Oral sex is pleasurable for many women, and up until now, ladies depended on the skill of their partners to provide proper oral stimulation. But now you can have appropriate oral stimulation while playing solo, and here is where the tongue vibrator comes in. These fantastic sex toys are for women who enjoy clitoral stimulation and want to experiment solo or with a partner. Here, our experts describe how to use a tongue vibrator to get the most pleasurable experience.
What Is a Tongue Vibrator?
A tongue vibrator is a sex toy that mimics the movement of the tongue during oral sex. These are designed solely for oral pleasure, and you can’t use them for penetrative play. Depending on the design, there are tongue vibrators that vibrate, rotate, and suck, all designed to provide the sensations you experience while receiving oral pleasure.
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How to Use a Tongue Vibrator?
Here is our expert advice on how to use a tongue vibrator. Please heed our advice on always using clean sex toys and always use compatible lube.
- Start with a charged toy – place your tongue vibe to charge before you plan on using it. If your toy uses disposable batteries, make sure you stock up on batteries. You don’t want your toy to lose charge in the middle of your playtime.
- Test it before you use it – always test your sex toys before you use them. Get familiar with the controls and scroll through all the features and speeds to see how these change so that you won’t ruin your experience.
- Always use lube – lube is necessary for all kinds of sex, and that includes playing with your tongue vibe. Lube will make the playtime more enjoyable and will prevent unnecessary friction. We advise you to stay away from silicone and oil lubes, as these can adversely affect the tongue vibrator; stick to water-based lube.
- Start low and go slow – we can’t stress this enough, so we repeat it with all our how-to-use guides. Always start on the low settings, giving your body time to get used to the sensations. After you get used to it, you can begin to amp up the speed, but do this gradually and draw out your pleasure. You can try edging, which is a way of prolonging pleasure by stopping stimulation just before the climax and starting over again after you come down a bit.
- Clean the vibe – after you take your time and enjoy the afterglow of your big O, clean the tongue vibrator per the manufacturers’ instructions. Wash it with soap and water or sex toy cleaner if it is a waterproof toy, or only clean the tongue section if you have a splashproof toy. Always store it in a clean protective bag away from other sex toys.
Tips on Using a Tongue Vibrator
Our experts tested a lot of tongue vibrators, and they came with the following tips you can apply when playing with a tongue vibrator:
- Devote time to your vulva – the tongue vibe is primarily designed for clitoral stimulation so that you can focus your attention here. Add a dab of lube and rub the tongue vibe all over the vulva, teasing the outer lips, the labia, and the clitoris. Experiment with different settings and speeds and see what your body likes best. You can even combine it with other sex toys for more pleasure.
- Explore your body – use the tongue vibrator to explore your body and stimulate your erogenous zones. If you are playing solo and want some extra sensations, you can use the tongue vibe to tease your nipples, your neck, or anywhere you want to experience a licking sensation. There are no restrictions, and you are limited by your imagination.
- Try analingus – many people react pretty well when they have their anus licked, and you can try this for yourself with your tongue vibrator. Add a drop of lube and explore your backdoor.
- Use it with a partner – you can take out your tongue vibe when you have partnered sex and use it to tease your partner or have them tease you. Use it during foreplay, aiming the vibe at the sensitive places on your partner’s body.
How to Choose a Tongue Vibrator?
Now that you know what a tongue vibe is and how to use it, we need to outline how you should choose one, which our experts described for us here:
- Design – you can choose between several tongue vibrator varieties that provide different sensations. You can get a model with a human-like tongue that provides vibrations and licking sensations. There is a tongue vibrator that replicates the suction-like sensation, and there are models with rotating tongues that stimulate the entire region where it is applied. We also carry models that combine an insertable vibe with a tongue vibe, so you get dual sensations. When selecting, be mindful of the flexibility of the tongue and the length, as well as the placement of the control buttons.
- Material – the best tongue vibrators are made from silicone. There is no need for the entire toy to be made from silicone, which is why you’ll often find tongue vibrators that are made from a combination of materials, like a silicone tongue and ABS body. It also plays a crucial role in lube compatibility, and we recommend you stick to quality water-based lubes as these combine with all skin types and all sex toy materials.
- Size – you can get a small model that fits in your palm and is more discreet to use, or you can get a bulkier model that is easier to control and provides more sensations. There are small tongue vibes that are practically noiseless and provide targeted sensations, as you would get from the tip of the tongue. The bulkier models with longer tongues can stimulate a broader area, and some even have two business ends – one side is a tongue vibe while the other works as a bullet vibe.
- Additional features – here, we advise you to look for what other features your tongue vibe comes with. Does it have vibrations on top of the tongue-flicking sensation? Or it has a suction-cup-like addition that hugs the vulva and provides extra vacuum for more sensations. Look at the button controllers and get a model that appeals to you the most.
Final Thoughts
The tongue vibrator can flick, tap, suck, and lick your clit for unmatched oral pleasure, and you can select a model with advanced features that combine excellent features. We hope our guide on how to use a tongue vibrator is helpful, as our experts tried to cover all the bases on how to use and how to choose such an exciting sex toy. We also have a lot more educational guides, and we invite you to browse our sex toy store, where you’ll find an excellent offer of tongue vibes, dildos, classic vibrators, and anything else you may want for a satisfactory, sexy time.