Get the Spanking of Your Dreams with a Whip, Paddle or Tickler
Whips, paddles and ticklers aren’t just for fans of BDSM. Touch is such a powerful sense, and no matter how much power you like in your impact play, these toys are sure to please. While whips and paddles can be adjusted for those who love some pain in their pleasure, ticklers don’t involve any pain at all.
You can pair your impact play accessory with ball gags or restraints if you’re going more hardcore, or a beautiful babydoll if you’re playing more romantic and sensual.
Browse our wide selection of whips, paddles and ticklers to indulge in impact play with your lover. To help you learn a bit more about porn star dildos, we’ve addressed some commonly asked questions:
Whips, Paddles & Ticklers FAQ
Why is whipping fun?
Whipping is just another form of touching, but for those who enjoy a little pain in their pleasure. If you’ve ever played around with spanking, this is often the gateway into introducing whips into the playroom! Spanking stimulates the nerves around your butt, hurts very pleasurably and is a sort of sexy punishment. Whips help you to spank for longer amounts of time, and because they come in so many different shapes and sizes – heavy floggers, canes, suede pussy whips, and more – you can experiment or do your research to see which one would feel right to you. Your partner is still the one controlling the whip, so the pleasure derived is truly an extension of their own touch and desire.
How do I bring it up to my partner that I want to try impact play?
First, you need to negotiate and communicate with your partner about what you both desire from the experience. Instead of it being a spur of the moment decision, you should have a conversation about it prior to, at least once, to discuss what you both want and what is off-limits. If you’re nervous about how your partner is going to take it, just lead with a compliment, like: “I’m really happy with our sex life, but I’m curious to try out this thing I saw in porn that really turned me on, I think it would be really hot.” Once you’re on the same page, make sure to pick a safe word. It’s a great way for the submissive to communicate when they’ve hit their limit.
What aftercare is required?
After your play session with your whip, paddle or tickler, all parties should check in on one another to ensure the scene was enjoyable, tend to any bruises as well as emotional needs, and communicate how all parties feel.