Sex & Sex Toy Essentials

Some lubricants give up halfway through. Pjur Infinity is not one of them, staying smooth for the whole session and giving your body the glide it needs without a long list of extras it does not need.

From the first pump, it feels light and silky rather than sticky or gluey, and it spreads easily over sensitive skin. As things continue, it keeps working, moisturizing as it goes and helping guard against the dryness that can creep in during longer play. There is no glycerin, parabens, fats, synthetic colors or preservatives in the mix, so what you feel is the personal lubricant itself, not a pile of additives. It is made for everyday use, whether that means solo moments or time with a partner, and it works well for penile, vaginal and anal play.

This water-based lube from Pjur is also gentle enough to use with toys and is compatible with natural rubber latex condoms, though it should be skipped with polyurethane and polyisoprene condoms. A quick pump from the bottle is all it takes, and you can reapply as often as you like to keep things comfortable from start to finish.

Some lubricants fade fast. Gun Oil is built to stay slick long after water-based formulas would have given up, a silicone lubricant made for a longer, smoother ride.

A little goes a long way here. The concentrated silicone formula spreads thin but keeps working, so friction stays low without that tacky, drying feeling creeping in partway through. Aloe vera and vitamin E ride along in the formula, helping keep things comfortable and easing irritation rather than adding to it. Because it is silicone based, it holds its slickness through extended play instead of thinning out or needing constant reapplication.

Made with cyclopentasiloxane, dimethicone, dimethiconol, tocopheryl acetate and aloe barbadensis leaf extract, this silicone lube is formulated to resist breaking down so the glide lasts as long as you need it to.

Some things don't need a translation, and Sensuva's Natural Water-Based Formula proves it by feeling close to what your body already makes on its own. This water-based personal moisturizer is made with body-safe ingredients, so it glides on smooth from the first touch and stays comfortable as things heat up.

A little goes a long way, and it keeps working through the moments that matter most, adding a lasting, natural-feeling glide without any sticky residue afterward. The watermelon option adds a light, fun flavor if that is what you are after, without ever feeling artificial.

Keep it by the bed for whenever you need a reliable water-based moisturizer that feels like it was always meant to be there.

Some lubricants ask for constant reapplication. Sliquid Naturals Silver is not one of them. This intimate lubricant is built from a concentrated blend of pharmaceutical grade silicones, so it keeps working long after water-based formulas would have dried up.

A few drops go a long way, spreading smooth and staying slick for a full session rather than fading a few minutes in. Because it is waterproof, it holds up in the shower or bath just as well as it does anywhere else, and cleanup afterward is simple with soap and water. Keep it away from good sheets and delicate fabrics, since silicone can leave a mark there.

It skips glycerin and parabens, which keeps the formula closer to something your body already recognizes, and it is vegan friendly to boot. In a concentrated silicone blend, this lubricant is waterproof, hypoallergenic and non-toxic, made for sensual massage as much as intimacy itself.

Two flavors, twice the fun, zero guesswork. Oralove Delicious Duo from Doc Johnson pairs up flavored lubricants so oral play gets a little sweeter and a lot more playful.

Each duo comes with two complementary tastes to mix, match or swap between as the mood shifts, so you are never stuck with just one flavor for the whole session. Smooth this flavored lube on and let the taste do the work, turning oral sex into something you both want to linger over.

The set comes in a choice of paired flavors, giving you a little variety without any extra fuss.

Some lubricants fade fast. This one is built to stay silky through the whole encounter, giving you a smooth, velvety glide that lasts without needing constant reapplication.

From the first pump, you will notice the ergonomic bottle is easy to manage with one hand, so there is no fumbling or switching grips mid-moment. The locking pump means it stays put in a drawer or a bag without leaking, and the formula itself is not absorbed into skin the way water-based lubes are, which makes it a good match for tissues that run dry or sensitive. As you use it, that velvety feel keeps working, holding up through longer sessions instead of thinning out or turning sticky.

Swiss Navy built this silicone lube to handle the long haul, and this silicone-based formula stays put in a leak proof, single-hand pump bottle made in the USA, ready whenever you reach for it.

Your clitoris has more sensory nerve endings than any other spot on your body, so it deserves a little extra attention. Awaken Clitoral Massage Gel from Wicked Sensual Care is a clitoral massaging gel made with a blend of botanicals and aphrodisiacs to heighten sensitivity and wake up your libido.

Smooth on a small amount before solo play or with a partner and let it work into your skin. As it warms up, sensations become more intense, building toward a more satisfying finish either way.

This clitoral massage gel is vegan, free of L-Arginine, glycerin and parabens, pH balanced, latex friendly and safe to use alongside toys, so it fits easily into whatever kind of play you already enjoy.

Sizzle plays a little trick on your senses: it goes on cool, then builds a warm glow as the friction picks up. It is Sliquid's stimulating water-based warming lube for anyone who wants a lube that does more than just glide.

The first touch feels light and cool, thanks to a food grade menthol that gives it that signature chill. Keep moving and the sensation flips, shifting into a gentle warmth that builds the more contact you have. Underneath that push and pull of cool and warm, it behaves like any good water-based formula should, spreading smoothly, feeling close to your body's own natural moisture, and washing away easily afterward without leaving anything sticky or stiff behind on skin or sheets.

It is glycerin and paraben free, unflavored and unscented, and water soluble for easy cleanup. Keep it nearby for whenever you want your warming lubricant to do a little more than just glide.

Some essentials just make everything smoother, quite literally. Kama Sutra Love Liquid Classic is a water-based lubricant made to ease friction and keep things comfortable wherever you want to use it.

From the first touch it feels light rather than sticky, spreading easily without the heavy, tacky residue some lubes leave behind. It was formulated with sensitive tissue in mind and left unscented, so nothing competes with the moment itself. There is no sugar in the mix, and it has been dermatologist tested, which makes it an easy choice for regular use. It keeps working quietly in the background, adding slip without calling attention to itself.

It also plays well with toys, so you can bring it along whenever silicone or other materials are part of the fun. Being water based, it is a simple, dependable addition to any bedside routine.

Some moments call for a little extra tingle. ID Pleasure is a water-based lubricant from Westridge Laboratories, built on the trusted ID Glide formula, with natural botanical extracts of gingko biloba and red clover added in to wake up circulation and stimulation wherever it's applied.

It goes on smooth and slick, just like the lube you already know, then that gentle warming tingle starts to build as the botanicals get to work. The extra sensation makes it a natural pick for solo play or for adding something new to time with a partner, and because it rinses away without a trace, there is no sticky residue or staining to think about afterward.

Water-based and latex-safe, this tingling lubricant is also safe to use with silicone toys, making it easy to bring into whatever else is already part of your routine.

Oral sex gets a flavor upgrade with Lic-O-Licious, an oral delight cream from Sensuva made for the moments you want to linger. It coats the tongue and throat so all you taste is sweet watermelon, turning oral into something you actually look forward to.

Smooth it on and the cream settles in with an oily consistency that clings rather than disappearing after a few licks. That staying power is the whole point: where typical oral sex creams fade fast, this one lingers in the mouth, so you can take things slower and deeper without losing the flavor along the way.

Keep it near the bed for whenever you want oral to feel like a treat instead of a chore.

Some lubricants just work. This one tastes like you'll want to stick around for seconds. Wicked Sensual Care's water based lubricant brings a light, silky glide together with a natural flavor twist, made for oral play that feels as good as it tastes.

From the first touch it feels smooth rather than syrupy, spreading easily without turning tacky or heavy. As things heat up, the flavor stays present without tipping into anything artificial or leaving an odd aftertaste behind, so kissing and oral play stay easy and unbroken. It keeps working for the long haul, so you are not stopping to reapply every few minutes, and it stays friendly to latex protection if that is part of your routine.

This water based formula is paraben free, latex friendly, formulated with olive leaf extract, and made without animal by-products or testing, so it is easy to keep in the rotation.

A good massage starts with the right glide, and this oil gives you plenty of it. Blended with essential oils for a fragrance that sets the mood, it turns a simple rubdown into something worth slowing down for.

Warm a little between your palms and it spreads easily over skin, light and silky smooth rather than thick or sticky. There is no greasy residue to fight with, and the Vitamin E in the formula helps keep skin feeling cared for as you go. Pick from a handful of fragrance options, from softer, calming notes to something more sensual, depending on the mood you are after. This full body Kama Sutra massage oil comes in a generously sized bottle for plenty of use.

Slip this into your bag and relaxation travels with you. This full body massage oil turns ordinary touch into something slower and warmer, whether giving or receiving.

The rich, emollient formula glides onto skin, so hands can move freely over shoulders, backs and everywhere in between. The Pleasure Garden blend of rose, jasmine and sandalwood fills the air as you go, a floral scent meant to promote feelings of joy and release inhibitions. Once the massage winds down, the oil keeps working, sinking in with skin-nourishing vitamin E to leave skin soft rather than sticky. It doubles easily as a daily moisturizer or a pour into the bath, so it never has to sit unused between massages.

Made in the USA and allergy tested, this Kama Sutra massage oil comes in a travel-friendly size that is TSA approved, so sensual moments do not have to pause when you are on the road.

A massage oil that actually feels like one thing and smells like something else entirely wonderful, this hemp seed blend gives you the glide without the grease. Pick a scent that matches your mood, from the fruity brightness of Dreamsicle to the incense warmth of Nag Champa, and let the oil do the rest.

The first thing you notice is the slip. It spreads easily across skin with a slick, professional glide that keeps hands moving smoothly, whether that's for an actual massage or just an all-over rubdown. There's no heavy, greasy film left behind. As it works into the skin, the blend of hemp seed and sweet almond oils goes to work conditioning and softening, while apricot and grapeseed oils help skin hold onto its suppleness and elasticity. Vitamin E rounds things out, moisturizing as it settles in, so what started as a glide finishes as genuinely nourished skin, calm and soothed even if it runs sensitive.

Earthly Body built this massage and body oil around hemp seed oil, with a scent list wide enough to fit whatever mood you're setting, so it's worth keeping close by for the next time hands need somewhere good to go.

Some massage oils just make things slippery. This one sets a mood before your hands even meet skin, blending gender-friendly pheromones into a passion fruit guava massage oil so both of you settle into feeling wanted and relaxed at the same time.

Warm a little between your palms first and notice how easily it spreads, thanks to a hyper-glide formula with a touch of silicone that keeps the oil moving smoothly across skin instead of soaking in right away. That means you can work slower, cover more ground, and let a massage stretch out instead of stopping to reapply often. A little goes a long way, so you end up using less product while the moment lasts longer. Underneath the glide, a blend of moisture-rich and essential oils with natural preservatives leaves skin feeling cared for, not sticky or filmed over once you're done.

Made with natural ingredients in a passion fruit guava scent, this Sensuva massage oil is built for unhurried, hands-on time together, and works well as an all-over body oil whenever you want the mood to last.

Clean toys make for worry-free play, and this spray is an easy way to get there. Formulated with aloe vera, it helps you avoid unwanted bacteria, fungus, mold, mildew and viruses without leaving any sticky residue behind, keeping every piece in your collection fresh and ready.

A quick pump from the ergonomic spray nozzle sends the cleaner straight onto the surface of your vibe, probe or massager. Spray before play to make sure your toy is fresh, then spray again after to keep things hygienic, and it works just as well as a mid-session refresh if you want to switch things up without breaking the mood. This CalExotics toy cleaner is made for regular use, so it becomes part of the routine rather than an extra chore.

The lightweight, travel-size bottle means this cleaner for toys can tag along for sleepovers or trips without taking up space, so keeping your collection clean stays simple every time.

Warm skin, warmer mood. This gourmet massage oil from EXSENS heats up under mouth contact, turning a simple massage into something a lot more playful.

Smooth it onto skin and the texture makes itself known first: silky, never sticky. The real fun starts when lips meet skin, since mouth-to-skin contact intensifies the warming effect, building a gentle heat that turns an ordinary rubdown into a shared moment. Sweetened naturally with stevia, it skips the bitter aftertaste that other flavored oils can leave behind, so tasting it along the way feels like part of the experience rather than an afterthought. Even the bottle plays along, with glow-in-the-dark strips that make it easy to find when the lights go down.

Made with natural ingredients and free of parabens and phenoxyethanol, this warming massage oil comes in a compact airless bottle that keeps every drop fresh from first use to last.

A clear conscience starts with a clean toy, and Think Clean Thoughts makes that part of the routine simple. This Sensuva spray is an anti-bacterial cleaner made to freshen up pleasure products before and after use, without the fuss of standard soaps that were never meant for toy materials.

Just mist it directly onto your toy. The active anti-microbial ingredients get to work killing bacteria, and the formula is mild enough that it should not irritate delicate tissue. It is also oil-free, so it will not break down toy materials or leave behind a residue that might bother sensitive skin. A quick wipe afterward and your toy is ready to put away or use again.

Keep it by the bed or tuck it in a travel bag, since this toy spray is meant to be part of the before-and-after routine every time. Made with water, witch hazel extract, grape seed extract, sweet orange and other true essential oils, it stays oil-free and simple to spritz on and wipe away.

Trojan Bareskin condoms are made from a notably thin latex, designed for couples who want a more natural feel without giving up protection. They're thinner than Trojan's Ultra Ribbed Ecstasy condoms, which is the whole point if closeness is what you're after.

Each one comes pre-lubricated with a silky smooth lubricant and has a smooth surface plus a reservoir tip for a bit of extra room. The clear, flexible latex is electronically tested for reliability, so you can trust it before you even open the box.

One box, three ways to go big. The Trojan Magnum Gold Collection brings together Magnum Ecstasy, Magnum BareSkin and the original Magnum in one sampler, so you can find your favorite without buying a full box of each.

This large size condom variety pack runs roomier than a standard fit, with extra length and width so there's less pressure and more room to move. Every style in the collection has a textured surface and a flexible latex build, tapered at the base for a secure fit that stays put.

Made from latex, clear in color and electronically tested for reliability, this condom variety pack lets you compare all three textures and finishes before settling on the one you like best.

Trojan ENZ lubricated condoms are a classic latex condom built for a snug, secure fit and a comfortable feel. The straight-walled shape sits close without feeling like it is fighting you, and a smooth lubricant coats the surface for comfort and sensation.

A reservoir end at the tip gives extra protection, and the flexible latex moves naturally instead of feeling stiff. Each condom is electronically tested for reliability, and boxes come in a choice of sizes.

Some nights deserve to last a little longer. Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms pair a smooth latex fit with climax control lubricant on the inside, made to help you slow things down and stay in the moment longer.

The lubricant carries benzocaine, a mild genital desensitizer, so as things heat up you feel a gentle easing of sensitivity rather than a loss of feeling. That slight buffer is what helps push back the point of no return, giving you more time to enjoy the moment instead of racing toward the finish. The condom itself stays smooth and flexible throughout, with a reservoir tip built in for extra room and reassurance at the end. Because each one is electronically tested before it ever reaches the box, you can focus on the experience rather than second-guessing the product.

In clear latex, this extended pleasure condom is smooth, flexible and fitted with a reservoir tip for added protection.

Standard sizing wasn't built with you in mind. Trojan Magnum XL is a lubricated condom made for men who find regular and large sizes too tight, giving you room to feel comfortable instead of constricted.

Slide one on and the first thing you notice is space where you expected pressure. The tapered base keeps things secure so fit never feels like an afterthought, while the smooth lubricant adds glide from the very first touch. The reservoir end is there working quietly in the background, and the smooth latex surface keeps sensation feeling natural rather than muffled through the rest of the session.

Each condom in this lubricated condom box is made from latex, electronically tested, clear in color and packed generously in a box for whenever you reach for one.

Some things are nobody's business but yours. This storage bag gives your personal toys a private, tidy home, whether that's tucked in a dresser drawer or hung out of sight in a closet.

Pick it up and the leather itself makes the case. Sultra Leather uses full-grain Vaquetta cowhide with a soft, substantial feel that promises to hold up to daily use. Inside, a pull-out water-resistant lining means cleanup is simple whenever a toy needs to go back in after use. A zippered pocket and two open pockets let you sort things by size or favorite, so nothing gets lost in a jumble at the bottom. When you are done, the double locking zippers close the whole collection away from curious hands, and the leather loop on the outside gives you the option to hang the bag from a closet hook instead of burying it in a drawer.

In leather with a water-resistant lining, this lockable sex toy storage bag keeps your collection organized, protected and firmly out of sight until you want it, making it a dependable toy storage solution for anyone who wants their things kept private.

Your toys take care of you, so return the favor. The Sugar Sak is a sex toy storage bag with a difference you cannot see: the fabric itself carries Bioshield75, a plant-based, EPA approved coating that inhibits the growth of bacteria, yeast, mold and viruses while your collection waits between sessions.

The large size holds several toys at once, with a sealed Velcro pocket inside for smaller items you want kept together. Outside it stays discreet, while the leopard print inlay keeps the mood playful where only you can see it. Compared with loose storage in a drawer, this toy bag adds a real layer of hygiene for very little money.

Toxin-free and nature-based, it simply does its job every day: no charging, no upkeep, just cleaner toys whenever you reach for them.

Cleaning your toys shouldn't feel like a chore, and the Intimate Earth Spray Toy Cleaner Lavandula makes it simple. This botanical formula blends lavender oil with rosemary extract, giving you natural antimicrobial and antiviral qualities in one plant-powered spray that stays gentle on most toy surfaces.

Using it couldn't be easier. Spray it onto the toy surface, wipe clean, and you're done. Since this spray toy cleaner skips tea tree oil, it's a solid choice for anyone with sensitivities to standard toy cleaners.

Keep a bottle nearby so cleanup after every use is quick, easy, and part of your regular routine.

Some massage oils fight for attention with heavy scent. This one steps back and lets your hands do the talking, giving you a fragrance-free glide for full-body massage that suits sensitive skin and scent-free preferences alike.

Warmed between your palms first, the lightweight oil spreads easily over skin without that heavy, sticky feel some oils leave behind. As you work it in, it absorbs smoothly rather than sitting on the surface, so hands can keep moving instead of dragging. Blended with naturally derived essential oils and organic botanical extracts, it is built to work across all skin types, making it an easy pick for a body oil that does not fuss or irritate.

Hypoallergenic, vegan and cruelty-free, and made in the USA, this unscented formula from Sliquid is a clean, simple base for hands-on connection.

Some scents just settle you, and cedar and mint together do exactly that. This massage oil from Sliquid pairs a grounding, herbal blend with a lightweight oil base, giving you something that feels as good on the skin as it smells in the room.

Warmed between the palms, the oil turns silky almost right away, spreading in smooth passes across skin without that heavy, greasy drag some oils leave behind. As you work it in, it softens and conditions as it goes, so hands glide easily and the scent of mint and cedar lingers in a clean, calming way rather than anything sweet or overpowering. It is the kind of massage oil that works for a slow solo wind-down or shared time with a partner, since the formula is made to move with you either way.

Made with essential oils and organic botanical extracts, this vegan, cruelty-free formula is produced in the USA and packaged in recyclable materials, with naturally derived ingredients suited to all skin types.

Massage oil should feel like a treat, not a chore, and this one from Sliquid makes that easy. Balance Massage Oil in Citrus Neroli is a body oil built from essential oils and organic botanical extracts, and it glides on smooth from the first touch.

Start by warming a small amount between your palms, then work it into skin wherever you like. It spreads easily without turning greasy, staying light and hydrating the whole time. The citrus neroli scent is bright and calming at once, so the mood shifts along with the touch. Once you are done, skin is left soft and smooth, with nothing sticky left behind.

This full body oil is vegan and cruelty-free, with no animal testing at any stage, and it suits all skin types. It is made in the USA with naturally derived ingredients and comes in recyclable packaging, so it is as easy on your conscience as it is on your skin.

Toy care doesn't have to mean harsh chemicals, and this foaming cleaner from Intimate Earth proves it. Made without tea tree oil, it's a gentler plant-powered option for anyone who wants a milder botanical clean between uses.

Just foam it on after playtime. Lavender oil brings naturally antimicrobial qualities while rosemary extract adds natural antiviral benefits, so a quick pump does the real work of freshening up your toys. Aloe, grape seed extract and guava fruit extract round out the formula, keeping things gentle on materials and skin alike.

The clear, foaming texture makes it simple to apply, rinse and go, so your toys are always ready for next time and properly cared for when they're stored away.

Some lubricants just make things slippery. This one is built around a plant extract called CarraShield, and it is made to feel close to skin on skin while staying comfortably wet.

This water based lubricant goes on smooth, with none of the fragrance or glycerin that can make other formulas feel sticky or overly sweet. The texture stays slick without turning tacky, so you can settle into the moment. It works well for solo touch, with a partner, or worked into a massage, and it is compatible with latex and polyisoprene condoms, so it fits easily into however you already play.

When you are done, it dries clean rather than leaving a stiff or sticky residue on skin or sheets, which makes this lube easy to live with the morning after.

Divine 9 built this formula to be fragrance free, paraben free and glycerin free while still holding up over a long session, and it will not stain your sheets. It is made in the USA, so this water based personal lubricant is a solid one to keep on hand.

Closer contact, less between you and the moment. Trojan BareSkin Raw is built for feel, a latex condom made thin so the connection stays natural without asking you to give up protection.

Right away the smooth surface and silky lubricant make things easy from the first touch, sliding on without fuss and settling into a fit that feels more like second skin than barrier. The flexible latex moves with you rather than against you, and the reservoir tip is shaped in to give a bit of extra room where it matters, so you can stay focused on the moment instead of the mechanics. Each one is electronically tested before it reaches the box, so that thinness never comes at the cost of confidence.

In clear latex with a smooth texture, this prophylactic comes with lubricant included, ready whenever the moment is.

Getting ready shouldn't be a chore, and the Lubricant Launcher XL makes prep quick and mess-free. It fills with the lubricant of your choice and sends it exactly where you want it, no fuss involved.

Start by drawing liquid into the barrel, using the finger loops to keep the whole motion steady and controlled with just one hand. The cap keeps everything sealed and in place until you are ready, so there is no drip or waste while you get into position. When the moment comes, one smooth thrust delivers the lubricant right where it is needed, and the generously sized barrel means you can load up plenty in a single fill rather than stopping to refill partway through. It is a straightforward lube launcher that takes the guesswork and the extra steps out of getting properly lubed up.

Made by XR Brands from ABS and finished with a secure cap, this launcher stays tidy and ready until you need it.

Some scents just smell like slowing down, and chai is one of them. This full body massage oil from Intimate Earth brings a warm, spiced vanilla chai aroma to a silky oil base, giving you an easy way to unwind alone or with a partner.

Warm a little between your palms and massage it into your skin after a bath or shower to leave skin feeling soft and delicately scented, or let it set the mood for a slower, more sensual massage with someone else. Either way, the scent lingers gently, turning an ordinary rubdown into something worth lingering over.

This massage oil comes in a compact bottle sized for regular use, with the same silky texture Intimate Earth is known for.

A good lubricant should disappear into the moment, not distract from it. LELO's Personal Moisturizer is a water-based formula built to add glide wherever you need it, alone or with a partner, without leaving anything sticky behind to think about.

Smooth it on and the first thing you notice is how easily it spreads, thin and slippery rather than thick or tacky. Aloe vera and plant extracts work in alongside the glide, so the moisture lingers instead of fading fast, and the pH balanced, unscented formula stays gentle enough for sensitive skin. As things continue, the lube keeps its slip without turning greasy or leaving marks on sheets or skin, and a touch more can be added anytime it starts to feel like it is drying down.

Free of glycerine and parabens and gentle enough to call hypoallergenic, this personal moisturizer plays nicely with silicone and latex toys alike, making it an easy, no-fuss addition to whatever else is already working for you.