding some lube to yourself and your body, and start slowly. Because glass is firm, you need to be careful and give your body time to adjust to the stretching sensation of the glass.
Because glass has a naturally lower temperature than the body, you must warm it up before use. We suggest you do this by placing it in warm water for a few minutes or using it for a sensual massage, allowing your body heat to warm up the toy. Go however you like; massage your erotic spots, your clitoris, nipples, or other sensitive areas to get some idea of how the dildo will feel.
We need to emphasize that you need to select a glass dildo with a size that you can safely manage. New users need to get smaller glass dildos and slowly work their way up in size because glass is not flexible at all, and too large a dildo from the start may cause damage.
You can play solo with your glass dildo, or you can play with your partner. Take advantage of the sensory play opportunities, and make your partner crazy with pleasure. Here we also need to note that glass dildos are a good option for double penetration, where the man’s penis goes into the vagina, and the glass dildo is used for anal penetration.
Why Use a Glass Dildo?
Many users are not comfortable with glass dildos because they are afraid the glass dildo will break and harm them. Other people find it too firm, but we can’t stress enough that glass dildos are safe and can be very comfortable to use. Glass dildos bring plenty of benefits, which we’ll cover at length here:
Glass Is Body-Safe and Non-Porous
Glass dildos are made from borosilicate glass, one of the safest materials sex toys are made from. Thus, a sex toy made from glass is latex-free and free from other chemicals, making it safe to use for vaginal and anal use as a hypoallergenic material.
Glass Is Compatible with All Lubes
Unlike other sex toys, glass dildos are compatible with all lube types. You can use water-based, silicone-based, or oil lubes with your glass sex toy. Because glass causes less skin friction, you can use less lube and still get a comfortable glide.
Glass Comes in Creative Designs
Because glass is malleable and easy to form in various shapes, glass dildos often come in aesthetically pleasing designs that many find elegant and even as décor statement pieces.
Glass is Perfect for Temperature Play
One of the unique benefits of a glass dildo is the opportunity to use it for sensory play. Ice and hot wax are fun, but a glass dildo provides so much more, as it retains heat very well and does not melt. Place your glass toys in hot water, put them in the fridge, or on ice for a while. The smooth texture of the glass, combined with the hot or cold sensations, creates a unique and pleasurable experience.
Glass Is Effortless to Maintain
Glass is effortless to wash, clean, and maintain because the surface is non-porous and very smooth. You can wash it with soap and warm water, boil it to sterilize it, or even place it in the dishwasher. Plus, you can use a sex toy cleaner or something more substantial to ensure your glass dildo is clean and sterile.
Firm Play
Glass is a firm material; you can use this feature for intense stimulation, providing deeper pleasure. Also, the glass dildo won’t get damaged with more vigorous use, but you will get the deep stimulation you crave.
Pros of Using a Glass Dildo
Above, we covered the whys of using a glass dildo, and these are also the main pros of using this incredible sex toy. Still, here are a few more reasons why you should give glass dildos a go:
Powerful Sexual Climaxes Alone Or With A Partner
If you’ve ever screamed ‘harder’ during sex, you need a glass dildo in your sex toy collection. The firmness of the toy without any flexibility and immense pressure makes this the best toy for hard stimulation. Once you find the right angle and push the spot, you can rest assured that your glass dildo won’t move from focus, even during penetration.
Best of all, you can use your glass dildo alone or with a partner! Its variety of shapes, sizes, and designs will allow you to utilize it in different ways during sex play, and the easy cleaning will make the switch between your partner and you real quick.
Extra Body-Safe Material
As we mentioned, glass dildos are non-toxic and hypoallergenic. This means they don’t absorb chemicals or release any toxins or scents, even the multi-colored versions. Even sensitive people can use them without worrying about allergic reactions, skin rashes, or irritations.
Additionally, glass dildos are simple to clean. Their smooth and non-absorbing surface ensures all bodily fluids or waste can be easily removed with antibacterial soap and water. So, cleaning them between sessions or when you’re switching them between partners is quick and straightforward.
Durability
If you want a sex toy that will give you pleasure for years, you should purchase a glass dildo. The borosilicate glass that glass sex toys are made of is shatterproof, temperature-resistant, and non-porous. This means as long as you clean your glass dildo properly and keep it safe from external damage, it will stay in top shape for a long time.
Glass dildos offer a lot more versatility. You can use these with any lubricant - natural, silicone - or water-based - and ensure the surface won’t deteriorate. With proper care, glass sex toys will serve you a lifetime.
Are Glass Dildos Safe?
We can’t be more direct regarding this, but glass dildos are very safe. Most glass sex toys are made from borosilicate glass, the kind that high-quality cooking glassware and laboratory glass are made from. This type of glass is shatterproof and can endure more extreme temperature changes, meaning you can use it for temperature play.
There are some glass sex toys made from soda-lime glass like the material drinking glasses are made from. This is also a body-safe material; although it is not as heat-resistant or shatterproof as borosilicate glass, it is just as durable.
Glass dildos are also created from solid glass, which means it’s thick enough to endure whatever you do during sex. For example, you can slip it in and out, squeeze it, slide it between two bodies, wear it, or grind it without damaging or breaking it.
However, as durable as glass sex toys, you should handle these very carefully. For example, dropping or throwing it on a hard surface will probably damage the toy. Even if the dildo doesn’t show any cracks, most manufacturers recommend discarding such toys away and opting for a new model.
An important thing to note is that you should never put your glass dildo in the microwave or the freezer. If you wish to heat the dildo, place it in a warm water bath; if you like to cool it down, an ice bath or regular fridge will do the trick.
Final Thoughts
A glass dildo is still a must-have item in your sex toy collection. Its firmness and durability are good reasons to get one, but the multitude of sexy, elegant, and beautiful designs make it even more desirable for many.
Plus, glass dildos are multi-purpose toys, and we promise you will have a lot of fun if you decide to introduce a glass dildo to your sexy play. Also, you can browse our sex toy store, where we carry an incredible selection of glass sex toys, as well as a variety of exciting sex toys!
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How to Use an Inflatable Dildo?
by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
Inflatable dildos are fun and profoundly stimulating sex toys, but these bad boys are not for just about anyone. It is a typical concession that inflatable dildos are only for experienced users, which is supported by facts we’ll discuss here. Also, please read on as we outline all the essential aspects of using an inflatable dildo and everything else related to inflatable dildos.
What Is an Inflatable Dildo?
The inflatable dildo is a sex toy that expands – it is a dildo-shaped balloon that you insert in the vagina (or anus) and pump up. When we are at it, we need to also outline the inflatable butt plugs – these work the same way as inflatable dildos. They start at one size and can inflate to a whole new size.
The inflatable dildo has several parts: the inflatable dildo, the hose, and the squeeze bulb with a safety valve. We must emphasize that the inflatable dildo is a safe toy and is not as crazy as it sounds. There is a limit to the inflation, and if you feel like you are getting too much stretching, just engage the quick-release valve and deflate the dildo.
Inflatable Dildo Tech Specs
Most inflatable dildos are made from rubber that can expand and hold its shape well. However, because of safety reasons, most inflatable dildos have a thin overcoat of silicone, latex, or PVC, which dramatically affects the feeling the inflatable dildo provides and the type of lube you can use. Overall, you are most likely to encounter latex and body-safe rubber inflatable sex toys that are best used with water-based lubes.
The shape of most inflatable dildos is a regular lifelike design that stretches when inflated. The texture is more pronounced when the dildo is deflated, and it gets firmer upon inflation, and you get to feel the structure as the dildo stretches you.
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Using an Inflatable Dildo
Using an inflatable dildo is thrilling from just the idea of using a dildo that can change its size when you utilize it. Please heed our advice, as this is important for your enjoyment and your safety.
Before you start playing, first test your inflatable dildo. Blow it up to its max capacity to see how large it can get, and test out the deflation valve to be safe. Plus, make sure you only use a clean toy, so wash your inflatable dildo before and after every use.
Inflatable Dildo for Vaginal Play
When you are ready, start playing with yourself and get in the mood first by applying a fair amount of compatible lube to the dildo and yourself. We recommend you use thick water-based lube that is compatible with all sex toy materials, is comfortable on the skin, and is easy to clean.
Insert the dildo in the vagina, and play with it for a while to get used to the sensations. When ready, you can pump and inflate the dildo. Please note to do this slowly to feel the stretching and avoid any injuries. Count the pumps and try to guess how much you can take. Stop several times to check how you feel, and deflate it if it gets too much. After you play with it several times, you’ll get the inflation/deflation just right.
Inflatable Dildo for Anal Play
If you opt to use your inflatable dildo for anal play, you need to be extra careful. We recommend you put more emphasis on relaxation and foreplay before you go and try to stick the dildo inside. After you take the time, add quality water-based lube to your anus and the dildo and start inserting it slowly.
If you start feeling discomfort, you should take a break and relax. Once the dildo is inside you, inflate it and find the size you are comfortable with. Experiment with inflating/deflating it to discover the most comfortable size and get the most stimulation.
Why Use an Inflatable Dildo?
The inflatable dildo is excellent for vaginal play, but we recommend it to women with experience in using oversized dildos. Its design is proven to bring a whole new level of sexual excitement, and it is truly an experience.
All vaginas are different in shape and size, and when the woman is sufficiently aroused, the vagina elongates and expands to receive the penis. Thus, you can take advantage of the option to inflate the dildo to reach deeper.
The inflatable dildo can be helpful for anal stimulation. It starts as a regular dildo, which is easier to insert, and once you get comfortable with it, you can inflate it to a deliciously stretching sensation. However, if you are after a more novel, stretching anal experience, we recommend you give the inflatable butt plugs a try, which we’ll cover later.
Inflatable Dildo Cleaning & Storage Tips
Cleaning your inflatable dildo is simple, as most of these are waterproof, and you can wash them with soap and water. You can also rinse the inflatable dildo with a sex toy cleaner. You should also clean the hose and pump with water, leaving it to dry well and ensuring no residual water remains.
Make sure you follow the manufacturer’s instructions on cleaning and maintenance and always store your inflatable dildo in a secure sex toy storage bag that will keep it dry and away from the elements.
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by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
When it comes to pleasure-enhancing toys, dildos wear the crown of versatility, with a great variety of shapes and sizes. Among this diverse lineup, small dildos stand out with their compact and manageable size and are the perfect intro into the fantastic world of dildo toys. A dildo can provide you with additional perks a penis can never give you, but let's be real, it can feel different, so we suggest you start off with a 5-inch dildo. Slim dildos are also viable for beginners and are quite trendy little peg toys for couples. Here we share a guide on how to use a small dildo that many will find helpful.
What Is a Small Dildo?
Any dildo that is less than five inches long falls in the category of small dildos. While you may be tempted by the idea of using a large or monster dildo, the small dildo has its merits. The small dildo is more versatile, easier to use, and easier to carry with you when you travel. Also, you can use it for vaginal or anal play and even practice your fellatio skills. It is perfect for teasing during foreplay and even in combination with other sex toys.
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How to Use a Small Dildo?
If you find yourself pondering the intricate art of using a small dildo, you might just stumble upon a handful of thought-provoking inquiries. Maybe you're thinking of adding a little pleasure boost to your solo playtime, use a small dildo as a multi-purpose tool and even to peg your partner. If you are considering buying one, here the steps you need to know on how to use a small dildo:
Clean your Small Dildo
Follow the manufacturer's instructions and tips on cleaning your particular small dildo. While some sex toys can handle the heat of cleaning them with boiling water, others prefer a gentler touch with soap and water or a specialized sex toy cleaner.
Be Generous with the Lube
To decrease friction between your skin and the dildo, lube is your best friend.In most cases, water-based lubes are the best option. They are compatible with all sex toy materials and suitable for vaginal and anal play. They are easy to clean up and won't stain your sheets.
Silicone-based lubes are the better choice for anal play since the anus doesn't self-lubricate. These lubricants last longer, providing a silky-smooth experience during intense sessions. However, silicone lubes are NOT compatible with silicone toys, so you can only use these with glass or metal toys.
Start with Light Teasing and Foreplay
As with all sexual activities, foreplay can enhance your experience and make it more fun. Warming up can include reading erotic stories or watching some porn, maybe throwing in some aromatic candles and music to get you in the right mindset. Test the feel of your small dildo by rubbing it against your body and your erogenous zones before inserting it. Start with your (or your partner's) inner thigh and move upwards to caress the clitoris or anus lightly with the tip.
It's Penetration Time
Once you've reached the peak of arousal, you can slowly start penetrating yourself, allowing time to see how it feels. You can switch up your thrusting speed and rhythm when you feel more confident. Feel the difference between moving slowly and moving quickly and erratically. Learn what you enjoy and share it with your partner so that you may both benefit during your next sexual encounter.
Step it Up
To increase the intensity of your stimulation, try using your small dildo together with a bullet, rabbit, or wand vibrator, clitoral suckers, or anal sex toys. Combining clitoral stimulation with penetration can be quite pleasurable and may result in a powerful climactic experience.
Clean-up and Store
Once you've had your delightful sexcapades, it's time to give your small pleasure companion a thorough cleaning with sex toy cleaner or soap and water. Use a soft cloth to pat it dry once you've cleaned it. Avoid rubbing vigorously, as it may damage the surface. Allow the dildo to air dry completely before storing it away. Tend to store your small dildo in a dedicated storage bag that is lint-free, like a silk storage bag that will keep it safe from direct sunlight and dirt.
Who Can Use a Small Dildos?
While anyone can use a dildo, no matter if it is a big or a small one. However, small dildos are more apt for the following users:
First Timers
For those venturing into the world of sex toys for the first time, small dildos are an ideal starting point. The non-intimidating nature of small dildos makes them popular among beginners, providing a gentle and enjoyable introduction to the world of sex toys. Their realistic designs and comfortable-to-use shafts make it easy for you to develop a fondness for them.
Petite Women
No need for an anatomy lesson here! It's no surprise that petite women prefer slender toys. The sex toys market features some of the smallest dildos ever made, including those with micro 1-inch girths. To cater to your unique needs, slimline shafts and lengths of 5 inches or less make for a more enjoyable experience if you are a petite woman.
Senior Enthusiasts
Tender love and care are paramount to senior users, which is why most of the sex toy manufacturers' offers include softer and slimmer dildos that offer maximum comfort. The realistic penis-shaped small dildos have emerged as popular choices, and the slender vibrating dildos provide an extra boost of sexual pleasure, making them highly sought after by seniors seeking delightful experiences.
Back Door Explorers
Many men are purchasing small sex toys for solo anal exploration. Additionally, couples are embracing narrow and slimline dildo styles for pegging adventures. The long and slender types stand out as the most comfortable options for insertion, ensuring a pleasurable and enjoyable experience.
Small Dildo Thrusting Techniques
Before trying these thrusting techniques, just remember that everyone's preferences are unique, and there's no need to conform to what you see in porn, which us we suggest severa things to try, and keep practicing until you find out what you like best:
Deep Thrusts
Thrusting deeply is a popular technique that offers precise G-spot contact. Since keeping up with this tempo can be exhausting, you can get a small dildo with a suction cup base, allowing you to "ride" it. For the best results, try alternating between hand-controlled thrusting and riding your small dildo for a delightful combination of sensations.
Short and Shallow Strokes
This technique is all about shallow, quick strokes, and it delivers exquisite pleasure, particularly as you begin to climax. While it can be challenging to maintain a consistent rhythm throughout the session, you can try it when you are on the brink of an orgasm or feeling most aroused to reach the climax.
Twisting Motion
The twisting technique involves rotating the dildo from left to right and requires minimal thrusting. It's a relatively simple method worth exploring if you're seeking different sensations and looking to enhance your dildo experience.
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Sex Positions to Try With a Small Dildo
When it comes to using small dildos, we firmly believe that finding the perfect position is essential and can open up opportunities to experience diverse sensations.
Keep it simple on your back: Try it with your legs flat (for a comfortable and relaxed experience), bent (to easily adjust the angle and depth), and held up (to target specific spots and intensify stimulation) to get a sense of what suits you best.
On Your Side, with Your Legs Closed: This position will provide pressure and friction, intensifying your pleasure, and keeping your legs closed will create a tighter and more focused sensation.
Sitting Down: This position is best for exploring vertical penetration. Adjusting your body angle can customize your experience and enjoy your dildo.
Riding: You'll need a small suction cup dildo for this position. The best thing about this sex position is that you'll have complete control to adjust the depth, speed, and angle to suit your preferences while freeing your hands to stimulate your other erogenous zones.
Why Use Small Dildos?
Whether you're a novice or experienced in using dildos, opting for a smaller size can prove highly advantageous. The unfamiliarity of the experience and the sensation of using a dildo can leave beginners feeling uncertain. Large dildos require more effort to stimulate yourself leading to potential discomfort. In contrast, small dildos provide a more comfortable insertion, reducing the need for excessive lubrication and minimizing the effort, but maximizing the pleasure.
Moreover, small dildos offer discreteness, as their compact size allows you to indulge in your desires discreetly, anywhere you please. Whether you share a living space with pals or seek to embark on a daring adventure in a bustling locale, the discreet charm of small dildos is bound to keep prying eyes blissfully unaware.
When it comes to targeted stimulation for females seeking G-spot stimulation, these dildos prove invaluable. The G-spot is located a about 2 to 3 inches inside the vagina, so a smaller dildo allows you to easily locate and precisely stimulate this highly sensitive spot.
Similarly, men looking to engage in prostate massage can benefit from the convenience offered by small dildos without the risk of excessive insertion. Additionally, the smaller size alleviates tension on the sphincter during anal play, ensuring a more comfortable experience.
Final Thoughts
We hope that our guide on using a small dildo is helpful, as we covered the basics. Still, we have prepared plenty of guides on how to choose and how to use various sex toys, which you can check out in our blog. We invite you to browse our sex toy store, where we carry a broad range of vibrators, dildos, male sex toys, anal toys, BDSM gear, and essentials for better sex.
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by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
Knowing how and where to hide your dildo is important, especially when you live with other people in the house. It is doubly so when you have tiny yet noisy persons living under your roof who can go and explore your personal space, disregarding privacy. So, here we will discuss how and where you can hide your dildo so it won’t be as accessible and apparent to other people, but it will still be safely tucked away and ready for you when you need it.
Why Hide a Dildo?
Keeping your dildos and other sex toys safe is key for safe use, but there are different reasons why you should hide your sex toys. One example that comes to mind is that if you live with family, it is likely that someone will deliberately or inadvertently take a peek in the bedside drawer, which is the most obvious place people keep their sex toys. For easy access, that’s for sure.
Before hiding your dildo, make sure you thoroughly clean, wash, and dry it, as it will prevent mold from growing and ruining your toy. Always prefer to store your dildo and other sex toys in suitable drawstring sex toy storage bags that will protect them from contact with different materials, dust, and lint.
Where to Hide a Dildo?
Here, we’ll list the most common and some of the more unexpected places where you can hide a dildo and keep it safe from curious eyes:
Underwear drawer – it is one of the most obvious hiding places for your dildo, as this is a drawer that is less likely to be opened by anyone else. Make sure you place the dildo in a protective bag and slide it at the back of the drawer, among the rarely used items. You can also hide a dildo in a drawer where you keep out-of-season clothing items like holiday-themed clothes, bathing suits, or camping clothes.
Under furniture – hiding a dildo under some furniture pieces is a great way to keep it handy yet out of sight. Most bedside drawer cabinets and dressers feature a decorative strip on the bottom with some space in the back. For this, push the dildo that is wrapped in a protective bag to the back.
Under the bed – hiding a dildo under the bed is not as simple, as you need to make a hiding place for it to avoid dust and other debris sticking to it. If you use the space under the bed to store rarely used items, you can use one to store your dildo; just make sure it is within easy reach when you feel like playing with your favorite toy.
In the box spring – if your bed has a box spring frame, then you can cut a small hole into the side and use the ledge that should be covered in fabric. You can use this space to store some other sex toys that fit the shape.
In a tissue box – tissue boxes are the perfect hiding place for a dildo or a small vibe, as these are usually rectangular boxes filled, well, with tissues. Place the tissue box on your nightstand, where your dildo will be protected from dust and debris, and you’ll have tissues handy when you need to clean up after your playtime.
The closet is for storage – since the closet is intended for storage, you can store your dildo with ease in different locations there. Place the dildo in its storage bag on a shelf, like under rarely used clothes. But if you share the closet space or have your family members using some of the items you have there, you’ll have to be more creative when hiding your dildo in the closet. We list some ideas on how to hide a dildo in the closet: in a boot, in a coat or suit pocket, in an unused purse or tote, in a lockbox, in rarely used luggage, in a file box, etc.
Hide a dildo in the bathroom – the bathroom is another place where you will probably use your dildo, and you can find some clever storage places for it. One example is the cabinet under the sink, where you probably keep spare toiletries. The bathroom drawers are also a good place, especially in the areas where you keep feminine products like tampons or maxi pads, and you are sure your teenagers won’t touch them.
We shared some creative ideas on how to hide a dildo. But we have a complete guide on how to store and hide various sex toys, and we also have a lot more educational guides on choosing and using different sex toys in our blog. Additionally, we invite you to browse our sex toy store, where you’ll find an incredible selection of dildos, butt plugs, anal toys, male sex toys, BDSM tools, sexy lingerie, vibrators, and all sex essentials.
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How Does a Squirting Dildo Work?
by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
We have discussed squirting or ejaculating dildos on several occasions, but here we’ll take a closer look at how a squirting dildo works. We’ll take a more technical approach, and we will discuss how a squirting dildo works. It is a dildo designed to imitate a natural penis as closely as possible; the ejaculating dildo ejaculates, which is as close to a realistic experience you can emulate with a sex toy.
Squirting Dildo: Definition
A squirting dildo is also known as an ejaculating dildo, and this is a realistic dildo with a built-in ejaculating mechanism that allows the dildo to ejaculate a cum-like substance and enhance the experience. The design of the ejaculating dildo is almost always very realistic, with lifelike veins, a penis glans, and often comes with a pair of balls that complete the look.
It has a slit or a hole at the penis glans from which the liquid ejaculates, mimicking the male ejaculation as close as possible. The liquid is stored in a container, either in the balls or the base or in a separate syringe that is connected to the dildo. You will need to squeeze the squirting mechanism to engage the ejaculating feature.
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How to Fill an Ejaculating Dildo?
Filling the ejaculating dildo depends on the particular design, but it is straightforward to do. Here are the main types of ejaculating dildo fill-up mechanisms:
Detachable bulb – the ejaculating dildos with a detachable bulb are the simplest to fill up, as you need to remove the bulb, squeeze it to release the air, and submerge it in the bowl of liquid you plan to use. Release the bulb, and it will suck up the liquid. Replace the bulb in the ejaculating dildo and enjoy.
Squeezable balls – the ejaculating dildos with squeezable balls are straightforward to fill up, as you need to squeeze the balls to let the air out and dip the tip of the dildo in the liquid container, and slowly release the pressure on the balls, allowing the liquid to be sucked up the chamber. Use the dildo as you like, and squeeze the balls when you think it is time.
Syringe – if your ejaculating dildo comes with a syringe-type squirting mechanism, you need to remove the syringe from the hose and fill it as you would any syringe. Carefully replace the syringe in its place, and enjoy your dildo. When it is time for the dildo to ejaculate, aim the dildo where you want it to squirt and press the plunger.
What to Use in an Ejaculating Dildo?
We have a complete guide on what liquids you can use in an ejaculating dildo, so we invite you to check out our blog for more detailed information. Here are just some of the things you can use and the things you should never use in an ejaculating dildo:
What to Use:
Cum lube
Watered-down water-based lube
Flavored lube
DIY mixes: water, cornstarch, and water-based lube mix
What to Never Use:
Oil-based lubes
Dairy products
Syrups
Lotions
Alcohol
How to Clean a Squirting Dildo?
Always wash the squirting dildo thoroughly, making sure you rinse the liquid container and all the surfaces. Make sure you use a quality sex toy cleaner or use antibacterial soap and water, ensuring all the grooves are cleaned and there is no residue left anywhere. Leave the dildo to air-dry and then store it in a suitable place.
What is the Best Ejaculating Dildo?
We can’t give a straightforward answer to this question, but we can give you a few pointers that can help you make a good choice.
Consider the dildo material, and we advise you to get a model made from body-safe materials like silicone.
Think about the squirting mechanism and choose the one that you believe will be the easiest to use.
Consider the extra features, which are vibrations, a suction cup base, harness compatibility, or something similar.
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How to Use a Dildo for Men: Guide to Male Anal Play
by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
Men may think they are only destined to jerk off as a form of sexual play, but there is a whole world of solo pleasure to be had, and using a dildo for men is one of these. Using a dildo can be a fantastic way to explore your body and spice up your sex life, solo or with a partner.
Because of this, many men are interested in learning how to use a dildo to achieve anal stimulation and experience prostate orgasms. Read on as we discuss this topic and share essential tips on how men can use a dildo and broaden their sexual horizons.
Why Would A Man Use A Dildo?
One common myth regarding the phallic-shaped sex toy is that only people with vaginas can use it. But the truth is, regardless of genitalia, gender, sexual orientation, or whether you're alone or with a partner, dildos are an egalitarian sex toy that anyone can enjoy. Men and individuals with a penis are included in this. Yes, you, too, can benefit from the dildo's powerfully pleasurable nature.
Society has taught us to believe absurd things, and it's common for some folks to find the concept of a male using a dildo unsettling. Although you're here to learn how to use a dildo for men, you might wonder, "Why would a man use a dildo?" The simple answer is prostate orgasm.
You see, just like women have a G-spot, guys have a P-spot. And much like a female G-spot orgasm, a prostate orgasm is more profound, intense, and fulfilling than anything you've ever experienced. Therefore, a man would use a dildo to stimulate the prostate and give himself a mind-blowing, toe-curling, tremendous climax.
How To Use A Dildo For Men
If you are new to anal sex toys or anal penetration, we strongly advise starting with a small butt plug or anal sex toy or gently putting your little finger into your bottom to determine whether you would enjoy it. When using an anal sex toy, it is essential to begin the experience slowly and gently, allowing your backdoor to become accustomed to the particular anal sex toy you are using. Before you can start using your chosen male anal toy like a dildo for men, here are the steps you must follow:
1. Wash The Dildo
Give your brand-new dildo a thorough bath before using it! To clean it properly, do as the manufacturer suggests. Do not experiment with anything else because dildos can be easily ruined by using too much hot water or the wrong kind of soap.
2. Prepare Yourself
Before using your dildo, empty your bowels and clean your anus and rectum. You can do this by showering and flushing your rectum. Douches are a quick and straightforward way to clean the field of play. An anal douche is a useful small tool to power wash your rectum.
The douche forces water into the rectum, which loosens the anus and makes the stool easier to pass. In other words, the anal douche makes it simpler to empty your bowels and clean yourself. Enemas go deeper into the bowels; thus, a straightforward rectal flush with a bulbed irrigator and warm water will do. Despite what you may have heard, a full-on enema is only necessary if you have a blockage and haven't gone to the bathroom in a while.
3. Create A Good Mood
Anal sphincters and stress do not mix. Make your surroundings as comfortable as you can, as a relaxing atmosphere can help you relax and and put you in the mood to enjoy the experience. Some people find calming music helpful, others like candles, and some prefer dim lighting and a comfortable bed.
4. Add Lube
One of the most crucial things you should do before and during dildo play is to keep your butt lubricated. There are numerous options for anal lubricants. Most people use oil or silicone lubricants for anal play because it provides extra cushion to protect delicate body areas instead of a thinner lubricant.
Your anal tissues absorb water-based ones faster, and a dry anus can cause pain, inflammation, bleeding, or injury. However, your choice of lube will depend on the type of dildo you use, as silicone dildos are only compatible with water-based lubes. You can buy a unique applicator to inject oil into your rectum. As a result, you will be internally lubricated and won't need to worry about the lube wearing off and producing uncomfortable friction.
5. Warm-Up
Start by inserting a finger and moving it circularly to get your anus accustomed to the sensation. You don't need to do much else. However, you might want to use more than one finger to prepare for a wider dildo; however, this all varies based on your overall experience with a dildo.
6. Start Slow
Never rush anal play! Take things easy and exercise some patience. Nothing beats calm breathing to open your mind and your ass. Consider it a sexual meditation to ease the tension in your anal muscles. Your muscles in that area will become more relaxed when your genitals or other erogenous zones are stimulated and aroused. If things do not feel good, ease off or stop. Put an end to the scene immediately if you experience pain or severe discomfort. After all, you want to avoid continuing at the risk of getting hurt.
Best Positions to Use a Dildo for Men
To get you well on your way to dildo nirvana, the following are some positions we have selected for this enjoyable sexual activity. Think of them as jumping-off points for your erotic self-exploration:
Missionary - You cannot get more classic than a good, old-fashioned missionary position. Because it is so accommodating and straightforward to assume, missionary is an excellent position to get the most out of the sensations a dildo offers.
Doggy style - It grants easy access to your ass. You have more control over the movement of your hips and your bottom, which enables deeper penetration and a better level of sexual pleasure to be achieved by manual stimulation.
Spooning - You are in a very flexible position to touch your whole body. Spooning while masturbating is the quickest and easiest way to relax your muscles first thing in the morning.
Prone - The prone or facedown position is ideal when you want to rest and be lazy. Sincerely, it's a life hack for anal sex.
Standing Doggy - You can crouch a little or prop one foot up on an object like a footstool, ottoman, or the bathtub's side.
Suction Cup Squatting - This should be your first choice if you want to mimic actual anal sex. When you use your dildo to control each movement, it is enjoyable.
Dildo on a Chair - When you use a suction cup dildo on a chair with a smooth surface, you can spread your legs and butt cheeks and adjust the speed and depth of the penetration.
Tips For Using an Anal Dildo
Here are several vital tips to know before you start using anal dildos or any type of anal toys for men:
Invest In High-Quality Products
Don't just get a dildo because it's cheap. One of the human body's most highly absorbent areas is the anus. Choose quality silicone toys that are medical-grade are safe for the body. In addition to being non-porous, silicone is very easy to clean, warms up to body temperature when used, and, most importantly, is a safe material. It's also safe to utilize dildos made of glass and stainless steel from reliable vendors.
Avoid Numbing Your Behind
When learning how to use a dildo, resist the urge to quickly stretch your anus by putting something on that numbs it. There are numbing creams and lubes, but we advise you to keep clear of them since pain is the only way of knowing if something is wrong. Therefore, you should avoid numbing products at all costs.
Pain Implies There Is An Issue!
If you experience discomfort when using a dildo for the first time or even a hundred times, stop what you're doing, back off, relax, and carefully try again. Stop immediately if the pain persists, and try a different, smaller anal toy next time. Pain in your body is a sign that something is wrong, and you risk hurting yourself if you don't heed that warning.
Clean Your Dildo Afterward
After use, you must always clean your toys entirely. Because the processes vary from toy to toy, read the instructions carefully. Some dildos can be cleaned by running them through the dishwasher on the top rack or briefly submerging them in hot water.
If you plan to wash your dildo with soap and water, you might want to choose a product designed with toys in mind. It is usually preferable to use sex toy cleansers because regular body soaps may create a film on the toy that could be transferred to your anus.
Store It Properly
Where do you keep your freshly cleaned dildo? The answer is a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight. But first, completely dry it with a lint-free cloth. Exposing it to direct sunshine, extreme humidity, or excessively hot or cold settings are not where you should keep your sex toys.
Since the product's manufacturer is familiar with how to care for it, they are also the best source of information regarding how and where to store it when not in use. A bedside table drawer or the space under the mattress can work well if they need to specify where to place it.
Never Share Anal Toys
The last thing to remember while learning to use a dildo is that anal toys should never be shared, and that includes your partner. Also, never share an anal toy with a vagina owner. We all carry bacteria and natural flora, which is exclusive to our bodies. If left untreated, the germs can lead to severe infections and bacterial vaginosis, which males and females can carry back and forth for years. So, an anal toy is only for your own individual use!
Which Toys Are Best for P-Spot Stimulation?
The prostate is a walnut-sized gland found around two inches inside the anus, on the front of the rectal wall; it is also referred to as the P-spot. Men find it stimulating when their P-spot is stimulated, which can spark orgasms on its own, and can bring immense sexual pleasure. P-spot orgasms have been said to be stronger, all-encompassing, and more powerful than regular orgasms, which is why so many men find them enjoyable.
It is why men should not be afraid to try some P-spot stimulation, which is best achieved with specialty toys designed for this purpose. Before we go in detail, we wish to invite you to check out our blog where we have detailed guides on using and choosing different sex toys. And now, read on as we discuss all the types of anal sex toys a man can use to tease his P-spot for unbelievable sensations:
Prostate Massager
A prostate massager is a male sex toy designed to stimulate the P-spot. Depending on what you're looking for, prostate toys may come in various sizes and stimulation possibilities. Most prostate massagers have a rounded head and a tapered tip to facilitate entry and provide proper stimulation.
Massagers with smaller tips make it harder to find the prostate gland but can make the experience slightly more intense. Certain toys feature a wireless controller, allowing you to enjoy smooth anal vibrations with a click of a button. Some of them also have an external stimulator that provides additional stimulation to the perineum, which is the delicate area between the anus and the scrotum.
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Butt Plugs For Men
Butt plugs are incredibly versatile toys that may be used to fulfill various kinks and fantasies. You could also use them if you're stretching and only just getting into the swing of butt things. Male butt plugs are more straightforward than prostate massagers and vibrators. Typically, all you need to do is lubricate them, insert them, and carry on with your activities.
To intensify the feelings, many guys place them at the start of their sexual play session and keep them there throughout the session. Not only does it feel nice when it hits the prostate, but during an orgasm, the muscles of the anus will have something to grip and heighten the pleasure.
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Dildos for Men
Male dildos differ slightly from standard ones and have a flared base for increased safety. They typically have a slight bend to reach that glorious P spot and are frequently referred to as being on the "small" side. But, as any fan of anal play can attest when squeezing something through your back door, "small" is a relative concept.
Dildos for men are an essential addition to any sex toy collection, regardless of if you prefer realistic or fantasy sexual experiences. They enable realistic penetration and a fun method to experiment with size and form without looking for the ideal-sized companion.
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Male Vibrators
A vibrator for guys is specifically made to offer a series of strong vibrating and pulsating motions that will excite your erogenous zones. These vibrators for guys are typically made to stimulate the prostate and target the P-spot specifically.
Male vibrators can be used for solo enjoyment or shared entertainment with a partner. Men's vibrators come in a variety of shapes and textures. They come with various speeds and intensities to stimulate nerve endings correctly and can be run on either batteries or a rechargeable power source.
Pegging Strap-On For Men
Small, thin, and tapered dildo attachments, many intended to stimulate the prostate to enhance his orgasms, are abundant in the pegging strap-on category. You can build your collection of pegging sex gear by buying a sex harness alone and a dildo that works with a harness. Pegging harnesses come in various adjustable waist sizes, from small to plus size, so you can choose one that fits your size regardless of your body type or shape.
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Final Thoughts
Hopefully, our guide helped you understand why men use dildos and that there's nothing to be ashamed of if you want to try. Maybe we even persuaded you to give one a try. After all, there are so many possibilities and uses for dildos that chances are they would be a great addition to your collection of sex toys, no matter your sexual orientation or level of expertise.
Male anal masturbation is an excellent chance to experiment, discover what you like, and get familiar with your body — which can significantly enhance your partnered anal sex experiences should you want to have any. Understanding how to use a dildo for men will allow you to enter a sensual realm of satisfaction and satiate your dreams and interests
We urge you to expand your sexual horizons and explore your body, as immense pleasure awaits you. For that reason, we invite you to browse our store where we have various dildos, vibrators, and plenty of exciting toys!
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How To Use a Double-Ended Dildo Alone or With a Partner
by Kate Miller
on Jan 14 2026
With so many dildos on the market, sex toy companies have been stepping up their game by creating unique and avant-garde sex toys like the double-ended dildo. The double-ended dildo can be used in different ways and can be incorporated into various types of sex plays and activities.
You can use it no matter what your sexual orientation or relationship status. Most double-ended dildos are made to simultaneously stimulate the vagina and anus, enabling sensual ecstasy like nothing else. So, you are guessing, here we discuss how you can make the most of your double-ended dildo alone or with a partner.
What Is a Double-Ended Dildo?
As its very name suggests, a double-ended dildo is among the most adaptable and creative varieties of dildo that you can purchase nowadays. They have a long, smooth shaft with sculpted heads on either side, enabling insertion from either end or both simultaneously. Double-ended dildos are also known as double dongs.
It's not surprising that many individuals are experimenting with double-sided dildos to spice up their bedroom activities. It combines well with both vaginal and anal sex. They're great for partnered plays and solo exploration; long, large, and sexy, plus they come in stunning designs with flesh-like textures and feel fantastic! A definite must-have for your collection!
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How To Use a Double-Ended Dildo
Now that you are fully informed about what a double-ended dildo is, let us move on to the main topic – how to use a double dildo. We invite you to check out our guide on how to choose a double-ended dildo, and read through our blog where cover a lot of interesting topics on using and choosing various sex toys. Here are several basic instructions that can introduce you to using a double dildo:
Get a Double-Ended Dildo that Fits your Needs
As with other toys, we always suggest you select one that fits your needs, as it will determine how you use it. You may think that bigger is better, but always consider the length and diameter of your double-sided dildo: it will affect your ability to manage the size. Always select a size that fits your skill level, and don't be zealous to get a large size double dildo and not be able to use it.
As double-sided dildos come in a vast array of shapes, sizes, and colors, we suggest you get a model that is made from body-safe material that is phthalate-free and easy to maintain.
Get in The Mood
Create a sexy, relaxing atmosphere so you can get in the mood to play whith your double-sided dildo. Go with what puts you in the mood – sexy candles, watch porn, listen to erotic audiobooks, or give your partner or yourself a sensual massage. By warming up and relaxing, you're also preparing your body for what's coming, and it will help prevent any discomfort.
Have Lube Handy
Always use lube with your dildo. Get lube that is compatible with the material of your double dildo, and use it generously. We always recommend you go with water-based lube, as it is compatible with all sex toy materials, is body-safe, and is very wasy to clean afterward.
Get Comfy
It would be best if you tried different poses to see which one you like best when using your double-ended dildo. Don't rush, but take things slow and easy. Use your imagination, and don't shy away from things; you never know what's going to do the trick for you. For example, for solo use, we recommend you try crouching on all fours and backing into the dildo. Also, you should use a flexible dildo for solo use, as you can easily manipulate it to fit your body. If you are using it with your partner, ask them what they like and accommodate both of your desires. Chat with your partner, and don’t hesitate to get breaks or switch positions.
Positions to Use a Double-Ended Dildos
Here is a list of suggestions we’ve prepared for you, ideas that can help you get started using your double-ended dildo:
Solo Missionary: this is the most common position for solo play, as you lay on your back and you get to control the depth and angle of insertion in the vagina or the anus.
Solo Double Penetration: you can experience double penetration, even when playing alone, as the double-ended dildo is intended for this exact use. Add a good amount of lube, lie back, and start slowly, at a pace you are comfortable with.
Partnered Doggy Style: this is a pose that can facilitate the insertion of a double dildo, but you’ll need your partner’s help.
Face-to-Face: this position is one of the most convenient couple-play positions you may assume. Unlike other partner positions, you won't have to struggle to maintain control of the thrusting motion.
Toys to Combine with A Double-Sided Dildo
We have to share the following list of our suggested toys you can combine with your double-sided dildo. All of these can help you heighten sensations, increase your pleasure, and provide an unmatched overall experience:
Clit Stimulators: these toys stimulate the clitoris, either with vibrations, in the case of the clit vibrators, or clitoral suction toys. These combine well with double-ended dildos, as you can stimulate your clit while you get penetrated by the dildo.
Wand Vibrators: these are usually large and very powerful vibration toys that were initially meant as personal massagers, but people found they were great for delivering orgasms. Thus, you can combine a wand vibrator with a double dildo, especially if you need a strong external vibration to get you over the edge.
Bullet Vibrators: these are simple and very affordable small toys that are very handy to have, especially in combination with non-vibrating toys like the double-ended dildos. Bullet vibes can be used to stimulate all erogenous zones, especially the clitoris, nipples, and other areas.
Finger Vibes: these are an advanced version of bullet vibes but have tethers that fit between the fingers for more accessible applications. Finger vibes are excellent for external stimulation, as they are couple-friendly toys that can enhance the overall experience of using a double-ended dildo with a partner.
Final Thoughts
Even if initially they feel intimidating, the double-ended dildos can provide unprecedented stimulation and deep pleasure. From thrillingly smooth glass double-sided dildo pieces to lifelike silicone double-ended dildos with veined shafts, realistic ridges, and insertable length and girth, a wide variety of styles are available. You only need to play with one toy to have twice as much enjoyment.
Please keep an open mind and an open view towards sexual pleasure, and give double-ended dildos a try. We have an excellent offer of double-ended dildos, as well as a well-supplied store with hundreds of exciting sex toys.
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by Kate Miller
on Jan 12 2026
The mighty dildo is a fun, sexy toy, and using one can genuinely refresh things in the bedroom. But not all dildos are created the same; dildos come in a great variety of materials, shapes, and sizes. Often overlooked for their bigger counterparts, small dildos usually come in lengths of less than five inches. While this may seem small to many, small dildos are fun, versatile, and sexy and are a fantastic introductory toy when looking to get into using sex toys.
Let us discuss small dildos and how you can select a small dildo that will satisfy your needs and wants. Before we continue, we must note that small or slim dildos are often referred to as mini dildos, and these can be an excellent way to introduce sex toys to vaginal and anal play.
What is a Small Dildo?
Any dildo that is less than five inches is in the group of small dildos. The smaller the dildo, the easier it is to use, and the more uses you can find for it. For example, you can use it for vaginal and anal stimulation even if you are a complete novice in sex toys.
Another possible use is for men who wish to explore things with anal play but don’t want to be overwhelmed by a larger model. A small dildo is excellent for teasing during foreplay and for masturbation, and you can even discretely carry it in your bag when you travel.
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How to Select a Small Dildo?
Selecting a small dildo is the same as selecting any other sex toy; the main difference here is the size, as all the other features are almost the same. So, when it comes to selecting a small dildo, you need to note things such as the material of the dildo, the texture and flexibility, lube compatibility, and extra features.
Small Dildo Size: The small dildos range in length, but the maximum size to be considered a small dildo is five inches. The most common small dildo sizes are:
Very small dildos - 2 to 3 inches in length
Extra small dildos - 3 to 4 inches in length
Small dildos - 2 to 5 inches in length
Material: when selecting a small dildo, you need to look for a model made from body-safe materials that provide the experience you like. There are models made from silicone, glass, metal, rubber, PVC, and Cyberskin. Each material provides a different user experience and has different flexibility and textures.
Added Features: there are small dildos with extra features like a suction cup base, and there are also some models that can vibrate for extra stimulation.
Small Dildo Types and Models
Small dildos look almost the same as their large cousins, the regular and large dildos. That means a small dildo has a shaft that can be realistic or non-realistically designed; it has a glans, a set of balls, a suction cup base, and other features. Still, these come in a variety of colors, textures, and shapes, and you have a lot to consider when selecting a small dildo:
Basic Small Dildo: a regular, phallic-shaped dildo with no additional features; these are best suited for vaginal penetration;
Slim Small Dildo: usually thinner than other models, the slim dildos are intended for anal training, and most come with a flared base to ensure they don’t wander too far inside. Usually, these are the perfect size for prostate massage.
Small Suction Cup Dildo: these look the same as their bigger counterparts but have a diminished size. Their base is a suction cup that sticks to most flat surfaces and allows hands-free use, making these suitable for teasing.
Double-Ended Small Dildos: These are novelty items that are exciting and fun to use. Intended for simultaneous vaginal and anal stimulation, these can be used solo or shared with a partner.
Small Dildo Benefits
Small dildos come with several exciting benefits. Users who have never used a dildo before can feel intimidated by the size of an enormous dildo, so a tiny dildo is a better option. Also, if a novice tries to use a model that is too big for them, they might be turned off by the experience and even get hurt during the experience. However, a small dildo is more comfortable to insert, and it needs less effort.
A small dildo is also very suitable for G-spot stimulation for the ladies. The G-spot is only a couple of inches in the vagina, and a small dildo may be the perfect way to stimulate it. The same goes for P-spot stimulation for the guys, as a small dildo is easier to insert in the anus and stimulate the prostate. Many small dildos have a thinner diameter, which takes less effort to insert.
Using a Small Dildo
You can use a small dildo in almost any situation. They are fantastic for solo play in both vaginal and anal stimulation. The benefit of small suction cup dildos is that you can use them anywhere around the home; you only need to stick them to a smooth surface.
If used with a partner, the small dildo can be a fantastic introduction to double penetration without feeling any of the pain you might encounter from using a larger model. Because they are often thinner, small dildos won’t be too invasive in the anus as your partner focuses on the vagina, for example.
You can use a small dildo that fits a strap-on harness and use it for pegging a male partner or pleasuring a female partner. Please use your imagination to make the most of your small dildo.
Small Dildo Safety Considerations
You should be careful when using a small dildo, the same as you would other toys. However, using a small dildo means you should be careful when inserting it, as you don’t want to shove it too far and risk losing it inside. That is why you should opt for a model that has a flared base that is safer to use.
Another consideration is the lube compatibility. Always use a lube that is compatible with the material your small dildo is made of. We suggest you stick to a quality water-based lube that is compatible with all dildo materials.
If you want to experiment with your dildo and use it for vaginal and anal use, we recommend you use it with a condom, as it will help keep everything more sanitary and easier to clean. Please note that you should always thoroughly clean your small dildo like you would any other insertable sex toy.
Cleaning and Storing a Small Dildo
You need to take care of your small dildo just like you would any other dildo. Cleaning it depends on the material your small dildo is made of, and since most small dildos are waterproof, you can easily wash these.
Using antibacterial soap and warm water will do the trick with most dildos, especially non-porous models made from silicone, glass, and metal. If your small dildo is made from porous materials like TPE or PVC, you should be more diligent when washing it, but an antibacterial sex toy cleaner should do the trick. After it is washed and dry, store it in a lint-free sex toy storage bag, away from heat and direct sunlight.
FAQs
Will a small dildo deliver a less satisfying experience?
Not at all; this is down to the personal preference. If you are new to dildos, you will most likely find you have a much more beautiful experience than if you chose a larger one too soon. Work your way up until you find the perfect size for you.
My partner has a small vagina. Will a small dildo fit on a harness?
As long as the dildo is designed to fit into a strap-on harness, then there’s no reason why you can’t please your partner using a small dildo. The attachment will most likely be of a standard size, and it’s the size of the insertable length and girth, which will be smaller. It also means you will need to push closer to your partner for fuller penetration, but this can deliver a more intimate experience, too.
What is the difference between a small dildo for a vagina and one for anal stimulation?
The main difference will be the addition of a flared base or a pair of testicles to master the realism and safety aspect of the toy. These factors will prevent a small dildo from being inserted too far. Avoid pushing it too far, and always have a good grip on the base.
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by Kate Miller
on Jan 12 2026
A dildo is an exciting sex toy favored by a broad user range, but there are even more exciting options like the mighty black dido. Molded after the physique of African men, black dildos are a hit among many women.
We have dedicated a lot of time and effort to selecting the best black dildos that you can get now, but we’ve also prepared the following guide on how to choose a black dildo. Please note that even though we say black dildos, these models come in various shades of dark, chocolate, mocha, and black. These most often come in a realistic design and are usually on the larger side.
How to Choose a Black Dildo
The dildo selection can be daunting for some, but we promise that our guide will cover all the factors you must know to make a proper selection. If you are after a black dildo, then you should remember that almost all models have a realistic design, bulging veins, testicles, and a realistic head. Here are the key factors to note when selecting a black dildo:
Size: Black dildos come in a great variety, but most of these are on the larger side. When we say on the larger side, we mean large – usually over 9", 10", or even 12 inches. So, please note that black dildos are not for the faint of heart, and you need to know what you are getting into.
Material: we are in favor of black dildos made from body-safe materials that provide an exciting experience for you. We speak of models made from silicone, glass, metal, PVC, and Cyberskin, as most of these are body-safe, and each material provides a different user experience with different flexibility and textures.
Extra Features: we consider a suction cup base, Vac-U-Lock compatibility, and added vibrations as extra features that add to the user experience.
Types of Black Dildos
The black dildos come in several different models, all with particular traits that make use fun and filling (and we mean that in the literal sense). However, several varieties are pretty popular, like:
Realistic Black Dildos: These are usually molded after the penises of porn stars and look and feel like an actual penis. We have to note that black dildos often come in large sizes, usually going over 8 or 9 inches in length.
Non-Realistic Black Dildos: These are made to look like phallic objects but don’t have a realistic shape. Most often, these come with pronounced veins or smooth shafts that don’t look like a natural penis.
Suction Cup Black Dildos: The addition of a suction cup base adds to its variety and ease of use. You can stick the suction cup to any smooth surface and use it hands-free for a filling experience. Most suction cup black dildos are harness-compatible, which provides a new level of excitement.
Black Dildo Safety Considerations
Let’s list some of the safety considerations you must know when using a black dildo. Because the black dildos are usually much larger than their vanilla cousins, you must be extra careful when using a black dildo.
Because size does matter, you need to be careful with the dildo size you try to insert – not all dildos will fit all holes. If you overestimate your abilities, then you risk hurting yourself and ruining your experience. We suggest you start slow and easy and don’t rush things – your body will tell you how much you can take.
Make sure you use plenty of lube and use the adequate type of lube that works with the material your dildo is made from. We always suggest you stick to quality water-based lubes that work well with all black dildo materials. Always use a clean toy and check it for faults or cracks before use. Because of the color, a black dildo won’t show any damage as a beige dildo might.
How to Clean and Store a Black Dildo
You need to pay proper attention when cleaning and storing your black dildo. If it is made from a body-safe, non-porous material like silicone, you can wash it with soap and warm water or use an antibacterial sex toy cleaner to ensure the cleanliness of the black dildo.
However, if your black dildo is made from a porous material like PVC, TPE, or Cyberskin, then you’ll need to pay more attention when cleaning it. Use a fair amount of antibacterial sex toy cleaner and a soft bristle brush to wash the entire surface of the black dildo.
After it is washed and dry, make sure you store your black dildo in a safe place, away from heat and direct sunlight. We suggest you get a dedicated sex toy storage bag or case to store your toys and keep them safe.
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FAQs
Can a large black dildo hurt me?
If you are not careful, any dildo can hurt you. However, black dildos tend to be larger and girthier, and they deliver more stretch. That is why you should be very careful when using a large black dildo: make sure you are aroused and use a lot of lube to make sure things glide effortlessly.
Can we use a black dildo with a strap-on harness?
As long as your black dildo is designed to fit into a strap-on harness, then there’s no reason why you can’t use it with a harness. However, we must be clear that you should be careful when using a large black dildo with a strap-on harness. However, if your black dildo is on the smaller side, you can freely use it with a strap-on harness.
Can I use a black dildo in my butt?
As we noted, black dildos tend to be on the larger side, and you need to be extra careful when using a large black dildo for anal use. Also, make sure the black dildo you use has a flared base or a pair of testicles to prevent hurting yourself. If your black dildo is regular-sized, then you should have no problem using it for anal play.
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How to Use a Dildo for Fulfilling and Intense Orgasms
by Kate Miller
on Jan 12 2026
The mighty dildo is an incredibly versatile and fun sex toy fit for a broad range of users. Shaped like an erect penis, a dildo helps with sexual stimulation and helps enhance pleasure either alone, playing with other sex toys, or using the dildo with a partner.
Dildos are sex toys that various people can use, as most models are designed to give the user a personalized experience to reach that satisfying and leg-shaking orgasm. For that reason, we have prepared the following guide intended to help you learn how to use a dildo, help with tips on positions, and advice on how to get the most out of your dildo.
Why Use a Dildo?
Dildos provide authenticity and versatility, and while these provide sexual stimulation, there are other reasons why you would use a dildo. Here we share a few of the reasons why would someone use a dildo:
Replicate the sensation of an actual penis
Because the dildo is designed to look and feel like an actual penis, it is perfect for replicating the realistic sensation a penis provides during intercourse. It makes them ideal for users looking to experience this feeling without actually inviting another person into their bed.
Find out what you like
Dildos are incredibly versatile and are an excellent way to help you learn about your body and your likes and dislikes. It makes dildos the perfect tool to help with new positions, angles, and ways of self-pleasure. As you explore, you will start figuring out what works and what doesn’t, which will tell you how to target and stimulate your G-spot or P-spot and achieve a deeply satisfying orgasm.
Practice
Dildos are also great for practicing your skills and testing your limits. You can also experiment with anal sex, oral sex, double penetration, role reversal, pegging, or masturbation and do this alone. Plus, using a dildo is like having pleasure on demand, quite literally. You can use it whenever you want for as long as you want, with or without breaks.
Get back into action
The dildo is always up and ready for action; even if you’ve been out of the game, you can get a dildo and get back into the action. There are various reasons why you would stay away from sex, so a dildo can give back your confidence and prepare you to become intimate with another person.
Explore a sexual fantasy
Many people are afraid to give voice to their sexy fantasies, which we think is a shame. However, if you are curious and wish to try something new and exciting, then you can get a dildo (or more) and make your fantasy into reality. Plus, a well-made dildo is a great way to spice things up with your partner and experience something new in the bedroom.
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How to Use a Dildo
The way you use a dildo depends on the type you have. However, you can follow some general steps to learn how to prepare to use a dildo, play with it, and maintain it:
Start Slow – it is important to start slow and easy when using your dildo. Get acquainted with your dildo and learn its shape, how it feels in the hand, and how you can use it to maximize your pleasure. If there are extra features like vibrations, test these out first and learn the controls.
Lube is a Necessity – we always advise you to have lube handy when using any type of sex toy, and that includes dildos. A quality water-based lube allows easier, more comfortable penetration and a more pleasant overall experience. Make sure you apply a liberal amount of lube on the entire dildo, starting from the top to the bottom. Also, apply lube on yourself, ensuring you get a more comfortable glide.
Penetrate and Play – once you are familiar with your dildo and are aroused enough, you can start penetration. Grip the dildo by its base or handle with your dominant hand and start with slow, shallow penetration. Give yourself enough time to get used to the sensation of being filled and listen to your body.
Don’t rush: adapt the speed and movements to fit your body, and focus on relaxation and satisfying pleasure. Once you are comfortable with the sensations, you can experiment with speed, positions, and penetrating rhythms. Try different depths and angles, and don’t be afraid to mix other toys like a bullet vibrator or another exciting sex toy.
Clean and Store Your Dildo – after you finish playing, you must clean your dildo. Most dildos are waterproof, and you can wash them with soap and water or a sex toy cleaner. When your dildo is dry, make sure you store it in a lint-free bag, away from other toys, direct sunlight, and heat.
Best Dildo Masturbation Techniques
There are no set rules about using a dildo; using it should be intuitive and fun. You should experiment, try different things, and test things out to discover what works for you best. With this in mind, here are several examples of standard dildo masturbation techniques you can try out:
Shallow, fast strokes - The first ⅓ of the vagina contains most of the sensitive nerve endings, so, contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to go deep and hard to get the most stimulation with your dildo. Short and fast strokes will ensure you get the proper nerve stimulation without barraging your cervix. Even if the dildo is longer, this doesn’t mean you have to insert or use its whole length. You can use the dildo’s shaft to get a better grip on it and manipulate the movements easier.
Deep thrusting - For those who want more intense stimulation, deep thrusts are the way to go. The technique involves inserting the dildo deep, which is easiest to do while lying on your back. There are also suction dildos you can stick to a smooth surface and use for deep thrusting. Thrusting dildos are specifically designed to provide this type of stimulation. They are motorized and have a shaft that extends and retracts to mimic the thrusting sensation.
Rock on - dildos aren’t just for straight thrusts or shallow strokes. You can modify the motion and rock back and forth at an angle so that the tip of the dildo applies pressure to the bottom of your vagina. Lay on your back and push in the dildo while rocking it back and forth, and feel where it feels good when you apply pressure. This technique works best with curved dildos and more flexible ones that allow a more comprehensive motion range. You can take it up a notch and press it against your clitoris to get that double stimulation.
Hit the G-Spot - the G-spot is about 2 inches in on the front vaginal wall, and to hit it, you need to drag the top part of the dildo across it as you pull outwards. This is best done with a bulbous head dildo or a curved dildo that is designed for this exact purpose. Textured and rigid dildos, like models made from glass and metal, are also exceptionally suited for G-spot stimulation.
Get filled up - a relatively simple dildo masturbation technique where the goal is to fill your vagina: insert the dildo and keep it there while you engage in other sexy plays.
Anal play – you can use a dildo for anal play. There are models specifically designed for anal use, from small, entry-level training dildos to monster dildos intended to give the user a stretching sensation. We have to note there are special male dildos for this exact purpose. It also includes pegging dildos specifically made to be used by a woman on her male partner.
Double penetration - Dildos are also an excellent way for a woman to experiment with double penetration. A woman can do this alone with two dildos or a dildo and a butt plug or can utilize a dildo along you’re your partner. There are several ways in which you can use dildos for double penetration:
Two dildos, one inserted vaginally, one anally
A dildo inserted in the vagina and a butt plug anally
Dildo inserted vaginally or anally, and your fingers
Dildo and a partner (male partner or strap-on)
Temperature play – some dildos, like metal or glass dildos, are designed to be heated or cooled and provide heightened sensations. If you have such a model, we suggest you try temperature play for heightened sensations.
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How to Orgasm With a Dildo?
There is not a “one-size-fits-all” method of orgasming with a dildo. However, there are some things you can do to increase your chances of climaxing. We share some tips and tricks to help you experience an intense, satisfying orgasm with a dildo:
Find a rhythm – start slowly and build up the momentum as you get more aroused, increasing the thrusting motion and speed, finding the rhythm that works best for you.
Mix & match - Combine your dildo with a clit stimulator, wand vibrator, or a vibrating bullet to bring your experience to another level. Simultaneous stimulation can be delightful, especially if you do it with a partner.
Pressure - Once you locate the G-spot, apply deep pressure to stimulate the sensitive nerve endings and get intense stimulation that will help you orgasm. Curved & G-spot dildos do the best job of stimulating the G-spot.
Rub your Clitoris – because most women need clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal penetration to climax, you can combine your dildo with your fingers, a finger vibe, or a bullet vibe to get the extra stimulation to finish.
Best Positions to Try With a Dildo
There is no universal position that works best for everyone using a dildo. It is a thing that depends entirely on your and your partner’s wishes and tastes, as some techniques work better in specific positions. While there may be some limitations to what you can do based on your body type, there are several positions that you can try with your dildo and get a most incredible experience:
Down on your back – this is the most common masturbation position that is usually the most effective one. For this position, just lie on your back and play with your dildo, as it feels natural. You can pull your knees up and play with the penetration angle.
Face down – an exciting pose to try is to lie on your stomach or get on all fours, and reach over your back or under the belly and use the dildo.
Sideways – you can lie on your side and enjoy a more filling sensation, as this position is easy to try and is very enjoyable. Also, you can experiment with straight or bent legs.
Sit & Ride a dildo – an interesting pose is to sit on your dildo or to squat on it and ride it like that. A suction cup base dildo works best for this pose. You can also utilize any smooth surface and ride your dildo hands-free, leaving your hands free to caress and stimulate other erogenous zones.
On your feet – yes, you can use a dildo while standing up on your feet. You can reach behind your back with your dildo or slide it between your legs. If you are feeling frisky, lift one leg to get a better angle of penetration.
Final Thoughts
Basically, there is no right or wrong way to use a dildo, as the way you use it depends on the type of dildo you get and your needs, wishes, and preferences. Use it solo, combine it with another toy, or use it during partnered play; a dildo is an exciting sex toy that will spice up anyone’s sex life.
We tried to cover the basics of using a dildo, and we can only state that you should relax and go with an open mind – feel free to experiment and find the thing that feels good to you and make sure you enjoy it. We have an excellent sex toy store where we carry a broad selection of dildos and other exciting sex toys for anyone’s taste.
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by Kate Miller
on Jan 12 2026
Let’s talk anal play, and the most exciting fun to be had is with an anal dildo. The mighty anal dildo is designed explicitly to provide fulfilling stimulation and deep satisfaction. Its design is streamlined for anal use but with the safety features like a flared base and a body-safe diameter. We have prepared the following guide we believe will help you learn how to use an anal dildo, and we’ll also share vital advice about anal play.
Why Use an Anal Dildo?
Anal dildos are fun to use. Some are designed to look like an actual penis, but it is more often that these are smooth. These are made from body-safe materials and are shaped for more accessible, more comfortable anal use, and they are fun to use.
Also, using an anal dildo is a safe way to explore anal play, as it has a design that works with your body. The shape and size of these dildos is optimized to be used in your anus, and you will get all the stimulation you expect and then some.
Plus, using an anal dildo will provide the sense of fullness that many say is beyond anything they’ve tried. Women will get stimulated and experience double penetration if this is something they like, while men will get their prostate or P-spot stimulated with male anal dildos and experience full-body orgasms.
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How to Use an Anal Dildo?
When you go and use an anal dildo, the first thing to do is start with a clean bum and clean dildo. Often, it is enough to have a bowel movement and wash your behind, paying extra attention to the anus. Some people also resort to performing anal douches, which is okay, but it is not necessary. However, if it makes you more comfortable and feel cleaner, go for it, but please choose appropriate anal douching bulb.
Next, use a liberal amount of lube that is compatible with the material of your anal dildo. We suggest you stick to using quality, thick, water-based lubes, as these work well with all dildo materials. Another point on this topic we must make is that you should only use anal dildos made from body-safe materials like silicone and only use water-based lube with it.
Then, relax and go for it. A good routine is to relax your body and play with yourself, get adequately aroused, and let your body start experiencing heightened sensations. Also, you can play with your behind to relax and prepare your anus for insertion. Add some lube on your fingers and slowly insert them in and out of your anus, relaxing and lubing it from the inside also.
When you think you are sufficiently relaxed and aroused, take your anal dildo, add some lube to it, and start inserting it. Find a position that works well with you, but most people have said that on their backs works best for the initial insertion. After you insert the anal dildo in your bum, take a few minutes to relax and get used to the sensations; listen to your body, and it will tell you when it is time to play.
When comfortable, start playing with the anal dildo, moving it in and out of your behind and relishing in the sensations it provides. If you play with a partner, make sure you communicate openly with them and tell them what you feel and how you like to be pleased with the anal dildo.
Our most remarkable advice is to relax, get in the moment, and not be afraid to experiment. Sex is messy, and anal play can be messier, but it is also beyond pleasurable. Thus, bite the bullet and explore all sides of your body, including anal play.
Anal Dildo Benefits
The ladies can experience double penetration when they add an anal dildo to their sexy time, all without having to invite a third person into the bedroom. Also, proper anal play can stimulate the A-spot, which is on the back vaginal wall against the rectum. Stimulating this spot can be pleasurable for many, and the feeling of having their anus stretched and filled is a sexual fantasy for many women.
Guys can also benefit significantly from using an anal dildo. The main benefit is the prostate or P-spot stimulation. The anal dildo can help milk the prostate, which is highly pleasurable and quite beneficial.A prostate massager can have the same effect on the prostate. Apart from the full-body orgasms this sexual act brings, guys get plenty of health benefits like prostate health, better sperm mobility, etc.
Anal Dildo Safety Advice
The first safety consideration we must outline is that anal sex can be uncomfortable for some people. We suggest you try using a specialized anal training kit that can safely introduce you to anal play, and when ready, you can move to butt plugs and then to anal dildos.
The next consideration is to use plenty of lube. The anus is not self-lubricating, so adding lube is essential for comfortable and safe use. So, relax and add plenty of lube to help prevent any harm and pain.
Don’t shove the anal dildo forcibly in – always go slowly and listen to your body. The anus is packed with sensitive nerve endings, and although it’s this reason people turn to anal sex, it is easy to rub and tear sensitive skin.
To avoid any possible problem, always use a clean anal dildo, devote enough time to foreplay, use plenty of compatible lube, and go slow and easy.
The Bottom Line
We hope we covered all the basics about using anal dildos safely. Also, if you need more information on using various sex toys, please check out other guides in our blog, where we cover essential topics on using exciting adult toys. Also, check out our sex toy store, where we carry an excellent array of thrilling sex toys for everyone’s taste.
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FAQs
Can I orgasm with an anal dildo?
It is possible to have an orgasm with an anal dildo, especially for men. Guys can experience full-body orgasms when they have their prostate stimulated, and an anal dildo is great for this. Women can have an orgasm with the help of an anal dildo, but most will need some clitoral stimulation as well; the anal dildo can heighten the sensations.
What lube to use with my anal dildo?
It would be best if you used a lube that is compatible with the material of your dildo. We always recommend you use a quality water-based lube, as this is most compatible with all sex toy materials. If you are using glass or metal dildos, you can then use all lube types.
Can we use an anal dildo with my partner?
Yes, you can use an anal dildo with your partner. You can use it in various ways that depend on the design of your chosen anal dildo. You can use it with a suitable strap-on harness to either peg your male partner or penetrate your female partner. Please note that not all anal dildos are harness-compatible, so if this is your thing, look for a model that will fit your desires.
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How to Choose a Pegging Dildo?
by Kate Miller
on Jan 12 2026
Have you heard about pegging? Yes, that is the activity where the female partner penetrates the male partner with a dildo or another phallic object. However, while many couples have heard of it, not many dare to try it, simply because of the notoriety and the opinion that pegging is not a normal thing.
There is no reason to judge anyone’s desires, and we are certainly against judging anyone’s sexual tastes. Thus, we consider pegging to be a sexy activity between couples and one that is intensely pleasurable. For that reason, here we’ll discuss pegging dildos, more precisely, how to choose a pegging dildo that you and your partner will enjoy
Pegging Dildo – A Must-Have for Adventurous Couples
You can peg a male partner with a variety of tools, but we always recommend you get specialized tools for the job, i.e., get a pegging dildo. The pegging dildo may look like a regular dildo at first glance, but it is actually slightly different in shape and size.
Pegging dildos are usually narrower and have slightly pronounced tips that help target the prostate or P-spot. Another essential feature is that the pegging dildos are typically made from body-safe materials like silicone, metal, and glass. You can get a pegging dildo as a stand-alone sex toy, or you can get one that is compatible with a strap-on harness.
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Pegging Dildo Options
When it comes to pegging, couples usually start experimenting with their fingers and then move to sex toys. We always advise people to use toys intended for the activity, as pegging dildos are designed for safe anal play and come in several varieties, such as:
Pegging Dildo – the most basic model, the simple pegging dildo is streamlined, made from body-safe materials like silicone, and is excellent for novices in pegging;
Vibrating Pegging Dildo – the vibrating pegging dildo has a streamlined shape and design and has an internal vibrating mechanism that provides targeted vibrations;
Pegging Set – the pegging set contains several pegging probes in varying sizes, and some models can also come with a compatible harness;
Strapless Strap-On Dildo – this is the ultimate couple’s toy, as its design is intended for simultaneous male and female pleasure. The woman wears one end in the vagina, holding it in place with the pelvic muscles, and uses it to peg her partner with the protruding probe;
Strap-On Harness Set – the strap-on set has everything a couple needs to start pegging, as the set comes with a strap-on harness and a compatible pegging probe.
Key Features when Selecting Pegging Dildo
Here, we’ll outline the key features you need to look at when selecting a pegging dildo. The following facts are vital to know, as these will affect how you can use and enjoy your pegging dildo:
Material: always strive to get a pegging dildo made from body-safe, non-porous materials that allow you to have a safe experience. We are talking about silicone, glass, or metal, as these materials have non-porous surfaces recommended for anal use. Also, make sure you use water-based lube with your silicone pegging dildo.
Size: the pegging dildo you get should be in a manageable size where you (or your partner) can safely, comfortably, and pleasurably use it. Our product description pages clearly state the size of each pegging dildo we have in store.
Harness Compatibility: if strap-on play is something you are considering, make sure your pegging dildo is compatible with most standard harnesses.
Extra Features: there are pegging dildos with additional features like vibrations via a wired or wireless remote controller. Another extra feature is the suction cup base that can allow further experimentation.
Why Use a Pegging Dildo?
Pegging is fun, and no, it is not a gay activity. In fact, pegging is defined as a sexual act between a man and a woman, so you should embrace this fantasy and try to make it a reality. Thus, using a pegging dildo is a must if you decide to go for it, and you’ll see that this can bring you and your partner closer than ever.
To enjoy the immense pleasure of pegging, both partners must be open about their expectations and limits and their desires. We have heard enough times that some couples are open about this type of sex play; others are uncomfortable, shy, or afraid to ask their partners.
Still, it goes without saying that pegging is a great way to stimulate the prostate and provide full-body orgasms. Not only can men receive stimulation from all the nerve endings that are in the rectum, but they can also receive the benefits that come with having their prostate massaged.
Pegging Dildo Cleaning & Storage Tips
We advise you to get a pegging dildo from body-safe materials like silicone. Silicone is safe for the body but provides a lifelike feeling. Other body-safe choices are metal and glass, providing even more exciting options.
Always wash your pegging dildo before and after use. We always suggest you use antibacterial soap and warm water to wash your pegging dildo or rinse with a sex toy cleaner to remove any residue. Once you have a clean and dry pegging toy, you must store it in a safe place, like a specialized sex toy storage bag. Don’t be negligent with your sex toys, but always try to store them in secure areas, ensuring they don’t touch each other.
This is our short pegging dildo shopping guide. We looked at the key things you need to know when you go and purchase a pegging dildo, which is the size and the material of the toy. We have prepared other helpful guides and how-tos below that we hope will be useful when you look for your most exciting sex toy. Please also check our sex toy store, where we have a great selection of thrilling sex toys!
FAQs
What lube should we use for pegging?
The choice of lube depends on the material of the pegging dildo. We always recommend using a thick, water-based lube compatible with all materials, including silicone pegging dildos. If you have a metal or glass pegging dildo, then you can use any type of lube.
My wife and I are very curious about anal male play; should I let her peg me?
The anus is full of nerve endings, and proper stimulation can be very pleasurable. Also, the prostate or P-spot is located in the rectum, and it is very pleasurable to stimulate this area. Pegging provides targeted P-spot stimulation; it is an excellent way to stimulate the prostate and have men experience powerful prostate orgasms. We recommend you try a strapless strap-on designed to provide pleasure to both partners simultaneously.
Is pegging gay?
Pegging is not a gay play; in fact, pegging is a sexual activity performed on a man by a woman using her hands, a sex toy, or a specialized pegging dildo in a pegging harness. Generally, gay men are attracted to males, and they enjoy different emotional and sexual gratification. Please don’t let general misconceptions shape your ideas and interfere with your sexual exploration.
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