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Bring Your Fantasies to Life with a Starter BDSM Kit

We all fantasize about scenarios we would love to act out, and some of our fantasies are darker than others…like bondage. While it can seem scary at first if you or your partner have never experimented with BDSM before, there’s no need to jump right into the intense stuff straight out of the gates. If you want to dip your toes into the water and see if BDSM is right for you, you’ve come to the right place.

From starter BDSM kits, to nipple clamps, to the hottest leashes and collars you can ever dream of wearing, we’ve got it all.

Browse our wide selection of starter BDSM kits that will help you act out all your favorite fantasies and explore all your kinks for the very first time. To help you learn a bit more about BDSM, we’ve addressed some commonly asked questions:

Bondage Sex Toys & BDSM FAQ

What is BDSM?

BDSM is an acronym of numerous different sexual practices that fall under a similar umbrella – but most commonly, it stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism. It’s usually done in a role play scenario, with one person being the dominant player, and the other being the submissive. But it doesn’t always have to involve pain – often, BDSM is characterized by inequality of power.

How do we decide who is the dominant and who is the submissive?

It’s truly up to you and your partner who wants to take on which role! The fun part about BDSM and bondage is that the person who is a dominant in the bedroom isn’t necessarily a dominant in real life, and a submissive in sex isn’t necessarily a submissive out in the real world either. They also don’t need to adhere to any specific, stereotypical gender roles! Doms in general should enjoy being in control and inflicting “pain”, but also need to be good at listening and being responsive to their partners. Submissives generally enjoy receiving the “pain”, and are also great at communicating their limits and desires from the dominant. Play around with it, and see which roles you and your partner naturally fall into. Some people can be both! However, remember that before engaging in any type of BDSM/bondage play with a partner for the first time, be sure to set limits and create a safe word to exercise proper safety measures.

Why is bondage fun?

For plenty of reasons, which vary from person to person. For some, they get aroused at the thought of being ‘helpless’ and having someone else do things to them (consensually) thaleast they cannot prevent – it can be a huge turn on. For others, the tight constriction can create very intense stimulation, and intensify your orgasm. There’s also something oddly comforting about not being able to do anything since you are tied up – all you can do is sit back (figuratively) and enjoy the ride!

Why is whipping fun?

Whipping is just another form of touching, but for those who enjoy a little pain in their pleasure. If you’ve ever played around with spanking, this is often the gateway into introducing whips into the playroom! Spanking stimulates the nerves around your butt, hurts very pleasurably and is a sort of sexy punishment. Whips help you to spank for longer amounts of time, and because they come in so many different shapes and sizes – heavy floggers, canes, suede pussy whips, and more – you can experiment or do your research to see which one would feel right to you. Your partner is still the one controlling the whip, so the pleasure derived is truly an extension of their own touch and desire.