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Anal vibrators are designed for enjoyable and intense stimulation of the anal cavity or anus. They are used by both men and women for sexual play. All anal vibrators have the same go-to feature, and that is that they promote and sustain a vibrating effect in the rectum for the sheer pleasure of the user. Anal vibrators are unique because they have a flared base to prevent them from getting stuck inside the rectum. The anal vibrator is much smaller in size and will be from four to six inches in length, and about an inch in width, in most cases. In fact, anal vibrators are usually operated via battery operation. This will be via a rechargeable battery for wall to plug use, or utilizing disposable batteries which can be replaced when they have used their charge. All types of vibrating anal toys may or may not have various featured effects. But some of them will have actions that include: rotation, vibration or pulsation, and most will allow for different speed or vibration levels which can be adjusted so that the user can enjoy various sensations during play. Types of Anal Vibrators Vibrating Anal Probes: These are smaller and are around the size of a human finger, and this makes them a wonderful sex toy for beginners. Anal probe vibrators are also slimmer because their primary function is to slide and vibrate as they give pleasure. Vibrating Butt Plugs: Well designed to stay inside the anus to create a feeling of fullness and maintain the vibrating stimulation in conjunction with that full feeling. They may be placed and left for anal stimulation during masturbation, or during sexual play and/or intercourse. Vibrating Anal Beads & Balls: Containing a number of small beads or balls which link together via a retrievable cord which connects to a powered control. They usually are able to vibrate at different speeds depending on the model you buy. ===COLLECTION=== How to Choose the Right Anal Vibrators for You It’s highly recommended that you choose a smaller product to begin with, and this is generally because you can always work your way up to larger ones as your body becomes accustomed to anal play. Anal plugs can be utilized during sexual intercourse and solo play and offer an enjoyable feeling of fullness that many people find very pleasurable and satisfying. The most popular anal sex toys are usually butt plugs, anal beads and vibrators, maintaining the feature of the flared base to incorporate safety and a feeling of total control for the user. What Are the Benefits For men, the stimulation of the prostate can offer an array of health and sensual benefits that go hand in hand. The prostate, likened to the male equivalent of a woman’s G-spot, is a medium, pebble-sized, semen storage gland. It lives at the base of the penis and is located just below the bladder. It can be aroused externally through pressure against the perineum and/or internally via the rectum. Anal stimulation seems to garner better results within the sexual arena though, especially when compared to pressure on the perineum. Factually speaking, semen can build up in the prostate, creating the potential for bacterial growth and no movement in that area. This can cause swelling and inflammation or a condition known as prostatitis. Overall, the take home message is that an enlarged prostate can allow for unwanted urinary and erectile problems, which are stressful and uncomfortable for the male. These conditions may disrupt sleep and sexual function within males. So, additionally, utilizing prostate massage can help to relax tension and stress in the muscles and nerve endings within the prostate area, and prevent the symptoms mentioned earlier. Masturbation for Both Sexes The big plus for men and women alike, is that masturbation is a beneficial practice. We already touched on how it can reduce the risk of prostatitis and thus help to prevent the potential risk of developing prostate cancer in men. Many studies have proven that men aged 20-50 years who masturbated more than 5 times each week were 33% less likely to develop prostate cancer. In essence, carcinogens are flushed out from the prostate gland during ejaculation, which in turn helps in reducing the buildup of seminal fluid. For men and women, masturbation reduces stress and tension. When we engage in sexual pleasure, we produce dopamine. This is a wonderful hormone that makes us feel great and endorphins are released which gives us a sense of overall wellbeing. The blood pressure is also relieved by the lowering of it, after masturbation. Masturbation is self-maintained and therefore means that it’s a stress-free act. There is no performance needed toward another, making it the easiest thing we can achieve on our own, once we feel at ease to do so. Additionally, there is no risk of contracting sexual diseases or infections when masturbating, due to the lack of physical contact with another. Masturbation can be a big help when one partner requires more sexual activity than the other person. It can also help couples to find extra ways of satisfying their partners sexually. Additionally, if it feels good when you do it, then you can tell your partner too. Masturbation also aids in self awareness and sexual satisfaction. People who masturbate are more likely to have better sexual health. This is because they are aware of how their body feels and so they will generally notice when something is not right, like if they feel stressed, for example. Using an anal vibrator during masturbation can help to get to the end game of orgasm, and this helps to encourage great health and self exploration, sexually speaking. This is true for solo or partnered play. Safety Considerations Perhaps the most common safety consideration is about risk, or losing your vibrator inside of your rectum. It’s super important that you don’t use a vaginal vibrator inside your anus, because it definitely increases this risk. To avoid this, you should ensure that your vibrator always has a flared base. It can get lost otherwise, and this is not something you want to try. Use loads of lube. Don’t use silicone-based lube with a silicone sex toy. It can actually break down the surface of the toy and allow it to become porous, which in turn can allow for bacterial or viral health concerns. Remember, lubrication is the most pivotal aspect of all, especially for anal play. Without great lubrication, it might lead to irritation, chaffing, tearing, and even bleeding. So if you plan to insert something anally, make sure it is smothered with lube, and then it will slide in painlessly and with ease. ===COLLECTION=== Cleaning & Storage Tips In truth, the very best way to clean any sex toy is often to follow the directions on the packaging. These cleaning directions are made to effectively clean your toys and keep them in their best shape. Storage indications will also apply. A good bathing with soap and hot water is usually perfect for most sex toys. Lather up the toy with a major addition of antibacterial soap and let the foam sit there for a few moments to kill bacteria and other viral germs. Be sure to keep the battery section out of the water though. And never plug it in during cleaning if it’s a rechargeable toy. Use the hottest water you can to thoroughly rinse and clean the toy well, with a good rinse to avoid leaving any soapy residue behind. Plain warm-to-hot water may be the best option to clean some toys, without the need for antibacterial or disinfectant-type soaps. This is particularly the case for adult toys made from porous substances, including rubber or vinyl. In these cases, these materials will trap and hold soaps and other chemicals within their makeup. Whether you’re cleaning a toy with or without soap, depending upon the substance it’s made from, it should be allowed to air dry and can even be dusted with cornstarch to prevent stickiness. The Best Anal Vibrator Will Always Have These 3 Things 1. Ease of use. The anal vibrator will be easy to charge or have a section for batteries with visual to help place them. The product should also come with instructions and a cleaning regime for that specific product. 2. Features to enhance play and keep it safe. Speed settings, cleaning instructions, storage suggestions, and any safety precautions. A set of instructions explaining how the toy is used. A long battery life. A choice of colors and sizes for all to enjoy. 3. Be made of nonporous materials. For safety and to negate the spread of infection. Cleaning and storage instructions are also a big plus when making your purchase. Anal Vibrators Can Spice Up Your Sex Life Anal play is super exciting and can be even better when paired with an anal vibrator. Adding stimulus that shakes during your anal play experience can often lead to some very explosive and amazing orgasms. The types of anal vibrators that you choose will typically be determined by what type of play you like. Remember, start small, but try a few different types to see what feels good for you. Anal orgasms are achieved by stimulation of the anus. This type of penetration can indirectly stimulate the G-spot for females, and very directly stimulate the prostate for males. The use of anal vibrators can allow for fun play and the sexual gratification desired, whether going solo or with a partner. Try Anal Vibrators in Privacy of Your Home Discretion is the major key for relaxation purposes and privacy too. You may or may not like the sensation. Trying such a new sex toy in the privacy of your own home can be a fun and unique experience. Make sure you buy an anal vibrator with a flared base for safety, lubricate it very well, and enjoy the pleasure from your toy. Always allow your body to relax first, and once you try it, you’ll be able to pick out the best anal vibrator for you. It’ll be up to you on the size, color, features, and type that you choose to buy. You might want to own more than one, and keep your sexual play super adventurous. But remember, the most important thing to do is to have fun, both safely and effectively. Remember to never share your toys. STIs (sexually transmitted diseases) and infections can be shared that way. Stay safe, always. Your fun should never cause risk to yourself or another.

Ah, the thrill of having a dirty little secret all to ourselves. It’s no surprise that butt plugs feel amazing, thanks to all the nerve endings located in our anus. We wear them at home and in the bedroom, both for foreplay and as the main dish. But if you’ve ever worn one out in public, you know that half the fun comes from the taboo of rocking one when no one else knows that you are! Better yet, you can tease your partner by mentioning midday that you’ve had one in for the past hour…what a treat! In this blog post, we’re going to cover different places that you can wear your marvelous accessory, and add a little magic to your day. Before diving in, keep in mind that lubricant is extremely important when it comes to any form of anal play. Make sure to lather some onto your toy and your anus before inserting it, and grab some extra for the road. Lube can dry out eventually, particularly if you’re keeping your butt plug in for an extended amount of time. So, to avoid getting caught in an uncomfortable situation, have your lube handy! Do your research before starting to find the right butt plug size for you, so that you don’t have to worry about wearing something too large that it hurts, or too small that it keeps falling out. Also, browse the wide range of butt plugs that are available to find which one you like, since all bodies and preferences are different. Wearing a Butt Plug at Work Work can be a drag at times, and we frequently fall into daily routines that play out like clockwork. A fun and exciting way to shake up your work day is to wear a butt plug at your place of employment! The forbidden element of adds a layer of excitement to the wonderful sensations that a butt plug brings. Firstly, keep in mind that you should only try wearing a butt plug at work if you’ve already gotten comfortable with wearing one at home for a few hours at a time. In a professional environment, you’ll be especially keen to avoid any discomfort or unwanted surprises! If you want to wear a butt plug at work, you’ll also want to make sure you’re prepared with all the necessary tools needed for your endeavor to be successful. This includes a few plastic bags for your plug and some lubricant. The reason it’s important to keep some plastic bags on hand is if you have some bowel movement at any part of the day, it’s imperative that you remove the plug and wash it with warm water and soap to disinfect it, and store it in a brand-new plastic bag. If you’re feeling up to wearing it again later in the day, it’ll already be cleaned and good to go! Also, you never know what could come up at work. You may have an unexpected important meeting that you need to be entirely focused for, or you may have to stay late one evening. It’s good to give yourself somewhere to hygienically store your plug if you need to. Comfort and discreetness are two important things to remember when it comes to wearing a butt plug in public – especially in a workplace. For the sake of comfort, you may want to choose a plug that is softer and smoother, like a silicone butt plug. To find a discreet butt plug, you should look for one that has a flat base. In addition to helping you avoid any too-deep slips and giving you an easy way to pull it out, a flat base will also lay flat on your booty. This helps you to avoid any overly bulky or awkward areas on your bum, especially if you’re wearing tight jeans or a skirt. In short, you can certainly wear your butt plug at work. However, keep in mind that the 2-3-hour limit on how long you should keep your butt plug in at a time should still apply. Whether you choose to wear it to add some pep in your step during your morning coffee and meetings or after lunch for a midday picker-upper, the choice is yours! ===COLLECTION=== Wearing a Butt Plug While Shopping The shopping has to get done, whether it’s for groceries, home goods or clothing. And while they can be fun if you’re doing them with a friend or for leisure, sometimes they’re not so much of a social affair. In cases where you want to turn your everyday shopping errands into a more stimulating experience, pop a butt plug in before going out! Long line ups and waiting for a change room have never felt so good. Since butt plugs apply pressure on your pelvic muscles, you can even work on your Kegels as you wait for your turn at the cash register. Strengthening your pelvic muscles help to strengthen the muscles that support the bladder, but if you’re a woman, they also improve blood circulation in your vagina, make it easier for you to reach orgasm, and increasing vaginal lubrication. You can also do Kegels for your anus, which butt plugs help with. You know you’re doing them right when you feel your anus closing, tightening and lifting higher inside of you, and around the butt plug. Generally, shopping shouldn’t take more than a couple hours, but if you think you’re going to be out for longer than that, make sure to bring a plastic bag and lubricant in case you need to take the butt plug out, or need to re-apply more lube. ===COLLECTION=== Wearing a Butt Plug While Driving The most popular facts about butt plugs are that they’re: Useful for stretching out your anal muscles so that anal sex is more comfortable. Key elements of foreplay to any anal activity. However, a lesser known fact about them is that they’re also used to give you physical, sexual and mental stimulation. A great time to pamper yourself with the pleasures and relaxation that come with wearing a butt plug is while you’re on the road! Whether you’re wearing a plug to run some errands, while embarking on your work commute, or while picking the kids up from school, why not multitask? Errands will never be boring again. An added bonus is that as you’re driving, the natural motions of the car rumbling or driving over small bumps will feel even more gratifying. The small pulses of the butt plug in your anus is going to drive you wild. Wearing a Butt Plug While Cooking Cooking, as well as other house chores, sometimes need to get done. The beauty in butt plugs is that they can add pleasure to the most tedious tasks. Since butt plugs are known to help stimulate your mind as well as your body and to give you more clarity, this can help you in your cooking. Cooking is an art, and requires a strong utilization of your senses, which can be heightened when you’re being stimulated. Are we saying that you’ll be better equipped with stronger taste buds and a knack for odors? All we’re saying is that you should give it a try, and find out! Cooking can sometimes be exhausting, but butt plugs are the perfect pick-me-ups to give you the energy you need to keep going. They put some pep in your step as your put some pepper on your steak! If you’ve just popped something in the oven and need to wait 40 minutes for it to be done, slip into your partner’s office and give them a bit of a peep show, especially if you’re wearing a jewel butt plug. You’re guaranteed to get them just as heated as you are, and you’ll be able to have kill some time sexually while you wait for your timer to go off! ===COLLECTION=== Thrilling Dates If you’re in a long-term relationship, you know that it’s easy to fall into a level of comfort and lose the excitement that you had in the beginning stages of the relationship. A thrilling way to reignite the flame is by introducing butt plugs into your evenings! Gifting your partner a butt plug is a sexy way to get them, and yourself, in the mood for some fun later. Have them put it on before a date night, and know that as the appetizers are coming out, the only thing on their minds is the wild night you two have ahead of you. Butt plugs are a fantastic way to build up sexual tension and deliver foreplay without even touching your partner. If you and your partner enjoy role-playing or BDSM, this could also be a great way to live out your deepest fantasies. It’s popular for a dominant to ask their submissive to wear a butt plug to a certain event or while out on a date, and this kink can be extremely pleasurable for both parties. Keep in mind that butt plugs are not gender-specific – butt plugs can be enjoyed just as well whether you have female or male genitalia! If you’re single, butt plugs may be just what you need to get out of your own head, and kill your nerves before a first date. The amazing stimulation will help you to loosen up and get excited for whatever the night will bring. The feeling of being stimulated while you’re face-to-face with someone in a crowded restaurant can be invigorating. The forbidden aspect paired with the added arousal helps you to feel sexier and more seductive, and this type of energy will translate to your date. If you think your date may end with a roll in the sack, then a butt plug is just what you need. It helps to prep your anus for more play later, or simply to get you in the mood for some kinky action. ===COLLECTION=== Night Out As we get older, the nights we spend out with friends become less frequent and are way more cherished. Simply put, you don’t want the quality of your night to depend on where you go or who you meet since sometimes, the options are simply a bust. So, have your bases covered and commit to a night filled with delight –no matter what happens– by wearing your favorite butt plug! Indulge in your exhibitionist fantasies by wearing a butt plug under your skirt during a night out! If you get a thrill from the chance that you’ll get caught doing something taboo, you can have some real fun by sporting a jeweled butt plug under a short dress or skirt. Moreover, in case you haven’t tried it before, dancing feels wonderful with a butt plug in. As you move around, the plug will shift around slightly inside your anus, further stimulating the nerves. If you’re out dancing with a partner, lean in close to their ear midway through, and let them know you’re wearing a butt plug. Watch their expressions go from shock to arousal in seconds! In case you don’t want to worry about keeping the plug in for too long or having to reapply lube while you’re out, just plug it in while you’re getting ready for your night out. Despite it feeling amazing and helping you to relax and loosen up, it will also help you to get into a flirty, sexy headspace before embarking on your journey. Getting into a seductive mood before seeing where the night will take you is a recipe for success! ===COLLECTION=== Final Words It’s safe to say that wearing a butt plug can really brighten up your day. Whether you’re wearing it to prepare your anus for some play later, to add some fun into your routine, or for the sake of feeling naughty, it’s the perfect toy to easily incorporate into your life. Beyond the sexual delight that butt plugs bring, they also give users an unspoken confidence that will radiate outwardly. Sexuality should be celebrated, not shamed, and butt plugs help you to experiment more with your own pleasure, while giving you the option of keeping it to yourself or letting someone else in on your dirty little secret. Besides, who said that pleasure had to be confined within four walls?

You wouldn’t attempt to do the splits without practice, would you? You would probably need a lot of stretching and training before finally getting there. Turns out, it’s the same thing when it comes to stretching your anus! Anal gaping is an act that’s a few steps further than anal stretching – in fact, it’s probably the most extreme form of anal play. When your anus is gaped, your internal rectum muscles are exposed, and it can take hours for your anus to recover. What Is Anal Gaping? A gape is an opening in the anus caused by stretching for an extended period of time. This could be done through anal sex, but it’s usually done with larger toys. Inserting the penis or toy in the anus for longer gives your muscles the time they need to adjust so that upon removing the toy from your anus, you’ll find that your anus is gaping. But don’t worry – it’ll usually go back to normal after a little bit. Anal gaping is a unique form of play that might be appealing for some, while being completely off the table for others. A good way to dip your toes into the world of anal gaping would be to get comfortable with anal stretching first. Anal stretching is the build-up to gaping – it’s the act of gradually stretching your anus, allowing you to insert toys, or a penis, that you couldn’t insert before. If you’ve never inserted anything into your anus before, working up from one finger to multiple fingers is a beginner form of stretching. However, in the world of fetishism, anal gaping starts by stretching your anus above and beyond what is needed to insert an average penis for anal intercourse, and for a long time. Usually with stretching, you’re training to take on toys as large as 2.5 inches in diameter, but it can be more or less than this, depending on the person. ===COLLECTION=== Why People Gape There are plenty of reasons why people get into anal gaping. For some, the appeal comes from the body modification aspect of it. As you stretch your anus more and more, the ring of your anus will begin to look different. It can also be incredibly arousing to see how deep and wide your partner has taken you. Plenty of people like the power play dynamic of gaping, since long periods of anal sex can be viewed as quite dominating and carnal. It’s especially great for those who feel less endowed, as they can physically see how much space they occupied in their partner’s anus. Another reason people are into gaping is the fact that it’s the furthest point you can take your anal sex. Some manufacturers come up with wild, unrealistically-sized dildos, and some like the kinky idea of them. Anal gaping gives you the ability to indulge in your deepest anal fantasies with large anal toys, stretching you to your safest wide point and reaching the highest feeling of fullness. The last reason for practicing gaping is for pure pleasure, of course. Your anus is full of sensitive nerve endings, which is why safe and steady anal play can feel fantastic. As your body stretches out to larger than what is naturally comfortable, the feeling can be incredibly intense. Does It Hurt? It shouldn’t hurt if it’s done right – the most important thing to remember is that the anus isn’t self-lubricating like a vagina, so you need to make sure you have tons of lubricant on hand. The second most important thing is to ease into it slowly and consistently over time. Since gaping is an incredibly intense form of anal, you need to train your anus little by little before attempting to gape. You should also refrain from using any ‘anal ease’ cream or numbing cream of any kind. Other than the fact that it causes you to miss out on the pleasure, you could also be missing out on any potential warning signs. If things are painful to the point of needing numbing cream, you’re pushing your body past its limits and should dial it back. Anal gaping shouldn’t be painful, so if it is, make sure to stop! Like plenty of other kinks, or things that take your body to new levels, there is the risk of going too far on your road to anal gaping. Since the tissue on the inside of your anus is thinner and more sensitive than the rest of your skin, there is a danger of microtears, which is the tearing up of the tender area around your anus. This opens the risk of infection, especially since there are tons of bacteria in the anus, as well as the risk of STIs, so make sure you’re being safe, clean and careful. Another risk is the formation of hemorrhoids, which science indicates isn’t caused by anal sex itself, but by stretching the anal muscle beyond its limitations. That’s why it’s important to work your way into gaping in a patient, safe manner. To avoid going into dangerous territory, you need to be aware of the sensation as you insert anything into your anus. Be aware of sharp pains, or long-lasting soreness. It’s normal to experience some residual soreness for a day or two, especially after something as intense as anal gaping. However, if your soreness lasts longer than that, you’ve probably gone too far, and should take a break for a few days. Is Gaping Permanent? No! It should only last a few hours at most. With regards to stretching, just like most other parts of the body, it usually has a setting point which it will gradually inch back towards. So, if you’re not regularly stretching your anus, it’s possible to lose some stretch and have to work your way back into the ability to gape. This timeframe of loss in stretch can start in as little as a week, but typically takes two or three. In short, you don’t have to worry about being stretched out for life – your body’s musculature will tighten up again with time, especially if you’re regular with your Kegel exercises. Gaping isn’t giving you a bigger butthole; it’s giving you more control of the muscles of your butthole. How to Safely Stretch Your Asshole Anal gaping is one of the most extreme forms of anal play out there, so before attempting, you should experiment with tons of other anal play first. You should be comfortably aware of the sensations of anal toys and what feels comfortable inside your body. When you’re training, be aware of how your anus feels – if you feel no resistance or discomfort in insertion or play, you may be ready to size up! There’s no point in beating around the bush – anal play can bring on your urge to poop. If you want to prevent any potential mishaps, consider using an anal douche to cleanse your behind of any fecal matter. They look a bit like a dropper, and you just fill them up with warm water and sit over the toilet, while squeezing the water from the bulb into your anal tract. You can do this 3-4 hours before playtime. ===COLLECTION=== If you want to be even more immaculate or plan to go deeper than 3 or 4 inches, you should consider getting an enema to flush the rest of the matter out of your rectum. But keep in mind that you shouldn’t perform enema’s too regularly, as they can throw off your electrolyte balance, and cause dehydration and nausea. If you’re doing this alone, the easiest way to engage in anal gaping is to start by lying on your side with your knees bent so that you’re comfortable. Then, reach around to your anus to insert your finger or toy. If you’re doing it with a partner, you can either lie face down and have your partner sit or kneel next to you, or get on all fours and have your partner kneel behind you. You should ensure that your mind and muscles are as relaxed as can be. Have your partner give you a massage, share a hot bath, or engage in some fun foreplay to get in the mood. Next, a key element of your gaping session is going to be lube, and be generous with it. Do not even attempt stretching, let alone gaping without some lube on hand! Silicone-based lubes are great because of their thick consistency and durability, but if you’re using a silicone toy, make sure you use a water-based lube since silicone breaks down silicone. Once you’re relaxed, aroused and lathered in lube, work your way up from smaller objects to larger ones slowly and gradually. It may take a couple of weeks to size up, depending on how frequently you’re training. Either way, listen to your body. Once inside, use a gentle circular or thrusting motion with the toy or penis to help open the sphincters, reapplying lube if you need to take it out for any reason. Motions such as these help to mimic the feeling of your bowels being full, thus tricking the sphincters into opening up and producing a gape. After a good gaping session, wait 2-3 days before doing it again, to allow your anus an appropriate amount of time to recover – remember, gaping is a very intense sexual activity and you’ll want to make sure that you’re being safe. Best Toys for Anal Gaping The thing with toys and anal gaping is that it takes plenty of different toys to get to where you want to be. Since you’re often starting from a less stretched out place, most people need to keep sizing up with toys until you can safely gape. A toy that’s perfect to train with is a butt plug! Their narrow tips which gradually grow are ideal for giving you the comfort and safety of penetrating yourself. You should proceed slowly at first, while eventually working up to the larger point of the toy. Their typically bulb-like shape keeps them snugly secured during all sensual play, and they come in all different sizes, so you can work your way up in magnitude. If you’re on a limited budget or simply don’t want to carry a lot of toys, there are also some toys that can be used for the entire process. These will usually have a finer tip, growing into a large base, which will be quite a few times the size of the tip. Look for something with a tapered, cone-like design and a flared base for a secure grip. Every session, you’ll aim to insert this toy in a bit deeper, but you must be very careful, since it’s easy to over-insert. For that reason, you should only use this kind of toy for anal gaping if you’re in a calm and relaxed environment, with very little movement. Alternatively, if you want to keep it at one toy, you can also opt for an inflatable butt plug to give you more flexibility with your stretch. ===COLLECTION=== The most important thing to remember when choosing toys for any sort of anal play is that they should have a flared base, to ensure there’s no too-deep slippage. Next, you’ll have to figure out what size you’re able to take. To do that, measure the width of the current dildo you use comfortably for anal sex. If you don’t have one, then simply measure the width of your comfortable finger limit. Once you have that number, you should aim for a toy that’s one-quarter to a half-inch larger than your current comfortable size. You can use most kinds of anal toys to work your way into gaping, including dildos or butt plugs, but make sure to always look for a toy that has a tapered tip. Importantly, try and choose a toy that’s phthalate-free, BPA-free and made of silicone. Silicone butt toys are best designed for stretching, and are nonporous and easy to care for. How Far Can You Go? There isn’t an exact number for this – the best thing you can do is to listen to your body. The average rectum is about 5 inches long, but many can take much more than that. Final Words Whether this sounded pleasant to you or utterly terrifying, it’s important to know how to engage in safe anal play, in case you and your partner naturally edge towards gaping territory, or plan to. If you’re ready to take your anal play to the next level, make gaping your next sexual milestone!