5 Best Wearable & Butterfly Vibrators to Spice Up Your Sexy Time

by Kate Miller on Oct 29 2025
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    If you have not considered trying a butterfly or a wearable vibe so far, then we bet you’ll change your mind when you see our selection of the best butterfly vibes you can get in our store. These are models designed to be cute and look non-threatening, but these are, in fact, really powerful and versatile sex toys that the ladies will love. Please note that the wearable or butterfly vibrator is unlike other vibes, as this type combines clitoral and internal stimulation. To finish off, we’ll also share some essential tips on the key things to know when selecting a butterfly vibe, so let’s go!

    Quick Overview of Our Top Picks

    1. Best Overall Choice: Venus G Butterfly Wearable Dildo Vibrator With Remote
    2. Best Silicone Butterfly Vibe: Evolved The Butterfly Effect Dual Wearable Vibrator
    3. Best Battery-Powered Butterfly Vibe: Venus Butterfly 2 Wearable Strap On Clit Vibrator
    4. Best Dual-Use Butterfly Vibe: Her Royal Harness ME2 Rumble Vibrating Silicone Strap On
    5. Best Compact Butterfly Vibe: Dragonfly Fantasy Strap On Butterfly Wearable Vibrator
    Deep Dive: Our Top Picks

    Venus Butterfly Wearable Dildo Vibe With Remote

    Best Overall Choice

    LELO ORA 3 Oral Pleasure Stimulator

    Our Rating: 4.9/5
    Quality: 5/5
    Design: 5/5
    Noise Level: 4/5
    Power Intensity: 5/5
    Recommended For: Everyone

    Why We Picked It

    We chose the Venus G Butterfly Wearable Dildo Vibrator With Remote as our top choice for a butterfly vibe. The model is so beautiful and elegantly made, and we can’t get over how cute it looks. The toy is made from a super-soft, body-safe silicone that feels so supple to touch and use. We love it for its lovely butterfly wings that press on the outer vagina while the central part presses on the clit and provides pinpoint stimulation.

    It also features an insertable G-spot massager that has a slight texture, is wonderfully curved, and comes with vibrating/rocking features. The Venus G Butterfly Wearable Dildo Vibrator With Remote has 12 vibrating speeds and comes with a wireless remote controller. The toy and controller are USB rechargeable, and the entire vibe is waterproof and so easy to clean.

    Who It's For

    The Venus G Butterfly Wearable Dildo Vibrator With Remote is for every lady who wants a combination of clitoral/internal stimulation in one toy that also comes with a wireless remote and is made from body-safe silicone.

    What Customers Are Saying

    - Great

    This is truly a remarkable product. The curve is a little higher than the base which is great for G-spot stimulation. It’s quiet and has a lot of great settings. It gets me to orgasm several times in a short amount of time. I just wish it didn't that so long to charge. Aside from that, the toy is absolutely amazing - Christina

    - My boss asked me how i stay in a good mood all the time

    LOL! My boss wanted to know how I stayed so happy all the time. I couldn't say, but it might have something to do with this product waiting for me at home by the bathtub and my favorite tunes playing as I shake like never before. This is awesome! - Anonymous

    Reasons to Buy

    Maximum external coverage

    Deep internal stimulation

    Body-safe, waterproof silicone

    USB rechargeable toy and remote

    Reasons to Avoid

    No straps to hold it in place

    Specs

    Dimensions Exterior: 3.5" x 3"
    Shaft: 3" x 1"
    Material Silicone, ABS
    Features Flexible
    Vibrating
    Multi-Speed
    Phthalate-Free
    Remote Controlled
    Waterproof
    USB Rechargeable
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    Evolved The Butterfly Effect Dual Wearable Vibrator

    Best Silicone Butterfly Vibe

    Our Rating: 4.9/5
    Quality: 5/5
    Design: 5/5
    Noise Level: 4/5
    Power Intensity: 5/5
    Recommended For: Everyone

    Why We Picked It

    The Evolved Butterfly Effect Dual Wearable Vibrator is one sexy little vibe that comes with so many appealing features. We added it to our list as it is compact and packed with options like the unexpected shape, wireless remote, and magnetic USB recharging. The outer section has butterfly wings that lie on the labia and flutter with vibration, with two little antennae that tease the clit. A G-spot shaft protrudes from the toy and is intended for pinpoint G-spot teasing.

    It is made from body-safe silicone that is compatible with water-based lubes. Evolved The Butterfly Effect Dual Wearable Vibrator has dual motors, one for the external and one for the internal part, and both come with 8 modes of vibration. The vibe and the remote are rechargeable via the magnetic USB charger. We especially love the charger ports that look like little eyes on the top of the toy that add a dose of quirkiness.

    Who It's For

    The Evolved The Butterfly Effect Dual Wearable Vibrator is incredible, and we recommend it for everyone looking for a cute, versatile, and unexpectedly powerful butterfly vibe for simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation.

    What Customers Are Saying

    - Oh My!

    I love my little butterfly! It feels very good inside me and the external vibrations feel incredible. It is also very discreet and I often wear it in public and no one knows I’m filled with a sex toy ;) The remote makes using it better and my partner usually plays with it for a fun-filled date night! - Katie

    - Incredible little vibe

    You have to hold this in your hands and see how well it is made and how versatile it is. The insertable shaft is not large, but big enough to fill me up nicely and the outside part sticks to my labia. The vibrations are so good, but it is not very quiet, so you should be careful when using it in public! - Nat

    Reasons to Buy

    Unorthodox yet effective shape

    Body-safe silicone surface

    Wireless remote controller

    Magnetic USB charging

    Reasons to Avoid

    No holding straps

    Specs

    Dimensions Exterior: 4.04" x 3"
    Shaft: 4.3" x 1.3"
    Material Silicone
    Features Flexible
    Vibrating
    Multi-Speed
    Multi-Function
    Phthalate-Free
    Remote Controlled
    Waterproof
    USB Rechargeable
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    Venus Butterfly 2 Wearable Strap On Clit Vibrator - Purple

    Best Battery-Powered Butterfly Vibe

    LELO ORA 3 Oral Pleasure Stimulator

    Our Rating: 4.7/5
    Quality: 5/5
    Design: 4/5
    Noise Level: 4/5
    Power Intensity: 5/5
    Recommended For: Everyone

    Why We Picked It

    The Venus Butterfly 2 Wearable Strap On Clit Vibrator is exciting and quite effective in providing targeted vibrations to the clitoris and the exterior of the vagina. The toy has a central ribbed body from which two wings span, covering the vaginal lips. The lovely shape of the toy makes it versatile and exciting, and the 4 elastic straps that attach to the wings make it even better, as you can wear it under the clothes and control the vibrations via the wired remote controller.

    The Venus Butterfly 2 Wearable Strap On Clit Vibrator comes with variable vibrations, as the wired remote has a twist dial button so that you can fine-tune the vibes to your liking. Also, it uses 3 disposable AAA batteries that are stored in the remote. It is not waterproof, so please avoid getting it wet.

    Who It's For

    The Venus Butterfly 2 Wearable Strap On Clit Vibrator is suited for many users, especially for women who want dispersed vibrations on the outside of the vagina, as this can also be used with a partner for more fun.

    What Customers Are Saying

    - My two, no three favorite things!

    Butterflies, purple and vibrators. My three fave things in the world. All in one, a good product that doesn't fit that great, but holding it in place or slipping on a thong helps keep it in place and keeping my hands free to do other stuff. - Anonymous

    - Great to use with my butt plugs

    I like to use this and the original and this one is a little more powerful and fits better on my front while I have plugs and hooks in my rear. Sounds weird when I read that, but when I'm doing it...just wow! - Amanda H.

    Reasons to Buy

    Exciting shapes and features

    Elastic straps hold it in place

    Wired remote controller

    Twist-dial controller

    Reasons to Avoid

    No rechargeable battery

    Specs

    Dimensions 3.5" x 3.5
    Material TPR, ABS, PP
    Features Flexible
    Multi-Speed
    Vibrating
    Multi-Speed
    Phthalate-Free
    Remote Controlled
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    Her Royal Harness ME2 Rumble Vibrating Silicone Strap-On

    Best Dual-Use Butterfly Vibe

    Our Rating: 4.9/5
    Quality: 5/5
    Design: 5/5
    Noise Level: 4/5
    Power Intensity: 5/5
    Recommended For: Experienced Users

    Why We Picked It

    The Her Royal Harness ME2 Rumble Vibrating Silicone Strap On does not have a classical butterfly vibe, but we had to place it on our list, as this strap-on has a dual use. One side is a phallic vibrating shaft that you can use to penetrate your male or female partner; the other side is a slightly curved base that has a vibrating motor and clitoral ticklers for clitoral stimulation.

    The Her Royal Harness ME2 Rumble Vibrating Silicone Strap On is made entirely from silicone, as are the elastic straps that hold it in place, but you can also place it in your favorite strap-on harness. The Her Royal Harness ME2 Rumble Vibrating Silicone Strap On is fully waterproof and USB rechargeable, with long battery life and push buttons on the base for controlling the vibrations.

    Who It's For

    The Her Royal Harness ME2 Rumble Vibrating Silicone Strap On is for experienced users who want to enjoy targeted clitoral stimulation while penetrating their partner with the same strap-on.

    What Customers Are Saying

    - Love it

    I love the strap-on and all its features. I especially love when my wife gets into it and bends me over, filling me with the dildo and controlling the vibrations. It makes me cum harder than ever. - Mann

    - Large for my guy

    Buying the strap-on was a good choice, as the dildo is encased in silicone and feels very good to the touch. Still, my guy, who loves pegging, has found the dildo a bit hard and on the large side. We’ll keep training until he can comfortably use the toy. On the other hand, I love the clit vibrating part and the tiny ticklers. - Mrs. G

    Reasons to Buy

    Full silicone construction

    Thick, durable silicone straps

    USB rechargeable

    Dual use with clitoral stimulation and vibrating shaft

    Reasons to Avoid

    Only compatible with water-based lubes

    Specs

    Dimensions 6.5" x 1.5
    Material Silicone
    Features Waterproof
    Phthalate-Free
    Strap Harness
    Multi-Speed
    Vibrating
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    Dragonfly Fantasy Strap On Butterfly Wearable Vibrator

    Best Compact Butterfly Vibe

    Our Rating: 4.7/5
    Quality: 5/5
    Design: 4/5
    Noise Level: 4/5
    Power Intensity: 5/5
    Recommended For: Everyone

    Why We Picked It

    We added the Dragonfly Fantasy Strap On Butterfly Wearable Vibrator to our list as this model is exciting, and we found it very pleasing to use. It is designed to look like a butterfly with wings, a ribbed body, and little antennae on top. You need to position it on the outside of the vagina with a dab of lube and fasten the elastic straps around the hips and enjoy hands-free use.

    The vibe is made from silicone, and it comes with a wired remote controller. The controller has a twist dial button for easy adjusting of the vibrations. The Dragonfly Fantasy Strap On Butterfly Wearable Vibrator is waterproof, but the wired remote is not, so please be careful when you wash it. Also, it is powered by 3 disposable AAA batteries that are housed in the remote controller.

    Who It's For

    The Dragonfly Fantasy Strap On Butterfly Wearable Vibrator is for every lady who wants an affordable, easy-to-use butterfly vibrator with simple yet effective features.

    What Customers Are Saying

    - Fast shipping, good toy

    The toy arrived very quickly and I’ve had it for about two weeks now. The dragonfly’s body is a lovely silicone that feels good on my skin , while the wings are plastic ,and the harness is made from elastic bands. It is a nice addition to my sex toy collection, but there is nothing earth-shattering about the dragonfly toy☺ - anonymous

    - I love dragonflies

    I’ve bought this butterfly vibe because the dragonfly is one of my favorite things in the world. I feel decadent wearing it. - Mara

    Reasons to Buy

    Silicone construction

    Elastic straps hold it in place

    Wired remote controller

    Simple cleaning

    Reasons to Avoid

    No rechargeable battery

    Specs

    Dimensions 3.5" x 3
    Material Silicone
    Features Flexible
    Multi-Speed
    Remote Controlled
    Phthalate-Free
    Strap Harness
    Vibrating
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