Strap-on play is a highly engaging way to change things up in the bedroom. Still, finding a reliable strap-on can be challenging, especially if you don’t know what you want or would enjoy. This is why we prepared the following guide, in which we share our recommendations for the best strap-on sets and kits you can find in our store. We included models for people of all experience levels, and we also shared some key info on how to find the perfect strap-on set for you.
Quick Overview of Our Top Picks
- Best Overall: Dillio Platinum Body Dock SE Fantasy Kit
- Best for Beginners: Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On Kit
- Best Budget Option: Fetish Fantasy First Timers Strap-on Set
- Best Vibrating Strap-On Set: Strap U 10x Groove Harness Set
- Best Silicone Strap-On Set: Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with Harness
- Best Pegging Strap-On Set: Strap U Silicone Pegging Strap On
- Best Rechargeable Strap-On Set: VeDO Strapped Rechargeable Vibrating Strap On
- Best Realistic Strap-On Set: King Cock Comfy Silicone Body Dock Kit
- Best Hollow Strap-On Set: Erection Assistant 8.5 Inch Hollow Strap-On
- Best DP Strap-On Set: Sportsheets Double Penetration Strap On
The Best Deals This Week*
- Strap U 10X Groove Harness Set — $177.99 (List Price $303.99)
- King Cock Ultimate Vibrating Silicone Body Dock Kit — $163.99 (List Price $292.99)
- Booty Shorts 6 Inch Dildo Silicone Strap-On Harness — $146.99 (List Price $226.99)
- Dillio Platinum Body Dock SE Fantasy Kit — $128.99 (List Price $191.99)
- Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with Harness — $128.99 (List Price $198.99)
*Deals are selected by our commerce team
Deep Dive: Our Top Picks Dillio Platinum Body Dock SE Fantasy KitBest Overall Choice Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Dillio Platinum Body Dock SE Fantasy Kit as the premier pick for a quality strap-on set. The set is fantastic and made with comfort and pleasure in mind. Let’s start with the harness – it is an adjustable harness made from durable nylon straps featuring the wide Body Dock plate in the front. The plate is concave and smooth so that all suction cup-based dildos can stick firmly to it. We love the two dildos that are included in the kit. These are made from body-safe silicone, and one is light green, while the other is flesh-colored. These are smooth and have strong suction cups that stick to the Body Dock plate on the harness. But we also love the dildos as they can stick together back to back, creating a double dildo that is more fun to use. The dildos are waterproof and compatible with water-based lubes. Who It's ForThe Dillio Platinum Body Dock SE Fantasy Kit is for all couples who want to try having sexy fun with a high-quality strap-on set that comes with body-safe silicone dildos. Reasons to Buy✓ Two silicone dildos ✓ Adjustable harness ✓ Body Dock plate ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On KitBest for Beginners Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On Kit for our list because this model fits beginner users. The harness is open-rear for visual appeal and easy access and is adjustable to fit waists of 28 to 44 inches. The front has a wide plate that holds the O-ring and has a small pocket for housing the micro-bullet vibe that is provided in the set. The set comes with two silicone probes that are smooth and optimized for pegging. These are made from body-safe silicone that is hypoallergenic and phthalate-free and have broad suction cup bases. We love that the probes are waterproof and easy to clean, but please note that the vibrating bullet is not waterproof and should be kept away from water. Who It's ForWe recommend the Strap U Double Vibrating Strap On Kit for all beginners in pegging, as the harness and silicone probe are optimized for easy and comfortable use. What Customers Are Saying - Awesome Strap On! I love that the ring sizes are interchangeable. The fit is great! It's given my wife and I something new to try in the bedroom and we both love it! - Rachel P. - Not for waist sizes on the larger end My gf and I were really happy with this. I’m a bit bigger around the waist so it didn’t sit optimally on me but it was perfect for her. - Catilyn Reasons to Buy✓ Dildo perfect for pegging ✓ Body-safe silicone ✓ Open-rear, adjustable harness ✓ Pocket for micro bullet vibe Reasons to Avoid✗ Small for experienced users
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Fetish Fantasy First Timers Strap-on SetBest Budget Choice Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Fetish Fantasy First Timers Strap-on Set because it is one of the models we tested that come with an excellent price-to-quality ratio. The kit comes with an adjustable harness that has 4-way nylon straps that fit snugly around the waist and thighs. It has an open-rear design for easy access and visual appeal. The kit comes with a simple silicone probe that is smooth and firm. It fits beginners and gentle players, and besides using it with the harness, you can stick it to most flat surfaces with the suction cup base. The silicone dildo is only 5.9 inches long, making it perfect for vaginal or anal use. It is compatible with water-based lubes and is effortless to clean. Who It's ForThe Fetish Fantasy First Timers Strap-on Set is for beginners in strap-on sex as the dildo is easily manageable in size and relatively affordable price. What Customers Are Saying - Love it I recommend this to anyone who hasn’t tried strap on sex before but wants to. I'm so hooked & because the harness has removable O-rings I'm already looking into other compatible dildos! - Jazmin - Happy girls! My gf and I have bought strap ons before but haven't really been that happy with the quality of either the strap or the dildo. When I looked at this one it looked more like what we are after. Yeap, I was right. The dildo is great, not rock hard and comes in a pretty colour. Best of all we both really enjoyed using it on each other. The strap on fit both of us with ease! - Danna Reasons to Buy✓ Durable silicone dildo ✓ 4-way nylon harness ✓ 3 silicone rings ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ It may be small for experienced users
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Strap U 10X Groove Harness SetBest Vibrating Strap-On Set Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strap U 10x Groove Harness Set for this list as the set is impressive. We enjoyed testing and reviewing this set, and here is what we love about it. The dildo that comes in the set is realistic in shape and size, and we love the veins and the pair of balls at the base. The end is a suction cup base that is relatively sturdy, but the real appeal is to use the dildo in the provided harness. It vibrates and gyrates and comes with 3 intensities and 7 patterns, a wireless remote controller, and is USB rechargeable. The included harness is adjustable and very comfortable, with an open-rear design for visual appeal. The dildo attaches to the harness with a metal O-ring so that you can use any other compatible probe with the harness. Who It's ForThe Strap U 10x Groove Harness Set is for all the couples who are looking for a harness and strap-on set that comes with plenty of highly appealing features like vibrations and a wireless remote. What Customers Are Saying - Highly recommended Wow, never seen wife so happy. So I am happy. Great product and great vendor as everything was as described with awesome delivery time. - Brooklyn - Amazing for me This is the best kind of awesome there is. Definitely a 10/10 product. - Evangeline Reasons to Buy✓ EVibrating dildo dong ✓ Adjustable harness ✓ Suction cup base and realistic shape ✓ USB rechargeable and wireless remote Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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LELO ORA 3 Oral Pleasure StimulatorBest Silicone Strap-on Set Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe love the Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with Harness because this model is impressive and highly satisfying to play with. Let’s start with the probe – it is contoured and phallic, with gently ribbed areas and a broad suction cup base. The probe has two vibrating motors, one at the tip and the other at the base, so that both partners can feel the vibrations. It comes with a wireless remote controller that allows you to combine the vibrations and intensities. We like the fact that the toy is USB rechargeable, and the remote has LED lights that glow when in use. The harness included in the set is very comfortable and adjustable, fitting waists of up to 50 inches and thighs of up to 30 inches. The probe is waterproof and submersible, so you can play with this toy in the shower and clean it with ease. Make sure you only use water-based lube with it. Who It's ForWe think that the Gender X Sweet Embrace Strap On Vibe with Harness is for all the users who want to get a strap-on set with an adjustable harness that is packed with appealing features. Reasons to Buy✓ Dual-motor vibrations with wireless remote ✓ Adjustable harness ✓ USB rechargeable ✓ Silicone vibrating probe with suction cup base Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Strap U Silicone Pegging Strap OnBest Pegging Strap-on Set Our Rating: 4.8/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Strap U Silicone Pegging Strap On for our list as it is packed with appealing features. The first one we need to mention is the silky-soft, smooth pegging probe that is tapered, soft, and optimized for easy insertion. It is shaped like a suction cup that sticks to most flat surfaces for hands-free use. It attaches to the comfortable harness via a standard O-ring, which also allows you to use other probes with the harness. The harness is adjustable and fits waists of up to 44 inches. We like that the harness has a small pocket on the front that allows you to fit a small bullet vibe and enjoy extra stimulation. The probe is made from silicone and is compatible with water-based lubes. Who It's ForWe recommend the Strap U Silicone Pegging Strap On for all couples who want to try pegging and want to use a body-safe model that comes with an adjustable harness and smooth tapered pegging probe.. What Customers Are Saying - Great thanks Another excellent product from Hot Cherry. - Tiara - Good value for money Good value for money, thank you. The dildo can be used without the harness too. - Johnny Reasons to Buy✓ Tapered silicone pegging probe ✓ 4-way adjustable vinyl harness ✓ Pocket for bullet vibe ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ Only use with water-based lubes
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King Cock Comfy Silicone Body Dock KitBest Realsitic Strap-On Set Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the King Cock Comfy Silicone Body Dock Kit for this list, as the set is marvelous and packed with sexy features. The first thing we need to mention is the Body Dock plate at the front of the harness. It is a smooth, concave-shaped plate that serves as a suction cup pad. It is also angled upwards for a better angle of penetration and more comfortable use. The harness is made from durable nylon straps that are adjustable and fit up to 54” waists. The dildo included in the kit is made from Elite silicone and features a dual-density design. It is very realistic, with a comfortable size that can accommodate most users. We love that you can use the King Cock Comfy Silicone Body Dock Kit with other dildos besides the one provided in the kit. Who It's ForWe recommend the King Cock Comfy Silicone Body Dock Kit for all couples looking for a sexy strap-on kit with a realistic dildo and Body Dock plate for easier playtime. What Customers Are Saying - Affordable and excellent The body dock is an amazing kit that any adventurous couple should try. The price at HotCherry is very affordable, and the kit is excellent! - Jessica - Anything for my girl I love my girl and want to make her cum in as many ways as possible. She suggested we try a harness, and after browsing, we decided to get the comfy silicone body dock kit. The body dock harness is comfortable, and the silicone dildo is so great, my girl really enjoys it! - Mel Reasons to Buy✓ Push and play Body Dock ✓ Elite silicone dildo ✓ Realistic shape and comfortable size ✓ Heavy-duty nylon harness Reasons to Avoid✗ Expensive
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Erection Assistant 8.5 Inch Hollow Strap-On 8.5Best Hollow Strap-on Set Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Erection Assistant 8.5-inch Hollow Strap-On to put on our list of the best strap-on kits, as this model is so fun and versatile. The dildo is hollow and long, able to fit most average-sized cocks, and provides more length and girth. It is firmly attached to the jock-strap-style harness that is comfortable and fits waists up to 60 inches. We love that the design is unisex; men with ED issues can use it to have a fulfilling sex life, and women can use it with a bullet vibe inside the shaft to provide some extra stimulation when using it with their partner. The hollow dildo is made from phthalate-free PVC that is compatible with water-based lubes. Who It's ForWe believe that the Erection Assistant 8.5 Inch Hollow Strap-On is for all the men who have ED issues or have problems with premature ejaculation and want a hollow dildo strap-on for improved performance.. Reasons to Buy✓ Hollow dildo attachment ✓ Realistic shape and size ✓ Adjustable harness ✓ Phthalate-free materials Reasons to Avoid✗ The dildo is made from PVC
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Sportsheets Double Penetration Strap OnBest DP Strapon Set Our Rating: 4.9/5 Why We Picked ItWe chose the Sportsheets Double Penetration Strap On as this kit is so much fun to use. One can use it as a simple O-ring harness or as a DP harness, as it has two metal O-rings at the front where you can fit one or two dildos or a penis and a dildo, whatever your heart desires. The model is sturdily made, with adjustable nylon straps and a thong-like design. The set comes with a smooth silicone dildo in bold red color. You can use the provided dildo in any of the two O-rings and use it for vaginal or anal penetration. The dildo and the harness are waterproof, and you can use these in different settings. Overall, we love the Sportsheets Double Penetration Strap On as this is one of the easiest-to-use yet highly effective DP harnesses available. Who It's ForThe Sportsheets Double Penetration Strap On is one of the most versatile strap-on sets, as it is designed to allow DP play with ease. What Customers Are Saying - Perfect for lesbian couples We played around with it a bit and eventually figured out how to best use it. It’s excellent for girl on girl play. - Barb - Fulfilled my DP fantasy Completely fulfilled my double penetration fantasy. It was everything I expected it to be and more. - Shelly Reasons to Buy✓ Thong-like harness ✓ Two O-rings for DP play ✓ Smooth silicone dildo ✓ Waterproof use Reasons to Avoid✗ Not for beginners
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Why Trust Our Reviews?
HotCherry’s editorial team includes sex experts, including sexologists, sexual health writers, product testers, and researchers. Having an editorial team lets us get a holistic view of the products in each category and choose the best products from top brands. We also have first-hand access to customer reviews on our website and consult with our customer service team to identify potential issues and defects of the products in our lists after long-term use.
Our selection method is meticulous: our experts hand-pick the best products to feature in each guide based on customer reviews, popularity, brand reputation, product features, and customer satisfaction post-purchase. Then, the editorial team personally tests and reviews every product, looking for all the traits that make a product unique and worthy of being featured in our best products lists. Then, we summarize the findings and bring detailed buying guides that are helpful for you.
When reviewing a product, our experts pay attention to the material, shape, size, and features with a keen eye and point out potential issues of every product. We also call out what the product feels like based on our reviewers’ personal experiences, which helps us bring you valuable insight.
Key Things to Know When Choosing a Strap-On Set
When shopping for a reliable strap-on set, there are certain things to note, and we have covered these at length in our guide on choosing strap-on sets, but you will also find plenty of other helpful and educational posts in our blog. Here, we only list the basics to check out when selecting a good strap-on set:
- Harness Type – the harness keeps the strap-on to your body and holds it in place when you use it. So, look for a strap-on kit that comes with a secure harness that you can adjust to best fit your body. Look for models made from durable yet comfortable materials that will not hurt your skin but will be comfortable for long-term wear.
- Dildo – the dildo included in the strap-on set is what you’ll initially use, so look for a model that you and your partner will be happy with. If the dildo is firmly attached to the harness, what you see is what you get and what you’ll use, but if the harness comes with an O-ring or Body Dock-style attachment, you can change it and experiment with different harness-compatible dildos.
- Extra features – the strap-on sets may include various additional features like multiple dildo attachments, several O-rings in different sizes, small bullet vibes, internal pockets, Vac-U-Lock attachments, and more.
The Bottom Line
Here, we shared our recommendations for the best strap-on sets we have in our store. We are firm believers in sexual exploration and experimentation, and we think that many couples will find strap-on play a nice addition to their sex life repertoire. For more options and a varied selection of strap-ons, please check out our sex toy store, where you’ll find incredible selections of anal toys, vibrators, male toys, BDSM tools, lubes and essentials, and all else for a more fulfilled sex life.
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